How to Look Like a Top Performer Without Faking the Work

The strongest pattern is to build relationships, deliver reliably, communicate calmly, fill unowned gaps, and make completed work visible to the people who evaluate it. Schedule-send tricks and calculated image management belong in a lower-priority optics section, with ethical risks and…
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How to Look Like a Top Performer Without Faking the Work

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What actually makes someone look like a top performer

The strongest pattern is to build relationships, deliver reliably, communicate calmly, fill unowned gaps, and make completed work visible to the people who evaluate it. Schedule-send tricks and calculated image management belong in a lower-priority optics section, with ethical risks and promotion or boundary traps shown beside them.

What you will find
  • High-value tactics for relationships, delivery, and visibility
  • Specific scripts and examples
  • Context and manager-type guidance
  • Ethical-risk labels
  • Boundary, burnout, and too-good-to-promote traps
  • The mixed-evidence makeup claim correction
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Play the optics47 records · 5 sub-topicsPlay the optics — 47 items
Communication style and framing14 index entriesHow top-of-mind commenters say to talk, listen, and word things in front of leadership.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Communication style and framing

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Communication style and framing

14 source records

Best for: Communication style and framing

Why readers recommended it: How top-of-mind commenters say to talk, listen, and word things in front of leadership.

What readers reported: Straight to the point like the other comment said. Do not fold under pressure just remember we all are just trying to do our job.

Limit: Listen more than you talk so your input is a “little” scarce. With executives, frame things carefully. We don’t say “that doesn’t work!” we say “this will work great when we address X and Y issues, and we should do it now because Z”

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Explicit limit or counterpoint

Listen more than you talk so your input is a “little” scarce. With executives, frame things carefully. We don’t say “that doesn’t work!” we say “this will work great when we address X and Y issues, and we should do it now because Z”

source record 724♥ 0

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Straight to the point like the other comment said. Do not fold under pressure just remember we all are just trying to do our job.

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Later-arriving source

Stay calm in chaos. Be the most regulated in the room and deliver.

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
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Listen. Be slow to speak in conversations - it will prevent you from oversharing and inserting yourself in the wrong convos

posted about 59 days after the source♥ 0

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What the counts show

Across 14 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Turn it into a game” (2 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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Keep all emotion out of dialog. Especially as a women. When men get loud it’s viewed as passionate when women say the same thing it’s viewed as volatile and unstable. Even if you are not that way naturally become stoic.♥ 4source record 93
Straight to the point like the other comment said. Do not fold under pressure just remember we all are just trying to do our job.♥ 26source record 330
You have to put yourself out there and be vocal, be a Yes woman you may not like it sometimes but it’s their business they just pay us to run it . You have to detach and create that personality, I care deeply about my work but not enough to put my real face out there.♥ 9source record 349
smart brevity♥ 2source record 374
Tailor what you say to the audience. Short, sweet and outcomes oriented for senior people and leadership. Almost nobody needs to know all the details but what is it, what you did and why it mattered.♥ 5source record 432
Study executive presence (currently working on this and trying to eliminate filler words)♥ 3source record 436
Try not asking questions in conversations - instead use statements that will get people to open up. When someone talks about the new starter who has turned out to be difficult to work with - if you ask a bunch of questions: "who made that hiring decision?", "what will you do now?", "why would they do that?!" - you are seen as nosy and conspiratorial. Potentially you'll be referred to in the sentence "such and such was grilling me". instead say "that must be difficult to manage into your day, your time is too valuable", "I expect the hiring market is extraordinary right now", "the hiring process can be complicated". All non-committal, people will either use your statements as stepping stones to leap onto their next point. They will remember you as being solid and supportive but won't remember if you were for or against your gripe, you also won't be remembered as prying. instead people will think of you as steadfast, even wise. And you will learn SO much information. When you use a statement and they don't reply with more information - they either don't actually see the topic as interesting or a problem - their initial comment was just polite conversation, they have already resigned themselves to the outcome and its negative to them or its not the thing that's actually taking up space in their brain right now.♥ 2source record 517
Stay quiet and listen. Speak, but only when you need to. Collaborate always, but also express your ideas. Then just have fun and be yourself!😌♥ 0source record 563
Never apologize. Word things as “good catch” and “thank you for your patience”♥ 0source record 584
Listen. Be slow to speak in conversations - it will prevent you from oversharing and inserting yourself in the wrong convos♥ 0source record 632
I’m all about how you communicate. The data is the data, how do you tell the story! My page is all about how grow at work and advance your career!♥ 0source record 655
Stay calm in chaos. Be the most regulated in the room and deliver.♥ 0source record 680
Have a leader attitude be likable and respect you appearance♥ 0source record 703
Listen more than you talk so your input is a “little” scarce. With executives, frame things carefully. We don’t say “that doesn’t work!” we say “this will work great when we address X and Y issues, and we should do it now because Z”♥ 0source record 724

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Visibility tactics11 index entriesConcrete moves to be physically and digitally seen doing the work.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Visibility tactics

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Visibility tactics

11 source records

Best for: Visibility tactics

Why readers recommended it: Concrete moves to be physically and digitally seen doing the work.

What readers reported: Always look like you are busy

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Most engaged source

Always look like you are busy

source record 283♥ 15
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I read somewhere to walk around in the office and BE SEEN on busy days. Being seen is very underrated.

posted about 92 days after the source♥ 1
Zero-like source

Close your office door. People will always think you’re busy and not want to bother you

posted about 53 days after the source♥ 0

What the counts show

Within 11 source records, 1 ask a question and 0 explicitly say they intend to try the idea; neither signal is treated as an outcome.

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Always look like you are busy♥ 15source record 283
Look up the Ted talk Power of a lap. Being seen is way more important than being a high performer♥ 1source record 391
You just need to be visible. Doesn't really matter if you can do that job or not.♥ 1source record 411
I read somewhere to walk around in the office and BE SEEN on busy days. Being seen is very underrated.♥ 1source record 414
Do behind the scenes work, so when you’re gone a few days. They realize just how much you contribute.♥ 2source record 496
Literally all about image. Turn your camera on during meetings, crack jokes, be straightforward when speaking (not corporate jargon), reply to emails quickly♥ 1source record 497
your team members see you as a reference. you've to create that profile♥ 1source record 523
remote work will make you invisible. like those doing tiktok while working.♥ 0source record 647
Close your office door. People will always think you’re busy and not want to bother you♥ 0source record 668
make yourself seeing, if you are working hybrid , dress up never casual when I'm office, really go out of your way to be heard raise your voice , make sure your email and voice mail message matches on your work cellphone etc. be consistent on these things ,♥ 0source record 684
Showing your face on camera in meetings when everyone else has their camera off♥ 0source record 730

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The performance-image-exposure framework8 index entriesComments built directly around the PIE theory and the perception-is-reality idea it names.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: The performance-image-exposure framework

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The performance-image-exposure framework

8 source records

Best for: The performance-image-exposure framework

Why readers recommended it: Comments built directly around the PIE theory and the perception-is-reality idea it names.

What readers reported: Look up the PIE theory. performance. image. exposure.

Source-record spotlights

Most engaged source

Look up the PIE theory. performance. image. exposure.

source record 0♥ 11,677
Later-arriving source

Disagree completely, it’s practical in a world with limited attention. Example: if I’m trying to get one of my reports a promotion then I have to tell their story to my org’s c-level executive. There are of hundreds of people in the org, exposure is key to showcase that person’s performance alongside all the other things that come across the decision-maker’s desk every day.

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
Low-like source

Literally it’s all optics

posted about 6 days after the source♥ 1

What the counts show

The exact phrase “top performer is” recurs across 2 of the 8 source records in The performance-image-exposure framework; the complete archive stays available below.

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Look up the PIE theory. performance. image. exposure.♥ 11,677source record 0
Doing a good job and appearing to do a good job aren’t always the same. Performance = doing a good job. Image = Appearing to do a good job (organized, communicative, helpful not naysaying unless truly an issue, etc.) exposure = doing that in front of the right audience (e.g. upper mgmt) amplifies that impact♥ 1,462source record 2
Disagree completely, it’s practical in a world with limited attention. Example: if I’m trying to get one of my reports a promotion then I have to tell their story to my org’s c-level executive. There are of hundreds of people in the org, exposure is key to showcase that person’s performance alongside all the other things that come across the decision-maker’s desk every day.♥ 0source record 7
Top performer is another term for best networker. Relationships shape perception. Perception is reality.♥ 2,308source record 75
Your post says to *look* like a top performer, not to *become* a top performer. Start there; Saying what you mean in the right way.♥ 23source record 266
I had been using the PIE theory unknowingly can say, it’s been working♥ 145source record 338
“Looking” like a top performer is about “visibility”. Being a top performer is about self development.♥ 4source record 429
Literally it’s all optics♥ 1source record 520

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Reading the room and political calculation8 index entriesDeciding who to trust, when to be performative, and how to track the office's power players.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Reading the room and political calculation

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Reading the room and political calculation

8 source records

Best for: Reading the room and political calculation

Why readers recommended it: Deciding who to trust, when to be performative, and how to track the office's power players.

What readers reported: check who to trust and who not to trust, the ones you trust are to decompress, you can say you're full of work and are a bit tired. The ones you can't trust you'll limit the info you share, you're not tired for them,…

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check who to trust and who not to trust, the ones you trust are to decompress, you can say you're full of work and are a bit tired. The ones you can't trust you'll limit the info you share, you're not tired for them, you're effortlessly working through everything for their eyes: "oh just doing some work". When someone asks for opinions on you, you'll get "hardworking" or "always working" responses 🙂‍↕

source record 440♥ 4
Later-arriving source

If you tend to clash with some, don’t interrupt them when they present their ideas, even concede to them on small points, so then when you fight them on the big, important things it doesn’t look like you’re disagreeing in bad faith. Shows you’re principled but not inflexible without giving up ground where it really counts.

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
Zero-like source

Find a more senior person you respect and try to act and react how they do.

posted about 54 days after the source♥ 0

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This report keeps all 8 source records for Reading the room and political calculation together and surfaces traceable examples without converting anecdotes into proof.

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notice everything♥ 5source record 321
check who to trust and who not to trust, the ones you trust are to decompress, you can say you're full of work and are a bit tired. The ones you can't trust you'll limit the info you share, you're not tired for them, you're effortlessly working through everything for their eyes: "oh just doing some work". When someone asks for opinions on you, you'll get "hardworking" or "always working" responses 🙂‍↕♥ 4source record 440
oh and dont forget to be performative only when WITH your supervisor♥ 0source record 495
only put effort into things that go above you. perception is reality. nothing else matters.♥ 1source record 498
Stay on top of everything that happens in your work place.♥ 1source record 500
Sit back, study the questions people ask, learn who the players are and then move the pieces around the board baby…it’s actually fun♥ 2source record 522
Find a more senior person you respect and try to act and react how they do.♥ 0source record 671
If you tend to clash with some, don’t interrupt them when they present their ideas, even concede to them on small points, so then when you fight them on the big, important things it doesn’t look like you’re disagreeing in bad faith. Shows you’re principled but not inflexible without giving up ground where it really counts.♥ 0source record 754

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Confidence and self-belief6 index entriesProjecting unshakeable confidence, even manufactured, as its own tactic.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Confidence and self-belief

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Confidence and self-belief

6 source records

Best for: Confidence and self-belief

Why readers recommended it: Projecting unshakeable confidence, even manufactured, as its own tactic.

What readers reported: I’ve survived 3 major layoffs and negotiated a salary higher than any of my team members who do the same exact job I do, with less experience. It is entirely based around optics and communication. Say the right things. Seem competent. Don’t fluster.…

Limit: Yeah this doesn’t work. I work for a FAANG and being delusional will get you laughed out the door. You have to be GOOD at what you do and make sure it’s visible with leadership

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Explicit limit or counterpoint

Yeah this doesn’t work. I work for a FAANG and being delusional will get you laughed out the door. You have to be GOOD at what you do and make sure it’s visible with leadership

source record 112♥ 0

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I’ve survived 3 major layoffs and negotiated a salary higher than any of my team members who do the same exact job I do, with less experience. It is entirely based around optics and communication. Say the right things. Seem competent. Don’t fluster. Be confident.

source record 158♥ 600
Later-arriving source

Same here… survived my 4rth round of layoffs last week with same company. Finding a niche that you know well, be nice, don’t show emotion, knowing the right people and communicate

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
Zero-like source

Do not fake effort. The guy whos always looking panicked and overworked got passed up by me because overlords liked that i was a calming and precise presence. Let your work speak for you. Build the relationships because you wont know they matter till they do

posted about 20 days after the source♥ 0

What the counts show

Within 6 source records, 0 explicitly report a benefit and 1 explicitly report a limit or failure. These are attributed experiences, not effectiveness data.

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literally just be delusional. I stopped believing in corporate reality a long time ago. Know what you want and continue with confidence. Everyone will yield to you♥ 581source record 110
Yeah this doesn’t work. I work for a FAANG and being delusional will get you laughed out the door. You have to be GOOD at what you do and make sure it’s visible with leadership♥ 0source record 112
I’ve survived 3 major layoffs and negotiated a salary higher than any of my team members who do the same exact job I do, with less experience. It is entirely based around optics and communication. Say the right things. Seem competent. Don’t fluster. Be confident.♥ 600source record 158
Same here… survived my 4rth round of layoffs last week with same company. Finding a niche that you know well, be nice, don’t show emotion, knowing the right people and communicate♥ 0source record 159
Same and I cannot emphasize the “be confident” part of this. And then deliver what you say.♥ 3source record 162
Do not fake effort. The guy whos always looking panicked and overworked got passed up by me because overlords liked that i was a calming and precise presence. Let your work speak for you. Build the relationships because you wont know they matter till they do♥ 0source record 717

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Relationships and likability99 records · 3 sub-topicsRelationships and likability — 99 items
Networking with the right people42 index entriesDeliberately building connections with influential, senior, or cross-department people.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Networking with the right people

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Networking with the right people

42 source records

Best for: Networking with the right people

Why readers recommended it: Deliberately building connections with influential, senior, or cross-department people.

What readers reported: Be liked by the right people. That gets you further than being a top performer

Limit: It’s unfortunately about relationships before anything else. The only reason I don’t like remote work is because it’s more difficult to build genuine rapport the right people

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It’s unfortunately about relationships before anything else. The only reason I don’t like remote work is because it’s more difficult to build genuine rapport the right people

source record 640♥ 0

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Most engaged source

Be liked by the right people. That gets you further than being a top performer

source record 14♥ 40,418
Later-arriving source

Attend all the social functions (yes, even you introverts) - you don't even need to say anything, just listen to the conversations. They are telling you what is working and what is not. Base your work on how you can help what is lacking. Work hard - most stories [successful endings] are never achieved from a short cut, it's the journey and how you get there that impacts your audience [leaders].

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
Zero-like source

Do a coffee chat with everyone (yes, everyone) on your team every 6 months or so

posted about 58 days after the source♥ 0

What the counts show

The exact phrase “its all about who you know” recurs across 3 of the 42 source records in Networking with the right people; the complete archive stays available below.

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Be liked by the right people. That gets you further than being a top performer♥ 40,418source record 14
So true, it’s all about who you know♥ 2,575source record 15
it's not "who you know".. it's "who knows you". like, I know Taylor Swift but it's only meaningful if she knows me♥ 52source record 16
getting involved in the company. my first couple years I was on the employees association, diversity council, woman's group. literally did everything. I met so many people in the company and at all levels. I swear it made a huge difference in my career.♥ 1source record 76
Connect people, praise people to others behind their back, know the company metrics and exceed them where you can. Take your vacation and sick days when needed, respect yourself and others and their personal time.♥ 1,257source record 95
Do your job well! Clue your boss into what she is missing. Make friends with the support staff. Be the biggest cheerleader for your company, product, and team.♥ 56source record 151
Create partnerships on the sly with EVERYONE. Mary in Procurement, Karen in Finance, Joe in IT, Sue in Ops. All of them. BFF. Then, when you’re in a meeting, or your boss has a random convo with someone, they will rave about you and wonder how the hell everyone knows you. 😏♥ 1,438source record 172
Me & my girl Renee in finance services have been BFFL’s for years and people ask how I get accounts taken care of that even management cannot resolve😂😂😂♥ 2source record 179
Introduce yourself to everyone. See someone you don’t recognize in the office? Introduce yourself. In the lunchroom? Introduce yourself. If everyone knows your name, it’s easier to get farther.♥ 50source record 226
Do only exactly what you’re asked to do. Don’t waste time assigning yourself extra work. Use that time networking and volunteering to chair business resource groups and find a high level, quality mentor. Who you know matters 500x more than what you know.♥ 21source record 271
Reach out to colleagues and arrange catch up calls/go for coffee to get to know them♥ 5source record 298
I’ve learned, at least in government work the last ten years, it’s really who you know and who likes you and a close second is doing your job efficiently and effectively, and being reliable. Being in a position where you can “be seen” helps as well.♥ 32source record 307
be useful and have connections with multiple people on multiple teams♥ 17source record 309
saying yes to things that put you in the room with new people♥ 3source record 310
Map your company’s shador org, create your own CRM for who influences the influential. Find out the problems they’re trying to solve and match it to the strategic plan. Then start volunteering for projects that they have gaps on but are your expertise. Stay reliable, stay friendly and network relentlessly (but not desperately).♥ 5source record 315
Network with the higher ups. They’ll remember your name. Join ERGs if your org has them. There are so many people involved, including people in upper management. Get in good with them & you’re set.♥ 8source record 316
Don’t sit at your desk alone doing work - prioritize connection points with team members / cross functional partners. It helps you find new ideas and build relationships. Sitting at your desk and banging out work won’t get you anywhere (depending on your role)♥ 2source record 403
Show up to optional company events outside of work. Leaders are always there♥ 3source record 415
networking! make yourself memorable (professionally lol) and remember others. you never know when your skills can help others. I also never pretend to know all the answers or solutions but networking helps you find the answers and collaborate for solutions.♥ 3source record 431
Its all about who you know and how you carry yourself! Dont be afraid to network across departments!♥ 3source record 442
NETWORK. Surround yourself with great senior leaders that bring you up with them. That will propel you upwards, with the good people pulling for you in every room.♥ 3source record 443
Network, take on projects - but like ones you like. Youll be able to build an entire career you enjoy off a different title - use the skills you got developed with that network and zoom up the line, but with what you ideally would like to do.♥ 4source record 463
Find the clubs, run the clubs.♥ 0source record 464
Attend all the social functions (yes, even you introverts) - you don't even need to say anything, just listen to the conversations. They are telling you what is working and what is not. Base your work on how you can help what is lacking. Work hard - most stories [successful endings] are never achieved from a short cut, it's the journey and how you get there that impacts your audience [leaders].♥ 0source record 472
“Your network is your net worth”♥ 2source record 489
Network. And always raise people up in front of them and behind their backs. Never take credit when you can give credit.♥ 2source record 501
Speak to everyone. Treat colleagues in other departments like customers in retail. If you speak to them first you'll be who they go to♥ 1source record 503
Be nosy and make friends on other teams. Ask them what they’re working on & get your own sources for info♥ 2source record 514
Relationship building & communication. It's all about the relationships built.♥ 3source record 540
Do a coffee chat with everyone (yes, everyone) on your team every 6 months or so♥ 0source record 589
If you're in a meeting and someone works for a dept you don't know a lot about, reach out after with a very brief email asking if you can schedule 20 mins with them to learn more about what they do. Then when you meet, come prepared with simple questions and let them talk about themselves. Also be prepared with a brief intro about you. This helps build your network, teaches you something new, makes the other person feel valued and it looks great to your boss that you're "proactively expanding your business acumen."♥ 0source record 617
Maintain a good working relationship with your direct manager while developing relationships with leaders in other functional areas.♥ 0source record 630
It’s unfortunately about relationships before anything else. The only reason I don’t like remote work is because it’s more difficult to build genuine rapport the right people♥ 0source record 640
get a sponsor. not a mentor-- a sponsor♥ 0source record 665
take initiative. be friend people in other departments and show interest in what they do, especially if it somehow affects your job.♥ 0source record 689
Not always what you know it’s WHO!♥ 0source record 695
Networking is so important. It’s not what you know but who you know. That way if it comes to something g you’re not fluent in you have people to lean on. And always return the favor.♥ 0source record 704
1. Be good at your regular job. 2. Network with people who have pull. Set up connections with them, tell them what you want out of the career/job, what you’re currently working on and ask them for advice. In 2 weeks to a month follow up after you’ve implemented the advice and have a conversation on what you learned and how it helped. Rinse and repeat until you get where you want to be! This sets up a reputation that you’re your likeable, coachable, reliable, inquisitive, self aware, accountable, and a self starter. All these things show short learning curves which makes you an ideal candidate for positions!♥ 0source record 706
connect first if you can. be a bit of yourself but if you have a spunky side, let it pop. focus on your position and if you interact with a lot of people, take advantage of that and make those connections. you'll help tim in sales and you'll help the whole company bug performing the tasks they all need. always choose a good outfit and clean hair. minimal makeup required if you present well. at my current company 8.5 years. went from receptionist to senior accountant who is trusted by my owners. couldn't be better.♥ 0source record 723
when i started,I made the effort to go to any work event I was invited to. got to meet all the execs and now am known by most execs for being not only reliable, but a great social butterfly for clients.♥ 0source record 726
It’s all about who you know. Don’t brownnose, but get in with the right people.♥ 0source record 729
Easiest way to be successful is take the most successful people in your job out to breakfast or lunch every to weeks individually. Ask them what differentiates them. How they feel about the company. How it is excellent but also what could be better. The copy what they are doing but do it with an integrity to yourself so you are authentic. Each month then look at how your might be a part of tackling one of the things Hahn could be improved. Follow this for your career and by the time you are in your late 30s you will be in leadership roles.♥ 0source record 749

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Likability, warmth, and follow-through40 index entriesEveryday kindness, friendliness, and genuine helpfulness that earns goodwill.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Likability, warmth, and follow-through

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Likability, warmth, and follow-through

40 source records

Best for: Likability, warmth, and follow-through

Why readers recommended it: Everyday kindness, friendliness, and genuine helpfulness that earns goodwill.

What readers reported: I owe every ounce of my success to being competent, friendly, and unafraid to embarass myself

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I owe every ounce of my success to being competent, friendly, and unafraid to embarass myself

source record 83♥ 4,313
Later-arriving source

A good attitude and a smile goes a longgggggg way

posted about 84 days after the source♥ 1
Zero-like source

I know there are tons of tips but I absolutely believe in being authentic and 100% REAL❤

posted about 57 days after the source♥ 0

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What the counts show

Across 40 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Swap instead of subtract” (2 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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I have a whole work personality, she’s a character. No one wants to work with the real me just like I don’t want to work with real people either. It’s not fake…just bringing forth the best aspects of myself.♥ 1source record 30
And the biggest part of being likable is making everyone else’s day easier!♥ 1source record 35
Never forget be kind to everyone - someone could become your boss tomorrow♥ 0source record 38
Be LIKEABLE! People do not realize how much this influences corporate world.♥ 2,302source record 53
No fr! You would be the BEST PERFORMER but if nobody wants to deal with you……♥ 13source record 55
I can not stress this enough…. You gotta fake it. You love everyone, even if you don’t. ✨✨ Hope that helps 🤣♥ 1source record 57
I owe every ounce of my success to being competent, friendly, and unafraid to embarass myself♥ 4,313source record 83
Learn everyone name.♥ 729source record 99
Be friendly, helpful, and pleasant to work with. Seriously the most underrated skill♥ 176source record 105
Agree! And be super nice and thank everyone constantly for their support♥ 0source record 173
Can confirm! I speak to everyone & take interest just because I'm kind. Sure enough, I'm well liked and highly complimented. And my teachers always told me in school that I had a talking problem. Joke was on them! 🙄♥ 3source record 180
100%. Office likability and popularity with the hardest working.♥ 0source record 187
I completely agree. I am as genuine as possible and truly try to create friendships. Either way this is an absolute. You also never know how much power someone has until things go down. You would be amazed.♥ 2source record 188
Be kind to everyone, even those coworkers who are MEAN. Others (especislly managers) recognize it and soon you’re seen as team player who can work well in any condition. Major job security when everyone (even the mean ones) like you.♥ 35source record 257
everyone keeps saying PIE theory but it's so much simpler than that. just be a decent human being. ensure you are prompt with all work problem solve on your own and be nice to people. the most loved person in the office is the one people want to see promoted♥ 105source record 319
A good attitude and a smile goes a longgggggg way♥ 1source record 372
Working in IT I’ve learned it’s being personable and friendly - so many IT people are technically great at their job but lack interpersonal skills♥ 3source record 402
Don’t only do your job well, be someone people genuinely like being around. Being likeable will take you very far in life.♥ 4source record 425
Radiate positive energy that people like to be around.♥ 3source record 435
Get to know everyone!!! “What’s the hardest part about your job? Where do you see growth?” And a GENUINE how are you!!!♥ 4source record 447
Show up every day, help others on the team♥ 1source record 483
I always have small chocolates in one of my drawers. Like individually wrapped ones. When I'm working late, I'll walk up and down the office and see if there's anyone else there when I, myself, feel snackish. I offer chocolates to those who remain before heading back to my seat.♥ 3source record 499
If they mess up and you can fix it, fix it and don't mention it. You will become priceless to them♥ 0source record 504
be leasy to work with, do the things you say you’re going to do, and share with others. share what’s working well, be that go to person that people come to with a question.♥ 2source record 507
Be friendly and remember the names of every child and pet of your colleagues♥ 1source record 510
listen to people, follow up, recognize them; equals likability.♥ 2source record 511
Be grateful to coworkers. See them and acknowledge them!♥ 1source record 515
My opinion is having good relationships with your team and manager makes your life and job easier and can really make you enjoy your job which reflects in your work. Be confident in what you do, be direct, be polite, be honest, be thorough, have good work ethic, work hard and smart. Staying late doesn’t make you look good it makes you look incompetent and incable of doing your job in a timely manner. 💖♥ 8source record 550
I know there are tons of tips but I absolutely believe in being authentic and 100% REAL❤♥ 0source record 576
Remember to stay true to your personality. Promoting to supervisor is not above anyone. It can be a very grounding position. Supervisor is a super assistant, not a dictator.♥ 0source record 611
Be the person you want to work with. Be reliable, learn the job, help others, have your teams back, if you see something that needs to get done, and you know how, then just do it. Be the mentor, you don’t have to be the best to bring your best. Be willing to learn even after years of experience. Curiosity will get u far♥ 0source record 619
Be likeable♥ 0source record 644
Talk to anyone in small doses. be authentic but don't overshare. Use humor instead of complaining. Dress slightly more formal than your job calls for.♥ 0source record 664
Be honest to yourself and your wants/needs. It comes off as sincere because it is and you won't sound like a pompous 🫏♥ 0source record 705
Being liked♥ 0source record 707
I compliment everyone at least once every day. It makes people feel good, and they notice that *you* notice the little things. With patients, it helps break the ice and helps them feel more comfortable! Plus, it makes you try to focus on good things 😊 side note, your hair is amazing!♥ 0source record 708
Be reliable and EASY TO WORK WITH, even if you’re pushing back or holding a line.♥ 0source record 714
Be kind and personable to EVERYONE. Even the intern. It goes FAR.♥ 0source record 733
Be the person they want at their Christmas party♥ 0source record 735
Become the personality hire BUT also handle your tasks well. Being likeable matters more than what you accomplish. When I switched from “how much can I do” to “how well can I be liked” things changed. I still complete my work and more, but I center my personality and use hacks that make me appear more likeable (I’m autistic so it doesn’t come easy)♥ 0source record 755

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The calculated game: discretion and image management17 index entriesMore cynical, self-protective relationship tactics around gossip, credit, and strategic friendliness.
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The calculated game: discretion and image management

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Best for: The calculated game: discretion and image management

Why readers recommended it: More cynical, self-protective relationship tactics around gossip, credit, and strategic friendliness.

What readers reported: Say nice things about colleagues behind their backs and never gossip. The compliments will get back to your coworkers and people will trust and respect you more

Limit: Careful on how you use this. If you have a paranoid or jealous boss, this can lead to negative consequences for you. I’m not saying to not do this, just be careful.

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Careful on how you use this. If you have a paranoid or jealous boss, this can lead to negative consequences for you. I’m not saying to not do this, just be careful.

source record 176♥ 0

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Say nice things about colleagues behind their backs and never gossip. The compliments will get back to your coworkers and people will trust and respect you more

source record 43♥ 8,087
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Do well at the bare minimum requirements of the job. I mean really perfect them. Then befriend the important people like your boss or the office wannabe and you're sorted.

posted about 72 days after the source♥ 0
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Tell people when u appreciate them/like working with them, give praise; I also kept a detailed excel file of all of the projects I completed, how long it took, when I started/ended the project, work events I participated in or volunteered for etc

posted about 21 days after the source♥ 0

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The exact phrase “your personal life” recurs across 2 of the 17 source records in The calculated game: discretion and image management; the complete archive stays available below.

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Say nice things about colleagues behind their backs and never gossip. The compliments will get back to your coworkers and people will trust and respect you more♥ 8,087source record 43
People LOVE to feel like they’re teaching or helping. So when you come from a place of “hi! I’m having trouble working through this, I’ve already done xYz, could you please help me?” Do this to senior co-workers and even your boss checks 1. Humility, 2. Collaboration, 3. Willingness to learn♥ 4source record 85
I just had a 1:1 with our VP and spent the whole time bragging about individual folks on my team and their accomplishments. He noted how much he liked that. I also coach my team to exceed when possible and that is a reflection of me to my manager.♥ 4source record 96
Careful on how you use this. If you have a paranoid or jealous boss, this can lead to negative consequences for you. I’m not saying to not do this, just be careful.♥ 0source record 176
Fr ppl love yapping about themselves…it’s the illusion of connection♥ 46source record 192
Make “friends” with the right people. There are 2 people at my job that I 100% dislike but I could tell they were influential. I buddied up with them and got on their good side and that helped way more than any job related tasks.♥ 5source record 252
avoiding gossip and having a WORKING brain to mouth filter! i have to stop myself before saying some things at work. i’ve been trying to write them down, at home, so i don’t get into any unnecessary confrontations at work.♥ 1source record 412
Whatever you do, do find yourself in any workplace drama and try not to share much about your personal life. Make your employer think you have total loyalty and commitment even if you don’t. Organization is key and communication or getting ahead of things are your best friend.♥ 1source record 419
Always talk positively about colleagues behind their back♥ 3source record 439
Never indulge too much of your personal life, don’t gossip and don’t engage in it♥ 0source record 585
so not to brag; but im one of the top performers at my office. my numbers are good, but they arent what got me this spot. 1. I dont complain, I only point out an issue if I have a solution or work around. 2. I NEVER Say a bad thing about anyone I work with. I only say positive things and keep my evil to myself lol 3. I advocate for myself when it matters to me, in private to my supervisor. ill say something like "I feel im not representing myself the way I want to with my reach being so far" rather than" I have too much work and im overwhelmed" 4. I remember details coworkers tell me and follow up. how was that vacation? how did your daughter do in her play? also- I notice when they have new hair or something and never waste an opportunity to pay a complement. 5. I HELP PEOPLE SILENTLY. this is the big one. I have coworkers who are so overwhelmed and rather than tell everyone I took some of their load off, I just do it and keep my mouth shut. ill see someone stressing and be like "hey. between you and me, is there something I can take for you?"♥ 0source record 605
Leave drama at the door.♥ 0source record 663
Do well at the bare minimum requirements of the job. I mean really perfect them. Then befriend the important people like your boss or the office wannabe and you're sorted.♥ 0source record 673
Cannot tell you how much just not gossiping has earned me respect. Don’t be in the room when it happens♥ 0source record 688
My biggest tip, don’t be scared. I saw someone else mention to not be afraid of embarrassment. I believe that’s the key 100%. That is what opens doors.♥ 0source record 719
Tell people when u appreciate them/like working with them, give praise; I also kept a detailed excel file of all of the projects I completed, how long it took, when I started/ended the project, work events I participated in or volunteered for etc♥ 0source record 727
get liked by everyone. show up EARLY daily. bring donuts to the office. learn everyone’s personal likes and info for good small talk to make good impressions. figure out your boss’s problems and solve them and get recognized for it. dress WELL, never come in to♥ 0source record 742

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Reliability and delivery50 records · 4 sub-topicsReliability and delivery — 50 items
Show up, work hard, be consistent21 index entriesThe baseline behaviors of punctuality, presence, and steady effort commenters say matter most.
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Show up, work hard, be consistent

21 source records

Best for: Show up, work hard, be consistent

Why readers recommended it: The baseline behaviors of punctuality, presence, and steady effort commenters say matter most.

What readers reported: Dress for the part, be punctual, reliable, emotionally regulated, avoid gossip, work hard, but don’t overwork, be a good speller and writer, learn Excel.

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Dress for the part, be punctual, reliable, emotionally regulated, avoid gossip, work hard, but don’t overwork, be a good speller and writer, learn Excel.

source record 50♥ 11,749
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work hard, don't cause more work for your boss, produce and be generally pleasant to be around, know when to pick your battles

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
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Work hard. Literally that’s it. There’s no secret sauce. Just. Work. Hard.

posted about 53 days after the source♥ 0

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Develop a reputation of being reliable and be likable♥ 10,915source record 27
Dress for the part, be punctual, reliable, emotionally regulated, avoid gossip, work hard, but don’t overwork, be a good speller and writer, learn Excel.♥ 11,749source record 50
**actually do your job** so many of my coworkers don’t understand this one♥ 2,594source record 64
Don’t procrastinate just get on with it♥ 0source record 160
Be transparent, reliable, and have a high level of integrity. especially with wfh nowadays. companies need people that are doing the right thing even when nobody is watching....♥ 24source record 291
My Dad gave me this advice when I was in the Marines. I called home to tell him I was upset that my coworkers didn’t do their job and I was always getting extra work that they didn’t get done or messed up. He told me to run circles around them. Take everything and anything they threw my way and to rock it. I did and still do. I always got amazing reviews and was trusted to take care of things. If you do this and don’t get the positive reviews then you aren’t in the right place.♥ 1source record 430
work hard, don't cause more work for your boss, produce and be generally pleasant to be around, know when to pick your battles♥ 0source record 469
I am an HR business partner and I’m 25 I have a direct report and the thing that makes her stand out the most is how reliable she is. She sees a need and fills it without being asked. Also she pays attention to small details she knows almost all of our employees name (106) as well as I do. I say be personable and reliable!♥ 0source record 473
keep your business personal, be on time, dress appropriately, be kind, don't gossip, don't complain, anything given to you get it done. Don't let others see you sweat.♥ 1source record 479
Let your work speak for itself. Never compete because you are the competition😁♥ 1source record 508
Don't perform professionalism; aim to be reliable, chill, and smart.♥ 1source record 531
Be better than everyone else 🥰 Show effort, curiosity, and enthusiasm.♥ 3source record 542
Be present. Show up when u are asked to show up.♥ 0source record 571
literally critical thinking and being nice to people.♥ 0source record 578
Consistency♥ 0source record 604
Be on time every single time and hit every deadline. You’d be surprised how rare this is. Also, look the part.♥ 0source record 623
I get all 5's on my review. I don't call in sick. If I am, I work from home, unless I'm seriously sick. I don't show up to work late. I actually come in 15-20 minutes early and clock in because I like the extra time of silence before my phone rings at 7am. if someone needs help and I'm able to do it, I help them. My bosses leave me alone. I'm everyone's favorite person and I celebrate everyone's accomplishments and birthdays.♥ 0source record 637
Flexibility, Adaptability, and Dependability ✨♥ 0source record 645
The most important thing is showing up.♥ 0source record 648
Work hard. Literally that’s it. There’s no secret sauce. Just. Work. Hard.♥ 0source record 669
Most people are not consistent or reliable, be both and make that your foundation! That will set you apart immediately♥ 0source record 725

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Underpromise, overdeliver, and follow through15 index entriesThe 'do what you say you'll do' cluster built around the underpromise/overdeliver mantra.
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Underpromise, overdeliver, and follow through

15 source records

Best for: Underpromise, overdeliver, and follow through

Why readers recommended it: The 'do what you say you'll do' cluster built around the underpromise/overdeliver mantra.

What readers reported: Underpromise overdeliver

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Underpromise overdeliver

source record 70♥ 3,271
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Consistently under promise and over deliver

posted about 84 days after the source♥ 2
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Not a hack: consistently deliver, have a positive attitude and think like an owner (be accountable and proactive)

posted about 55 days after the source♥ 0

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The exact phrase “and over deliver” recurs across 3 of the 15 source records in Underpromise, overdeliver, and follow through; the complete archive stays available below.

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I just make sure I always do what I’ll say I’m going to do (within reason) and always stay cheerful and happy even when I’m absolutely not. It’s a lot of acting and it is exhausting but it’s worked out well for me♥ 462source record 29
No honest with yourself about your bandwidth and always make sure something is done if you say that it will be♥ 0source record 31
Underpromise overdeliver♥ 3,271source record 70
Under promise , over deliver♥ 28source record 273
Let your yes be a yes and your no be a no. Follow through on your commitments. Underpromise and over deliver. Take accountability when you make mistakes. Be candid with people. And before you log off for the day, look ahead and prepare as much as you can for your next meetings, deliverables and days. I spend time going over my.♥ 5source record 370
Consistently under promise and over deliver♥ 2source record 382
Over promise and over deliver, the only way♥ 1source record 405
Under promise, over deliver. Never the other way around♥ 2source record 416
Do what you say you'll do EVERY SINGLE TIME. Do not over promise and under deliver, people don't forget that.♥ 4source record 433
under promise but over deliver♥ 0source record 494
Be nice and respectful. Follow through on what you said.♥ 1source record 527
Doing what you say you are going to do and doing it well- and being kind to coworkers (especially when things go wrong, knowing you are steady in rocky waters)♥ 0source record 629
follow through!! do what you say you are going to do - people gain respect & admire you as a reliable worker!!♥ 0source record 636
Set realistic expectations. Don’t tell someone you can have it done by tomorrow if you can’t. Don’t ever leave someone hanging…communicate thoroughly and follow up when necessary.♥ 0source record 666
Not a hack: consistently deliver, have a positive attitude and think like an owner (be accountable and proactive)♥ 0source record 676

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Own your mistakes and solve problems proactively8 index entriesTaking accountability for errors before anyone else has to point them out.
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Own your mistakes and solve problems proactively

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Best for: Own your mistakes and solve problems proactively

Why readers recommended it: Taking accountability for errors before anyone else has to point them out.

What readers reported: 1. When you have a problem, don’t come with a problem to your manager, think of a solution first - check if those solutions are possible and what is you recommended one, then go to your manager just for them to give you a green light. 2.…

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1. When you have a problem, don’t come with a problem to your manager, think of a solution first - check if those solutions are possible and what is you recommended one, then go to your manager just for them to give you a green light. 2. When you are late with task, don’t wait until deadline passes, tell them before deadline why and how much more time you will need to complete it. 3. When you promised to do something even to a team assistant, even if they have forgot, still complete it in time. 4. Know your battles and be diplomatic when you speak with anyone, you can be a great performer but just one unwanted comment in the wrong place can ruin everything. These will build incredible reputation for you

source record 368♥ 8
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My tips are to avoid drama, do your job (well) ask good questions and then don’t ask the again, and find solutions to problems

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
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strategic decisiveness and openly admitting and fixing the inevitable mistakes

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1. When you have a problem, don’t come with a problem to your manager, think of a solution first - check if those solutions are possible and what is you recommended one, then go to your manager just for them to give you a green light. 2. When you are late with task, don’t wait until deadline passes, tell them before deadline why and how much more time you will need to complete it. 3. When you promised to do something even to a team assistant, even if they have forgot, still complete it in time. 4. Know your battles and be diplomatic when you speak with anyone, you can be a great performer but just one unwanted comment in the wrong place can ruin everything. These will build incredible reputation for you♥ 8source record 368
Be trustworthy, genuine and ask questions when you need clarity.♥ 4source record 437
taking accountability of your mistakes BEFORE management sees the mistakes, ask questions, and always treat everyone kindly and offer positive advice loudly so everyone can benefit. management will notice.♥ 3source record 490
Own it when you make a mistake and own it when you do something extra badass♥ 0source record 581
Accountability. I will 100000% own up to my mistakes and/or admit when I don’t know something when I should.♥ 0source record 594
Always be able to admit when you’re wrong. Don’t make excuses, and always be the most professionally dressed person in the office.♥ 0source record 626
My tips are to avoid drama, do your job (well) ask good questions and then don’t ask the again, and find solutions to problems♥ 0source record 653
strategic decisiveness and openly admitting and fixing the inevitable mistakes♥ 0source record 675

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Be resourceful and prepared6 index entriesFinding your own answers and walking into rooms already prepared.
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Be resourceful and prepared

6 source records

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Why readers recommended it: Finding your own answers and walking into rooms already prepared.

What readers reported: You don’t have to know how to do every single thing, but you need to be able to find the answers. Often by networking.

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You don’t have to know how to do every single thing, but you need to be able to find the answers. Often by networking.

source record 196♥ 274
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Prepare, prepare, prepare. It amazes how little people actually look at their schedules and tasks and put in the preparation to make the task easier…. Plus you’re always on top of your stuff in meetings.

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 1
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I always do my work as soon as it hits my desk. I saw another tip that I 100% took and that was making a document of every question I have ever asked and the answer. Always put on a confident and professional face. I ask question ALL the time and I know who I am dealing with before I enter the room.

posted about 24 days after the source♥ 0

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Across 6 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Remove a step” (3 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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You don’t have to know how to do every single thing, but you need to be able to find the answers. Often by networking.♥ 274source record 196
This 1000%. If you don’t know something - say you don’t know, then go find out. Resourcefulness is #1 in my book.♥ 3source record 200
truly prepping for meetings takes so little time and goes so far♥ 0source record 270
Prepare, prepare, prepare. It amazes how little people actually look at their schedules and tasks and put in the preparation to make the task easier…. Plus you’re always on top of your stuff in meetings.♥ 1source record 615
I always do my work as soon as it hits my desk. I saw another tip that I 100% took and that was making a document of every question I have ever asked and the answer. Always put on a confident and professional face. I ask question ALL the time and I know who I am dealing with before I enter the room.♥ 0source record 643
try to figure it out yourself before you ask questions♥ 0source record 697

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Boundaries and workload49 records · 4 sub-topicsBoundaries and workload — 49 items
Set boundaries and protect your hours16 index entriesConcrete tactics for defending personal time: fixed hours, saying no, no after-hours replies.
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Set boundaries and protect your hours

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Best for: Set boundaries and protect your hours

Why readers recommended it: Concrete tactics for defending personal time: fixed hours, saying no, no after-hours replies.

What readers reported: A top performer doesn’t answer emails late at night or stay extra hours. They have strict working hours; respect people’s personal time and time manage wisely. That earns respect.

Limit: Yes! Set boundaries. I have a set start and end time to my day. I do not work through my lunch break.

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Yes! Set boundaries. I have a set start and end time to my day. I do not work through my lunch break.

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A top performer doesn’t answer emails late at night or stay extra hours. They have strict working hours; respect people’s personal time and time manage wisely. That earns respect.

source record 125♥ 1,206
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Say no. Higher ups love hearing an individual be able to stand their ground. Oddly saying no and refusing tasks made me confident and well respected.

posted about 45 days after the source♥ 1
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That work isn’t everything funny enough lol. I stand up for myself and sometimes I’ll do it a different way. Higher management likes it. It creates less work for them. Get what they need. They just want results is what I’ve learnt ✨

posted about 27 days after the source♥ 0

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A top performer doesn’t answer emails late at night or stay extra hours. They have strict working hours; respect people’s personal time and time manage wisely. That earns respect.♥ 1,206source record 125
This x 1,000!! Boundaries start with your work. If you can protect your time during your work hours, people notice. A lack of time boundaries often reads like a lack of boundaries in general, which can make someone seem less promotable.♥ 4source record 127
I don’t work crazy long hours and leave the office on the 3:30 train when I go in. I consistently produce quality work and go above and beyond. It’s not about hours, it’s your output. It does help to know the right people though!!♥ 0source record 128
I second this and follow it to a T! I follow a strict schedule with my workday and outline in my google calendar. I document everything as well bc people forget as soon as you start to do good as your job people with hate you for it and have a problem.♥ 1source record 131
As a manager, I’d respect someone telling me they have a strict 6pm cutoff versus wondering if they’ll respond late tonight or tomorrow every time they’re on an email.♥ 13source record 132
yes! I tell my direct reports that I am NOT impressed by the fact that they can't get their work done in their normal 40 business hours. set boundaries with others and speak up if you're over capacity.♥ 3source record 139
1000% set your boundaries and stick to them. If you find more work than you can handle and it starts infringing on personal time, then it’s time to have a hard conversation. Come prepared with expectations, solutions, and bottom lines. Learn how to communicate with confidence during hard conversations without being cocky or arrogant. Silence speaks. Study your contracts like there’s an exam. And KNOW YOUR WORTH. Track your contributions and never forget documentation. Bosses hate well documented leaders and high performers.♥ 1source record 142
Yes! Set boundaries. I have a set start and end time to my day. I do not work through my lunch break.♥ 1source record 144
Agreed. im a director and have always worked with good boundaries and bred thet in my teams and progressed with that philosophy♥ 1source record 145
1)Don’t always be available. 2) Not everything warrants a response in a meeting, the loudest person in the room is not always the most intelligent or confident♥ 16source record 328
Say no. Higher ups love hearing an individual be able to stand their ground. Oddly saying no and refusing tasks made me confident and well respected.♥ 1source record 476
set boundaries with your time...manage others expectations of you will actually get you more respect and advancement. dont be too quick.♥ 1source record 505
Look good sand respect your boundaries. success will follow. I promise you❤️♥ 1source record 537
That work isn’t everything funny enough lol. I stand up for myself and sometimes I’ll do it a different way. Higher management likes it. It creates less work for them. Get what they need. They just want results is what I’ve learnt ✨♥ 0source record 650
Tell people no. Sincerely. Never try to accommodate for unrealistic timelines, instead secure invites to those decision making meetings, secure realistic timelines and budgets and upper management will keep you around because "yes man" mentality keeps culture broken and perceived productivity in the dumpster.♥ 0source record 712
Boundaries ❤♥ 0source record 740

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The bare-minimum strategy13 index entriesDeliberately doing only what's required and managing the appearance of busyness.
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The bare-minimum strategy

13 source records

Best for: The bare-minimum strategy

Why readers recommended it: Deliberately doing only what's required and managing the appearance of busyness.

What readers reported: don't work so hard. honestly

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don't work so hard. honestly

source record 205♥ 43
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Do your job. Mind your own business. Smile. Be polite. Go home. Repeat.

posted about 62 days after the source♥ 1
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Silently building a side gig Plan B will give you the boost in quiet confidence at your main job.

posted about 57 days after the source♥ 0

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don't work so hard. honestly♥ 43source record 205
solid, except I stopped responding fast, when I observed that those people get the most quantity of work thrust at them and it never ends. Speedy responses aren't required if the work you do is A+. You'll still get respect and not burn out if you take your time to reply.♥ 6source record 297
Don’t do more than you’re asked because then you’ll always be given more work to do with no extra pay.♥ 3source record 395
Do your job. Mind your own business. Smile. Be polite. Go home. Repeat.♥ 1source record 413
Just do the bare minimum but do it well♥ 4source record 458
Everyone in the comments telling you exactly how to be miserable over time is what’s really getting me. Be likable=be fake. Be reliable=respond immediately & overwork yourself. So here’s some actual advice. ONLY do the work you are paid to do. Not more, not less.♥ 0source record 471
mmmm. my advice is don't. blend in with the middle of the pack. top performers get more work and little to no more pay. you do you tho boo.♥ 2source record 484
if being top performer in your company means more work, just don't do side, just tell noted until they just forgot about it, or when they do remember, just tell you priority the ongoing big project to give them a sense your busy asf♥ 0source record 492
I tell people that my 80% efficiency is actually my 100%. It allows me to work at a reasonable pace and usually I hit my 80% so to them it looks like I hit 100%. If I have the energy and bandwidth I’ll dazzle them with my actual 100%.♥ 4source record 509
Silently building a side gig Plan B will give you the boost in quiet confidence at your main job.♥ 0source record 556
Disengage…♥ 0source record 682
I’ve been a top performer fo a few years. I literally just clock in, meet my goals, don’t complain or ask dumb questions, and they for whatever reason love my bare minimum. It’s easy to stand out when most other people complain.♥ 0source record 720
Do the bare minimum when your first start, ask lots of questions, make it obvious you second guess yourself…. After 3 months, show that you’re getting the hang of it. But not enough to make everyone think you’re the star. Offer to stay back one or twice a month (but not every month) and say “ I’ll stay back to help team” “ take accountability ( make small mistakes but take it up to your manager and say “ I made this mistake while trying to achieve this goal. “ learn to fix and boom you get to help others who make it♥ 0source record 738

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Why boundaries matter (and when they don't)11 index entriesThe reasoning, disagreement, and real-world friction behind whether boundaries actually work.
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Why boundaries matter (and when they don't)

11 source records

Best for: Why boundaries matter (and when they don't)

Why readers recommended it: The reasoning, disagreement, and real-world friction behind whether boundaries actually work.

What readers reported: The people who constantly work late nights/weekends aren’t actually viewed as dedicated, they’re viewed as having poor time management skills. Do your work, do it very well, but do not make yourself look frantic

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The people who constantly work late nights/weekends aren’t actually viewed as dedicated, they’re viewed as having poor time management skills. Do your work, do it very well, but do not make yourself look frantic

source record 150♥ 27
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Yes you teach people how to treat you!

posted about 65 days after the source♥ 0
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Exactly what I came to say. There are boundaries and when you stick to them people respect that.

posted about 14 days after the source♥ 0

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Yeah but make sure you do this with boundaries otherwise it’ll burn you tf out 🫠♥ 0source record 37
Nope. Because then they take advantage on you and that because the expectation. Why pay you to do it when you just do it anyways.♥ 6source record 71
I’m going to have to respectfully disagree. Sometimes this can be used against you. And they can really take advantage. Setting boundaries and not being available all the time is so important it truly is♥ 6source record 79
I think I believe this too. This year was supposed to be super “intense” and we were told that performing at our job level would now be considered underperforming (message from the C suite). I told my boss that this kind of language wasn’t useful and I was going to disregard it. I was just going to focus on doing a good job and being a good teammate. My performance is solid without needing to buy in to corporate emotional terrorism. :)♥ 22source record 113
Yes you teach people how to treat you!♥ 0source record 126
agreed. If you do too much outside normal hours it will become expected. I was salaried working 70 hours a week. don't do it, life isn't about working all the time. great having money but no one to spend it on. you'll slowly lose your family♥ 1source record 134
That’s difficult to do when your work relies on other people completing their work and clients getting materials back to you in a timely manner. or when your manager is well aware of thinly you’re stretched, but can’t do anything about it bc the company won’t hire / admit the “restructure” wasn’t helpful.♥ 1source record 135
Exactly what I came to say. There are boundaries and when you stick to them people respect that.♥ 0source record 136
When someone replies to me at 8pm, i automatically think that they slacked off during the day and now making it up♥ 2source record 143
The people who constantly work late nights/weekends aren’t actually viewed as dedicated, they’re viewed as having poor time management skills. Do your work, do it very well, but do not make yourself look frantic♥ 27source record 150
Set work and home life boundaries.♥ 1source record 379

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The "too good to promote" trap9 index entriesWarnings that becoming indispensable in your current role can block advancement.
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The "too good to promote" trap

9 source records

Best for: The "too good to promote" trap

Why readers recommended it: Warnings that becoming indispensable in your current role can block advancement.

What readers reported: Strike a balance between being really good at your job and showing leadership/delegation skills. I’ve worked with mannnyy people who become invaluable in their work bc they’re so good that they don’t get promoted because they’re too needed in their role.

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Strike a balance between being really good at your job and showing leadership/delegation skills. I’ve worked with mannnyy people who become invaluable in their work bc they’re so good that they don’t get promoted because they’re too needed in their role.

source record 237♥ 533
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Being irreplaceable means you’re not promotable

posted about 64 days after the source♥ 1
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do the minimum and MAYBE a step beyond occasionally. the whole "work hard, go above and beyond, be reliable" is honestly bullsh*t. I did that and became "indispensable" and they wouldn't promote me because they wouldn't find anyone to replace me and do all the stuff I did.so they promoted someone else and wanted me to train them.

posted about 59 days after the source♥ 0

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this actually doesn't help though loll. you just get more work piled on and passed up for promotions because they want to have you do more work and not pay you anymore.♥ 4source record 32
This mentality is what will never earn more $$ or a promotion. As a company owner I have to grind 50-60 hour weeks all the time. (My choice.. I know). But when I see employees who match that level of dedication they stand out. Especially if they place themselves in critical roles. Those are the ones who move up the ladder.♥ 2source record 72
That’s not always the case. Have you ever heard of a short timeline? I’ve heard of teams who get data in for a project on Monday and are expected to have a report completed on Friday, when a typical project is 2-4 weeks.♥ 0source record 137
My husband was the top performer at his public accounting firm… stayed up all night 12am-4am. Billed 2000hrs (300k) in 8 months. Was constantly applauded for it. He’s leaving now because he just can’t do it anymore for such little pay and no OT, they are begging him to stay.♥ 0source record 138
Strike a balance between being really good at your job and showing leadership/delegation skills. I’ve worked with mannnyy people who become invaluable in their work bc they’re so good that they don’t get promoted because they’re too needed in their role.♥ 533source record 237
Being irreplaceable means you’re not promotable♥ 1source record 381
Being a top performer only gets you stuck in your current role♥ 3source record 450
do the minimum and MAYBE a step beyond occasionally. the whole "work hard, go above and beyond, be reliable" is honestly bullsh*t. I did that and became "indispensable" and they wouldn't promote me because they wouldn't find anyone to replace me and do all the stuff I did.so they promoted someone else and wanted me to train them.♥ 0source record 468
Learn & do your job well, but don’t make yourself irreplaceable, because management will never promote you out of that role. They would rather promote the low achieving co-worker or hire someone entirely new because training someone to do your ‘irreplaceable’ job costs them too much in time, money & continuity♥ 0source record 670

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Manage up49 records · 4 sub-topicsManage up — 49 items
Read and adapt to your boss14 index entriesStudying what a manager needs and mirroring their priorities and working style.
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Read and adapt to your boss

14 source records

Best for: Read and adapt to your boss

Why readers recommended it: Studying what a manager needs and mirroring their priorities and working style.

What readers reported: Be your boss’ or the company owner’s clone. The highest performer is the person that can handle business and solve problems in the same manner as the owner. Extra points if you can do it better than the owner.

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Be your boss’ or the company owner’s clone. The highest performer is the person that can handle business and solve problems in the same manner as the owner. Extra points if you can do it better than the owner.

source record 253♥ 92
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Manage up. I’ve seen the worst people selected for promotion - over much better internal candidates who were “heads down” focused on getting things done - because they managed up.

posted about 84 days after the source♥ 1
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this is a fun one, because if done correctly you get to tell your superiors how to act and what to expect. oddly, they like that

posted about 44 days after the source♥ 0

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Find out what is your boss’ boss pet project is and only wirk on that.♥ 13source record 49
this is a fun one, because if done correctly you get to tell your superiors how to act and what to expect. oddly, they like that♥ 0source record 78
Be your boss’ or the company owner’s clone. The highest performer is the person that can handle business and solve problems in the same manner as the owner. Extra points if you can do it better than the owner.♥ 92source record 253
1. Pay attention to types of questions your leaders ask, find the pattern - make sure to have answer to those before they ask. 2. Fingers tip metrics. Be prepared with and have your data/KPIs top of mind so you aren’t scrambling when asked.♥ 10source record 258
Seriously get in with a manager. Volunteer for something on the team.♥ 77source record 276
learn your boss's job and deadline, take a step before them and be sure your boss's boss knows about you♥ 7source record 279
Be a yes woman, get things done quick but RIGHT. Be extra helpful to the people that your boss likes/works with. People will talk about you when you’re not around so you should make sure they have good things to say.♥ 15source record 314
Also start reading your boss and understand what they think is important.♥ 1source record 334
Manage up. I’ve seen the worst people selected for promotion - over much better internal candidates who were “heads down” focused on getting things done - because they managed up.♥ 1source record 392
take nothing personally, bring a skill that your boss lacks, have a positive attitude, and create visibility to your work♥ 3source record 444
Say yes to it all. To the right people.♥ 1source record 533
Had a good relationship with my manager even tho I HATED the job duties(call center). Remained positive, was an over achiever & suddenly an opportunity 6 mo later, opened up for an admin position (no phones). And I initially did not apply cause I thought I was under-qualified, but she told me to apply. 2.5 years later now, im a supervisor for the whole call center, no phone, wfh, no micromanage and easiest position ever!♥ 7source record 549
Your boss has to like you♥ 0source record 561
Manage upward. Not everything should be an update ( an update could be an email). For upward level meetings, what are updates, what are areas of discussion, problem solving or asks. What do the sr folks need to know to make a decision.♥ 0source record 572

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Bring solutions, not problems13 index entriesThe specific and heavily repeated advice to never raise an issue without a proposed fix.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Bring solutions, not problems

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Bring solutions, not problems

13 source records

Best for: Bring solutions, not problems

Why readers recommended it: The specific and heavily repeated advice to never raise an issue without a proposed fix.

What readers reported: go to your boss with solutions, not problems. understand that you’re a filter for your boss - they don’t need to know everything you’re dealing with in your day-today, but the things they do need to know,…

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go to your boss with solutions, not problems. understand that you’re a filter for your boss - they don’t need to know everything you’re dealing with in your day-today, but the things they do need to know, should be framed as “I have done X because I noticed we were having X problem”. If you have regularly scheduled 1:1s, lead them and do that majority of the talking - that is your time to highlight the value you’re adding. if you have an online platform for personal development/performance reviews where you have to either make goals for yourself or enter activities related to your org’s goals, use it to map a chronological timeline of every project you worked on and the outcome, and quantify the value you added/savings you contributed to as if you’re interviewing for a better job, because you are, constantly.

source record 227♥ 807
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Come with a few solutions even if they aren’t correct instead of just problems. It’s exhausting when a team member only is problem problem, when it could be, thoughts on doing this? Trust, I’m an exec now bc I was able to do this early in my career. I didn’t just do and pass problems .

posted about 83 days after the source♥ 0
Zero-like source

Never just bring your boss problems, always bring solutions to that problem as well.

posted about 59 days after the source♥ 0

What the counts show

Within 13 source records, 3 ask a question and 0 explicitly say they intend to try the idea; neither signal is treated as an outcome.

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go to your boss with solutions, not problems. understand that you’re a filter for your boss - they don’t need to know everything you’re dealing with in your day-today, but the things they do need to know, should be framed as “I have done X because I noticed we were having X problem”. If you have regularly scheduled 1:1s, lead them and do that majority of the talking - that is your time to highlight the value you’re adding. if you have an online platform for personal development/performance reviews where you have to either make goals for yourself or enter activities related to your org’s goals, use it to map a chronological timeline of every project you worked on and the outcome, and quantify the value you added/savings you contributed to as if you’re interviewing for a better job, because you are, constantly.♥ 807source record 227
lol been there! I think if a problem is difficult or if making the wrong choice can have serious consequences, it’s good to go to your leader for guidance, but definitely a better idea to narrow it down to a couple potential solutions before bringing it to them. kinda just implies that you respect their time♥ 1source record 229
I recently made the mistake of using my boss to verbally brain storm a problem and she got SOOO annoyed. Never again.♥ 4source record 230
This is how I’ve made it to the top. Also sometimes present options to choose from so they feel like they’re still controlling situations♥ 10source record 234
Manage up. If you’re communicating with someone more sr, dont just bring problems - offer possible solutions. Seek out and learn to take and act on feedback - especially hard feedback.♥ 22source record 259
When you have a problem and need to raise it with your manager to get support, make sure to also present three or more different suggestions for how to solve it. That way, the manager can simply choose which approach you should proceed with — and you will be appreciated for not placing the problem on their desk without offering solutions.♥ 4source record 445
go to meet with potential solutions, not just the problems♥ 4source record 461
Bring solutions not problems♥ 1source record 528
As a manager someone who is self sufficient and can naturally problem solve and only ask for help when it’s absolutely necessary will get all the raises…. also come to one on ones with solutions to problems♥ 2source record 529
Come with a few solutions even if they aren’t correct instead of just problems. It’s exhausting when a team member only is problem problem, when it could be, thoughts on doing this? Trust, I’m an exec now bc I was able to do this early in my career. I didn’t just do and pass problems .♥ 0source record 591
Never just bring your boss problems, always bring solutions to that problem as well.♥ 0source record 618
Never go to your boss with a problem that you don’t have a possible solution for: “Here is what happened. I suggest we do X. Do you agree?” The boss doesn’t have to problem solve for you. You have taken the initiative.♥ 0source record 622
figure out what problems keep your boss’ boss up at night. find solutions. present them / work through them and show your initiative♥ 0source record 700

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Be visibly responsive and communicative12 index entriesChecking in, replying fast, and proactively reporting progress to whoever reviews you.
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Be visibly responsive and communicative

12 source records

Best for: Be visibly responsive and communicative

Why readers recommended it: Checking in, replying fast, and proactively reporting progress to whoever reviews you.

What readers reported: I’m a CEO and here is how I evaluate employees. 1. Be on time always. 2. Listen to what upper management/c level says. If something is important to us, make sure YOU are the one who gets that done, and fast. 3. Respond FAST.…

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I’m a CEO and here is how I evaluate employees. 1. Be on time always. 2. Listen to what upper management/c level says. If something is important to us, make sure YOU are the one who gets that done, and fast. 3. Respond FAST. If we message you and you respond fast always then we assume you’re working. 4. Find out what makes us more $$ then do that on top of regular work. Then let us know about it. “Hey I saw we needed this done, so I did it what do you think? Don’t worry I still did everything else like normal”. Continue to do this over time and I would view you as a valuable employee who which I don’t want to lose. Likely offering to pay more, promote, etc

source record 296♥ 12
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Respond to your bosses emails quickly. Participate in meetings, chats or discussions

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
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As a female CEO with 850 team members, the best ones are the ones who get their job done and are pleasant to be around. And yes, do it LOUDLY. Communicate what you’ve accomplished so I don’t have to follow up. I can trust you’ve got it handled and will update me when you need to.

posted about 58 days after the source♥ 0

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The exact phrase “my boss doesnt” recurs across 2 of the 12 source records in Be visibly responsive and communicative; the complete archive stays available below.

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I’m a CEO and here is how I evaluate employees. 1. Be on time always. 2. Listen to what upper management/c level says. If something is important to us, make sure YOU are the one who gets that done, and fast. 3. Respond FAST. If we message you and you respond fast always then we assume you’re working. 4. Find out what makes us more $$ then do that on top of regular work. Then let us know about it. “Hey I saw we needed this done, so I did it what do you think? Don’t worry I still did everything else like normal”. Continue to do this over time and I would view you as a valuable employee who which I don’t want to lose. Likely offering to pay more, promote, etc♥ 12source record 296
i check in with my boss every 90 days, an informal 1 on 1 I guess and he eats it up♥ 0source record 470
my big boss doesn't like emails he preferred if people talked face to face.... so I stopped sending emails and went on the floor talking face to face w people to get my problems solved♥ 2source record 524
Respond to your bosses emails quickly. Participate in meetings, chats or discussions♥ 0source record 577
Stack rank every list you put in front of your boss- the most important thing should always be the first thing they see♥ 0source record 587
As a female CEO with 850 team members, the best ones are the ones who get their job done and are pleasant to be around. And yes, do it LOUDLY. Communicate what you’ve accomplished so I don’t have to follow up. I can trust you’ve got it handled and will update me when you need to.♥ 0source record 593
Make sure you are seen as responsive and reliable to the people who’s input goes toward your performance review.♥ 1source record 595
Talk to your boss daily, period♥ 0source record 624
Checking in without brown nosing is the realest thing to climbbbb♥ 0source record 635
Some things i wish all my direct reports would do: be on time to meetings, propose new times if you have meeting conflicts, always ask 'how are you?', share positive news to your manager more than you bring complaints or problems, over communicate, volunteer every now and then (that's the big one), speak up positively in meetings & chats, use email signature on replies, use proper grammar on emails, reply to all emails within 24 hours (when in office), respond to all chats within 30 min (when in office), share something fun about yourself every now and then to show you're relatable.♥ 0source record 638
My boss doesn’t really “manage” me. I get work done and report everything to her. Even if it’s something small, I tell her. She thinks I’m a total rockstar. Whenever I get an email from one of our managers, I get a popup. They are taken care of first, always. They know I’m dependable and competent. And I put myself out there as much as possible, my name is known and if my name is attached to something it’s going to be perfect. No exceptions. Also don’t be afraid to ask for her if you need it, but only after exploring every option you can drum up first.♥ 0source record 690
Allow your boss to rely on you. My boss doesn't reach out to me anymore bc I kept my ducks in a line no matter what and every follow up meeting I had an answer to every question. I update him on my own time even if he doesn't ask for it so that he knows I'm there. Crack jokes with people that matter- your manager, a VP, CEO, whatever. If they like you, they will talk about you! & lastly, I recommend helping your coworkers. If someone is training, be there for them. Guide them & attend the annoying meetings bc again, people who like you will praise you during normal work talk convos... I started off not doing too much but now I have many valuable relationships and am tasked with things that help me grow! I got 2 raises within the last year as well & they were big chunks. Wishing you luck friend 🫶🏻♥ 0source record 710

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Make your boss look good10 index entriesFraming your own success around making your manager look competent to their own boss.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Make your boss look good

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Make your boss look good

10 source records

Best for: Make your boss look good

Why readers recommended it: Framing your own success around making your manager look competent to their own boss.

What readers reported: Make your boss look good. That is the only hack

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Make your boss look good. That is the only hack

source record 46♥ 7,326
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Manage up to your leader and always take work off their plate. Delegate things that are time consuming for you and come easy to others.

posted about 62 days after the source♥ 1
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Always make your direct supervisor look like everything good is because them. ALWAYS act happy. Never show your real mood.

posted about 18 days after the source♥ 0

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Across 10 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Remove a step” (2 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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Make your boss look good. That is the only hack♥ 7,326source record 46
Then they don’t promote you they keep you where you are to keep making them look good♥ 134source record 47
nah, they get promoted because you made them look good and they bring you right along.♥ 12source record 48
When your boss thinks about you, it has to be in a “you make my life easier kind of way”. Your boss should never think about you and sigh or grunt. Don’t cause work for your boss. Take work away from your boss, make it easy for your boss.♥ 841source record 107
Remember that your boss has a boss. Your boss has fears too. They want to look good too. When an opportunity comes up to help with those take them. You will build a better connection which will make it easier to influence those around you.♥ 20source record 280
Manage up to your leader and always take work off their plate. Delegate things that are time consuming for you and come easy to others.♥ 1source record 409
Do the work you boss hates doing♥ 3source record 438
The only thing I've seen work is if you and the team get along well (both of you have to vibe), if you make your boss look good, and if you understand the politics well enough to get promoted. bonus: find ways to make your tasks more streamlined so its easy for you only. other than that, there isn't much you can do.♥ 1source record 477
the ONLY thing that matters is pleasing the person directly responsible for your performance evaluations and promotions (usually your manager). figure out what that takes and ALWAYS make sure that person is pleased with you and everything else will be fine♥ 1source record 478
Always make your direct supervisor look like everything good is because them. ALWAYS act happy. Never show your real mood.♥ 0source record 734

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Automation and tools31 records · 4 sub-topicsAutomation and tools — 31 items
Personal organization systems10 index entriesTo-do lists, notebooks, calendar blocking, and virtual assistants for staying on top of work.
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Personal organization systems

10 source records

Best for: Personal organization systems

Why readers recommended it: To-do lists, notebooks, calendar blocking, and virtual assistants for staying on top of work.

What readers reported: Write down 3 things that MUST get done for that day.

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Write down 3 things that MUST get done for that day.

source record 302♥ 16
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Schedule private meetings for yourself for 30 minutes everyday. Catch up on emails, organize yourself, prep for upcoming things, declutter desktop, make checklists in priority order, bonus if you can stretch your legs or grab some fresh air

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
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Read tribal leadership by Dave Logan, John King and Halee Fischer-wright

posted about 56 days after the source♥ 0

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Across 10 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Move memory outside the brain” (5 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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Write down 3 things that MUST get done for that day.♥ 16source record 302
Every morning I have 30 min dedicated to just setting myself up for the day: my top tasks, getting my desk set up with what I need etc. Then I have another 30 min dedicated to wrapping up emails, brain dumping for the next day, etc. I may not always get to everything but having that block in my cal is a great reminder!♥ 7source record 327
Pay 500 buck a year for a virtual assistant you have no idea how much it helps♥ 10source record 347
Read tribal leadership by Dave Logan, John King and Halee Fischer-wright♥ 0source record 475
Create a calendar tap for every deadline and block out time on your calendar to work on deadlines.♥ 3source record 512
Schedule private meetings for yourself for 30 minutes everyday. Catch up on emails, organize yourself, prep for upcoming things, declutter desktop, make checklists in priority order, bonus if you can stretch your legs or grab some fresh air♥ 0source record 548
A physical to-do list. You than can keep track of not only all the things you cover but the work others leave for you to clean up and then take that to your review and hand the a book of why you deserve the raise♥ 0source record 575
everytime i have a thought about something i need to do or remember, i physically write it down in a notebook. and i mean every single thought. i look over the notebook every friday and highlight the most important ones or add steps to my routine to incorporate them. i cross them out as they get done. repeat.♥ 0source record 610
Use OneNote and save literally EVERYTHING in there. NEVER repeat a thought process, never duplicate effort. If it took you ten mins of googling to figure something out, save your steps so you don’t ever have to do that again. If you think you might wonder “why did I make this decision?” a year later, WRITE IT DOWN. Whether it saves you an hour a month, or five minutes twice a year, WRITE IT DOWN (with good keywords so it’s searchable later)♥ 0source record 661
One note♥ 0source record 686

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Excel and spreadsheet mastery9 index entriesBecoming the office's go-to spreadsheet expert as a career tactic.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Excel and spreadsheet mastery

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Excel and spreadsheet mastery

9 source records

Best for: Excel and spreadsheet mastery

Why readers recommended it: Becoming the office's go-to spreadsheet expert as a career tactic.

What readers reported: Because most people can’t use it to its full potential and once you can people will be coming to you asking for help like crazy. You’ll become very valuable

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Because most people can’t use it to its full potential and once you can people will be coming to you asking for help like crazy. You’ll become very valuable

source record 52♥ 73
Later-arriving source

Be the SME. Excel expert. Be nice but unshakable.

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 1
Zero-like source

Nix the paper to do list and use an excel workbook instead. One of the columns has the current status of all your items, another has the due date, and another the completed date. Boom-now use those metrics!

posted about 56 days after the source♥ 0

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Within 9 source records, 1 explicitly report a benefit and 0 explicitly report a limit or failure. These are attributed experiences, not effectiveness data.

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Because most people can’t use it to its full potential and once you can people will be coming to you asking for help like crazy. You’ll become very valuable♥ 73source record 52
Master excel. Then automate task. 😎😎♥ 28source record 193
I bought some from Etsy but addapted to my specifical needs using their formulas and layouts. It really helped me, there are bunch of them for VA, HR, Payroll etc♥ 1source record 287
Be the SME. Excel expert. Be nice but unshakable.♥ 1source record 384
Excel♥ 2source record 485
Honestly learn excel and use the pre existing templates on there… my bosses think I’m some excel wiz when I’m jsut copying templates and adding one or two formulas♥ 2source record 487
Nix the paper to do list and use an excel workbook instead. One of the columns has the current status of all your items, another has the due date, and another the completed date. Boom-now use those metrics!♥ 0source record 565
Be super good at excel! There are so many people that can’t do it♥ 0source record 627
Learn excel♥ 0source record 737

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Automate the repetitive stuff7 index entriesMacros, automation tools, and meeting-recording apps that eliminate manual busywork.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Automate the repetitive stuff

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Automate the repetitive stuff

7 source records

Best for: Automate the repetitive stuff

Why readers recommended it: Macros, automation tools, and meeting-recording apps that eliminate manual busywork.

What readers reported: I use the Playbacks app to record meetings and interactions. It summarize’s everything for me so I can reference it later🙌🏻

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I use the Playbacks app to record meetings and interactions. It summarize’s everything for me so I can reference it later🙌🏻

source record 323♥ 9
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I use playbacks to record my meetings and it takes notes and transcribes them for me. It gives me more time to get stuff done and I can be more present in meetings!

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
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AUTOMATE👏🏼 I started using the playbacks app and it blows my mind that more people don’t know about it. Every time I show anyone how helpful it is they are picking their jaw up off the floor😭

posted about 44.9 hours after the source♥ 0

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Across 7 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Create a default” (4 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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I use the Playbacks app to record meetings and interactions. It summarize’s everything for me so I can reference it later🙌🏻♥ 9source record 323
Automate your tasks if you can♥ 6source record 335
automate everything♥ 9source record 340
Try creating macros for repetative tasks♥ 0source record 343
I use playbacks to record my meetings and it takes notes and transcribes them for me. It gives me more time to get stuff done and I can be more present in meetings!♥ 0source record 590
AUTOMATE👏🏼 I started using the playbacks app and it blows my mind that more people don’t know about it. Every time I show anyone how helpful it is they are picking their jaw up off the floor😭♥ 0source record 609
Automate💯♥ 0source record 722

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Lean on AI tools5 index entriesUsing ChatGPT, AI feedback tools, and prompt engineering to work faster.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Lean on AI tools

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Lean on AI tools

5 source records

Best for: Lean on AI tools

Why readers recommended it: Using ChatGPT, AI feedback tools, and prompt engineering to work faster.

What readers reported: If you don’t know how to do it, lean on chat gpt while delicately fact checking. People like it if they don’t have to hold your hand.

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If you don’t know how to do it, lean on chat gpt while delicately fact checking. People like it if they don’t have to hold your hand.

source record 434♥ 3
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Train a Gemini Gem with information that would help you day to day. Literally a personal assistant.

posted about 60 days after the source♥ 0
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learn prompt engineering..... I do more in less time and the boomer brains are blownnnnn

posted about 50 days after the source♥ 0

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This report keeps all 5 source records for Lean on AI tools together and surfaces traceable examples without converting anecdotes into proof.

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If you don’t know how to do it, lean on chat gpt while delicately fact checking. People like it if they don’t have to hold your hand.♥ 3source record 434
Use AI to give you feedback on your work.♥ 1source record 513
Learn AI♥ 1source record 530
Train a Gemini Gem with information that would help you day to day. Literally a personal assistant.♥ 0source record 579
learn prompt engineering..... I do more in less time and the boomer brains are blownnnnn♥ 0source record 748

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Appearance and composure18 records · 2 sub-topicsAppearance and composure — 18 items
Dress the part and move with polish9 index entriesWardrobe choices, posture, and polished presentation materials as performance signals.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Dress the part and move with polish

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Dress the part and move with polish

9 source records

Best for: Dress the part and move with polish

Why readers recommended it: Wardrobe choices, posture, and polished presentation materials as performance signals.

What readers reported: 1. Vocabulary should be very rich 2. Outfits should be very in point, keep one pair of heels under your desk !

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1. Vocabulary should be very rich 2. Outfits should be very in point, keep one pair of heels under your desk !

source record 336♥ 13
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Dress for the part you want. Offer solutions where you see gaps. Make the proposals and deliverables you give to anyone, the best quality because it’s your brand. Agendas, documents, slide decks- all of them need to be top tier graphics. Canva has tons of templates if you aren’t creative. 😀

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
Zero-like source

Dress for the job you want, not the job you have!

posted about 36 days after the source♥ 0

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The exact phrase “dress better than your” recurs across 2 of the 9 source records in Dress the part and move with polish; the complete archive stays available below.

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1. Vocabulary should be very rich 2. Outfits should be very in point, keep one pair of heels under your desk !♥ 13source record 336
Wear glasses in meetings♥ 3source record 422
Walk fast everywhere♥ 2source record 519
Oh, and this is further enhanced by wearing a super cute outfit. Give them something cute to look at and I think you’ve won half the day. Ask ppl about their kids and remember the names of the kids and the pets. They love that. Personality hires are hires all the same.♥ 0source record 526
Dress for the part you want. Offer solutions where you see gaps. Make the proposals and deliverables you give to anyone, the best quality because it’s your brand. Agendas, documents, slide decks- all of them need to be top tier graphics. Canva has tons of templates if you aren’t creative. 😀♥ 0source record 560
Dress for the job you want, not the job you have!♥ 0source record 602
Look the part no matter what & have confidence♥ 0source record 616
Dress better than your peers♥ 0source record 639
Dress better than your coworkers .be very concise in your presentations. Answer questions directly and if you don’t know, something say you’ll find out.♥ 0source record 658

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Grooming and physical discipline as signals9 index entriesMakeup, fitness, and personal-care discipline read by others as competence and control.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Grooming and physical discipline as signals

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Grooming and physical discipline as signals

9 source records

Best for: Grooming and physical discipline as signals

Why readers recommended it: Makeup, fitness, and personal-care discipline read by others as competence and control.

What readers reported: As a woman, wear makeup. There are studies that confirm that women who wear makeup to work are more likely to get promoted and earn more.

◐ Mixed evidenceEvidence is mixed: Research supports parts of this claim, not the full causal conclusion. A face-rating experiment found that cosmetics can raise perceived competence, and observational labor research links grooming with earnings. Neither establishes that wearing makeup causes promotions or higher pay, and the cosmetics experiment disclosed P&G funding. Sources: LABOUR — beauty, personality, grooming and earnings study · PubMed — cosmetics and perceived competence experiment

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As a woman, wear makeup. There are studies that confirm that women who wear makeup to work are more likely to get promoted and earn more.

source record 58♥ 2,463
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yeah I feel like in tech it's looked down upon to wear much makeup bc more feminine = looked down upon but there's other fields in business where it's like this unspoken competition among the ladies for how "put together" you can look with makeup/hair/fake tan game

posted about 58 days after the source♥ 0
Zero-like source

There are some recent studies that found people listen and believe others when they’re in shape take care of themselves/well groomed

posted about 49 days after the source♥ 0

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This report keeps all 9 source records for Grooming and physical discipline as signals together and surfaces traceable examples without converting anecdotes into proof.

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As a woman, wear makeup. There are studies that confirm that women who wear makeup to work are more likely to get promoted and earn more.♥ 2,463source record 58↑ Open the fact-check
It’s ok, I didn’t start wearing makeup until my fourth promotion lol you got this♥ 21source record 60
So all I wear is mascara and I make 6 figures. Not too sure about this one.♥ 1source record 62
yeah I feel like in tech it's looked down upon to wear much makeup bc more feminine = looked down upon but there's other fields in business where it's like this unspoken competition among the ladies for how "put together" you can look with makeup/hair/fake tan game♥ 0source record 63
become very disciplined with your fitness and health. when you value yourself people automatically value you more.♥ 1,373source record 87
MOST people cannot be disciplined enough to create a routine. A person that respects themselves enough to prioritize themselves over everything, even work are looked at someone who has control, discipline and structure. All qualities that are coveted in business. You automatically become more valuable and trusted. It’s hard to knock someone off their throne when they have complete confidence in themselves.♥ 28source record 89
I think because on the outside it looks like you have discipline. It takes discipline to eat healthy, work out, stay fit, etc.♥ 16source record 90
There are some recent studies that found people listen and believe others when they’re in shape take care of themselves/well groomed♥ 0source record 91
3. Always smile with a bit of hurry on your steps 🥰 4. Repeat often that♥ 2source record 337

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Inbox and email tactics57 records · 4 sub-topicsInbox and email tactics — 57 items
Scheduling emails to fake the clock18 index entriesUsing delayed-send to make replies look like they went out earlier or later than they really did.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Scheduling emails to fake the clock

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Scheduling emails to fake the clock

18 source records

Best for: Scheduling emails to fake the clock

Why readers recommended it: Using delayed-send to make replies look like they went out earlier or later than they really did.

What readers reported: one of my old bosses said that sometimes out of work hours emails could read as "i have bad time management and couldn't do this in my 8 hours" so I suppose consider your own work environment! she suggested instead to schedule emails for the start of your shi…

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one of my old bosses said that sometimes out of work hours emails could read as "i have bad time management and couldn't do this in my 8 hours" so I suppose consider your own work environment! she suggested instead to schedule emails for the start of your shift so it appears you're immediately on top of things

source record 129♥ 13
Later-arriving source

I would delay emails to 5 o’clock in the morning, so it looks like on the top of the morning person

posted about 62 days after the source♥ 1
Zero-like source

Schedule send a bunch of emails for a certain chunk of time you don’t want to do anything

posted about 55 days after the source♥ 0

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What the counts show

Across 18 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Create a default” (14 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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one of my old bosses said that sometimes out of work hours emails could read as "i have bad time management and couldn't do this in my 8 hours" so I suppose consider your own work environment! she suggested instead to schedule emails for the start of your shift so it appears you're immediately on top of things♥ 13source record 129
Schedule emails in advance to make it look like you’re working earlier or later♥ 5source record 274
If you have a bunch of emails to respond to, time them on a delayed send schedule so that they’re consistently throughout the day vs all at one time. Trust♥ 8source record 281
I would delay emails to 5 o’clock in the morning, so it looks like on the top of the morning person♥ 1source record 376
Schedule send emails so I can sleep in♥ 1source record 397
Schedule emails that can wait to send at 6am or after hours 😂♥ 4source record 451
Schedule send emails I promise♥ 0source record 466
You don't have to answer emails late at night anymore... just do schedule send emails to be sent for late at night or early morning...let technology work for you 😂♥ 0source record 474
Schedule a “Good morning!” message in slack 10 mins before you’re scheduled to start the day. Add “tech tips” to be extra annoying.♥ 1source record 481
1. Accept help when offered and give credit to those who help you. 2. Don’t send all your emails right away- save some non urgent ones in your drafts to send when you’re about to end the day, taken a long break, or just gotten online to make it look like you’ve been more productive♥ 2source record 516
So much good advice in the comments. Instead of sending emails late, for emails you get later in the day, schedule your replies to go out between 5-7 am the next morning. Your response rate will go up because you’ll be top of inboxes.♥ 0source record 631
schedule send emails♥ 0source record 642
Schedule emails in advance with outlook.♥ 0source record 672
Schedule send a bunch of emails for a certain chunk of time you don’t want to do anything♥ 0source record 678
Do NOT answer emails at night. If anything, answer them and have the delay delivery on to early the next morning. Upper management wants to see your time as efficient, not that it’s cutting in to your off hours.♥ 0source record 739
schedule emails to go out the next morning at 7:30, 7:32, 7:35, and 7:41 am. now it looks like you were actually working early.♥ 0source record 744
General tip: do not answer emails late at night. You’re not fooling anyone and everybody rolls their eyes when they get that from you.♥ 0source record 745
Instead of sending emails late at night – because this makes you look like you’re not able to manage your time appropriately. Schedule emails to go out very early in the morning!♥ 0source record 750

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Answer fast, every time16 index entriesStraightforward advice to reply to messages as quickly as possible.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Answer fast, every time

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Answer fast, every time

16 source records

Best for: Answer fast, every time

Why readers recommended it: Straightforward advice to reply to messages as quickly as possible.

What readers reported: Learn to manage up and being insanely responsive…. Even if it’s a simple “received will get to you end of day” type reply!

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Learn to manage up and being insanely responsive…. Even if it’s a simple “received will get to you end of day” type reply!

source record 77♥ 2,083
Later-arriving source

Also a corporate HR Director and this is the way.

posted about 58 days after the source♥ 1
Zero-like source

Set key word notifications so you always just so happen to be the first one to reply to messages that matter most

posted about 20 days after the source♥ 0

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The exact phrase “even if you dont” recurs across 2 of the 16 source records in Answer fast, every time; the complete archive stays available below.

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Learn to manage up and being insanely responsive…. Even if it’s a simple “received will get to you end of day” type reply!♥ 2,083source record 77
Biggest advice ever. Being quick to email back is huge♥ 2source record 80
I’ve had a few positions where I didn’t have enough work to keep me busy so I made my job to be “keep my teams availability green at all times during working hours”. I would respond to anyone that messaged me almost immediately and have been told I’m one of the most responsive and reliable employees by a few managers. 😆♥ 51source record 81
This one right here. Majority of the work is email.♥ 69source record 82
Be responsive and connect♥ 2source record 189
Get back to people within 24 hours. Be responsive. Even if you don't have an answer, respond with a time that you will be able to provide what they are asking for. It will catapult you to the top. I'm a Corporate HR Director. This is the secret sauce.♥ 25source record 241
Also a corporate HR Director and this is the way.♥ 1source record 242
Inbox 0. Answer everything as quick as it comes in. Fast response times make people feel like they can trust you.♥ 3source record 426
I have my 5 most important people colour coded so emails from them are quick to spot. Responsiveness pays off even if your response is “I’ll get back to you on this tomorrow”♥ 3source record 448
Be the first one email/ sending out information to colleagues in the day. Have the people around you responding to you rather than feeling the pressure of responding to everyone else.♥ 2source record 482
Be responsive. It doesn’t have to be outside your work hours. In fact those boundaries are important imo but be prompt with email responses and genuinely look into potential resolutions when you run into a problem. Also ask questions if you’re unsure, don’t just assume.♥ 1source record 488
If it takes 2 mins or less, do it then, if it takes more time, block if off on your calendar and dedicate the time, but always reply immediately to everything so you appear reliable and responsive.♥ 0source record 601
answer every email immediately♥ 0source record 657
replying on teams quickly lol♥ 0source record 691
Respond to emails, call, texts or chats quickly even if you don’t get the work done right away. Getting back to people quickly takes you far.♥ 0source record 694
Set key word notifications so you always just so happen to be the first one to reply to messages that matter most♥ 0source record 716

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Inbox systems: folders, filters, templates16 index entriesStructural tools like folders, filters, and canned replies for managing high email volume.
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Inbox systems: folders, filters, templates

16 source records

Best for: Inbox systems: folders, filters, templates

Why readers recommended it: Structural tools like folders, filters, and canned replies for managing high email volume.

What readers reported: I do the zero inbox method. There’s a folder for everything and only action items stay in my inbox until resolved. Then they get moved to their respective folders. Did this with 5 different inboxes at my last job and my inbox for college stuff

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I do the zero inbox method. There’s a folder for everything and only action items stay in my inbox until resolved. Then they get moved to their respective folders. Did this with 5 different inboxes at my last job and my inbox for college stuff

source record 209♥ 1,065
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Same! I teach this to anyone I train, as well as keeping a "holding area" in the computer files. Emails that contained a file that must be tended to get the file saved in that hilding area. I can then file the email away in prospective folder. No attachment to tend to? It stays in my inbox until I can get to it, as mentioned by you. At any given time, I am doing two or sonetimes three positions, and it is the only way I've kept my sanity. Barely lol.

posted about 61 days after the source♥ 0
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email filters have been a huge help for me and are pretty basic to set up

posted about 57 days after the source♥ 0

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The exact phrase “in my inbox until” recurs across 2 of the 16 source records in Inbox systems: folders, filters, templates; the complete archive stays available below.

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I do the zero inbox method. There’s a folder for everything and only action items stay in my inbox until resolved. Then they get moved to their respective folders. Did this with 5 different inboxes at my last job and my inbox for college stuff♥ 1,065source record 209
I did this from day 1 in my previous office job. If I were to do it with thousands of read emails in my inbox, I’d put all of those emails into a folder titled “Before DATE” then just create folders for new emails that come in!♥ 26source record 212
I had a folder for everyone on my team. I also had folders for the different accounts I managed and sub folders for order confirmations etc. Folder for Mgmt and HR. Folder for accounting/deposits. Folder for just about everything and made finding old emails really easy!♥ 9source record 215
Create rules and ask that it skin and reog all emails♥ 1source record 216
Same! I teach this to anyone I train, as well as keeping a "holding area" in the computer files. Emails that contained a file that must be tended to get the file saved in that hilding area. I can then file the email away in prospective folder. No attachment to tend to? It stays in my inbox until I can get to it, as mentioned by you. At any given time, I am doing two or sonetimes three positions, and it is the only way I've kept my sanity. Barely lol.♥ 0source record 220
lol I have a folder called “to do” where every email is categorized into “completed” “in process” or “not started” once complete it gets moved into its proper folder depending on the project. An organized inbox is my first form of happiness. Also, write down everything you do in a day, I don’t send it to anyone I keep it saved. It works wonders when your boss wants a performance report or for end of year reviews, I forgot most of the projects I do and can never remember when it comes to review time.♥ 0source record 223
I use the red category email for any emails I’m waiting for a follow up on. When I receive a resolution, they get untagged. Filter by category & send follow ups weekly.♥ 792source record 246
Outlook templates. If you send a lot of the same emails then you can create templates for them which saves you a lot of time from typing them out every time.♥ 6source record 317
Use your email as a running to do list! Categorize and color code by client/task/project, etc. I do this and have a follow up folder with anything I’n waiting on answer on, and Bcc myself in the reply. With that, Im visually able to see if I’m waiting for a reply or if the person I’m contacting has already written back.♥ 8source record 345
Quick parts on emails saves me♥ 89source record 360
No it’s still there! You highlight the text then go to insert and quick parts is there♥ 0source record 362
I used to love this on the old outlook but when I moved to the new outlook it seems to have lost this feature?♥ 0source record 363
If you use outlook look up quick parts. It’s where if you use the same blurb a lot you can use a key word and type it for it to be entered into your email body.♥ 51source record 366
Inbox zero<3♥ 2source record 518
email filters have been a huge help for me and are pretty basic to set up♥ 0source record 567
I set reminders on emails I want to follow up on, even if I sent♥ 1source record 600

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Tone, phrasing, and email etiquette7 index entriesHow to word emails and react to them, from terse phrasing to emoji acknowledgments.
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Tone, phrasing, and email etiquette

7 source records

Best for: Tone, phrasing, and email etiquette

Why readers recommended it: How to word emails and react to them, from terse phrasing to emoji acknowledgments.

What readers reported: start responding to emails like white middle-aged man. no thank you, no please, no how are you. straight to the point. I saw that advise two years ago and started doing that. the best decision ever

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start responding to emails like white middle-aged man. no thank you, no please, no how are you. straight to the point. I saw that advise two years ago and started doing that. the best decision ever

source record 146♥ 1,721
Later-arriving source

“I hear you, I see you” is our motto at work. An acknowledged email goes a long way even if you don’t have the answers right away. I also never say no, it’s always “I’ll find out”!

posted about 77 days after the source♥ 2
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I don't put exclamation points in my emails.

posted about 52 days after the source♥ 0

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Across 7 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Turn it into a game” (2 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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start responding to emails like white middle-aged man. no thank you, no please, no how are you. straight to the point. I saw that advise two years ago and started doing that. the best decision ever♥ 1,721source record 146
I do get this but honestly I don’t think this makes them a top performer, it just makes them rude. If someone doesn’t put a please in an email asking to do something it makes me think they’re lazy…♥ 497source record 147
As a manager, I have way too much work to spend time proving that I like my employees in every email (I show them in other ways throughout the year of course). Work is a place to do just that: perform a job to receive money to fund your life. Why do you have the need to insert emotions and feelings into that? Personal emotions and feelings belong outside of work, in your personal life, to be shared with friends/family. Coworkers/managers should not be bundled into your “friend group” as they are not your friends. They are people you work with, not people you have chosen to be your friends. Keeping your work and your emotions separate is what is called work/life balance. You don’t let your work have a negative affect on your outside life. Also, stop letting what people think of you bother you. As long as you work hard, do the best job that you can possibly do with the resources you have, and focus on work instead of personal life while at work, then stop worrying about what people (even your manager) thinks of you. Go home to your friends/family for that; they are the ones who matter most.♥ 3source record 148
Heart emails that you receive or are cc’d on when you wouldn’t normally respond. I think a simple heart goes a long way, it’s friendly and shows you actually check your emails and are actively engaged in the workspace.♥ 94source record 201
If you use outlook, click the smiley face next to the reply button and select one of the emoji’s. There’s a thumbs up, heart, confetti, laugh, surprised, and sad. I mainly use the heart or the confetti for something exciting.♥ 0source record 203
“I hear you, I see you” is our motto at work. An acknowledged email goes a long way even if you don’t have the answers right away. I also never say no, it’s always “I’ll find out”!♥ 2source record 390
I don't put exclamation points in my emails.♥ 0source record 660

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Fill unowned gaps35 records · 3 sub-topicsFill unowned gaps — 35 items
Spot the gap and just fill it17 index entriesProactively taking on unowned work and building the systems nobody else will.
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Spot the gap and just fill it

17 source records

Best for: Spot the gap and just fill it

Why readers recommended it: Proactively taking on unowned work and building the systems nobody else will.

What readers reported: i became a director before 30, genuinely the best thing you can do is look for gaps in the business and proactively fill them. solve your manager’s problems or leadership’s problems, especially money related ones. and do it LOUDLY,…

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i became a director before 30, genuinely the best thing you can do is look for gaps in the business and proactively fill them. solve your manager’s problems or leadership’s problems, especially money related ones. and do it LOUDLY, tell everyone you’re doing it, make sure everyone knows you’re indispensable

source record 153♥ 201
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Teach yourself everything about your company’s benefit packages and then pass that knowledge down to your coworkers who don’t have the time or patience or whatever to research stuff like that for themselves. I am now considered my departments “wellbeing advocate” lol

posted about 64 days after the source♥ 1
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Notice the problems everyone on your team is facing and go the extra mile to create systems to fix those problems / make them easier to deal with

posted about 58 days after the source♥ 0

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Within 17 source records, 1 explicitly report a benefit and 0 explicitly report a limit or failure. These are attributed experiences, not effectiveness data.

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Fill the gap: find the one thing no else does (that brings value) and then excel at that.♥ 185source record 102
i became a director before 30, genuinely the best thing you can do is look for gaps in the business and proactively fill them. solve your manager’s problems or leadership’s problems, especially money related ones. and do it LOUDLY, tell everyone you’re doing it, make sure everyone knows you’re indispensable♥ 201source record 153
I tried doing this and my boss did not like it lmfao she felt super threatened by it and started to belittle me. She changed all my responsibilities to entry level responsibilities. I have Ptsd from being proactive like this haha♥ 2source record 154
This. I went from being a senior project manager, to VP of Operations (with a few titles in between) by solving problems/gaps, being proactive, and reliable. The only thing different is I did everything quietly, and my bosses always made sure to let everyone know it was me. I’m still the fix it person for everyone.♥ 4source record 155
Be okay at your job and develop a reputation of taking on tasks nobody wants to do (do it well too)♥ 35source record 157
take on initiatives. find gaps and ask for ownership, and help leadership with their projects.♥ 22source record 300
1. Identify and fill meaningful gaps. You learn more, expand your role and contacts, and show broader systems thinking. 2. Integrity matters. Never over promise and under perform. 3. Relationships are critical.♥ 30source record 306
Process improvement in anything you do or touch.♥ 2source record 378
Literally just do the thing instead of running it past your manager first♥ 1source record 386
Teach yourself everything about your company’s benefit packages and then pass that knowledge down to your coworkers who don’t have the time or patience or whatever to research stuff like that for themselves. I am now considered my departments “wellbeing advocate” lol♥ 1source record 410
Predict needs and assignments ahead - identify what needs to be done, bring it up to your boss, volunteer a timeline that you can do comfortably, and execute cleanly and efficiently.♥ 0source record 417
Take initiative of handling a difficult task that you know nobody else can handle. And do it confidently♥ 4source record 427
Build new processes and developments to make your company run smoother.♥ 3source record 521
I guess im not tech considered corporate Im more considered a regional employee. but I am the only patient account specialist for my company. I took over because the people doing it before me were doing this position amd medical billing and working for our other company. I came in and cleaned up a lot of the issues we were having. created a very detailed spreadsheet with different phases for every client as the owner had questions about accounts. it was shown to our President and she really liked it and she refers to it often as it has all information she could possibly want.♥ 0source record 580
Notice the problems everyone on your team is facing and go the extra mile to create systems to fix those problems / make them easier to deal with♥ 0source record 586
Pro-active behaviour♥ 0source record 677
Take initiative with items slightly above your scope. Be vocal about wanting to (and do) learn something new by shadowing someone else or learning to be the backup for a higher position, issue spot and find solutions to improve efficiency. Working tons of OT or after hours is not impressive. That only shows that there’s a deficit somewhere. Close the deficit!♥ 0source record 752

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Be the solution, not just the problem-spotter10 index entriesMaking a habit of always arriving with a proposed fix, not just a flagged issue.
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Be the solution, not just the problem-spotter

10 source records

Best for: Be the solution, not just the problem-spotter

Why readers recommended it: Making a habit of always arriving with a proposed fix, not just a flagged issue.

What readers reported: throw ideas at the wall until one sticks. CONSTANTLY.

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throw ideas at the wall until one sticks. CONSTANTLY.

source record 294♥ 71
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Solve problems before your boss even knows there’s a problem. Then, when you talk to them, you say “I saw that XYZ was happening so I did ABC and now we’re all good.”

posted about 59 days after the source♥ 0
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This may sound average, but initiative goes a long way. Seeing problems and creating a solution.

posted about 57 days after the source♥ 0

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The exact phrase “a problem solver” recurs across 2 of the 10 source records in Be the solution, not just the problem-spotter; the complete archive stays available below.

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throw ideas at the wall until one sticks. CONSTANTLY.♥ 71source record 294
be solution focused - figuring things out so others don't have to♥ 28source record 301
Solve other people’s problems♥ 10source record 305
Be a problem solver and not just a problem identifier. I try to always have a possible solution available even if it isn’t the best one. If I don’t have a solution to a problem and I invite someone to collaborate with me on a solution.♥ 2source record 421
Be a problem solver♥ 0source record 555
This may sound average, but initiative goes a long way. Seeing problems and creating a solution.♥ 0source record 568
Be solution oriented.♥ 1source record 599
You need to be respected (not just liked, they are different) and you also need to be able to solve problems when the 💩 hits the fan. Finding someone with both is like gold dust♥ 0source record 646
Be willing to be a detective and get to the bottom of problems. So many of my coworkers that have not lasted saw a problem and would say “that’s not my problem,” but when someone has taken initiative to actually do a little digging it makes all the difference!♥ 0source record 667
Solve problems before your boss even knows there’s a problem. Then, when you talk to them, you say “I saw that XYZ was happening so I did ABC and now we’re all good.”♥ 0source record 747

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Learn how the business actually works8 index entriesBuilding cross-functional knowledge of metrics, costs, and other departments' work.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Learn how the business actually works

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Learn how the business actually works

8 source records

Best for: Learn how the business actually works

Why readers recommended it: Building cross-functional knowledge of metrics, costs, and other departments' work.

What readers reported: Find the metric the business cares about the most and move it. More importantly - show how you are part of the solution, and growth.

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Find the metric the business cares about the most and move it. More importantly - show how you are part of the solution, and growth.

source record 350♥ 29
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Yes. Develop niched skills!

posted about 52 days after the source♥ 1
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Position yourself as an interpreter. If you can speak the languages of the other depts you work with, you’ll get more done and they’ll like you more.

posted about 45 days after the source♥ 0

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This report keeps all 8 source records for Learn how the business actually works together and surfaces traceable examples without converting anecdotes into proof.

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Yes. Develop niched skills!♥ 1source record 156
Find ways to cut cost and your a rockstar . Also never bring up an issue without a well thought out proposal on how to address the problem♥ 11source record 312
Ask a lot of questions. Know more about the business’s functions than just what applies to you. Use that information to weigh in on decisions that do apply to you. Get as techy as you can, you’re gonna need it.♥ 8source record 313
Find the metric the business cares about the most and move it. More importantly - show how you are part of the solution, and growth.♥ 29source record 350
This… this is exactly what I do too. Metrics are the currency to show your value in many organizations.♥ 0source record 351
Get involved in everything. Don’t hesitate to learn new things♥ 1source record 502
Always be open to learning more, especially when it’s “not your job” - ask questions to leaders in all areas of the company. Understanding your own job is great but understanding the company as a whole will help tremendously. Never stop asking questions.♥ 0source record 656
Position yourself as an interpreter. If you can speak the languages of the other depts you work with, you’ll get more done and they’ll like you more.♥ 0source record 743

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Advertise wins and visibility61 records · 3 sub-topicsAdvertise wins and visibility — 61 items
Make sure the right people know29 index entriesProactive status updates, recaps, and CCs that keep leadership aware of your work.
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Make sure the right people know

29 source records

Best for: Make sure the right people know

Why readers recommended it: Proactive status updates, recaps, and CCs that keep leadership aware of your work.

What readers reported: VISIBILITY. CC upper management on anything you do that’s extra or impressive. Always be looking for ways you can improve processes and when you do it make sure they know. Keep it positive and always be drama free.

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VISIBILITY. CC upper management on anything you do that’s extra or impressive. Always be looking for ways you can improve processes and when you do it make sure they know. Keep it positive and always be drama free.

source record 109♥ 454
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Over communicate… make sure it’s in email, slack, say it in meetings, put it on Basecamp. Being transparent and forthcoming is underrated. Celebrate and encourage! And I’m not saying be fake but find something to celebrate, always. These little things change the environment of any space, it makes sure people are seen and appreciated.

posted about 64 days after the source♥ 1
Zero-like source

Make sure your boss and her boss know what you’re doing to make their jobs easier

posted about 59 days after the source♥ 0

What the counts show

Within 29 source records, 2 ask a question and 0 explicitly say they intend to try the idea; neither signal is treated as an outcome.

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VISIBILITY. CC upper management on anything you do that’s extra or impressive. Always be looking for ways you can improve processes and when you do it make sure they know. Keep it positive and always be drama free.♥ 454source record 109
Wins are expected and you shouldn’t blurt it out, they know♥ 0source record 121
Set and send agendas for meetings then follow up with email summary notes♥ 118source record 243
Help your colleagues and let your boss and the rest of the team know. It will make you look useful, justify any delays you might have, and put you ahead of the rest.♥ 23source record 278
I present kpis every end of the month, with dashboards and everything just for regular things like: how long did it take to do something, how many emails i have gotten, calls, registers♥ 10source record 284
Do multithreading internally. dont show off to leadership. let people praise you for helping them, making impact and doing awesome work so theyre constantly hearing about it from others how youre valuable♥ 7source record 318
I attempt to only accept/pursue projects and tasks that score well in these 3 categories: High Visibility, High Impact, Low Effort. Tough to accomplish all 3, but that's what you're shooting for! Absolutely try to decline work that is low visibility, low impact and high effort.♥ 7source record 333
Showcase all the work you do♥ 13source record 354
I started weekly at a glance emails for my program that went to all my stakeholders manager and leaders!♥ 1source record 357
Over communicate… make sure it’s in email, slack, say it in meetings, put it on Basecamp. Being transparent and forthcoming is underrated. Celebrate and encourage! And I’m not saying be fake but find something to celebrate, always. These little things change the environment of any space, it makes sure people are seen and appreciated.♥ 1source record 408
Also, keep a summary of all the little things you do and the value added from those completions. At the end of the week, send over a quick summary to your supervisor of the most impactful things as well as what you’ll be working on next. Helps them to leave you alone because they know you’re over communicating and over delivering♥ 0source record 418
updates updates updates! over communicate, share your successes, take initiative and set up meetings with YOUR manager telling them your plan to promotion and ask if they’re aligned♥ 2source record 423
I send a weekly recap to my boss. I list my major accomplishments for the week, ongoing project updates, what I hope to complete next week.♥ 3source record 449
Make sure your 1:1s highlight accomplishments, say no to things (thoughtfully), don’t contribute to everything, create an environment where they have to ask your opinion (don’t just freely offer it).♥ 2source record 532
Be positive and solutions focused- goes a long way. AND you may feel like it’s annoying but send your manager and stake holders updated when there’s new info (big/small) so they don’t have to chase/follow up- no new info? Let them know that as well if it’s been a day or two depending on how urgent the task is♥ 1source record 541
I do not believe in overcommunication in the workplace. I will cover EVERY SINGLE DETAIL and people compliment me on my thoroughness. I only do it to cover my ass.♥ 11source record 547
I write down everything I have completed for the day and what is still outstanding/in progress and send it to my manager every day. Then they can step in where needed/see your workload!♥ 0source record 608
make sure everyone knows what you do/ additional responsibilities and evidence your ROI to prove value if you can♥ 0source record 612
Showcase your work throughout the company not just for your boss and learn how to manage up. I manage my boss everyday♥ 0source record 649
Complete everything out loud… even if you it’s small still do it.♥ 0source record 659
Be annoying but in a helpful way. Gives the illusion that you do more. Ask about tasks give updates it is a delicate balance though♥ 0source record 662
It’s the right balance of making known the impacts that wouldn’t otherwise be seen, and being humble and quiet on the impacts that are obvious and noticed.♥ 0source record 674
Make sure your boss and her boss know what you’re doing to make their jobs easier♥ 0source record 679
Talk about what you do a lot but subtley. People are too lazy to actually verify and they will remember you if you talk about it frequently, also help the right people♥ 0source record 687
You can never over communicate. Communication is key.♥ 0source record 693
make sure the right people know your name and your accomplishments.♥ 0source record 709
Send summaries of all meetings with next steps to all attendees. Super easy to do with AI now but make sure you edit even further to show you put some critical thinking and tag the owners of next steps. Then set up follow up meetings. I know it seems secretarial but in a world where a lot of senior leaders don’t have secretaries anymore the people that take on these types of tasks and keep the ball moving forward are the most irreplaceable♥ 0source record 711
If you see something that needs fixing, fix it and then post it in the work/teams chat. I’m a software engineer and sometimes if there’s a bug or something that can be automated, I’ll just do it and them post and it tends to really impress the higher ups (plus it gives you image points)♥ 0source record 736
Work louder♥ 0source record 753

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Speak up and be heard20 index entriesAsking questions, volunteering to present, and claiming airtime in meetings.
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Tactic + when to use it + example script + likely benefit + ethical or workload risk: Speak up and be heard

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Speak up and be heard

20 source records

Best for: Speak up and be heard

Why readers recommended it: Asking questions, volunteering to present, and claiming airtime in meetings.

What readers reported: Ask questions. Always ask thoughtful questions. The more curious you are = thought leader = high performer

Limit: This did not work well for me. Management hated that I questioned things

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This did not work well for me. Management hated that I questioned things

source record 170♥ 3

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Ask questions. Always ask thoughtful questions. The more curious you are = thought leader = high performer

source record 166♥ 137
Later-arriving source

Talk talk talk talk in meetings. Speaking up will change your life

posted about 64 days after the source♥ 1
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Be visible. Raise your hand for extra coverage, extra projects, etc. You might not end up having to do anything extra, but the leaders will remember that you stepped up. Being a strong team player adds so much value.

posted about 57 days after the source♥ 0

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The exact phrase “the actual work” recurs across 2 of the 20 source records in Speak up and be heard; the complete archive stays available below.

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It can be unomfortable sometimes but try to remember that close mouths do not get fed, and squeaky wheels always get attention♥ 4source record 123
Ask questions. Always ask thoughtful questions. The more curious you are = thought leader = high performer♥ 137source record 166
Oh nooooo I'm sorry. Keep trying! It's good to frame your questions as making connections/analogies to show you are actively listening. Example: "am I understanding this correctly to say it's like a baker who forgets to add the eggs" or "it's like first class or economy" making an analogy and asking if that's correct can give you points.♥ 0source record 167
You can also add a thought and then ask if that's correct in the form of a question. Example: you have a meeting about a project that needs to be more tactile vs strategic. You can pose the question - "when I think tactile I think actionable. Can you tell me more about what you mean by tactile here?"♥ 0source record 168
That's a tough one because it is totally situational, but try to ask something like "can you tell me more about [XYZ]?" Asking for more clarification on nuanced things is a key sign of curiosity♥ 0source record 169
This did not work well for me. Management hated that I questioned things♥ 3source record 170
At my workplace when there’s a townhall meeting, they ask for volunteers to present updates or success stories etc. I always do it. I almost die of anxiety every time, but this made it seem like I have my shit together and that I’m always present.♥ 33source record 225
Always volunteer to go first or speak up, nod in meetings so they feel like they are talking directly to you (even on zoom). Always ask questions - people love to talk about themselves (especially leaders). Make your team/boss look good. Deal with internal issues privately.♥ 8source record 304
Don’t waste time volunteering for everything, be strategic and selective.♥ 5source record 320
Talk yourself up in our weekly manager meetings.♥ 0source record 356
Find your voice; know when to use it.♥ 1source record 377
Talk talk talk talk in meetings. Speaking up will change your life♥ 1source record 385
Lead with Camera on. Speak during meetings (even if it’s rapport early) and do the weird one off asks like HR videos right away so your Manage never has to remind you to do it.♥ 1source record 480
always talk about your accomplishments when there is opportunity♥ 0source record 493
Talk to your boss and your bosses peers and sell yourself. Your peers and the actual work mean little to nothing♥ 0source record 557
Speak up in large meetings. The way you are perceived matters more sometimes than the actual work you do♥ 0source record 566
Be visible. Raise your hand for extra coverage, extra projects, etc. You might not end up having to do anything extra, but the leaders will remember that you stepped up. Being a strong team player adds so much value.♥ 0source record 569
Speak in meetings. Share feedback, ask questions, propose ideas/solutions. Even if what you’re saying is pointless you’ll still look better than the person who was silent♥ 0source record 654
Figuring out how to ask the perfect insightful and strategic questions/comments in meetings.♥ 0source record 698
Speak up during team meetings and prioritize things (eg. Side projects or things that are interesting / good work examples) you can share or present on these meetings♥ 0source record 701

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Keep a written record of your wins12 index entriesBrag books, logs, and spreadsheets tracking accomplishments for reviews.
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Keep a written record of your wins

12 source records

Best for: Keep a written record of your wins

Why readers recommended it: Brag books, logs, and spreadsheets tracking accomplishments for reviews.

What readers reported: Make your wins known (and documented), don’t wait for someone to notice.

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Make your wins known (and documented), don’t wait for someone to notice.

source record 115♥ 218
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I made a doc called what have I done this year and keep track of all my projects with dates and pics and details and there’s another section for like to dos and praises throughout the year to submit for performance reviews

posted about 60 days after the source♥ 0
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I think keep a list of stuff you did and accomplishments so you can basically self promote whenever you have meetings w superiors or performance reviews

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The exact phrase “throughout the year” recurs across 2 of the 12 source records in Keep a written record of your wins; the complete archive stays available below.

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Make your wins known (and documented), don’t wait for someone to notice.♥ 218source record 115
Yes always document your wins so you have a laundry list for yearly reviews!!♥ 0source record 122
Oh also, I kept a Bad Box and a Brag Box. Someone praised you specifically? Brag Box. Someone did/said something snarky or shady? Bad box.♥ 98source record 210
Agendas for meetings, track/document everything, try to anticipate what leaders will ask and already have it prepared♥ 48source record 269
I preemptively created a slideshow using company's PowerPoint shell for my 6 month review. uploaded all my data, made graphs and charts, outlined my current and achieved goals. it was awesome, they were shocked. other top performers told me they were stealing my idea. it was glorious♥ 49source record 325
Sounds like a big task but it’s a repetitive small task with a larger payout: basically, record any/all responsibilities and accomplishments- big or small in outlook or One Note, whatever. It’s easy to refer to during 1:1s or when you’re looking to ask for a raise, or ahead of annual reviews. Saves scrambling at the last minute!♥ 0source record 355
I think keep a list of stuff you did and accomplishments so you can basically self promote whenever you have meetings w superiors or performance reviews♥ 0source record 467
Keep a log of everything out of role that you do even answering questions from coworkers can be navigating and coaching peers on products or new policies. Then at time of review you put all your extras in your self assessment in a professional way♥ 3source record 506
I keep an excel sheet of every question I’ve ever asked and the answer and every favor I’ve ever done for someone outside of my work scope 🧠♥ 0source record 573
I made a doc called what have I done this year and keep track of all my projects with dates and pics and details and there’s another section for like to dos and praises throughout the year to submit for performance reviews♥ 0source record 592
Written feedback! Doesn’t matter why it’s from♥ 0source record 651
create a brag book for yourself throughout the year and bring it to the table when you are wanting to speak to your manager about promotions.♥ 0source record 692

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Source: TikTok comments — 1 video

Editorial patterns in the discussion

These cards summarize recurring patterns from the captured discussion. Their counts describe the report's original coding, not a complete list of unique products, facts, people, or recommendations.

Be liked — by everyone, everywhere

99 coded comment records

Learn names, befriend every department, praise coworkers behind their backs. The network is the job.

  • Say nice things about colleagues behind their backs and never gossip. The compliments will get back to your coworkers and people will trust and respect you more♥ 8,087
  • Create partnerships on the sly with EVERYONE. Mary in Procurement, Karen in Finance, Joe in IT, Sue in Ops. All of them. BFF. Then, when you’re in a meeting, or your boss has a random convo with someone, they will rave about you and wonder how the hell everyone knows you. 😏♥ 1,438

Advertise your wins

61 coded comment records

Brag docs, weekly recaps, speaking up in meetings — work done quietly is work done invisibly.

  • VISIBILITY. CC upper management on anything you do that’s extra or impressive. Always be looking for ways you can improve processes and when you do it make sure they know. Keep it positive and always be drama free.♥ 454
  • I preemptively created a slideshow using company's PowerPoint shell for my 6 month review. uploaded all my data, made graphs and charts, outlined my current and achieved goals. it was awesome, they were shocked. other top performers told me they were stealing my idea. it was glorious♥ 49

Win the inbox

57 coded comment records

Answer fast, file everything, and let schedule-send do your image management (full breakdown below).

  • This one right here. Majority of the work is email.♥ 69

Actually deliver

50 coded comment records

Be punctual, do what you said you'd do, underpromise and overdeliver — rarer than it sounds.

  • Do what you say you'll do EVERY SINGLE TIME. Do not over promise and under deliver, people don't forget that.♥ 4
  • I just make sure I always do what I’ll say I’m going to do (within reason) and always stay cheerful and happy even when I’m absolutely not. It’s a lot of acting and it is exhausting but it’s worked out well for me♥ 462

Manage up

49 coded comment records

Make your boss look good, bring solutions instead of problems, learn what keeps their boss up at night.

  • When your boss thinks about you, it has to be in a “you make my life easier kind of way”. Your boss should never think about you and sigh or grunt. Don’t cause work for your boss. Take work away from your boss, make it easy for your boss.♥ 841
  • figure out what problems keep your boss’ boss up at night. find solutions. present them / work through them and show your initiative♥ 0

Guard your hours

49 coded comment records

Late-night emails read as poor time management — and being irreplaceable can mean unpromotable.

  • don't work so hard. honestly♥ 43
  • This x 1,000!! Boundaries start with your work. If you can protect your time during your work hours, people notice. A lack of time boundaries often reads like a lack of boundaries in general, which can make someone seem less promotable.♥ 4

Play the optics

47 coded comment records

Performance, image, exposure: being seen doing the work counts as much as the work itself.

  • I’ve survived 3 major layoffs and negotiated a salary higher than any of my team members who do the same exact job I do, with less experience. It is entirely based around optics and communication. Say the right things. Seem competent. Don’t fluster. Be confident.♥ 600
  • Doing a good job and appearing to do a good job aren’t always the same. Performance = doing a good job. Image = Appearing to do a good job (organized, communicative, helpful not naysaying unless truly an issue, etc.) exposure = doing that in front of the right audience (e.g. upper mgmt) amplifies that impact♥ 1,462

Fill the gap nobody owns

35 coded comment records

Find the problem no one wants, fix it, and attach your name to the metric that moves.

  • i became a director before 30, genuinely the best thing you can do is look for gaps in the business and proactively fill them. solve your manager’s problems or leadership’s problems, especially money related ones. and do it LOUDLY, tell everyone you’re doing it, make sure everyone knows you’re indispensable♥ 201
  • This. I went from being a senior project manager, to VP of Operations (with a few titles in between) by solving problems/gaps, being proactive, and reliable. The only thing different is I did everything quietly, and my bosses always made sure to let everyone know it was me. I’m still the fix it person for everyone.♥ 4

Automate quietly

31 coded comment records

Excel, macros, templates and AI: do an hour's work in ten minutes and keep the secret.

  • Master excel. Then automate task. 😎😎♥ 28
  • Use OneNote and save literally EVERYTHING in there. NEVER repeat a thought process, never duplicate effort. If it took you ten mins of googling to figure something out, save your steps so you don’t ever have to do that again. If you think you might wonder “why did I make this decision?” a year later, WRITE IT DOWN. Whether it saves you an hour a month, or five minutes twice a year, WRITE IT DOWN (with good keywords so it’s searchable later)♥ 0

Dress for it

18 coded comment records

From tailored outfits to gym discipline — looking composed reads as being in control.

  • As a woman, wear makeup. There are studies that confirm that women who wear makeup to work are more likely to get promoted and earn more.♥ 2,463↑ Fact-checked in the answer index
  • become very disciplined with your fitness and health. when you value yourself people automatically value you more.♥ 1,373

The advice that hit hardest

The comments that resonated most with the people who saw them — ranked within their arrival cohort, not by raw likes, so late gems count too.

Be liked by the right people. That gets you further than being a top performer
the #1 comment♥ 40,418
Look up the PIE theory. performance. image. exposure.
♥ 11,677
Dress for the part, be punctual, reliable, emotionally regulated, avoid gossip, work hard, but don’t overwork, be a good speller and writer, learn Excel.
♥ 11,749
Develop a reputation of being reliable and be likable
♥ 10,915
Make your boss look good. That is the only hack
♥ 7,326
I owe every ounce of my success to being competent, friendly, and unafraid to embarass myself
♥ 4,313
Underpromise overdeliver
♥ 3,271
Top performer is another term for best networker. Relationships shape perception. Perception is reality.
♥ 2,308
**actually do your job** so many of my coworkers don’t understand this one
♥ 2,594
A top performer doesn’t answer emails late at night or stay extra hours. They have strict working hours; respect people’s personal time and time manage wisely. That earns respect.
♥ 1,206
The people who constantly work late nights/weekends aren’t actually viewed as dedicated, they’re viewed as having poor time management skills. Do your work, do it very well, but do not make yourself look frantic
posted 6 weeks in — 27 likes♥ 27
everyone keeps saying PIE theory but it's so much simpler than that. just be a decent human being. ensure you are prompt with all work problem solve on your own and be nice to people. the most loved person in the office is the one people want to see promoted
♥ 105

The email game, ranked by tactic

57 comments — more than one tip in nine — are about email alone. It's a whole sub-genre of corporate stagecraft, and schedule-send is its star.

Schedule-send theater

19 coded comment records

Write whenever you like; deliver at 6:58 a.m. The inbox says early bird.

  • schedule emails to go out the next morning at 7:30, 7:32, 7:35, and 7:41 am. now it looks like you were actually working early.♥ 0
  • Schedule emails in advance to make it look like you’re working earlier or later♥ 5

The instant reply

15 coded comment records

“Received — will get to you by end of day” buys a reputation for reliability in eight words.

  • Learn to manage up and being insanely responsive…. Even if it’s a simple “received will get to you end of day” type reply!♥ 2,083
  • I’ve had a few positions where I didn’t have enough work to keep me busy so I made my job to be “keep my teams availability green at all times during working hours”. I would respond to anyone that messaged me almost immediately and have been told I’m one of the most responsive and reliable employees by a few managers. 😆♥ 51

Inbox zero & folder systems

12 coded comment records

A folder for everything, color codes for VIPs, follow-up flags so nothing slips.

  • I do the zero inbox method. There’s a folder for everything and only action items stay in my inbox until resolved. Then they get moved to their respective folders. Did this with 5 different inboxes at my last job and my inbox for college stuff♥ 1,065
  • I use the red category email for any emails I’m waiting for a follow up on. When I receive a resolution, they get untagged. Filter by category & send follow ups weekly.♥ 792

Canned everything

5 coded comment records

Quick Parts and saved templates: type a keyword, send a “thoughtful” email.

  • If you use outlook look up quick parts. It’s where if you use the same blurb a lot you can use a key word and type it for it to be entered into your email body.♥ 51
  • Outlook templates. If you send a lot of the same emails then you can create templates for them which saves you a lot of time from typing them out every time.♥ 6

Ruthless brevity

4 coded comment records

Drop the pleasantries and exclamation points — blunt reads as senior. (Not everyone agrees.)

  • start responding to emails like white middle-aged man. no thank you, no please, no how are you. straight to the point. I saw that advise two years ago and started doing that. the best decision ever♥ 1,721
  • I do get this but honestly I don’t think this makes them a top performer, it just makes them rude. If someone doesn’t put a please in an email asking to do something it makes me think they’re lazy…♥ 497

Heart the email

2 coded comment records

React to messages you'd otherwise ignore — engagement without effort.

  • Heart emails that you receive or are cc’d on when you wouldn’t normally respond. I think a simple heart goes a long way, it’s friendly and shows you actually check your emails and are actively engaged in the workspace.♥ 94

The bosses entered the chat

Self-identified CEOs, directors, HR leads and managers — at least a dozen of them — replied with what actually gets noticed from the other side of the desk.

I’m a CEO and here is how I evaluate employees. 1. Be on time always. 2. Listen to what upper management/c level says. If something is important to us, make sure YOU are the one who gets that done, and fast. 3. Respond FAST. If we message you and you respond fast always then we assume you’re working. 4. Find out what makes us more $$ then do that on top of regular work. Then let us know about it. “Hey I saw we needed this done, so I did it what do you think? Don’t worry I still did everything else like normal”. Continue to do this over time and I would view you as a valuable employee who which I don’t want to lose. Likely offering to pay more, promote, etc
a CEO, 7 weeks in♥ 12
As a female CEO with 850 team members, the best ones are the ones who get their job done and are pleasant to be around. And yes, do it LOUDLY. Communicate what you’ve accomplished so I don’t have to follow up. I can trust you’ve got it handled and will update me when you need to.
a CEO of 850 — 0 likes♥ 0
Get back to people within 24 hours. Be responsive. Even if you don't have an answer, respond with a time that you will be able to provide what they are asking for. It will catapult you to the top. I'm a Corporate HR Director. This is the secret sauce.
an HR director♥ 25
As a manager, I’d respect someone telling me they have a strict 6pm cutoff versus wondering if they’ll respond late tonight or tomorrow every time they’re on an email.
a manager♥ 13
yes! I tell my direct reports that I am NOT impressed by the fact that they can't get their work done in their normal 40 business hours. set boundaries with others and speak up if you're over capacity.
a manager♥ 3
Some things i wish all my direct reports would do: be on time to meetings, propose new times if you have meeting conflicts, always ask 'how are you?', share positive news to your manager more than you bring complaints or problems, over communicate, volunteer every now and then (that's the big one), speak up positively in meetings & chats, use email signature on replies, use proper grammar on emails, reply to all emails within 24 hours (when in office), respond to all chats within 30 min (when in office), share something fun about yourself every now and then to show you're relatable.
a manager's wish list♥ 0

The dissenters: “being great is a trap”

A steady undercurrent pushes back on the whole premise: excel too visibly, they warn, and the prize is more work — not more money.

Strike a balance between being really good at your job and showing leadership/delegation skills. I’ve worked with mannnyy people who become invaluable in their work bc they’re so good that they don’t get promoted because they’re too needed in their role.
♥ 533
do the minimum and MAYBE a step beyond occasionally. the whole "work hard, go above and beyond, be reliable" is honestly bullsh*t. I did that and became "indispensable" and they wouldn't promote me because they wouldn't find anyone to replace me and do all the stuff I did.so they promoted someone else and wanted me to train them.
♥ 0
Everyone in the comments telling you exactly how to be miserable over time is what’s really getting me. Be likable=be fake. Be reliable=respond immediately & overwork yourself. So here’s some actual advice. ONLY do the work you are paid to do. Not more, not less.
♥ 0
I’ve been a top performer fo a few years. I literally just clock in, meet my goals, don’t complain or ask dumb questions, and they for whatever reason love my bare minimum. It’s easy to stand out when most other people complain.
♥ 0
There’s so many comments here already and I imagine this will never be seen, but honestly? My tip was complaining. I used to keep my head down, stay quiet and do a good job but then more stuff got piled on top of me. Then I started complaining about how much work I was doing and then they literally gave me a spot bonus and an “exceeds expectations” performance review and raise that year because I just bitched about how much I was doing and they needed me to keep doing that job
posted 8 weeks in — 0 likes♥ 0
Being irreplaceable means you’re not promotable
♥ 1

Dark truths (and one standing desk)

50 comments skipped the advice entirely and went straight for the joke — which is often just the truth with better timing.

I stand up and raise my standing desk for at least 10 minutes every hour. I take a call on it, and I do a little back and forth pace in front of my desk while nodding my head and talking exaggeratedly. I start typing furiously and close my eyes while nodding. I don’t know that’s all I got.. 😂😂😂😂😂
♥ 2
I Bcc myself on all of my own emails so I can admire my own impeccable writing skills
♥ 33
The nerdiest glasses keep your head phone on and nod your head at your computer all day periodically
♥ 0
Get yourself one of those loud click clack keyboards
♥ 0
Just go to a Coldplay concert with them
♥ 0
Be there EARLY and have nothing to do so you leave early. This shows EVERYONE you’re alpha.
♥ 0
Damn. I came to the comments hoping for lots of jokes about toiling under capitalism and instead it’s LinkedIn. Now, here’s what bootlicking taught me about B2B sales.
♥ 0
Dataset, coverage, and methodology
756
comments analyzed
496
hand-coded workplace-advice records
448
top-level comment records
135,977
likes across the thread

How the complete list was counted

The source corpus contains 756 captured comment records: 448 top-level comments and 308 replies.

The complete index contains 496 A source comment hand-classified as containing at least one actionable top-performer tactic. Preserve each qualifying source record as exact, whitespace-normalized testimony. Do not claim that 496 rows are 496 semantically unique concepts; duplicates and comments containing multiple tactics remain source records.

The audit separately accounts for 260 source records outside the published list definition.

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