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Getting a human, a credit or a discount out of a company608 records · 6 sub-topicsThe scripts, department names and single words that current and former call-centre staff say change what happens to your call. 608 records.
The words that route you to the retention desk81 index entriesNamed departments and exact phrases former retention staff say will move your call — and the current employees who say one of them is made up.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: The words that route you to the retention desk

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The words that route you to the retention desk

81 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: Your bill has gone up, the front-line agent cannot help, and you want the desk that is allowed to change the price

How commenters applied it: 81 records. Four separate current or former call-centre workers name a department rather than a tone. The AT&T record names “customer loyalty” as the phrase that reaches retention and a second agent immediately adds “tier two technical support” for anything technical, because retention cannot fix faults. The pattern repeats: a credit-card employee says asking to close the account routes you to retention, who can move the interest rate; a Progressive employee says to ask for a policy review first and only threaten to cancel if that fails, and describes being trained on the exact trigger phrase. Several ex-AT&T staff confirm the routing from inside. The recurring mechanism is that the discount lives in a specific team, and reaching it is a matter of naming it.

What readers reported: They won’t be able to assist with tech support but if you need to speak to someone quickly for technical issues, you should say “tier two technical support”. Might work out better for you. :)

Limit: One claim in this card — that Verizon holds a hidden pot of money on your account — is denied outright by a current Verizon employee in its own thread, and another employee reframes it as a manager's ordinary credit allowance. Closing an account can also lower a credit score, which a commenter raises and nobody in the thread answers. None of this is verified with any carrier.

What the replies added2

Liv…that’s simply not true. You don’t believe me, but that’s simply not true. Also, I’m only responding this way because (1) I have a completely free day & I can and (2) I really don’t want people to read your comments and get undesired results when calling the company. And me bringing up the deductible, comp, etc. clearly went over your head. And that’s okay. At the company (not agency), we were trained that the “magic words” are any variation of “I’m about to shop around” in order to transfer the customer to CPT. This was literally in our onboarding training and it’s continuously restated during coaching sessions. Thankfully, I work for myself now. But I still have friends at Progressive and that remains the same. Does everyone enforce the “magic words” thing? No, surely not. But that’s how it’s supposed to go. The independent agencies are different…more loose, if you will. Anyway…I hope you enjoy the rest of your day as well, and be sure to get those customers the best rates. That was my #1 goal while working at Progressive, and it was the purpose of my original comment 😉

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Verizon scammed me $865 for item I returned in store, they said they were going to mail me a check and never paid me. Mailed me a replacement phone one month later I never recieved it, had to track down this phone” I never returned and found out fed ex sent it back to Verizon because wrong address and Verizon was aware but they charged me for something I never got #i no longer have Verizon… I still want my money back..

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If you need to speak with AT&T customer service and you want to skip the line, say “customer loyalty”. It’ll take you to their retention team and they are FAR better equipped to handle problems.

source record 2357♥ 100,649
Later-arriving source

I used to do this with both AT&T and Cox! Works like a charm, and they can apply new discounts!

posted about 58 days after the source
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I probably wouldn’t say this in person if you’re a female.

posted about 40 days after the source

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Across 81 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Swap instead of subtract” (3 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

81index entries
81distinct source records
13.3%of parent category
1.2%of the complete index
4top-level comments
77replies

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0explicitly reports a limit or failure
13asks a question
0says they intend to try it
68other source context

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Swap instead of subtract 3Change the sentence 2Create a default 2Remove a step 2

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If you need to speak with AT&T customer service and you want to skip the line, say “customer loyalty”. It’ll take you to their retention team and they are FAR better equipped to handle problems.♥ 100,649source record 2357
They won’t be able to assist with tech support but if you need to speak to someone quickly for technical issues, you should say “tier two technical support”. Might work out better for you. :)♥ 1,508source record 2359
You deserve everything in life for this!! Thank you I always fight with them about their internet for it being 99$ it’s always down♥ 1source record 2360
I’m working there now and nobody complains about fiber unless there are legitimate hardware issues that a tech goes out and fixes, which is rareeeee♥ 12source record 2367
I switched from spectrum because I literally never had wifi. I'm pretty sure it was because they wanted me to increase speeds.♥ 9source record 2368
me with my fiber internet that went out almost 24 hours ago 🥲♥ 1source record 2369
YES!! Not only that, but twice I’ve gone almost a whole day on SOS with no ability to text or call! I got one day free on my bill and it was still at the same price 🤣♥ 38source record 2371
My sister has the same issues and let’s not talk about never having service anywhere. All this money a month to not have service smh♥ 1source record 2372
If you make a big deal out of it like “i’ve been in and out of service all day and it’s getting ridiculous” etc they’ll take half your bill off. Now obviously you actually need to be having issues BUT you’re paying for service and they’re not providing it, get the money back!♥ 2source record 2373
That’s with any company. Always ask for a time without service credit♥ 0source record 2374
Never had an issue with them. 10 year+ customer♥ 0source record 2375
Call back and ask for the port team. They are the only ones that can help. Not loyalty♥ 2source record 2377
I can vouch for this. Ask for the retention department and they HAVE to transfer you.♥ 2source record 2379
God bless you! Any other dips for lowering your bill? They keep slowly but surely upping my bill five dollars each month for literally no reason.♥ 2source record 2380
What if I need details about my man’s phone records? 👀 legit question 🙋🏽‍♀️♥ 0source record 2385
It depends on what you mean by “details”. Some information requires a court order. None of that will matter if you’re not the account owner though. You won’t get access otherwise.♥ 1source record 2386
I was about to come here and say this 😂 I used to work in AT&T customer loyalty and can confirm this is true.♥ 1source record 2391
I work here and can confirm this lol♥ 1source record 2395
Youre welcome! Go to a corporate store. Not an authorized retailer💜♥ 1source record 2399
How do you sue them for having an open line in your husbands name who he never set up and can’t get a response on it♥ 0source record 2400
Well. I worked with loyalty and retention. Tell them to look at the notes on your account and that will show you what rep added the unauthorized line to your account and they will issue you bill credits or something else♥ 1source record 2403
I worked in the retention department for ATT she’s not lying. Especially if you are along term customer who pays their bills on time/r♥ 1source record 2404
I’m always yelling “retention” when my service provider pisses me off and they try pulling all the stops to avoid it, learned it from working for Dish Network and has been my saving grace 😂♥ 1source record 2405
I used to do this with both AT&T and Cox! Works like a charm, and they can apply new discounts!♥ 0source record 2408
I press the button new costumer they answered on a Sunday 9pm♥ 0source record 2411
Please don’t do this! Omg, we got so many incorrectly routed calls because people just want to hear a voice 😭♥ 0source record 2414
wait my bill is 30 days passed due tomorrow and I still dont have it what can I do to convince them to give me more time♥ 0source record 2418
this also applies to Verizon, btw. And ALWAYS record ur calls but don't tell the cx service rep so u have proof because people there make promises they don't keep or withold important binding info when you buy stuff like plans and phones.♥ 0source record 2419
Lol I used to be in both fraud and retention team and this is true 😉😂♥ 0source record 2421
OMG, thank you!! I’m so tired of yelling “customer service” and “representative” to the top of my lungs.🤣😭♥ 0source record 2422
duuude. absolutely did this with my fiber debacle. best ever♥ 0source record 2423
yes, worked there and this is what we recommend to customers who are loyal and don't get discounts♥ 0source record 2427
Omg I was on that team when it was Cingular Wireless. It’s true and I gave away the bank every shift 😂♥ 0source record 2431
I used to be a retention specialist she’s right 😂👏♥ 0source record 2433
Literally where were you at 7pm when I was on hold for an hour 😭 WILL be doing this tomorrow because my bill is $147 higher 🥲♥ 0source record 2434
I used to work for the loyalty department. Just say you want to cancel and they will give you a credit or loyalty discount 😏♥ 0source record 2437
can you tell me why i don't get verification codes sent to me♥ 0source record 2439
yessss retention for any company is the ONLY PLACE some 50% discounts live for a ton of companies. (always say your gonna cancel LifeLock!!) 🥰😘♥ 0source record 2447
My dad worked as manager for that department, I can vouch for this.♥ 0source record 2448
They do absolutely NOTHING to solve your problem (ex loyalty employee) we are to upsell everything you’re complaining about.♥ 0source record 2453
Hahaha THIS. Worked at att for yearssss♥ 0source record 2454
Its a 4 to 8 digit pin that was created when the account was opened. You can change it in store if you dont remember it. But you would have to be the account owner. Not an authorized user on the account. When you go in store, you will need your identification♥ 0source record 2456
You’re telling me that I’ve been so mad and almost in tears telling these people “I’m so mad I wanna cuss you out but I won’t bc you don’t deserve it but dear god. Please understand” AND I COULD HAVE JUST SAID CUSTOMER LOYALTY?! I’ve had ATT since it was singular 😂♥ 0source record 2458
That is crazy!! Because mine is a debit card and autopay! Everytime I have to call they always come up with a different reason! They had me paying $218 for two lines! When I tried to drop it down someone hung up on me and then come the next two months the charged me double.♥ 0source record 2463
have ChatGPT help you. i just went to war with TMobile abd won.♥ 2source record 2464
What about if AT&T locked my phone because I didn’t pay my last phone bill, but I do own the phone and now I can’t take it to another carrier. How do I get them to literally unlock my phone or should I just take it to the hood and let them do it? I’m so pissed.♥ 0source record 2465
Screen shotting this. I need this. They sold me a bullshit package told me to send my phones in and my new ones would be free. Well they have no record of my phones even though i sent them the tracking # 4 times and they charged me for all 3 phones monthly. So instead of the $150 bill they promised i pay $300. It’s BULLSHIT♥ 0source record 2466
If you tell your credit card company you’re dissatisfied and want to close your account, oftentimes they’ll send you to the retention department and they’ll lower your interest (or something) to get you to stay.♥ 1,163source record 13001
Or they close your account and it lowers your credit score♥ 24source record 13002
They sometimes can. Plus there’s sometimes perks for bringing a debt to the company called a balance transfer. I’d have people balance transferring their $20k car note to their credit card (Discover) because they got a promotion for an apr of 1.9% for 24mos. Then it reverts back to the 18.99% of whatever your refuse apr is. That’s only if you have that available credit though. And it’s been a long time since I worked there!♥ 2source record 13004
I just did this recently to get a $35 late fee credited back.♥ 1source record 13005
Check Google and Reddit for crowd's experience with a particular card. Chase sapphire reserve people aren't succeeding in getting the fee waived♥ 7source record 13006
I was a customer for years on my first credit card. every month I had to pay a $12 fee because it was one of those cards that helps w your credit score. I got sick of paying that fee because I never used that card. I called to cancel and the dude was all don't cancel and you won't have to pay the fee anymore, I'll remove it. I said I've been paying $144 annually for years can I get reimbursed that money too? he said no I said close my account byeeeee 🙃 So why charge it if it's that easy to remove it?♥ 5source record 13007
Because they know people won’t take the time to call. One of the reasons I left the field was I was required to sell crap like identity theft protection for $9.99 a month. Every time I got a little old lady on the phone she agreed to it. I could tell they didn’t know what it was. But I was forced to do it. I quit 6 months in. But I shamefully brought over $2m to Discover card in that time. I just couldn’t stand daily taking advantage of people.♥ 5source record 13008
Verizon has a secret box on your account that builds up overtime with money so if you’re ever 50$ short tell them to take it out your “box”♥ 1,083source record 14372
lol idk if this is true or not but would love to know how the customer rep would respond if it's fake haha♥ 36source record 14374
Can we access it, or do we just ask them to apply the money to our account?♥ 9source record 14376
This is 100% false.♥ 4source record 14377
You are probably mixing up a fake box with the amount of credit that a manager can apply for an account. Here’s a more accurate version. Managers can apply discounts up to $50 per customer per quarter without additional overrides. Customer service on the other hand can only apply. I think 18 bucks.♥ 2source record 14379
Say less. Just got slapped with a $300 backcharged upgrade bill I’m not happy about at all. 💯😭♥ 2source record 14380
Facts! Used to work for them and that’s only as a courtesy, for paying customers….♥ 0source record 14384
Verizon scammed me $865 for item I returned in store, they said they were going to mail me a check and never paid me. Mailed me a replacement phone one month later I never recieved it, had to track down this phone” I never returned and found out fed ex sent it back to Verizon because wrong address and Verizon was aware but they charged me for something I never got #i no longer have Verizon… I still want my money back..♥ 0source record 14385
you can't dip out on us now. been a customer for 25 years and you need to get your butt back here and tell me more.♥ 4source record 14387
isn’t this part of what their class action lawsuit was about♥ 0source record 14389
I probably wouldn’t say this in person if you’re a female.♥ 0source record 14395
Progressive Auto Insurance (and most others)… when your rates are about to increase bc your term is renewing, call and ask for a policy review. If that doesn’t get it down, threaten to cancel your policy. That’ll make the agent transfer you to the retention department and they’ll probably rewrite your policy under a new contract for the cheaper introductory rates. You can do this every 6 months tbh♥ 218source record 14557
state farm has had to really tighten down they’ve lost a lot of profits since 2020 the only way to get your premiums down is to remove coverages or apply for discounts which are limited and come with a lot of stipulations!♥ 0source record 14562
Liv…that’s simply not true. You don’t believe me, but that’s simply not true. Also, I’m only responding this way because (1) I have a completely free day & I can and (2) I really don’t want people to read your comments and get undesired results when calling the company. And me bringing up the deductible, comp, etc. clearly went over your head. And that’s okay. At the company (not agency), we were trained that the “magic words” are any variation of “I’m about to shop around” in order to transfer the customer to CPT. This was literally in our onboarding training and it’s continuously restated during coaching sessions. Thankfully, I work for myself now. But I still have friends at Progressive and that remains the same. Does everyone enforce the “magic words” thing? No, surely not. But that’s how it’s supposed to go. The independent agencies are different…more loose, if you will. Anyway…I hope you enjoy the rest of your day as well, and be sure to get those customers the best rates. That was my #1 goal while working at Progressive, and it was the purpose of my original comment 😉♥ 1source record 14563
back and forth? i literally said the most basic comment saying things YOU say you already know. you don’t have to threaten to cancel your policy. just ask for a rewrite. progressive is a very simple company for use (as a client) (and agent) which YOU say you know. you can rewrite with literally any company. so sorry me saying “common knowledge” is causing you to respond with 7 different paragraphs. It IS common knowledge that if you have a problem with something insurance related or not that you should probably learn about it and figure it out yourself so that you can get the best price you can. Every single policy goes up the first month after the 6 months is up or 12 depending on the policy. It goes right back down the next month. if you stay with the company such as progressive your policy can actually decrease in price without having to rewrite the policy. that’s literally all i was saying. You were the one who brought up things we weren’t even talking about because i said “common knowledge” i didn’t think this discussion would go ANYWAY and as someone who doesn’t have all the time in the world to write out multiple different paragraphs i was just going to leave it alone. have a great rest of your day.♥ 0source record 14564
Who’s flustered? I’m engaging in a comment that you decided to leave lol. You can’t reply to me and try to slick police how I respond. I do, however, think that it’s cray to go back and forth with falsehoods being the foundation of your claims. And I mean, yeah… insurance as a whole is common knowledge for me…as it should be because I’ve worked in it for years and got licensed to sell it years ago. That doesn’t mean that it’s common knowledge to the average person, of course. — Signed, still not flustered but has all the time in the world 😂♥ 1source record 14565
It’s common knowledge that if you don’t like something redo it. i never said anything about deductibles liability full coverable collision but you sure do so i guess it’s common knowledge for you huh. Also my name isn’t Liv thanks Reggie!. idk why you had to get so flustered about it. just a convo lol♥ 0source record 14566
You don’t even have to go that far. I say that because Progressive doesn’t price match. And some reps will tell you to just go with them 😭😅♥ 0source record 14568
And as someone who works in insurance, you should know that nothing in insurance is “common knowledge.” People call and don’t know “deductible,” “liability,” and “comprehensive vs collision” means… and you think a first month rate increase and decrease the following months (which isn’t the case in all states and on all policies) is “very common knowledge”?? Come on, Liv. You know better than that.♥ 1source record 14569
Again, I’m talking about working for Progressive…not an independently-owned Progressive agency. Again, the rules and procedures are different between working for the actual company and working for an independently-owned agency. I worked at Progressive (not an independently-owned agency) long enough to learn (the hard way, may I add) that you guys can do things much differently than we could. And the purpose of my originally comment was so it wouldn’t take “7000 years” when people call the company itself. Hope you now have a better understanding…♥ 1source record 14570
Well actually I currently work for progressive as my family owns an independent agency which sells multiple companies. Clients themselves can call the company if they go through the company itself (not through us) and get rewrote if they aren’t happy. Talking to a rep may take 7000 years but it’s definitely possibly. you can get rewrote or pretty much any company.♥ 1source record 14571
Yeah you clearly never worked for Progressive, the company that I typed this about. Because what you’re saying isn’t true. Also, you said “your agent” which leads me to believe you’re talking about a physical-office-agent. Those agents and the reps you get when you call the corp have totally different guidelines. I explained the guidelines of the latter, solely based on company policies and procedures.♥ 1source record 14572
this is very common knowledge that after your 6 month term your rates with raise for the first month as your term starts over and then will go back down for the second month and so on. you don’t have to threaten to cancel your policy just ask to be re-wrote with the same company or a different one with your agent. the longer you stay with a company the cheaper it will become over time unless you have accidents tickets or violations that get put on your policy♥ 0source record 14573
I cancelled with progressive bc I almost died in a car accident and they raised MY rate even tho it wasn’t my fault and wouldn’t lower it. Car insurance is a scam 😭♥ 1source record 14574
I do this every 6 months’😌♥ 1source record 14575
Currently trying it. I told them I received a better quote from geico and other companies♥ 1source record 14576
I need to do this because I’ve been with progressive for five years and this is the first time my rate has gone down and I have no tickets and only one accident in that time.♥ 1source record 14577

Archive: 81 index entries preserve 81 distinct source records · Every displayed synthesis count resolves to source-record IDs

The Spanish-language line, and the agents who send you back88 index entriesThe most-argued tip in the corpus: bilingual agents describing what actually happens when an English speaker picks their queue.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: The Spanish-language line, and the agents who send you back

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The Spanish-language line, and the agents who send you back

88 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are about to pick a language queue you do not speak because someone told you the wait is shorter

How commenters applied it: 88 records. This is the most-liked tip in the corpus and the one its own workforce argues hardest against. The claim is that Spanish-line agents must also speak English, so the queue is a shortcut. The bilingual agents who answer describe what actually happens: some transfer the caller straight back into the English queue, one describes it as contractually required, and several say the call is graded negatively when it is not conducted in the designated language. Others say they simply take it. A separate group of commenters — including people whose relatives only speak Spanish — argue the queue exists for people with no alternative. The corpus does not agree on whether it works, and it does not agree on whether it should.

What readers reported: It’s the Spanish line for a reason. And their signed contract says when working the designated language line will take that designated language 🤷‍♀️They’re following their contract rules.

Limit: Whether the transfer happens is entirely dependent on the employer and the individual agent, as the agents in this thread demonstrate by contradicting each other. Several commenters also note that Spanish queues in their own workplaces are longer, not shorter.

What the replies added2

Lol my family members answer these calls and since they specifically work the Spanish line, they’ll place the callers back to the English line to wait and start the waiting process from the beginning. 😂

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Oh I’m about to transfer the calls back to the English line… lol I always just take them 😩😩

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🤣🤣🤣 No I didn’t lol. But honestly I prefer 100% Spanish speakers over English. Soooo much nicer. Many Americans are so entitled. Unfortunately my job is to speak to both so I just keep them on the line English or Spanish.

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Most engaged source

if you want to speak to customer service select the Spanish line. the line is way shorter and all the agents are required to know English as well 💕💕

source record 377♥ 175,306
Later-arriving source

As you should. It’s work avoidance. They can help but choose not to based on the spoken language of the caller. Even if the job allows it, the law does not.

posted about 64 days after the source♥ 1
Zero-like source

Don’t do that we hate that. If you just speak English I’m transferring you back or hanging up

posted about 41 days after the source

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What the counts show

Across 88 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Create a default” (2 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

88index entries
88distinct source records
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1.4%of the complete index
1top-level comments
87replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
1explicitly reports a limit or failure
7asks a question
0says they intend to try it
80other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

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Create a default 2

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

Browse the original comments88 preserved records · 88 of 88 source records accounted for
if you want to speak to customer service select the Spanish line. the line is way shorter and all the agents are required to know English as well 💕💕♥ 175,306source record 377
Lol my family members answer these calls and since they specifically work the Spanish line, they’ll place the callers back to the English line to wait and start the waiting process from the beginning. 😂♥ 9,256source record 378
Where they’re at it’s considered following their contract rules. And definitely customer abuse when the customer is aggressive and threatening towards the employee ☺️♥ 146source record 380
No I’m saying it would be abusive to the customer to transfer a customer unless you don’t speak their language at all. Resolving the issue comes first for us♥ 119source record 381
Oh that’s not customer abuse then. Customer abuse is when the customer is aggressive, threatening towards the worker. And I guess your job is different 🤷‍♀️in their job that’s not anywhere near abuse especially since it wouldn’t even fit the penal code criteria for abuse.♥ 80source record 382
I don’t know if you’re foreign but no. You’re talking about employee abuse. This confusion is probably why yall are transferring English speakers calling them abusive♥ 79source record 383
You originally stated customer abuse in your original comment so I referred to what YOU originally stated. Here you go customer abuse what your originally stated ☺️♥ 18source record 384
You seem to know a lot about the call center a large percentage of your family works at...how interesting♥ 1source record 386
There’s a difference between not tolerating customer abuse and exacerbating clients negative sentiments because you play games with customers time… you can either choose to be part of the problem or the solution and it looks like you enjoy being part of the problem.♥ 2source record 387
if they come in through the Spanish line I would only speak Spanish to them. worked the best as well♥ 0source record 388
That barely happens 😂 be honest, just say people you know don’t know how to emotionally regulate at work 💀🙏♥ 0source record 389
Girl And I’m abouta to start getting people fired especially when they doin that shit 😐♥ 0source record 391
As you should. It’s work avoidance. They can help but choose not to based on the spoken language of the caller. Even if the job allows it, the law does not.♥ 1source record 392
👎🏽👎🏽 BOOOOO bet you told the teacher they forgot to collect the homework♥ 32source record 394
🤣🤣🤣 No I didn’t lol. But honestly I prefer 100% Spanish speakers over English. Soooo much nicer. Many Americans are so entitled. Unfortunately my job is to speak to both so I just keep them on the line English or Spanish.♥ 68source record 395
Tbh I didn’t even know it was a thing I try not to call places as much as possible♥ 0source record 396
No, definitely call. If you have any issue. You have to think about yourself, or else nobody will. I mean I work for the county so it’s not serious things but still… lol♥ 3source record 397
I just speak spanish at the beginning and get the rep confused with Spanglish so I force him/her to speak English then I continue my call. Works like a charm 🤟🏼🤣♥ 0source record 400
😭 gotta start spanglish and finish off 100% English♥ 0source record 401
tbf the line is for people who only know spanish, youre making their only option take longer♥ 2source record 405
It depends where you call. The times I've actually done this, the person answering the calls speak English too. I started speaking Spanish but then we both end up speaking Spanglish. idk why.hahaha♥ 7source record 406
May they always have warm pillows and hit the red lights when they’re in a hurry 🥰♥ 2source record 407
YESSS MEEEEEE cus we got SPANISH only speaking customers waiting just like them!♥ 7source record 408
Yup, that's how it works at my job too. We don't do line cuts.♥ 4source record 413
In college I worked as a spanish rep in cs working night shift for a. 24 hour global company. I received exclusive Spanish calls. About 3 calls per night on average. Some nights I got no calls so for 4 years I collected a check and slept through most of my shift with an occasional interruption. I was able to work 2 full time jobs and a part time weekend job. I graduated with honors with enough money saved to finance my first home 😂♥ 0source record 417
I’ve trasnsfer calls or I just say my audio is bad so yall can hang up and try that call again 😀♥ 27source record 418
Call center people who fake bad audio deserve the customer interactions they get.♥ 1source record 419
As a CA yes we do because we are required to take Spanish calls so back to English you go 😂♥ 37source record 420
😂😂 there are agents that will do that. Like sir/ma'am, this is the (language) line. *gets thrown back in the english queue line* 😩♥ 0source record 423
Yeah, but that’s when he started getting repeat callers that’s why you don’t do that. Also, how you get fired♥ 17source record 425
I agree that’s kinda messed up. spanish only speakers have lived a life of patience living in the states where english is mainly spoken. they have waited their time for a translator in court and everywhere else. as english speakers we can wait a bit and not abuse one of their resources🫶♥ 0source record 434
i would just keep calling to annoy them at that point cuz girl… you know english and spanish babe so speak it 🤣♥ 343source record 435
People used to do this at my old job. It was so much fun transferring that one caller around the office.♥ 4source record 436
then wait in the english call line if you wanna speak english on a SPANISH line 😆♥ 0source record 437
Literally, you got hired for being bilingual for a reason don’t make me leave you a bad rating now♥ 0source record 441
Facts..I lowkey feel like that’s discrimination the same way ppl would discriminate them for speaking Spanish 😭😭♥ 0source record 443
It’s the Spanish line for a reason. And their signed contract says when working the designated language line will take that designated language 🤷‍♀️They’re following their contract rules.♥ 240source record 446
I’ve been doing this for YEARS 😩 and they’ve always been so nice and helpful. No one has ever been visibly annoyed by it.♥ 72source record 447
Easy because we didn’t get hired to speak English we got hired to speak a different language so the English line can take care of THEIR callers and we take care of Spanish callers just like we were contracted to do plus English callers are so rude and entitled 😂😭♥ 31source record 449
this! all of this!! i work in public health and overall.. my spanish speaking patients are wayyyy nicer and appreciative. or even other patients i have to use the language line for. it’s truly a problem with americans, regardless of race actually♥ 20source record 450
YES!!! Like English speakers have no manners, are rude, demanding, and have so much entitlement it’s scary 🫣♥ 25source record 451
No offense, but it’s called the Spanish line for a reason. You don’t speak it. No matter how much you think it’s unfair, that’s the reality, people who use products speak Spanish. Plus blame the company for not putting more workers in the regular lines. The people who have the Spanish line shouldn’t be forced to do double to work.♥ 13source record 453
Sometimes the customer services reps dont live in the US.♥ 6source record 456
When I worked at PNC bank, Spanish line was ALWAYS completely flooded out with calls, they would have to wait a crazy amount of time to speak with a Spanish consultant♥ 5source record 457
Ummm nooo. Don’t do that! Depending on the company they’ll ask you to put the caller back in the English queue!!!♥ 3source record 458
no mather where the rep is located, all the reps have the same tools and same procedures to assist you! the location does not make any difference♥ 2source record 459
This seems like very inconsiderate advice, punish Spanish speakers with longer wait times because English speakers are impatient and believe they have priority over their line???? This is what’s wrong with the world♥ 1source record 463
customer service reps arent usually based in usa, especially not spanish ones. we always ask where the call went out of curiosity and we've gotten panama, mexico, ecuador, texas, and honduras. a few others too. really interesting and really long wait times lmao♥ 1source record 466
as someone who works at a call center for the spanish customer service line. 😩 pls DONT. we get graded and since the call is not spoken in spanish it’s usually a negative grade.♥ 1source record 467
omg!! ty for all the likes!! I've never had a comment yet this many responses before!! 🥰🥰🥰 Glad I could help! 💕💕♥ 0source record 471
I did this once on accident and then they transferred me to an English speaking line. lol.♥ 0source record 477
Not totally true. I worked at a healthcare company and Spanish speakers would get on the line with me and I would just have to get an interpreter on the phone♥ 0source record 480
I used to transfer these people right back into the English queue. You’re not about to skip everybody in my watch😂♥ 0source record 483
Now why the heck is the line shorter for Spanish speaking folk😀♥ 0source record 484
I ask for Spanish all the time and they answer to me in English first 🤣♥ 0source record 489
indid this once and the rep said this is the Spanish line call back in for English and hung up on me 😩😂😂😂♥ 0source record 493
As a former phone agent working in Mexico for Comcast, this is 100% true♥ 0source record 494
Sometimes you have to wait a long time for Spanish too😭♥ 0source record 498
So that’s why my mami can never get on the phone. Maybe the Spanish line is for actual Spanish speakers and the english line for english speakers? Make it a lot easier for the rest of us♥ 0source record 499
I've actually done this before 😅 I just act confused when they answer and they always help 😀 I’m just a girl lol♥ 0source record 503
This wouldn’t work at my old job because although they do speak both languages, the Spanish line was specifically established for our Mexico office 🤣 so English speakers are transferred to the “English” line.♥ 0source record 504
I've heard the same thing about the social security administration. They say, pick a ridiculously odd language, and the line will be really short. Then you just ask for english♥ 0source record 511
Depends on the call center. I’ve worked in both. Ones that had me help the customer no matter what, and the other one that told me to transfer to the English line to help only Spanish speakers. So it depends. 😝♥ 0source record 512
we actually were required to send English speakers to the English only line because there were only 2 bilingual agents for 2000 stores.♥ 0source record 513
Nah cuz that’s like parking in a handicap space so u don’t have to walk as far to get in the store😭 they need those agents for ppl who don’t speak English♥ 0source record 516
Dont Don’t do this 😂😂 I work for hospital scheduling n I only schedule certain dept! once I can’t help you w what you need your still going to wait 😩♥ 0source record 519
not always. we were required to transfer you to English in my old job unless i wanted to dial in a English translator....and yeah I wasn't doing that♥ 0source record 520
Wait what???? Lmfao. People are born in America and speak Spanish. This is a diverse country. This is such an insane take, chill your freak a** out.♥ 12source record 525
Don’t follow this tip the agents get pissed off most of the time and will just throw you back in the que to wait all over again 😭♥ 2source record 526
That’s not what it’s there for though. Have some respect for those who actually need the Spanish line 🙄♥ 2source record 527
Don’t do that we hate that. If you just speak English I’m transferring you back or hanging up♥ 0source record 530
This is dumb because they're racist & then they get all mad that we speak Spanish. & then they hit you with are you in America . ughh the worst♥ 0source record 533
I did this during Covid to FINALLY get in touch with unemployment after HOURS of failed calls/perpetual busy tone. Got transferred and funds deposited immediately.♥ 0source record 546
for canadians (outside of quebec) it works with French queues too!♥ 0source record 547
Wait I forget that I’m literally nearly fluent in Spanish and I could use the Spanish line and actually speak in Spanish 😭😭♥ 0source record 551
The greatest tea spill of all time we as consumers we didn’t know we needed. 🥺♥ 0source record 552
as a CSR, this is 100% accurate♥ 0source record 553
Where I work, the Spanish queue is actually longer♥ 0source record 555
Also works calling into Sales, then asking for Customer Service. Sales is going to get you to a human faster than any other line. And when they transferred to Customer Service since it’s an internal transfer, it takes priority over everyone else in the Customer Service line.♥ 0source record 556
Not in California the lines are actually twice as long♥ 0source record 558
My friend did that when a new iPhone was being released..she selected the Spanish line and got her order right in lol♥ 0source record 562
I did this and the entire time never spoke English to me but they still took care of the issue.♥ 0source record 564
So true! I always do that shit.lol. I start speaking Spanish and then the person on the line finds out I speak English too so then we speak Spanglish.hahahha♥ 0source record 565
I actually accidentally did this and the man was so nice I hope he’s doing well he was so confused😂😂♥ 0source record 568
ha not always. I did thay and guy was like I am required to speak Spanish since you used the Spanish line 😂♥ 0source record 569
As someone who speaks both languages I do this , I’ve been doing this since I was 16 😂 it definitely connects you to someone quicker.♥ 0source record 570
Does it work with toll road collectors when I've already paid all the tolls and all they have are the fees and penalties and how did they get my phone number in the first place because I didn't give it to them♥ 0source record 584
not always. the same way some companies have outsourced customer support to India and the Philippines others have outsourced the Spanish line to latin america, some of the people are bilingual some aren't♥ 0source record 585

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Credits, price adjustments and returns you have to ask for by name149 index entriesOutage credits, post-purchase price adjustments and long-dated returns, with current staff disputing the timeframes former staff quote.
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Use when: You have already paid, and the price dropped, the service failed, or the item did not last

How commenters applied it: 149 records. The useful reports here all take the same shape: a specific window, a specific channel, and a request nobody makes for you. A GAP employee says calling in after an online purchase gets a price adjustment and that staff are trained to appease; another adds a 14-day adjustment window and a same-promotion catch-up. A cable-industry commenter says outage credits are logged automatically but only paid on request, and explains that the amount is the monthly rate divided by days in the month. Torrid and Kohl's staff describe in-store price matching against their own website. Nordstrom and Nike former employees describe unusually long return windows, and current employees in both threads immediately contest the timeframes.

What readers reported: Every cable company/service provider per the fcc is suppose to give you a credit on your bill for every outage, it’s logged in the records too for each outage that happens . Unfortunately it isn’t automatic you have to call up for it.

Limit: The two headline claims — a two-year Nike return and a Nordstrom policy that takes anything — are both denied by current employees of those companies in their own threads, who quote 60-day and 30-day policies instead. Treat the windows as what former staff remember, not as current policy, and expect it to vary by store.

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Nope they should be able to do it for online too!

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This isn't true. Gad a pair of shoes And they wouldn't allow a return because it was a designer item. Had them for like a year and a credit card with them.

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I worked at nordstorm for 3 years, the one I worked at would scold people for sending worn items to nqc. It depends on department managers and the store manager. I worked in handbags and received a return with someone’s coins, airplane ticket, hair ties with hair stuck to it, and used tissues in it (I didn’t process the return, a different department did). They had used the bag for a trip and returned it after which happened quite often in the handbags department. Management didn’t let me nqc it, it was put back on the sales floor and sold to a customer after we removed the items.

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Yup! They were always used as an example when I worked in retail. I had an almost $300 purse for a couple years and the strap broke. I was able to return it online and bought the same one again.

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They sure do. Even broken and worn stuff

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Every cable company/service provider per the fcc is suppose to give you a credit on your bill for every outage, it’s logged in the records too for each outage that happens . Unfortunately it isn’t automatic you have to call up for it.

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This was before Nordstrom sold their company they sold it years ago it used to be family ran out of Seattle and now that I remember yes there was a last chance in Chicago one for the west coast one for the east k remember always swewringni would go to one cause we would send items that weren’t even damaged noticeably web orders are a whole “new” department in relativity to the age of the company so yes there are instances with every company that if someone were to buy and return via online only they could get a used item the process of returning online purchased items varies of it comes from a store or a distribution site, some people are gonna just let the worn item get re sold where some would do what’s right and just not re sell it, it’s not a Nordstrom policy though to resell used items intentionally and that’s what this OG poster was implying, any and every retailer with online purchase and return is gonna have some sort of used items being re sold unfortunately due to the number of order processing demands etc. I was just clarifying it isn’t a Nordstrom policy they don’t train you or teach you to do this and if someone in the store allows it they are grimly AF want a promotion so they are boosting sales or are in hot water or stealing themselves so many managers stole from Nordstrom it was crazy, also at Nordstrom if u buy with a gift card and return the item u can get cash back do with that as u will

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Nordstrom will take anything back! When I worked there, a lady returned boots from target and my manager said it was OK.

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as a former Amazon customer service agent - before placing an order from Amazon take note of who the order is being fulfilled by. if it is with Amazon most times it can be replaced,credited or refunded. Orders fulfilled by third-party companies have different refund and return policies

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True! I witnessed a coworker stating she bought a pair from a garage sale. Said she took them to Nordstrom because that’s where they were originally bought with the box and they refunded her $400 I was like 😲!!!!

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At nike you can refurn your shoes until 2 years as long as you use the app even if they are ripped,shredded etc for the same pair or a pair of the same price and if you work there for 5 years..you will get a lifetime discount no matter what.♥ 3,064source record 13475
If you buy online, that’s fine, but you would have to go in store to return whether to an nike outlet or a Nike store. Also, when you buy in-store, make sure they scan your app so you always have the receipt so you can still trade in the shoes within two years.♥ 63source record 13476
It should be fine as long as you had them scan your app when you bought them. And you can only do it if you bought it from a Nike store or a Nike outlet or nike online you have to return it to only a Nike store (it cannot be Nikes that you bought from an outside company, only from a Nike outlet Nike store or Nike online)♥ 18source record 13480
this is so false because after 60 days nike stores will not accept any returns on product. even if you have your receipt. i know this because i work there. also nike clearance stores don’t accept returns at all no matter if you bought it online or not.♥ 5source record 13484
Is isnt false at all. Thats how we did it. And it was 2years. I Worked at the Nike outlet store in Barstow, California.♥ 1source record 13485
i literally work for nike right now and i can tell you that we do NOT do that. the 2 year thing is not for the stores, its for online. go read nike’s return policy lmao♥ 2source record 13486
It’s for stores and online, sir. Maybe they should train you better.♥ 0source record 13487
do you have to have a valid reason to return them after so long?♥ 0source record 13489
Not at our store♥ 1source record 13490
They need to be return in the box ? [account] Thank you for gimme gold today 💋♥ 7source record 13491
Dont need the box.. all the information is on the tongue of your Nikes♥ 45source record 13492
Just things bought in the nike store and return at the nike store specifically? Or could it be any retailer that sells nike?♥ 12source record 13493
Yeah that should be fine,as long as its from [site removed]. And always make sure when you return it that they scan your app and if you do not have the Nike app, download the Nike app and make an account.♥ 0source record 13497
I was gonna comment that because i just tried that lol they didn’t take them back. It was the outlet♥ 0source record 13499
Hey I wanted to know if I ordered off of dtlr/villa will I be able to send the shoes back I ordered off line from there website?♥ 0source record 13500
So you have to work there ??♥ 0source record 13501
Can confirm as a customer. I returned my bball shoes after playing in them all season because the bottom separated and got $250 gift card to spend on the website.♥ 5source record 13504
Thank you. Just every time you make a purchase make sure they scan the app.♥ 5source record 13506
true… but not in the store customer service will tell you you can because they’ll think it’s a regular return. tell them it’s a claim for warranty and ship them the shoe you’ll get refunded♥ 2source record 13507
We never had to have them ship it..we always did it in store and i worked at an outlet nike store. I worked customer service and womanswear♥ 0source record 13508
they updated the policy in february. unless your head coaches just cool with overriding the transaction♥ 1source record 13509
It says only 60 days on the website....♥ 2source record 13511
As Someone who worked there, I’m telling you it’s 2 years.♥ 1source record 13512
Can confirm. I did this with a pair of shoes I bought my stepson.. he wore them for a whole year and they were dirty and looked awful.. there was damage to the sole and they replaced them with a brand new pair of shoes for $0.♥ 1source record 13513
So even though online it says 60 day return policy they’ll let me exchange my sneakers if it’s past that time?♥ 0source record 13514
When I worked there, we were able to.♥ 1source record 13515
Its still on theit website. At my old store they still ate doing it♥ 1source record 13517
Do you have to give them a reason why you returning it? What can you say?♥ 0source record 13518
You don’t have to give them a reason to return them just return them♥ 1source record 13519
So you need to purchase through the app? They refused to fix soles that were coming off in 6 months♥ 0source record 13520
They don’t fix your shoes either exchange it or return it and online purchase is fine also in store but if you do an in-store purchase, you have to make sure they scan your app♥ 1source record 13521
Ok so let me get this straight lol. Buy on line or in the store by scanning the app & return within 2 years?♥ 0source record 13522
I’m not too sure about that or Afterpay. I would call the Nike store and just ask them if you can, but you should be able to, I don’t see why they wouldn’t.♥ 1source record 13525
Yes the stores I worked at in Miami take the shoe. no matter if you bought it from a Nike store or not. We just looked at the tag to confirm it’s Nike and it’s within the timeframe 🤗♥ 1source record 13527
My app says within 60 days♥ 1source record 13529
Just make sure you and your return your shoes that it’s on the app you purchased so that Nike can return it and you can only return in store you can return on the app♥ 1source record 13531
Yes, are 100% right about the lifetime discount. I worked there from 2016 to 2021 now me and all my family are rocking Nikes for the rest of my life😂♥ 0source record 13535
They said their policy is 30 days with receipt♥ 0source record 13537
As long as you have them scan the app when you bought the shoes, you do not need a receipt♥ 0source record 13543
Nike is child labor, in other countries people “kids” are abused to make Nikes, there sent home with a penny a day””♥ 0source record 13544
I got a new pair sent to me once. I had to return my old ones but they did actually rip.♥ 0source record 13545
Is this only for if you buy it directly from Nike, or can you still do this if the Nike shoe came from a different store such as Amazon, famous footwear, finish line, Hibbetts, dicks.. etc♥ 0source record 13547
This is true they used to use a term called FD and if you know someone who currently works there, take them 2 pairs of any shoes and get whatever pair of shoes you want.♥ 0source record 13550
Girl my husband just bought a pair we asked and the guy said no it’s 60 days 😩 the cashier scanned our link in the app so we are golden right lol♥ 0source record 13551
When i worked there i was 2 years.♥ 0source record 13552
We took the shoes back and exchange or refunded. So it sucks that your store got rid if it♥ 0source record 13554
We never asked for reason,we just would return them. So im not wrong,maybe its just your store♥ 0source record 13555
Yes. Aslobg as it hasnt been more then 2years. They allow you to trade it in for a shoe of the same price or the same shoe♥ 0source record 13561
Right lmao the app says return within 60 days♥ 0source record 13563
How about if they not damaged? I have two pairs and they are not damaged at all but i dont have a receipt for one♥ 0source record 13564
I never knew that, now this is definitely worth knowing because I don’t have the box and my $300 running sneakers are certainly worn out and shredded. I bought them on Nike’s own website. I might have the box with the receipt still inside but if I don’t I can just return it to a store with the sneakers inside a bag right.♥ 1source record 13565
It was. You work there for 5years..you get a lifetime discoint plus the 3 people you picked to also get the discount. And it used to be a 30% discount plus any other discount that’s going on at the Nike store Nike online or Nike outlet so we used to be able to stack our discounts. And they do have the two year warranty on the shoes and or apparel…. maybe you should get trained better♥ 0source record 13566
Nordstrom will take anything back! When I worked there, a lady returned boots from target and my manager said it was OK.♥ 3,505source record 13595
Well actually.. as someone who used to work at Nordstrom, I never shop there because of their return policy. They sell u used items / send it to Nordstrom rack to be refurbished and resold. I’ve seen some nastttyyyy things.♥ 213source record 13597
I’ve worked retail before so I know how it goes. If I see something in questionable condition I always dry clean or wash first. I don’t shop at Nordstrom rack or stores like Marshall’s for the reasons you just named♥ 39source record 13600
😂Nah idk what Nordstrom you worked at but I worked for many years at both the rack and mainline and there’s a store specifically for damaged goods there’s only one in North America in Arizona all the ripped, damaged, worn, stained, old, unsellable things went there, the rack does not have the same return policy as mainline Nordstrom and they do not sell returned worn. Items 😂🙄♥ 15source record 13603
it’s not just arizona there’s a nordstrom last chance in chicago and i have seen vids on here of ppl receiving clearly worn/used items from nordstrom’s website♥ 7source record 13604
I worked at nordstorm for 3 years, the one I worked at would scold people for sending worn items to nqc. It depends on department managers and the store manager. I worked in handbags and received a return with someone’s coins, airplane ticket, hair ties with hair stuck to it, and used tissues in it (I didn’t process the return, a different department did). They had used the bag for a trip and returned it after which happened quite often in the handbags department. Management didn’t let me nqc it, it was put back on the sales floor and sold to a customer after we removed the items.♥ 8source record 13605
That’s crazy work sales native not been making their numbers cause there’s no way in the Bay Area ca that would’ve flown 😂♥ 0source record 13606
This was before Nordstrom sold their company they sold it years ago it used to be family ran out of Seattle and now that I remember yes there was a last chance in Chicago one for the west coast one for the east k remember always swewringni would go to one cause we would send items that weren’t even damaged noticeably web orders are a whole “new” department in relativity to the age of the company so yes there are instances with every company that if someone were to buy and return via online only they could get a used item the process of returning online purchased items varies of it comes from a store or a distribution site, some people are gonna just let the worn item get re sold where some would do what’s right and just not re sell it, it’s not a Nordstrom policy though to resell used items intentionally and that’s what this OG poster was implying, any and every retailer with online purchase and return is gonna have some sort of used items being re sold unfortunately due to the number of order processing demands etc. I was just clarifying it isn’t a Nordstrom policy they don’t train you or teach you to do this and if someone in the store allows it they are grimly AF want a promotion so they are boosting sales or are in hot water or stealing themselves so many managers stole from Nordstrom it was crazy, also at Nordstrom if u buy with a gift card and return the item u can get cash back do with that as u will♥ 2source record 13607
Oh really because recently the rack sold me shoes that were dirty and scuffed. I sent them back and got them replaced.♥ 2source record 13608
Again re read my comment this time SLOWLY 😂😂😂 the rack has way different policies than Nordstrom and I have gotten shoes from macys worn it just depends where u buy the employees etc im not saying it never happens im speaking solely on their policies♥ 2source record 13609
U still didn’t read what I responded with 😂😂😂 I didn’t say u can’t read I said re read it slowly over again as if u missed something or misunderstood, relax it’s not that serious I clarified and explained clearly this is too much at the end of the day the day gotta end be blessed 😂😂😂♥ 0source record 13610
You wrote (copy pasted directly): "the rack does not have the same return policy as mainline Nordstrom and they do not sell returned worn. Items"-you straight up wrote "they do not sell return worn items." And clearly after getting those dirty shoes they sent me, they do in fact sell return worn items. You could've simply said "I stand corrected" instead of telling me to "read more slowly." Because all you did was confirm what I said.♥ 3source record 13611
And in that instance should’ve been reported that’s against their policy .. former assistant store manager for rack , assistant manager for mainline and full line in store former customer service rep here ., yes they return anything but generally those items are damaged out , last chance receives the damaged goods that are reusable for sale just like something you buy at a thrift store .. but if the item smells or dirty to an extent it’s gross it should be tossed by the store . Rack only carries sales items that didn’t sell in full line and those go to clearance . Rack stores also has their own contracts for items purchased specifically for their store’s . So rack stores items are new just like full line .♥ 0source record 13612
Managers at the store I worked at were extremely unprofessional.. they wanted to prioritize sales no matter how damaged the product was. One handbag we had was bought and returned at least 10 times💀 I saved myself the headache cuz I was not about to fight it while getting paid $8/hr 😂 the store manager didn’t care either, he’s old school retail and always took the managers side no matter how wrong they were♥ 0source record 13613
where I worked, they valued the international customers over locals. most only spoke Spanish, and they false advertise jobs : beauty concierge means stock and clean shelves. and, customer ALWAYS ALWAYS right. one was super rude, I needed managers help and they didn't. I was polite and came to the back to Sai please go deal with her, she's being a b**"*. I got fired for bringing in negative energy. 😂. I said, no disciple? just bye? yes and told me have a good day. oh, while at the grocery store the other day, I heard two teen workers use the f word. not professional but whatever♥ 0source record 13614
Yea they definitely went downhill with hiring and the way they operate .. but I also think the general workforce is really different these days .. I was with the company back in 2011-2016♥ 0source record 13615
We used to put it in a bin in the back. I think it went to last chance Nordstrom or whatever it is but not to resell there.♥ 0source record 13619
Omg my friend got banned from Nordstrom from doing this too many times😂 The ceo himself emailed her. She bought 2k worth of stuff and returned 6k over a course of 3 years hahaha♥ 3source record 13622
Just quit yesterday, can totally confirm. I returned a ladies cosmetic product (it still had the proof of purchase sticker), and it was from 3 YEARS AGO. 👀🤷🏾‍♀️♥ 3source record 13624
Obv receipt but like if u buy boots an then return u can return different boots♥ 2source record 13628
she’s lying, we have to get a managers approval and even then if it even looks SLIGHTLY worn we cannot take it back, with no receipt we can only issue you store credit♥ 2source record 13629
Literally. I returned a pair of jeans from 4 years ago and had worn them, multiple times. Got my full $150 in cash 🤣🤣♥ 2source record 13630
Pay us Pennies just to work around unhonest people that try an take your sale.♥ 1source record 13632
Do I say anything specific? Let me take these back cause I can’t believe they ripped fr!♥ 0source record 13637
You can say whatever because how they rip in the first place ,they gone give you your money back♥ 0source record 13638
Idk if I believe that I tried to exchange a David Yurman bracelet and they gave me a hard time.♥ 0source record 13639
The person friend was trying to save there commission♥ 1source record 13640
Thiiiiiisssssss😩😩😩😩 they also except used underwear and department 568 dont check the returns they just ship them out also buy high end stuff out the stores♥ 1source record 13641
I can second this. Hated working at Nordy bc of this exact reason!♥ 1source record 13644
That’s crazy. I grew up in eagle river. I’ve heard that same story way back. I graduated high school in 2000♥ 1source record 13646
One time when I worked at JC Penney my manager made me give a refund to a lady returning a shirt with obvious pit stains lol 😂 I’m like okayyyyy lol I don’t care what people do you know I’m like what on Earth am I doing in this bizarre space called retail world♥ 1source record 13648
Back in the day they were known for that and truly took anything! In high school in the 90s I used to buy really expensive sunglasses, wear them for 6 months or so, then return for a new pair! I have also returned absolutely theashed Frye boots there for a brand new pair. They have gotten much stricter over the past decade or so. Probably because of ppl like me 😬♥ 1source record 13650
I used to work there and this is true lol no matter how long it’s been♥ 1source record 13651
Wait how do they know how much to refund then if there is no receipt?!♥ 1source record 13654
They can scan barcode on the box if they have box. If not they just looked up how much they are selling for currently and issue a gift card. Or if customers demand to refund back to their card they can override it.♥ 1source record 13655
True! I witnessed a coworker stating she bought a pair from a garage sale. Said she took them to Nordstrom because that’s where they were originally bought with the box and they refunded her $400 I was like 😲!!!!♥ 0source record 13658
True, I returned a north face there that was ripped 2 years later and they gave me the exact same one brand new.♥ 0source record 13660
But yet I was denied an actual return because I was 5 days past the return period …♥ 0source record 13661
My ex and his cousin used to buy there $800 shoes, wear the cheap out of them for a year then return and get new ones without any questions! It was crazy!♥ 0source record 13662
Because they are building a case. Nordstrom’s loss prevention is top tier 🤌🏽♥ 0source record 13663
I worked there too. A lady returned an empty jar of Chanel moisturizer with a dillards sticker and they still accepted it, abuse of the return system, we had to smile while they took advantage of it♥ 0source record 13664
Omg yessss! I returned a shoes in nordstrom and the staff didn’t even checked it and straight up gave me the refund.♥ 0source record 13665
Nordstrom values their customers and most cannot afford to shop there. Many rent the clothes, wear them to an event, buy them for their client if their stylist, or wear them out completely and then return them and get exactly what they paid with no depreciation or discount. I’ve seen a customer come in with something new..but five years old. We took it back and refunded her money in full!♥ 0source record 13668
Years ago a woman returned a dress at Macys with embalming fluid on it. She wanted it on for the open casket but didn’t want to pay for her to be buried in it.♥ 0source record 13669
Macy’s do too! Even if the item is now a “penny” item; they will damage it right out.♥ 0source record 13672
Yup! They were always used as an example when I worked in retail. I had an almost $300 purse for a couple years and the strap broke. I was able to return it online and bought the same one again.♥ 0source record 13677
It’s true—my mom returned a hat after 15 years and still got a full refund😭♥ 0source record 13679
Yea but it’s processed and she’s 🆔 and LP most definitely knows that face.♥ 0source record 13680
This isn't true. Gad a pair of shoes And they wouldn't allow a return because it was a designer item. Had them for like a year and a credit card with them.♥ 0source record 13681
Ok so I I bought new balances (not the ones I wanted) last year before Japan because it’s all they had, I hate them and they were over $200. So I can do that?♥ 0source record 13682
Macy’s & Champs too. Even if you’ve had it a year. They’ll still take it back as long as you have the SKU & receipt♥ 0source record 13685
I have a coat my mom got me with no receipt but still has the tag ? Can I return it♥ 0source record 13689
So true my ex used to use all the cologne and return the empty bottle and get a full refund. Smh♥ 0source record 13690
My mom tried to return a gift from Nordstrom & they won’t take it back without receipt or phone number of the person♥ 0source record 13691
no they refused to take my alexander mcqueen shoes back and the staff told other staff not to take it back even though it was in excellent condition and had it for less than a month♥ 0source record 13695
It can be 10 years ago 😭😭now♥ 0source record 13699
Not anymore those beans was spilled years ago. They're particular now.♥ 0source record 13701
Very true. Ex employee I used to roll my eyes over returns but it’s not my money or store😂♥ 0source record 13702
When I worked at Walmart people would just walk into the store pick something up and return to Customer Service bc that’s where I worked and we had to give them a gift card.♥ 0source record 13703
I have shoes that I’m 99% sure are defective. Can I still return them?♥ 0source record 13707
I worked at Thom McAn shoes when I was 17. A lady returned Kenny shoes with a Stride Rite receipt in a Florsheim box.🤨 My manager previously told me upon hire that the customer was always right. I went in the back and asked what should I do?🤔 He politely yelled at me telling me to "right or wrong, just make a decision!" I told her no.😕 She then knocked over the displays in the front of the store.😯 I was made asst mgr. one wk later, given the keys to the safe, when I was still 17.🫢 He was a great leader.🫡♥ 0source record 13716
Maybe more expensive than everywhere, but that’s why they’re the best. Customer service at Nordstrom is second to none.♥ 0source record 13717
They have to take everything back, even if it’s fake or worn to the GROUND!!!♥ 1source record 13718
Just use an abuse the system . I think that’s why they still open sad but true♥ 0source record 13722
This is another reason I don’t shop there anymore. They sold my sister a fake bag and she only knew it was bc she already had one directly from the brand!♥ 0source record 13726
If you shop online GAP (all their brands), you can call in to get a price adjustment. We are literally trained to appease customers. If you’re a good customer, call to get a 10% or 15% discount and they’ll 9/10 give it to you.♥ 755source record 14119
After. Also, if a promotion just ended. You can also call within 1-2 business days and ask for that same promotion.♥ 28source record 14121
Gap has such good sales for kids. Atleast they use to my kids 15 now but when he was a toddler and I was a single teen mom gap was my go to cus it was quality and shirts were like 3-5$ 😭♥ 26source record 14122
Gap and ON and Banana all have the SAME clothes- they just move tags around♥ 7source record 14123
Honestly I have same t shirts and jeans from both and there’s not much difference♥ 2source record 14125
Oh i know. I worked for HQ at ON. lol♥ 6source record 14126
🤫… We didn’t see this… We didn’t hear this… We have no idea where this rumor came from… The first rule of tea club is “I was just wondering.” 🤥♥ 2source record 14127
You have 14 days for price adjustment. Z keep your receipts and they can scan them and auto adjust everything♥ 1source record 14128
isn’t that just for in stores? i haven’t worked there in yeeeears. lol♥ 1source record 14129
niceee! i know when i was in training, the 14 days was only for in store only. i didn’t care. lol i have everybody who asked a discount 🤣🤣♥ 1source record 14131
Right I use to give the senior discount to anyone who was a teacher or served lol I worked for old navy and banana republic for like 8 years♥ 1source record 14132
Yup! Worked in the company for 8 years and they will literally give you anything, especially if you threaten to complain to corporate. They’re scared of that.♥ 0source record 14134
Gap wouldn’t accept my returns no matter how I escalated it up the chain. I finally had to submit a claim with my credit card company and I still returned the Gap merch♥ 0source record 14135
Here to tell you since ppl don’t know Walmart does this, the children place does this, footlocker does this also there’s plenty more stores that does price adjustments there just not going to tell you bc they want your money I got fired from the children’s place for doing price adjustments when it’s in the policy they do it😩😂♥ 0source record 14136
as a former Amazon customer service agent - before placing an order from Amazon take note of who the order is being fulfilled by. if it is with Amazon most times it can be replaced,credited or refunded. Orders fulfilled by third-party companies have different refund and return policies♥ 0source record 14199
Kohls is very much a push over when it comes to their customers. you can just say you found something on a different shelf with a much cheaper price and they HAVE to change the price for you♥ 315source record 14250
Used to work there, I did that if the customers were kind, and the request was reasonable. Also the employee discount was great and the store I was at had a fantastic work environment, I recommend them as a decent place to work at.♥ 14source record 14251
I can't believe how expensive they are now, I bought three items and paid $100♥ 6source record 14252
JCPenney is the same way. If you call for an LOD, they rather the manager on call changes it rather than the cashier♥ 2source record 14253
One time my item didn’t have the tag and they asked me how much I’d be willing to pay for it. 👀♥ 0source record 14254
I had to call customer service on the phone in the store for them to price match their website. The csr charged me over the phone for an in store pickup because the manager refused to price match, it was insane.♥ 0source record 14255
Every cable company/service provider per the fcc is suppose to give you a credit on your bill for every outage, it’s logged in the records too for each outage that happens . Unfortunately it isn’t automatic you have to call up for it.♥ 386source record 14263
Mine stated it has to be out 24+ hours before they give credit.♥ 7source record 14264
That could be true, the operator has some flexibility when it comes to that each operator has a franchise agreement with the state, sometimes the state agency clearly defines it, usually can find it with a google. The national call centers can’t memorize every franchise agreement.♥ 4source record 14265
I used to work for DIRECTV. He is absolutely correct! You tell them the amount of days that you had an outage and they have to credit you for those days.♥ 2source record 14266
This one I will be using since they make me call every two years to put back on the promotion rates.♥ 1source record 14267
It usually depends on how many days it’s out so like they’ll take your monthly bill amount before all the taxes and fees and they will divided by how many days are in the month and that’ll give them a total and then they’ll take that total and times it by how many days you were out of service♥ 1source record 14271
Directv doesn't give refunds if you cancel, let alone not charge for no service.😡♥ 0source record 14273
Torrid price matches their website in store. See jeans on sale for $50 online but not in the actual store? show a worker and they have to price match.♥ 186source record 14629
during the zara sales, every wednesday, there's a price drop: one wednesday it'll be on clothes, the wednesday after that it'll be on shoes and the cycle repeats until the sales end♥ 121source record 14963
Why would anybody shop in Zara in 2025 when Shein and Temu exist? 😋♥ 2source record 14964
the 28 day return policy STRICT! and “when it leaves the wear houses” NOT when delivered 😤😤😤 such BS! will never shop again (i was day of and they refused)♥ 0source record 14965

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Subscriptions and trials built to be hard to leave78 index entriesA former regional director explaining the cancellation policy, and readers comparing the workarounds that did and did not get them out.
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Use when: You are trying to end a membership and keep being told to come in person

How commenters applied it: 78 records. A former regional director of ten years, covering more than twenty sites, describes the cancellation route as deliberate: transfer the membership, write a letter, or come back to the gym you joined at, and staff are trained to keep you from cancelling. The replies are a natural experiment in what actually worked. The most-repeated workaround — say you have moved beyond the catchment — worked for some and failed for others who were sent to a new branch instead. Several describe cancelling online only after switching their home gym to a California location, citing that state's law. The routes that reliably ended the billing were blunt: a new bank card, a block on the account, or a complaint to a regulator.

What readers reported: Former RD for planet fitness here for 10 years over 20 sites. Planet Fitness 1000% does everything the way they do to continue to bill you as long as possible. Moving doesn’t help if the CSRs are following policy. They are supposed to have you transfer your membership to a new gym close to your new city. If there isn’t one, and you’ve already moved or forgot to cancel, they will tell you to write a letter or literally come back to the gym to cancel. 😳 They are heavily trained to do anything they can to keep someone from cancelling. They will let the collections build to crazy amounts too. I’ve seen collections for $2k+ and they won’t let you rejoin until it’s paid. It’s awful. I used to tell my teams to cancel them anyway because I thought it was so messed up. 😂But ask for a printed copy of your agreement. There are loopholes. It’s probably changed some since I left in 2021.

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nope I tried that and they asked me for my new address to mail me the cancelation documents and I have to send it to them back

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When I stopped working in the area of my planet fitness they canceled. Also, you bank can block all transactions from a specific retailer

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Nah. I tried this bc it was absolutely my circumstance and definitely did not work. I had to go in person to my HOME GYM or write a letter and send it to them.

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Yeahhh unfortunately this is correct. we can't do it otp because it requires your signature at the very end

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Planet fitness is designed to not be able to cancel online bcz they knew people will be lazy to go up there so they would keep on charging the person until they go up there in person

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Planet fitness is designed to not be able to cancel online bcz they knew people will be lazy to go up there so they would keep on charging the person until they go up there in person♥ 7,455source record 7080
If you ever want to cancel without paying the cancellation fee just say you’re moving somewhere and there isn’t a planet fitness within 30-50 miles away and they’ll cancel it for free that’s the only work around♥ 649source record 7081
Nah. I tried this bc it was absolutely my circumstance and definitely did not work. I had to go in person to my HOME GYM or write a letter and send it to them.♥ 176source record 7082
Worked for me. They looked it up and was like oh yeah ur right. Few months later one popped up in my area like oh one must be needed then.♥ 0source record 7083
or downgrade memberships and cancel after… no more commitment & it’s going to be cheaper if you have a fee♥ 0source record 7085
in California they must let you cancel online. Just go online switch ur home gym to California then cancel it online next day♥ 3source record 7086
I just canceled mine online and my home gym is federal way washington.♥ 1source record 7087
I had that problem today I went in person. They told me to cancel online. It wouldn’t let me cancel online or in person so I called them up at a rage and they did it on the spot♥ 0source record 7088
I mean they recently made it so u can cancel online now but what u would have to do originally was go in person to cancel or send a letter. Couldn’t do it over the phone or email. Some ppl would cancel it over the phone if they felt like being nice but weren’t supposed to♥ 80source record 7089
I called and said I fractured my hip and couldn’t come in because I couldn’t walk. They canceled it.♥ 9source record 7090
Sometimes it depends on who u speak to when u call. If they are feeling nice (even if they aren’t supposed to) they’ll cancel it for u over the phone. Things have been changing though so now u can cancel online and what not♥ 1source record 7091
i think i heard a while ago that they were getting in trouble/getting sued over this so i wouldn’t be surprised if they had to change it. i think there’s a law or smth that says it needs to be able to be cancelled quickly and easily and people were arguing that Pfit making people come inside to cancel was making it purposely difficult and against that law, and i believe the courts were agreeing with them.♥ 0source record 7092
PF employee here. You’re 100% right.♥ 0source record 7095
When I stopped working in the area of my planet fitness they canceled. Also, you bank can block all transactions from a specific retailer♥ 0source record 7096
nope I tried that and they asked me for my new address to mail me the cancelation documents and I have to send it to them back♥ 4source record 7097
Literally insane omg we didn’t care sometimes we’d help people pick a town too far from a PF 😮♥ 3source record 7098
Can confirm this worked for me a few months ago♥ 0source record 7099
Former RD for planet fitness here for 10 years over 20 sites. Planet Fitness 1000% does everything the way they do to continue to bill you as long as possible. Moving doesn’t help if the CSRs are following policy. They are supposed to have you transfer your membership to a new gym close to your new city. If there isn’t one, and you’ve already moved or forgot to cancel, they will tell you to write a letter or literally come back to the gym to cancel. 😳 They are heavily trained to do anything they can to keep someone from cancelling. They will let the collections build to crazy amounts too. I’ve seen collections for $2k+ and they won’t let you rejoin until it’s paid. It’s awful. I used to tell my teams to cancel them anyway because I thought it was so messed up. 😂But ask for a printed copy of your agreement. There are loopholes. It’s probably changed some since I left in 2021.♥ 9source record 7101
I was going to say. I tried as well and ended up having to find one and cancel in person.♥ 0source record 7103
I had to go to my home gym to cancel my membership but my home gym got turned into a Starbucks and they still wouldn’t cancel my membership online, through mail, over the phone or at another gym location. Had to get a whole new bank card so they would stop 😀♥ 1source record 7105
I filed a complaint with the BBB and reported them to my bank. I was NOT going to go in person. They ended up canceling.♥ 3source record 7106
Yeahhh unfortunately this is correct. we can't do it otp because it requires your signature at the very end♥ 0source record 7107
This didn’t even work for me. I went to my home gym, told them I was moving bc I fr was and the new location was too far. They said to go to the new location with my husbands orders. I did. They said it was already canceled.. TELL ME WHY I STILL GOT CHARGED EVERY MONTH. 🤦🏼‍♀️I had to block them from my bank account 😤♥ 10source record 7108
Can’t wait til they get sued! I got the news involved and they gave me a refund, then reversed it a couple weeks later. By then I was emotionally exhausted over the whole thing and they knew it.♥ 3source record 7109
Did this with Edge fitness, they tried to be slick and keep saying they wasn’t receiving my document with my address. Till one of the managers reached out and took care of it personally. I wasn’t really moving I also get mail to my moms address out of state 🤣 but they got enough of my free money as it was♥ 0source record 7113
They do not care. They will tell you the only way is in person.♥ 6source record 7114
I tell anyone I can to not get a membership there. Leaving is harder than getting divorced 😂♥ 3source record 7117
That doesn’t work! My husband got orders and we moved to a state with no plant fitness by us and they wouldn’t let me cancel. I had to change banks to get a cancellation because they wouldn’t help me!♥ 0source record 7118
Yes I threatened to sue them cause I lived out of state and they finally canceled my membership♥ 2source record 7120
We had to do the same thing, it’s wild.♥ 1source record 7121
I feel like you could sue for that. Idk but maybe. That’s terrible♥ 2source record 7122
They were wearing me out on purpose it became so much back n forth I just wanted it to end. I know someone’s going to sue them and I’m here for it!♥ 1source record 7123
You can just send them an email to cancel. It’s pretty easy actually♥ 1source record 7125
Use a prepaid credit card with only so much of a balance in there. Never give a gym your checking account info♥ 0source record 7126
Sadly pf doesn’t take prepaid cards it needs a routing & account number that where they get you too 😩♥ 1source record 7127
Oh, bummer, they must have changed it. That’s the only way I did it, however, I haven’t had a membership the last few years. I guess they caught on.♥ 0source record 7128
You can email them the cancellation request and they will do it. Takes them a while to respond but I did it and they cancelled my membership♥ 1source record 7130
I just cancelled online in like 5 min♥ 1source record 7131
i worked at planet fitness in 2020 and this is true😭😭😭 they depend on ppl being too lazy to come into the store or you have to mail everything😭♥ 1source record 7139
My fiancé has had a membership for like 5 years now that he hasn’t been to in like 4 years and just hasn’t canceled cuz he doesn’t wanna go in 😭😂♥ 1source record 7141
That is literally me my membership is from 2019 and I swear I haven’t been to planet fitness in 5 years♥ 1source record 7142
Then when u go to cancel in person, they will try to counter your cancellation and try to convince you to put your acct on a 3 month hold, just so that you forget all about it in 3 months and start charging you again♥ 0source record 7144
They got me like this. Acted like I cancelled on the phone. Went in a year later to reactivate my membership, they were talking about I owed them $250 SIKE!♥ 0source record 7147
I literally just canceled my membership online and I’m in Pa♥ 0source record 7152
I mailed them a letter and then called my bank to tell them to block any charges from them lol worked like a charm♥ 0source record 7161
I worked there& can confirm♥ 0source record 7162
It took me 2 years to cancel my membership because of this 😩♥ 0source record 7166
THIS IS SO TRUE. I moved states a few years ago and needed to cancel my old membership and I had to MAIL a letter that I personally wrote, just to cancel.♥ 0source record 7167
Unfortunately I know this and they got 7 months of payments😭♥ 0source record 7168
You can write them a letter stating you are cancelling it and they will cancel it for you without penalty 🫶🏻♥ 0source record 7170
Most gyms lol I’ve worked at a few♥ 0source record 7174
Depends if your planet fitness is a franchise or corporate location. My location is franchise and you can 100% cancel online. You can also freeze your account too and transfer all online. And it’s free to cancel unless you owe a balance♥ 0source record 7175
I worked for PF and you have to send a letter end to cancel where I’m at.♥ 0source record 7176
Switch your home gym to a gym in California. From there, you can cancel your membership online. California has laws that planet fitness has to allow you to cancel the membership from your online account♥ 0source record 7177
When I was traveling the country that’s exactly how they got me. I had to go back to the og location I signed up at to cancel and we were 3000+ miles away lmfaooo♥ 0source record 7180
I sent them 3 letters and went in person to my home gym 7 times. The moment I called and told the GM I would sue if they kept charging my card saying I had proof of asking to cancel for over a year.. they reimbursed me for 12mo and canceled it.♥ 0source record 7184
Yep, this is true! I worked for them too. The annual fee is a charge that happens once a year and it was $50 the last time I worked there. People called and screamed at me, bc they didn’t know what the charge was for. We had a script to follow and was told to tell the members that it was in the contract, that they signed… soooo rude 😅 anyways, if they wanted to cancel, we were told to tell them that they had to come up to the gym, that they signed up with, to cancel. Even though the money had already come out, sorryyyy. If they moved to a different state and forgot they had a membership, they had to send them a letter, explaining their reasoning for cancelation. If the member didn’t cancel before their monthly fee, they would have to pay an additional monthly fee, before canceling. I always felt so bad, but that’s what we were told to do.♥ 0source record 7186
Just call your bank and stop the payment. I did this last month after trying to cancel 2 times in person and they kept stealing my money.♥ 0source record 7187
They was charging me for 2 years. After they told me I could just send an email stating I wanted to stop service♥ 0source record 7188
So is the joint chiropractic you have to go into the original location you signed up at♥ 0source record 7189
It depends who owns the PF too. Like some are corporate and most are franchise.♥ 0source record 7193
massage envy does this too. it took 3 months for them to cancel my account.♥ 0source record 7194
Well I haven’t worked there in 5 years my club didn’t care 🤷🏼‍♀️sorry♥ 0source record 7195
I literally moved to a different country, but apparently there was a planet fitness around and I went in to try to cancel because it wasn’t even remotely close to my house. I lived in Vancouver and it was across the river like you have to take a ferry to get there or drive across this really big bridge called the Lions gate and they didn’t think that was acceptable excuse. Mind you debit cards and stuff for different over there so I wouldn’t have had even a way to like set up payment.♥ 0source record 7196
this is exactly why i never cancelled mine. then i ended up getting a new bank acct and forgot to switch everything. fees racked up and PF sent me to collections over $200..whoops♥ 0source record 7197
i changed it from banking information to my cash app banking. so every time they try to charge my card it was empty LOL and eventually after about 6 months they stopped never had to cancel♥ 0source record 7198
I cancelled online on a computer, not my phone. It was quick and easy♥ 0source record 7200
My PF bill just keeps going up and up. They said they won’t cancel until I send a letter. I said I did months ago and they said I had to have my bill paid in full which was like 6 months at that point. Crooks♥ 0source record 7201
And crunch fitness too! I wrote a letter and mailed it certified and they “claimed” they never received it. Mind you, you have to sign for certified letters. Took me about a year to cancel because I was finally back in the country to do so♥ 0source record 7205
I just switched my payment method to my cash app card and let them get hit with that decline month after month for about two years…. Now they don’t even try. That or they sent me to collections? Idk I haven’t gotten a collections bill or call for it♥ 0source record 7209
I called mid-pregnancy & since I had terrible pains, I couldn’t go down there. All associates hung up on me so the next time I called I told the manager I had no legs & no way to get there. She apologized & terminated my contract ASAP 🤭 might wake up numb legged for fucking around 💀 FA&FU♥ 2source record 7212
Most of the corporate managers are dudes that look like the “lunks” they advertise to not allow. Previously a GM and OPs manager for them.♥ 0source record 7213
If you want to cancel your gym membership online. Change your address to a California address and you will have the option to cancel online.♥ 0source record 7215
Yup just cancelled and they kept charging me $40-$45 a month stating I had late fees , my card always has funds … lost me , hopefully they go out of business ✌🏽♥ 0source record 7217
I hate planet fitness "you must send a handwritten letter into the club you originally signed up at!" dumbest shit ive ever heard.♥ 0source record 7218
I’ve had this happen non Rhode Island but they told me they cancelled it! I blocked planet fitness on my card so I’m like $350 behind with them. They said I couldn’t sign up to use the gym bc of that. I said I was told that it was cancelled and the guy goes(mind you he’s the manager) well idk who told you that but that’s not correct. So I asked him “aren’t you the manager?” He said yes so I said “maybe you should train your employees better or maybe better yet not let them lie and scam people out of money” he had nothing to say… later that day I get a call from that Planet Fitness saying I have free membership for life🤣♥ 0source record 7221
I called them. and wrote the stupid letter and they STILL charged me. so, I had my bank block it 😂♥ 0source record 7222
Be wary about testing out Google Workspace. They basically partners with domain providers. When you sign up for the free trial and accept a domain, they charge you for it. It’s not exactly the free experience they claim it to be.♥ 0source record 14197

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Buying a car, financing it and getting it serviced36 index entriesSalespeople, finance managers and a licensed mechanic on markups, the bank sheet, and what to say when they take your keys.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Buying a car, financing it and getting it serviced

Source-backed answers are shown before diagnostics; the complete source archive remains below.

Buying a car, financing it and getting it serviced

36 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are about to negotiate a price, sign finance paperwork, or hand a car to a chain workshop

How commenters applied it: 36 records. The strongest report is procedural: treat the sticker as a ceiling, price the car independently first, and decline to discuss how the dealership keeps its lights on. A finance-side commenter adds the concrete step — ask for the bank sheet, the list of credit offers the dealer received, because the dealer profits from which one it picks. Another says never to hand over your own keys before the deal is done. Salespeople reply at length disputing the margins and explaining packs, holdbacks and commission, and one licensed mechanic gives the servicing version: use a shop that will walk you into the bay and show you the fault without pressure.

What readers reported: Also, if you finance through the dealer, ask for the bank sheet! 9 times out of 10, the APR and bank you get credited through makes a profit for them. The bank sheet is a list of credit offers for you and the dealership will just pick the ones that make the most money for themselves.

Limit: Working salespeople in this thread argue the quoted margins are wrong for several manufacturers and that a mini-commission deal leaves the salesperson unpaid. The oil-change warning is one former manager's account of one chain, disputed by long-term customers of the same chain.

What the replies added3

Yeah they try to over charge me 8k I am like nope take all that off …

Pushback♥ 3

What was wrong with it? And I meant Valvoline won’t pay you unless you address it to them first. They won’t pay when you just come to them with a bill saying “you broke my car, here’s the bill” it’s like a legal thing.

Reported failure

They didn’t tighten the screw on 2 different cars and the oil leaked out. Never again!

Reported failure

Source-record spotlights

Most engaged source

You can buy any new car at least than MSRP. MSRP should be the MOST you pay for a new car. Use KBB to price new/used vehicles and be very adamant about that pricing. Dealers will try to get you on "well you know we have to keep the lights on" and that's when you say "my job as a consumer isn't to worry about how you run your business".

source record 13088♥ 638
Later-arriving source

if you are going to refinance a car with capital one, never say that the car is for business purposes, even if the car is for those purposes, or for farm or anything, just say personal purposes

posted about 77 days after the source
Zero-like source

You can negotiate documentation/admin fee at the dealership.

posted about 61 days after the source

What the counts show

The exact phrase “ive worked for a” recurs across 2 of the 36 source records in Buying a car, financing it and getting it serviced; the complete archive stays available below.

36index entries
36distinct source records
5.9%of parent category
0.6%of the complete index
3top-level comments
33replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
4asks a question
1says they intend to try it
31other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Browse the original comments36 preserved records · 36 of 36 source records accounted for
You can buy any new car at least than MSRP. MSRP should be the MOST you pay for a new car. Use KBB to price new/used vehicles and be very adamant about that pricing. Dealers will try to get you on "well you know we have to keep the lights on" and that's when you say "my job as a consumer isn't to worry about how you run your business".♥ 638source record 13088
So true. My boyfriend negotiated and I got my car for $11,800 out the door.. it was originally 15k lol.♥ 50source record 13089
Yeah they try to over charge me 8k I am like nope take all that off …♥ 3source record 13091
Also, if you finance through the dealer, ask for the bank sheet! 9 times out of 10, the APR and bank you get credited through makes a profit for them. The bank sheet is a list of credit offers for you and the dealership will just pick the ones that make the most money for themselves.♥ 11source record 13092
dealerships make profit in so many different ways I hate when people over sympathize with dealerships when you're trying to get a good deal lol♥ 6source record 13093
100% bro. I try to find non-commission based dealerships. Their rating are usually 4.5 or above. Any other dealership with reviews below that is usually trash to walk into♥ 7source record 13094
This is this first time I’m hearing about this. Idk his paychecks are super weak if he doesn’t get the customer to pay over sticker.♥ 1source record 13096
If you think about it though. If your fiance gets a sale with $1,000 commissionable gross then he takes home roughly $250 in commission. But you're saving people $20/month over 5-6 years. People don't buy multiple cars in the same year. but salesmen can sell multiple cars in the same day.♥ 9source record 13097
I LOVE trading cars! My husband sits with his arms folded and I do it all! I get what I want and always something free!♥ 3source record 13099
Also never let them take the keys to your current car until the deal is done. It’s their way of trapping you from saying I’m done and walking out. Lol♥ 3source record 13100
I’ve never had a dealer drive a car and we’ve purchased a TON of cars. They’ll look under the hood sometimes but that’s about it. If you drove it there to buy a new one it has to be functioning enough. But if they wanted to I’d tell them I would keep my keys and can go with them or drive them. Once you let them have your keys you’re trapped lol♥ 2source record 13102
Not $200 an hour $200 for the sale. So if the salesperson is with a customer for 3 hours looking at several cars and they pick one and the pack is $200. Then it’s $200 for however long they spent with the 1 customer.♥ 1source record 13103
sorry I meant $200/car not hour.♥ 0source record 13104
Honestly. I don't think I've experienced it too often that a salesman spends 3 hours with a customer to get a mini.♥ 0source record 13105
Yeah but then the car salesman barely gets paid for that deal. I know because my fiancé is a car salesman. If you pay the msrp then the salesman basically works for free.♥ 1source record 13106
Most dealerships have packs on USED vehicles. Holdbacks on new and these are both to cover for the vehicles they need to get rid of because they are over 90 days old so they sell for thousands below asking price and invoice a lot of the time. I’ve worked for a dealership that had $100 pack on used cars. Nothing at all, and they don’t pay sales people with packs. My percentage of the gross is after the pack. MSRP and TSRP are the exact same. The manufacturer sends us the window sticker. We can’t adjust it or change it. We have to post if we have adjusted pricing. Im at a Honda store now and we have a Type-R marked up $5k over sticker and we legally have to post it.♥ 0source record 13107
I think you’ve got things mixed up and are using the wrong terminology. MSRP is the manufacturer suggested retail price, from the auto maker, not the dealership. TSRP stands for total suggested retail price. The two are the same exact thing. Are you talking about invoice? Are you telling everyone they should pay what we pay for the car? I’ve worked for a few dealerships, and yeah in American made cars you can negotiate quite a bit and they will likely still make money, but Toyota, Honda and Subaru? Not the case. The average markup in a Toyota is $900. Honda is a little better. Packs go on used cars, you are talking about holdbacks when it comes to new. Marking a car up too high effects loan to value ratios. A bank will not approve a loan where you’re going to be super upside down. I think they let you finance up to 120% of the loan to value ratio? And that’s if you have good credit.♥ 0source record 13108
I’ve been working in car sales the past year and a half and I am not aware of any dealerships marketing cars over sticker, unless they are specialty high performance vehicles. Like a hellcat. Some have add ons like paint protection and Lo-Jack but those are fairly easy to negotiate off. It makes it harder to get someone financing if you’re asking too much, so it’s really not a sustainable practice.♥ 0source record 13109
What you’re saying simply isn’t true. I’m calling your bluff. There’s no way you bounced between all those roles in 7 years unless you’re older than you look and you were doing this in the 90’s or something. GM takes 10+ years to get into unless you’re working for a small company and/or know the owner personally. I have done plenty of research. I’m literally living it. You are sending people in to ask for the secret price that doesn’t exist.♥ 0source record 13111
if you are going to refinance a car with capital one, never say that the car is for business purposes, even if the car is for those purposes, or for farm or anything, just say personal purposes♥ 0source record 13471
You can negotiate documentation/admin fee at the dealership.♥ 0source record 14183
Honestly. The hard truth: DIY. it’s so easy. Literally. Saves you lots of money and doesn’t take much time.♥ 18source record 14278
Thank you for this. I have no one to teach me how, though. I don’t learn very well from videos or steps on paper. 😩♥ 3source record 14279
I’d teach you if I could! Depending on what car you have it’s even easier.♥ 3source record 14280
I don’t even know how to change a tire. I’m keeping onstar once my trial is over just for when I have a flat 😭♥ 0source record 14281
Some high schools have an auto mechanic class and will have their students change your oil and fix your car for free so they can learn.♥ 2source record 14282
Find a shop that has actual licensed/trained mechanics working there. With employees that will walk you out to your vehicle in the shop or parking lot and attempt to show you things they have found wrong with your vehicle or services they are recommending and not be mad or pushy if you decline. I’m a licensed mechanic and the trade is very messed up in many ways but trust me, good shops do exist. And don’t expect them not to make a mistake. Expect them to fix the mistake if they do. That’s how you know to trust them.♥ 0source record 14283
Every time I get my oil changed there my tire pressure sensor comes on as soon as I leave🤬♥ 0source record 14284
A lot of places adjust your pressures. Possibly not to what they are supposed to be. Also adjusting pressures on a vehicle that has a certain type of system will require it to be reset. (Lots of european vehicles use it)♥ 1source record 14285
Join a moose/elks/eagles/vfw/ etc they are private clubs. Everyone helps everyone. The amount of money we all have saved. Even buying a cow and going eighths on it. Things like that and they raise money for private schools, hospitals etc etc.♥ 1source record 14292
they fucked up me of our cars. out to much oil in it and cost us $500 to fix. when we told them they told us to file a claim and when we did we argued w a man and manger for like 20 minutes. they told that we should have told him as soon as it happened ( even though we had to take it to the mechanic to figure out what was wrong before telling them they fucked up our car) so they basically told us they werent paying for shit and they didn’t do it. 😂😂♥ 2source record 14295
Yeah. The thing about that is you gotta tell them first before you get someone to fix iy♥ 0source record 14297
we didn’t know what was wrong. until our son tried to drive it a couple days later and we were like wtf. so we took it our mechanic and he told us what was wrong w it how were we supposed to know what was wrong if we didn’t get it looked at♥ 1source record 14298
What was wrong with it? And I meant Valvoline won’t pay you unless you address it to them first. They won’t pay when you just come to them with a bill saying “you broke my car, here’s the bill” it’s like a legal thing.♥ 0source record 14299
Why? Pls share details. Did you work there? I’ve been going to valvoline for years and have never encountered an issue.♥ 0source record 14301
They didn’t tighten the screw on 2 different cars and the oil leaked out. Never again!♥ 0source record 14306

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Be nice to the person on the other side of the counter176 index entriesRoadside, pharmacy, hotel and call-centre staff on the discretion they have — and the customers who argue that discretion is the problem.
Source-backed index report

Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Be nice to the person on the other side of the counter

Source-backed answers are shown before diagnostics; the complete source archive remains below.

Be nice to the person on the other side of the counter

176 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are about to call, check in, or hand something over to somebody who has discretion you cannot see

How commenters applied it: 176 records. The value here is that the workers name the discretion precisely rather than asking for politeness in general. A roadside membership employee says swearing lets them end the call and that they will otherwise work the problem. A Medieval Times call-centre worker says agents can see every coupon and will apply the best one. A pharmacy worker describes the staffing that produces the wait. A hotel worker lists what a front desk can hand over: breakfast, parking, an upgrade. A cleaner's employer, a refuse crew and a warehouse-floor salesperson each describe the same trade. The counter-argument is loud: several commenters say a customer in crisis should not have to perform calm to receive a service they pay for.

What readers reported: Yes! I match people’s energy. So if you want to be rude, expect it back. You want to be nice? Oh honey I’ll move mountains for you

Limit: Everything in this card is discretionary by definition, so none of it is reliable. The most-argued exchange here is a long dispute over whether an emergency roadside service should be allowed to end calls at all.

What replies pushed back on4

You're b'ing to someone that doesn't work there anymore. Go get a journal and figure out what you want to tell corporate even if it's b'ing about a specific off hand employee.

Pushback♥ 3

Sure yeah if it makes YOU feel better I’ll agree to disagree. But I have things to do unlike you onlbviously. I don’t have the time to be here and argue all day so yeah sure I’m extremely triggered!!! lol

Pushback

nope, its just their job. I don't have to slip them cash to complete their job description. and yes we are a neat household.

Pushback

I’m sorry but I usually get my meds at rite aid the one time they didn’t have what I needed they advised me to go across the street to cvs. They have the most incompetent employees at the cvs! Never again!

Reported failure

Where commenters report limits

Explicit limit or counterpoint

Same, I work for a credit union and not only are we not expected to accept abusive language, we aren’t allowed. If they swear or get mean we give one warning and if it happens again we tell them they’ve violated their member agreement and disconnect the call. Same with in person, we’ll kick them out.

source record 8231♥ 41
Explicit limit or counterpoint

You're b'ing to someone that doesn't work there anymore. Go get a journal and figure out what you want to tell corporate even if it's b'ing about a specific off hand employee.

source record 13131♥ 3

Source-record spotlights

Most engaged source

AAA is actually a decent service. But when you swear, we get to end the phone call immediately. So just stay calm and we will actually work hard to help you

source record 8224♥ 4,420
Later-arriving source

I used to be one of the guys that try’s to sell you stuff in Sam’s club, Costco, and places like that. If you just have your phone to your ear or act like you’re on a call we can’t talk to you.

posted about 71 days after the source
Zero-like source

Rolling the cans back up to the house isn’t included in our service. And I like to give little extras during the holidays! ♥️

posted about 60 days after the source

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What the counts show

Across 176 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Create a default” (4 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

176index entries
176distinct source records
28.9%of parent category
2.7%of the complete index
7top-level comments
169replies

What commenters explicitly report

5explicitly reports a benefit
5explicitly reports a limit or failure
27asks a question
1says they intend to try it
138other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Observable tactic structures

Create a default 4Attach it to an existing routine 3Swap instead of subtract 3Turn it into a game 3

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

Browse the original comments176 preserved records · 176 of 176 source records accounted for
Never be disrespectful to your cleaner there’s a lot of bad things that can happen to your toothbrush♥ 4,419source record 5830
I would never! We adore her! She leaves homemade salsa and enpanadas in my fridge, vacuums my curtains, and folds a rose on my tp.😊♥ 162source record 5831
Never mess with the people that handle your food or paycheck.♥ 23source record 5834
thank god my family and i love our cleaner lol, she’s been working for us since before i was born♥ 3source record 5835
I LOVE m housecleaner (I’ll still put my toothbrush in a drawer though )♥ 0source record 5843
I’ve never done anything like that but let me catch someone hiding pennies or some dumb sht like that. I’ll drop them as a client so fast.♥ 0source record 5846
Thank goodness my mom always taught me to be respectful to everyone. I will never get over the janitor who peed in the office people's water and they all got an sti or somethin 🤮♥ 0source record 5847
AAA is actually a decent service. But when you swear, we get to end the phone call immediately. So just stay calm and we will actually work hard to help you♥ 4,420source record 8224
I love AAA! I'm always nice and the people are nice in return.♥ 141source record 8225
Yes! I match people’s energy. So if you want to be rude, expect it back. You want to be nice? Oh honey I’ll move mountains for you♥ 115source record 8226
I’m guilty sometimes and just loose it and most the time the person you are on the phone with don’t even know what happened♥ 12source record 8228
Same, I work for a credit union and not only are we not expected to accept abusive language, we aren’t allowed. If they swear or get mean we give one warning and if it happens again we tell them they’ve violated their member agreement and disconnect the call. Same with in person, we’ll kick them out.♥ 41source record 8231
I love AAA. My first car accident someone ran a red light and plowed into me and when the AAA tow driver showed up and I was sobbing he offered me a coke. I think about his kindness that day often 🥹♥ 13source record 8232
I literally had to talk to AAA insurance lady today and she was the sweetest and the coolest person♥ 4source record 8236
You’ve must worked in a different department cause in roadside, we weren’t even allowed to disconnect.♥ 1source record 8237
That’s what I was thinking! Somebody could literally be swearing bc they are scared, worried, stranded etc I’m not about to promise to be calm to better fit the rep who’s in a cozy safe office somewhere with no reason to panic unlike me. Triple A would literally get cussed out just for telling me this and I’m never rude to reps! Nobody should get treated bad a work but it’s AAA yall literally deal w/ emergency road side situations???♥ 2source record 8238
Eh, being rude because you’re in a specific situation doesn’t make it okay at all. I’ve been in a panic and never been rude to anyone. I’ve been called everything under the sun because people weren’t taking care of their cars properly so they ended up stranded.♥ 1source record 8239
why take it personal tho? You’re at work.. They don’t know you, can’t see you and if you work for AAA it literally services ppl who def may be in a panic or just upset/ frustrated about being on side of road for whatever reason so why fill out the app? you’re legit asking customers to behave in a way that’s best for you while they might be in crisis??? Yes you can keep praying but really just better off quitting bc it’s not gonna happen lol Again never said it’s ok to be treated badly at work but not servicing them because they weren’t polite only services the employee and mind you AAA is CUSTOMER service company. If you can only deal with one kind of customer, customer service is just not for you bc no where on earth is everything gonna be nice to your liking every day. Mind you I worked in and was manager in customer service for 16 yrs♥ 1source record 8240
Blah blah, I’m not a rude person unprovoked. Call with some decency or get the same energy. Period.♥ 0source record 8241
Why would you think you should have same energy as a customer when One is getting paid to be professional and the other is paying to be able to call this company (AAA) in crisis??? Pls ma’am quit the job. Just go do something where frustrated ppl dont call you period? Bc you clearly can’t handle it 🤷🏽‍♀️period.♥ 1source record 8242
I’ve never been in a panic and started swearing and cursing out the person who I’m calling to help me. That’s insane. You’re a full on Karen and I hope AAA reads this and bans you for life since you think it’s ok to abuse their employees.♥ 0source record 8243
Just bc you don’t react that way in a panic doesn’t mean nobody else ever will and again it’s not a reason to ban or take the call personal when it’s work. Stop applying for customer service jobs if you only can handle one type of customer. &Good thing your hopes mean nothing but you can keep them up tho 😘😂♥ 0source record 8244
Honestly I get the last laugh, because I know you’ll be stranded on the side of the road and NO ONE will come to help you because you are a psycho.♥ 0source record 8246
AAA needs some competition in the road side service department.♥ 2source record 8247
I didn’t work for roadside assistance, I worked in the membership department.♥ 2source record 8248
Most insurance companies have their own ERS. There is also Honk, Road America, etc♥ 1source record 8250
Former roadside assistance associate! This is facts! You curse or threaten me? Sorry- have fun waiting on hold again♥ 1source record 8253
I was membership service associate! No space for hate! (Not my fave place to work, but I’m glad they didn’t tolerate abuse)♥ 1source record 8254
I was really a retail sales associate/domestic travel agent but somehow was the #1 roadside assistance agent in AAA Mid Atlantic 2 years in a row 😂😂 that wasn’t even my job title, I was just backup roadside♥ 1source record 8255
Please tell me how I stop getting their mailers. I've called and asked to be removed - twice. I've written return to sender on numerous pieces of mail they send me. And every week I'm getting at least 3 things from them. HELP ME 😭♥ 0source record 8256
Sorry, no help. They can’t be stopped. My only advice is to stuff as much of their mailers into the return envelope. Then they need to pay the overage for postage. I feel your pain.♥ 1source record 8257
i have a plan and my brother is under my account. they gave him a really hard time once when he called for a tow. he had his own card♥ 1source record 8259
LOVE AAA y’all have helped me and my family so many times & those have literally been some of my most traumatic life moments. The drivers are always calm, helpful, and typically very fast!♥ 1source record 8261
AAA kicked us off their policy and still refuse to tell me why. It’s been three years and I’m still salty about it. Guess how I found out? I called for a tow and they kept saying that we were not a member even though we paid for the highest membership- then when I asked why we were kicked off the plan-they said they cannot release that information to me.♥ 0source record 8262
Sorry, I was only speaking on my experience as a former employee.♥ 1source record 8263
I agree. AAA call reps are very nice ppl when you are polite♥ 1source record 8265
AAA Employees are always so nice. No one should be swearing at them.♥ 1source record 8267
I will never understand being rude to customer service workers for matters out of their control. When I call frustrated I always make it a point to tell them I know its not their fault!!♥ 0source record 8268
Hell no it’s not a fucking joke. See how I used expletives to make my point really clear and convey my excitement?♥ 0source record 8271
why would ppl be swearing at triple A 😅 im usually just calling because my dad died before he could show me how to fix a flat and ill be dammed if im getting out to attempt it♥ 0source record 8274
Umm ok. That kind of trauma wasn’t quite what I was talking about. 🫤♥ 0source record 8275
I dont swear or curse at anyone without hearing them out first and understanding where theyre coming from. the fact that ppl are just flat out swearing is wild.♥ 0source record 8277
Would you mind telling me what AAA is? I feel like ik what it means but I'm not sure♥ 0source record 8280
How about you just tell me if I ask a question because there's thousands of answers it could give dipshit♥ 0source record 8282
AAA is a great company, I always use them to do stuff like update my registration without having to go to the DMV♥ 0source record 8283
I love AAA! I would never be mean to the people who are going to help me!♥ 0source record 8284
I think it’s great that you helped people, but the contract that you sign says you must be there when the tow arrives. So if you call and then drive off, the tow wouldn’t help random people.♥ 0source record 8286
it's ridiculous what they charge for yearly there trying to charge me almost $200 a yr♥ 0source record 8287
Depends on the plan. It’s a contract so if you agree, they can charge what they want. This isn’t a free survice.♥ 0source record 8288
We bought AAA when my son started driving, his car is older, because it’s his first car lol best thing ever!! He has used it a few different times already 😂♥ 0source record 8289
They didn’t tell me that if my payment dropped for a few weeks, I wouldn’t be able to pick it back up and pay monthly♥ 0source record 8290
If you stop paying rent for a few months, you don’t get to just pick it back up again. It’s a contract that you agree to. I guarantee you that all of that info was included when you signed up. No one is going to call you when you miss a payment and explain the details to you. This isn’t elementary school.♥ 0source record 8291
I thought it was a subscription type service like Amazon Prime or something. I was waiting for a new card to come in to switch the payment method since I changed banks. I didn’t know it was going to be an issue.♥ 0source record 8292
That’s a *you* problem. No one is supposed to hold your hands when bills are due. It’s also ALL in the paperwork when you sign up.♥ 0source record 8293
They tried to raise my monthly to $700 on a Camry😒 Soul suckers♥ 0source record 8294
For roadside assistance? That’s what we are talking about here♥ 0source record 8295
[account] I didn’t work for roadside assistance, I worked in the membership department.♥ 0source record 8296
So they charged you $700 for a membership?♥ 0source record 8297
Yall had me waiting 9 hours one time♥ 0source record 8300
This goes for literally anything. I’m a barista and you swearing at me is not going to get you whatever you want. But if you’re nice, there are things I can do.♥ 0source record 8301
I’ve seen some shady things happen inside the workings of a certain division of AAA.♥ 0source record 8302
I've learned this the hard way.🙈💯 at least stop the background " I'm at home safe noises, while your stuck out alone the road away from home somewhere!" 🤣♥ 0source record 8303
I'm sorry you have to deal with mean people 😞♥ 0source record 8305
I used to lock my keys in my car all. The. Time. I’m so glad those days are over jfc♥ 0source record 8308
AAA has been the best money spent for a teen/college student driver. I recommend to everyone!♥ 0source record 8309
My boss didn’t let us 😩♥ 0source record 8310
Some roadside situations you may not be calm in tho and If I’m paying for a service but only get treated well if I perform the way THEY want me to, it’s a scam. Not saying anybody should come to work to be treated badly but customer service literally means serving your paying customers, not just the nice ones. Swearing ain’t illegal, threats are♥ 0source record 8311
I literally could kiss the guys that have come and helped me a couple of times. They’re always the best of humanity.♥ 0source record 8312
Why cant all call centers be like that. We have to take it until it gets "abusive"♥ 0source record 8313
I have it and just use the app for all of my service requests. It’s so nice not having to talk w people bc of anxiety.♥ 0source record 8314
AAA has helped me soooo many times and my drivers were always so kind and pleasant! It’s really sad that not all companies allow their employees to hang up when they’re getting cursed at♥ 0source record 8315
I could never call them then because I’m always calling places frustrated as hell saying “I apologize for being rude but I’m fuzking annoyed and need some answers..”🤭😭♥ 0source record 8318
AAA is terrible. Yall wanted me to wait on the side of the road for SEVEN HOURS as a woman who was alone, TWICE, bc yall pay such low rates to local tows that if they get a better job elsewhere they bail on the AAA call immediately.♥ 0source record 8321
What?!? People call NONSTOP cursing about roadside assistance. I mean it’s crazy how mad people get, but it’s nonstop.♥ 0source record 8323
Why would anyone be mean to AAA? They’re such a good company!♥ 0source record 8324
People get mad anytime they aren’t treated like royalty. People call all the time when they get a flat but haven’t paid their membership fee. It’s not fun to tell them they need to renew♥ 0source record 8325
I once waited 5 hours for AAA to come pick up my stranded car. Called at 3:00 they didn't get to me until 8:51 then the driver almost left because he said he couldn't find my car. I was stalled directly in from of a JC Penny entrance. The place he was taking me to closed at 9:00🙄♥ 0source record 8326
Ok I’m sorry that not EVERY experience is perfect. It really sucks that happened to you. I certainly understand how upset you were and don’t blame you for not using AAA again. No one is perfect.♥ 1source record 8327
I love AAA they always help me when I needed it on several occasions never had wait no more than 30 mins until assistance arrived. ❤️Keep up the great work [account]♥ 1source record 8328
This girl at AAA argued with me about my location and hung up on me. I'll never forgive her. She cannot read a map. So much for customer service♥ 0source record 8330
I got so frustrated once with a AAA rep. It was the middle of the night and I was on a bridge on I-95. There had been an object in the road and I hit it, tore open the entire underside of my car, and needed a tow truck. I told them the mile marker of where I was, and the name of the river I was standing over, and she still couldn’t figure out where to send the truck. I have a pretty serious fear of bridges and in the dark, on a busy highway, I was freaking out. I had to give her the information like 3 times, I was so mad. But I never once cussed at her. Who behaves that way?♥ 0source record 8331
swearing is part of my everyday language. guess AAA isn't for me, bc I love my constitutional rights. snowflakes 😒♥ 0source record 8332
I will always curse out AAA-ACG. And that’s on sight for everything they’ve done to me.♥ 0source record 8333
They left be stranded with a dead battery and an infant in March 2016. I dropped them so fast. My insurance company had someone out within 10 min. Fuck AAA♥ 0source record 8334
how about the time my tire blew, so it took AAA three hours to get a truck out, but when the tow guy discovered my spare was bad he left me stranded bc AAA said a tow would require another benefit and I was out?? Nah, screw AAA.♥ 0source record 8335
Now I feel bad for cussing during my call the other day, but I was crying and my car is totaled, and the other drivers insurance won’t take responsibility♥ 0source record 8336
Depends if you don’t have people in a certain area and have to hire other company’s to do the service you will get screwed over but then again you guys paid for me for stay 1 week in a resort while I waited for my car to get fixed♥ 0source record 8337
It's not a secret but be nice to your pharmacy staff at CVS. I'm sure Walgreens it's the same stuff but they are underpaid for what they do and corporate is greedy AF not giving them enough staffing and hours to do work at a healthy pace.♥ 945source record 13113
App says “ready for pickup”. They just weren’t prepared timely.♥ 7source record 13114
Yeah because they are understaffed constantly. Take that up with corporate not them.♥ 6source record 13115
Now I need to pick up my prescriptions AND advocate for the pharmacy techs?! They can advocate for themselves & not be rude to me ALL THE TIME!!♥ 1source record 13116
That's not what that means hun. "ALL THE TIME."? 😂 Grow up. They're not gonna coddle you when YOUR attitude clearly isn't it in the first place.♥ 3source record 13117
You're being overdramatic about this & Walgreens isn't the only pharmacy. Like I said, get help if it was that bad for you. Or stay mad at a stranger on the Internet. W/e.♥ 0source record 13119
Alice my problem wasn’t the app. It was the pain pills. I didn’t come every month for it, or come early. This was a one time fill. The first time I brought one in right after leaving the ER I was treated horribly bc I didn’t remember the name of the ER doctor. Years later, a doctor told me to call the pharmacy to make sure they even had the script in stock. I called and they got nasty with me because I was calling asking if they had the meds. My reg pharmacy didn’t have it in stock so I called another and they got nasty that I wasn’t going through my normal CVS store. Y’all have been awful to people who legitimately need that stuff I don’t even take it regularly. I needed like 3 one time fills over 10 years and got treated like hell every single time.♥ 0source record 13120
I worked there and this is 100% accurate. The companies is extremely greedy. They want three people to fill five positions at all times it’s categorically impossible it’s just never ending.♥ 6source record 13121
Nah when I worked for a private pre-pack one it really wasn't that bad stress wise. The pay wasn't great to -start- but it did have room to advance for a lot better.♥ 1source record 13123
I’ve always said that I have a lot of respect for pharmacy techs. Yall have no idea what they go through. Just be waiting in line- I saw just a smidge of what they have to deal with and underpaid at that♥ 5source record 13125
They are balancing federal laws/state laws/government regulations and corporate regulations. Cut them some slack. Their job changes every single day. They really are doing their best. And trying to keep you safe too.♥ 5source record 13126
My sister worked for walgeens and they are severely underpaid, over worked and treated horribly.♥ 5source record 13127
Because the system does it based on when it thinks it can be done not when it actually is done. And it's not because they're understaffed. Corporate doesn't care and people need their rx's and they get enough customers good luck.♥ 4source record 13129
Fix the system but don’t tell your customers they don’t know how to read when we are being told it’s ready. It’s not our fault either and we are the ones who have to have the wasted time to continually go back to the store♥ 4source record 13130
You're b'ing to someone that doesn't work there anymore. Go get a journal and figure out what you want to tell corporate even if it's b'ing about a specific off hand employee.♥ 3source record 13131
This literally worked for me 2 days ago. I missed my date to renew my insurance, went to pick up my meds at CVS and the price was $75. I was super nice when the pharmacy tech told me I didn’t have insurance. I thanked him and said o would have to come back♥ 1source record 13133
He said hold on. Let me see what I can do. It’s now $18. I was so happy♥ 3source record 13134
I was talking to the girl who worked at cvs,we got to talking about my son bc I was getting his meds and she mentioned her little bro and she said that usually ppl are in a hurry for their meds and so rude and won’t just talk to her and she didn’t want to stop talking bc it was nice not getting yelled at for once 🥺♥ 3source record 13135
I worked for Walgreens and the Managers and upper management were greedy and nasty with the workers and techs.♥ 3source record 13136
They get bonuses based on performance so they'll kiss corporate rear. It's icky.♥ 3source record 13138
I get seriously frustrated with cvs but my frustration is never with the pharmacists it’s anger towards the ceo 😩 I feel bad for the pharmacists at my pharmacy, because there is always one or two people filling scripts and the people in my town I know are aholes. I’ve worked customer service around here so I know from personal experience they are not easy to deal with.♥ 2source record 13139
FRFR as a nurse when I see these people at the stores being rude to the pharmacist, I’m ready to step and check them because WHO tf you think you are? They are working HARD and ppl are so mean♥ 1source record 13140
Every company doesn't have employees that deal with the general public. I worked in a private pharmacy where I never did. 😘♥ 1source record 13144
Don’t pharmacists make $100k+?!♥ 0source record 13145
Did you think the whole pharmacy was all pharmacists? It's not and the majoity of the time people being goofy is at a tech or if it's retail a front end staff member that, no, is also definitely not making over 100k a year.♥ 1source record 13146
Have fun with your trauma bond. I was out after 6 years thankfully. I was LUCKY I had an amazing manager. 💀♥ 0source record 13148
Honestly good. xD If your looking to be a tech look for a private local pharmacy that does pre pack meds or something. Less stressful!♥ 1source record 13150
i was nice and got treated/told i was a junkie cus they said ny adhd meds were ready but they were out. i've been to only rite aid or publix since depending on state but cvs is mean no matter how kind ive been. i usually left sobbing 😭😭😭♥ 2source record 13151
Either you got told or you feel like you were treated like. Not saying it's impossible but Ive watched people say this just for me to see the tech was just doing their job making sure so they don't have legal consequences.♥ 2source record 13152
yeah i understand but they refused to give it to me and i think its prob cus it was raining and i was soaked and my makeup was running. they prob did think but i had all my id's and insurance cards 😭😭😭 i dont want them to lose their jobs tho. them techs can get free college by just getting hired. i love my pharmacy tho. my ladies there and pharmacist have done so much to help me with the adhd med shortage by telling my doctor what was in stock to recommend so i wouldn't be without it. just cvs has done me dirty♥ 0source record 13153
At that point they should have just filled it. Some of them aren't aware the meds need regular check ups to continue the script. That's your doctor's call not theirs. & Thank you. I'm just sorry it's a hassle all around.♥ 1source record 13154
it's all good. pharmacies can be a pia but when you find a good one(with the sweetest staff too), IM THERE FOR IT. i'm just glad it's worked out. 💗♥ 1source record 13155
I’ve had this happen to me with my anxiety meds, the pharmacists that have been working at ours for a while have been cool about it but I’ve dealt with judgement before from pharmacists due to what prescription I’m on♥ 2source record 13157
I am overly nice to every pharmacist I deal with. Honestly it seems like being in that industry is customer service hell. People are so rude to pharmacists and idk why.♥ 1source record 13158
And no even compared to other retail places... nothing tops the crashout of all the things that can happen when getting a regulated item. Theres a reason why I was specific bb.♥ 0source record 13163
They’ve been horrible to me and I’m always nice. I don’t just think I’m nice, I’m truly a nice person and go out of my way to treat them well and I’ve never been treated worse the few times I was given pain med scripts after ER visits.♥ 0source record 13164
Here's the thing. You're not going to convince me (a stranger on TikTok btw) youre a good person ESPECIALLY while trying to express just how "nice" you are. That's actually not healthy behavior and is usually an indicator youre just manipulative. (Even if you aren't. Check that. It's icky.) -- &Regardless, that doesn't mean every employee out of the 100k+ are like that; the MAJORITY deserve to not be raged at over crap they didn't do to YOU and that is why I said what I did. Move on. Get therapy for your troubles. I am not spoon-feeding you.♥ 1source record 13165
lol damn you really just don’t want to accept that sometimes your peers aren’t very nice to customers♥ 0source record 13166
Nothing I said indicates an impossibility. Looks like YOU don't want to accept not everyone is going to be nice to you just because you're soooooo "nice". Someone probably through your fake nice and got the ick with you. But like I said. Either way. Move on. Next.♥ 0source record 13167
I worked in the pharmacy at CVS and the b*llying I received from senior staff made me try to unalive myself. But sure I'll be nice to them 🙄♥ 0source record 13173
I'm not coddling someone about a general statement. If it doesn't apply, move on and get back into therapy if you can then. 🙄♥ 0source record 13174
😂😂😂😂 someone needs to tell them to be nice to US♥ 0source record 13175
Yeah because they order it. That pharmacy can do the same. Regardless, your experience isn't "always". As someone who's worked there for several years in multiple stores and gets their own scripts now it's on average just in then out. 🙄♥ 0source record 13176
Over 100k pharmacy related employees. "Always" is a joke. What's in your control is finding a different pharmacy. They won't mind.♥ 0source record 13177
I used to work in CVS, it’s true♥ 0source record 13178
I’m sorry but I usually get my meds at rite aid the one time they didn’t have what I needed they advised me to go across the street to cvs. They have the most incompetent employees at the cvs! Never again!♥ 0source record 13180
VS 10s of thousands of techs for CVS nationally. Honestly stay mad.♥ 0source record 13181
Not mad. I mean there’s so many pharmacies out there to be mad but it was a bad experience and I honestly don’t want to try another. I’d say someone else is mad and it ain’t me.♥ 0source record 13182
You obviously were to be triggered by all of them but it's okay feel better.♥ 0source record 13183
Sure yeah if it makes YOU feel better I’ll agree to disagree. But I have things to do unlike you onlbviously. I don’t have the time to be here and argue all day so yeah sure I’m extremely triggered!!! lol♥ 0source record 13184
Super convinced. Try a nap. You sound exhausted from all the effort that took you replying to something another day later that you're "not triggered" about lmfao♥ 0source record 13185
I’m really not but it does keep me entertained. I mean it’s fun to just reply and see what else comes out of your brain. Lol♥ 0source record 13186
Hun I already explained how that works and that's not on the staff in the store. Getting big mad is uselessly embaressing. Get on the bigger wigs for a poor system they approved.♥ 1source record 13188
Nah you totally replied to the right one nvm. I got the notification for it because I'm on MY bad not you. 😂♥ 1source record 13189
Our work is contracted with Walgreens but I refuse to go there so I use CVS and pay cash I’ve always liked CVS better♥ 0source record 13190
Here here! I love my CVS pharmacists. They’re out here taking hits & doing good work. Could you imagine dealing with the cranky well-matured gen pop’s medication issues on the reg? They’re saints.♥ 0source record 13191
Lmao everyone is under paid every where and you should just be nice anyway♥ 1source record 13193
Not sure why this is funny but duh. The angry comments about people feeling like they were mistreated because of controlled meds when they're likely just being cautious shows why I said what I said for them specifically. 😄♥ 0source record 13194
I totally get it! I’m just saying we should always be nice, not just to Walgreens staff lol♥ 0source record 13195
I was a technician for 5 years in the Frys pharmacy. It’s awful♥ 0source record 13198
I’m always nice to them but they all just seem miserable ☹️♥ 0source record 13199
Are you the type to always come 2 days early every month? You realize people who abuse it are the ones you should be mad at. Try it for yourself and see how it is.♥ 4source record 13202
Just quit a few months ago after being at Walgreens for 5 years. 3 and a half in pharmacy. It is in fact so toxic I’m not renewing my license🤷🏽‍♀️I don’t wanna go back to pharmacy at all I can’t sit back and keep watching how they rip people off and try to make us literally CONVINCE people to get vaccines. Like we’re salesmen for Pfizer or something. It’s disgusting the whole pharmaceutical industry♥ 2source record 13204
Not really surprised you have no clue why someone is pushing back to someone who clearly can't see how being fake nice (as you further just showed it) is why they have the experiences they do. My comment was about being mindful of others. You're not actually aware yourself hun and that's why you get the days you deserve at CVS. ✌️♥ 0source record 13205
Yeah obviously I don't and I really don't care to coddle someone who calls themselves "super polite". You're obviously insufferable and they don't get paid enough to fake nice to fake nice.♥ 0source record 13206
I use to work at Medieval Times call center where you can call and book tickets. We have access to all the best coupons and if someone was nice to me on the phone I would find the best coupon to apply to their order.♥ 861source record 13441
One time I called medieval time because I received 2 vouchers for a free show that was expired when I got them. I called the customer service line and they told me that I could go to medieval time and they would make an exception for me by calling ahead. I got there 15 minutes before the show started and they would not accept me in saying I should've gotten there 30-45 minutes prior. and that there was nothing they could do about it.♥ 10source record 13442
well you should have beat up that person that gave you the free expired voucher bc they did you dirty, how is that medieval times fault? if it was expired then it is what it is, lol now that I no longer work there, this is so satisfying to say lol♥ 11source record 13443
lol it's 100% not their fault about the exported part. But them not letting me in because they didn't want to look into a problem they told me they would accommodate was.♥ 2source record 13445
your job gave you expired vouchers? bruh that so messed up, yeah when I was working there the only reason why we would deny it is bc either 1 the show was sold out already, probably why they told you to go early. or 2 your voucher is was from a 3rd party like groupon or [site removed], those don't redeem well once expired, I think you most likely walked into a sold out show. sorry that was your experience that really sucks♥ 2source record 13446
Because the customer representative told them they could use the vouchers, this person drove allll the way to that performance. They likely expected this person to just buy the tickets since they made that entire trip there already. In other words, it was a scam and this person lost money from the trip.♥ 3source record 13448
And no, when I called back, the customer service line would not give me new tickets.♥ 3source record 13449
took my son for his bday a couple years back. we were sat DIRECTLY under an AC unit & it was dripping water all over me. I flagged someone down & she argued that it was normal & we couldn't move seats. during that convo, we missed the bday announcement. 😭 I complained more & got a fraction of a refund. I was very disappointed.♥ 0source record 13451
Not really a secret, but a money/time saver…. Be nice to your garbage collector person. If you want some extra stuff thrown away (bags, dresser, etc.) Slip them a $20 bill and guarantee they’ll get rid of mostly whatever you want. Give them money for Christmas and you can probably get away with a few extras every trash day for the year…♥ 665source record 13949
Rolling the cans back up to the house isn’t included in our service. And I like to give little extras during the holidays! ♥️♥ 0source record 13951
Trust me, you are telling the truth, garbage collector for the city government people are not aware of what technically is garbage and I could technically refuse to take anything and send the inspectors to the apartment or house to be fine♥ 1source record 13953
my folks used to leave a bottle of good alcohol (wine, whiskey or rum) and a folder with some money in it for our binman during Christmas and Easter♥ 1source record 13957
That’ll happen sometimes. Customers have the best intentions, but people got sticky fingers. It’s the thought that counts for me♥ 1source record 13960
Unfortunately some folks here are like that. Not everyone though, I’ve met some great customers♥ 0source record 13964
well thats just abuse, sir. peeps can't be doing that. I'm sure your local waste or garbage company will have something similar as mine. we have restrictions for the weekly trash pickup. you can't be putting 5 or 10 extra bags out every week, but like if you have an extra bag once in awhile 🤷🏾‍♀️they ain't going to charge you♥ 1source record 13965
Everywhere is different. If that’s what you pay for then you won’t get charged, but where I live, a lot of folks would start taking advantage and putting 10+ extra bags out when they felt like it and usually heavy too♥ 0source record 13966
I'm just nice to people in general. I don't look down on anybody's honest work.♥ 30source record 13968
nope, its just their job. I don't have to slip them cash to complete their job description. and yes we are a neat household.♥ 0source record 13969
I was embarrassed. His face was like nah....we good sis! I just closed my robe hung my head, walked away and laughed. It was ALL out there.😂😂😂♥ 1source record 13971
I flashed mine. He was nice than a mutha! 😂😂😂 I fell asleep in underwear and a robe. Forgot to take the garbage out. I heard the truck in the morning. I ran outside and yelled wait, not realizing my robe fell open. I grabbed the cans out of the backyard and was dragging both of them behind me while walking forward. Robe all open. The way his mouth fell open! 😂😂😂 We been cool ever since.♥ 6source record 13973
You’ve definitely have a good garbage person if they’re doing all that for free. Either that or you’re neat about your trash♥ 2source record 13974
or I call the center and they do all of that for free or 5 bucks max. I get five free big load pickups a year whether that be mattress dresser it doesn't matter 5 big pickups a year for free. extra bags are like five bucks if not for free around the Christmas time♥ 3source record 13975
I used to be one of the guys that try’s to sell you stuff in Sam’s club, Costco, and places like that. If you just have your phone to your ear or act like you’re on a call we can’t talk to you.♥ 0source record 14214
Be nice to the hotel check in lady/man. They can literally give you discounts on anything. I’m talking free breakfast, parking, room upgrades. Etc♥ 120source record 14983

Archive: 176 index entries preserve 176 distinct source records · Every displayed synthesis count resolves to source-record IDs

Doctors, hospitals and your own medical record450 records · 6 sub-topicsWritten by patients, nurses, coders, billers and doctors arguing with each other about what a patient is actually allowed to demand. 450 records.
Ask them to document the refusal78 index entriesThe single most-disputed claim in the corpus: doctors, nurses and coders line up on both sides of whether this actually gets you a test.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Ask them to document the refusal

Source-backed answers are shown before diagnostics; the complete source archive remains below.

Ask them to document the refusal

78 source recordsDisputed

Use when: A clinician has said no to a test you asked for and you want to know whether there is anything you can do about it

How commenters applied it: 78 records. This is the most-liked practical claim in the whole corpus and the most flatly contradicted. The claim is that asking a doctor to document their refusal produces the test. A queue of clinicians answer that they already document both the request and their reasoning, that a single line — the test is not indicated at this time — satisfies it, and that documenting a refusal changes nothing about whether the test is ordered or covered. Nurses and back-office staff say the same from the other side. The people defending the tip mostly report the softer version: a handful describe asking, being refused again, and getting nothing; a handful describe a biopsy or an ultrasound that was eventually done and found something. What the thread does establish, from both camps, is that a documented request creates a record, and that insurance coverage depends on a diagnosis code the clinician has to justify.

What readers reported: Hi, no this is not true. If you ask for a test I need to document why it’s necessary, and the opposite is true. Good documentation will explain why I decided against a test :) so we already do this!

Limit: Clinicians in this thread say the underlying premise is wrong, and the corpus contains at least as many first-hand reports of the tactic failing as succeeding. This is not medical advice and no medical body was consulted.

What replies pushed back on5

Hi, no this is not true. If you ask for a test I need to document why it’s necessary, and the opposite is true. Good documentation will explain why I decided against a test :) so we already do this!

Pushback♥ 13

They don’t have to document their refusal and they also don’t have to order it because someone asks. That’s what they went to school for, to know if something is warranted or not. This information is incorrect

Pushback♥ 4

It’s not true. This is false info

Pushback♥ 2

For me it’s the opposite, Australia were amazing and found out issues that nz refused to even bother testing 🥺

Pushback

It's so frustrating!! I broke my wrist and the doctor was more concerned that I was due for a colonoscopy 🙄 And then the silly git was surprised when I went back for review and I'd had surgery on my wrist. (thanks to an orthopaedic surgeon at the specialist clinic reviewing my xrays.) Sir, that's why I was crying for proper pain meds!!!🤬

Reported failure♥ 414

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If you want a doctor to test you for something and they say no, ask them to document their refusal to your request. You’ll get the test.

source record 196♥ 104,706
Later-arriving source

Medicine is not like McDonalds that you can walk in and order whatever you want. Search about quaternary prevention and educate yourself.

posted about 55 days after the source
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this is not true lol if there is no medical reason to do a certain test, they dont have to order it at least in the US. Youre misinforming a lot of people who don't know any better and will set unrealistic expectations when they see a doctor.

posted about 40 days after the source

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What the counts show

Across 78 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Remove a step” (3 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

78index entries
78distinct source records
17.3%of parent category
1.2%of the complete index
1top-level comments
77replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
12asks a question
0says they intend to try it
66other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Observable tactic structures

Remove a step 3Change the sentence 2

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

Browse the original comments78 preserved records · 78 of 78 source records accounted for
If you want a doctor to test you for something and they say no, ask them to document their refusal to your request. You’ll get the test.♥ 104,706source record 196
100% this!!! Stops them gaslighting you💪♥ 3,147source record 197
So common in Australia I have never been overseas and had a doctor say no to getting whatever test I asked when I come back home to aus and see my local gp they get so paranoid and refrain from giving me the test to take and talk me out of it. Idk why is that? Can someone explain its so rude and annoying for them to refuse what you’re curious about♥ 676source record 198
because you have to provide a reason for the test to medicare for funding purposes♥ 0source record 199
Do you not think us dragging our asses to the doctors not feeling well to investigate symptoms we’re experiencing that are abnormal are not a good enough reason to check??♥ 0source record 200
I think we listen to our body and know our body more than anyone so best believe if we’re in that office it’s because we know something isn’t right♥ 0source record 201
might be due to the fact that they dont get commission for tests or prescriptions, the more they can get the clinic to do the more they actually make? i could be so wrong but also just in general medical gaslighting is so bad across the board,♥ 13source record 202
I too live in a country with socialized medicine. $$ are scarce, so any testing has to be warranted. The provincial physician colleges even provide guidelines for what reasons to do what testing. Doctors can get in a bit of trouble if they order tests that aren’t indicated. For example, Vit D testing is discouraged because just about everyone in Canada is deficient so why do a test that will show you as deficient? Let’s say you have headaches and want an MRI—there are so many causes of headaches that your doc has to rule those out before ordering an expensive test. Yes there are exceptions, yes there are doctors who will ignore the rules, yes there might be a really legit reason to skip the preliminaries and order the test. I’m just saying what the general scenario is in state/paid medical services♥ 68source record 203
It's so frustrating!! I broke my wrist and the doctor was more concerned that I was due for a colonoscopy 🙄 And then the silly git was surprised when I went back for review and I'd had surgery on my wrist. (thanks to an orthopaedic surgeon at the specialist clinic reviewing my xrays.) Sir, that's why I was crying for proper pain meds!!!🤬♥ 414source record 204
I'm in Australia and I was not due for a colonoscopy. He was gaslighting me, as evidenced later♥ 2source record 206
And I’m just telling you what the reasoning could be behind them referencing the colonoscopy in your visit as it varies with every patient.♥ 1source record 208
Sorry, my comment addressing it has got lost in the thread.😊 When I went back to him for review, he was shocked that I'd had surgery on my wrist. Fortunately here, our scans and xrays are reviewed by specialists. The specialists clinic rang me direct to organise the surgery. Which the doctor would have known at my review IF he had read my medical notes. We have the option to have our medical records stored centrally, so ALL our service providers are kept up to date. I have chosen that option because it makes life easier, and if hackers are that desperate for my information they obviously lead sad little lives🤭♥ 2source record 209
I bet they accused u of drug seeking too? Unbelievable amount of gaslighting in the “sickcare” system♥ 0source record 211
For me it’s the opposite, Australia were amazing and found out issues that nz refused to even bother testing 🥺♥ 0source record 213
Nah they can document the refusal and why they don’t think it’s necessary. Perfectly legit.♥ 64source record 214
Ok bc you went to med school and ~know~ what tests to order? I’ll document your request. And I’ll also document my reasoning for not getting a requested test. Which will be backed by years of school, training, best practices and policies. If you want to order tests and act like a doctor than pay for my student debt and we can call it even.♥ 38source record 215
no but people often know if things feel wrong in their own bodies and people's issues usually go ignored for so long because GPS and doctors ignore them cuz of attitudes like yours that you are better than them♥ 23source record 218
Me! I kept insisting they retest and send my urine for a culture because I kept having crazy symptoms. Lo and behold, found two different bacteria’s. Btw, utis are no joke and can turn sepsis if not treated.♥ 4source record 219
Nuh hun doctors are just really thick and pass most their exams via cheating therefore they miss diagnose so many autoimmune diseases until it’s too late and about 10-15 years late because they refuse to do an antibodies test x also went to go see a doctor for chicken skin on my arms and he had to use Google infront of me to research my symptoms for an answer so safe to say people don’t trust doctors and why would you when the most leading profitable industry in the world is pharmaceutical x don’t be silly and pull your finger out they make money off the sick and don’t even care because they become so numb and immune to sick people they just don’t give a fuck anymore♥ 3source record 220
womp, womp! you’re clearly not a very good ~doctor~ if you don’t have the best interests of your patient in mind. “request documentation of refusal” is actually great patient advocacy to keep doctors accountable. and if a patient is pushing for a test maybe that means they’re serious or actually have a reason to be concerned? doctors misdiagnose things all the time. just because you went to med school doesn’t mean you’re always going to be right. sounds like you had a rough time in school and it bruised your ego a bit. otherwise why are you so defensive about ordering a test?♥ 3source record 221
I’m a Doctorate of Nurse Practitioner so yes I order tests and prescribe medications.♥ 0source record 222
I will refuse any test that is not indicated or warranted because I am not putting my name on a test just bc “you want it.” Medicine is not Burger King - you can’t have it your way. Go pay for concierge medicine or go to a functional clinic if all you care about is getting labs you want.♥ 27source record 223
I had my gallbladder taken out and the chart said I was autistic. I’m not.♥ 25source record 224
I see this EVERY TIME and I feel like it’s non healthcare workers saying it. I’ve never seen this happen or work. If it’s a test that’s not warranted, they’re not just going to fold because you think you’re threatening them lol♥ 15source record 226
i can guarantee shes pulling shit out of her ass. i ACTUALLY work backend in clinics and read all the drs notes to book a pts future appointments. the pts req and the drs refusal are alr being documented regardless of whether you explicitly tell them to document or not.♥ 10source record 227
literally no. lol imagine all the MRIs that would be ordered. Insurance will literally own cities♥ 13source record 228
genuinely TY. if this is true, this is the information ppl should be sharing♥ 1source record 229
Hi, no this is not true. If you ask for a test I need to document why it’s necessary, and the opposite is true. Good documentation will explain why I decided against a test :) so we already do this!♥ 13source record 230
I had a doctor try to refuse an STD test saying “didn’t you just get one a month ago? What do you need this for? Don’t you know how to use a condom?” I told him he’s currently breaking the law and better give me my test ASAP 😂😂♥ 5source record 231
You can’t refuse doing a test on someone simply cause you want to know why, that’s not their job as a doctor. This same doctor also gave me medicine without telling me side effects & that it promotes fertility. I got pregnant shortly after this incident with this specific doctor actually. I tried reporting him to the boards but nothing ever came about it. However there are definitely laws & rules doctors have to follow hun.♥ 5source record 233
Well yea theres obviously laws but doctors don’t have to do a test simply because you asked for one. “You can’t refuse a test simply because you want to know why” im not sure what you’re trying to say there. The fact you tried to report him but nothing came about it means it was likely non reportable or he didn’t do anything wrong. A prescribing doctor is not going to list every single side effect of a medication, usually the main ones are listed by the pharmacist when you pick up the med and it’s also on the med sheet. Sounds like nothing went wrong in your case and you received adequate care♥ 3source record 234
A lot of doctors are reported for violating things and nothing comes about it, please don’t bother me any more about a topic you now nothing about but trying to tell Me what I could and couldn’t have done with no extensive story besides what I’ve told you lol 😂 have a good day 🥰🥰🥰♥ 2source record 235
That doesn’t sound like he was breaking the law though. It’s their job to find out why a test is needed. They’re trained for that.♥ 0source record 236
No. All he needed to know was an STD test. That’s it. I’ve been through other doctors and have had ZERO issues.♥ 0source record 237
I’m just saying that’s not illegal though . You said that’s illegal , that’s not true . Lookin at your response to the other person, it seems like you’re misinformed♥ 0source record 238
They don’t have to document their refusal and they also don’t have to order it because someone asks. That’s what they went to school for, to know if something is warranted or not. This information is incorrect♥ 4source record 239
if you wanna be upset with someone, blame insurance companies not the doctors♥ 4source record 240
Actually no. All they need to write is “___ test not indicated at this time”♥ 3source record 241
IF it's medically warranted, 110%! if there's a good reason, they should tell you why, and that you can have it done but insurance may not cover it without a relevant symptom (but if you're asking for a test, you probably have a concern 🙃)♥ 3source record 242
I looked into it and it definitely is true . You’re protecting your rights , creating a paper trail and also it is Politely challenging the doctor’s decision in a way that makes them pause… it helps get you tested when you feel something is wrong etc !♥ 2source record 246
Yea that sounds nice but the doctor still doesn’t have to order something just because it was requested. Can you imagine if that was true? Everyone would be getting MRIs and CT just cause they asked. They go to school to know how to discern what’s needed.♥ 2source record 247
I have literally done this and they not only said no again to the test but NEVER PUT IN MY CHART THE REFUSAL♥ 0source record 251
Asking on MyChart is not part of the medical record. Unless the doctor actually orders something. So no , if they just read your request and don’t act on It then it still won’t be part of a medical record♥ 1source record 261
Yes it is because they don’t get deleted just because no one orders anything. You’d have proof of asking.♥ 0source record 262
That’s not part of the medical record though. It’s not deleted but that’s literally just communication. It’s not part of your chart. If you go to court that communication won’t be admissible♥ 0source record 263
Yes it would. We all had to learn all about it when it first came out because we respond to patients and we’re told it can be used in court. Maybe in your state it’s not. Anyway… done arguing with a stranger. ✌️♥ 0source record 264
Not usually. They’ll document it and if it’s not warranted you still won’t get the test 🤷🏾‍♀️I see this happen a lot as a RN♥ 1source record 265
This is true. I only did it once, I was suffering on a bed in the hallway. I advocated for tests and once they came back I was admitted because my fears were correct. I know my body.♥ 0source record 277
And I document it because you get me for fraud 🤣🤣! 5 years later have me on the news for ordering medically unnecessary test😎! Issa A NO♥ 0source record 280
We have universal health care. We don’t necessarily have to pay for tests.♥ 0source record 282
I started to see this doctor from Spain bc here nobody cared about my endometriosis and failed surgery. (Mind you she used to live here in the US) She told me and I quote: "Tell them to make this labs, this tests and request an MRI but for absolutely no reason, DON'T you ever tell them I told you about this, doctors in the USA have the biggest ego and they hate to hear you know what you are talking about. They can't accept someone knows and is doing more than them... I will never forget that conversation. Is so true.♥ 0source record 291
I'm going to have to do this, I'm sick of looking for a good dr after my last one retired.♥ 0source record 292
This!! They get so mad but if you’re not concerned for my health then I’m going to be my own dâmn advocate!!!!♥ 0source record 294
THIS 🙌🏼 my granny is being denied the appropriate, long term, EFFECTIVE care she needs for health issues. She used to be a nurse so she knows a couple things. She reads the drs notes and realized they lie soooooo much. Saying antibiotics were prescribed and completed when in reality she ASKED for said antibiotic and was refused. On top of that bs they will not give her the referral she needs to see a specialist. It’s very frustrating. The health system would rather see you come to 6 appts to “diagnose and assess” the problem and then 3 more appts to “fix” the problem that could’ve been handled in no more than 2 visits to begin with. It’s a money racket!♥ 0source record 298
Thought I had pneumonia, asked for x-ray, copped a spray from the Dr about self diagnosis, got an x-ray, Dr lied about the results, my GP found the X-ray 3 days later rang me to say I had pneumonia.♥ 0source record 300
im going there for a 5th time in 2 years for cardiac problems today because I keep getting told it's nothing because im young, thank you for this!!♥ 0source record 301
I 100%. second this by working in medical administration and tell everyone♥ 0source record 303
Don’t be pissed when your insurance won’t cover it because you don’t meet criteria♥ 0source record 306
I asked my doc for thyroid labs, he said give me a reason so insurance can pay for it 🤣 I’m like “I’m hot all the time” he put it in the chart, and I got my labs. Thyroid is normal lol.♥ 0source record 308
What is the best way to ask them ? Coz u tried one time n she actually got mad n was very rude to me♥ 0source record 309
We always document refusal. We document everything the patient states, good or bad, and then we document our response to that.♥ 0source record 311
This is true, but the hard truth is it may be difficult for the provider to find a valid diagnosis for your insurance to cover the test. If he cannot find one. You may have to pay out of pocket for the test.♥ 0source record 312
i will say they often don’t do tests that aren’t indicated due to high chances of false positives then causing a slew of further work up and stress for something that was never present♥ 0source record 318
And they’ll be perfectly fine documenting that refusal. If you want in depth testing, see a functional medicine provider like me.♥ 0source record 319
I’m a ER nurse. I see doctors say no all day long. And if you asked them to document it they might as of you want a highlighted copy. Just saying. I want to know what kind of docs. But get a good primary. They will do all the things for you. I have the best.♥ 0source record 320
thank god in singapore they never say no. they always say yes cause they want my money♥ 0source record 326
Is that why their new excuse is “I don’t have the ability to order that”.♥ 0source record 327
Did this for my husband who had a mole that was changing in shape and turning black. Dr. Refused to biopsy said it was fine. I told her to document that she refused. She did the biopsy came back melanoma! She charted that day “ wife demands biopsy even tho I see no reason. Ugh♥ 0source record 331
You need to tell them you have PAIN so that you get tests! CT, MRI, blood work.♥ 0source record 333
I didn’t blow anything out of proportion, you came at me. Don’t like it, don’t come at people & just move on. Bye ✌🏻♥ 0source record 335
If your doctor hates you I’d strongly advise to get another doctor♥ 0source record 336
They order tests or labs based on your signs and symptoms. If they don’t offer it, it’s because it’s not warranted. The billing codes that they use when they order these tests/labs are reviewed by your payor/insurance within their progress notes to justify payment for both parties. If they order a test/lab that doesn’t support their documentation (i.e., patients demanded tests) - non-compliant and no payments.♥ 4source record 340
Medicine is not like McDonalds that you can walk in and order whatever you want. Search about quaternary prevention and educate yourself.♥ 0source record 342
i did this when they refused to do an xray tech bc the lady was being lazy and was on her phone and she refused. drs were pissed♥ 0source record 344
this is not correct. I will gladly write why I refused to order all of your silly tests that have no connection with your symptoms but you think you need it because you “google’d” it or “saw it on tiktok.” I will very much enjoy writing my note.♥ 0source record 345
this is not true lol if there is no medical reason to do a certain test, they dont have to order it at least in the US. Youre misinforming a lot of people who don't know any better and will set unrealistic expectations when they see a doctor.♥ 0source record 348
This is BS. Providers document everything already. If they didn’t order something you specifically asked for, they documented their reasoning and probably quoted you.♥ 0source record 350
doctors have clinical judgement. respect it... too many of you mob googling these days.♥ 0source record 351

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So they kept me in the hospital until my pain was more manageable and my blood counts were better (not even where they were supposed to be, but just improved). They sent me home and I couldn’t walk for 3 days bc the blood cut off the oxygen flow and circulation to my legs (it was a super large cyst so my entire abdome and pelvic cavity were filled up with blood). After they sent me back, I too, wasn’t being treated as I should have been, especially considering the severity. I definitely had symptoms from the internal bleeding. For starters, my stomach looked a lot bigger and watery looking. I had severe pain and REALLY bad nausea. I did have this same exact issue, however far less serious, towards the end of April. Thankfully I was in much better standing, but the pain and nausea were very present and it was terrible. It was even worse because I still had blood and fluid in my stomach from the first incident in January.

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this is so true, got into a car accident and fractured my skull, i thought that and some lacerations were my only injuries but nope, got my records and apparently my orbital bone shattered and a piece shot through my nasal cavity 💔💔

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definitely more than that! the doctor broke laws within ana, etc. as well as hospital policies! and along with that ignoring a big issue. girl i would lie and say how much it has impacted your life. like BLOW it out of proportion. of how much the pain impacted you, say you couldn’t leave bed, etc. yk things like that. ask chat for some ideas!

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They were gonna do an mri either way since it was possibly her liver or indigestion unfortunately due to past alcohol abuse so im betting they did one and was like WAIT hold up, its ur ovary sorry sis but ima still charge you for extra 🤣🤣

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Always read your medical records! Usually what you are told is different from what they document.

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YES! YES! YES! I work at a doctors office n bro you wouldn’t believe how much these girls fuck up n by pass💀 1 of our tech companies updated their systems to “fix bugs” but it js fucked it up even more so most patients were only getting like half their diagnoses put in the system we were the ONLY office in their 100+ doctors offices that caught it💀… n this was already a few months in into their new update🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

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this is so true, got into a car accident and fractured my skull, i thought that and some lacerations were my only injuries but nope, got my records and apparently my orbital bone shattered and a piece shot through my nasal cavity 💔💔

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Always read your medical records! Usually what you are told is different from what they document.♥ 57,173source record 805
Very true. I was an alcoholic for years (it was in my notes at the VA). Went to the ER for really bad lower stomach pains. Was told it was “indegestion”. On my paperwork it said liver pain due to alcoholism. I had been sober for three years, just never told them. It ended up being a large cyst on my ovary. Had to have surgery a week later. 🫠 They never ran any tests on me.♥ 2,348source record 806
Where was the pain you might’ve just saved me if this is the same case in my situation♥ 0source record 807
if you were falsed accused info at hospital or company, don’t go to HR. Call an attorney or the EEOC♥ 1source record 808
i had to get a procedure done before my surgery at this hospital and the surgeon’s assistant messed up and requested it for the wrong spot. I ended up having to go through it twice. so basically they had to put 2 holes in my body back to back. I didn’t sue he was new and still in training, and he felt really bad. He apologized a bunch, and so did my surgeon. Luckily, I was able to handle the pain enough to get through the second one and just moved on. Hope he’s doing alright though besides that mistake, he was actually really good.♥ 0source record 809
This happened to me with pancreatitis! Wrote it was due to alcohol but it was due to my gallbladder. I want them to change it because it was a blatant lie♥ 0source record 812
please tell me you reported them to your state medical board for negligence and malpractice. I would've also sued. fuck that.♥ 2source record 813
No, I didn’t. I actually am really grateful for the VA to be honest. This was the only time they really screwed up for me and I’ve been going there for my medical care for years now. 🤷‍♀️♥ 2source record 814
I actually almost died earlier this year at the end of January from a very large cyst on my ovary that ruptured and caused severe internal bleeding and a number of other issues. I just read the medical report just 2 days ago and I had SO MUCH MORE wrong with me than they even told me, I was shocked. I showed my mom and she was so upset. I couldn’t believe the amount of serious things I had going on, that I knew absolutely nothing about.♥ 12source record 815
I’m literally going through this now and they don’t know if the cyst ruptures but there is all this unexplained fluids on my scan, however I’m am waiting on follow up appts instead of it being treated as an emergency 😩 did you have symptoms for the internal bleeding?♥ 0source record 816
So they kept me in the hospital until my pain was more manageable and my blood counts were better (not even where they were supposed to be, but just improved). They sent me home and I couldn’t walk for 3 days bc the blood cut off the oxygen flow and circulation to my legs (it was a super large cyst so my entire abdome and pelvic cavity were filled up with blood). After they sent me back, I too, wasn’t being treated as I should have been, especially considering the severity. I definitely had symptoms from the internal bleeding. For starters, my stomach looked a lot bigger and watery looking. I had severe pain and REALLY bad nausea. I did have this same exact issue, however far less serious, towards the end of April. Thankfully I was in much better standing, but the pain and nausea were very present and it was terrible. It was even worse because I still had blood and fluid in my stomach from the first incident in January.♥ 1source record 817
Honestly I wish I could give you advice on what to do to get better care, but as hard as I advocated for myself, they just didn’t care enough. Just be a strong advocate, don’t let them gaslight you, and keep going back to the ER if your symptoms get worse or the pain is too unbearable. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I hope it gets better for you 💛♥ 1source record 818
Oh I actually did think of something though- they kept pushing me to get on birth control but I really didn’t want to. I finally caved, after realizing that it would continue to happen if I didn’t get on it. If it becomes chronic for you, maybe consider the birth control. It’ll stop you from ovulating, which will prevent the cysts. I’m on norethindrone 5mg (the mini pill).♥ 1source record 819
Thank you so much for sharing! My doctor also has been pushing for me to take birth control to control the hormones.♥ 0source record 820
Wow, so sorry this happened to you and I really appreciate your advice! I hope you are well now! 💕♥ 0source record 821
you can make them file an addendum to your medical record and correct that♥ 1source record 822
it either caused pain and obvious symptoms or ruptured♥ 0source record 824
You would think but bc she’s still alive, it’s not rly worth much. My mom died due to negligence for internal bleeding but they brought her back. Only worth about $50k and not worth a medical malpractice lawyer’s time♥ 0source record 825
Sadly medical lawyers are the biggest cowards under the sun.♥ 0source record 828
definitely more than that! the doctor broke laws within ana, etc. as well as hospital policies! and along with that ignoring a big issue. girl i would lie and say how much it has impacted your life. like BLOW it out of proportion. of how much the pain impacted you, say you couldn’t leave bed, etc. yk things like that. ask chat for some ideas!♥ 3source record 829
i hate how medical professionals treat you if your past addiction is documented ☹️♥ 0source record 830
im actually livid at this. the disregard for human life. it could of been an infection of the pancreas (which is common with alcoholism as well) or any other organs in that area not just the liver. death would had been the result if untested and treated. im glad that wasn't the case♥ 223source record 831
They were gonna do an mri either way since it was possibly her liver or indigestion unfortunately due to past alcohol abuse so im betting they did one and was like WAIT hold up, its ur ovary sorry sis but ima still charge you for extra 🤣🤣♥ 0source record 835
I’m blessed to have private insurance as well, so I went to a civilian hospital the next day. They did an ultrasound and found it.♥ 169source record 836
This is so true!! Spent the majority of 2010 in and out of the hospital because they wouldn’t do a damn transva*ginal ultrasound to see that I had a grapefruit size cyst on my ovary - told me it was anxiety related ( because I have anxiety ) and IBS (because I have IBS) - never trust doctors until you find one that advocates for you !!!♥ 13source record 840
Also you can read the chats sent between providers about you… it will tell you all you need to know♥ 9source record 841
Get access to their electronic medical records system. If they said the records are paper only, then yes request a copy. They cannot deny you a copy either. That is the law.♥ 6source record 842
literally. just had an ultrasound done and was told it was normal. no, it wasn't. I have a 1.5 cm cyst on my right ovary and in perimenopause. but wouldnt tell me?♥ 5source record 843
This is TRUE! I always read the clinical notes after a doc/hospital visit and there are ALWAYS discrepencies in the notes!!♥ 4source record 844
Very true. I’m an RN and I went to the hospital twice for a 6mm kidney stone and sent me back home twice. Looked at the report and said drug seeking, with a ct scan attached of the stone looking like a boulder♥ 3source record 845
And if you try to dispute that good luck getting it changed. I’d like to know if there is a effective way in getting a doctor to correct their notes if there is undisputed information the conveniently left out♥ 2source record 847
Big facts! My high risk doctor would barely go over things during ultrasounds but the report sent would say things in detail we didn’t discuss. I’m a pharmacy technician so I know what the office notes meant. I read them at work daily!♥ 2source record 848
This part!!! I read every single line from my oncology team. Not because i don’t trust them, they just try to give the positive outlook and i need every detail♥ 2source record 849
this and always ask for an itemized bill !!!♥ 1source record 853
i’ve heard one time that never say that you are an addiction like smoking or drinking because they will blame and add more findings and base it around that♥ 1source record 855
I work in a specialist’s office where my doctors will literally exaggerate the truth for office injections in order to get insurance approval. I had one lady argue her life away because she wanted a script for PT and I guess she read her medical records and the doctor had indicated that she tried and failed PT for more than three months and she was like I never was even given that option he just wants to give me an injection without letting me try other less invasive options♥ 1source record 856
As someone in the Claims world this is 100% true. people get pissed when their claims are denied but have no clue the doctor documented something 100% opposite of what their actually telling you lol♥ 2source record 859
Right sis! I am a CPC and former auditor. All facts! People hate the insurance but should be upset with their providers.♥ 0source record 860
yes & I can't tell you how many bills I deny daily because the provider sent in an itemized list & not a HCFA or just the HCFA & no medical attached lol♥ 1source record 861
I already know. I would see providers send in 100 pages but didnt send the requested labs. We only needed 2 pages. 😫♥ 1source record 862
I’m ok thank you though !!! It’s just hard to navigate anything as a woman but if you’re BIPOC you already know it x10 I’m so sorry♥ 1source record 863
I believe this!!! I’m a life insurance agent and when we have our underwriters retrieve medical records, and we tell our client they are denied or their premium will be higher due to medical records, they are shocked what’s in the records. Thanks for this! I’ll spread the word!♥ 1source record 866
100%. I read my delivery notes and the doctors risked mine and my son’s life.♥ 1source record 867
L&D notes are so sad to read. I wish more patients would come forward. You should share your story with the ACLU.♥ 1source record 868
Truth. I had established a new pcp and she marked/charged me for "smoking cessation." I've never smoked in my life. I don't need insurance thinking I smoke either, because I don't!♥ 1source record 869
I saw this all the time especially for Medicare patients. It’s an easy payment for the provider.♥ 1source record 870
Yup- I disliked verbiage my dr used bc it was not exactly what I said and could have been taken out of context. I addressed it with her. Another dr req panels I did not request. I found that out from the notes too.♥ 1source record 871
I asked and they told me a lot of times they’re trying to use an explanation that matches the medical code so the patient isn’t denied - it’s ridiculous.♥ 1source record 874
Yes bc tell me why they wanted to gatekeep the info… but never told me my actual diagnosis♥ 1source record 876
This is trueeeeee I remembered years when I married to my now ex. We used joke a lot and I accompanied her to one of her OB visits and were going back and forth joking and bantering. Well, the doctor said that we were abusive or something along those lines♥ 0source record 882
its something that you can use for. but also, simply telling them you noticed something off about your records, state them specifically, the provider will absolutely check from them on to reduce their risk of charting errors. I saw this from a friend that saw me, she changed her template because of it. I know it's scary, but sometimes being informative instead of sue-happy is a kind deed. (unless it's lethal mistake) sometimes their just having a bad day too.♥ 0source record 883
I’ve learned this over the last year. My daughter has medical issues that are literally life altering and left so much information out when I talked to them.♥ 0source record 884
on my mom's death certificate it said underlying cause diabetes....she NEVER had or was treated for diabetes♥ 0source record 886
Very true. Found that out with my children’s birth trauma records.♥ 0source record 888
💯 I went to the ER for severe abdominal pain and they claimed “there was nothing wrong with me” and to just avoid spicy food, any seasoning on food, fried food.. etc.. I happen to glance at the paper of their report and I clearly read “ulcer” on there and when I asked them they didn’t say anything…♥ 0source record 889
I had a doctor misread my blood tests results several times, and I only found because I checked once when things weren’t seeming right. I then contacted admin, they gaslit me saying it doesn’t happen. The doctor ended up telling them I was lying, but I gave copies to the admin to prove my claim, so the doctor just said “Yes, that’s what I said in the appointment” when that wasn’t the case. She did a whole lot of other sketchy things too.♥ 0source record 890
Oh I called my doctor and his higher ups on this one! Said we had an in depth conversation about how my meds could counteract my birth control. I HAD A HYSTERECTOMY! Birth control was never discussed because I don’t take birth control! 🙄 He also had my license taken because he claimed my panic attack was a seizure. Picked a random day and said I had a seizure then.♥ 0source record 891
how do you fix that though because most of my medical records are like that♥ 0source record 892
I had a doctor lie to my face with my partner in the room and document that I denied treatment even though I specifically asked about treatment and she said I didn’t need it. 🥰♥ 0source record 894
I went to the er for freaking seizures and on my documents said basically I was just drunk. Like yes I did drink but I was definitely also having seizures. But nothing about my seizures were documented.♥ 0source record 895
My daughter was recently admitted to a children’s hospital, they left a paper in her room (that I wasn’t supposed to see) with a wildly different and more severe diagnosis and told me I wasn’t supposed to see it and it was for insurance and billing purposes.♥ 0source record 896
This just happened to me. Slipped in the rain on my motorcycle due to a car cutting out in front of me. I launched myself a good 15 ft. Got back on the bike and road a good 40 minutes. Didn’t feel any pain at first but when I got home I couldn’t get off the bike. Ambulance took me to the hospital and the info they exchanged to the trauma team was way off. I told them all the corrections and in my discharge paperwork it was still wrong. The paperwork stated I got hit by a car instead of a car pulling out in front of me, I went to brake but the bike launched me. Always double check everything♥ 0source record 897
Very true!! If it wasn’t for my wife [account] meticulously reading my test results (hospital experienced) I would have never known I had lupus. Always had the symptoms but never thought I had anything. Bc of her I learned to pay more attention to my health records. Well at least try to♥ 0source record 899
the last time I went to er, they said my temp was 98.7. I never once had any type of thermometer around me. also I found out through medical records that when they tried my last hysterectomy surgery (failed attempt) story for another day but anyway that when the surgeon cut me they cut into a umbilical hernia and never told me they repaired it.♥ 0source record 900
I got married and then decided to switch from BC to natural planning and my GY told me everything was going well but when I checked my medical records on the portal she listed me as engaging in extremely risky behavior. Like what?! I’m married. I have one partner. We want kids one day. Just HOW is that risky? (But it makes sense bc she kept pushing me to go back on BC and I kept refusing).♥ 0source record 901
THIS IS SO TRUE OMG i was told one thing handed paperwork im reading it in my car still at the hospital like wait what this isn't even the same info??♥ 0source record 902
Or what you ARENT told. I found out so much about myself from medical reports and findings that weren’t “relevant” to the current case so they didn’t mention it.♥ 0source record 903
Also NEVER pay upfront or sign something that says you are responsible for something that you think should be covered by insurance…♥ 0source record 904
As a nurse, I can say this comment is 💯♥ 0source record 905
Not just read them; obtain them for your personal records. You never know when you'll need them.♥ 0source record 907
As a healthcare worker, this is FACTS! Always ask for clarification and for your medical records. They missed important things all the time and never disclose them to you if you don’t ask them about it♥ 0source record 908
I just had this discussion with my 94 year old Grandma.♥ 0source record 909
Sadly found this to be true with my miscarriage. Doctor told me baby was healthy and looked fine, 3 weeks later miscarried at 12 weeks. Changed doctors and got my records, he charted pregnancy did not appear viable. I announced to the world and everything.♥ 0source record 910
My doctor literally put that my pain was in a whole diff location than I was telling her so it wasn’t suspected to be my gallbladder. I ended up in the ER that same week to have emergency surgery for gallbladder removal. I stopped seeing that doctor lol.♥ 0source record 911
This! Them clinical notes tell a complete different story! Upload that to ChatGPT & learn everything they’re not telling you!♥ 0source record 912
yup 100% i was told my bloodwork was ok but im pre diabetic and some other things that the levels were in the red♥ 0source record 913
I can attest to this! It was how I found out I had a pelvic mass that ended up being a dangerous intestinal abscess. My dr not only didn’t catch it in my scan report first, but she dismissed it as “a fluid/air pocket”. I had to push for my other dr to look into it. Health literacy can literally save your life!!♥ 0source record 914
yea I found out my boy got stuck when pushing him out at birth via document 😃♥ 0source record 915
This I was told I had a really bad ear infection completely didn’t mention I had mastoiditis with bone erosion till I read out back to them and asked what the bone part meant…and they told me I now have little holes in my skull….♥ 0source record 916
When I was about 13 my dr put in my chart I had mono when my test had came back positive for strep. That chart followed me for YEARS and I’d get strep constantly but they’d always say it was a mono flair up lmao. Finally had gone to an ENT and he actually helped me lol. I have trust issues with some of these Drs♥ 0source record 921
True these lairs told me I gave birth at 39 weeks almost 40 on the paperwork it said 38 and that I had pre eclampsia and these goofs didn’t tell me♥ 2source record 922
YES! YES! YES! I work at a doctors office n bro you wouldn’t believe how much these girls fuck up n by pass💀 1 of our tech companies updated their systems to “fix bugs” but it js fucked it up even more so most patients were only getting like half their diagnoses put in the system we were the ONLY office in their 100+ doctors offices that caught it💀… n this was already a few months in into their new update🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️♥ 1source record 923
reading my medical records to submit to aflac is how I found out I had a rare form of cervical cancer. the dbag didnt tell me or didnt realize my tests came back that way. w. t. f.♥ 1source record 924
Every time. They never tell you the truth especially when it comes to scans and blood and urine results.♥ 1source record 926
My old PCP wrote on my chart that I am MORBIDLY OBESE. At 140lbs and I'm 5'6" 😭 now what the fuck 😭♥ 1source record 927
read the operative report for my craniotomy. I don’t recommend it within the first week of being discharged they start talking about extracting your jaw muscle back with fishhooks and dogbone plates, screws.😂♥ 1source record 928
Because of patient portal I found out I had cancer before my doctor did. 🙄♥ 1source record 929
this is so true, got into a car accident and fractured my skull, i thought that and some lacerations were my only injuries but nope, got my records and apparently my orbital bone shattered and a piece shot through my nasal cavity 💔💔♥ 0source record 930
Absolutely true I saw they put I was a smoker in my chart I never smoke a day in my life any kind of Tobacco♥ 0source record 931
yeah I found out years later that apparently I was labeled as an alcoholic because one night I ended up in the hospital partying too hard at 20. Don't get me wrong that was stupid, but like, I shouldn't have to argue with a doctor 7 years later that I only drink about once a month.♥ 0source record 932
seriously. they put in my cousins files that she was an opiate addict but has never had opioid addiction!!! it's crazy what they document but don't say to your face. isn't that right [account]♥ 0source record 933
I read my notes on what a psychiatrist said about me. he said I was dressed in short, shorts and a skimpy top and then wrote Histrionic Disorder.. It was 45°C most days where I was living. I was wearing normal denim shorts and a singlet (thick bands even) anyway, I saw 2 other psychiatrists, they diagnosed me as having adhd and asd. I felt so mad though at that first dr. he was Muslim though so probably just very conservative♥ 0source record 934
As a terminal cancer patient, you are your best own advocate! I second this, but because so many times something wasn’t mentioned unless I brought it up myself. Read and research what you don’t understand like terms or certain tests. Make sure you bring up everything you read on your documentation. If you have an app for your hospital group or etc, I suggest you get it! Most of your results are released there for docs to review, and you to review as well!! Thank you for saying this!♥ 0source record 936
Ask for your medical records and an itemized bill. They overcharge $79,000. I called them out on it and they asked me if I was reading it correctly. And I said I do it for a living so I do know how to read medical records and codes. It’s not hard. I got a letter showing me where they did take it off.♥ 0source record 937
Yeah I felt everything in my c-section n they knew they screwed up n I made them correct my file bc they legit put in there “pt. Properly anesthetized before first cut.” When I literally told her everywhere she lightly touched me with the drape up n she said “eh good enough let’s start”♥ 0source record 938

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Doctors look it up too — on their own version of Google129 index entriesClinicians naming the subscription tools, and patients describing watching a doctor use plain search in front of them.
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What readers reported: But to a doctor, its the equivalent of a regular person watching a video of how to open a jar of pickles. You know how to open a jar, take things out of a jar, and what tools to use to take things out of a jar, youve just never taken pickles out before.

Limit: The distinction the clinicians in this thread keep making — that the training is what makes the search useful — is an argument, not a verification. No claim here about any named product or hospital was checked.

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Like the one that just told me “I think you might have arthritis in your hip” I’m 30 don’t have arthritis but my back was broken thanks for looking over that doc 😌

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I worked at a medical college and the students were so mad we switched from Uptodate to something else. And they pitched us a bunch of AI crap that literally did not work properly when they presented it to us. So, look forward to that. They’re all using it now.

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My doctor straight up told me he uses chatgpt and advised me to use it too. He said it was surprisingly accurate

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Probably. I’ve never checked however if there is a published treatment for whatever you are interested in, you will find a summary of the current consensus on it from the most recent literature♥ 16source record 3616
youre funny if you think uptodate is enough to cover the scope of a dr 😭 theyre just guidelines♥ 2source record 3622
No because you’ll have absolutely no idea what any of it means. Medicine is a different language sweet heart♥ 1source record 3623
Yes you have to prove your a doctor / pa or np to be able to purchase it♥ 466source record 3625
I worked at a medical college and the students were so mad we switched from Uptodate to something else. And they pitched us a bunch of AI crap that literally did not work properly when they presented it to us. So, look forward to that. They’re all using it now.♥ 20source record 3634
Love up to date . My doc that I use to work for let me use it for a research paper! I was floored♥ 0source record 3644
came to say this, it is a best practice model since they can't know everything. They can identify the issue and then make sure their treatment is, well, up to date♥ 0source record 3646
You’re about two months late, but thanks for your comment♥ 1source record 3647
Yaaassss! I’ll use it mainly bc I’m infinity-tasking & know the answer but just want to see it in writing first♥ 1source record 3650
I go in with my own diagnosis I gave myself.I just need the testing and medicine by the doctor♥ 7source record 3657
[link removed] you need some clinical knowledge to understand it tho♥ 176source record 3659
I know an orthopedic surgeon that watches the surgery on YouTube she’s going to perform the day before lol♥ 113source record 3667
Bestie. Can you read? I said I used the mayo clinics website too…and it is also VERY MUCH THE INTERNET. Its not some magical portal for doctors. You can use it! He literally told me not to trust the internet and then handed me printouts with the URL on them.♥ 4source record 3669
I can read. Two issues: I look up medical stuff online daily. About 99% of medical internet searches produce sites that are trying to sell you something. Additionally when a patient looks up a website, they are usually trying to diagnose themselves. The doc has already diagnosed you and now he is giving you information about your condition from the Mayo Clinic. And I can see from your immediate response why he doesn’t want YOU searching up stuff: Because you are trying to diagnose yourself and you act before thinking.♥ 6source record 3670
I worked at a pharmacy. The pharmacist did indeed use a “special Google” 24/7♥ 22source record 3674
Former pharmacist here. They use it all the time. Clinical pharmacology, up to date etc. it’s really hard to know everything about the thousands of different drugs, especially the less frequently used ones 👍♥ 33source record 3675
And what is this special google called 🌚 I’m asking for someone♥ 3source record 3676
Doctors also lie after your surgery to make themselves look better so you don’t sue them for all the things they did.♥ 20source record 3677
I know surgeons who would watch YouTube videos and google anatomy terms before going in to the OR lol. They forget things too♥ 4source record 3681
I rather my surgeon be 100% sure they’re making the right incisions! Hahaha♥ 9source record 3683
I went to the ER and they used google right in my face. The same site I found before I arrived 🙄♥ 9source record 3684
It’s called UpToDate lol and strongly encouraged. That’s how we stay up to date with the latest recs even outside ur field. Also helps with medications too♥ 5source record 3686
If you work for a hospital, they definitely have a subscription to it.♥ 3source record 3687
NPIs are easily accessible on Google … but they need more proof than that♥ 3source record 3689
lol that’s good! But I’m kidding. Sorta I’ve gotten myself into enough trouble with them the last thing they need is an alert that “it’s meeeeeeeee has attempted to gain access” to anything of theirs hahahah 😂♥ 3source record 3690
Up to date is a website that allows healthcare workers to stay up to date with the most recent evidence based medicine. It does not replace having a medical degree. 🙄 You have to have medical training to interpret and implement the information you find there.♥ 2source record 3694
Lol Us "Advanced Nurses" Use it Too. 😉 .. you have to prove your a health care worker and you have to understand alot of the Medical Terminology it will kick you off if it's suspicious.♥ 2source record 3695
Married to a doctor, can confirm 🤣 open evidence & up to date♥ 2source record 3696
Helped diagnose myself once with serotonin syndrome in the ER to the chief of residency. He literally looked up the disorder on Google lol but it was probably his special Google. He agreed 100% and I felt so validated that day.♥ 2source record 3697
Yep! That’s why I self diagnose before I get there. Saves time and calms my nerves before the appointment 😅♥ 2source record 3698
Dude Naval pulled out a damn binder with medical tree graph and were going down each route until they came to a diagnosis 🤣 Which was something minor too 🤣♥ 1source record 3703
😂😂😂😂😂 I asked them a question when I had Kailey and they said I’m not sure let me go google that really quickly 😂😂♥ 0source record 3704
Like the one that just told me “I think you might have arthritis in your hip” I’m 30 don’t have arthritis but my back was broken thanks for looking over that doc 😌♥ 1source record 3705
Found out about my arthritis when they were looking for kidney stones when I was 27. Like it feels like I’m giving birth over here my hip doesn’t even fucking hurt. Can we focus on the main concern here. 😩♥ 1source record 3706
And let’s not forget they use doctor threads 🤭 I’ve seen it and they ask others questions as to how they messed up and most don’t know what happened♥ 1source record 3707
atleast some look stuff up. mine constantly gave me meds that have a bad interaction. the pharmacy is supposed to catch it. but unless it's a good pharmacy they will just pass it on thru also♥ 1source record 3708
At the naval hospital they would say they needed to go google it 😂😂 at least they let us know LOL♥ 0source record 3709
thank you, bout killed and and she " couldn't "explain my mystery illness. check your meds on drugs com for interactions. could be why you are sick(anyone)♥ 0source record 3711
Drs use plan old Google. Caught my boss googling patient symptoms.♥ 1source record 3714
My doctor straight up told me he uses chatgpt and advised me to use it too. He said it was surprisingly accurate♥ 0source record 3716
I watched my er doc google my symptoms I’m my face. Regular google♥ 0source record 3717
My doctor just pulls up the actual Google search engine😅 She need to use ChatGPT forreal. I know Ai is ruining the world and blah blah blah but it definitely diagnoses me right 9/10 times. I suggest its diagnoses and she’s just like “oh yeah, that’s totally what it could be” after diagnosing me wrong 10 times already😂♥ 0source record 3718
I use google and know what my diagnosis is before they do I’m like “I just need the medicine this is what I have” “are you sure?” We can sit here for an hour I don’t mind but I’ve never been wrong🤷🏽‍♀️😭🤣♥ 0source record 3722
My dr deadass just googles shit in front of me 😭 shes great though so I dont really get concerned♥ 0source record 3725
My doctor straight up looked at the Mayo Clinic website in front of me 🫠♥ 0source record 3727
I lit saw my OBGYN googling “cholestasis in pregnancy” after I told him I found it myself and brought it up to him, he had bo idea until I told him♥ 0source record 3728
My doctor is at least honest about this he says let me search more on this. Or let me consult someone else right quick.♥ 0source record 3729
They actually use goggle also lol I’ve caught a surgeon using it before going to do a procedure 🙊♥ 0source record 3731
I gave my doctor the most brutal side eye when I watched her pull up Google for three of my kids appointments at that point I said, I googled that shit and that’s why I’m here.♥ 0source record 3732
I had a Dr. use google to find an answer to my question about my period. It was no Drs version, it was straight double click from the desktop and typed in and then used her phone to translate it to her native language 😂♥ 0source record 3733
to be honest it's completely normal to have an information background to search for stuff you can't remember. like going on up to date,pubmed and research gate♥ 0source record 3738
I was just saying today, with AI and robotic technology there’s going to be a whole lot of doctors without jobs♥ 0source record 3739
100% true had this happen to me one time in front of my eyes I was like did you seriously just pull this up from google?!? She seemed embarrassed and walked out and came back like 30 minutes later 😂♥ 0source record 3740
my docter once had to actually use google bc he had no idea what was wrong with me 😭then went on to use google to find what to prescribe me after figuring out what i had♥ 0source record 3741
Can confirm. There’s no way for us to know everything there is to know about medicine. We get special medical Google to help us with tough cases♥ 0source record 3744
The difference is that they are actually trained to understand what they are reading. You are not.♥ 0source record 3746
You are my favorite I advocate for myself they said they don’t use google I went to my appointment he was very well using google I knew I wasn’t crazy…….♥ 0source record 3752
When I was pregnant I had to go to a special “blood doctor” bc my results came back weird. They found out I had hemoglobin D trait & he literally googled it because he had no idea what it was so he could tell me. My son also has it because I passed it down to him♥ 0source record 3754
Mine went to AI asking what age i should get a mammogram since cancer runs in my family. He did this in front of me.♥ 0source record 3756
This is 100% true♥ 0source record 3757
i seen 😭 i literally seen my ob done it infront of me. the day before my appointment i looked it up my self and went on the same link 😂 just like my ob♥ 0source record 3758
This is true lol I was diagnosed with cholestasis during my pregnancy and the PA that diagnosed it went online to look up if in fact she was diagnosing me correctly and proceeded to tell me not to research it to not worry myself even more so lol.♥ 0source record 3760
literally i had my gp looking up my symptoms right in front of me like love is that not why you went to university?♥ 0source record 3764
Yup I can confirm I worked for a Dr too, but he had a book he used to refer to I used to feel like I’m seeing something I shouldn’t when I see him reaching for the book after seeing a patient to double check that he gave the proper diagnosis or to check that he gave the proper meds , but like hello the patient left already !!?😅♥ 0source record 3765
My rheumatologist searched up my lab results on Google bc she didn’t remember what it meant & then read it out loud 😭😭♥ 0source record 3767
You need education to interpret the results, that’s the part you don’t have the experience and education to♥ 0source record 3771
20 years ago I had PUPPPS when I was pregnant with my first child and I kid you not a nurse suggested it was that and the doctor went straight to the computer to google it and was like “yea, I guess that’s probably it”♥ 0source record 3774
I gotta see if the PA's office that I work for uses this. I know we use regular google reviews. thanks for the info!♥ 0source record 3777
Girl my doc office straight up googled shit - in front of MA and RN. 😭😂 no special Google just Google♥ 0source record 3778
Actually it’s the regular google, they just know what to look for as opposed to a non-medical professional.♥ 0source record 3779
They Infact do. I had my obgyn take me to her office so she could ‘google’ rabies shot & pregnancy.♥ 0source record 3787
I can confirm. Doctor literally pulled it up while I was in the room with her to look something up.♥ 0source record 3788
One time my dr used this in front of me at an appt cuz she literally just didn’t know 😂 I was like wow I’m getting billed for what I do at home♥ 0source record 3789
Literally seen the doctor search up what I was going through and printed it out infront of me 😂😫♥ 0source record 3790
So do vets. They have their own server and login that only veterinarians can access♥ 0source record 3792
Yup I went to patient first for a cold and I watched the doctor google a medication I could take 😭😭😭😭😭♥ 0source record 3793
Me and my Doctor get stumped sometimes with issues in the office. so we both go to google at the same time tryna find answers for my issues😂 sometimes google says I’m dead and my doctors just like “well, that’s false you breathing right now”🫡♥ 0source record 3795
I know this for sure because our family practioner kept trying to diagnose my kid off of Google. Ma’am, I already did that. 😂♥ 1source record 3797
the people in this thread are insane, please go see a doctor instead of relying on AI or even uptodate for that matter. there are many nuances in medicine that can literally kill you or leave you for dead. medical training is so long not for fun♥ 1source record 3799
I had a weird blister on my thumb once and I googled what it could be and it gave me a few options & suggested to consult my doctor. I scheduled an appt for three days later. I walked into the room, she looked at my thumb, said “huhhh..” went straight to her computer and TYPED IT IN GOOGLE. LIKE MISS GIRL I JUST DID THAT THREE DAYS AGO THATS WHY IM HERE WITH YOU NOW😭♥ 0source record 3809
they use Google scholar, however they use it to find the most up to date medical peer reviewed research on new meds, treatment modalities, ext...not because they dont know what they are doing.♥ 0source record 3810
We do actually, there’s like thousands of disiases in the world, with lots of variables of treatments, symptoms, age etc. No one can know everything♥ 0source record 3811
I think my current doctor needs to use that more often. I legit don’t listen to a word he says anymore cause of how stupid he is for both me and my baby.♥ 0source record 3814
This checks out because I had a doctor do it RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME recently to calculate my CANCER risk 🫠♥ 0source record 3819
So they jus get on there like google n google your symptoms 🙄 They don’t really care u r jus money♥ 0source record 3820
I know this is true because I literally saw my doctor looking stuff up on some website/app, & there’s other doctors that can add info and stuff, but yeah they’ll type in your symptoms to find something that fits and say yeah you have xyz.♥ 0source record 3823
Nurse here. I’ve worked with many doctors that use Google. I do too sometimes. Sometimes you know the info but need a quick refresher 🤷🏼‍♀️♥ 0source record 3824
Yes as a nurse i can confirm this♥ 0source record 3825
My Dr Googles things I tell her about autoimmune diseases I have with me 🙄♥ 0source record 3831
I can attest to this, they google what they think you might have see of the symptoms like up. They be guessing the treatments it’s a mess I love it 😂 you got treatment? They talked to some other stuff cause they had no idea what to prescribe lol♥ 0source record 3837
Oh this is a major fact and I was a victim to this in Houston♥ 0source record 3838
No fr I went to the ER once and I told them what was going on with me and they said “that’s impossible” and then he sat on his computer and came back like “well actually okay..”♥ 0source record 3839
Agreed. I was in the ER and the doctor was like “wait, can you have that? Let me google it” I didn’t bother taking the meds♥ 0source record 3840
Nahhhh my son has a rare medical condition… we were sent to a specialist who supposedly knew all about it.. he was googling the condition while sitting next to me 🫠♥ 0source record 3842
I literally watched my doctor google different meds for a certain condition to see what she could give me.I was astonished. She’s a very popular doctor in that area♥ 0source record 3847
Our docs don’t use regular google 🤷🏼‍♀️seen it and used it myself♥ 0source record 3850
Congratulations they gave other avenues to use but they don’t have a special Google they refer to old study tools and regular Google but I digress♥ 0source record 3851
Yep, I had a doctor and that’s all that he used so I stopped going to him. I switched over to a female doctor and I’ve never seen her once. Look anything up.♥ 0source record 3852
I saw my old doctor do that since I told her my health problem which she wasn't specialize in in anyway♥ 0source record 3853
I can attest, they've given me print offs of "Facts" for meds instead of the inserts I requested...♥ 0source record 3855
my doctor did this in front of me while he was trying to prescribe me antidepressants 😭♥ 0source record 3857
This is exactly why I google my conditions or issues and challenge them, my doctor hate to see me coming. I had a fill in doc once and she said she was impressed by my advocacy for myself.♥ 0source record 3859
Saw this real time, at my dog’s vet, to find out if the medication he got caused seizures because it wasn’t on the first warnings — confirmed♥ 0source record 3862
Trazadone Btw, if your dog has seizures they will spike♥ 0source record 3863
everybody knows this. that's why doctors are always late. they're researching what's wrong with you♥ 0source record 3868
No it ain’t🤣🤣🤣 went to the doctor, Told Em a problem I was having everything he told me/asked me was word for word off google♥ 0source record 3869
Watched mine literally use Google right in front of me. Like she included me in it and read what it said on the first page 😂♥ 0source record 3870
Doctors look up surgeries they haven’t done before on YouTube.♥ 1,867source record 10784
Vets do this too. I have ferrets and she told me she looked up youtube videos on how to preform surgery on him. Honestly I respect that. Id rather them refresh their memory and educate themselves on how to preform before actually doing it. Its Honestly unrealistic for them to know ALLLL the information. Im glad they have resources.♥ 238source record 10785
I don’t remember the procedure but I worked with a veterinary internal medicine specialist who once had to refresh his memory on something. Him, the LVT & myself, the assistant, all sat down & watched a YouTube video together 🤣🤣♥ 46source record 10786
But to a doctor, its the equivalent of a regular person watching a video of how to open a jar of pickles. You know how to open a jar, take things out of a jar, and what tools to use to take things out of a jar, youve just never taken pickles out before.♥ 57source record 10789
not really. when you have the knowledge its not hard to figure out. Thats what they do♥ 11source record 10793
That didn't make it better..I guess if I'm going to surgery, I better watch how they take pickles out my jar and ask some questions..♥ 7source record 10794
I think the anaesthesiologist will make sure youre not able to ask any questions while theyre taking your pickles out😂♥ 14source record 10796
Medicine is a perishable skill. I’d rather a doctor continue their education as often as possible♥ 13source record 10801
True. My husband's hand surgeon watched them to perform his ulnar nerve repair that he had never done. If you get a good surgeon, it doesn't matter...♥ 6source record 10802
Also, surgeons will watch videos of surgeries they haven't done in a while to be prepared. This is a good thing!♥ 8source record 10803
That’s what I work for is an orthopedic surgeon. Once you know the body parts and instruments, the rest should be easy peasy.♥ 2source record 10805
100%! This was the great thing I LOVED about working at my old ER & specialty vet hospital back home! Everyone worked together & asked each other for help/advice so the patients got the BEST care!♥ 5source record 10807
That’s good practice.. they are prepping making sure they don’t miss a step/ have everything in line, no matter how many surgeries you have done .♥ 4source record 10809
I’m sure they do, but a lot of surgeons put their surgeries on YouTube so I guess that’s why they watch there.♥ 4source record 10811
That’s ok tho.You don’t always remember what you studied 1 month ago.They do their study and then proceed♥ 2source record 10812
I use to be a medical sales tech, we know the surgeries and walk them through it. We also supply all tools and have it set up for them.♥ 1source record 10813
To be fair nurses do this for skills they haven’t done in a long time. A refresher is never a bad thing.♥ 1source record 10815
Some ortho docs are told how to do the procedure by the sales rep that is selling them the knee/hip replacement device. They’re in the OR with them telling them what to do♥ 1source record 10817
And get mad when I say ima. Doctor and have more knowledge of then them .♥ 1source record 10818
I mean yes but it’s not in the same way as us looking stuff up they actually know what they’re doing lmao♥ 1source record 10822
They do because it’s impossible to train on every possible type of surgery, but they do 5-6 years of surgeries before they are allowed to operate without an attending surgeon.♥ 0source record 10827
&& dentists google things they don’t know as well ! Worked for a dentist and was amazed at how much shit he would google. 🙄♥ 2source record 10829

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Second opinions, and which doctors staff themselves trust75 index entriesNamed procedures cancelled after a second look, the clinicians who say the incentive is the hospital's rather than the surgeon's, and two reports from people who work alongside doctors rather than for them.
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Second opinions, and which doctors staff themselves trust

75 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: Surgery has been recommended and you are deciding whether to accept it

How commenters applied it: 75 records. The advice is uniform — get a second and a third opinion before an operation — and the reports underneath it are specific about what changed: an emergency surgery for suspected cancerous polyps that turned out to be a pregnancy, an appendectomy stopped at the theatre door, a hysterectomy recommended for fibroids that a second gynaecologist would not perform, an ankle already healing. Clinical staff in the replies split the incentive question: several say the money is the hospital's rather than the surgeon's, one surgical tech argues a specific robotic route costs the patient more for no gain, and one describes providers disciplined for missing a surgical quota. Two short reports round the card out with the same theme from inside: nursing staff naming which kind of doctor they trust, and one medical worker on what gets said about patients afterwards.

What readers reported: I had a doctor tell me I have cancerous uterine polyps…tried to schedule an emergency surgery for that same weekend…got a second opinion. It was quadruplets. 🙃🙃🙃🙃 I miscarried 1 at 8 weeks but delivered my triplets at 36 weeks! Then I called him to tell him how wrong he was!

Limit: Every case here is a personal account with no medical record attached, and clinicians in the thread push back hard on the framing that surgeons operate for money. Seeking repeat opinions costs money and time, which several commenters raise and nobody answers.

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True. Everything they tell you to do….do the opposite

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I believe this. I broke my ankle and the doctor was like you need surgery before it starts to heal. I was like I broke it 10 days ago it’s already healing. Got a second opinion and that Dr said he must of been a quack cuz it’s healing perfectly no surgery needed

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Agreed! I was about to have hip and knee surgery and was told my hip was broken. Turns out I just had rheumatoid arthritis.

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Yep ruined my right elbow when I was a teenager I was training for the commonwealth games and 10 years later I can barely move it still…needed that second opinion 💔

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When a doctor is pushing surgery on you always get a second and third opinion. They need to make $$$. Sometimes the surgery makes you more sick.

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That doctor you praise as if they are God sent ? They TALK SHHHHHT ABOUT YOU AFTER YOUR APPOINTMENT😭you can be the nicest, sweetest, easiest patient to deal with and your doctors will still initiate high school gossip about you. Anywhere from you being smelly, to you being annoying, dumb, poor, snobby, etc. Learn to stop confiding and telling your physicians personal problems you have unless you’re okay with everrrrryyyyyybody knowing that you found out your husband is sleeping with other men and now you’re losing your house in the divorce as you step through the door.😭😭😭 doctors are some of the biggest gossipers and most unprofessional, perverted and childish people I’ve worked with🤫 this is coming from someone who’s worked with physicians in Beverly Hills, Santa Monica and the SF Valley🗣️

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When a doctor is pushing surgery on you always get a second and third opinion. They need to make $$$. Sometimes the surgery makes you more sick.♥ 9,901source record 5854
I had a doctor tell me I have cancerous uterine polyps…tried to schedule an emergency surgery for that same weekend…got a second opinion. It was quadruplets. 🙃🙃🙃🙃 I miscarried 1 at 8 weeks but delivered my triplets at 36 weeks! Then I called him to tell him how wrong he was!♥ 558source record 5855
They are quads their angel sibling is always with them I bet ❤️♥ 1source record 5856
Before the surgery they would have given you a pregnancy test, that’s standard. Doctor should have done it before scheduling♥ 2source record 5858
They tried wheeling me in for appendicitis and I asked to get a second opinion. Turns out I dont have and it was just a tummy ache♥ 14source record 5860
I asked another Doctor to rerun all my tests… came back negative and they were going to cut me open until I asked for another dr♥ 9source record 5861
My dog started having seizures, I took him to the vet, he tried to push a HEART surgery on him and said he was going to die without the surgery, turns out my dog has epilepsy and doesn’t need a heart surgery.♥ 6source record 5864
My OBGYN (man) PUSHED for me to be induced. He literally said “It’s to inconvenient to wait…” I procrastinated it and when I finally came to a date he said “I have dinner plans that night, can we reschedule?”. I ended up delivering my baby girl on the day that was MOST inconvenient, NATURALLY 🤣🩷♥ 5source record 5865
This is exactly what happened to me when I got tumor thyroid and had to get thyroidectomy. Would have loved to do iodine therapy first. I’m worse since that surgery♥ 3source record 5866
Try to find a naturopath that takes insurance. Sometimes you may have to travel out of state but they also do telehealth.♥ 1source record 5867
And always always ask how many times the doctor has done the procedure/surgery.♥ 2source record 5868
I felt this way when they said I needed my gall bladder removed♥ 2source record 5869
I believe this. I broke my ankle and the doctor was like you need surgery before it starts to heal. I was like I broke it 10 days ago it’s already healing. Got a second opinion and that Dr said he must of been a quack cuz it’s healing perfectly no surgery needed♥ 2source record 5870
When you look at profit margins the doctors portion is far less than the anesthesiologist and hospital. I mean a surgeon or just that you typically see them for a consult you don’t like their answer naturally get a 2nd or 3rd opinion.♥ 2source record 5871
Doctor’s daughter here. This is 100% true. However is not always the doctor’s fault, is the company’s mostly. My dad quit for this reason.♥ 1source record 5872
Not only this… but in my opinion as a surgical tech. Robotic surgeries are a SCAM it costs more for the patient for what they could do laparoscopically♥ 1source record 5873
Had a doctor insist on giving me a cortisone shot. I made an educated decision based on facts & he said to give myself a month to "wrap my head around the idea". Won't be going back .♥ 1source record 5875
Bariatrics is a billion dollar industry. They don’t make money if you lose it on your own. If you’re taking the shots, they get you as a patient for a year or two. If you have the surgery, they get you for LIFE.♥ 1source record 5876
i swear my blood pressure medication, has made my blood pressure worse♥ 2source record 5878
YES. same with medicine in general. let your body learn to fight shit or find natural remedies bc a lot of times medications will cause another issue or make it worse. and as for surgery, my mom had a benign tumor and was told she’d need surgery, went to another doctor and he literally told her she’d be fine and it’s shrinking on its own the dr who said she needed surgery just wanted the money lol♥ 2source record 5879
I don’t know if it’s a universal experience, but in Perth Aus Doctors are the absolute opposite. They are soooo neglectful, getting any sort of treatment, even a scan, is impossible. You are always considered fat, or mentally ill. Also in nursing school they have a unit dedicated to hospital economics and they push the message to try and promote patients informed consent, get multiple opinions and see if those scans/surgeries ARE worth it. Saves you some money both for you and for the hospital system♥ 0source record 5883
TRUTH!!!! SOME DOCTOR TRIED THIS WITH ME!!! BUT TH3 SECOND OPINIOM EXRAY SHOWED A CONTRAST. TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY PLEASE👌😂💜♥ 0source record 5884
I had an ectopic pregnancy, the nurses kept trying to push me for surgery but the doctor told me I could just get a shot 😂♥ 0source record 5885
I had a doctor when I was younger tell my mom and I that I had scoliosis and I needed surgery but after doing an x/ray I was just missing 2-3 ribs.♥ 0source record 5887
Yep!! Happened to my mom once. The doctor walked in and said coldly “you really need this surgery” as if he was selling her a car. It disgusts me to think about, considering she was literally dying and she just needed some answers.♥ 0source record 5888
Rare to find a good doctors nowadays and hospitals is soo expensive♥ 0source record 5889
These are facts, I had a back injury when I was 11 and the first doctor was pushing surgery but the other doctors said the surgery was risky and said I would be fine without it♥ 0source record 5890
Agreed! I was about to have hip and knee surgery and was told my hip was broken. Turns out I just had rheumatoid arthritis.♥ 0source record 5891
Not every doctor is like that. Some are paid on salary so doesn’t matter whether you get the surgery or not it doesn’t effect how much money they make nor do they care if you decide on getting it or not.♥ 0source record 5893
Yep! I used to work at an office who’s providers would get in trouble or even fired if they didn’t meet a quota on scheduled surgeries 🙂♥ 0source record 5894
Yep ruined my right elbow when I was a teenager I was training for the commonwealth games and 10 years later I can barely move it still…needed that second opinion 💔♥ 0source record 5895
I never go to a surgeon for back pain unless my chiropractor said I have to.♥ 0source record 5896
They did this to my dad and told him its cancer but he was fine now he's not the same😔♥ 0source record 5897
This is facts! Get a second and even third opinion. My previous gynecologist told me I had huge fibroids and couldn't understand how my cycles were normal and I wasn't in constant pain. I only went in for my pap and annual testing. She did an ultrasound (circling on the monitor for emphasis) showing one fibroid being at least the size of a cantaloupe. I couldn't make it out personally on the screen. She suggested I freeze my eggs and get a total hysterectomy asap. I called my mom and cried in the phone with her for like 30 minutes outside the hospital. I was going to schedule and go through with this surgery until my mom and aunt told me to get a second opinion. Met my new doc. She asked a million questions, tested me, and ultimately said I was not a candidate for a total hysterectomy. She repeatedly asked for my ultrasound from the previous doctor for months and they ignored her. She ultimately told me finding her was the best decision I made because some docs are unscrupulous like that and apologized on her behalf for the mental trauma it caused.♥ 0source record 5899
Studies show Blk women are targeted for hysterectomies. It’s weird and tragic. Good you found another doctor.♥ 1source record 5900
Same in corporate dental companies..♥ 0source record 5901
I think I got the DNC done. It’s when they scrape some tissue right? I think I have PCOS but I’ve never been diagnosed with it. The GYN I saw was a man & he said my results came back inconclusive even tho I got a letter in the mail saying that everything was normal. He wanted me to do surgery… for what?!♥ 0source record 5904
yes thats what it is. My dr was a male but after that I hurried up an found me an African American woman doctor. You probably didnt even need that darn surgery.♥ 2source record 5905
Yes!!! One hospital tried to tell me my gallbladder was no good and scheduled to have it removed. I went and got a second opinion and they said there was absolutely nothing wrong with it.♥ 0source record 5909
uhm yea they scanned me and retest everything twice. xray, ct scan, MRI. this was 15 years ago.♥ 0source record 5910
I’m doing the surgery. I’m usually the ones who pushes it. When they get in there they find a mess. I’m healing right now and feel better.♥ 0source record 5911
um my insurance doesn’t like pushing anything unless it’s medically necessary other than psych meds♥ 0source record 5912
This isn’t really true. Surgery makes the HOSPITAL money, not the surgeon (except private practice plastic surgeons/derms)♥ 0source record 5913
mine str8 up said his loans are $3300/mo and need ppl on the table. "what we doing next?" he said.♥ 0source record 5914
yes yes yes. even in the same practice there could be different opinions about surgery between docs.♥ 0source record 5915
this is true, I had a neck injury and I compressed my spinal cord a bit in the neck area. The surgeon said I need to do a surgery to decompress the spine however I gave my body more time to heal and the pain and symptoms went on their own. It took 6 months to get better but I am sure it will need at least couple years. I almost died in the accident♥ 0source record 5917
This is why I’m so scared if doctors u go in for something small and it seems like ur worse when u leave♥ 0source record 5918
Me reading this after I just had ankle surgery two weeks ago 👁️👄👁️♥ 0source record 5920
doctors are some of the most manipulative and incompetent people out there. the irony♥ 0source record 5922
A family member in the health field used to say we have stupid doctors, they just studied hard to get there.♥ 2source record 5923
I guarantee I've dealt with the medical field more than you. So don't talk to me about critical thinking. He looked at MRI and said that L4 and L5 were severely pinched. the 2nd doctor showed me a spine that had the same disc pinched and that were severely pinched and mine were no where as bad. Why don't you use some critical thinking, you know nothing about me and still made a judgment. That right there tells me your an insufferable person.♥ 1source record 5925
Just like how you made a judgement about your doctor’s opinion based on zero actual knowledge? 💀♥ 0source record 5926
my grandfather died after getting more surgeries, he's in fact just fine, had no diseases at all♥ 0source record 5927
Its disgusting how they prey on people's emotional state. A patient is probably shaken from a bad diagnosis and have to somehow play mental games to not be cheated their money and risk their own health .......♥ 0source record 5928
Getting other opinions is great, but they are not doing unnecessary procedures to make money. This is a very dangerous comment♥ 0source record 5929
I had a doctor tell me straight up I needed surgery until I went to go see my pcp in my original home city and was told I didn’t need surgery♥ 0source record 5930
From my personal experience, never completely trust a doctor’s advice.♥ 5,438source record 10043
My doctor tries to send me to specialists for every little thing, and he is real big on pushing me to have tests done. I have finally learned to just say no.♥ 26source record 10044
omg this! I remember this one doctor and he basically had me come in every two weeks to get some type of tests and after 3 months of doing that stuff he would never have any explanation on why he is doing all of this and would not discuss the tests at all. after 3 months I said ✌️I don't mind doing tests but explain to me what you are doing! 🙄♥ 7source record 10045
NEVER! Especially if surgery is involved. They will hold back information to ensure that they’ll get their $300k+. I read that the aftercare instructions would have damaged my health even further and the doctor knew it! When they called me to reschedule the surgery, they lied and said that my doctor didn’t send anything contesting the surgery. The doctor also never told me to eat a low protein diet for my condition. It’s a BUSINESS!♥ 11source record 10049
doctors are there to get paid and scam insurance companies not fix your health problems.♥ 3source record 10052
i worked as a doctor assistant before. it’s 1000% right, go get second or third opinion. once i worked with doctor that always ask patient to do bunch of visit and test for nothing. i feel sorry for the patient who spend really lot of money 😣♥ 2source record 10053
This, my old doctor said I was fine… 2nd opinion found something removed it that could have been BAD♥ 1source record 10055
Dealing with this now. Was put on meds for hormone imbalance and they said it would help shedding and over 8 months half my hairs fallen out . 😭♥ 1source record 10057
yes i had one tell me I had lupus even put me on medicine for it I got a second opinion and didnt have lupus but the medicine for a good 6 months was giving me symptoms of it♥ 1source record 10059
Also....most doctors DO NOT know the cost of tests or medications. Just because they refer you to a hospital for a test doesn't mean you need to go there specifically. It is almost always more cost effective to go to an ambulatory care facility for a test. For ones that do need to be done in a hospital...you can still shop around. As long as that facility or hospital is in your network, you can go. The only time when you can't is if your doctor will be doing the test themselves at a hospital (they may not be contracted with every hospital, so you want to go where they are). For prescriptions, check places like GoodRx. They can show you the costs of medicine at local pharmacies. If you halve a copay plan, that may not matter, but if you pay a % you will want to go where it costs less.♥ 1source record 10060
Never! This doctor tells me I have a blood clot but didn’t even ask any follow up questions about my symptoms I told her I was having, did feel the need to run test. She stood up out her chair and said omg run to the ER right now. She almost gave me a stroke putting so much fear in me like I had mins to live. I rush over to the ER and after a couple hours running tests and CT scan all for them to tell me that pain I was experiencing was due to a pulled muscle and nothing life threatening. That b***** had me stressed and crying the entire time. I questions doctors so much now they literally get sick of me and idc.♥ 1source record 10061
They don’t profit from healthy people as much as they do from sick people♥ 0source record 10064
Especially if he’s recommending an injection. They get paid big money to push that stuff.♥ 0source record 10065
Amen to that! My "school stress" turned out to be a 5 inch mass! If I had gone for a second opinion sooner, I'd still have two ovaries 😭♥ 0source record 10066
My GP is the only doc I’ll ever trust because we sit down TOGETHER and brainstorm what to do, do our individual research and compare notes, figure out specialists together and what medications do and don’t work. Also my pharmacist is great at telling me all the mechanisms and side effects of my meds. Much love to them both 🥰♥ 1source record 10068
At least Chatgp isn’t is in bed with the pharmaceutical industry. 🙄♥ 0source record 10069
That doctor you praise as if they are God sent ? They TALK SHHHHHT ABOUT YOU AFTER YOUR APPOINTMENT😭you can be the nicest, sweetest, easiest patient to deal with and your doctors will still initiate high school gossip about you. Anywhere from you being smelly, to you being annoying, dumb, poor, snobby, etc. Learn to stop confiding and telling your physicians personal problems you have unless you’re okay with everrrrryyyyyybody knowing that you found out your husband is sleeping with other men and now you’re losing your house in the divorce as you step through the door.😭😭😭 doctors are some of the biggest gossipers and most unprofessional, perverted and childish people I’ve worked with🤫 this is coming from someone who’s worked with physicians in Beverly Hills, Santa Monica and the SF Valley🗣️♥ 0source record 14212
Doctors that are "directors/head of the department" are the worst. They are politicians. Surgeons that have "poor bedside manners" and aloof ARE THE BEST.♥ 157source record 14524
30 years of nursing & this is TRUE♥ 5source record 14525

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The bill: the itemised version and the coding review22 index entriesTwo exact phrases a current insurance employee says you have to use, and what other billers add about prior authorisation.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: The bill: the itemised version and the coding review

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The bill: the itemised version and the coding review

22 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: A routine appointment has produced a bill you were not expecting

How commenters applied it: 22 records. A commenter who says they still work in the industry gives the mechanism and the exact words: raising a new problem during an annual exam converts part of the visit into a billable problem visit, and the way to challenge it is to phone the office and demand a coding review — as the patient, using that phrase, rather than simply asking why you were billed. Replies add the surrounding paperwork: ask billing rather than the front desk, match the bill against the explanation of benefits, and check that any required prior authorisation was actually obtained, because commenters report charges removed when it was not. A second short report says asking for an itemised bill reduces what you are charged. Medical coders in the thread agree the rule is real and defend it as correct billing.

What readers reported: Ask to speak with the billing department. Because where you are probably calling is the general front desk and they really don’t know about a lot of these forms.

Limit: Coders in this thread say the additional charge is legitimate when a new problem is discussed, so a review may confirm the bill rather than remove it. The forms and terms named are US-specific and unverified.

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Isn’t an annual exam to determine any issues??? Or it’s just there to confirm healthy client’s only so then what’s the point of even going if we are expected to be healthy… I’m confused as to what is the annual exam really determining?

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I got charged more to get my stitches taken out than to get them put in bc insurance covered the repair but not the removal😭

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I still work there. You ever get a medical bill because you spoke to the doctor about a new problem during your annual exam. Call that office and ask for a coding review. You as the the patient has to say those words. Don’t just ask why you got billed. Demand a coding review.

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You need to look at your EOB, sometimes the insurance writes it off and the offices don’t and charge you. 99.999% of the time, this is included with the original procedure

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If you ask for an itemized bill at the hospital they don’t charge you as much

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I still work there. You ever get a medical bill because you spoke to the doctor about a new problem during your annual exam. Call that office and ask for a coding review. You as the the patient has to say those words. Don’t just ask why you got billed. Demand a coding review.♥ 2,037source record 11833
Tell them you want to see your UB40 form.♥ 35source record 11835
It’s no longer an annual exam if your sick got an std or anything outside of what constitutes an annual exam. So yes you will be charged accordingly.♥ 6source record 11838
Isn’t an annual exam to determine any issues??? Or it’s just there to confirm healthy client’s only so then what’s the point of even going if we are expected to be healthy… I’m confused as to what is the annual exam really determining?♥ 11source record 11839
Annual exam is for things like check up on your diabetes, blood pressure, blood work to check cholesterol, liver, kidneys, etc. if you have a cold or something, that isn’t part of routine annual check♥ 4source record 11840
I got charged more to get my stitches taken out than to get them put in bc insurance covered the repair but not the removal😭♥ 9source record 11842
10 years ago, I had essure put in and to make sure it works you have to have a dye test a few months later to make sure your fallopian tubes are blocked and verify it worked. Well my insurance paid for the insertion but didn’t want to pay for the test. It made no sense to me… wouldn’t they want to know if what they paid for worked or would they rather pay for pregnancies?♥ 0source record 11844
You need to look at your EOB, sometimes the insurance writes it off and the offices don’t and charge you. 99.999% of the time, this is included with the original procedure♥ 1source record 11845
and if they refuse and act like they don't know what that is♥ 3source record 11846
Ask to speak with the billing department. Because where you are probably calling is the general front desk and they really don’t know about a lot of these forms.♥ 5source record 11847
I'm a phlebotomist and a patient asked for his iron to be checked. I contacted his doctor and she asked me what diagnosis to place it under. She wanted me to research his chart for a diagnosis to be sure his insurance will pay her for it.♥ 2source record 11850
Going through this now. I need to call back and use that term.♥ 1source record 11851
Do it up girl! Should not have to be paying extra to talk to the doctor about a new issue going on. Especially during your annual exam♥ 2source record 11852
It’s actually very annoying I don’t even bother doing a review I wave the bill for them♥ 2source record 11853
Happened to my husband. The doctor brought up his back pain. My husband said he had a socialist and doesn’t need anything from him. So even though Dr. brought it up and not my husband, it was coded as a visit and charged and not as free annual check up.♥ 1source record 11854
I received a bill over 1k ... had to make calls and request to speak to ppl supervisors and then it away. They kept giving me the run around♥ 0source record 11856
If you discuss things that are not part of your annual visit you do incur an additional charge.♥ 7source record 11860
more medical shit to store in my brain. my friend thinks I have a whole database up there 😂♥ 0source record 11861
Will billing ever go back and ask the doctor what you were seen for? It's a big practice so I can't imagine so, but I'm friends with the Dr! I got charged $750 for 10 min of his time when I hurt myself. No xray, just verbal visit! Practice is in my network, I have a high deductible but low premium, but $750 was nuts! Thank you!!♥ 0source record 11862
The only issue with this is that they can bill a problem visit the same day if the new and acute issue is addressed m.e.a.t♥ 0source record 11863
I had this happen to me several months ago. I always get a paper copy of my medical bills and the crap she billed my insurance with was complete fraud. I threatened to sue and they took it all off.♥ 0source record 11864
If you ask for an itemized bill at the hospital they don’t charge you as much♥ 0source record 14194

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Who profits from the extra test, the procedure and the bed51 index entriesWhere staff say the money in a hospital actually sits, argued down to whether a nonprofit hospital is meaningfully different.
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How commenters applied it: 51 records. The claim that hospitals and banks are for-profit draws an immediate, well-informed correction: several people who work in nonprofit hospitals say the category exists, and others reply that a nonprofit still profits through insurance, still pays executives large salaries, and does not pay property tax. A separate report says clinics order extra labs and procedures for kickbacks. A registered nurse adds the staffing report — that overnight cover is thin — which other night-shift nurses partly confirm and partly reject. Alongside it runs a long practical thread about credit unions as the not-for-profit alternative, including a former Bank of America call-centre worker describing incentives that pushed shorter calls and fewer fee refunds.

What readers reported: No it’s the insurance who profit off the hospital and patients denying claims left and right. I call it their stall tactic. If you don’t know how to fight it you will get stuck with the bill.

Limit: The kickback claim is one commenter's assertion with no detail attached and is not supported elsewhere in the corpus. Nurses in this thread directly contradict the overnight-staffing claim for their own hospitals.

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not true. That is against EMTALA

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Yeah, they’re even worse because they are a donated hospital. Let’s just say good Samaritan hospital never has enough people to serve the food that’s in. Suffern New York they do not treat their workers right at all.

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Not true. Some hospitals are non profit

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So most of these threads are full of wild “it’s the law that they can’t do xyz” because Americans forget most of the world can speak English & is online. But this one is hilarious to me as a Canadian, nope not correct, all hospitals are either non-profits or part of the ministry of health depending on province. Must be odd to just say shit as if it applies to everyone in the world 😂

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Not a big secret, but people forget banks and hospitals are FOR PROFIT!

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Almost every town has a local credit union. There are some statewide ones. I would start with just a google search of credit unions near you.

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as someone who worked nights throughout their entire 20's... the most skilled workers work nights. day staff are hospitality and night staff is for the experienced newbies that want to make a difference in the patients life without overhead admin a saying "your coffee isnt supposed to be in your desk"

posted about 53 days after the source

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Not a big secret, but people forget banks and hospitals are FOR PROFIT!♥ 15,118source record 4986
Yep this is why I only have NFCU and Amex.. if I need a loan I take out of my 401k or Ira I’d rather pay my own interest than anything else :)♥ 87source record 4988
Credit unions are not for profit. They don’t charge fees just to have an account. Also, they’re insured differently than regular banks, so your money is safer. You also usually get better interest rates.♥ 20source record 4990
Which credit union should I move to? I have checking and savings with wells Fargo♥ 1source record 4991
Almost every town has a local credit union. There are some statewide ones. I would start with just a google search of credit unions near you.♥ 2source record 4992
Actually not all. I work for a non profit hospital♥ 92source record 4993
No it’s the insurance who profit off the hospital and patients denying claims left and right. I call it their stall tactic. If you don’t know how to fight it you will get stuck with the bill.♥ 27source record 4995
I’ve worked at a nonprofit that doesn’t even treat patients if they didn’t have insurance. Maybe not all, but I have first hand experience with this.♥ 3source record 4997
insurance does not pay close to even. medicare/medicaid even less♥ 4source record 4999
No - non profits don’t make profits. It’s very much regulated - HOWEVER, they do spend a looot of money which I know ppl also don’t love. But a TON of it is going back into the community♥ 0source record 5000
They are within their rights to be paid for medical care provided even if they are nonprofit♥ 0source record 5001
no hospital us non-profit. And then they dont pay property tax which hurts the communities they claim to serve.♥ 0source record 5002
Yeah, they’re even worse because they are a donated hospital. Let’s just say good Samaritan hospital never has enough people to serve the food that’s in. Suffern New York they do not treat their workers right at all.♥ 1source record 5005
How do the top levels live? What are they driving, savings, investments, retirement plans? 😉♥ 0source record 5006
The hospital may be “non-profit” but the executives are making an insane amount of money and earning HUGE bonuses. DOH will have their salary and take home listed. Check it out♥ 2source record 5007
Yep. I worked for BoA as a WFH call center rep and quit after six months because they’re such a greedy, shady company. We were incentivized - the shorter the call, the bigger bonus, escalated calls count against you, and OD fee refunds count against you. I quit after six months. My conscience couldn’t handle it.♥ 11source record 5008
Ill never forget about 20 or so yrs ago, i was charged $10 from my account (saw on the statement) because i called and spoke to a live customer service rep. I closed my account after that and never went back.♥ 3source record 5011
Yet somehow the NFL is still not for profit. America is wild.♥ 5source record 5015
oh yeah I had a bank fuming after I chose not to renew a CD 🙄♥ 1source record 5024
& that’s why after they bill my insurance, I don’t pay anything else. Y’all got your check from Cigna. Leave me out of it. 🤣♥ 1source record 5028
I work for one of the biggest banks in Canada and can confirm 😀♥ 1source record 5031
yea the comments jus reminded me, and why banking with small banks are better🤦🏽‍♀️♥ 1source record 5036
Not all Hospitals are for profit. I used to work at Mayo Clinic one of the top hospitals in the country and it was not for profit.♥ 1source record 5038
Not all but majority of hospitals are profit. If you are ever in a serious medical pinch. GO TO A NONPROFIT HOSPITAL. They actually will use your debt and wipe it off as they donated their resources to save you**** saved me millions♥ 1source record 5040
Mmmm nooo... literally the tagline of my local hospital (the largest in the MI/OH/IN tri-state area) is "not for profit, all for you." Many hospitals are non-profit.♥ 1source record 5041
Yes I work in a hospital and this is sad but true 😩♥ 1source record 5042
Another gag is banks are only in place for wiring purposes♥ 1source record 5044
I work for a non profit hospital in Arkansas and we are rated #1 best hospital here in Arkansas♥ 1source record 5045
Explain? I work for a non profit hospital at that.♥ 1source record 5048
Not all hospitals sis. Many are non-profit and not for profit (yes, that’s 2 different things).♥ 0source record 5051
It's true! I work for a big bank, and I am not a volunteer. 😂😂😂♥ 0source record 5052
yes, especially in the US. in the rest of the world, doctors usually aren't working for profit♥ 0source record 5053
Only a minority of hospitals are actually for profit in the US. About 70% are non-profit♥ 0source record 5056
Same with pharmaceuticals. They want to keep us sick because they can’t stay in business if they keep finding cures and fixes♥ 1source record 5057
Ok well you aren’t that big a market so why are they keeping the entire globe with pharmacare “uncured” my insulin is $30/bottle. Legally only sold at cost so ya… pretty sure the lack of cure isn’t because of some large conspiracy♥ 0source record 5058
Definitely choose a nonprofit hospital for all your care, even your primary doctor. They’re required to offer you a payment plan if you can’t afford the bill♥ 0source record 5060
Go to a “non profit” ER it’s easier to write off/ decrease self pay bills. “For profit” ER is a private owned hospital and it’s harder to get billing to work with you.♥ 0source record 5063
Every business is for profit even the gov. Hell, even donation organizations have upper levels who live in and own multiple mansions, they just appeal to the heart more to make us think otherwise.♥ 0source record 5065
Right? Hence the reason patients fill out surveys when they leave. As an ER nurse, the only survery should be, are you alive? I got written up for not filling out my white board by 10am, meanwhile I had a patient that was coding 😒😵‍💫😫♥ 0source record 5067
it’s about to be a time where yall would not want your money in the bank so better start getting cashhhh. It’ll be only for a season♥ 1source record 5071
So most of these threads are full of wild “it’s the law that they can’t do xyz” because Americans forget most of the world can speak English & is online. But this one is hilarious to me as a Canadian, nope not correct, all hospitals are either non-profits or part of the ministry of health depending on province. Must be odd to just say shit as if it applies to everyone in the world 😂♥ 0source record 5072
Have you never heard of a public hospital. People who don’t know how anything works think everything is a conspiracy♥ 0source record 5073
registered nurse here. the majority of hospitals are ran by 20 something year olds at night and there’s usually only 1, maybe 2, doctors available during nights.♥ 585source record 13861
as someone who worked nights throughout their entire 20's... the most skilled workers work nights. day staff are hospitality and night staff is for the experienced newbies that want to make a difference in the patients life without overhead admin a saying "your coffee isnt supposed to be in your desk"♥ 0source record 13862
I do tech for healthcare facilities and they leave them hanging and fending for themselves at night.♥ 1source record 13864
My mom was a house sup.for years and years and years overnight, she said a lot of them were younger, but still wanted to make a difference in nursing and patient care. But she also worked in a small town hospital, so the mentality is a big different than those in a big city.♥ 0source record 13865
I’ve been nursing for nearly 20 years and I’m all nights in August.♥ 0source record 13866
All 4 of our nurses all have 30+ years experience! Post Cath Lab, EP Lab and IR department.😃♥ 0source record 13867
ain't no telling what the doctors and 20 year old nurses are doing when not busy.♥ 5source record 13868
Facts. And a lot of them are APPs who are unfamiliar with critical care and emergency procedures.♥ 1source record 13871
Hospitals and clinics order extra labs, surgeries, and diagnostic procedures to not only make money for the hospital, but for the doctors. They get kick back.♥ 121source record 14976

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The dentist's chair256 records · 2 sub-topicsTwo reports the thread returns to again and again: the treatment plan that shrinks on a second opinion, and the whitening upsell. 256 records.
Fillings, crowns and root canals: get another opinion111 index entriesDental assistants and hygienists on production goals, and patients comparing two treatment plans for the same mouth.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Fillings, crowns and root canals: get another opinion

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111 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: A dental treatment plan has come back much larger than you expected

How commenters applied it: 111 records. The pattern in this card is arithmetic rather than anecdote: the same mouth valued at eight cavities and then one, thirteen and then two, a $7,900 plan and then $1,500, a root canal that a second dentist treated as a filling. Dental assistants, hygienists and a treatment coordinator explain the mechanism they saw — production goals, replacing sound fillings, and referral bonuses paid to a related practice. The most useful reply is procedural: a dental assistant points out you own your x-rays and can have them emailed on, which removes the cost objection to a second opinion, and several commenters name the cheap consultation route they used. Hygienists in the thread defend the profession and say they report dentists who over-diagnose.

What readers reported: Dental assistant here. When you get the X-Ray taken once you can 100% get them emailed to you to take wherever you please!

Limit: Dentists and hygienists in this thread argue that over-diagnosis is a minority behaviour and that patients cannot read their own radiographs. No named practice here was contacted.

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my dentist didnt even do my tooth properly they made it worse💀

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Yeah my last dentist ruined my perfectly fine teeth cause I didn’t know any better.

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They really be scamming yall at dental offices, half the time yall really don’t need fillings they just be money hungry. You ain’t heard it from me thoe

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I had my longtime dentistry (not the main doctor but another newer employee) tell me I had 5 cavities that needed to be filled. I KNOW when I have a cavity and I never had those symptoms. I asked for a mirror to check and she refused to give me one, and kept saying we should get my mom to sign off on the procedures since it was life threatening or some bs....needlessly to say I try my absolute darndest to take care of all my teeth problems at home. Never underestimate a good herbal mouth wash.

posted about 59 days after the source
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mine would never tbh. he even wrote off my mom's bill. she passed 3 weeks after her cleaning.

posted about 40 days after the source

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They really be scamming yall at dental offices, half the time yall really don’t need fillings they just be money hungry. You ain’t heard it from me thoe♥ 7,218source record 7227
I fully believe this because my teeth were fine before I mentioned I was moving and wouldn’t be visiting them anymore and after they said I had a cavity that needed a filling.♥ 405source record 7228
My son had this happen at a children’s dentist. They even put him under to do work. We moved dental offices and he’s only had to have two fillings in the past five years rather than one or two every 6 months♥ 130source record 7229
Apparently I need about 8 fillings. Bro I get I have bvl!mia but I doubt they would need that many 💔♥ 3source record 7230
Personally I do a 3rd to see which is the common response♥ 59source record 7233
I have to go soon for my third opinion and I’m stressed cause why can’t they just be honest?! 😩 one said root canal/fillings, other just said only fillings 🥺I don’t wanna lose my teeth♥ 32source record 7235
Dental assistant here. When you get the X-Ray taken once you can 100% get them emailed to you to take wherever you please!♥ 99source record 7237
How are you paying for second opinions? Every new patient exam costs like $400 or even $160-200 if you already have the X-rays and most offices won’t see you without a NPX♥ 6source record 7238
I searched for places that only charged me $50-60 for the appointment. I’m in Houston so I feel we have more options than a smaller city♥ 8source record 7239
Damn! So much cheaper than Ontario Canada, we have dental fee guides set out by the Ontario dental association that update yearly♥ 0source record 7240
Now I gotta deep dive that cause what?! Never heard of such a thing 😭. This is truly the one thing nice about Texas. Lots of options regarding care when uninsured or low income.♥ 0source record 7241
It’s so so expensive unless you’re disabled, really low income, etc. most places also don’t accept insurance payments meaning you’re paying full upfront & insurance reimburses you♥ 1source record 7242
that 60 she mentioned is in USD which is 80CAD which is about what a check up wothoutbcleaning would cost you in most Ontario dental offices♥ 0source record 7243
I truly hope things changes. The older I got the more I realized our oral health controls so much and should be free.♥ 1source record 7244
I would go with the filling first then a root canal I’ve been in the dental field since 2008 ❤️♥ 1source record 7246
Some do a no charge consultation if you have your X-rays already. I just called one yesterday that said this♥ 1source record 7248
You’ll have to request that they email them to you, they likely will have you sign a record release form prior, and then you should receive them. You cannot be denied obtaining your own medical record.♥ 1source record 7251
Is it a scam when they tell you need to get your wisdom teeth removed even tho you don’t have any pain?♥ 21source record 7253
I still have mine AND YES MOST DENTISTS ARE A RIP OFF!!! Look what they drive where they live ! I was told I needed 6 cavities filled a tooth pulled etc etc I went had 2 opinions. Didn’t need a thing. Was told when I moved away by a new dentist I needed 10,000 worth of stuff done got second opinion and was told again zero so I now go to this guy ! Still need zero !!!♥ 1source record 7254
depends on how it’s growing. mine was straight so they didnt have to take it out. if it grew sideways they’d have to take it out or else it’s gonna ruin ur teeth’s alignment♥ 6source record 7255
I'm almost 39 and I kept my wisdom teeth and now I'm in excruciating pain because they are deteriorating because they're super hard to clean and not as strong as your regular teeth. wish I would have taken them out earlier. now I have to schedule for an emergency removal♥ 0source record 7256
Yes, especially if they're fully encased in bone. If they're partially erupted or near the nerve, you should definitely get it removed because that's how infections or nerve damage can happen.♥ 0source record 7257
No it’s not a scam. This is to prevent you from having pain In the future . And a lit of times wisdom teeth are not cleaned properly♥ 0source record 7258
if they are under your gums it's hard to see cavities. if wisdom teeth get infected you can have more serious issues. the thing is you won't know until it's too late.♥ 0source record 7259
Figured. I still have mine and they keep telling me to get them removed even tho I have zero issues with them.♥ 5source record 7260
I'm in my 30s and my dentist said for years how nice they were. He retired and the new guy tried to tell me I need them out. Finding an honest dentist is next to impossible.♥ 16source record 7261
Yup, I don’t really trust anyone tbh. With enough research, you can learn just about anything on your own. PT’s, doctors, dentists, etc have all let me down multiple times in the past. Never trusting them again unless I know them personally♥ 1source record 7262
I worked in a dental office and many times the dentist will tell you, you need to replace an old filling when it's still is in good shape. they are trying to meet production goals. 🥺🥺🥺♥ 6source record 7263
I went to two dentist in a row. The first one told me I had eight cavities, I had a weird feeling and didn’t believe them so I went to another dentist who told me I had no cavities.♥ 5source record 7264
Former dental assistant here (but still in dental field) when someone I know presents a $10k+ treatment plan I ALWAYS tell them get a 2nd or even 3rd opinion because yes, these newer dentists are in it for production/profit not health care♥ 5source record 7265
I got a filling like five months ago I think, and my tooth still hurts from it. My tooth didn’t hurt before getting the filling 😭♥ 3source record 7268
Exactly bc everytime I turn around I supposedly have a new cavity and it’s every appointment shit pisses me off fr 😒♥ 3source record 7269
A dentist told me I had EIGHT cavities one time and I left to get a second opinion.. only had ONE 😭♥ 3source record 7270
So sorry X-rays and photos at your appt will show the cavities etc. How do I know took digital radiographs on veterinary patients daily when doing cleanings. You cannot doctor digital x rays. So ask your dentist to show you directly and explain your X-ray results simple♥ 3source record 7271
THISSSSSSSS!!!!!!! Like do some H.W. people ….. dark spots are BAD!!! White spots can be bad or can mean that it was already TAKEN CARE of…Stop getting an attitude cause YOU think you know better♥ 2source record 7272
no fr I went to a dentist and they told me I needed like 5 fillings which is crazy cause I've only ever had one in my life. I was moving though so I thought I'd just go to a new dentist, they told me I had 0 cavities and needed nothing done♥ 2source record 7273
Nah I fully believe this because I went to one dental office they told me I needed a deep clean and a filling. I went to another one and they told me I had the cleanest teeth and gums they’d ever seen and no cavities.♥ 2source record 7274
Yes as to always you should get a 3rd opinion forget the first and second between filling and teeth pulling it’s a money scheme for sure♥ 2source record 7275
this happened to me. they put on crowns I didn't need and purposely made them a diff shape than my og teeth so I'd have to get new retainers from them. I couldn't afford the new retainers so my years of Invisalign were a waste♥ 1source record 7276
Yea. I literally had no issues with my teeth until i went to the dentist. And can you guess which teeth I’m having issues with now … yup the ones that i got fillings in.♥ 1source record 7277
True!!! One time I went to the dentist was told had 6 cavities. 2 weeks later ended up at mother place because it was cheaper and I asked what about cavities I was told I had 6, guy was like you have none! Just need to fix your crown and deep clean…. I was so shocked mind you I have dental phobia 😂♥ 1source record 7278
I’ve always believed dental offices are scams. Charging 200 each for four section for a deep clean is insanity. Plus when u have a infection or auto immune and it effects your teeth, they ignore it or don’t give u any suggestions or recommendations or referrals. They just clean over it♥ 1source record 7279
THIS HAS TO BE TRUE. because every time they say i have cavities they tell me it’s 4-6 of them. the last time i went to the dentist was well over a year ago right around the time i got one of my wisdom tooth’s removed. they said last time i had 8 cavities or something. f i don’t feel the cavities or you can’t show me that it exists, then im not paying you $2.5k to do any procedure on me.♥ 1source record 7280
Wait bc I’ve been dreading seeing a dentist for over 6 years bc I had a few cavities, I just recently went and had my second “filling visit” last week and have a third one coming next week 😭 I really just thought I had a bunch of cavities♥ 1source record 7281
I was told I needed a root canal so I went to a second dentist and he said I just need a filling I’m in sales and Dentist telling me I need a root canal just felt like a sales pitch I was right♥ 1source record 7283
it’s really such a scam i paid i $400 for a tooth removal and it literally took seconds to take out♥ 1source record 7284
this happened to my son. my son supposedly had 9 cavities. I went to another dentist and he actually had 6.♥ 1source record 7285
Yes. Truth. Some will "find" things to be done because they have to pay off all those student loans. 😕♥ 1source record 7286
no bc i literally never had a cavity until i went to some new dental office bc of insurance change and they said i had FOUR cavities and they ‘filled them’ and the ppl supposedly working on my teeth literally leaned on my legs and complain that my lips were dry 😭 went back to my usual dentist and they said there’s literally no sign of filled cavities man♥ 1source record 7288
If your teeth don’t hurt don’t get nothing done most of the time they over diagnose to charge insurance more .♥ 1source record 7289
dentist told my son he needed to have his whole mouth redone because he had cavities on each tooth...went to another dentist and they said his teeth were fine.♥ 1source record 7290
This happened to me 💀 my x-Ray didn’t show any signs of me having cavities and you couldn’t see anything(because there was no cavity). The dentist lady told me that the cavity was “just forming” and she drilled four of my teeth out and didnt fill them properly. Now my teeth are decaying from the inside of the filling because it cracked like a month or so later 😭😭😭♥ 1source record 7291
I had a dentist tell me I had a cavity, switched dentists ..they told me I had no cavities, after Covid they told me I had 3 cavities, switched dentists again and they told me I had no cavities… 🤔 the math isn’t mathing♥ 1source record 7292
I always had cavities that needed fillings. then I moved to the UK and started using the dental school because it was free. their comments? "wtf did they do to your teeth..."♥ 1source record 7293
Makes me appreciate my dentist. I’ve went my whole life and he rarely pushes fillings. He always “watches” spots and only has filled ones that were truly bothering me when I said something.♥ 1source record 7294
Worked in dental for 5 years, ortho for 5 years before I started in general dentistry. Most people think dental is a scam because they have no knowledge of dentistry. Some dentist are more proactive and others tell you you don’t need a filling because they want to wait until you need a crown. More money for them.♥ 1source record 7296
And if you have medical conditions where that kind of work is actually causing more damage than it’s helping, they’re real quick to remind you they’re not real doctors AND IT WASN’T THEIR FAULT. 💯♥ 1source record 7298
I already knew that. I was like 14 and never had cavities I took VERY good care of my teeth and the dentist told me I had two cavities I knew she was fking lying and let her do it cause my mother was paying and I couldn’t prove that the dentist was lying.♥ 1source record 7299
I had my longtime dentistry (not the main doctor but another newer employee) tell me I had 5 cavities that needed to be filled. I KNOW when I have a cavity and I never had those symptoms. I asked for a mirror to check and she refused to give me one, and kept saying we should get my mom to sign off on the procedures since it was life threatening or some bs....needlessly to say I try my absolute darndest to take care of all my teeth problems at home. Never underestimate a good herbal mouth wash.♥ 0source record 7300
I worked in a dental office too and I agree 💯♥ 0source record 7302
I worked in the dental industry and I can confirm this♥ 0source record 7303
This is especially true for those with state Medicaid bc they know the parent or patient won’t look much into it since the patient won’t need to pay. My daughters went to one dentist and they told me one of them had 6 cavities that needed to be filled. We didn’t get them filled yet but had changed to a different dentist closer, when that dentist did the X-ray, she only needed 2 cavities filled. 😑♥ 0source record 7306
I've never had a cavity and I've never had a dentist tell me I had a cavity and I've been to probably 20 dentists in my life♥ 0source record 7307
yesss found thod out by taking my teen to two different dentist ls. Second one was honest and said there was no reason to touch several of his teeth the other dentist recommended♥ 0source record 7308
THIS‼️‼️Doctor told me I had 3 cavities. I never went back. 10 years later, I'm fine. it's bone loss. Glad I followed my first mind.♥ 0source record 7309
Dude I fully believe this too because every time I went to the dentist they wanted to do a filling and I had no pain, nothing and it was every time I went in for cleaning it turned into something else. When I was a kid the same office didn’t do that to me though and I’m usually pretty good with my dental hygiene 🪥♥ 0source record 7318
100%. I had a great dentist and then she went back to school and the replacement was a shit dentist, he scanned me for invisiline with the 3D thing and was so disappointed that my TEETH WERE SO STRAIGHT IT DIDNT DO ANYTHING TO THEM. Then he started telling me what HE would have changed about my smile. and then he told me I had like 5 between the teeth cavities. I said well I’ll come back. I went to a good hygienist at my school (years later)…. Weird how those cavities are … gone ? Where did they go?♥ 0source record 7319
my mom's fiancé almost had to get open heart surgery because he got a infection in his tooth that spread to his blood♥ 0source record 7320
real bcz I had a badly decayed tooth that cracked in the middle creating a hole. the first dentist I went to told us a whole story book and filled in my tooth and cleaned my gums (didn't request for) and we paid so much money just for it to chip and Crack even more as days passed. I just need it to be removed that's it, which was wayy cheaper than the 1st guys.♥ 0source record 7321
can confirm. past dental employee...and insurance fraud is insane♥ 0source record 7322
Western dental wanted to extract and wanted me to get a veneer. I got my tooth filled at an actual regular office♥ 0source record 7323
This is complete bullshit. Maybe you’ll aren’t taking care of your oral hygiene, so you need the work done.♥ 0source record 7324
Dental hygienist here- SOME really do but most of the dentists I’ve worked for, the work needs to be done. Ask your hygienist if you really need it when the dentist isn’t there- it truly depends! A lot of us will question or report dentists if they are doing this! Don’t go to places like Aspen Dental. Yes. They will take your money.♥ 0source record 7325
where i worked we show patients video,pictures and xray of where the cavity is. I've never understood how dental places get away with it. we have proof of why patients need treatment.♥ 0source record 7327
Especially with AHCCCS patients they will tell you your kid has 8 cavities when they have 0 just to take that money from the ins.♥ 0source record 7328
OMG yes!!! I went to the dentist after my second child, was told I had SIX cavities after never having ANY my whole life - went after my third kid three years later - new dentist said no cavities, clean my teeth and sent me on my way - I was floored!!!!!♥ 0source record 7329
Omg thats so true because when I used to have health insurance my teeth were fine but now that it’s gone my teeth suddenly need fillings isn’t that something you could’ve seen coming?♥ 0source record 7331
Interesting . I was told dental nurses who many years ago out in fillings , called us back took them out out new ones in without injections and slow drills were jUST practicing ! I figured it out when my own kids never had those fillings♥ 0source record 7332
So true! My best friends mum was going to a dentist for years and they all of sudden said she needed over 10 fillings and whatever else, she went to a different dentist and they said uhhh no you’re fine♥ 0source record 7333
I went in, they didn't even numb me. I was there for 2 minutes (not even exaggerating) and they were done. Like you can't convince me this was a money grab.♥ 0source record 7334
truly believe this, happened to my mom. they even half filled her tooth, so she'd come back later with another complaint. she caught on and changed dentists♥ 0source record 7336
so much to kids on public assistance. we'd hardly ever had candy as kids and I remember going to a new dentist and then telling me I needed like six fillings. when I grew up my dentist told me they were completely unnecessary♥ 0source record 7337
this is why I still have my wisdom teeth even thought "they must be removed asap" why? they ain't bugging me♥ 0source record 7338
So this why the dentist at my kids school told my son his teeth looked great but then his private dentist found two cavities within the same week🙄😭♥ 0source record 7339
Yup this is 100% truth. Don’t go to the big box dentists go to the small mom & pop local biz.♥ 0source record 7340
100% agree. anytime I am told I need two or three fillings, I'll get a second opinion and surprise! they won't find anything or just one.♥ 0source record 7341
They tried to scam me twice with money but I keep track of what my insurance covers and what I pay out of pocket.♥ 0source record 7343
I worked in dentistry over 14 years. This is the truth♥ 0source record 7344
Taking my kids soon good to know I’ll tell them what u said♥ 0source record 7345
I feel like this one dentist in Alabama created his own filling in my mouth because prior to that I was told by another dentist I had no fillings♥ 0source record 7346
True I had a filling done months ago they randomly said needed and I feel like it’s worse so I can go back to get it re done♥ 0source record 7347
If you are told you have cavities,get some Act Fluoride Rinse and use it..It works...I was told I had 8 cavities and I got some Act Fluoride Rinse and used it and my next dental appointment I only had 3 cavities♥ 0source record 7348
I went to a chain place that starts with "Dentists of..(insert city youre in)" and they tried to tell me I need work throughout my entire mouth that would have cost THOUSANDS. my other dentist said all I needed was 2 fillings, and he was right after looking at the xrays. I left that dentist bad reviews on every dentist website they were on.♥ 0source record 7349
I figured that out when I was a child. I was crazy about brushing and kept getting told that I had cavities. Finally my dad believed me and took me to another dentist and they told me I didn't have any, the last place told me I had like five lol. We got scammed so many times.♥ 0source record 7350
I used to work at a dental practice. It’s so sad to hear this still happens, and this is the reason the public hates going to the dentist. Makes me sick.♥ 0source record 7351
Always get a second opinion for dental work. These dentist are scamning you!♥ 388source record 13572
I worked for 50+ dentists. I can confirm this. Only one dentist out of 50 was good♥ 21source record 13573
Go to someone that’s older and only works 3 days a week 9-3. Chances are he still works because he loves his job♥ 33source record 13574
my dentist is old as hell and i love him. been going there all my life. I already said this in the comments but the entire office is the sweetest and they wrote my mom's bill. she passed 3 weeks after her cleaning and they didn't want me to have to pay for unnecessary crap when i was going thru enough♥ 0source record 13576
I went to a dentist for a quote of work to be done. They said it would be $7900 w/ insurance for non-cosmetic procedures. I went to another one down the road and they said $1500 at the highest 😭♥ 7source record 13577
Holy 💩! Is that how much dentists are in the US? In the UK you’re like £40 for a filling, £60 for extraction and £90 for root canal♥ 1source record 13578
root canal is at least $1,000 in the US ☠️♥ 3source record 13579
A crown and build-up at my old office was $1500+ 3 years ago, so I’m sure it’s more now.♥ 0source record 13580
Yup! Go to an older dentist always is what I recommend. The one where they only work a couple days a week. Those are the people that you can trust because they aren’t burnt out from the job. Always get a second opinion!♥ 6source record 13581
i have a lady dentist now and shes far better at her job. she is a perfectionist compared to my previous male dentist he was laid back and didnt seem to care enough♥ 1source record 13582
Avoid corporate offices.♥ 2source record 13584
México. You go to a medical tourism town like Los algodones where dental work is 1/6th the price♥ 1source record 13585
Girllllllll Aspen dental told me I have periodontal disease. Spoiler alert: I dont.♥ 0source record 13586
mine would never tbh. he even wrote off my mom's bill. she passed 3 weeks after her cleaning.♥ 0source record 13587
I had a dentist tell me that I had to be under anesthesia to have my bottom wisdom teeth pulled which skyrocket the cost. I asked other people about it and they said they weren't under anesthesia when they got theirs pulled, just a numbing injection.♥ 0source record 13588
This! I went to a community health center bc I wasn’t working at the time and had Medicaid, horrible dentists! Not to mention when I called to make my appts I was not told that I would be seeing the only 2 dentist that did not accept my insurance 🙄 they tried to bill me and one told me I had two cavities which I’ve never ever had before. The second dentist I saw the following time, seemed to have a hard time finding them but eventually agreed. Fast forward I find an older local dentist once my insurance changed and lo and behold let me know I had good teeth and no cavities. (I hadn’t disclosed what I was told) I said are u sure? He says “why would I lie to you about no cavities?”😅♥ 0source record 13590

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In-office whitening versus what you can buy yourself145 index entriesDentists and hygienists naming the active ingredient and the products, including the ones who say the cheaper route is worse for your enamel.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: In-office whitening versus what you can buy yourself

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Use when: You are being offered whitening at a dental practice and want to know what you are paying for

How commenters applied it: 145 records. A dental-school commenter and a second commenter recommending a specific tray system make the same argument: the active ingredient is peroxide, and the in-office premium buys speed rather than a different chemistry. Practising dentists and hygienists in the replies largely agree and several say they tell their own patients to buy strips — one dentist adds that the light used in-chair does nothing and that a sales representative described it as a placebo. The counter-argument is also professional: hygienists warn that strips cause more sensitivity than a supervised treatment, recommend cutting them to keep them off the gums, and point out that in-office concentrations are controlled and can include fluoride. A third report adds that whitening toothpaste without peroxide does nothing.

What readers reported: Im a dentist - not to break your heart but the light doesn’t do anything. My sales rep told me patients get a placebo affect from the light 🫠

Limit: This is a cosmetic procedure and the thread contains multiple accounts of severe sensitivity from both routes. One commenter in this card is repeatedly accused by others of promoting a product, and links posted in the thread are not endorsed here.

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Not to mention the dam Zing’s… the zing’s/ PAIN by themselves are not worth it and you are absolutely right!

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Mines still, I had it done when I had my braces removed and there was no difference in the shade of my teeth $750. Down the drain! My teeth was already beautiful from from using an electric toothbrush tho, I just thought I would need it after having my braces removed!🤦🏽‍♀️

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That’s sooo not true I’ve worked in dental for years and used that whitening and it’s amazing. Best deal for the price. They sell them at the dentist office also but for more than Amazon.

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You guys should work on not making your ads for shit that doesn't work, so obvious.

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i just buy their whitening gel and use my own trays I made with cheap mouth guards, I learned that their mouth trays are just floppy rubber crap and the "professional" whitening treatment i did was ass. they didn't cover my gums all the way and the burning is something i would never want to experience again. and all that for over $200? hell nah never again.

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You guys should work on not making your ads for shit that doesn't work, so obvious.

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Get them from a store with an easy return policy like WM and try it. You can always take them back and just say they didn’t work as advertised, but if you cut them and don’t let them touch your gums, you shouldn’t have any pain.

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I learned in dental school that the expensive teeth whitening we do in office is a scam and you should honestly just get crest whitening strips for a fraction of the price.

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stop using whitening hacks & products just use peroxide

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Just buy reg tooth paste w flouride is the main ingredient anything else added to it is all a bunch of baloney your welcome been in the dental field 11 yrs plus 👍 just extra chemicals in your moth that really don’t do anything …

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I learned in dental school that the expensive teeth whitening we do in office is a scam and you should honestly just get crest whitening strips for a fraction of the price.♥ 90,526source record 10072
I work in a related field and knew that and when I was going to a brand new dentist I mentioned teeth whitening to her on my first first visit and she told me his exact thing and told me not to waste my money. been going to her for 5 years now will never leave♥ 3,016source record 10073
Mine just asked if I wanted to whiten and now she feels like a red flag. I hate going to the dentist and it took forever to find a practice I liked and now he’s sold to his sister😭♥ 692source record 10077
I wouldn't necessarily deem it a red flag, I've still done professional writening services because if I have an event or something and I don't want to do like a month of strips prior to, it's much easier to get a quick result. And some dentists offer really great like one time whitening deals and stuff♥ 37source record 10081
If you want to find a good dentist call an oral surgeon in your area, they will know who the best and worst dentist are. Since they get the screw ups and have to fix dentist mistakes.♥ 53source record 10082
Genius. Mine issues are more about how they make me feel lol I’m already insecure. I don’t need them judging me and making me feel worse than I already do ya know?♥ 6source record 10083
That’s very understandable, lost of the patients I saw had similar anxieties. Hell I do sometimes and I’ve worked at a dental office. But knowing I had a great dentist definitely helps, I hope you can find a great dentist that you can build up trust with. Also don’t be afraid to ask for meds to help relax you before appointments. A lot of offices offer that.♥ 2source record 10084
Not to mention the dam Zing’s… the zing’s/ PAIN by themselves are not worth it and you are absolutely right!♥ 98source record 10087
I only got thru 18 mins & had to take a pain killer when I got home! My teeth were sensitive for months afterwards!♥ 60source record 10089
rubbing sensodyne toothpaste on your teeth ajd leave it on there. it filles it up so it will kill the pain.♥ 4source record 10090
Mines still, I had it done when I had my braces removed and there was no difference in the shade of my teeth $750. Down the drain! My teeth was already beautiful from from using an electric toothbrush tho, I just thought I would need it after having my braces removed!🤦🏽‍♀️♥ 19source record 10091
The whitening gel you get with a mouthpiece that plugs Into your phone and lights up is the best I’ve used. I’ve tried a lot and it made my teeth so white.♥ 44source record 10092
Im a dentist - not to break your heart but the light doesn’t do anything. My sales rep told me patients get a placebo affect from the light 🫠♥ 40source record 10093
What are alternatives to actually achieve whiter teeth💖♥ 1source record 10097
Lol okay girlie. Want to see my dental degree from Tufts Dental School? I’m glad to post it for you babes 😘♥ 2source record 10099
I have pictures of the difference it’s not just the light it has a paste that you put on your teeth. I took pics of when I started then a week later and a month later it’s a big difference.♥ 0source record 10100
My SIL is a dental hygienist she tells everyone not use the Crest Strips for this reason because they're too strong and cause many ppl pain♥ 7source record 10103
Try the Lumineux! They work and do not cause sensitivity (dental hygienist)♥ 7source record 10104
Cut them lengthwise in half so they don’t touch your gums.♥ 9source record 10105
My dentist is a former cosmetic dentist who is now just a regular dentist and actually advises whitening kits from Amazon. They offer to make custom trays if you don't like the fit of the standard ones. He is also against veneers for anyone who doesn't absolutely need them and not disturbing old style fillings as long as they aren't leaking.♥ 9source record 10107
I 100% agree with that! I get sad when people ruin their perfectly healthy teeth to get unnecessary veneers 😭 it’s like throwing away a blessing.♥ 5source record 10108
You can try sensodyne toothpaste to help with sensitivity♥ 9source record 10109
As a hygienist, I second this lol♥ 3source record 10111
Get them from a store with an easy return policy like WM and try it. You can always take them back and just say they didn’t work as advertised, but if you cut them and don’t let them touch your gums, you shouldn’t have any pain.♥ 2source record 10112
Tbh though the gel and custom trays I got from my dentist worked way better than crest strips♥ 2source record 10114
why you think i did that but then gave me sensitive teeth in the back and had to stop 😭now i use gurunanda it however you spell it♥ 1source record 10116
not when u have cavities yes it’s cheap but also that’s how ur teeth are gunna become more sensitive then what they are soon or later♥ 1source record 10118
I done root canal and my tooth still hurts and told them doctor and he recommended root canal again 👎🏼 it's just a waste of money and painful process 😭 how can I stop the pain 😭yes I do have cavity🥹♥ 1source record 10123
If they did the root canal properly it shouldn’t be bothering you.♥ 1source record 10124
My dentist said no one should ever pay over $100 for a toothbrush.♥ 1source record 10125
Do you wear them longer than the recommended time? A lot of whitening strips may only be 15-20 min and patients wear them longer thinking it will help. Pay close attention to how long you have them on - might just be wearing them too long♥ 1source record 10126
A tooth that has had a root canal will not hurt. It has no nerve. Hygienist of 28 years.♥ 1source record 10128
my dentist told me I should get crest white rather than wasting money on teeth whitening 😭 he was a real one for not taking my money & putting me on♥ 1source record 10133
Yes it’s not ideal for teeth but people still do it so this comment is for them. I’m not promoting getting your teeth whitened.♥ 0source record 10137
I did this they wanted to charge me 800 per quadrant I was like fy I ordered a whitening kit from Amazon best purchase ever 40 bucks or on offer up some ppl come to ur house and do it for 80-100 bucks♥ 0source record 10138
i get so many compliments of how white my teeth are and if ive done teeth whitening when all it just takes is consistency from the whitening strips😭 id just put them on while i showered♥ 0source record 10141
First of all, thank you! Second of all, I’ve been wondering this for quite some time lol! I appreciate this comment more than you know. I was about to embark on the $700 journey. You saved me!♥ 0source record 10143
Oooooo wow . Mine were wayyyy whiter tho … I want to do it again but it’s expensive♥ 0source record 10145
This. The dentist I work for always suggests over the counter whitening strips first. The icon whitening treatment that is $175.00 per tooth isn't guaranteed to work.♥ 0source record 10148
The dentists I worked with when I was in dental school 🙂♥ 0source record 10150
Im in dental school, and I have never heard this. but I have heard that strips are especially bad for your teeth and cause sensitivity way more often and universally.♥ 0source record 10151
That can be said for any whitening treatment. You realize it’s not a necessary procedure, it’s completely optional and only done for cosmetic purposes.♥ 0source record 10152
It can, however, in office whitening can be controlled, have fluoride and tailored to your oral health.♥ 0source record 10153
lol I never said they didn’t work or how fast each work. It’s not worth the price imo. Calm down.♥ 0source record 10154
My dentist has always been so honest and has always said use crest white stripes♥ 0source record 10156
True! I was going to do the teeth whitening at my dentist which was 200+ and the receptionist told me to get the crest whitening strips instead 😂🤫♥ 0source record 10162
Crest is actually the worst product to use on your teeth♥ 0source record 10174
my ortho made me soft trays with my invisilign molds and told me to buy the bleach on Amazon.♥ 0source record 10175
I can testify this to be 100% correct♥ 0source record 10176
I try but they don’t stick well on my bottom teeth because the saliva starts to build fast 🧐suggestions top teeth or whiter then bottom teeth♥ 0source record 10183
The results will not be the same. If you haven’t graduated from dental school yet you should probably do some research before you tell that to patients.♥ 0source record 10185
I have personally done both and my results were the same. As you can read in the comments there are many other dentists that say the same. Guess it depends on who teaches you.♥ 0source record 10186
It also depends on the product you use and what you are trying to achieve but your generalized statement of saying “it’s a scam dentists use and all products are the same” shows a lack of experience. Are you an actual licensed dentist?♥ 0source record 10187
No, crest white strips work but no where near the same results or method. Research what whitening actually does, you can’t get the same results without a custom whitening tray and the right concentration of peroxide.♥ 0source record 10191
The cheap 5 dollars works just as well.♥ 0source record 10194
my dentist told me that too hahaha he will not even talk to me about teeth whitening every time i ask!!! he just tells me crest whitening will do the job at a much lesser price.♥ 0source record 10196
I don't think Olive Garden is worth the price, doesn't make it a scam? That's a personal opinion. Most of my patients love the jump they get in shades after in-office whitening. 🤨♥ 0source record 10197
I worked in a dental office and did teeth whitening. I don’t think it’s a scam. It works. If you have an event come up and need your teeth whitened sooner, I think it’s ok to do if you’re willing to pay for it. If you have time well before, then yeah sure go for the strips. But those you gotta be consistent. The BEST way that I recommend is getting your own tray and just buy the Opalescence tubes at the dentist/ortho and do that at home. That is what actually works.♥ 0source record 10198
Yes and no. In office is great if you can afford to pay for very fast results, my favorite is the zoom teeth whitening system plus you get custom bleach trays with a take home tube and can order the bleaching tubes off Amazon from the og vendor. Crest if you don’t mind playing the long waiting game.♥ 0source record 10200
They make a sensitive version but in all honesty I haven’t tried that one♥ 0source record 10202
But why doesnt it work as good when I go to the dentist though♥ 0source record 10205
Came here to say this!!!! The product is the exact same formula as crest and the light is owned by phillips and can buy the same at the store♥ 0source record 10206
This! My dentist said the same thing and just sells the “professional” crest strips for the same price as in Walmart♥ 0source record 10208
Coming from a family of dentists. This is so true and I in fact use the crest whitening strips 🤭♥ 0source record 10212
Ok this is so crazy but true lol I’ve done both and actually the crest strips work better lol♥ 0source record 10213
What happens to a crown when you whiten your teeth? Does it stay the same color? My front tooth is fake 😭😭😭😭😭♥ 0source record 10214
Or you can do hydrogen peroxide, baking soda, salt, and lime after you brush and floss your teeth. Do this at your own risk♥ 0source record 10220
Queen ❤️what can you do if you have bonding veneers (not porcelain) I can already see the bottom half going a little translucent, showing my original bb teeth. Crest is a no go for yellowing with those right?♥ 0source record 10221
My mom has always told me this, shes been in the dental field for 20+ years♥ 0source record 10222
I manage a dental practice and that’s what we tell our patients. In fact, all we sell in our practice are the professional whitening strips. We don’t mess with the trays or the zoom.♥ 0source record 10226
There’s a lot of natural ways to “whiten” teeth which I personally prefer myself. It’s just helping remove stains to look whiter. But again that’s not the point of this post.♥ 0source record 10228
This is only for people who were going to whiten their teeth professionally ANYWAY. Teeth whitening is not a necessary procedure and it’s your choice to do it or not. There’s nothing natural about having sparkly white teeth. This post is just for saving people money. I’m not pushing anyone to do it.♥ 0source record 10229
What about for sensitive teeth, what do you recommend? I did the whole expensive a$$ teeth whitening in the dental office and those “zingers” you get after, were the absolute worse!♥ 0source record 10230
Crest white strips work BUT cause major sensitivity. Opal Go Trays are way better.♥ 0source record 10231
Yep! I use crest strips & always get compliments that my teeth are white. 😁 I get the Crest Professional effect!♥ 0source record 10232
The dental field is so scary. I worked in it for 5 years as a treatment coordinator and receptionist and we would get bonuses on how many patients we referred to the orthodontist.. not just any ortho.. our owners husband. 🙄♥ 0source record 10238
Yea but, crest 3D strips don’t work for me, they fall off bc I have crooked teeth, so I think maybe dental whitening is the only I can do♥ 0source record 10239
I threatened to sue my dentist because I signed up to get teeth whitening when I had no real idea what it was bc the lady who pitched it to me didn’t tell me much of anything. I wasn’t even a candidate for it because I have early signs of periodontal disease. The lady who signed me up never told me ANYTHING. She just wanted a sale. I also stopped my session impar immediately because it was so unbelievably painful. Again, I was never ever told this. Once I threatened to sue, they gave me a refund and blocked me from ever doing business with them again.♥ 0source record 10241
My dentist told me to just go get teeth whitening stuff at the drug store because his is overpriced and not better.♥ 0source record 10242
my dentist actually told me to do this 😂 I use gum detoxifying and whitening toothpaste, and the crest 3d mouthwash. I haven't used strips yet though♥ 0source record 10243
Really? Hmmm. I never had that issue. It only hurts me when it touches my gums. I didn’t think nerves were exposed since the nerves in the tooth are in the inner most layer called the pulp, which isn’t exposed to the outside. 🤷‍♀️♥ 0source record 10247
Dentist here with 23 years experience. So totally NOT TRUE!♥ 0source record 10252
If you grind at night you only need the mouth guard when you sleep. During the day you can control the grinding.♥ 0source record 10253
I would get that treated first before doing anything else to my teeth♥ 0source record 10254
Better yet the opalescence teeth whitening. They sell in dentist office but you can buy on amazon for cheaper and it works amazing♥ 0source record 10255
Im sorry but this is just not true . Im an identical twin on year 8 of using crest yt strips and my teeth are ‘ok white’ but not the white that crest white strips promotes on their photos. My twin paid for the expensive teeth whitening and 8 years later her teeth still blind people in a good way (we both drink coffee amd do not smoke)♥ 0source record 10256
And you can also use baking soda and peroxide to whiten.♥ 0source record 10258
i just buy their whitening gel and use my own trays I made with cheap mouth guards, I learned that their mouth trays are just floppy rubber crap and the "professional" whitening treatment i did was ass. they didn't cover my gums all the way and the burning is something i would never want to experience again. and all that for over $200? hell nah never again.♥ 0source record 10260
So you learned nothing because strips are proven not to work.♥ 0source record 10261
Omg when I was getting braces I went through the local university and she told me the same thing. And if u have tiny marks stained to ur teeth from ur brackets. White strips saved me 😂♥ 0source record 10263
N u paid $499 waste♥ 0source record 10264
If you want whiter teeth buy Opalescence whitening trays off Amazon & the toothpaste.. in office whitening is a scam♥ 11,133source record 12220
omg I think you were sent from heaven! I've been shopping around, at offices, for teeth whitening but they all want to up sell. I'm going on Amazon and buying these RIGHT NOW 🤩♥ 121source record 12221
I agree with this they are great 👍 I used to work at dentist office for like 10 years and they are the best♥ 3source record 12222
I haven't used them all yet, I do it every other day, but don't worry - I'm keeping tabs!♥ 1source record 12225
okay, I have two left, but as of last night I am DEFINITELY noticing a difference. it's really balancing out the color, which means it's getting to the base and I'm thrilled! I still have the toothpaste as well 🥰♥ 6source record 12226
I worked in dental, we used that stuff and I’ve used it for years. Can confirm, it’s good 🤷🏻‍♀️♥ 0source record 12233
That’s sooo not true I’ve worked in dental for years and used that whitening and it’s amazing. Best deal for the price. They sell them at the dentist office also but for more than Amazon.♥ 8source record 12235
okay, I have two left, but as of last night I am DEFINITELY noticing a difference. it's really balancing out the color, which means it's getting to the base and I'm thrilled! I still have the toothpaste as well 🥰♥ 0source record 12237
I just went to my dentist the other day the girls in the office and my dentist just couldn’t believe that I used crest white strips. They were saying that my teeth looked so good♥ 15source record 12241
I’m a dental hygienist and anytime patients come into the office with really white teeth I ask what they use. 9 times out of 10 it’s crest white strips♥ 46source record 12242
I did crest whitening 1 hr express daily for about 1 month and started noticing compliments on my teeth. About 2 months since the strips i used a Groupon to get them professionally whitened and when I tell you I couldn’t tell the difference before and after♥ 12source record 12243
bestie is a hygienist, those are actually so so bad for you! if you ain’t gonna do the in house treatment (the all day one is the only non scam one) you might as well buy the crest 3d strips. They’re the safest enamel wise.♥ 6source record 12244
I’m a hygienist as well. The ingredients are very similar, hydrogen peroxide is the main ingredient used in BOTH. Opalescence also has potassium nitrate which helps with sensitivity & prevent cavities & Crest does not have that.♥ 14source record 12245
Oooooh word! I’ve never heard of opalescence & neither has she so I’m wondering if it’s not offered in Canada. but also the issue with the at home stuff, you can only get it so strong, before it’s no longer safe for OTC♥ 0source record 12246
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They say they’re filled w hydrogen peroxide? For $80? Did I find the wrong ones? The trays are green♥ 8source record 12248
Not you giving my gatekept secret away 🤭 a dentist recommended this to me and my teeth have been white ever since.♥ 3source record 12250
Opalescence is a brand that is only supposed to be in dental offices. But you can buy absolutely everything you need to do dentistry on Amazon and stock your own office.♥ 2source record 12253
I work for an orthodontist and we recc these to everyone!! even give syringes post treatment as a gift!♥ 2source record 12254
Dental assistant here, the active agent in most whitening treatments is the peroxide so if y’all wanna save MORE money, just mix a tsp of peroxide with like a tbsp of baking soda and your toothpaste. Also if you use whitening tooth paste, don’t rinse after brushing, you’re removing the whitening agent 💞♥ 1source record 12259
I use this and the #1 ? I get is what do I use to whiten my teeth.♥ 1source record 12260
this is 1000% accurate♥ 1source record 12261
My ortho told me this as well.. so been buying these trays … worth the $70 compared to the pricey dentist cost♥ 1source record 12263
Opalescense costs around $70+, so my ortho told me to be buying them rather than asking the dentist to whiten my teeth! This is what my post is talking about.. not sure what you are asking♥ 1source record 12265
that's what my dentist told me to use, I 100% trust her. She seems like she makes bank being honest.♥ 1source record 12266
I work in dental and we sold that brand in office. I LOVE the toothpaste. only thing ill ever use♥ 1source record 12267
I attended a conference (CDA) where the og owner of Zoom said the light was for nothing other than he thought it made the process look more futuristic especially while he was apart of the show Ugly Duckling ...which being apart of that show really says alot about your morals 😞 Opalescence is amazing.♥ 2source record 12269
Yess I get these at my dentist they’re great. But the professional dentist whitening I’ve done before and it does brighten more.♥ 0source record 12272
Is there anywhere else we can get it from instead of Amazon? Jeff Bezos is greedy af and not worth supporting himself….♥ 0source record 12273
but sometimes amazon has fake products. I know bc certain things purchased were def not real product. never got the whitening from amazon though.♥ 0source record 12274
I SWEAR by these, I have been compliments for years about my white teeth♥ 0source record 12275
In office hurt my teeth so bad!! I was supposed to do 3 passes of the hydrogen peroxide formula but could barely get through the second one. had no idea how drying it is♥ 0source record 12278
FACTS. Those are the trays I use. And my dentist even sells them, but I got them cheaper on Amazon♥ 0source record 12282
I worked for the company that produces them I’m actually in the YouTube tutorial on how to use the go trays but I agree best product♥ 0source record 12287
Yes I worked for the company that makes it for 6 years best toothpaste and whitening comes from them♥ 0source record 12288
My mouth feels so claustrophobic with that clamp in my mouth 😔so thanks for this!♥ 0source record 12294
I’ve used crest whitening strips, in the past and everyone at work complemented my teeth. They couldn’t believe how white they were . They do work♥ 0source record 12296
I’ve been using Opalescence for months and there’s been no change. I don’t drink coffee, cola or smoke 😭♥ 0source record 12300
It’s best to get them from a dentist since it won’t be tampered with! Their website can pull up a map of dentists around you and which products they carry! 🫶♥ 0source record 12301
What’s terrible about it? & yes they sell it but overcharge for it from what I’ve seen .♥ 0source record 12305
You guys should work on not making your ads for shit that doesn't work, so obvious.♥ 3source record 12307
For anyone interested in buying the opalescence products I have them linked [link removed]♥ 1source record 12308
I use these & can confirm they work!♥ 1source record 12309
I just swish with peroxide twice a week. Super white teeth. Never caused issues with my gums or enamel in the 25 years Ive done it.♥ 1source record 12311
This works too! Just be mindful too much peroxide can cause a condition called black hairy tongue♥ 0source record 12312
Or rinse daily with hydrogen peroxide. Very cheap and it whitens over time♥ 0source record 12314
Amazon link for anyone looking for Opalescence! 🔗: [link removed]♥ 0source record 12315
Baking soda and food grade peroxide, make a paste and brush no more than once a week. Make sure it doesn’t do down your drain either!♥ 0source record 12316
OMG I knew it!!! Also they are in sale for Prime Day right now for less than $40 [link removed]♥ 0source record 12319
scam but works faster, whitening in a couple of hours versus weeks of waiting. I'd say go to the cosmetic dentist office if you can afford it even if it is a "scam"♥ 0source record 12321
stop using whitening hacks & products just use peroxide♥ 0source record 14234
Not a company secret but more an industry lie - whitening toothpaste is no different from regular toothpaste. Unless it says hydrogen peroxide in the ingredients, it’s the same. Which none usually have hydrogen peroxide in them. I’m a dental hygienist.♥ 155source record 14819
Just buy reg tooth paste w flouride is the main ingredient anything else added to it is all a bunch of baloney your welcome been in the dental field 11 yrs plus 👍 just extra chemicals in your moth that really don’t do anything …♥ 0source record 14820
It's the illegal under "False Advertising"? 🤷🏻‍♀️♥ 3source record 14822

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Insurance, and the departments built to say no212 records · 3 sub-topicsClaims staff, agents and brokers describing the machinery on the other side of a denial — and the review you have to ask for by name. 212 records.
Health cover: denials, misquotes and the review you have to name70 index entriesClaims and appeals staff describing automated denial, and the exact review a former insurer employee says you must request yourself.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Health cover: denials, misquotes and the review you have to name

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Health cover: denials, misquotes and the review you have to name

70 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You were told a treatment was covered, and then billed for it

How commenters applied it: 70 records. A former Blue Cross Blue Shield employee gives the specific remedy: if the benefits you were quoted on a recorded call were wrong, the insurer has to pay the claim on the benefits it quoted — but you have to ask for a misquote review by name, and staff say they are not permitted to offer it. The replies build out the evidence you need: the date, the time, the representative's name and a reference number, matched against the explanation of benefits. Other insurance workers confirm every call is recorded, and one describes a $24,000 procedure paid on a misquote. Alongside it sit two blunter reports — that insurers run whole departments for denial, and that some dental cover is administered by a third party trained not to volunteer parts of the policy.

What readers reported: You have to specifically ask for a misquote review! They tell us we cannot tell you guys about it nor can we start one unless y’all directly ask! If you do not say misquote review they will play in your face

Limit: One insurance worker in this thread says their own employer issues an apology letter and pays nothing, so the remedy is not universal. Everything here is US-specific and none of it was checked with any named insurer.

What the replies added1

Does this work for providers or just consumers? So many times I’ve been given incorrect info as a provider and insurance denied payment. I think Aetna is the worst.

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It happens a lot, normally due to them auditing year round. Or sometimes the provider sends a revised claim. Unfortunately this is legal.

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they told me I had to use wegovy first. If it didn’t work then they would approve zepbound. But wegovy only goes up to 2.5mg and they only pay a portion. out of pocket $650. I pay $504 for zepbound 7.5’g vital. I’m staying put.

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I use to work for blue cross blue shield … if you call for benefits and they give your the wrong benefits, ask for a misquote and if they did in fact give you incorrect information they have to pay the claim based on the benefit they gave you !

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I do medical billing. This is why I always put the day, time, persons name and ask for a reference number. But once I called Medicare and had all that information and they said they can’t pull up the call🫩

posted about 350 days after the source
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I’m in the insurance field ins never wants to pay for anything it’s always a debate w them on the phone 🙄

posted about 45 days after the source

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I use to work for blue cross blue shield … if you call for benefits and they give your the wrong benefits, ask for a misquote and if they did in fact give you incorrect information they have to pay the claim based on the benefit they gave you !♥ 4,245source record 8406
Document with; case/ref. number, date, time, and rep you spoke with. I suggest in your notes on you phone.♥ 3source record 8410
Yes this is why you should ALWAYS take notes and keep records of your calls/ convos w them!♥ 55source record 8411
Always get call personnel first name, first initial to last name, & request a call reference number. Please record your call date & time♥ 3source record 8412
True! My mom worked there too... She misquoted a medical procedure that ended up costing $24,000. Wasn't supposed to be covered, but since they record every call.... It was there.♥ 20source record 8414
please tell us how to get a PA approved! Ive been trying to get Zepbound and denied every time! 😭♥ 9source record 8415
You have to specifically ask for a misquote review! They tell us we cannot tell you guys about it nor can we start one unless y’all directly ask! If you do not say misquote review they will play in your face♥ 14source record 8418
Mine: BCBS moved it from a fully covered to a partial covered . Cost went from $26 to $758 a month♥ 2source record 8422
I know I’m 2024 a lot of plans stopped covering it and it was due to the employer …♥ 5source record 8424
they told me I had to use wegovy first. If it didn’t work then they would approve zepbound. But wegovy only goes up to 2.5mg and they only pay a portion. out of pocket $650. I pay $504 for zepbound 7.5’g vital. I’m staying put.♥ 1source record 8426
really? I even get wegovy 2.5 denied! Because I'm not diabetic. I believe zepbound is mainly prescribed for obesity, which is what I want to target. I have an appt this Tuesday with my PCP. Hopefully she can get it approved this time♥ 3source record 8430
Oh I see. I was found eligible by my insurance cause my BMI was over 30 at the time. If it was between 27-29 bmi then u have to have other obesity related condition. If u meet those criteria and your dr isn’t willing to prescribe, might need to go to another dr. That’s what I did.♥ 3source record 8431
I was on mounjaro for 4 months. Then they said no. Then I switched to zepbound for 9 months. Then they told me zepbound is no longer covered but mounjaro would be. I switched and they denied me. Told me I didn’t meet criteria and it’s only for diabetics. Yet my non diabetic coworkers are still on it. I’m fuming.♥ 0source record 8432
My husband works for the union and have for 3 years and he JUST got got me on his insurance, can I get a sleeve and reduction with this insurance?♥ 1source record 8434
Get the cpt codes from your doctor for the surgery, call the back of your card give them the cpt card and ask if it’s covered … every plan is different …♥ 0source record 8435
your employer chose not to have bariatric medications on their plan. The employer chooses what to cover or not, so discuss with your business owner.♥ 0source record 8437
we have it under our plan, but the insurance says I dont meet the criteria. 🙄♥ 0source record 8438
I was just about to say this does not work for the the pharmacy side so don’t even try it lmao♥ 1source record 8439
and that's why we are never supposed to say it's covered. everything is based on medical necessity♥ 8source record 8440
I work for blue cross. Everything is recorded/emailed/documented ! Departments literally only for record keeping♥ 2source record 8442
Oooo you making posts about this? You'd get so many followers!!!!♥ 3source record 8444
You’re the only person to bring it up, if I could get more support in doing so I would be more than happy to do so.♥ 5source record 8445
True of any health insurance company, really. And check on the company's website if your Explanation of Benefits (EOB) shows that the doctor/provider is out of network. Most large carriers have about 95% of doctors in that area in their network, either under the doctor's name or under the name of their practice. Often, the out of network coding is because the doctor's office used the wrong ID# when they submitted the claim, but they can resubmit and the bill will be paid. The same is true of diagnostic codes. Providers make mistakes all the time in how they submit bills to carriers for payment. So don't assume they did it correctly.♥ 4source record 8446
Yesss!!! I had a case where the provider was showing OON because they used to wrong info! The man owed like 42k in bills after a stroke! They told me if “their” provider wouldn’t send the correct information in then the member would have to handle it directly! Mind you this man just had a stroke! I literally cried my eyes out I felt terrible!♥ 1source record 8447
Yes but always asks for a reference! I worked in healthcare and got away with so many claims paid for the patients because the rep didn’t know♥ 4source record 8448
Yes, you can, however if you don’t remember when and who you spoke with it will make it harder. Also if they do find the case ask for the case number♥ 3source record 8450
If you have insurance through your employer, you can actually report any negligence through them and a lot of times they will address it with insurance. I worked for the white glove department and often times if we didn’t follow through on certain performance gauruntees they were fined !♥ 1source record 8452
I was just diagnosed with cancer and bcbs denied my pet/ct scan to check for metastasis. 😡♥ 2source record 8453
Not the company where I work. We says oops someone gave you wrong information. Sorry. And I am sorry every time. Sorry 😞 can’t help. Sorry they got awful service. Sorry this is what I do to pay the bills.♥ 3source record 8454
Happened to me. They said they covered my physical therapy and I had it in writing it was in network and they they tried to charge me full price saying it wasn’t covered. Fought it and they had to cover me as a misquote♥ 2source record 8459
More than likely just call and ask… a lot of companies don’t make this public knowledge. The first step is really just knowing this is an option. You can also report your insurance to the state insurance agency!♥ 2source record 8462
I stg I read this twice as if they quote you the wrong benefits, ask for a mosquito 🫠. It’s past my bed time lmao!♥ 1source record 8468
Ohhh ok yea … they change these literally damn near every month and barely communicate with the team.♥ 1source record 8470
If you have insurance through your employer your plan is 100% picked by your employer !♥ 1source record 8471
TRUE!!! I called to see if they’d cover Elvie pumps when I was pregnant, because they were like $600. The person said yes & to submit a claim to be reimbursed. After I sent the receipt they said it wasn’t covered. I called literally 2-3x a day demanding the call be reviewed & following up. Weeks later…I received my check in the mail♥ 1source record 8473
I can attest to this. They told me my provider would be covered 100% even though she’s out of network because the services are in network. Guess who gets 100% therapy reimbursement now they told me that. FAX THOSE CLAIMS IN PEOPLE even if they deny. Call and harass them folks and get your advocate in if your job provides one like Accolade♥ 1source record 8474
funny because they told me my surgery would be 600, it ended up being 2,000, and they told me that it was just a quote and then I couldn't expect it to be accurate♥ 1source record 8475
Because the quotes are estimated prices, also when they do a cost estimation it doesn’t take in consideration that anesthesia bills seperately, also sometimes in surgery there could be unexpected services which can drive prices up. It’s best to get quotes from the actually provider (facility/doctor rendering services)♥ 0source record 8476
I got quotes from both. I went to my insurance first, they said they needed to know how it would be coded to give me a price quote, so I'm back to my doctor and then I went back to my insurance. but yeah good to know♥ 1source record 8477
Ok great then you should have an estimate .. I would also make sure the anesthesiologist is INN, if you going to have anesthesia .. alot of the time they contract OON providers.♥ 1source record 8478
More than likely they are not covered… sometimes you can do a predetermination. But if the plan excludes it, there isn’t a way.♥ 0source record 8480
It happens a lot, normally due to them auditing year round. Or sometimes the provider sends a revised claim. Unfortunately this is legal.♥ 1source record 8485
this one provider I use to work for, we would appeal for misquote if benefits often but had to make sure had a name and call reference number♥ 1source record 8486
is there any way to get around our $3500 deductible each year? we still have $300 to go and it resets July first 🙄♥ 1source record 8487
I fought that battle and a medical necessity battle with them for years and after they continued to reprocess my claim and told me to wait until after reprocessing to appeal, they denied appeal due to outside of timely filing and won’t budge on it♥ 1source record 8488
This is correct!!! I work for another insurance and yeppp!♥ 1source record 8489
I do medical billing. This is why I always put the day, time, persons name and ask for a reference number. But once I called Medicare and had all that information and they said they can’t pull up the call🫩♥ 0source record 8493
I’m in the insurance field ins never wants to pay for anything it’s always a debate w them on the phone 🙄♥ 0source record 8494
Yep! I used to work there.♥ 0source record 8496
Do you know where I can get that insurance. Because when I search on google only scam people be calling me.♥ 0source record 8497
I’m an admin assistant and almost every insurance I call has a disclaimer that says it doesn’t guarantee payment♥ 0source record 8499
Which is why they say ‘may be considered’ instead of ‘will be covered’♥ 0source record 8500
Did they tell you it was a covered service or that it was covered at 100% because that makes a difference.♥ 0source record 8501
Does this work for providers or just consumers? So many times I’ve been given incorrect info as a provider and insurance denied payment. I think Aetna is the worst.♥ 0source record 8503
This actually just happened to me! A lady said I was covered the rest of the yr on my dads insurance even tho I turned 26 in Feb and she called last month saying she messed up but they’re still honoring the coverage for me 😩🙏🏻♥ 0source record 8504
That’s nice my company will not they just issue an apology letter but they won’t pay the claim♥ 0source record 8506
This happened to me in 2007, they said I was covered. I used a bill from 2005 to show percentage it should be. They told me this was allowed only this one time. Dropped them asap!♥ 0source record 8508
It’s allowed anytime they mess up, that’s what I hated about working for them. They would have us lie so damn much!♥ 0source record 8509
It shouldn’t have … you normally have to specifically ask for a misquote review for them to even do it…♥ 0source record 8510
Also, if you get a medical bill, make sure the hospital/provider got PRIOR authorization from the insurance company for the service/procedure. If the hospital/ provider did not get PRIOR authorization, you are not responsible for the bill. Ex. Bro had open knee MRI, hospital bill $2700. bro called insurance company to find out why they didn’t pay bill. Hospital did not get prior authorization and bro not responsible for the bill. Bro called Hospital Billing dept told above story & charge removed.♥ 0source record 8511
Health insurance companies have whole departments devoted to denying your claims.♥ 68source record 14313
Exactly! The ins companies are calculating the percentage of appeals they’ll receive, then eventually be forced to payout. They also have actuarials who calculate those risks, which is why claims auto-deny.♥ 1source record 14315
I know this, I work for a provider and write appeals all day. Patients need to know they have rights to appeal as well. They’ll usually favor the patients / members request before the providers.♥ 2source record 14316
No we still have claims we manually process. And some times we have to go back save correct the ones that are automatically processed. But it would be impossible to process every claim manually. We get about 15k claims a week on a slow week. There’s everything from hospital bills to prescriptions♥ 1source record 14317
Woah. Employees are no longer involved? Have there been layoffs? If so, that’s huge news and customers should be made aware. 😳♥ 1source record 14318
Mckesson dont use AI but thats the worse and most unorganized company I ever came across from the top to the bottom its terrible♥ 2source record 14319
Yea it’s the claims department😂 and it’s mostly AI based that automatically read the claims apply coverage and contracts then pay or deny. Only high dollar claims get processed manually is seeing as we get millions of claims♥ 3source record 14320
Aetna , Cigna, UHC etc most of their dental is under a 3rd party company that I worked for. They tell us to purposely not disclose some info from your policy bcs “it’s none of their business” insurance is a scam♥ 134source record 14900
Ugh hate vision the most. Especially vsp with their dumb rules♥ 0source record 14901
ugh same thing with vision they can't legally be called insurance so they just get to have the benefits of being a shady insurance company with none of the rules. Pro tip- If you have Superior or Davis, don't have it anymore.♥ 0source record 14902

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Dental, vision and pet cover: what these policies actually buy34 index entriesLicensed brokers and clinic staff arguing, with figures, over whether these are insurance at all.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Dental, vision and pet cover: what these policies actually buy

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Dental, vision and pet cover: what these policies actually buy

34 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are deciding whether an optional policy at open enrolment is worth the premium

How commenters applied it: 34 records. Clinic staff and licensed brokers argue this one to a genuinely useful conclusion. The claim is that dental and vision cover function as a discount scheme rather than insurance, and several people who worked at dental and eye practices confirm that self-pay rates often beat the insured price. Brokers push back with figures — a wisdom tooth extraction at $2,000 self-pay against $400 insured, fillings at €400 against €18 — and argue the complaint is really about buying the cheapest available plan. The middle position several commenters land on is to price both before committing, and to use a dental savings plan or buy the annual exam and take the prescription elsewhere. The pet-insurance report cuts the other way: a veterinary worker argues it is one of the few policies that genuinely prevents euthanasia on cost.

What readers reported: Get a dental savings plan. Pay $100 and you get discounts. Make sure the office is in network of the plan. Self-pay is always cheaper even with regular medical care

Limit: This is a card where the professionals disagree by a factor of five on the same procedure, which is itself the finding. No policy, price or jurisdiction here has been verified.

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I’m a licensed broker and this is not true at all lol you just had bad insurance, come see me

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lol right ‼️😂 Just misleading people for no good reason 🤣

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Definitely not true for dental you just have to know how to pick the correct plan I see a lot of patients pick the cheapest plan with little to no benefits that’s why it’s expensive. You need to read your plans before choosing one . In the dental field since 08

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Vision and dental insurance is basically a scam lol. You can get better discounts with cash pay prices a lot of the time.

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Pet insurance is something the genuinely isn’t a scam and can save your pets life. I have seen so many pet owners have to euthanize because of care costs, and no, we do NOT get commissions for asking for bloodwork, radiographs, or other diagnostics. We’re literally trying to diagnose your pet and in the ER, potentially save your pets life

posted about 59 days after the source
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Seems a lot of other doctors are offering self-pay options and I’m here for it.

posted about 41 days after the source

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Vision and dental insurance is basically a scam lol. You can get better discounts with cash pay prices a lot of the time.♥ 1,243source record 12075
I can definitely definitely definitely confirm this…. I am grateful for my dentist cause he showed me w/insurance &I was about to loose my insurance so he showed me without… I got a way better deal♥ 67source record 12076
I’m a licensed broker and this is not true at all lol you just had bad insurance, come see me♥ 2source record 12077
I’m an insurance agent too, and I was reading that comment and I’m like there’s no way dental insurance is expensive expensive without insurance. Any health service is expensive without insurance please call this person or myself lol♥ 3source record 12078
And I’m disappointed with all the insurance folk on here agreeing lol. That’s foolishness maybe they just don’t have good plans to offer but my clients save MONEY!♥ 1source record 12080
Yes, if you have insurance they charge you 10 times more, if you pay out of pocket there is a different rate and if you add up your premiums you almost always pay more than you would if you pay as you go.♥ 1source record 12082
Obviously if you have a great health plan with full coverage and low premium or deductible the insurance is better, but if you pay a lot for it, you’re better just to pay out of pocket.♥ 0source record 12083
Get a dental savings plan. Pay $100 and you get discounts. Make sure the office is in network of the plan. Self-pay is always cheaper even with regular medical care♥ 7source record 12085
it was from me seeing peoples insurance plans working in the medical field.♥ 1source record 12086
When I was doing business consulting for dentist with this company that taught them about the oral appliance we were getting people’s total treatments paid for by insurance♥ 0source record 12087
Just bought glasses. They compared the discount and the insurance. I saved more with the insurance.♥ 18source record 12088
I used to work at an eye doctor, discounts that we gave for self pay patients was saving more than people with insurance lol♥ 12source record 12089
Man listen, without dental insurance I had to pay almost 2000 to get my wisdom tooth surgically removed. With insurance it would have been $400 dollars.♥ 17source record 12090
Fr last time I went to the dentist I had to pay for filling my 3 teeth, it would cost me around 400€ but with insurance I had to pay only 18€♥ 2source record 12091
I go for my annual test and ask for my prescription buy my glasses and contacts elsewhere♥ 6source record 12092
Same. I get cheap $10 pairs all the time just by inputting the numbers for each eye online from the prescription.♥ 2source record 12093
As person who works in the insurance field, this is indeed true♥ 5source record 12094
Yes! My family & I have a small insurance agency & this is so true. I literally get a small commission if I enroll people but tell them it’s not even worth it.♥ 4source record 12095
As someone who has worked for a health insurance company for 36 years; its based on what your company purchases for its employees and it’s definitely more than a coupon.♥ 2source record 12098
Some places won’t take patients without insurance though. In my small town, anyways. Now I’ll ask if they have cash discounts though. Thanks for the tip♥ 1source record 12099
Definitely not true for dental you just have to know how to pick the correct plan I see a lot of patients pick the cheapest plan with little to no benefits that’s why it’s expensive. You need to read your plans before choosing one . In the dental field since 08♥ 1source record 12100
how when people are paying thousands of dollars for one root canal? I only paid $200 out of pocket for mine♥ 1source record 12101
I learned this with my mom! She had a massive health crisis in 2020 which her to need 98% assistance. My dad and I overlooked dental insurance, which I didn’t figure out until I had to take her to the dentist. For one year of dental treatment at the office it only cost us $30. Meanwhile, dental insurance is $25 a month and covers just a set of x-rays and one cleaning.The lady kindly signed us up herself and kind of whispered about how much cheaper it was and how amazing it was. So we basically have singular office insurance and pay nearly nothing.😳♥ 1source record 12102
this is true, as a patient I've spent less money with no insurance than with insurance. not every time but enough times♥ 0source record 12108
Yes on vision unless you have special circumstances, never on the dental! They may only pay $1-2k/year but it’s better than nothing!♥ 0source record 12109
Seems a lot of other doctors are offering self-pay options and I’m here for it.♥ 0source record 12110
dental can absolutely be necessary, especially when it comes to xrays etc. things get very expensive without insurance. vision however, i completely agree, it's useless. i pay over 100 everytime even with insurance and they act like they're doing me a favor by applying some value to contacts or glasses, it never adds up.♥ 0source record 12111
I got glasses, contacts, eye exam, new prescription all at the mall for roughly $300 or so. If you are paying any more than that for the round trip its a medical scam.♥ 0source record 12116
No it’s not, but some offices offer more. Where I worked you got state of the art exam, I’d pay for an exam where I for sure know I’m getting the best I deserve. But insurance is def a scam still lol♥ 0source record 12117
My mother is a dentist and she told me the exact same thing. It’s a scam, which is why I opted out of the employee dental insurance plan♥ 0source record 12120
Dental insurance is not really insurance it’s a discount♥ 620source record 13346
Paid $500 more for my sons braces with dental insurance than I would have had to before we had dental insurance. Not just saying the contracted amount was more, it was actually $500 more out of my pocket.♥ 2source record 13349
It’s true I was scammed into it lol! I paid for it for a year and finally cancelled because I never used it♥ 1source record 13350
Pet insurance is something the genuinely isn’t a scam and can save your pets life. I have seen so many pet owners have to euthanize because of care costs, and no, we do NOT get commissions for asking for bloodwork, radiographs, or other diagnostics. We’re literally trying to diagnose your pet and in the ER, potentially save your pets life,♥ 0source record 14228

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Car insurance: shop it at every renewal108 index entriesAgents on both sides of whether loyalty is worth anything, and what a rewrite is.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Car insurance: shop it at every renewal

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Car insurance: shop it at every renewal

108 source recordsDisputed

Use when: Your renewal quote has gone up and you are deciding whether to stay

How commenters applied it: 108 records. A car-insurance worker's advice is to price ten carriers roughly every six months, on the basis that the industry is priced for people who do not shop. Agents in the replies mostly agree and add mechanics: another agent explains agents do not set rates and suggests asking for a rewrite with the same carrier, which can keep tenure discounts; several say quotes are a soft credit pull that does not affect a score, and one describes a renewal quote matched only after a cancellation was threatened. The dissent is specific rather than vague — agents in California and Arizona say frequent switching is itself penalised, and one warns to compare coverage rather than price alone.

What readers reported: Or just request a rewrite. I’m an insurance agent and I’ve done rewrites for people who have been with one of my companies for 10+yrs and end up getting a much lower rate with new updated refreshed info, same vehicles and coverages. That way if someone has any additional benefits and discounts for being with the company for so long, they can keep those benefits and discounts and get a lower rate.

Limit: Agents in this thread contradict each other on whether shopping is recorded and penalised, and the answer appears to be state-dependent. One record in this card advises understating annual mileage, which is a misrepresentation to an insurer and is reported here only because it is in the corpus.

What replies pushed back on3

Not true with Michigan, they’re all expensive!

Pushback

Nope. I get reimbursed what I didn’t use that last month I paid for and then just pay for the first month with the new company

Pushback

Actually there’s no statical data to prove the point. There were no blind studies done to prove their theory. They just use it as an excuse to charge more across the board. Just like red cars are in more car accidents than any other car, do they charge customers whom buy red cars a higher premium nope?

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I work in car insurance. Just call 10 of the major companies every 6 months or so and switch. They’re hoping you don’t shop every now and then. Do it. Shop around and see what’s available. The industry is very price competitive

source record 8718♥ 5,072
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I did this using a website called compare the market. I found insurance for under £500 a year as a third year driver with no claims. Pretty decent. On average in the uk for someone driving that long (3yrs) its 1K+ - all company competition…

posted about 44 days after the source
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I was on some crazy medicine and wrecked 3x in 3 months. (Backed into people) Will my insurance premium ever go back down? 🤦🏼‍♀️

posted about 42 days after the source

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0explicitly reports a limit or failure
18asks a question
0says they intend to try it
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Attach it to an existing routine 4Create a default 2Swap instead of subtract 2

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I work in car insurance. Just call 10 of the major companies every 6 months or so and switch. They’re hoping you don’t shop every now and then. Do it. Shop around and see what’s available. The industry is very price competitive♥ 5,072source record 8718
This I will agree with!! I am constantly shopping for new car insurance. About every 6-12 months I’m looking. Most people just stick with one company and don’t ever think about changing. Then try to brag about being a “platinum” customer and get nothing in return.♥ 223source record 8719
Called me out with that. They are absolutely beating me to death with costs I have 4 month left untill it’s time to renew I’m going to shop around♥ 1source record 8720
I had my old insurance company for ten years, no accidents or tickets. Got a new car and they tried to raise my premium over 1000 dollars! Called another one and it was the same price. Then the agent had the nerve to get mad at me!!♥ 40source record 8722
depends on the car tbh. if you buy newer ur gonna pay WAY more than the $150 (example) you had for the 2012 (example)♥ 0source record 8723
I got the same car, a 2025. and I got the same coverage at $160 somewhere else! Gotta shop around♥ 0source record 8724
They make you pay penalty and the new insurance company will charge you the first and last month. So... 🤷🏻‍♀️♥ 0source record 8725
I deal with it because I like to keep as much as my money as possible♥ 17source record 8727
Can confirm. I was with progressive for my first six months. Did the program to save after that. How they say “congrats you earned a $300 savings” then my monthly bill went up $50!!!!!! I said SAVINGS WHERE! They said “oh you were on a discount from the program but that ended so now your regular savings are $300” ummm the monthly bill WENT UP!!!!! I switched to Geico for $40 less.♥ 17source record 8728
I am an agent too, you should have included that agents do not create the rates. The carriers do, so yelling at us isn’t going to change your rate… agents try to get you the best deal with discounts or lowering mileage. However…. Carriers are also super picky about lowering mileage now and are annoying with requesting documents. I tell each client please shop, save money specially if you’re a rude client. Rates depend on areas you live, age, tickets accidents and yes in insurance even gender will affect the rate.♥ 11source record 8729
Is it true if you get quotes from another company, your current insurance company will penalize you? I remember someone telling me that a while back♥ 2source record 8730
You can tell them what you pay now, we can’t really control the rates or prices. We’re more just curious if we’re wasting your time or not♥ 4source record 8733
Are ther consequences of we’ve had comprehensive claims against the current company and want to see if we can get a lower rate?♥ 0source record 8736
No there’s no consequences. Also comprehensive claims do not count against future premiums♥ 2source record 8737
What if I want to keep who I have because I get a discount through work can I call and just threaten to leave because I found a cheaper price hoping they will lower it and I can stay with them😂♥ 0source record 8738
Some companies do that, some don’t, I work at StateFarm and they dgaf and will tell you to leave if you don’t like the price♥ 2source record 8739
I'm with Farmers.... I switched from State farm when I found out I got a discount with Farmers through work They take my car insurance straight out of my paychecks every week♥ 1source record 8740
I was on some crazy medicine and wrecked 3x in 3 months. (Backed into people) Will my insurance premium ever go back down? 🤦🏼‍♀️♥ 0source record 8745
if I pay 6 months in advance will the price be cheaper or is it typically the same monthly payment?♥ 0source record 8748
It depends on the company. Most companies yes, State Farm, no♥ 1source record 8749
Get an insurance broker who does it for you. We don’t pay him a dime & he does all the leg work. Just saved us $30 a month switching!♥ 1source record 8752
We used a broker and she kept saying nationwide was the cheapest and we went out and shopped and saved 40% more than what she found♥ 0source record 8753
[account] the best insurance company to call if you have bad history♥ 1source record 8754
It does if you do it super often, like every month, and you do get better rates of you stay somewhere for a long time, but if you can get a much better price somewhere else, go for it♥ 1source record 8756
Do you recommend having full coverage car insurance? I always have and pay about $240/month in CA.♥ 0source record 8757
Right? A big upfront payment. I just went to AMFAM and I had to pay 2 months upfront. Almost done with 6 months. Bills went up at the end. I have to shop around.♥ 0source record 8760
I am an agent with AmFam. We have new rates coming in and new discounts. Call your agent for a policy review! I encourage my customers to call us every 6-12 months to make sure we’ll all up to date and giving you the best rates!♥ 1source record 8761
Cool. thank you for this. ill shop around still and let them knoe what I found. my car is a 2015 Toyota.♥ 1source record 8762
Ask for a discount review every year or so! I am an agent with a national carrier and we have new discounts every once in a while. Call to check if you qualify for any new ones!♥ 1source record 8763
I've been with them for a long time with no claims. I just bought a house and got amazing homeowners insurance coverage♥ 1source record 8764
yes and no, because you are losing the longevity with one company, rates are better when you shop if you would have stayed with last company longer. also a lot of companies do take it into rate consideration when they see you jump around every 6 months. 🤷‍♀️♥ 1source record 8765
Never had it effect me in a negative way and have been doing it for years♥ 0source record 8766
you just dont know. if you had waited and then switched,you would have gotten a better deal♥ 0source record 8767
As someone else who works in car insurance, if you’re doing this make sure you’re not just getting a better rate, but at least the same or better coverage!!!♥ 1source record 8768
Does not! They only do a soft check. I’ve worked in insurance and home lending. I used to review credit reports and insurance does not do a hard pull♥ 0source record 8770
When I’ve done it, it did hit score. I think it was progessive. Hmm♥ 0source record 8771
Yeah I used to review credit reports and there was never a record of insurance running credit♥ 1source record 8772
yep it's why you have to change every 6 months♥ 1source record 8773
I thought it was normal to shop every 6 moths if its better?! I love been doing this since I've been driving 20 yrs ago😂♥ 1source record 8775
Well me doing this the last time shaved off $80 🤷🏻‍♂️♥ 11source record 8779
$80 a month? $80 every 6 months, or $80/ year? Because depending on your answer, that’s a big difference in money.♥ 0source record 8780
I feel like they got hip to this. Most insurance companies use the fact we haven't stayed longer than 6 months with a previous company for why our qouted price was so much. 😒♥ 0source record 8783
Sorry, maybe i didn't say it correctly. We would inquire at the 6 month mark. Because we never stayed past 6 months or a year with one company. We would finish our policy then shop when the renewal quote was insane.♥ 0source record 8785
I need to do this cause I’ve been with progressive for like five years because I really am too lazy to shop around♥ 0source record 8787
Yup. I had a small accident (no one injured but I had an old car so it got declared totaled). My insurance company wanted to raise my prices so I shopped and managed to get lower, even with the accident strike in my file. 🥸♥ 0source record 8789
My insurance company told me that if I didn't switch every six months that the companies would give me a lower price later down the line. Problem is I've always gotten a lower premium every time I've gone looking for another option.♥ 0source record 8790
I do this every 12 months. This yr my insurance company matched a quote i got. Said they couldn't match it until i said im leaving. Saved about $600♥ 0source record 8791
My husband and I did this… both of us combined save ~$150/month 😭 I was loyal to my car insurance for YEARS. Will never be again 🤣✌🏻♥ 0source record 8793
I shop around for all of my bills roughly every 6-9 months. Takes a lot of time but I’m not paying more if I don’t have to. This is such a huge life hack for saving money.♥ 0source record 8794
I woke in car insurance too and let me tell you by jumping around from company to another, you won’t ever accumulate loyalty discounts, etc in CA. & in AZ, you won’t get approved by anyone at all if you have a bad history of insurance cancellations by not lasting with the companies.♥ 0source record 8795
Used to work. Sadly not anymore.♥ 0source record 8797
I believe this. I teach school, so I’m surrounded by a small “community” of adults. Insurance is a constant conversation. We’ve learned a lot from one another’s experiences. Definitely change up every now and then!!!♥ 0source record 8800
Been with AAA for 20yrs♥ 0source record 8804
None particularly, just check multiple. Depends on your situation♥ 0source record 8808
I got told by an insurance agent (my cousin lol) that if you jump back and forth between companies that it makes you look bad and less likely for them to want to take you.. is that true?♥ 0source record 8809
Not in California, the cost of auto insurance is high and most insurance companies are leaving the state.♥ 0source record 8810
Ima try this since my car insurance is going up for a speed ticket♥ 0source record 8811
Every time I have done this- they give me the same exact price. 😬♥ 0source record 8813
yes this! I work in insurance as well. you get shop early prices!! we shop every 4mo.♥ 0source record 8814
And then your rate goes up or you just don’t even qualify bc you’re considered a frequent shopper. A lot of companies, you get discounts the longer you stay.♥ 0source record 8815
I do this every year with progressive. They raise my rate every policy renew citing “increased accidents and tickets in your city”…. I asked them for the data, too♥ 0source record 8816
Or just request a rewrite. I’m an insurance agent and I’ve done rewrites for people who have been with one of my companies for 10+yrs and end up getting a much lower rate with new updated refreshed info, same vehicles and coverages. That way if someone has any additional benefits and discounts for being with the company for so long, they can keep those benefits and discounts and get a lower rate.♥ 0source record 8820
If you have a major national carrier you can ask for a second offer. Most of the time I’ve seen them come back much more fairly.♥ 0source record 8822
Yep worked on the industry and can verify most of them (the “G” & the “P”) technically are in competition and will literally try to keep you. They do find out if you are going back and forth, “G” has gotten smart now to keep track of previous policies. State Farm no longer honors loyalty, the premiums go up the more people you have anyway. So still get a new company every 6 months and say “you switched because you moved”, not price. They will bait you in…♥ 0source record 8824
Me rn 🤣🤣🤣 already got my quote secured from another company weeks ago and just waiting. My insurance already sending me my new installment and it went up but jokes on them. I’m just waiting for that 11:59 to hit and I’m ✌🏿Ima spin the block when it’s low again 😂♥ 0source record 8825
Settlement? You can ask for a second offer 😉♥ 0source record 8826
Your insurance bff 🙋🏻‍♀️- If you have a string of bad luck and file claims in a short period of time, comprehensive or not, the insurance company can and will non-renew you.♥ 0source record 8827
That’s not my case.. always renewed. But twice has definitely backed me up at least a few times♥ 0source record 8828
I do this every 6 months !!♥ 0source record 8829
i switch every 6 months😂😂😂♥ 0source record 8830
had Nationwide for 4 years. Price kept going up and up. Eventually went from 350 for 2 cars and renters to 800 within a year. Switched and now im paying 200, and every other company gave me roughly the same quote♥ 0source record 8831
I used to do this but my current company really is the cheapest option. Every 6m I call around and I always get shocked that I’m getting quotes the same for lesser coverage so I tuck my tail and go back to GEICO.♥ 0source record 8832
Nope. I get reimbursed what I didn’t use that last month I paid for and then just pay for the first month with the new company♥ 0source record 8835
We do this! Cut our bill 40% the last time we switched♥ 0source record 8836
Facts I work in car insurance to. And don’t get high coverage on bodily injury or uninsured motorist unless you’re rich! No one is going to waste time suing someone with one home and barely any assets.♥ 0source record 8839
How can I shop better? I've submitted applications to various car insurance companies but basically no response back.♥ 0source record 8842
Just call them. Most companies give commissions for new clients so just call and ask for a quote and they’ll try to sell you. Work with a few companies and find the best price and best terms♥ 0source record 8843
Does this mean they will negotiate or are you saying this because they raise the rates the longer you stay loyal to a company?♥ 0source record 8844
I tell everyone this. There is no benefit to being loyalty to an insurance company.♥ 0source record 8845
I've been with State Farm for 25 years. And the last 3 - 6 month cycles, my premium as gone up $ 42, $50 and $71 for full coverage. I pay bi annual premiums. But I have a clean record and no accidents. Pisses me off!!!♥ 0source record 8847
I work for the company and my price went up too lol. It sucks. They do have good customer service though♥ 0source record 8848
My mom has always done this which made me think it was normal then realized most people don’t do this♥ 0source record 8849
I’ve had progressive for 12 years. Every time they send me a renewal letter I go online and make a new quote, then call it in. It’s ALWAYS 20%+ cheaper than the renewal note, and they will always honor it♥ 0source record 8852
I have USAA and shopped around a few years ago. The gecko company couldn’t beat my rate AND basically harassed me for a year. I got emails, texts, and phone calls. I denied their bid and reported that it wasn’t a better offer- they kept reaching out with the same offer. If you have a good rate, it may not be worth the headache to shop.♥ 0source record 8853
I literally switch like once a year and always find somewhere I can pay less for the same coverage.♥ 0source record 8854
that’s what i do and they be so mad they’re like well we have agents that can assist you i was like uhm yeah no. i’ll shop myself she literally YELLED at me♥ 0source record 8855
THIS!!! saved 1200 annually on my car ins & just moved my home insurance over, saved another 1300 annually by switching! 2500 is enough for a little vacation 😅♥ 0source record 8856
The industry is credit dependent which should be illegal.♥ 0source record 8858
There was a Supreme Court case about it and they decided that credit history is allowed to determine your insurance rates. People with bad credit are more likely to be more expensive (they crash more and get more tickets)♥ 1source record 8859
Actually there’s no statical data to prove the point. There were no blind studies done to prove their theory. They just use it as an excuse to charge more across the board. Just like red cars are in more car accidents than any other car, do they charge customers whom buy red cars a higher premium nope?♥ 0source record 8860
OH YES AND I USED TO DO THIS A LOT. THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT LOYALTY SO DON'T FEEL BAD ABOUT LEAVING. AND WHEN YOU STAYED LONGER THEY RAISE YOUR BILL♥ 0source record 8863
Welp not if your live in city with a luxury vehicle with high crime♥ 0source record 8866
I did this using a website called compare the market. I found insurance for under £500 a year as a third year driver with no claims. Pretty decent. On average in the uk for someone driving that long (3yrs) its 1K+ - all company competition…♥ 0source record 8871
That’s why you have to make sure you are comparing apples to apples when doing it♥ 2source record 8872
So I just dropped Dairyland and went to State Farm and Dairyland is sending me to collections because I did not cancel with them for the 17 days that I was with State Farm. How do I deal with this? Like how the hell are you gonna charge me $400 for my name being in your system and you didn’t do shit for me?♥ 0source record 8874
Mines high regardless. I’ve been hit 4 times none my fault bc I live in a no fault state so I must have a big red flag next to my name with insurance companies♥ 0source record 8876
actually a big reason why I got the app rocket money. saved me $150/month in car insurance the moment I downloaded it.♥ 0source record 8877
saved my mom from 500 dollars a month to 220 doing this. game is game♥ 0source record 8878
i just did this, my kid went from permit to DL, and upped my premium 280 more, shopped around and bam, same coverage for much less! screw all state!♥ 0source record 8880
Jerry.ai can do this for you and it’s got some really obscure ones! I used it before I went with USAA.♥ 0source record 8881
State laws mandate a certain time for insurance coverage or you will get enormous rate quotes. Don’t listen to this person.♥ 0source record 8882
always tell your insurance company you drive less than 9000km per year. they're not gonna check and it keeps your rate lower.♥ 154source record 14823
just to clarify, tell your CAR insurance that obv. your health insurance doesn't care♥ 14source record 14824
Progressive Insurance could care less about their employees.♥ 129source record 14919
They’re too busy paying for their tacky marketing commercials♥ 2source record 14922
Thats all big corporations. Especially when its a call center♥ 1source record 14924
Geico is actually worse. All auto went downhill after Covid♥ 2source record 14925
DON’T MAKE ME GO LIVE! They seriously don’t and I’ve seen sooooo much in my short time working there.♥ 8source record 14927

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Debt, banks and your credit file426 records · 4 sub-topicsDebt collectors, bankers and people who have been chased describing the same practices from opposite ends of the phone. 426 records.
Debt collectors: skip tracing, the rules, and what stops the calls192 index entriesCurrent and former collectors explaining what they actually run, what they may not say, and the one sentence that legally has to stop calls.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Debt collectors: skip tracing, the rules, and what stops the calls

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Debt collectors: skip tracing, the rules, and what stops the calls

192 source recordsDisputed

Use when: A collector is calling you, or calling your relatives about you

How commenters applied it: 192 records. This is the corpus's opening claim and the one its own industry dismantles most thoroughly. Current and former collectors say what they actually run is a skip trace against public and commercial databases rather than social media, that contacting relatives for location information is lawful, and that the illegal act is disclosing the debt to them. Several name the database. Consumers reply with exactly that scenario — a collector who texted a relative the amount owed — and one reports being paid $1,000 plus legal costs for it. Former collectors also correct the second half of the claim: threatening to sue does not wipe a debt. The one instruction everybody agrees on is that saying stop calling legally ends the calls; several add that it ends nothing else, and a South African commenter supplies the equivalent local rule about permitted hours.

What readers reported: Just a heads up it cause you said stop calling , not because of anything else. When you specifically say stop calling we have to stop calling #formerdebtcollector

Limit: The rules quoted here span at least four countries and several US states and are contradicted within the thread. Nothing in this card is legal advice, and the original claim that a threat wipes a debt is rejected by the collectors who replied to it.

What replies pushed back on5

Capital 1 sold my debt to another company! Honestly I had pulled a credit card to help my little brother get into detailing business he was an authorized user and always payed then he passed away and I called to see if they could help me and nope took him off authorized user and now they are threatening to garnish my wages! I’m a single parent of 2 little girls! Working seasonal jobs so that I don’t leave my girls alone year round 😭 and my spouse is deported 😭 ugh!

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this is not true mamas 😭 it’s called permissible purpose. it’s 100% legal to reach out to ya mama n nem to try to get in contact with you. just can’t say any trigger words pertaining to the debt

Pushback♥ 5

You'd be surprised how many family members give out your numbers in a hearbeat! 🙈🤣 nope... here their number

Pushback♥ 2

That’s not true! I’m a debt collector and we use a program that may pull all the numbers associated with you and your family members! Again we don’t stalk people on social media

Pushback♥ 1

They ain’t wiping anyone’s debt if you try to “sue” haha they know you broke by your car In Your Facebook pfp 😆

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Unfortunately credit card companies can now come after you and sue you in court. They can also put a lien on your house if you don't pay the credit card company that is suing you.

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man I'm trying to pay my debt but the line is always busy when I call and the email doesn't work either 😭 I can't let this go on my credit cause I'm getting a new car soon. it's so irritating

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Debt collectors STALK your fb and ANY social media looking for clues on how to contact you.. which is illegal.. threaten to sue and they will wipe your debt

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I wish I had seen your comment a few years back because a debt collector was trying to get in contact with me, a lot of my family members told me that they had called my family members looking to get in contact with me and so I made contact with the debt collectors. If I would have known this, I definitely would have sued them.

posted about 70 days after the source
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They are now filing a lien against your home and have secured your bank account and your wages will soon be garnished

posted about 40 days after the source

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What the counts show

Across 192 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Attach it to an existing routine” (3 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

192index entries
192distinct source records
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3top-level comments
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0explicitly reports a benefit
4explicitly reports a limit or failure
16asks a question
0says they intend to try it
172other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

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Attach it to an existing routine 3Create a default 2

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Debt collectors STALK your fb and ANY social media looking for clues on how to contact you.. which is illegal.. threaten to sue and they will wipe your debt♥ 190,721source record 0
When they call random cousins that don’t have ANYTHING to do with whatever bill..♥ 7,392source record 2
Oh wow! Explains why my sisters mother in law got called about our mothers bill she haden't paid yet. wow.♥ 3,405source record 4
Oh my god this reminded me a debt collector called me looking for my mom 💀 I’m hollerin I know they be kickin screamin seeing all I do is shit post♥ 48source record 5
They are not allowed to disclose that it is a debt or you can sue & many companies have lost for millions because of it♥ 70source record 6
exactly they just can’t disclose its pertaining to debt but they can 100% reach out to friends / family to get in contact w someone to get the person to call them back. it’s called permissible purpose♥ 7source record 8
as an account holder you will never know but as a person who worked in this field it was just how we were trained Never had a CU not disclose the info just need name & social & they would give us address on file, of there were any loans of anyone was on the acct checks what deposit from who any direct deposits this was one of 1st calls we made at Sallie Mae♥ 0source record 10
No it’s legal it’s called skip tracing not harassment unless YOU TELL them to stop calling♥ 1source record 12
the way for 3 weeks straight i was getting texts about my moms bill♥ 0source record 16
Correct, I currently work in sub prime auto loan collections. Here’s a tip people, if you don’t want debt collectors to call your friends or family ✨ PAY YOUR BILLS ✨♥ 1source record 18
same girlie 😭 i work in auto financing as well, customers be so mad when they find out we done called granny but like you been ignoring us for months, granny finally got you to call in which was the goal 😂♥ 1source record 19
Exactly!! Guess what imma do next time you don’t answer and you’re 45 days past due… CALL EVERYONE lmaooo. Chances are if they owe you money, they owe other money and man are some people messy and LOVEEEE dishing the dirt lmao♥ 0source record 20
This is such a vile thing to brag about, having power over vulnerable people. Not everyone in debt is irresponsible. Some of us lost jobs and are dealing with major health issues. Many are in debt struggling to survive and you’re here laughing and bragging about it on the internet. You sound like you enjoy the power trip and you’ve clearly forgotten there’s a human being on the other end.♥ 4source record 21
There’s a website debt collectors use that shows your name, address, any email you’ve ever used.DOB, any neighbor/address you’ve ever had and every single family member and FRIENDS linked to you♥ 0source record 22
this isn't true, youre being looked up on Accurint which is legal, unless you have debt with an already questionable company they are def not looking at your socials♥ 0source record 23
found another professional debtor!!! I’ll help people who are honest and provide documentation but at the end of the day you signed the contract and legally agreed to paying the debt. Don’t be mad when you fall through on your commitments. I’ve fallen on hard times myself and never made it anyone else’s problem but my own and I kept my bills paid. Stop playing victim and be an adult.♥ 0source record 24
You’re only seeing what you want to see, and you’re still living in your victim complex. You have no idea what kind of collector I am or who I deal with. I’ve had people LIE about their family members dying, being in the hospital, losing their job, etc. you become jaded when you realize what people are capable of doing to get out of their commitments THEY SIGNED UP FOR. This week alone I’ve helped a women find financial support because she’s going through cancer treatments. Is that my superiority complex? I help honest people but I see through lies like an xray, and sweetie you’re giving lying about your mother’s death to get out of a bill for a month. When I don’t hold people accountable I lose out on income and bonus potential so excuse me if I don’t buy every bullshit story I hear. Take your own advice and stop virtue signaling on tiktok, it’s pathetic.♥ 0source record 26
That’s not true! I’m a debt collector and we use a program that may pull all the numbers associated with you and your family members! Again we don’t stalk people on social media♥ 1source record 28
We for sure did when I worked in repo 5 or so years ago♥ 0source record 29
I think that is a result of public based info that usually has a list of related. They use the same database as anyone else for back ground searches.♥ 0source record 30
My sister got a call looking for me. When she said no this isn’t her, they hung up♥ 8source record 31
literally when discover called my dad multiple times then listed my bfs number when I asked them who they all had on the list when I never added either of them♥ 0source record 33
Bruh I was wondering why they contacted me for another family members debt♥ 0source record 34
You can’t contact other people that don’t have anything to do with your own debt. Please use common sense♥ 0source record 38
I meant ppls information... so why don't you get some of that common sense♥ 0source record 39
My mom, myself and cousin get a call for my mom saying they want to serve her and need an updated address. But company name and # don’t pull anything up on google so we never call back♥ 6source record 40
OMG! I’ve been getting calls for debt on an uncle who’s been in jail for yearss & I barely know the guy. Makes sense! 🤯♥ 0source record 41
I had a bill go to my friends house lol never sent my mail there or put her name down EVER♥ 3source record 42
this is not true mamas 😭 it’s called permissible purpose. it’s 100% legal to reach out to ya mama n nem to try to get in contact with you. just can’t say any trigger words pertaining to the debt♥ 5source record 44
Oh wow someone called my mom and dad for a dang $600 old bill from 5 years ago♥ 10source record 46
It’s not illegal to look if it’s public♥ 307source record 47
you're not supposed to call other ppl about someone's debt.♥ 1source record 48
Anyone one that works with Toll Roads ? I probably owe more thank 1k and im a stay at home mow 😭🥲 im thinking of just getting a part time job to pay♥ 0source record 49
When they garnish your paycheck 🤭. They are looking for places of employment and perhaps to know if you moved.♥ 9source record 51
debt collectors are allowed to call friends, neighbors, relatives, etc for contact info for you FYI. they do have rules with it but they can call them.♥ 28source record 53
Ex debt collector, we run something called a skip trace…if tracks EVERY number you’ve been associated with ever. Exes parents friends and all lol. It’s fucked up tbh♥ 44source record 54
lol so if they texted my mom trying to collect the debt multiple times and disclosed the debt amount, it’s illegal?👀👀. I didn’t even know that I had these speeding tickets bc they were sent to an old address so they tripled. I only even semi knew about them bc they texted her but we assumed scam. Just realized it was real last week♥ 4source record 55
Oh my, I would assume so!! I don’t think they can disclose specific info other than saying hey have her call us. They are definitely ballsy lol♥ 1source record 56
That’s a clearly not part of their job description therefore illegal♥ 0source record 57
It's illegal to call others & divulge info about the debt.♥ 0source record 59
Lmfao it’s not illegal you nut. They literally have a thing called IDI core. And can find everything. You owe a bank just pay it.♥ 7source record 64
That’s not what is illegal… reaching out to the ppl who aren’t on said bill is.. the whole purpose of skiptracing♥ 5source record 65
Loan specialist n former DSA agent i can confirm!!!!!!♥ 4source record 66
ALSO, a lot of times if your debt is sold to a collector, you can get it wiped off your report.♥ 4source record 67
THIS! A debt collector texted my mom last year which is illegal. I got $1,000 from them in CASH + they had to pay the lawyer I used who did my case for free on my end.♥ 3source record 70
That type of tracing is actually illegal. I work for a financial institution who legally can only call the references of the person and where they worked. And one of those people says stop calling me you can no longer call them legally.♥ 3source record 71
You can just google almost anyones name and it gives you address and phone number, scary how easy it is♥ 3source record 72
No, you are able to sue because they used your social media to reach out to people who aren’t associated with the debt in collections♥ 2source record 74
so I learned that if you have debt and it's sold to a third party your debt has been paid off by that third party and you have no obligations to that third party as long as you don't provide them any of your information you can disputed and have it taken off your credit♥ 2source record 75
the only thing you can't do this with is medical bills and school bills but if you have a credit card that went to collections and it was sold to a debt collector that debt collector technically paid off that credit card for you now the debt collector wants its money back so just don't provide any information and dispute it will be removed from your credit♥ 1source record 76
Yeah I think third parties pay like a 25cents per dollar so if you owed 10,000 they probably paid 2,000 for it♥ 1source record 77
Nooo where were you 2 years ago 😩♥ 2source record 78
You'd be surprised how many family members give out your numbers in a hearbeat! 🙈🤣 nope... here their number♥ 2source record 79
Yup I guess that because I got weird friend requests and one said did I get a letter . And they kept calling my number and my daughters and mom’s phone number. I knew they was snooping but lucky for them I’m 10 feet ahead I don’t accept people I don’t know I don’t answer calls and told my family to not answer calls from numbers they don’t know♥ 3source record 80
How is it illegal if it’s public?♥ 1source record 83
Not illegal to look at public profiles or to call family.♥ 1source record 84
I was about to jump so quick but then seen you! 🤣😂 yall wish that shit was illegal!♥ 1source record 85
Look at you Simon the simple.. you still fell for the “bait” and left a comment.. 😘♥ 0source record 86
Debt being wiped is a real thing!! I had $35k of mine wiped just for writing a letter to a financial aid company explaining why I couldn’t pay it and they wiped it clean!♥ 1source record 87
Wow!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m about to get in debt collectors websites and find employees and stalk them back.♥ 1source record 89
It’s illegal to harass customers, that’s what they’re doing.♥ 0source record 92
This explains why they call every time I’m on social media 😭 probably about to call right now♥ 0source record 99
As previous collections paralegal we do in fact do this and use other government databases 🥲♥ 0source record 100
i wish they would call of my friends or family, they will cuss them out in a heartbeat. i’ll pay it when i pay it♥ 0source record 101
As a debt collector we don’t stalk your social media lbs we have a data base with your numbers and your family numbers all we gotta do is type in your name and a previous address and everything comes up from friends to relatives to jobs♥ 0source record 102
If you’re in Texas - you can sue them under the DTPA! Deceptive trade practices act♥ 0source record 103
As someone who did collections over 10 years ago, this is true.♥ 0source record 106
They ain’t wiping anyone’s debt if you try to “sue” haha they know you broke by your car In Your Facebook pfp 😆♥ 0source record 107
That’s a wild statement especially since I just bought a whole new set of tires for my 2021 Corsair… but pop off sis😘♥ 0source record 108
Not true, I did debt collection for 10+ years and that doesn’t violate the FDCPA. That being said, if you can prove that a debt collector did break the FDCPA you can sue them for $1000 per infraction.♥ 0source record 110
dude i texted them that they are harassing me past 7 times (the legal amount to notice someone i believe) I AINT NEVER GOTTA ANKTHER CALL OR TEXT♥ 0source record 111
the skip trace you meaning the have access to numbers of family members♥ 0source record 112
I’ve had debt collectors call my sister.. IN TEXAS. They’ve also reached out to my aunt too♥ 0source record 113
This is now legal to communicate with consumers via social media per the FDCPA, I worked at a collection agency for years after recently quitting♥ 0source record 115
Yup I know it.. medical bills in collection does it the WORSE. We would just gone head and escalate it to our in house lawyer♥ 1source record 120
Debt collectors are soooo predatory. We see so many clients in trouble because of medical debt and when collectors try to cause issues once a client is retained by us, we go HAM. The system is gross!♥ 3source record 121
Would be cool to hear more about your experiences in this line of work!♥ 0source record 122
my sis in law got a call about me ans a bill and I always wondered how. my social media pages are private abd not my name....maybe relatives came up from Google search. this is good to know♥ 1source record 123
They trained me on it.. I can take the tiniest bit of info and find what I need.. good thing I use my powers for good♥ 1source record 125
I wish I had seen your comment a few years back because a debt collector was trying to get in contact with me, a lot of my family members told me that they had called my family members looking to get in contact with me and so I made contact with the debt collectors. If I would have known this, I definitely would have sued them.♥ 0source record 127
This makes so much sense bc years ago my family was regularly telling me they got a call from a debt collector asking about me. Wowww♥ 0source record 128
Id love to know how, I have tried and all my stuff is still out there, my ex still stalks me bc of it♥ 0source record 131
I swear everytime I make an online purchase I get their call right after and I never answer♥ 0source record 132
ask for an itemized bill and bam they gone♥ 0source record 133
It’s not illegal I am one. You are the one refusing to pay♥ 0source record 134
Can confirm. I used to work for a repo company and we literally stalked socials for like 2 hours a day and were actively encouraged to do so 🫢 it goes much deeper than you would think too♥ 0source record 136
it's publics info search, it's not illegal. it's called open source♥ 0source record 139
I heard once you can tell them that you never allowed a third party access to your personal info so the debt gets squashed♥ 0source record 141
One recently called my ex from almost 10 years ago, and told him it was an emergency situation and I had to call him. That made me SO angry♥ 0source record 142
oh daz true. my father in law whom I never met bcs he passed long before I married his son had cc debt and the debt collector been looking for his children now they're all adults. at one point they reached out to me then I said to them "I will contact my lawyer about the contract first" and shooo they never call again♥ 0source record 143
They perform what’s called a skip trace & it shows possible relatives and phone numbers. The company will call them looking for whoever hoping a message gets to the customer. If the customer gets frustrated and calls the company asking why they called them, it did the job.♥ 1source record 144
had a debt collector call my dad. i asked how they even got his number considering he’s not on my acct and he has never done business with them. they said they did a data search and just assumed we were related so they called him. i was fuming. imagine if i didn’t have a good relationship with him and they did that!!!♥ 0source record 149
they have other ways of getting information other than FB. it costs money, but its completely legal. also, pay your bills and you won't have to worry about that.♥ 0source record 154
as a former debt collector,…yeah♥ 0source record 155
they contacted my grandfather who doesn't even have facebook🌝 how tf they found him♥ 0source record 157
As a former debt collector, it’s not illegal 💀 at least in australia it isnt. They’re all public databases, and there is indeed contact limits. In saying that, if you get called by a company regarding someone elses debt, ask to never be contacted again and they legally have to put you on a no call list and your number will be blocked, they cant contact you for a n y o n e. Also if they slip in the “i will give you a call back if theres anything else” say no, bc they cant contact you for another 6 months weewoo♥ 1source record 159
As a realtor… I been saying this!!!!♥ 0source record 162
this is true the company I worked for previously did this and I was a customer retention specialist.♥ 0source record 163
It's called skip tracing and it's not illegal. just keep your information private. if it's public, it's exactly that.♥ 0source record 164
One did that to me, but had the wrong person. They called my JOB trying to track the other person down with my name. I should have sued them.♥ 0source record 165
Any publicly published information is allowed to be used.♥ 0source record 171
It's not illegal for debt collectors to call family and obtain the information via skip tracing.♥ 0source record 172
I used to be a debt collector. This is actually not true. Threatening to sue will not wipe your debt either.♥ 0source record 173
my girlfriend had a debt collector stalk her fb page and finally commented something about making a payment. called his supervisor and had that specific debt forgiven♥ 0source record 175
My autistic son, very young adult, is being harassed currently! Calling him at work stressing him. The doctors office double billed for same day of service and assigned two claim numbers. My insurance verified it was paid in full with check number and date. Collection had nerve to ask if check had been cashed. Collection still has not let it go. Doctors office went under This has been since Jan 2025.♥ 0source record 176
What’s funny is my teens have never wanted social media and I use fake names♥ 0source record 177
They skip trace you to find out relatives phone numbers. They don’t get phone numbers off social media.♥ 0source record 178
oh so THAT’S why both my parents were getting calls. that’s insane.♥ 0source record 180
Always always always check your credit. If it's not on there, they can go fuck themselves.♥ 0source record 181
It is not illegal to look at PUBLIC sources of information. If you have something to hide, just hide it better.✨ - Licensed P.I. (Read some more comments; if someone discloses your contractual obligations to an unrelated 3rd party, then that's the illegal part.)♥ 0source record 183
not always illegal, there are restrictions♥ 0source record 184
I was a debt collector here in australia, can confirm we did this but its not illegal here. We would even tell them sometimes how we found them. Plus we had software that would give u the email and number of anyone that ever lived at a specific address.♥ 0source record 185
Thats not social media, they simply looked up your name on the internet and did a background check, its free and u could do it anytime. It tells u where the person lives, there phone number, and relatives with their info to♥ 0source record 195
South Africa here…it’s illegal for a debt collector to call you on Sunday, you can sue , you welcome♥ 5,995source record 5763
Absolutely 💯…or any weekday after 8pm it’s illegal♥ 278source record 5765
Completely illegal😂…and the law is on your side♥ 50source record 5769
If I tell you, I’ll be working, so I’ll send you the bill but I won’t make the mistake of asking my owed bill on Sunday 😂♥ 6source record 5777
The number of potential clients here is massive😭…prob if likoloda abantu, how y’all gonna pay me if I rep you 😂😂♥ 7source record 5778
Alexis my love, I know exactly what am talking about, not second guessing it, didn’t hear it from anyone, I work with law for a living and I can tell you you’re also right and I am♥ 2source record 5785
It depends on each each state. For example, in California, Calls are allowed only between 8 a.m. and 9 p.m., local time, regardless of day . Weekend calls are illegal♥ 1source record 5787
😂well it all depends on the factors gathered together, including the money owed, nature of the call and the size of the company in question♥ 0source record 5791
Hi can you please assist my niece used my number as his other cell number they can call him & I had no business with him borrowing money the money & the sad part I don't even stay with him but they keep on calling me as if I'm the one who's owing them!♥ 0source record 5794
Borrow money and tell them to call you on Sunday Wena Sluvet 😆…make sure it’s not in writing though, tell them f2f♥ 5source record 5796
How early in the morning are they legally allowed to call?♥ 1source record 5797
sueing them so I can use the lawsuit money to pay off the debt🫰🏽♥ 1source record 5798
You must work for a 3rd party call center. Because this is true♥ 0source record 5799
lol I only know cause I work for a 3rd party call center. 🤣🤣🤣♥ 0source record 5801
So legally, we know we have a peaceful Sunday 😂♥ 0source record 5804
This is wild. I keep getting calls all day and night and weekends. I literally kept asking my husband if I was crazy but I swore it was a law that after 5 and weekends, they weren't allowed to call? Am I wrong? How do I prove it happens if I don't answer? please. I get like 30 calls from one credit card place I owe money to. I want to pay. I just can't. 😟♥ 0source record 5811
What! Thank you for this. They be calling 9pm and on Sundays !♥ 0source record 5812
😂😂😂 Eee didn’t see that I thought if they call and say we from debt collectors.. ngzi file complain♥ 0source record 5817
I was getting nonstop calls from a debt collector and the last time they ever called me, I yelled “IM GOING TO SUE. I KNOW MY RIGHTS AND IM NOT LEGALLY LIABLE TO PAY YOU ANYTHING. STOP CALLING” and they haven’t called since♥ 19,901source record 6853
Yes, you still have the debt and it is usually reported on the last work day of every month. Only they won’t call you and instead will wait till you freak out and call them♥ 213source record 6855
Credit starts plummeting cause the bank doesn’t sell it as fast as you’d hope.♥ 2source record 6857
ahh. im probably one of the few that doesnt give 2 craps about my credit score 😅 my house and vehicles are paid for.♥ 5source record 6858
Vehicles don’t last forever. Hopefully you’re in the position to pay cash for everything, if so this doesn’t apply to you and you can enjoy your life.♥ 1source record 6859
Yeahh I did something similar and after about 2 months of ignoring them, a cop served me papers, at my home. The collectors sued me 🙄♥ 164source record 6862
bye af cause i got served about a week ago 😵‍💫 i still dont know what i should even do for my next step .. since i was recovering from surgery & obviously unemployed due to recovery 🫤 they were still blowing my shi uppp while in the hospital♥ 0source record 6863
Answer to it using ChatGpt tell them you have no way of paying it and they can have fun trying to get money from you.♥ 1source record 6864
Read the whole thing asap. There is likely a court date and/or a respond by date. The response (to the court) date is imporant. I watched some videos on YT of lawyers explaining bc it was so confusing. I couldn’t afford a lawyer 😭♥ 2source record 6866
im cooookkkeddddd 😭 its been 2 Thursdays & have not done anything about it 🫠 im literally due in like 6 weeks and dont wanna deal w ts lol😭 & i cant afford a lawyer either & ik they have pulic attorneys or wtv but based off my research they don’t really win cases since they dont get payed hella ig they basically fight less lol♥ 0source record 6867
By the time I read it (I was way too anxious) I had about a week. I def had to pep talk myself into fixing it. If you can, maybe watch a few YT videos. You MAY have the opportunity to negotiate.♥ 1source record 6868
And the lawyers I was speaking to were ones that helped you through the process and how to appropriately reply. They don’t rep you. 6 weeks is not too late! You got this. I’m happy to help in how I know how to♥ 1source record 6869
thank you so muchhhhh god bless you fr ! 🙏💞 im genuinely feeling way better about my situation based off the info / advice you have been giving me!♥ 0source record 6870
Yes you would still have the debt on your credit. You’d have to dispute it with the credit bureau directly.♥ 2source record 6872
I tell them tbh im never going to pay you guys I owe the irs money so I’m a pay them . Ya not going to put me in jail . They never call back♥ 60source record 6876
Le us just say I owe $50k im credit lines♥ 0source record 6878
I did it wrong by putting medical bills on my CC. However if it’s been sent to a 3rd party (for whatever reason) negotiate. i was younger and i wish i had been taught how to handle these things♥ 30source record 6880
Don’t get a default judgement, they can then garnish you. (Debt collection manager)♥ 26source record 6881
This is so stupid but I was in a sorority and stopped paying my dues. No credit card was used. Is that something they will come after me about? And if so how do I get out of it♥ 3source record 6882
I commented below. You’re fine, you just can’t be a member anymore or rejoin. And if it’s a national sorority then you can’t join another one. But the university isn’t going to come after you and it won’t go on your credit, that other person doesn’t know what they are talking about♥ 1source record 6883
It can go on your credit and yes since it with the university they will send it to a collection agency and you can end up being sued♥ 0source record 6884
Will they garnish your pay if it’s a debt under $1,000? And how long will it take for them to garnish? Thank you♥ 0source record 6887
I had debt collectors calling me too apparently it was because we owed $100 to our last apartment for damages just ask who they are calling who you owe money too I called our apartment and got settled that way♥ 7source record 6893
Capital 1 sold my debt to another company! Honestly I had pulled a credit card to help my little brother get into detailing business he was an authorized user and always payed then he passed away and I called to see if they could help me and nope took him off authorized user and now they are threatening to garnish my wages! I’m a single parent of 2 little girls! Working seasonal jobs so that I don’t leave my girls alone year round 😭 and my spouse is deported 😭 ugh!♥ 6source record 6894
I told them I was a student on a student loan program, how could I pay the debt?? another time I told them I was on welfare how do I pay the debt?♥ 6source record 6896
They’ll stop calling if u tell them to but they have other means♥ 5source record 6897
You'll be served Court papers and have to answer the summons and if the judge favors with them, they'll take a % of your check every time your paid. Check your state laws on how much they can take.♥ 3source record 6899
That’s because you said stop calling. The debt is probably still there but you’re on their DNC (do not call) list♥ 2source record 6900
Because they legally HAVE to stop calling when you tell them that lol. Your debt is still owed, good luck with your credit♥ 1source record 6901
Unfortunately credit card companies can now come after you and sue you in court. They can also put a lien on your house if you don't pay the credit card company that is suing you.♥ 1source record 6902
They took my $3000 tax return once. Learned my lesson♥ 1source record 6903
That’s called a cease and desist. Yeah they’re not going to contact you other than sending billing statements. But your debt and bad credit aren’t going anywhere.♥ 1source record 6904
Idk about that I once had a debt liaison who was actively looking for me to hand me a subpoena for wage garnishment of a debt.♥ 1source record 6906
not sure if this is an everywhere thing or a MA thing but if you tell a debt collector to stop calling you, they have to. Also they can't call you on Sunday's♥ 1source record 6907
Actually you were put on a cease and desist. Your debt still gets reported till it eventually falls off♥ 1source record 6909
lol that’s just bc just asked not to be called. That’s called a cease and desist. All they will do is stop calling you but you still owe the debt.♥ 0source record 6910
I had an attorney call me from Capital One from my deceased father's debt. Um, no ma'am, I will not be paying his $20k credit card .♥ 0source record 6911
They are now filing a lien against your home and have secured your bank account and your wages will soon be garnished♥ 0source record 6915
Just a heads up it cause you said stop calling , not because of anything else. When you specifically say stop calling we have to stop calling #formerdebtcollector♥ 0source record 6916
I used chat Gpt to answer and I asked for proof that I owe them anything . 😒My court date is July 21, I used the site [site removed] also. You can use them to offer a settlement. I offered 50$ 🤷🏾‍♀️I don’t have the money 🫰🏾 they can kiss my behind. Period♥ 5source record 6918
And mentioning you will be filing a consumer complaint with the attorney general also helps♥ 0source record 6920
I had the same! But not a cop just a random guy literally come to my apartment to serve me papers. I was terrified♥ 0source record 6924
This happened to me too! Twice like 3 months apart. It all happened this year. It was Discover and Chase for me. I'm like wtf. My neighbor's wondering what all the troubles I keep getting into. lol.♥ 0source record 6925
This. Plus the university isn’t involved in the payment, the money goes to your sorority headquarters not to the university, that other person is wrong. And on top of that, all that’s gonna happen if you stop paying is you’re just not going to be a member of the sorority anymore and can’t rejoin. Signed- An ex president of Pi Phi♥ 0source record 6926
bcz if you tell them not to call your cell, they HAVE to remove the #.♥ 0source record 6929
your information is probably being sold between vendors . you’ll always receive these kind of calls . Maybe not from the same♥ 0source record 6930
Bruh they didnt even ask for me.. they went straight to my boss 😭♥ 0source record 6932
man I'm trying to pay my debt but the line is always busy when I call and the email doesn't work either 😭 I can't let this go on my credit cause I'm getting a new car soon. it's so irritating♥ 0source record 6934
well typically when you tell a company/institution to “STOP CALLING”, they legally have to stop calling you.♥ 0source record 6936
No your good no problem he had a green card his parents had brought him when he was 4 and well when he was 18 he got himself into problems and when it was time to apply for him as an adult and renew his paper work he was in jail and while in their ice took over he tryed to fight his case because since they brought him he had never returned not even for vacay! I was 16 at the time so I wasn’t much help! And buy the time I was 8 he had 2 crossing over attempts so that is kinda why after 10 years I haven’t been able to fix the situation! I was told I could pay the amount the lawyer asked for but he did not guarantee I guess it’s worse to attempt to come back after deportation and getting caught then getting brought at 4 and qualifying because of his parent that had papers♥ 0source record 6941
They just mark you as refusal to pay. If it’s worth the lawsuit atp, I’d expect one 🤭♥ 0source record 6943
I was getting many calls, I texted I was going to sue if they didn’t stop harassing my family and me, no calls since and the number no longer works. Scam perhaps♥ 0source record 6946
Be careful tho my sister did this and 6yrs later she got sued from the debt collection agency for unpaid medical bills, it has to be a certain amount but it’s possible!♥ 0source record 6947
Even if it wasn’t . Is a scare tactic . You got chatgbt on your side use it♥ 2source record 6948
Have you checked your credit to see if it’s still on there though? Cuz I have the same issue with Verizon.♥ 0source record 6953
Girl they are putting mine in my debt collector from tru fit 😩 because I didn’t pay but I tried canceling♥ 0source record 6954
not true they can take you to court if you verbally say you won't pay on a recorded line♥ 0source record 6962
You should pay what you owe♥ 0source record 6966
You should shut the fuck up♥ 0source record 6967
A lil secret, all you have to say is, stop calling me and they must cease all calls but doesn’t mean they can’t sue you, be careful piss them off and they may.♥ 0source record 6969
Well pay your bill and you won’t have cops serving you papers 🤨♥ 0source record 6970

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Collections on your report: validate it, dispute it, watch the clock109 index entriesA widely-repeated dispute tactic, and the collectors and lawyers warning that talking to them can restart the clock.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Collections on your report: validate it, dispute it, watch the clock

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Collections on your report: validate it, dispute it, watch the clock

109 source recordsDisputed

Use when: An old debt has appeared on your credit report and you are deciding what to do about it

How commenters applied it: 109 records. The popular claim — that a purchased debt is unenforceable because you never signed with the buyer — is contested by people who work in collections, who say the original agreement usually permits assignment and that the paperwork can be produced. What survives the argument is the procedure: request validation of the debt, dispute the entry with the bureaus, and check the statute of limitations in your state. Commenters report entries falling off, one reports winning in court on exactly this argument, and several describe wage garnishment and default judgments for ignoring it instead. The most important correction in the card is about timing — contacting a collector or making a payment can restart the clock, which several people say they learned too late.

What readers reported: You have to be careful with this because if they can find the doc you originally signed w/ original creditor it’ll still stand AND the 7 year clock will reset on your credit because you just confirmed it by reaching out about it. So if it’s been 4 years, you only have 3 more. It’ll drop off in 7 years if you do nothing. If you reach out confirming the debt, that 7 years can start over fresh at 7. It’s a chabce you take by reaching out.

Limit: The corpus contains as many reports of being sued or garnished after following this advice as it does of debts falling away. Statutes and garnishment rules differ by state and country, and none of this is legal advice.

What replies pushed back on6

not true at all. you likely signed an agreement to pay and if you don't it would be sent to collections

Pushback

After disputing, they’ll valid if the info is indeed incorrect. If it is, they remove it from collections and send back the updated one.

Pushback

You have to be careful with this because if they can find the doc you originally signed w/ original creditor it’ll still stand AND the 7 year clock will reset on your credit because you just confirmed it by reaching out about it. So if it’s been 4 years, you only have 3 more. It’ll drop off in 7 years if you do nothing. If you reach out confirming the debt, that 7 years can start over fresh at 7. It’s a chabce you take by reaching out.

Pushback

Wait what if you owe an apartment complex because they kept charging you after you broke your lease but they closed your account and it’s not showing in Credit Karma either… How can you dispute that?

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Yeah I said I’m broke anyways what they gonna take 😂😂😂

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I have hella debts that the same stupid company bought years ago and they are still ruining my credit everyday! And now they have it broke off where two separate entities of the company are collecting on some and some on the others and they left me alone for so long (these are literally over 5yrs old) so how do I get rid of them they are RUINING ME

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Absolutely do not file for bankruptcy at a young age… that is a last resort. Also they legally cannot touch your bank account or your checks in any state any bank without giving you a written warning first saying they are going to do so! Fun facts

source record 14602♥ 1
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Don't matter. you signed a contract that it would be sent to collections and could impact credit score. you disputing it and getting it removed is a lucky attempt. but contractually they don't need to do that and quite frankly most of the time disputing it does nothing.

source record 11783

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If you have debt going to a collection, don’t pay it. You signed a contract with the original company, not the debt collector who bought your debt. Tell them that and contest it on your credit. It should come off.

source record 11655♥ 8,078
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I had a credit collection company hire a lawyer and took it to court. It doesn’t even have a name. Just the court officer and law firm name, I fought it on Credit Karma and they denied the dispute. They even tried to take money from my paycheck and I don’t know who it is!

posted about 350 days after the source
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Dispute them! Download a credit app. It can’t hurt to try. They may come off!

posted about 40 days after the source

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Across 109 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Turn it into a game” (3 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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15asks a question
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Change the sentence 3Turn it into a game 3

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If you have debt going to a collection, don’t pay it. You signed a contract with the original company, not the debt collector who bought your debt. Tell them that and contest it on your credit. It should come off.♥ 8,078source record 11655
ask for validation of debt. and if it's medical bills and they add your ICD-10 and CPT codes on there and that's a violation of HIPAA♥ 15source record 11658
Wait what if you owe an apartment complex because they kept charging you after you broke your lease but they closed your account and it’s not showing in Credit Karma either… How can you dispute that?♥ 12source record 11664
Ya but when I have done this it tells me they found it to be legit and never take it off!♥ 1source record 11667
I did this & it came back & said they didn't find anything wrong with it♥ 0source record 11668
Ask ChatGPT to help you draft a letter to dispute an item on your credit report and that you want the reason to be because you tried to pay the original creditor but they closed your account so you weren’t able to. ChatGPT will give you exactly what you need♥ 45source record 11674
use chat GPT. that's what I did lol. great advice. they will even write you a letter for the dept collector♥ 4source record 11676
I would go to your credit report and dispute the charge .♥ 7source record 11677
I did something similar a local gym the og owner retired and I owed like 150 gym membership went on credit karma and said he retired and no longer has the gym and they took that debt off my credit. lol♥ 17source record 11678
Yep I won a case in court over this. I said where did I sign and give you permission of this debt and the judge wiped away my debt. The collections lawyer was so angry♥ 50source record 11680
Yes, it’s been like 10 years but ask away♥ 1source record 11682
Hey I just followed you! Need to ask you ab something similar with going to court for a debt case♥ 0source record 11683
I use Credit Karma. I dont care if it’s 2-3 years old, or 6 years old. I start at the top and dispute everyone of them. They’ll let you know something in about a month. Or you’ll just see the stuff come off your credit. Any doctor bills, I dispute, bc you sign papers with the doctor, not the company who buys your debt.♥ 47source record 11685
hi. I love you. thank you for teaching me about this. I hope you have a wonderful July and stay cool all month long.♥ 4source record 11687
Wait cus I pay nelnet for school I didn’t even finish and I realized they had a who different address and email and when I called they just changed it.♥ 11source record 11689
I now have nelnet too and it ticks me off so much bc I never have them permission to take over my student loans♥ 2source record 11690
At one point the government was forgiving student loans, i dont know the exact details , but I would check and see if you’re eligible for that.♥ 0source record 11691
literally DISPUTE EVERYTHING. I did through my credit karma app and the debt just fell off♥ 7source record 11695
No. I’ve never been taken to court. I check my credit about once every 3 months♥ 7source record 11697
Idk if it’s a scam but my brother didn’t pay a CC bill and apparently they’re trying to take him to court. I had no idea it was a thing.♥ 1source record 11698
And they will def try to scare you in to paying it. But at the end of the day, they can’t force you to pay. And even if they win the judgement, I don’t think they can garnish wages. You would just have that judgment against you in court. But you can be arrested or anything for it.♥ 4source record 11699
I’ve had a garnishment sent to my employer once tho if you receive state assistance in any form they can’t garnish anything from you♥ 3source record 11700
They can and will garnish wages and even reach into your bank account. If there isn’t enough, they will freeze your bank account♥ 2source record 11701
Wait I have medical debt that got sent to collections cause they’re trying to charge me for things that didn’t happen and I refuse to pay it but everytime I get a letter from the collections my address has an extra letter in it. Idk if it’s them or the hospital that got it wrong. Would that count?♥ 5source record 11704
I did this twice and got both accounts dripped from my credit report 💜♥ 4source record 11705
In some states they’ll sue you. Do research before you dispute.♥ 4source record 11707
Credit app. And click on each collection where it says dispute!♥ 3source record 11708
If it’s a debt collector same goes, you didn’t sign any papers with them. Make sure you let them know you know it’s not legal.♥ 3source record 11710
This isn’t true. They tried to take me to court and now making me pay it back or they’ll take me to court again.♥ 0source record 11711
I’m sorry this happened to you. But it’s def true. I dispute charges, if I have any, every 6 months. I’ve just about gotten my whole credit cleared. Not all collectors take the debt to court.♥ 2source record 11712
Do you mind helping me get this off my credit? I paid the first payment and they haven’t taken the next 2 payments for some reason. I honestly forget who to call but they said if I don’t pay they’ll file court papers again. They literally had this sketchy dude serve me papers and he waited for me to come outside. Traumatic experience.♥ 1source record 11713
Download the credit karma app. And literally go down the list and dispute everything. Usually anything over 5 years, will drop off. How long has it been since you paid on it?♥ 0source record 11714
Before April 30th when they served me papers, it had been a few years … what do I say to dispute it♥ 0source record 11715
It says April 2024 but that’s the last time they sold it. The actual debt is 4 or 5 years old.♥ 0source record 11718
Just put in the comments that you signed papers with who ever the first company was that the debt came from, and that you never signed papers with the current company who holds the debt. It may not fall off since it’s only been a couple of years, but it’s worth the try.♥ 1source record 11719
Ok that’s good!! Much better chance of it falling off if it’s 4-5 years old.♥ 1source record 11720
If it doesn’t, see if it will just let you submit just the dispute options with no comment.♥ 0source record 11722
If you made a payment on it it starts the statue of limitations over again (different for every state) but if the debt is 4-5 years old but made the two payments that means you started it over and now they can sue you. It will go based off of the last payment you made♥ 0source record 11725
Ive done this! Ask them to probide a copy of what you owe, they never can♥ 2source record 11726
Plus they prob already know. I’m surprised more ppl didn’t know this. Not gonna hurt my feelings any🤷🏻‍♀️♥ 1source record 11731
You don’t have to tell them anything, just download a credit app and go to each of the claims and dispute each one separately. Usually if they are over 5/6 years old, they will fall off.♥ 2source record 11733
Ur an angel!!!! Ima go on my credit karma app and dispute away cause credit scares me♥ 1source record 11734
Don’t tell them it’s you. Or don’t answer♥ 2source record 11737
I think so, plus you can actually see the ones you’ve disputed and see what comes off and which ones you need to keep check on♥ 2source record 11739
I’m so sorry!! Keep trying, some of them may have not been on there long enough. Don’t give up!♥ 2source record 11741
No, never tell them who you are. And you need to Download credit karma or any other♥ 2source record 11742
You can dispute it, but most have to be 6/7 years old to come off. You may want to talk♥ 2source record 11743
But also you didn’t agree to any terms either the collector. So you shouldn’t have to pay. Dispute it with the court system♥ 2source record 11744
Thank you so much for this info! My credit is in the tank so this can definitely potentially help bring it up some 🙏♥ 1source record 11745
can i message you? i have bank of America cc debt that went to a "lawyer" and say funds are going to be taken from my paycheck..what do i do?♥ 1source record 11746
I’m not sure what you should do, II’ve never had any garnishments. I let a car go back, and foreclosed on a house. You may can contact them and see if they will settle for less, and let you make a payment plan. I would get a Venmo and cashapp card and don’t let a lot of money in your banking account. Leave your Venmo and cashapp cards locked unless you’re using them at that moment.♥ 1source record 11747
You log in to a credit app. Whichever you prefer, and click on each collection and contest it.♥ 0source record 11749
I tried this and they sent me their terms I signed and they had added a closure that if they sell my debt I own the collection company♥ 1source record 11751
This only works if it’s a third party collection company who bought your debt! Lots of companies have internal debt collectors.♥ 1source record 11753
another comment that is reminding me to sit down with my bank to get things wiped.♥ 1source record 11756
So mine is an old name, my old married name. I wonder if that counts!♥ 1source record 11758
No sorry lol I didn’t know you could do this and when I saw your comment I was like omg someone needs to show me how to do this right now!♥ 1source record 11761
I had a medical bill that’s was $1500 go to collection and I just ignored them and they kept reducing and reducing it and now it’s $20. lol Should I pay it now? What do you think?♥ 1source record 11762
It really depends on you. I use to be methodical about my credit. If you’ve got the money, pay $5 a month. As long as you pay something, they can’t turn it over. Or they’re not supposed to anyway.♥ 0source record 11763
Does this work if I already set up a plan to pay off the debt collector? 😞♥ 1source record 11764
yeah, I was hoping to dispute it like ASAP, just tell collections to prove it basically♥ 0source record 11768
I have hella debts that the same stupid company bought years ago and they are still ruining my credit everyday! And now they have it broke off where two separate entities of the company are collecting on some and some on the others and they left me alone for so long (these are literally over 5yrs old) so how do I get rid of them they are RUINING ME♥ 0source record 11775
Dispute them! Download a credit app. It can’t hurt to try. They may come off!♥ 0source record 11776
Seeing this after I just paid off 40k in hospital debt 😭😭😭♥ 0source record 11777
not true at all. you likely signed an agreement to pay and if you don't it would be sent to collections♥ 0source record 11781
That’s what I’m saying to dispute. Any collections on your credit. After so many years, they can fall off, if you dispute. It works.♥ 0source record 11782
Don't matter. you signed a contract that it would be sent to collections and could impact credit score. you disputing it and getting it removed is a lucky attempt. but contractually they don't need to do that and quite frankly most of the time disputing it does nothing.♥ 0source record 11783
Ok, well I’ve had all of my doctor bills that were sent to collections removed. So not sure what else to tell you. Have a good day!♥ 0source record 11784
What if the company keeps opening your debt? I have a debt I didn’t pay form 2019 and they continue to open it so it stays on my credit. I refuse to pay it bc my ex husband is supposed to pay it since it’s in our divorce papers♥ 0source record 11785
This isn’t true. The original company will provide the debt collector a copy of your original contract and often when you sign it there’s a debt collection clause. If the collection agency can’t provide documentation of your signature or there’s no clause then you have a leg to stand on.♥ 0source record 11786
All I know is I’ve disputed all of my collections, and all my doctor bills have came off. As long as they’re over 5 years or older.♥ 0source record 11787
I need help, the “Medical Billing and Coding certificate” that I did for 2 years happens to not be a-credited anywhere plus that college just closed for no reason after pandemic and don’t even exist anymore. Now I have a huge debt that I have to pay. Any advice?♥ 0source record 11788
They can & will garnish wages. My paycheck was garnished from cc debt♥ 0source record 11792
Nearly all collection agencies service accounts for the original creditor. Debt purchasing is sooooo pre year 2000.♥ 0source record 11793
And I’ve worked with collection agencies before. You’re welcome🤗♥ 0source record 11794
II’ve never been served papers, except when I had to let a car go back.♥ 0source record 11796
so basically all my credit atp lol idk if this applies to student loan debt but my company changed 2x that I know of.♥ 0source record 11799
After disputing, they’ll valid if the info is indeed incorrect. If it is, they remove it from collections and send back the updated one.♥ 0source record 11802
my car flooded in a hurricane. no help from insurance. bank sent me a $12,00 bill even though I've paid more than that on the vehical... any advice?♥ 0source record 11803
I work in collections, some agencies have contracts where the account remains with the original company and the collection agency is authorised as a third party to collect. So the debt isn’t sold and contract is still valid.♥ 0source record 11804
I sure hope so cause I bought a brand new Kia and it was a lemon and they refused to buy it back!♥ 0source record 11805
So let’s say we dispute all of our collections, so you think we will have an issue rebuilding if it all falls off? Thank you for this info..♥ 0source record 11806
Well considering they sued me and going to garnish my wages. Like fully my HR got a letter. After having my laywer tell them that I had to give the car back because my husband got attested for DV and then unalived himself. The judge said he didn’t care about my feelings. I have been laying on this car they took back for 4 years and owe practically the same as I did before because of interest, all so they don’t take a large sum directly from my paycheck lol.♥ 0source record 11813
Hey so I have a genuine question. I had a debt collector contact me with a medical debt that was like over $400 from interest. I started making payments on it but my debt card changed and the payments weren’t going through. I didn’t get any notifications from my bank, no calls from the debt collector, no mail—nothing, until a couple weeks ago when they said my last payment was on March 17th and they hadn’t received anything since then, and they’re threatening to report it to the national credit bureau. Please help me.♥ 0source record 11814
They sell the debt and you agree in Your contract it can be sold♥ 0source record 11816
You have to be careful with this because if they can find the doc you originally signed w/ original creditor it’ll still stand AND the 7 year clock will reset on your credit because you just confirmed it by reaching out about it. So if it’s been 4 years, you only have 3 more. It’ll drop off in 7 years if you do nothing. If you reach out confirming the debt, that 7 years can start over fresh at 7. It’s a chabce you take by reaching out.♥ 0source record 11817
That’s why all the people that go there are always walking and grocery shopping there♥ 0source record 11818
Everyone says this but it helps your credit once it’s paid so should I now pay it♥ 0source record 11819
Unless it’s midland and you’re in a state where they uphold judgements. They are sneaky and can get you an automatic judgment♥ 0source record 11821
I had a credit collection company hire a lawyer and took it to court. It doesn’t even have a name. Just the court officer and law firm name, I fought it on Credit Karma and they denied the dispute. They even tried to take money from my paycheck and I don’t know who it is!♥ 0source record 11827
Stop paying it. Do research on how much money you can keep in a bank account- in AZ it was $300- anything over that they could garnish. If you work a job, they’ll eventually garnish your wages but the good news is only one creditor can garnish 25% of your paycheck. The others will disappear after 3-5 years or go to collections (never pay them). Get your pay check in paper form and cash at Walmart. Or file bankruptcy and be done in 5-6 months with a clean slate.♥ 46source record 14593
Since when? Bankruptcy last for 7 years and is on your credit. We would see this often when pulling clients credit?♥ 5source record 14594
Credit scores will increase because the credit card companies have you for 8 years, not 7. This is how they make money♥ 1source record 14595
Mine came off at 10 years♥ 1source record 14596
Thing is u can file for bankruptcy (a lot of rich people do it all the time) and just build ur credit back up. That bankruptcy will be on ur credit but if ur score is up it won’t matter. Not u less ur about to try and get a loan or something where you’ll be judged for it. But if u got the time and the right amount of debt, just start over 🤷🏽‍♀️. Then the fastest way to raise ur score is to get a credit card and buy things just to return them so it looks like ur paying it off in full. And then you’ll be able to get 2 cards after a while and just make sure one of ur cards stays below 30% of ur credit limit and ur score will go right back up.♥ 14source record 14597
All the cards need to be below 30% of their credit limit, but if u want to get the cards with more perks, keep doing the buy and return strategy. U can even get one of those cards that say “get this many points for spending this much”. Go to a luxury store, buy something expensive and return it, keep doing that until u get those bonus points and you’ll earn points for trips and stays and w/e else the card offers♥ 12source record 14598
Thank you! Also it’s great for content creators, u can buy things to review on ur rewards card, and then return it. Get ur score up plus reward points and get paid for reviewing.♥ 9source record 14600
Absolutely do not file for bankruptcy at a young age… that is a last resort. Also they legally cannot touch your bank account or your checks in any state any bank without giving you a written warning first saying they are going to do so! Fun facts♥ 1source record 14602
Fun facts bk is a fresh start - talk to a lawyer or someone who’s done it 😎♥ 3source record 14603
Trust me been there. Just highly don’t suggest to the younger crowd because it’s on your record. And building that credit back up is hard af. Yes clean slate but also sucky♥ 2source record 14604
Then file BK? Or pay - choice is yours. 😎 just remember No one chooses to be poor. It just happens. Those it happens to don’t have your privilege to keep their credit rating up.♥ 2source record 14606
But like for real. Where are the credit repair people at?? They be stacking secrets left and right. Best tip I ever got from some was a combo of pay a negoiated down price with a money order demanding they remove something from your report and also refuse to not let them not buy you out lower. Collections people buy your $XXX for a dollar or few and will drop it so long as they still made profit. Once watched something over $3k be dropped to $120. Also? Seriously? Not kidding-! Someone recently told me Credit Karma will fight for you for everything that still shows on there that for zeroed out. So go and hit refute or dispute over and over.♥ 12source record 14607
Can you explain more about how credit karma helps? I checked the app and can’t find anything about thos♥ 1source record 14608
Just like Experian has a booster program where you can get a lift for just paying certainly monthly bills, your Credit Karma account should show options to flag and dispute things listed on your report.♥ 0source record 14609
Credit Karma is garbage … go to your bank or order a credit report from the major credit reporting agencies … credit karma is not accurate♥ 4source record 14610
Stop paying it. Stack your money, then call and negotiate the price down. They usually just want the principal of a debt. If they think they won’t get anything they will take less.♥ 6source record 14611
Stop talking to the people who you owe debt to they can set back the statute of limitations to day one (google it) … look and see what the statute of limitations for debt in your state. If it is longer than the state permits make sure you dispute with the credit bureaus. Ask to have the debt validated. Especially if it’s close to the statute of limitations..especially if the debt has been sold to another party…♥ 6source record 14612
No fr. I’m 10k in debt♥ 0source record 14619
Look up the videos on here if you have collections you need to send off a letter you also need to clear your 4th 5th and 6th party credit reports♥ 0source record 14620

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Bank fees, holds and accounts you never opened108 index entriesTellers and bankers on who gets a fee refunded, and what they were told to say to the people who were not going to get one.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Bank fees, holds and accounts you never opened

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Bank fees, holds and accounts you never opened

108 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You have been charged a fee, had a deposit held, or found an account you did not open

How commenters applied it: 108 records. A former banker says overdraft fees can be reversed and describes being instructed not to reverse them below a balance threshold, and being fired for continuing. Other bank and credit-union staff confirm the shape while correcting the detail: several say the discretion is real but capped — one describes a personal monthly refund allowance and notes left on accounts so a colleague can decline the next request — and several dispute that branch staff see any bonus from it. The practical residue is consistent across dozens of replies: ask, ask again if the first person says no, and several name credit unions as the softer option. The card also carries the fake-accounts report and one about deposit holds.

What readers reported: im sorry to say i worked at a credit union where we had a certain allotment amount we could refund back based on tenure; for ex. mine was $50/m bc i was new. then we had to leave notes after calls so if cust called back empl can see i only approved 1/3 fees and could decline the other 2 simply bc i'd already denied them. nasty work

Limit: Bank employees in this thread flatly contradict each other on whether fee income touches anyone's bonus. Refund limits, hold periods and account practices vary by institution and are unverified here.

What replies pushed back on4

Not true I refund fees all the time

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Not true at all. I ALWAYS rebate overdraft fees cause we out here struggling.

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Idk about chase but Wells Fargo if you ask for it they will say either no or “we can do a 20% refund (or sth similar” and if you tell them “nope. I want it all” they will refund ALL of it.

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I do get mine from Bank of America 🤣give me my damn money back(when I was broke broke🤣🤣)I’m just broke now🤣

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banks CAN refund your overdraft fees. they just won't, because every time they do, it eats into their bonuses. I was frequently told that unless a person has 200k with us I was NOT to refund anything. and that when that single mom who overdrew her act on diapers come up crying I'm absolutely supposed to make her get a credit line... I said no and kept refunding legitimate need fees until the day they fired me for it. banks don't care if you or your kids go hungry

source record 10907♥ 6,251
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PNC? I was told the same thing and we’ll get in trouble if we refund fees.

posted about 95 days after the source
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tell me you've never been poor without telling me you've never been poor. bless you, I hope you never know the fear of real hunger.

posted about 47 days after the source

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Across 108 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Swap instead of subtract” (4 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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108distinct source records
25.4%of parent category
1.7%of the complete index
3top-level comments
105replies

What commenters explicitly report

2explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
16asks a question
0says they intend to try it
90other source context

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Create a default 4Swap instead of subtract 4Attach it to an existing routine 3

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banks CAN refund your overdraft fees. they just won't, because every time they do, it eats into their bonuses. I was frequently told that unless a person has 200k with us I was NOT to refund anything. and that when that single mom who overdrew her act on diapers come up crying I'm absolutely supposed to make her get a credit line... I said no and kept refunding legitimate need fees until the day they fired me for it. banks don't care if you or your kids go hungry♥ 6,251source record 10907
Please tell me where cause I’m sick of these over draft fees EVEN AFTER I PUT MONEY IN♥ 101source record 10908
If you can build up a little bit in your savings account, see if you credit union has overdraft *transfer*. That's when it pulls from your savings if you overdraft, often for a $5 fee instead of $35. Not paying the $35 makes it easier to not overdraft. Pay attention to pending transactions, they will count against your balance.♥ 0source record 10909
When I was in banking it was case by case. BoA definitely won’t refund a credit union is more likely too.♥ 1source record 10911
my credit union will just deny my transaction if there isn't enough. no over draft♥ 0source record 10915
I just switched to cash app for my direct deposit, I still transfer everything to my bank but I get up to $200 in over draft for setting up my paycheck with them. I don't plan on over drafting but it's there if I need it.♥ 28source record 10917
Orange county’s credit union in Southern California. But they have them all over you just gotta read the fine print.♥ 0source record 10918
im sorry to say i worked at a credit union where we had a certain allotment amount we could refund back based on tenure; for ex. mine was $50/m bc i was new. then we had to leave notes after calls so if cust called back empl can see i only approved 1/3 fees and could decline the other 2 simply bc i'd already denied them. nasty work♥ 24source record 10919
Bonuses for top executives maybe. Branch employees including management hardly even get bonuses anymore at most institutions now.♥ 21source record 10920
As a banker THIS IS TRUE😂♥ 1source record 10921
idk how long my mom worked for Chase/Bank 1/NBD for like 16 years and she jumped ship right as the housing bubble was getting ready to burst in '08. The writing on the walls was stark and clear, and she blamed Jamie Dimon and their predatory lending practices.♥ 3source record 10922
Yeah there’s no way in hell I would ever choose a large bank like that. Small local banks or credit unions are much better. I’ve been in banking for 20 yrs.♥ 2source record 10923
That’s insane because someone with 200k don’t need fees waived a mom or anyone really who overdrafts and has to wait for a paycheck to fix it is the one that needs fees waived. That’s so sad I hate banks but thank you for helping others!💜♥ 11source record 10926
I was a banker and can confirm this, but I’d still refund fees to the ones who were nice and pleasant despite my managers wishes. I worked at a lenient branch though. Ain’t nothing but a General Ledger ticket😭🤣♥ 6source record 10927
Can confirm. Banks make profits off of fees but be nice to the tellers because they typically aren’t allowed to do anything and I was threatened if I did give back a fee I’d be wrote up♥ 3source record 10928
You have a good heart and thank you for doing the right thing♥ 2source record 10931
I do get mine from Bank of America 🤣give me my damn money back(when I was broke broke🤣🤣)I’m just broke now🤣♥ 2source record 10932
This is true. I worked for BOA for 10 years 😐♥ 2source record 10933
Whose bonuses? I work at a bank and when I refund fees it doesn't eat into my money... I think we can't be broad with statements like that...♥ 0source record 10935
there are hundreds of replies here also confirming this, but of course the bottom level employees wouldn't get those bonuses. best believe that those at or near the top are directly profiting off of it though.♥ 1source record 10936
ahhh okay because I was like what do you know that I don't!??! Let me get my calculator out!♥ 0source record 10937
I quit USBank for this. I fully planned to climb the corporate ladder. 2 weeks in I realized, they dont care about their customers. Goal is to make $ off of every customer.♥ 1source record 10938
I guess it was a blessing I didn't get a bank job I applied for, I would have done the same thing, it's crazy they will only help people who can clearly afford to pay the fee♥ 1source record 10939
It’s not every bank though. I would NEVER choose a large one like Bank of America, etc. Small local banks or credit unions are the way to go. I’ve been in banking for 20 yrs.♥ 1source record 10940
I worked for a credit union, I refunded every NSF that came thru. Yall ain’t getting MY members today! No maam, no sir. We’re not doing that GIVE IT BACK♥ 1source record 10941
Omg I went into the bank once to asked by I was charged a 35$ overdraft fee and the guy refunded me 250$ I was so confused … this was at Bank of America 😂♥ 1source record 10943
I was with US Bank for years and they did it to me for the last time. 160 on fees for 40 dollar overdraft. I am fucking DONE.♥ 1source record 10944
I will attest to this one. I have both Santander AND Bank of America. I have asked for ALL of my overdraft fees. Hundreds of dollars back. If they are REALLY nice you can get upto three but usually 2 refunded in one call. I’d hang up and call back to get more off. I SWEAR. 🤭💓♥ 1source record 10946
Thank you so much!! Just did this and they reversed it. If they didn’t, I was going to say what you put hahaha♥ 1source record 10947
not Navy Federal♥ 1source record 10948
Yup especially the military CUs. I been with Orange County credit union for 13 yrs.♥ 1source record 10949
you are ine of those angels 😭 I had a lady refund every over draft I ever had. I cried in my car for an hour. it literally saved us that month. I went to buy groceries and my medication I hadn't had for weeks. People like you do gods work for real.♥ 1source record 10950
I learned this with my recent bank I worked for how things ate into their bonuses and they wouldn’t do certain things and I honestly was like wow, that’s really selfish in a way.♥ 1source record 10951
I worked in collections for a major bank yearsssssss ago and I didn’t care what story you told me, I refunded fees and rescheduled payments as far out as the system allowed. I also cried and laughed with you, depending on what you needed at the time. My collection stats were terrible lmaooooo. I quit before they fired me 😆♥ 1source record 10952
Chase has actually been a lifesaver for me on refunding my fees, you just have to ask. They also have a limit but some is better than none. If one says no just call back and more likely than not the next person will.♥ 1source record 10954
so we have to call each time ? like i bank with frost and every $5 you spend after the allowed $100 over draft , it’s a $35 over draft fee.. i have 2 kids and live on my own♥ 1source record 10955
PNC? I was told the same thing and we’ll get in trouble if we refund fees.♥ 0source record 10956
Yes Inhave had overdraft fees and interest fees on cc refunded (maybe also bc I’m a nice lady who doesn’t go off on the cust service rep)♥ 0source record 10957
When I was a bank teller supervisor, if someone who didn’t have an account with us came in with a $100 check or something their family member wrote them, I would waive the check cashing fee.♥ 0source record 10961
why would ANYONE have 200k with a bank?! absolutely not. straight into stocks so I can make more money than that bank pays me♥ 0source record 10962
My mom works for the bank I bank with and she would have her coworker refund the overdraft fees for me when I was younger. Since family can’t help family, she’d have a coworker do it lol♥ 0source record 10963
thankfully this is not always true. when I was banking with a canadian bank as a poor uni student with barely any savings, I told them that I was a student. the lovely teller asked me from what date i became a uni student, i told them and more than likely had to show them my student id (this was a few years ago- approx 2022, i dont recall) so they back dated a refund for me, the money that they took from me when I was under an adult account, because a student account has cheaper fees. I don't bank with them anymore for debt reasons😫and they're not always the best besides that moment♥ 0source record 10964
[account] a single mom of 2 toddlers, I was negative $3 one morning and ended up having to pay $250 in fees♥ 0source record 10965
On that note, people in the Spanish telephone line can be nicer and more likely to refund you for an overdraft fee♥ 0source record 10967
Not true at all. I ALWAYS rebate overdraft fees cause we out here struggling.♥ 0source record 10969
Yearly banks write off 10% debts od their clients coz they cant won them in court♥ 0source record 10970
What bank did you work for😳 I’ve worked in different financial institutions banks and credit unions and although they weren’t jumping to give back fees they were willing. Especially credit unions. Credit Unions are the way to go though for sure.♥ 0source record 10971
omg that happened to me as a homeless teen- the dude said he is really sorry and cannot help me. I had $20 to get something to eat . and he refunded me , even tho he said sorry I can't do anything. I hope he's doing good.♥ 0source record 10972
TD BANK gives you 3-4 refunds on overdraft fees a year. Also if you get overdraft they give you 24 business hours to replenish your account before charging the fee♥ 0source record 10976
Hahahaha as a person who worked at a big bank and reversed fees often… like hourly… it doesn’t eat into your bonus. 🤣♥ 0source record 10978
never said YOUR bonus. where I worked it was only district managers up that ever saw that money and we weren't even supposed to know about it♥ 0source record 10979
I’d call WF all the time to reverse. Often they did but not always. Kind of depends on who answered the call and how forgiving they were. Worst they can say is no so always try!♥ 0source record 10981
It really depends on the bank. At the place I work it all depends on the situation♥ 0source record 10982
Hence bank verse credit union, I can vouch for the biggest credit union, we do help. Get a credit union sis!♥ 0source record 10983
can confirm this is true♥ 0source record 10986
I felt that chase was very flexible with refunding my overdrafts, I was only told no once because I had over TEN within a year but then the rep hinted at being able to refund if I my overdrafts are due to covid so I blamed covid on my financial problems and boom, he refunded.♥ 0source record 10987
I use keesler and it says you can get it back i just havent done it♥ 0source record 10989
This is completely true! I used to work for a bank. It was called profit sharing!!♥ 0source record 10991
Idk about chase but Wells Fargo if you ask for it they will say either no or “we can do a 20% refund (or sth similar” and if you tell them “nope. I want it all” they will refund ALL of it.♥ 0source record 10992
My credit union refunds me all the time when my pay comes in late and a bill come sour earky♥ 0source record 10993
Literally called yesterday and she was the one who brought up refunding me it♥ 0source record 10994
Someone did this for me. It may have been you. You saved me that day. ❤️♥ 0source record 10995
Imma guess it Bank of America. They are all kinds of greedy and shady! literally the WORST bank!♥ 0source record 10996
interesting. Chase has never denied me when I requested a reversal on an overdraft fee. and I use to have to do it A LOT.♥ 0source record 10997
I found this out when I had a customer service rep put a stop on my debit card. didn't say a word, then when I called back into customer service they basically said too bad so sad. no penalties for her♥ 0source record 10998
Depends on what bank you’re with… Chase bank will grant you reversals every 6 months. There is no limit to how many they can reverse but if you’re nice to the banker they will forgive it all 😂♥ 0source record 11000
yes! i’ve gotten my fee back but i had to fight on the phone with three ppl and eventually one nice guy did it♥ 0source record 11001
As a single mom, there’s nothing you can’t do without to make sure they’re fed anyways. If you need your $35 back for being irresponsible to feed the kids too…. Problematic and needs to revisit priorities!!♥ 0source record 11002
tell me you don't live in Ca without telling me. it's not always bad choices or priorities ✌️♥ 0source record 11003
Not sure about the bonus comment, but banks do make a lot of money in fees. I worked in banking for about 10 years and use to refund like it was my job…♥ 0source record 11005
My mom was a banker for 30 years... She started as a teller when they were still using manual imprinters for credit cards and personal checks were still a necessity, left as a manager and banker in the age of applepay and zell. She could write a book about how much banks suck. She's a financial wiz, tho.♥ 0source record 11010
But like who knows about Wells Fargo, because recently they’ve made it harder than ever.♥ 0source record 11011
They will if you go to the Manager and threaten to file a complaint with the CFPB.♥ 0source record 11012
Banks= for profit institutions; credit unions = not for profit institutions look it up.♥ 0source record 11013
It actually violates Reg E to incentivize an employee for retaining or gaining overdraft income. Happy to answer ?’s about Reg E all day.♥ 0source record 11014
and I dont care if I accidently overdraw for 2k and then let them close the account♥ 0source record 11015
Luckily when I worked at Midflorida and they had no problem refunding them as long as it wasn’t a repeat or frequent thing.♥ 0source record 11017
sounds about right. I've had these issues with my bank. they tell me to sign up for overdraft protection but then never notify me anymore♥ 0source record 11019
Thankfully never had this problem. I overdraft maybe once every 5 years so they never have a problem refunding me.♥ 0source record 11020
are they supposed to care? I mean if they did it for 1, then they'd do it for every one...its more of a pick and choose on the low type system.♥ 0source record 11021
You’re absolutely right.. Once I seen the branch manager refund all her fav clients, I knew I was about to help whomever I can♥ 6source record 11024
Say it with me, kids: if you see someone stealing essentials, no you didn’t♥ 1source record 11025
It’s not free money. And most banks offer 1 time overdraft per year. If you do it every month, that is no longer a matter of you accidentally went over, it’s a matter of your income or budget no longer works. A credit line is the better option if you need to over extend yourself, but only if you have the means and income to repay it cyclically. People who cry that you don’t reverse their billionth overdraft charge are taking advantage of the system.♥ 0source record 11026
tell me you've never been poor without telling me you've never been poor. bless you, I hope you never know the fear of real hunger.♥ 0source record 11027
You deserve the world. I was a staring single mom, and people like you helped me survive. 💜♥ 0source record 11030
This is dependent on the bank. Most banks will refund you as long as you’re not abusing it but they’re definitely quicker to refund people who have tons of money in the bank/investments than the single mom who can’t afford to buy groceries♥ 0source record 11031
banks do not give a single f*ck about poor people. that's for sure.♥ 0source record 11036
& who owns all the banks and taught everyone else all this junk? 🧃🧃👃👃♥ 0source record 11037
Wells Fargo DID open up fake accounts under soooooooo many people♥ 4,628source record 12333
Yep and they had an asset restriction so they couldn’t profit over a certain amount from new accounts. Guess what? That asset restriction was removed this year. Watch out!♥ 0source record 12336
I have a friend who said Wells Fargo took her VA disability check from her account due to a car rental dispute. They granted her a "provisional credit" and reversed it after supposedly contacting the rental company. They did not email her or let her know they were taking her money. It literally was all the income she had and pretty much was behind on all her bills because they wiped out her account. Wells Fargo is shady AF!♥ 0source record 12337
I had one opened on the exact date I gave birth to my daughter!😳 They were shocked when I told them that lol.♥ 0source record 12339
They stole $400 from me and i had to threaten to sue to get my money back. This was in 2017.♥ 0source record 12343
They did it twice to me and I fully expect them to do it again. I’ve never even banked with or looked into banking with them.♥ 1source record 12344
As soon as I realized I kept getting all these scam charges to my account, I closed my account. Never had that problem again where I am at now.♥ 0source record 12347
My friends brother worked at Wells Fargo for over 10 years. They made him open up multiple accounts while managers lied to him about why these accounts had to be opened. After this was discovered he was fired and got in trouble and managers acted like they didn’t know anything about this♥ 1source record 12349
I worked for Regions Bank for years. They have done the same thing but haven't been caught yet.♥ 0source record 12351
they were a bit racist I had a bid settlement coming in and they canceled my account . but let cartels use their banks♥ 20source record 14741
JP Morgan was literally one of the many companies that helped to fund slavery in America so that doesn’t surprise me♥ 5source record 14743
And it was started after America occupied Haiti and took money from the government. Google it♥ 3source record 14744
I mean the context is just that they’re the biggest bank in the world, so imagine what they’re able to leverage over you in regards to that. Just smaller banks that actually have to WORK for your business and trust is good.♥ 15source record 14747
I have a Chase Sapphire card. it's probably my favorite card.♥ 1source record 14749
I wanted to bank with them so bad bc of the Disney cards and then one day book they closed my account bc they decided to not do business and closed all my accounts wouldn’t give me a reason why other than chase doesn’t want a banking relationship with you. No fraud no NSF’s no overdrafting ever weirdest shit♥ 0source record 14751
My husband just cancelled his after last year. Shady af.♥ 0source record 14753
Chase is actually really good. We have always banked through chase. They send their employees monthly boxes of gifts, and have always helped with frauds, scams, etc. Chase is one of the best banks, and truly values their customers.♥ 1source record 14757
When you’re checks are on hold for 1-2 weeks Most Banks & FDIC banks are basically loaning your “money” to other parties/companies and putting it back into your account.♥ 137source record 14867
This is crazy because I’ve actually made comments before on money that I had to wait for like what did they spend it? I guess they did lol😂🥰💗♥ 2source record 14868
Yes it’s more of an FDIC thing than the bank itself. They use it for insurance, loaning to partners, etc. it def makes me not want to keep my money in the bank♥ 2source record 14869

Archive: 108 index entries preserve 108 distinct source records · Every displayed synthesis count resolves to source-record IDs

Freeze your credit file17 index entriesA short, practical thread: where to do it, what a soft pull is, and what freezing does not stop.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Freeze your credit file

Source-backed answers are shown before diagnostics; the complete source archive remains below.

Freeze your credit file

17 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are getting card offers you did not ask for and want to stop the checks behind them

How commenters applied it: 17 records. A short, unusually clean thread. The instruction is to freeze your file with each of the three reporting agencies so that nothing can be pulled without you lifting it, and the replies supply the how: create an account on each agency's website rather than phoning, and freeze from there. The correction that matters comes from someone in the industry — soft inquiries do not move a score, hard inquiries do — which narrows the claim without destroying it, and another commenter names the practice of repeated issuer inquiries as the thing they reported.

What readers reported: You don't have to call. Go to their websites and create free accounts. Then you can just log in and freeze your credit.

Limit: One commenter's report of a score rising after a freeze is anecdotal and the mechanism is disputed in the same thread. Freezing also blocks your own applications until you lift it, which the thread mentions only in passing.

What the replies added1

Not true cuz once you have a credit card they can check your credit for a few years.

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Freeze your credit reports so credit card companies can’t snoop or make excuses to lower your credit limit or make unauthorized credit check. If it’s frozen they have to contact you or ask for permission. Credit card companies can lower your credit score every time they check without your knowledge

source record 13895♥ 872
Later-arriving source

Yes if frozen. I’m 40 yrs old. They can eee all activity once they have access and you have a card say like AMEX

posted about 9 days after the source
Zero-like source

Not true cuz once you have a credit card they can check your credit for a few years.

posted about 9 days after the source

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Across 17 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Attach it to an existing routine” (2 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

17index entries
17distinct source records
4%of parent category
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1top-level comments
16replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
1asks a question
0says they intend to try it
16other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Observable tactic structures

Attach it to an existing routine 2

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

Browse the original comments17 preserved records · 17 of 17 source records accounted for
Freeze your credit reports so credit card companies can’t snoop or make excuses to lower your credit limit or make unauthorized credit check. If it’s frozen they have to contact you or ask for permission. Credit card companies can lower your credit score every time they check without your knowledge♥ 872source record 13895
The 3 primary reporting agencies. People call them credit bureaus, but they’re not bureaus at all♥ 16source record 13896
Ty! Is that who I call to freeze it? I swear mine is going down bc random companies are running checks to offer me cards I don’t even want♥ 20source record 13897
It’s still stalker ish to me one of my credit card was doing inquiries 5 times in one month and I reported them♥ 9source record 13899
We give some companies permission to look at our credit periodic by agreeing to the terms and conditions. But not all.♥ 2source record 13901
True but periodically . Care credit had a lawsuit recently for targeting African Americans and Latinos credit scores and they lost♥ 8source record 13902
You don't have to call. Go to their websites and create free accounts. Then you can just log in and freeze your credit.♥ 9source record 13903
Yes, call them but it’s easier to make your account online. They’ll ask you some questions about yourself to identify you. Then you can make a password in a username and look at everything.♥ 11source record 13904
I’ve had mine frozen and noticed it going up now when it used to just stay put I went from 537 to 658♥ 11source record 13907
Make an online account with all 3 credit report companies ( start with transunion) and press freeze option or call them♥ 10source record 13909
call the burroughs , equifax, trans union, and the last one i can’t remember♥ 5source record 13912
I literally just did all 3 just because of this comment! I need to repair my credit badly and while I’m working on it, I don’t need the snooping 😭♥ 5source record 13913
It’s illegal! Report them to consumer finance as well♥ 4source record 13914
Yes freeze your credit report. No one will be able to pull your credit without you unfreezing your credit.♥ 4source record 13915
I use to work for Wells Fargo, this happened ALL the time♥ 2source record 13916
Not true cuz once you have a credit card they can check your credit for a few years.♥ 0source record 13923
Yes if frozen. I’m 40 yrs old. They can eee all activity once they have access and you have a card say like AMEX♥ 0source record 13925

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Work: HR, the paper trail and getting hired605 records · 9 sub-topicsThe largest sustained argument in the corpus, and the one where the practical advice is most specific: write it down, and where to file. 605 records.
HR is there to protect the company36 index entriesThe most-repeated single claim in the corpus, restated by HR staff themselves — including the ones who say it cost them their own job.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: HR is there to protect the company

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HR is there to protect the company

36 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are deciding whether to take a workplace problem to HR

How commenters applied it: 36 records. The most-repeated single proposition in the corpus, and the notable thing is who repeats it. HR staff themselves post to agree with it — one says the function was created to serve the employer, another says an HR person who genuinely sides with workers gets removed, and a third says they are fair to everyone and resents the generalisation. The practical content sits in the replies rather than the claim: blind-copy anything important to a personal address, do not access work email from a personal phone because those records can be subpoenaed, and one cybersecurity engineer objects to auto-forwarding on security grounds and gives an alternative way to keep copies.

What readers reported: As the cybersecurity engineer please don’t do this… I support the bcc function if it’s allowed but what you recommended is how your company gets a business email compromise and or I can only assume any company that hasn’t blocked that isn’t using a good edr or one at all, so you risk higher tier remote access Trojans or ransomware which gets your company on the news 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 just don’t, you can simply export the email as a pst file and put it on an external drive by right clicking the email in the mailing client 💯

Limit: This is a claim about a job function rather than about any named employer, and several HR professionals in the thread reject it for their own workplaces. Copying company material to a personal account may itself breach your contract.

What the replies added1

Yes I wish younger me knew this… it broke my heart. ☹️

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I work in IT. We can see your forwards and we don’t usually let people do it (unfortunately).

source record 7769♥ 1

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HR is not your ally at all. always save and time stamp everything you send in an email to everyone in case you get fired and need an attorney.

source record 7734♥ 4,509
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Y’all are working for the wrong company! I work in HR Tech and the things I see HR do that costs the company so much money to support the employee is insane. Comments like this make me grateful to work at a place that cares about its people at least to some extent!

posted about 41 days after the source♥ 2
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What if it’s HR AT a Law Office?? 🤦🏻‍♀️That’s where I work 😏

posted about 27 days after the source

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What the counts show

Across 36 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Attach it to an existing routine” (4 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

36index entries
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What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
1explicitly reports a limit or failure
3asks a question
0says they intend to try it
32other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

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Attach it to an existing routine 4Swap instead of subtract 3Change the sentence 2

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Browse the original comments36 preserved records · 36 of 36 source records accounted for
Oh yeah, was on a call with one of the filthy pigs the other day, their whole aura is so evil♥ 75source record 4411
HR as a whole was literally founded to help companies. Nowhere did I say every individual HR employee is bad or doesn’t support the people.♥ 36source record 4413
Most of them selfish tho, I’ve worked with ones who hurt me so bad. But me personally I’m always against the company and with the workers and their rights that’s I always quit🥲 I can’t stand unfairness.♥ 9source record 4414
You remind me of our HR! She’s about ethics over short term profits, and making sure employees and clients are physically and emotionally safe. She’s been a blessing in the awful things I’ve gone through. She even asked about the worst parts (professionally) of our first interactions so she could make the process not so crappy for others going through it 🥰♥ 4source record 4415
I’m so happy to hear that dear. I love to see that humanity still exists 🥹♥ 1source record 4416
Y’all are working for the wrong company! I work in HR Tech and the things I see HR do that costs the company so much money to support the employee is insane. Comments like this make me grateful to work at a place that cares about its people at least to some extent!♥ 2source record 4420
Is it possible to work in HR but protect the workers? It’s one of the jobs I can get with my degree and I wanna work before getting my masters♥ 1source record 4423
I’m sure it is, but you’ll have to find the company that isn’t morally corrupt.♥ 0source record 4424
I fear this is not a secret nor you need to “reveal” once you quit a job. ✨♥ 0source record 4431
Learned this when trying to report an SA incident at my old job by a senior position. She was fired but suddenly “work was short” for my position too♥ 0source record 4432
Yep. They chose an absolute looney who bullied me beyond belief over me and I quit that centre - I’ve NEVER been permanent in ELC ever since♥ 0source record 4434
As HR…… if you are ACTUALLY for the people they will get rid of you.♥ 1source record 4440
fr they orchestrated a whole thing. this one night shift supervisor was sh*t at his job. The whole nightshift left early every day and they would leave frozen orders on the dock outside the freezer for such a long time. they left work for evening shift all the time, work they could have completed. but the supervisor didn't care. then he moved to day shift supervisor, and they hired someone else for nights. they put all the blame on the new night super, said he had to get the night shift in order. he had to make them stay a full shift, so the employees ended up complaining and hating, while that one that moved to days ended up being praised and always whispering into the gen managers ear, gossiping about everyone else. then the gen manager flat out lied about the night shift, made him sign a paper, fired him, and their hr went along with it all. probably had a hand in it. she was a total yes man. they're one of the biggest cold storage companies around here. PMO.♥ 0source record 4442
HR is not your ally at all. always save and time stamp everything you send in an email to everyone in case you get fired and need an attorney.♥ 4,509source record 7734
Extra heavy on the BCC your personal email, because if they really want to, they can go in your Outlook and wipe individual emails, go through your local folders and wipe documents, etc.♥ 88source record 7735
Still gotta send it to your personal system. The issue is that they can also control your local folders, meaning anything on your computer that doesn't have access to the internet.♥ 1source record 7737
Factsssss just make sure no client data is in the email and you’re golden.♥ 7source record 7738
& don’t use your personal phone to access your work email. They can subpoena your phone records if needed.♥ 6source record 7739
In what capacity? I’m just curious, I work cyber and if your company is sophisticated enough they likely have what is called a MDM, mobile device management policy and if you read it exactly what it says is what I can see, it’s not something I made or can change and is very transparent (assuming this is a Microsoft email org) outside of that many states are overtly banning companies from letting employees use their phones for work unless the company pays the phone bill and or provides you a leased company phone♥ 2source record 7740
As the cybersecurity engineer please don’t do this… I support the bcc function if it’s allowed but what you recommended is how your company gets a business email compromise and or I can only assume any company that hasn’t blocked that isn’t using a good edr or one at all, so you risk higher tier remote access Trojans or ransomware which gets your company on the news 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 just don’t, you can simply export the email as a pst file and put it on an external drive by right clicking the email in the mailing client 💯♥ 4source record 7741
Layman’s terms: open outlook/mailing client, click on that email so you are actively reading it, then wherever you clicked to select the email double click it so it opens it as its own email page if that makes sense, then at the top (called the action bar) click file and then save as on the left side and you can save it as any of the formats you prefer and it will be viewable offline by you♥ 2source record 7743
yup. my ex employer targeted me for my disability (and also took pictures of my prescription pill bottles) so i went to HR and they just fired me. i got a lawyer and we contacted the EEOC and now they're under investigation with my pending lawsuit. HR doesn't care about the employees sadly, learned that the hard way♥ 2source record 7746
This happened to me!! I learned real quick she was protecting the company and I tried to stand up for myself and explain how mistreated I was by my manager withhh examples and was still fired.♥ 1source record 7749
This. If I have learned anything from corporate America, it is that HR is NOT there for the employees they are 100% employed to protect the company and they will lie, gaslight and work against you. Especially if you reach out for help. Never look weak to them. They are liars.♥ 1source record 7750
And document everything! Check your state laws to find out if your state is a one party state. If it is you should also be recording everything that happens to you.♥ 1source record 7756
I documented everything and was told that I was in a right to work state so too bad♥ 1source record 7757
And neeeeever.. go to the EEOC.. they work for the businesses as well..♥ 0source record 7766
I have proof of harassment of my former employer but my husband didn’t want me to sue 😩 I was mistreated so bad verbally ugh wish I would’ve and I have all the proof♥ 3source record 7767
3 months ago I went to HR about my manager and her increasing/widely noticeable hostility towards me and they told her, she confronted me in her office and shut the door while I was on crutches from ACL surgery a week prior. On Monday, I was sick and went home hoping to use PTO and that afternoon, saw my access to Outlook/Teams had been revoked. Tuesday morning, my belongings were brought from my cubicle to the lobby. I emailed HR on Tuesday and asked for the cause of my termination, to which the head of HR ignored me so I followed up with the second assoc and she emailed me a letter which only stated that it served as documentation that I’d been terminated and it did not state a reason. This company makes millions and I feel like I actually have a case♥ 1source record 7768
I work in IT. We can see your forwards and we don’t usually let people do it (unfortunately).♥ 1source record 7769
What if it’s HR AT a Law Office?? 🤦🏻‍♀️That’s where I work 😏♥ 0source record 11995
I genuinely wanted to sue for wrongful termination because my manager marked me up for multiple false thing an tried to assault me twice. It’s been 2 years now and I still can’t find a job because of it♥ 0source record 11996
HR is never for the workers, but always for the company. no matter how legit your case is, they’re gonna find a way to keep the company in good standing and get rid of you.♥ 116source record 14987
I got let go during covid, while I was off WITH covid!! supposed to have an exit interview..never happened. but you better believe HR and my boss got a strongly worded email from me lol♥ 0source record 14990
I have one scheduled for Tuesday and I don’t want to do it at all lol it’s so pointless to me.♥ 1source record 14991
me too. every time i have a problem at work and someone’s like call HR!! im like nah ill say what i need to say and peace out lol♥ 2source record 14995

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Nope. If you are not being paid, they have to give you 30 minutes uninterrupted. At 29 minutes they have to pay you for the whole break. I got fired for paying people for their breaks when managers called them back on the floor at 29 minutes. My argument in court was the managers should have been disciplined for pulling them off break. I should not have been fired for paying the employee the legal time because 30 minutes is 30 minutes. I won that case. 30 minutes of uninterrupted time or they have to pay you.

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If only I didn't work for my father-in-law. I know I could win a fat check.

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I wasn’t able to due because all I had was a verbal agreement & zero documentation. Talked with multiple lawyers and all said it was fkd up but without those records we had nothing. Broke me cause I loved my job so much. 😭

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The employee handbook does nothing because HR sides with upper management. Trust me. They’ll find a way to override the companies own book. I’ve seen it done way too many times.

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Unfortunately no. If they can provide you with a space free from instruction, they can do that. I know because I had to do the same thing with all 3 of mine. It's bullshit, but its legal.

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Former HR manager. Document everything and sue. Dates, times, keep a detailed record and sue. I've won 4 lawsuits for myself and lost a few because of this. Let them do it and document. Stay quiet and sue.

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Wish I would’ve read this post before I worked for U-Haul

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Ugh, it’s always the retainer for me. I have a case and the attorney I was going to hire charges a 7500 retainer. Now idk how to sue this employer when I have a case. Any thoughts?

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Former HR manager. Document everything and sue. Dates, times, keep a detailed record and sue. I've won 4 lawsuits for myself and lost a few because of this. Let them do it and document. Stay quiet and sue.♥ 30,690source record 3875
I didn’t sue but I worked at vitamin shoppe as the key holder (lowest manger level) they fired the assistant manager and store manager the same day, made me run the store for 3 months by myself, no extra pay then they were going to try to hire in a new store manager and assistant manager instead of move me up I had documentation on everything I did for those 3 months and how I ran the whole store by myself, one of the big managers came to Indiana from New Jersey just to tell me how good of a job I did for 3 months and that he was proud of me and promoted me! Always document and advocate for yourself, if you’re an easy target you’re easily replaced♥ 825source record 3876
When we say document, we literally mean even just keeping a log in a notebook - it goes a long way to just have a list of dates and incidents pre-prepared. Now go forth and litigate!♥ 612source record 3878
we haven't done that but we should have but it's documented in hr♥ 4source record 3879
Does it have to be reported to HR especially if there are cameras? Cause I’m not trying to get even more retaliation and fired for reporting it to HR as well.♥ 14source record 3881
Sometimes it’s about HR. I would seek legal advice if I were you♥ 10source record 3882
Oh absolutely everything to the personal email 👌🏾 everything♥ 1source record 3889
Can I sue for having an ada accommodation but HR is forcing me to go back IO despite my doc note saying driving is a risk to my life and others?♥ 27source record 3890
I would contact your county's disabilities services immediately. The EEOC loves claims like this. Too many people are terrified to go up against their employer. You can only legally give out name, start and end date and job title if they call your employer. Anything outside of that is illegal unless you list them as references.♥ 31source record 3891
Possibly, especially if your disability is documented. They must reasonably accomodate.♥ 8source record 3892
Absolutely… look for a human rights lawyer. They usually don’t bill unless you get paid.♥ 2source record 3894
Yes that’s super illegal♥ 5source record 3897
Use chat gpt! They keep a great running record and documentation for you ✨allegedly✨♥ 2source record 3899
Daily journal is great. The date it was done, exactly what was said and done, where it was done, and the time it was done.♥ 6source record 3900
I used to either record as a voice note for convo (single party state) or jot in a pocket notebook the date, time, who/what/where OR if in a hurry I dictate into my phone notes app! Then upload to spreadsheet available offline.♥ 3source record 3901
I’m actually being severely mistreated at work and I have a few long videos. What should be my next step in sueing?♥ 7source record 3902
File a complaint with your states EEOC. Its done online. It will take a minute for it to go through, keep documenting everything and start looking for a new job. document how much time and stress looking for a new job cost you mentally, physically and emotionally. That will add to the hostile work environment case.♥ 4source record 3903
Preach. Ppl get reeeeal scared the second you have dates and times and exact quotes.. 👌🏽 Dr.Ramani says the same too cuz there’s so many unwell ppl in work spaces.♥ 6source record 3904
In order for this to work, don’t you have to report the behavior to HR first and give them the opportunity to rectify it?♥ 3source record 3905
Always follow chain of command and document it every step of the way.♥ 4source record 3906
Yup. I did this and sued for £12k! So glad I kept record.♥ 3source record 3909
Yes. Document everything! Times, dates, members present, reason, outcomes, all of it. Even where things took place.♥ 3source record 3910
Why you suing 4 times ??! Maybe it’s you…people like you are ruining the country♥ 1source record 3911
There are laws for a reason. People get too comfortable and break them. Knowing employment law is so powerful. Maybe your just mad that someone holds corporations accountable.♥ 3source record 3912
30 days is enough♥ 2source record 3914
And allllllways ask to get agreements or any important information in writing. I always ask my employer to send me an email when anything is stated verbally.♥ 2source record 3919
question...my employer requires me to stay logged in the hospital phone while clocked out for lunch. I have to be available to my floor at all times.Is this legal? I have been doing it for 32 years♥ 1source record 3924
Nope. If you are not being paid, they have to give you 30 minutes uninterrupted. At 29 minutes they have to pay you for the whole break. I got fired for paying people for their breaks when managers called them back on the floor at 29 minutes. My argument in court was the managers should have been disciplined for pulling them off break. I should not have been fired for paying the employee the legal time because 30 minutes is 30 minutes. I won that case. 30 minutes of uninterrupted time or they have to pay you.♥ 2source record 3925
thank you. I wonder if HR knows this is going on in my dept. I work in Respiratory and there are only 5 of us that cover a 250 bed hospital. we have to be available for immediate responses like Codes and Stat pages. What should I do about this?♥ 0source record 3926
Make sure if you get pulled off break before your 30 minutes is up, you get paid for your break. I would talk to your direct supervisor first unless you are more comfortable with HR. I get why the policy is there, but 30 minutes is 30 minutes.♥ 1source record 3927
After that, start documenting every time you dont get paid. Than that would go to the wage and hour division for your state.♥ 0source record 3928
my clinical manager knows...he just tells us to clock back in if we get paged for a stat procedure. I guess it is like you can eat lunch while clocked out but you still need to be available during your 12 hour shift♥ 1source record 3929
Next time he tells you make sure you say he needs to adjust your time.♥ 0source record 3930
ok. thank you. we are the only dept that has to stay logged into our area. I knew it was wrong but he tells us it's mandatory to clock out for lunch. if we don't clock out, he will take 30 minutes from our time♥ 0source record 3931
He can't do that either. Ooooo, that's he can get personally sued for. Girl, absolutely not.♥ 0source record 3932
I would write a formal complaint to HR about that. Signed, dated, and copied. Go to your states wage and hour website and write the exact law down on the complaint. Make a copy of your complaint and hand deliver it to HR. That has to stop immediately.♥ 1source record 3933
thank you. I know it's wrong for him to do this but our HR seems to protect upper management over the employees. I've been there 32 years. it has been going on since then♥ 0source record 3934
They need to pay you properly for your time. I'm so sorry you have taken such a huge loss. My heart goes out to you. Thank you for all you have done and sacrificed. It does not go unnoticed.♥ 2source record 3935
😁😁😁thank you...he does other shady things too. he has been reported several times for different things, but nothing is ever done about it. or, at least we don't see it♥ 1source record 3936
Start the documenting process. They can get sued and he can get personally sued. These people think they are untouchable.♥ 1source record 3937
I did this with my last company and threatened because they didn’t pay all who got laid off their last paycheck♥ 1source record 3943
Best response yet!!! Love yourself enough to leave immediately.♥ 0source record 3945
im giving my notice August 4th. u know.. insurance purposes so it last me the whole month. everybody plays the game 😂♥ 0source record 3946
if you believed you were bullied, treated unfairly, does this apply to you♥ 1source record 3947
Depends. Its best to write it down in a notebook. that way no one knows what you are doing.♥ 1source record 3950
This depends on your state. Most states are one party concent. As long as you are involved in the recorded conversation, you are good to go in court. Check your state laws.♥ 1source record 3954
This is currently happening to my husband right now because the brewery he works for I also used to work for, and they have been allowing other employees to get away with certain things and not him. I am convinced that it is retaliation because I called out one of their managers for making a sexist remark but I didn’t have enough evidence to support it and they fired me♥ 1source record 3955
Document everything and file with the EEOC for hostile work environment.♥ 1source record 3956
My old job as a leasing agent made me forage tenants signatures. Wish I documented that.♥ 1source record 3957
And if someone calls you into their office to talk about something you think is wrong or shady, ask them to send you a recap of the meeting or request via email. They’ll straighten out real quick!♥ 1source record 3960
my ex employer targeted me for my disability, i went to HR about it and they wrote me up and then fired me. i'm only 21 with very little money so they didn't think anything would happen. i got a lawyer and we contacted the EEOC and now they're scrambling because they deleted so much evidence already LMFAO♥ 1source record 3961
How long do you have to wait until you can sue?♥ 0source record 3962
Depends on your state. Wisconsin gave me a year from the last event to file with the EEOC.♥ 1source record 3963
[account] I didn't really document much but I believe I got this still 🙏♥ 1source record 3964
My friends mother became a millionaire simply from documenting and then suing.. she sued 3 major corporations and won♥ 1source record 3965
EEOC while we still have it. Just make sure she is documenting everything.♥ 1source record 3967
got "laid off" right before coming back from maternity leave.... was never contacted again. takes more time/money on my end to try to get this asshole in trouble for it. I just hope his restaurant fails and he has a miserable life.♥ 0source record 3968
File with the EEOC. It's free and done online. They will do an investigation. Worse case scenario, the EEOC crawled up their ass and scared them. They won't do it again♥ 1source record 3969
it's been over a year. I gave up after I filed a paper the first time and he ignored it (he had 30 days) the next step was me getting a lawyer but I couldn't afford that. but thank you, because I'm sure he'd do it again! I just wish him nothing but the worst 💁🏼‍♀️♥ 1source record 3970
How much of your own money did you have to put up front for the lawyer?♥ 0source record 3973
EEOC filing is free. Do it now because we will have lost all workers rights by the end of the year.♥ 1source record 3974
Document dates, times and locations. Write a formal complaint to HR with the date and your signature, make a copy for your self, and hand it directly to HR. Hostile work environment. On your copy, write who you handed it to, what time it was and the date. If it keeps happening, document every incident. Give it 30 days for behavior to change and if it doesn't, file a complaint with the EEOC.♥ 1source record 3977
If he doesn’t say the n word again but starts harassing me after can I still file with the EEOC♥ 0source record 3978
Absolutely because that's retaliation. Document the retaliation the same way and follow the same steps with HR. Still file it under hostile work environment.♥ 1source record 3979
My previous manager rejected my 2 week notice and I ended up working for 6 months… could I have sued CVS?♥ 1source record 3980
They can't reject your 2 weeks. Especially CVS. They took full advantage of you. I'm so sorry.♥ 0source record 3981
hey i sent you a direct message, i really wanna know if soemthing my employer is doing is wrong♥ 1source record 3983
Do you have to pay the attorney up front or do any of them work based on if you win? I have a suit that Id like to begin for harassment.♥ 0source record 3985
tried to sue, Louisiana doesnt care abt employees. and no one would do anything because there wete only 6 workers total.♥ 1source record 3988
Ughhh but then it sucks when you live somewhere like FL with that “At Will Employment” bs. It’s gets them through all the loop holes every time.♥ 1source record 3989
Who should report nepotism hires to besides HR?l if HR is in on it? Like people just stacking up their staff with their close friends instead of hiring other qualified candidates♥ 1source record 3991
One of the biggest things with HR is a paper trail. There is a difference between a complaint and a formal complaint. Once you initiate a paper trail, a written signed and dated complaint that you have a copy of, thats when your paper trail starts. This could easily be filed under hostile work environment if they dont act and you have proper documentation. Policy violations, dates, times, what was said/done to who and the effects of the actions. You need minimum of 30 days of solid documentation, but its a wrap.♥ 0source record 3992
I did that. stupidly I did it on my company OneNote that was on my desktop. All the documentation I needed was gone the day before I got fired. funny how that works right♥ 1source record 3994
[account] seee! We need to keep record of everything♥ 1source record 3995
Send emails to yourself, keep a google doc log, keep a spiral notebook log, pretty much anything works but electronic with time stamps is probably gold standard♥ 1source record 3998
You can sue because someone told you that you smelled good and had a higher position than you. Quid pro quo baby love…. You can sue for pet names too like baby love 😂😂😂♥ 1source record 4001
Wish I would’ve read this post before I worked for U-Haul♥ 0source record 4002
I have a long list of things on my job, voice recordings, text messages, threats in both, plus the fact they went from 5 8 hour days to 4 10 hour days and for vacation, holiday and sick time, we only get paid for 8 hours still. Plus, they canceled my insurance because I was on short term disability and said I wasn’t working my 40 hours so I can’t keep it and want me to pay them 900$ a month for just me for insurance paid to them! I said it’s retaliation! They specifically said it was because I was out on disability and I have that on video♥ 0source record 4004
Best way to document is the create a project in ChatGPT and upload all conversations and content. When that time comes let it write you all the details with dates and all!♥ 0source record 4005
I've tried suing a few times for wrongful termination and got the run around♥ 0source record 4007
Ugh, it’s always the retainer for me. I have a case and the attorney I was going to hire charges a 7500 retainer. Now idk how to sue this employer when I have a case. Any thoughts?♥ 0source record 4013
I wish I would’ve done this to the last place I left. Those a holes.♥ 0source record 4015
This x’s 1000! Even if you are happy have a document folder on your personal computer/email of any convo, email, etc. Have everything in writing. If something happened they cut you off before you know.♥ 0source record 4016
Good for you!!! I got fired for getting pregnant. I'm so glad you did that!!! Hopefully you got a little more time with your little.♥ 0source record 4019
I’ve sued 1 company for wrongful termination. That make it too easy not to sue them. Making you watch those videos upon being a new hire. But yup. Documentation is key♥ 0source record 4021
What if the company someone worked for before, during & after their pregnancy fired them for missing work in 2019 bc a child kept getting sick. ONLY to find out the child’s terminally diagnosed? That a lawsuit? Asking for a…friend 😉♥ 0source record 4024
I'll respond when I'm done at work. I'm not ignoring you I promise.♥ 0source record 4027
I wish I knew this 4 months ago♥ 0source record 4031
I just got terminated for reporting fraud. I did keep all my emails & proof on a USB.♥ 0source record 4032
document yes, sue for everything no. Insurance pays settlements, insurance premiums go up, cost of everything goes up. Save the lawsuits for when they are really needed♥ 0source record 4033
I got fired for being on a reality show. I was a supervisor in the ED. I was on the show way before I worked there. I tried to sue. no one would take my case😢♥ 0source record 4034
Omg I’d love advice I’m in this situation now with a manager that’s created a hostile environment and has been racially discriminating poc in the office. They’re currently investigating her I have notes and receipts of these incidents. Employment lawyers told me to call back when they terminate me wonder if theres any thah will take the case before then.♥ 0source record 4037
So I just want to ask does it seem like I have a case? Xfinity has been charging cable internet and phone for 6 months, I had no clue because I only have internet 10.99 so I was auto paying. Bill got so high I was disconnected, I disputed and lost. They said I should have been paying attention. Then end up taking 280 out my account. Should I sue?♥ 0source record 4040
Tried this. I have tons of screenshots of unfair treatment, not respecting my verbal and personal boundaries and then retaliation. Reached out to HR, for an internal transfer and investigation..sent them a report that the ambulance was called because I was having a panic attack due to the work incident and HR said just do what your manager says lol. A lawyer group said they didn’t have grounds for a suit either lol. I’m like how is this legal?♥ 0source record 4041
I was on the other end of this. A lady that used to be on my team and quit filed a lawsuit and tried to get me fired. Told a bunch of lies but I document and save EVERYTHING so it was easy for the lawyers to get this taken care of.♥ 0source record 4042
Except if you’re in a right to work state good luck with that♥ 0source record 4045
I'm in a right to work state. It depends on what happened and has a lot to do with documentation.♥ 0source record 4046
28 years with a company and got a new boss who hated me. NEVER had someone dislike me. She accused me of being drunk in a zoom call, she wrote me up for the dumbest things- I had given HR notice that I was being treated for a disability and two weeks later my position was “eliminated”. It’s been almost 3 years and I’m still devastated.♥ 0source record 4048
Do you have to sue within a certain time period after quitting♥ 0source record 4053
My job made me pump breast milk while I was working on the computer still, because I had my own private computer room. Like isn't it supposed to be a full break?♥ 0source record 4054
Unfortunately no. If they can provide you with a space free from instruction, they can do that. I know because I had to do the same thing with all 3 of mine. It's bullshit, but its legal.♥ 0source record 4055
I got hired by a nonprofit,they had me do alll the training and onboarding process,I stopped looking for other jobs and they have yet to assign me to anyone.Mind u I was hired May 9,can I sue?♥ 0source record 4056
I am thinking of doing this. I Purposely communicate through text with my boss to have records.♥ 0source record 4059
Unless it’s a big company and lawyers won’t risk going up against them then ur cooked♥ 0source record 4061
Hypothetically, let’s say I go to work and when I arrive there is human feces in our break room on the floor and going all the way out to our work hallway where many people are walking. It’s also 90 degrees in the warehouse and is humid. The poop sits for over 3 1/2 hours uncovered but blocked off by a whiteboard. They only cover it with cardboard boxes after employees mention it is a biohazard. They mention to us that area is blocked off and not to use the area, however we can visually see the poop all over the floor uncovered. Employer is aware that person who pooped on floor has medical issues but still lets them return to work for their shift. I understand proper ppe is needed for removal but it was uncovered on the floor like a lot of it, in a high traffic area near where we were all walking though. Just a really unusual situation and I believe it was handled poorly. Pretty sure this was an osha violation. Appreciate any input you have on this.♥ 0source record 4063
This comment is the GOAT. what if your company freezes your computer and you cannot get into your company email- not able to send yourself anything from that company bc it’s air tight.♥ 0source record 4065
BCC your personal email. Send that shit to yourself or take photos of the sent messages with your phone.♥ 1source record 4066
My husband is trying to sue his ex employer, and we’ve even looked at our state bar to find a lawyer and why doesn’t seem so impossible to find a lawyer that works with employment 😭♥ 0source record 4067
Can we use EEOC ? I'm getting in trouble for using my sick days to go to the doctor.♥ 0source record 4070
You should use PTO for this since it's pre-planned.♥ 0source record 4071
If you’re in the military just go to behavioral health get it documented. Up your disability ratings♥ 0source record 4075
If only I didn't work for my father-in-law. I know I could win a fat check.♥ 0source record 4076
I sent an email stating that I wanted it to be documented and no meetings. Hr said they didn’t find what my manager did wrong and I said I disagreeed and to document it still. Was this right?♥ 0source record 4077
I like this, but all the people who sued my former employer (children’s hospital), left with gags. I prefer freedom of speech.♥ 0source record 4078
thia is EXACTLY what I just commented! like who's out here ruining businesses and depleting people's bank accounts and families livelihoods just cuz they can. nah the way my karma is set up, I would never.♥ 0source record 4079
jeeze how many people have u tried to sue if u won 4 and lost a few others? are u out here like suing small businesses for not have proper wheel chair ramp accommodations or an accidently missed pile of spilled water on the floor?! ugh.♥ 0source record 4080
My company denied my short term while im out on medical loa-they pay for it, we cant pay for it. I went out before it was “active” can i do anything?♥ 0source record 4081
my job fired me 5 months pregnant after putting in my pregnancy accommodations, should i sue??♥ 0source record 4084
I should sue my employer, its been a year and half and I still don't have health insurance with them, first they said I gotta wait 8 months now its been over a year and nothing♥ 0source record 4085
Employment law paralegal I second this! Document EVERYTHING and sue. Companies will settle to prevent the bad press♥ 0source record 4089
What if it happened in 2019? I reported my manager and got fired♥ 0source record 4090
my work forced me into a higher sell per hour department that sold LV purses, but didn't let me sell anything but socks, then fired me for low sales, can I sue♥ 0source record 4091
And if EEOC takes your case they will use their attorneys at no charge to you.♥ 1source record 4094
IM DOING THUS NOW 😍❤️WISH ME LUCK I TURN IN PAPERWORK TUESDAY WITH ALL THE EVIDENCE 😁😁🥳🥳♥ 1source record 4095
buying a brand new car? probably hasn't been PDIed correctly, there will be issues. everything is done the morning of, or even 5/10 minutes before handover so nothing is checked properly. Your sensitive personal documents that they photocopy? Probably lost in the showroom for anyone to pick up. Used cars have a load of issues and they will do anything to cover it up until you buy it.♥ 0source record 4096
I wasn’t able to due because all I had was a verbal agreement & zero documentation. Talked with multiple lawyers and all said it was fkd up but without those records we had nothing. Broke me cause I loved my job so much. 😭♥ 0source record 4097
How about r**sm towards white person and favoritism in same rase by management 😞♥ 0source record 4099
Wish I knew this when I was pregnant working at [account] and they had me moving big ass speakers and still cut me from full time to part time.♥ 0source record 4100
this is exactly what helped me with the last three. any job I live on bad terms oh better believe I'm suing harassment, oh made a joke about my large breasts sexual harassment, everything♥ 0source record 4101
It also doesn’t hurt to google your employers before hiring. I found out my old boss had been arrested for obstruction/speeding right before I was hired. NOBODY knew. Small company. You bet your ass that tea 💅accidentally spilled💅 when I quit due to the owner being a toxic narcissist.♥ 0source record 4103
For what reasons can you sue a former employer? Does it go beyond harassment and discrimination?♥ 0source record 4105
My only advice keep a copy of your job description, offer letter, and EMPLOYEE HANDBOOK. Make sure you understand your states/ federal laws.♥ 8,866source record 6703
And for the love of god DOCUMENT IT. Write follow up emails that document what was said and ask for confirmation so that you have proof, or turn on the read receipts at least & make sure you follow up until you get confirmation via email, not verbal. You need this even just to get unemployment at times.♥ 171source record 6704
I got a offer letter for Barton & Carol as IC & And hen they asked me what day I could come in to start orientation, i day them a day that was the following week & they emailed me recanting the offer . I had just got out of surgery & i gave them the day I would’ve been able to go on work release . I was so sad♥ 29source record 6705
That is terribly disheartening - I don’t know anything to help you because I speak from my own experiences but definitely do your research. Companies are scheme-y.♥ 8source record 6706
I have a college degree. This is the 3rd job I've had that they hired me for one thing and assigned a completely different job once I started. TOTALLY Legal except I want to do the job they hired me fir in a field that I am educated in. Ridiculous.♥ 3source record 6707
If you can prove they switched the job, you can get unemployment if you leave BUT given that you have a degree, I’m assuming that’s not something you’d be interested in bc the disparity in income between having the job and being on unemployment would be pretty bad.♥ 1source record 6708
I can prove all if it. I will not have an issue finding a job. But if I am going to sit thorough this ridiculous exercise, I am goong to look for one sitting by my pool witha cocktail in my hand while she has to oay for my unemployment. I am not go running out the door because she doesn't like me. This person thinks that its OK to target people, cut their hours amd humiliate them by creating narratives that are false and now I can happily prove all of that and I think HR knows it and that is why I am still here with a smile on my face. BTW--her little friends make fun of my smile now but that pervasive and hostile behavior is being documented too.♥ 1source record 6709
As someone who is currently employed at a certain store that starts with a w and ends with almart. YES. These people will try to write you up for every mistake or minor thing you do. I now have a photo album of every page of the handbook on my phone incase they try me.♥ 16source record 6711
The employee handbook does nothing because HR sides with upper management. Trust me. They’ll find a way to override the companies own book. I’ve seen it done way too many times.♥ 9source record 6713
This. I had an employer breaking state laws; requiring employees to provide unpaid services, requiring employees to provide their own uniform without stipend, and more. He had everything he was doing wrong IN WRITING in the employee handbook. And I only ever had conversations with owner and manager over email, I always looped the owner in on the email if they weren't so they couldn't claim not being notified.♥ 4source record 6714
I asked HR to give me a clear description of my job title and duties to ensure I wasn't being underpaid for services. My job started to get better quick🤣. Never got the exact description but changes were made.♥ 3source record 6715
I’d follow this up by saying make sure it’s a PRINTED copy because I’ve had employers try to go back and change the original job description to add things to it after I advocated for myself about things 🙃♥ 2source record 6716
I have my job description and I am not anywhere close to doing what they hired me for. I was told they can change your job description and responsibilities without notice.♥ 1source record 6717
As someone who works in Healthcare Compliance YES ^^ the people at the top forget the rules they put in place & will say whatever to get their way, DOCUMENT EVERYTHING♥ 1source record 6719
I had it saved in an email but silly me cleaned out my emails after a year.♥ 1source record 6720
You'll be ignored Acosta/Actionlink HR is always on the side of management. Workers are expendable.♥ 1source record 6721
Yes, I just quit my part time job because they were demanding I work overtime. Also never ask HR for your job description when your arguing with your supervisor.♥ 1source record 6722
My husband and I used to work for a brewery, well he still works there I was fired, but we have been pushing for them to make an employee handbook for months, and they refuse to. They won’t even type out basic job descriptions because other people are being given specific privileges and other people are being punished forMoyna things. It’s wild… I’m tired.♥ 0source record 6728
I take screen shots of job postings when I apply to the job. once I get a rejection letter or it's been 90 days, I delete it. Useful as hell especially when they want to switch the hourly pay or part time/ full time. You can pull up your screenshot.♥ 0source record 6729
Depending on your state employers will have the right to add more duties that are not on the employee handbook because they will add a sentence that is at the employers discretion blah blah♥ 0source record 6733
What if my job is not following my job description and adding things to my plate? & they have me under a different job title as I do another job?♥ 0source record 6735
What if there was no offer letter, job description or handbook? And you’ve been there….many years and live in a red state. Asking for a friend obviously♥ 0source record 6736
Hey so think I’m being underpaid picked up manger duties all for them to post a manager role opening on linkkdd♥ 0source record 6738
I worked for a church and the pastor said to me “I’ve never had someone hold me to what was written in the job description before, it just changes” I was like dude. Literally everyday I’m throwing darts at expectations. Needless to say I quit my job and that church.♥ 0source record 6739
SUE THEM ALL everybody 😂bc if you look closely somebody always breaking the terms and agreements when the last time yall ever actually read your lease ,subscriptions work contracts etc♥ 3,804source record 9186
There’s a guy who has an entire tik tok channel talking about this and walks u through the process. I wish I could remember the account name. 😅♥ 183source record 9187
Yeah if I find him! I lost my main account a few months ago. Still trying to find all the people I followed 😭♥ 3source record 9192
I’m genuinely thinking about doing this with my apartment complex. I recently read through the lease because they’ve been annoying about it. They said we couldn’t get a third vehicle because my husband was getting his motorcycle which was BS because they have a specific clause in there about storing recreational vehicles like motorcycles, ATVs boats, etc., and it is allowed. They also said I’m not allowed to have privacy screens that go above the railing on my balcony BS. There is not a thing in the lease about that. Also they double as walls for my sukah when Purim comes around, so it’s technically a religious building and they can’t force me to take it down. Also, there is only a single handicap spot in the entire row of parking spots for my specific building in our apartment complex that is currently being used by somebody that does not have any handicap identification that they refuse to force the other person to move, and they also refused to put in another spot closer to my door, even though they are required to do so if requested, they said they had to talk to their lawyers they never did💀♥ 34source record 9195
You’re one of those residents . Sounds like you’re wrong and dont want fo follow policy 🙄😒♥ 0source record 9197
😂😂😂 actually I follow the rules of our apartment complex to a team. In fact you might call it malicious compliance.😂😂😂😂 You can’t force me to take down a religious structure and it’s extremely not fair to allow somebody who does not have disabled parking pass to park in a disabled parking spot when you have somebody with a spinal cord injury that can’t get to their car. It’s also not just me who is the problems with the apartment complex They kind of have a history.♥ 6source record 9198
You can file a free federal complaint with [link removed] HUD will investigate and intervene. Retaliation is illegal once this is filed♥ 26source record 9199
Only sue if you're going to get money- otherwise it's a waste of it. -an attorney 💓♥ 8source record 9202
Can you do this with the medical industry? Like hospitals & doctors too? Bc I got a few… 😮‍💨♥ 1source record 9206
That’s if you actually have the money to pay Attorneys to represent you upfront. They are no longer doing pro bono.♥ 1source record 9207
Who gon help me pay my attorney upfront tho🫩✋🏽 $350/hr like goddamn boy I better get 5k more than I put in♥ 0source record 9208
😂😂 if you search good enough you honestly can find a free legal advocate that can guide you through it there’s a lot of internship and law students as well that will help you do it for free as well♥ 1source record 9209
I'm currently about to sure [site removed] . they scammed me♥ 0source record 9210
How so? I always book through them. Haven’t had any issues so far.♥ 1source record 9211
How can I resolve an issue with my job. Im out on medical leave, they denied my short term bc I went out before it was “active” but Im an active employee. Also, they pay it, we as employees do not. Have u ever heard of this?♥ 0source record 9217
I second that, I’m about to sue the pants off of [account] for Less what’s hilarious is they thought I was going to accept pay for the time I was suspended and let it go. Don’t let the accent fool you babe my first Military occupation was 27D. Sheeesh, Emily should’ve dug a little deeper, or listened a little closer when I said it was never about the money, it was about the principle.♥ 0source record 9218
I have an entirepaper trail with our manager and the management company of our building for like 4 yrs and vids and everything lol I threaten them with legal action every 3 to 6 months at this point lmao♥ 0source record 9219
literally when my boss for this door to door company said “you’re not making enough sales can you find someone to get you soon” mind u in the contract i was to be given a 14 day notice to leave bc they provided housing♥ 0source record 9221
Upload your lease to chatgpt & ask it to argue whatever it is you’re fighting.♥ 0source record 9222
I bought a plane ticket that the airline couldn't find. I called them immediately. they kept giving me the wrong number. they promised to refund and I bought a ticket at the airport. Got an email promising me a refund. long story short. it's 6 months and they are refusing my refund. they have over 700+ Bbb complaints of the same thing they did to me. promise refunds, then never actually refunding you♥ 0source record 9224
one day I read those terms for a certain app and it was just bullshit cause they know we don't read them♥ 0source record 9228

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Report it, and what happens next34 index entriesWhat people say followed the complaint: the settlement, the NDA, the at-will state, and the lawyers who would not take the case.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Report it, and what happens next

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Report it, and what happens next

34 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You have reported something at work and want to know the realistic range of outcomes

How commenters applied it: 34 records. The claim is that a report is followed by a delayed termination, a payment and a non-disclosure agreement, and the replies are a spread of what actually happened. Some describe exactly that. Others describe the harsher version — fired with no payment and no agreement, or told by three lawyers that an at-will state made the case unwinnable. Several describe employers manufacturing a performance process afterwards. The advice that recurs is narrow and consistent: do not sign anything on the way out, and get independent advice before accepting a payment, because accepting it usually waives the right to sue — a point the original commenter concedes about their own case.

What readers reported: Most states are "at will". This means they can simply fire you without a reason and manufacture PIPS to justify it if you try to fight. Ex "I'm not firing you because you did ____. I'm just firing because."

Limit: These are individual accounts of individual disputes, several of them explicitly hedged by the people telling them. Employment law here is state- and country-specific and nothing in this card is legal advice.

What the replies added2

This is not true but okay

Pushback

Maybe so, but they would have to settle if they broke the law

Reported failure♥ 2

Source-record spotlights

Most engaged source

If you report something to HR, even though “retaliation is illegal”, sooner or later they’ll terminate you and give you a fat check and an NDA to sign on your way out the door.

source record 10839♥ 3,379
Later-arriving source

i gave my resignation after they wronging me for something i didnt have anything to do with... bad choice since i connected all calles emails conferences and also i was kind of the gossip bag everyone told everything either to me or infront of my desk.. i enjoyed spilling allll those in my resignation email.. not just work secrets even affairs and all😁😁 and i live in lebanon they couldnt do shit my contract even said my job was to report everything to the ceo😈😈

posted about 70 days after the source
Zero-like source

Most times they don’t even do that they just terminate you

posted about 22 days after the source

What the counts show

The exact phrase “endless money to fight that battle” recurs across 2 of the 34 source records in Report it, and what happens next; the complete archive stays available below.

34index entries
34distinct source records
5.6%of parent category
0.5%of the complete index
2top-level comments
32replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
5asks a question
0says they intend to try it
29other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Browse the original comments34 preserved records · 34 of 34 source records accounted for
If you report something to HR, even though “retaliation is illegal”, sooner or later they’ll terminate you and give you a fat check and an NDA to sign on your way out the door.♥ 3,379source record 10839
My poor son is going thru this right now over labor laws it’s terrible♥ 68source record 10840
don't sign and Sue♥ 7source record 10841
Allegedly. This happened at a hedge fund. Allegedly. They have endless money to fight that battle and I did not.♥ 16source record 10842
Maybe so, but they would have to settle if they broke the law♥ 2source record 10843
I know 3 people with legit cases - even one law firm said they would not file against the company telling client they would need a different law firm … laws for rich and powerful not for the people♥ 9source record 10846
Wait, can you tell me what happened? Why did you complain to HR? If you complain, they can fire you ?!♥ 9source record 10847
That’s what happened to my husband he complained and they made up a story and fired him. Don’t think there’s anything we could do now it’s been about 5 years.♥ 1source record 10849
Most states are "at will". This means they can simply fire you without a reason and manufacture PIPS to justify it if you try to fight. Ex "I'm not firing you because you did ____. I'm just firing because."♥ 6source record 10850
Yes happened to me! Use my whistleblower rights and still nothing happened to the executive director who is stealing from the nonprofit♥ 5source record 10854
Accepting the term check waived my rights to sue 🥰 obviously I could’ve still sued but I’m suing a hedge fund because they have endless money to fight that battle and I do not♥ 3source record 10855
How did you get that? My Eeoc meeting isn’t until DECEMBER 2025!♥ 2source record 10857
This happened to me my last check was Only 900… when I worked everyday. And they didn’t give me my pto hours. I’m in ATX♥ 1source record 10858
I literally just got terminated this morning for reporting fraud 2 weeks ago. Makes no sense. I kept all my proof♥ 1source record 10860
My partner always says the squeaky wheel gets grease but in reality the squeaky wheel gets replaced with a shiny new wheel that doesn’t make noise.♥ 1source record 10865
Some places are toxic so try not to enemies with your managers try to be smart how you report issues♥ 0source record 10866
I assure you the issue I reported was serious, and done in front of about 10 of our coworkers so I didn’t really have a choice about reporting in the first place. Allegedly.♥ 1source record 10867
I had to report a male coworker, 6 months later my ex who i have a no contact order on showed up, and they used it as an excuse to fire me... said I could have put my co workers in danger with him showing up and its "just not tolerated" smh now im banned from working for ANY allied company...♥ 0source record 10875
Most times they don’t even do that they just terminate you♥ 0source record 10876
lol don't sign the NDA and get an attorney instead.♥ 0source record 10877
Just don’t sign the nda♥ 0source record 10879
Legit told hr my boss was harassing me, they said I was crazy. I had a medical emergency 2 weeks later, week after that? Fired.♥ 0source record 10881
not in fl. depends on the state. in fl they can let you go for any reason and they don't have to tell you said reason.♥ 0source record 10882
And put a negative review in your file so you won’t get hired by them again♥ 0source record 10884
[account] And document everything! Check your state laws to find out if your state is a one party state. If it is you should also be recording everything that happens to you.♥ 0source record 10885
I just went through this and was forced to resign and i spoke with 3 lawyers and they all said because im in a at will state it will be hard for me to win. I (was) a manager and i kept emailing them about one bartender inn particular that created a hostile work environment for my team. Anytime i had to do a note to file or even speak with him there was always an email following up with a witness . And of course later that night he would send hr an email cc’ing his union rep. And his ass was ALWAYS saved for whatever reason. Than ON MY DAYS OFF , a few team members did something shady, and because i WAS OFF and it didnt get handled right away they brought me in asked what happened, i told them i was off and took care of it when i was back 3 days later, after hr heard my side of the story they suspended me!!!!! Than brought me back in and had my final check ready and told me to put on my notice because “im no longer a fit for that positions”…… after 5 years and being a top performing manager. My mind was blown!!!!♥ 11source record 10886
The property i worked at, the food & beverage is protected by a union.♥ 0source record 10888
Do not sign your termination letter especially if you feel is was retaliation! I wasn’t just fired three weeks after reporting someone for stealing my work. Shady.♥ 3source record 10896
You’re so right! Just happened to me for reporting harassment in my work place♥ 3source record 10897
This happened to me. Male manager of diff dept was harassing me for a date (even sent a letter CERTIFIED directly to my home). I kept quiet about it for 2 years. Had an awesome boss who I told this to, but I told him I didn’t want to report it to HR for fear of retaliation. He respected my wishes. That awesome boss left the company. Something happen where I was forced to explain the harassment to our CFO. She claimed I HAD to file a report. 3 months later I was terminated by the CEO who liked the harassing manager & not me. 🙄♥ 1source record 10898
100000000%. Happened to me. Reported a racist ass cfo, was told I’d be protected by hr, our general counsel and the board. But the ceo got rid of all of them too.♥ 1source record 10899
How do I deal with being terminayed due to putting in a anonoymoud♥ 0source record 10901
Oh yeah I got called down to HR and was told I needed to go take a drug test. Which was never a requirement but I got into an argument with the wrong person. Anyways I went upstairs and my supervisor peed in a diet coke bottle for me 😭 I floated that bottle in a cup of coffee to keep it warm before testing. 🫠 Still got 2 years out of that job before leaving...F Capital One 😂😂😂♥ 0source record 10903
i gave my resignation after they wronging me for something i didnt have anything to do with... bad choice since i connected all calles emails conferences and also i was kind of the gossip bag everyone told everything either to me or infront of my desk.. i enjoyed spilling allll those in my resignation email.. not just work secrets even affairs and all😁😁 and i live in lebanon they couldnt do shit my contract even said my job was to report everything to the ceo😈😈♥ 0source record 14231

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The anonymous survey is not anonymous15 index entriesOne line, and a queue of people describing what happened after they answered honestly.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: The anonymous survey is not anonymous

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The anonymous survey is not anonymous

15 source records

Use when: You are about to answer an engagement, exit or course survey honestly

How commenters applied it: 15 records. A short card with a single claim and a run of confirmations attached to consequences: a professor who allegedly retaliated the following year, a reassignment to a different department, and one person who says the responses at their workplace came with an order number that could be looked up. Another describes handwritten surveys followed by individual meetings with HR and the manager who had been complained about. One commenter offers the counter-position that a genuine research instrument carries real legal exposure if it is de-anonymised.

What readers reported: this is so true lol. where I work the surveys come with an order number that we can look up in the system

Limit: Every account here is one person's inference from what happened next, which is not proof that the survey was identified. No survey platform or employer is named or verified.

Source-record spotlights

Most engaged source

Me finding out this after my professor treated me like shit for a year because I left him a bad “anonymous” class questionnaire the year before guess who has to retake his classes next year to graduate😭

source record 9795♥ 30
Later-arriving source

good think ive always skipped a survey when asked then...

posted about 54 days after the source
Zero-like source

this is so true lol. where I work the surveys come with an order number that we can look up in the system

posted about 43 days after the source

What the counts show

Within 15 source records, 2 ask a question and 0 explicitly say they intend to try the idea; neither signal is treated as an outcome.

15index entries
15distinct source records
2.5%of parent category
0.2%of the complete index
0top-level comments
15replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
2asks a question
0says they intend to try it
13other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Browse the original comments15 preserved records · 15 of 15 source records accounted for
Me finding out this after my professor treated me like shit for a year because I left him a bad “anonymous” class questionnaire the year before guess who has to retake his classes next year to graduate😭♥ 30source record 9795
Mine was. It had to be because there’s no way they hired me back after what I said in my anonymous exit survey hahah♥ 6source record 9797
but i did then anyway. "admin staff have to improve manners" the eye darts the next day were intense hahaha😂♥ 2source record 9803
Great, I’m glad my director knows she sucks and is ugly on the inside and out 💕♥ 2source record 9804
if its a scientific research it's actually extremely bad for the one keeping the info, yo can get sewed and lose scientific credibility♥ 2source record 9806
Can you explain how? I don't use my real email or mention my name♥ 2source record 9807
good think ive always skipped a survey when asked then...♥ 0source record 9814
this is so true lol. where I work the surveys come with an order number that we can look up in the system♥ 0source record 9816
Like at companies we work for!???♥ 0source record 9818
figured this out pretty quickly after I bagged out 2 managers behaviour. suddenly I got no shift and was a target for the both of them 😑♥ 0source record 9824
I know that’s why I make sure I fill them out lolll♥ 0source record 9830
I've always known this and work kept saying no it is. So I'd say the truth but let them HAVE IT and they couldn't so anything 🙃😂♥ 0source record 9839
[account] bebe oo totoo to kahit sa PH. may kakilala ako ginamit yung identity nya para sa utangan. eh yung survey nya nayun ay for applying free lance jobs. ngayon hinahabol sya nung pinagutangan ket hindi sya yung nangutang.♥ 2source record 9844
That’s so funny if I have an awful experience and someone asks me to take a survey I actually ask them if they really want my opinion lmao. I love that they a rwnt anonymous 🤣♥ 0source record 9846
they handed out surveys at my work after multiple complaints about the foreman and you had to hand write the answers. they then pulled each single person into a meeting with hr and the foreman to talk about the anonymous surveys and talk through the problems they have♥ 0source record 9847

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What a resume gets screened on before anyone reads it92 index entriesRecruiters and hiring managers on address, name, photo and graduation year — and the recruiters who say they have never done any of it.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: What a resume gets screened on before anyone reads it

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What a resume gets screened on before anyone reads it

92 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are writing or rewriting an application

How commenters applied it: 92 records. The concrete instruction is to give a city rather than a street address, and the HR professionals who reply mostly agree while correcting the reason: the screen is usually commute rather than neighbourhood, it is a dated practice, and the address is not needed before an offer. They extend it — no photograph, and drop graduation years to avoid age inference — and several add the safety argument, that a resume goes to hundreds of strangers. Running alongside is a much angrier and much more contested claim about names, hair, weight and skin, where commenters describe callbacks arriving only after switching to a middle name, and recruiters reply that they have never made such a decision.

What readers reported: Agreed. As a HR professional…never put your addy or picture on a resume. It could create a bias against you.

Limit: The discrimination claims in this card are individual accounts, and recruiters in the thread reject them for their own hiring. One record recommends misstating your race on an application; it is reported because it is in the corpus, not endorsed.

What replies pushed back on2

It’s the opposite in my industry 😂 diversity hires left and right lol

Pushback♥ 1

I think the opposite is true

Pushback

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Yes that's true too but that push was more in 2020- mid 2022.. it wasn't like that before and isn't like that now unfortunately. It is for companies who actually need to show that they're diverse but the ones who don't want to or care to will definitely not want to hire. It's very insidious the higher you go up but i hear ya

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Don’t put your full address on your resume. The largest closest city to your actual address will do. Some hiring managers will google your address and decide the job isn’t for you - even for remote roles.

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took mine off and only put the city I'm located in. My current job shreds all resumes after scanning them and sending them to the hiring manager, privacy measure

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Iktr. I just feel like if I gotta do all that, then that is probably not the environment I want to give my energy to. Especially for 4+ rounds

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Don’t put your full address on your resume. The largest closest city to your actual address will do. Some hiring managers will google your address and decide the job isn’t for you - even for remote roles.♥ 20,625source record 5075
As an HR professional, usually because of the commute. It’s an outdated thing anyway and we truly don’t need to know your address, if we need to know the commute, we ask in the interview.♥ 1,046source record 5077
yup, because the assumption used to be that if someone would have a 50 min commute each way that they would eventually get tired of spending 2 hours each day in the car and leave. very outdated but there are still some people old enough in the workforce that it's just better to not put your address on the resume.♥ 93source record 5078
My first job was a 50mm commute in traffic each way. I lasted 1.5 years. I promised myself I would not spend more than 30mins getting to a work location after that.♥ 5source record 5079
You gotta deal with the commute in the military. If the pay is good. I’m doing that drive♥ 0source record 5080
That seems kind of odd because they usually need to mail you equipment for remote jobs♥ 25source record 5082
That can be provided after you’re hired or made an offer. Every recruiter doesn’t need it♥ 19source record 5083
If you get the job offer, that’s when you give them your address. It doesn’t need to be on your resume. Especially with all of these scam jobs that people are applying to. All you need to put is your city and state. I don’t even put my phone number on there anymore; just an email.♥ 7source record 5084
Untrue!!! I had to pick up my remote equipment from the company— twice♥ 1source record 5085
I just moved to PA, I noticed that every single job around here asks for your address when applying. I’ve never had to deal with that before♥ 7source record 5086
Hi B! I looked this up, It’s pretty common in PA for employers to request your address early on, usually for local tax purposes, background checks, or to confirm local residency. It can feel unusual if you’re coming from a state where that’s not the norm. That said, there are jobs (especially remote ones) where you can just submit your resume without including an address. It’s always okay to leave it off if it’s not marked required! Going into the business with a resume is always ok too and shows initiative that most companies love.♥ 0source record 5087
Yes, I’ve had this happen to me but not for a job but from someone I was trying to get business from. All was great for days communicating but once I gave my address it ended. Tried not to think conspiracy but was too obvious what changed the mood. I make decent money I’m not trying to be house poor! Sorry folks♥ 1source record 5089
I had a friend that told me about a job but she didn't tell the boss she knew me after I left she told me the lady said no because my car was raggedy...ma'am that's why I need the job♥ 168source record 5091
hear me out, low income areas deemed “ghetto” will have you losing out on jobs♥ 1source record 5094
if you have a modest house, maybe they assume you aren't 'the right fit.'♥ 7source record 5095
that’s crazy! wouldn’t it mean you would take the job more seriously than a rich kid because you actually need the money?♥ 1source record 5096
my car is also raggedy but it runs great and has never done me wrong! so on days when I'd have an interview I'd plan to swap vehicles with my mom, husband or a friend for the day so I wasn't *judged* by my poor car♥ 24source record 5098
That's what I said I was going to do for the next interview. I had an interview Friday but mom had a doctor's appt I just kind tried to hide it behind a truck and did it that way♥ 6source record 5099
Agreed. As a HR professional…never put your addy or picture on a resume. It could create a bias against you.♥ 41source record 5100
At this point if they want to know what anyone looks like, go to their LinkedIn. I can tell you as a hiring manager, I will never interview a person who doesn’t have a LinkedIn.♥ 6source record 5101
Because it’s an important resource for employees and employers in corporate America. I’m not saying anyone who works requires LinkedIn, just that in my field (finance at a mid-sized bank) looks into that kind of stuff.♥ 0source record 5103
I've always said it's no potential employer's business to decide for you how far is too far to drive♥ 18source record 5104
Luckily my house is new and if they tried they’d be looking at a patch of dirt♥ 5source record 5109
If you’re a homeowner, your address is easily found without disclosing.♥ 4source record 5110
Many recruiters are too lazy to check unless it’s already available on the resume♥ 3source record 5111
don't put the years you graduated high school or college, that'll give the recruiter an idea of how old you are and a chance to discriminate your age.♥ 3source record 5112
He offered me a teaching job I said I needed the weekend to think about it & he showed up at my house demanding an answer to the offer or his “materials” back aka a packet of papers with a bartending syllabus on it 🙄 I gave him his papers back and called the police department to file a report just in case he showed up again.♥ 2source record 5118
If you look my address up on Zillow, it looks like a mansion with a pool, that's definitely NOT my house but I'll take it. I have no idea how this glitch happened. Since we are in a gated neighborhood, the Google car does not come through here. It's not a terrible house but it's nothing near as fancy as it looks online.♥ 3source record 5123
Do they base it solely on location, or do they dig a little deeper.,.like looking up property values and neighborhood profiles? Just wondering if, even though I live a bit off the beaten path, having a really nice home might actually work in my favor.♥ 3source record 5124
I’ve had recruiters say it leans either way? Nice home? F them. They don’t need this job? Trash home? Ew we don’t need them here. Their prob ghetto. Just city and state. These recruiters are too nosey lol♥ 3source record 5125
I KNOW i got passed up because I live in a trailer. my friend that works at the vision care center i interviewed at told me that's why. all the others lived in $300k+ homes. they didn't know we knew each other. I should of sued♥ 2source record 5127
had a former coworker, male also a pastor that would allow clients to use his address because of this.♥ 2source record 5128
As HR I can confirm♥ 2source record 5129
As someone who did the hiring. I don’t need your full address, but if you listed city was too far away, we put your resume off to the side, for someone who lived closer. So at least put your correct city, if you don’t want to give your home address♥ 1source record 5132
I hate when people put their full address. how many resumes do people sent out? They send their full address to 100’s of complete strangers …♥ 1source record 5133
Not only this but once you realize how many people actually have access to resumes, for safety, don’t do it. But agree with your comment as well!♥ 1source record 5135
It’s unsafe to have your full address on your resume anyway♥ 1source record 5136
This won’t work for SoCal as 15 miles is easily a 45 min drive♥ 1source record 5137
This. I stopped doing this years ago after a friend said, “they haven’t hired you yet. Why do they need that information?” Never looked back.♥ 1source record 5138
Also don’t need to put your proper name on a resume. I worked in the industry. I changed my surname to a shorter version and I got more call backs. Recruiters absolutely judge you on your “profile” not all but a lot .♥ 1source record 5140
I don’t put my address or phone number on my resume any longer. Stopped doing it years ago.♥ 1source record 5141
A lot of recruiters like short cuts and won’t do the work to check♥ 1source record 5144
I live outside a major city, Greater Houston which is what I mentioned in my interview for a REMOTE position! I was denied the position bc they claimed I didn’t mention where I live. And this is after they called me back after moving on with another candidate then call me back 2 weeks later.♥ 1source record 5147
took mine off and only put the city I'm located in. My current job shreds all resumes after scanning them and sending them to the hiring manager, privacy measure♥ 0source record 5150
a crazy man once showed up at me friends house asking to marry her, her father was there and kicked him out thankfully 😭♥ 0source record 5163
If it makes a difference, I work within the Trust Department of a midsized bank. I imagine entry-level and service-industry positions don’t really require a LinkedIn lol♥ 0source record 5165
It also shows that you’re not keeping up with the trends of modern corporate culture and sometimes ppl will equate that to work ability♥ 1source record 5168
Yes.. companies do not want to hire you if you have dreads, too fat, talk "black", have a super "ethic" name or too dark/black aka "not professional enough" so yeah I wouldn't put Tyrone down put a different name on your resume (former corporate recruiter)♥ 3,357source record 11530
If I’m asked my race on an application I always put white male. It’s America so I identify myself as a white male.♥ 1,098source record 11531
how is that even of any benefit to ask for a race on application? is this even legal in the first place?♥ 1source record 11538
you can identify as a cows left nostril or whatever else you can think of and people "have to" accept it♥ 6source record 11554
Here you can identify as whatever race or gender you choose. On the weekends I’m a whole alien out here 😂😂♥ 18source record 11561
The only time I’m happy my name is Megan they never know until I get then it’s like surprise 😂😂 my last name sounds whyyyte too♥ 23source record 11563
Actually I was a hiring manager for a bank- we had to fill certain positions with "diversity" so we would specifically hire a Latina or an Asian or black etc. over a white person JUST so we don't look a certain way. So this isn't always true♥ 11source record 11565
Yea that’s one diversity hire you were forced to do or else we would never get those jobs that we are qualified for. The rest are white♥ 0source record 11566
Yes that's true too but that push was more in 2020- mid 2022.. it wasn't like that before and isn't like that now unfortunately. It is for companies who actually need to show that they're diverse but the ones who don't want to or care to will definitely not want to hire. It's very insidious the higher you go up but i hear ya♥ 5source record 11567
As a Latina, true that black prejudice is different than Latino prejudice though there is some overlap in terms of colorism & how people talk♥ 6source record 11569
Doubt it works. There have been studies done and white men are more likely to get call backs, even with identical resumes to POC♥ 3source record 11570
to piggyback off this .. if you walk in & see an all ✋🏻 employee base for an interview, walk tf out bc they're not going to hire you & don't be plus size either.. even IF you see they have a ✋🏻 one, they already filled that department♥ 2source record 11571
Right! I’m plus sized and have locs and I have literally never had so many rejections ever.♥ 0source record 11574
I’ve had my locs for 5 years now and it’s been hard getting past a final round. I’ve heard the things about locs before but for it to be confirmed smh 🤦🏾‍♀️♥ 1source record 11579
Sis, it’s really sad that we can’t get employment based on our character and work ethic. As black women especially, we should be able to wear our crown however we want to. The way I wear my hair or the deep melanin of my skin tone shouldn’t way into the equation. I know we all know this but, sometimes it just gets exhausting. I love my locs and skin tone. Hell, this is where it’s at! Appreciate you love.🤗♥ 1source record 11580
its called BEE so if your white and other races applied you can forget abt it even if you are more qualified🤷‍♀️🤣♥ 0source record 11583
Most people assume I’m white cause of my name and when I did phone call interviews i code switch. I got the job and when they saw me I can see the surprise on their faces. I was the only POC in the office. The pay was amazing but they treated me badly and excluded a lot.♥ 1source record 11586
Crazy because what do u exactly do after they have to run a background check and realize that ur name isn’t ur name? 😭♥ 1source record 11587
Also, apply for jobs have become a way for companies to steal ur information. If the company is asking for 5 places you live in the last 7 years it’s a job scam unless ur working for the state/FBI most of these jobs are fake. I give fake addresses. If I get hired I tell them I moved & give them my real address.♥ 1source record 11589
Yep I used identical resumes one with my first (very “ethnic” sounding name) and one with my middle (very Caucasian sounding name) and guess which one got a call back♥ 1source record 11590
What industry 👀 retail? I found that and sales was higher diversity hires for me♥ 1source record 11592
Iktr. I just feel like if I gotta do all that, then that is probably not the environment I want to give my energy to. Especially for 4+ rounds♥ 0source record 11594
Accurate. My legal name is Wydeia. But the only way I could get interviews is when I started using Deia on my resume. 🙃♥ 0source record 11599
So you’re telling me I could be a white serial killer, dress in a modest suit and tie. Good looking shoes, a nice attitude and good posture. And they wouldn’t bat an eye? Might as well be Ted bundy♥ 0source record 11601
I’m native (Navajo and Comanche) and the Chick-fil-A hirer a blond white woman told me to my face at the interview that they would not be hiring me because “I had too much hair and would have to cut it if I wanted the job and maybe even lighten the color” for context I have extremely thick thigh length black hair like no absolutely not gonna happen my hair is not worth $10 and hour♥ 0source record 11603
I was so appalled I’m pretty sure natives hair is protected under federal law and we can’t be made to cut it for a job including even men in the military♥ 0source record 11604
and lots of companies only hire black people or focus mostly on black people. its discrimination, i really don't understand why they take the colour of people's skin as a criteria.♥ 0source record 11606
😃I've never had problems getting jobs, im a nurse and im dark skinned♥ 0source record 11614
I knew my name had failed me so why out a different name if they gon ask for your real name anyways♥ 0source record 11621
Yup. My name is Maurice. I’m a white’s female and I couldn’t get call backs. I put my middle name and was immediately reached out to♥ 0source record 11622
I say this all the time. Guy named Jose Martinez wasn’t getting any call backs. Dropped 3 letters from his name & changed it to Joe Martin on his resume & received multiple call backs! SMH 🤦🏽‍♀️♥ 0source record 11624
I feel this about my full name because I’ve been told it’s ghetto♥ 0source record 11628
I can't tell you how many times my boss told me "they don't look the part." Typically they had scraggly hair, messed up teeth, wrinkled clothes- it was never a race thing but if you looked poor - out♥ 0source record 11631
Yeah I dealt with the to fat discrimination. Created my own business though and make more than any business ever offered.♥ 0source record 11635
Work in HR and do all the recruiting for my company, I’ve also been a recruiter and never have I looked at someone’s name thought a single thought. Don’t care where you’re from or what you look like. Now if your grammar isn’t good, your resume isn’t in order, you’re late for the interview and don’t put your hood down (it amazes how many people don’t, both men and woman of all races) and have zero communication skills then you’re not getting hired. But your name, looks or race alone has and will never (for me) be a factor that’s insane.♥ 0source record 11640
Well if that’s the case why do I have a job? I am “a too fat” person.♥ 0source record 11641
My white husbands name is Jerome. extremely skilled, lots of experience and qualifications. OFTEN turned down. His black coworkers told him to use his white ass middle name and see how much his offers increase😭♥ 0source record 11644
See, this is why I throw on a wig when it’s time for an interview. I just need to lose weight then maybe I’d have better luck.♥ 0source record 11645
That’s my manager at dg. Her and her husband are big racists. I’ve been there 6.5 years and she only hired one African American. She won’t hire anyone that’s too fat/skinny, has piercings, colored hair, a lot of tattoos, too old, looks weird. She’s super super picky like dg is a high end store💀😭♥ 0source record 11646
Almost all companies get benefits for hiring minorities… that statement isn’t entirely true… js♥ 0source record 11647
Tyrone looking for a job should be close to retirement with such an elderly name♥ 0source record 11648
I just hired a girl for my department. her name is Alaya and she has long dreads. I look at work history and personality. I know some companies do look at that stuff though.♥ 1source record 11649
This is completely untrue for all companies. I hire people like this all the time and I know many others that do.♥ 0source record 11650
Depends on what they look like if I would hire I’m not racist because if a white man comes in and pulls his pants up 100 times I’m probably going to get sued for the things I would say to him lol♥ 0source record 11651
Don’t put your address on your resume they say they can determine the type of person you are by the address, sad world we live in♥ 3source record 12538

Archive: 92 index entries preserve 92 distinct source records · Every displayed synthesis count resolves to source-record IDs

Job listings that were never jobs69 index entriesData harvesting, ghost postings and roles already filled internally, with recruiters disputing the mechanism.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Job listings that were never jobs

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69 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You have applied to dozens of roles and heard nothing back

How commenters applied it: 69 records. The claim is that many postings are data collection rather than hiring, and the replies produce three competing mechanisms rather than one: third-party aggregators harvesting applicant details, roles already filled internally that must legally be posted, and postings kept open to satisfy an immigration or subsidy requirement. A recruiter replies with costs from the other side, arguing that posting is expensive and that agencies cannot see your details unless you apply. The action everyone converges on is the same regardless of which mechanism is real: find the employer's own careers page and apply there.

What readers reported: [account] Apply directly on their website, you’ll find most of those job positions don’t even exist, it’s just 3rd party companies data harvesting

Limit: The recruiter in this thread contradicts the central claim outright, and several commenters say every good job they have had came from the platform in question. The subsidy and visa mechanisms described are country-specific and unverified.

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Recruiter here! This is NOT true. We cannot get your information unless you apply or if we reach out to you and you click interested. I have never heard of companies selling your info. Every time we reach out to someone for an open job we have it cost us $3.15 a person. Indeed is very costly to use for us employers.

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disagree. I'm on it nearly every day, on both sides. there will always be scams in everything but it doesn't mean the entire product is fake or useless

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I disagree that it's most.

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Not true lol indeed is a legit hiring tool, one of the best. Much much better than LinkedIn.

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I’ve figured this out the hard way, unfortunately. SO annoying!

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Most companies that put job openings on Indeed aren’t really hiring, they just want your information to sell it.

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they also post ghost jobs because really they want to promote internally but sometimes legally have to post it publicly

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I also heard that in Canada, if the job posting is up long enough, they can apply for subsidy. so the job ad sits there open and they don't check any applications. I'm so over Indeed

posted about 40 days after the source

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Across 69 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Attach it to an existing routine” (5 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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1explicitly reports a limit or failure
5asks a question
0says they intend to try it
61other source context

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Most companies that put job openings on Indeed aren’t really hiring, they just want your information to sell it.♥ 25,686source record 9291
No wonder why not one job has hit me back but all of sudden I got random texts about random JUNK or jobs that pay 300 to 5k a day texts or…. Etc.. 🙄 .. WHERE IS A GOOD SITE to look for jobs then 😩♥ 2,675source record 9292
Apply directly on your desired employer site or call them to ask where to apply♥ 176source record 9295
I don't know if that is true or not but what I will say is that every job I've gotten in my adult life has been from indeed and they were all GREAT jobs♥ 112source record 9296
You have to choose reputable companies and not use the “quick apply” options. If it’s somewhere you’ve never heard of and the internet hasn’t either, they’re farming data.♥ 0source record 9297
right 😂 if it doesn't direct you to the company website to apply, you should do more research before submitting. it will never cease to amaze me how people blame their own illiteracy on others♥ 1source record 9298
you will get some good hits on indeed. at the same time i think it is true and the openings are bogus. been messing with indeed for quit some time now.♥ 3source record 9300
yeah, I've been on indeed for 15 years 😂 there will always be scams but I'll take indeed over LinkedIn any day♥ 5source record 9301
I don't know if they did or not. I also don't really care because I got great jobs out of it. everyone sells your information; that shouldn't be a barrier to getting ahead in life♥ 8source record 9303
You can use indeed but only apply on the company website.♥ 14source record 9305
those middle eastern ppl emailing me about remote $100K/year customer service role♥ 18source record 9310
Ummm I’ve never heard of middle eastern people emailing about scam jobs but I’ve heard PLENTY of stories of Indians. Stop getting us mixed up we are NOT Indian♥ 1source record 9311
how TF am I supposed to know just by going off their name? If you saw my name would you know if I was black American versus African??♥ 0source record 9312
Go directly to company website. I am a nurse so I go directly to hospital/insurance website. Tho, I still use indeed. Yes , I got those texts 😂♥ 0source record 9313
ALWAYS apply on the company website. my company at least, the hiring managers are going through that email at least 5 times a day and dont even think about that third party posting anymore they were required to put up after the fact.♥ 1source record 9315
Exactly why I stopped applying on indeed so this adds up! I then would look on indeed and find the company website and apply there♥ 2source record 9317
Omgggg am saying n they hit u with the u got to be 25 bitchhh r u even real♥ 0source record 9318
Hiring.cafe doesn’t require any personal info/login and takes you directly to the employers website♥ 2source record 9320
No, it’s a search engine for jobs created by someone on Reddit. It pulls job listings from all the other sites but makes it so you can just apply directly. It also doesn’t sell your information to third parties like indeed and LinkedIn♥ 2source record 9322
What works for me if I search for jobs by pretending to be a customer/ patient. For example, if you're in IT, google common IT issues. Do research on the top five business with the best customer ratings, then check their company's website for their career page.♥ 1source record 9327
apply on niche job boards for the industry you’re looking for or in person if it’s a resturant♥ 2source record 9328
Those are scams too. I got a rejection email saying they already hired someone and then they reposted the job. This has happened with several job postings on LinkedIn.♥ 3source record 9332
I swear the solicitor calls I received sky rocketed after I started using it to apply to jobs!!!♥ 118source record 9334
[account] Apply directly on their website, you’ll find most of those job positions don’t even exist, it’s just 3rd party companies data harvesting♥ 360source record 9337
Every single job I have applied to links you to the company’s website to complete your application. That is not accurate.♥ 6source record 9339
From where? And for whoever asked linkedin is legit but places like indeed don’t actually do much to authenticate how legit the job offer is, also just because they pass you off to the actual website after doesn’t mean they’re not keeping your data♥ 2source record 9340
This makes SO much sense.. applied to 70+ jobs a couple years ago got a response from ONE but tons of spam emails after that♥ 3source record 9349
Recruiter here! This is NOT true. We cannot get your information unless you apply or if we reach out to you and you click interested. I have never heard of companies selling your info. Every time we reach out to someone for an open job we have it cost us $3.15 a person. Indeed is very costly to use for us employers.♥ 3source record 9350
But I got text messages about jobs a whole lot, keep deleting and reporting 😏😏😏♥ 2source record 9351
disagree. I'm on it nearly every day, on both sides. there will always be scams in everything but it doesn't mean the entire product is fake or useless♥ 2source record 9354
This tracks! I applied to 167 jobs in 12 weeks with minimal interviews or them even opening my app! 😡♥ 2source record 9357
I knew it!!!! I’ve applied to probably 60 places.. one emailed me back about and asked me to pick a date that works for me. I did and then called the company directly and they were like Uhm.. we aren’t even hiring idk who you’re talking to on indeed lol♥ 1source record 9361
I knew it! There was a site where all my details were displayed. I said, how come they knew about my personal details. Could thing that site was taken down.♥ 1source record 9362
Explain why I get random texts claiming they’re from indeed while I already made my profile private I literally just deleted everything off there. So sketchy♥ 1source record 9365
they also do this to make investors think they are growing and expanding so they will invest more.♥ 1source record 9380
Can confirm lots do big companies do this 😭♥ 1source record 9381
they also post ghost jobs because really they want to promote internally but sometimes legally have to post it publicly♥ 0source record 9384
I also heard that in Canada, if the job posting is up long enough, they can apply for subsidy. so the job ad sits there open and they don't check any applications. I'm so over Indeed♥ 0source record 9390
This isn’t always true I recruit for my work using indeed as well as other platforms! Best to check that position is being advertised elsewhere too maybe♥ 0source record 9393
In Canada they’re only posting to meet the requirements of “attempting but failing” to find local employees, so they can actually hire immigrants on LMIA who actually paid 30k to an agency to get them the job and visa (illegal). They have agreements with these agencies and get a cut of the 30k♥ 0source record 9397
I knew it, because there was a site where all my details are displayed. I said, how come they knew about my personal details. OMG.♥ 0source record 9400
Also most jobs are already filled in internally. To be “lawful” they post it publicly for 3 days max to get replacement talent on stand by♥ 0source record 9407
Many companies have to post jobs but already know who’s going to fill them. That’s probably why many people don’t get responses when applying.♥ 0source record 9419
di ren papaniwala ka jan. sakin ka maniwala makakapulot ako ng 10 million pesos sa bus bukas 🥰♥ 0source record 9422
Every website / app you use that requires your log in or details literally asks you for consent to send your info to Legitimately interested parties. Always deny this, accept just basic cookies. If you allow them to share your data they use it for marketing retargeting or just literally just sell your data to third party companies.♥ 0source record 9426
Recently posted an ad on SEEK, it cost us $1100♥ 0source record 9427
So this is why all 32 jobs I applied for haven’t even opened my application♥ 0source record 9435
when applying through 3rd party sites, put your name and indeed as last name. when marketers call with the same name you know who indeed sold your info to. you get compensation♥ 0source record 9436
So that’s why I’m getting spam calls and no one is calling me 🤦🏻‍♀️♥ 0source record 9440
probably why I haven’t heard back from the three jobs I applied to♥ 0source record 9441
or there was a study that they would post listings but never interview anyone to appease frustrated staff to say “we’re hiring no one wants to work”♥ 0source record 9442
I'm on it nearly every day in a professional capacity for my job, as well a to assist various friends and family members in their job searches. about half the people i know have found their job with my assistance. and yes, forever keeping an eye out for myself because while I'm not opening to changing roles right now, the right posting changes everything.♥ 0source record 9446
super weird that Amanda would block me for this. guess she had to tend to that beehive♥ 0source record 9447
i hire for my husband’s moving company on indeed legitimately♥ 0source record 9451
I’ve figured this out the hard way, unfortunately. SO annoying!♥ 0source record 9454
They’re also quiet hiring within and they get tax breaks for the company when they post jobs♥ 0source record 9456
and a write off as a loss because they couldn't find employees when in actuality they didn't hire any♥ 0source record 9460
Not true lol indeed is a legit hiring tool, one of the best. Much much better than LinkedIn.♥ 0source record 9462
I literally deleted my indeed account today! I get calls and messages everyday!!!!♥ 0source record 9463
i thought this was false? I thought the real reason is that they need a criteria♥ 0source record 9470
I was wondering why I’ve done SOOOOO many apps on indeed & only got 1 call back/interview 😒😒♥ 0source record 9474
I got my first good paying job on indeed this year. But I do hear a lot of bad things about it. That’s crazy, because I love the app♥ 0source record 9475
I’ve gotten jobs off there, too! It doesn’t happen all the time.♥ 0source record 9476
Shocking. It was my first time on the app and my first formal job. Got hired fast from the app♥ 0source record 9477
dodge sells ur number when you leave it for appointments♥ 0source record 9478
I just learned this last week as I started job hunting. sent out my resume maybe a dozen times & suddenly my email is FLOODED with spam bs 🤬♥ 1source record 9482
I want to know where they sell it 🤔 because these numbers that blow my phone up are so random! 🥴♥ 0source record 9483
this makes sense I still get emails about bs job offers in a state I haven't lived in for over 6 years.♥ 0source record 9494
ok I have another one : if u apply for temp work ask for a lot! the more u get paid the more the temp agency gets the more they're willing to help u.. once I learned this, my going rate for temp office work went from $17 to $28/hour. it's not about how much u think u should get, it's about how much companies r willing to pay.♥ 0source record 14190

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Fired, pushed out, or worked into the ground12 index entriesIndividual terminations people are still angry about, and the labour practices they describe underneath them.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Fired, pushed out, or worked into the ground

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Fired, pushed out, or worked into the ground

12 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You want to know what the worst of these employment stories actually look like

How commenters applied it: 12 records. A small set of single-source reports, kept because each names something checkable in principle rather than a mood. A studio worker gives the arithmetic of a class — a hundred dollars charged, twenty paid to the instructor, and as little as seven when a group class has one attendee — and another commenter supplies the same ratio for a gym chain's personal training. Others describe being fired for failing to cover a shift the day after a bereavement, a lone-working rule that makes dismissal inevitable, and a company that treats its livestock better than its staff.

What readers reported: Pilates studios that charge $100 for a 1:1 class sometimes only pay the instructor $20. If one person signs up for a group class, the instructor essentially teaches a 1:1 class for sometimes as little as $7.

Limit: Each of these is one former employee's account of one workplace, with no corroboration in the thread and no response from any employer. They are included as reports, not findings.

What the replies added1

I worked at 3 diff Domino's locations and they broke every labour law in the book. I'd be working 14 hours shifts without being paid OT or getting any breaks. they also did this to teenagers working there. full orders have to be made in under 7 mins (even if it's 50 pizzas) and if they're not corporate will essentially say they are going to dock pay or shut down the location. incredibly stressful job with no reward. they treat their workers terribly and have an incredibly high turnover rate. also their drivers are "contracted workers" so they don't have to pay them minimum wage. :) next time ur pizza tracker is wrong or food is late, just know that the workers there are doing their damn best to not absolutely lose it. xx

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Pilates studios that charge $100 for a 1:1 class sometimes only pay the instructor $20. If one person signs up for a group class, the instructor essentially teaches a 1:1 class for sometimes as little as $7.

source record 14623♥ 190
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My mom got fired from a pest control company because she wasn’t losing weight 😢

posted about 199 days after the source
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My boss underpaid everyone on our roofing crew and owed workers up to 5000 each, so half the crew went back to the clients houses and secretly destroyed there roofs one by one

posted about 62 days after the source

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The exact phrase “i used to work” recurs across 2 of the 12 source records in Fired, pushed out, or worked into the ground; the complete archive stays available below.

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2%of parent category
0.2%of the complete index
10top-level comments
2replies

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0asks a question
0says they intend to try it
12other source context

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I worked at Apple. They fire employees who with minor infractions and keep employees with discrimination cases against them. Their values are fake♥ 3source record 12535
If you run a fast food restaurant alone you will get fired. But they will not hire anyone to help you.♥ 1source record 13456
i hated my jobs from one to five in various fields and not forgetting the current one!!!😌♥ 0source record 13472
I used to work in a company that doesn’t give a shit about their employees, they give a shit MORE to their cockpit chickens lol♥ 0source record 14218
I worked at 3 diff Domino's locations and they broke every labour law in the book. I'd be working 14 hours shifts without being paid OT or getting any breaks. they also did this to teenagers working there. full orders have to be made in under 7 mins (even if it's 50 pizzas) and if they're not corporate will essentially say they are going to dock pay or shut down the location. incredibly stressful job with no reward. they treat their workers terribly and have an incredibly high turnover rate. also their drivers are "contracted workers" so they don't have to pay them minimum wage. :) next time ur pizza tracker is wrong or food is late, just know that the workers there are doing their damn best to not absolutely lose it. xx♥ 0source record 14220
not a huge company but the store owners of playa bowls in denver colorado fired me because i couldn’t find coverage for my shift the day after my step dad overdosed and died. they also did not keep anything “fresh” i used to go through our fridge and throw away moldy fruit and vegetables everyday, sometimes if the kale was going bad they still made us use it AND the store owners of the same location would also bash, shame, and highkey bully employees. ALSO if you have eaten there more than once i can promise you that you’ve also eaten fruit flys, both stores i worked at were infested and they would put syrup in a cup and call it a day. anyways F*CK playa bowls♥ 1source record 14225
I used to work for the Wonderful Company as an accountant and one girl got fired after maternity leave for no apparent reason and for those who don't know they own Fiji Water♥ 0source record 14229
My mom got fired from a pest control company because she wasn’t losing weight 😢♥ 0source record 14232
My boss underpaid everyone on our roofing crew and owed workers up to 5000 each, so half the crew went back to the clients houses and secretly destroyed there roofs one by one♥ 0source record 14236
Pilates studios that charge $100 for a 1:1 class sometimes only pay the instructor $20. If one person signs up for a group class, the instructor essentially teaches a 1:1 class for sometimes as little as $7.♥ 190source record 14623
It’s the same for LA Fitness, they charge like $400 bucks for PT package and only pay the Trainers $6 per session.♥ 2source record 14625
So true, I’d never be able to leave my 9-5 working as an instructor only 🫣♥ 1source record 14626

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Harassment and discrimination people reported at named employers22 index entriesAllegations made by one former employee each. They are attributed, unverified, and contested in their own threads.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Harassment and discrimination people reported at named employers

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Harassment and discrimination people reported at named employers

22 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You want to see the allegations this thread produced about specific companies, with their disputes attached

How commenters applied it: 22 records. This card exists so that the corpus's most serious single-source allegations are visible with their context rather than promoted or hidden. Each is one former or current employee describing something at a named employer: a manager's advance during a one-to-one, a hiring pattern described as tokenism, a clinic culture described as hostile to Black staff, and an HR employee said to have used salary data socially. In every case the thread argues back — current employees of the same company deny it, and in one thread the argument is about whether the practice described is discrimination at all.

What readers reported: What’s the proof they’re actually racist? Brands hire based on appearance all the time, why is it only a problem when black people are involved suddenly. No one ever complaines when stores have exclusively white staff 🙄

Limit: These are unverified allegations by one anonymous person each about a named company, contested in their own threads and never answered by the employer. They are reproduced here as reports and should not be read as established fact about any business.

What the replies added1

Mhh nope, not at all.. I don't know how I make you think that, but whatever. Ok I understand you point: whatever it takes. I still think that's ashaming. Because if they hired on that, their jobs are not secured.. that's the issue.

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My indian skip manager at Amazon asked me out during a 1:1. He’s married to a woman, has a kid…And I’m a man 😩😩😩💀💀

source record 14138♥ 687
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They’re ignoring you at the Hampton heath department. Hampton, VA. The manager doesn’t gaf and will do anything to put off tasks

posted about 97 days after the source
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When I use to work at maccas 90% of the male managers were predators. They promoted a guy who was 23, that took a 14 year old coworker to his home. Where he proceeded to lose his V-Card. He also got her up the duff and tried to run her over AND THATS JUST ONE MANAGER.

posted about 73 days after the source

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The exact phrase “whatever it takes” recurs across 2 of the 22 source records in Harassment and discrimination people reported at named employers; the complete archive stays available below.

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22distinct source records
3.6%of parent category
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7top-level comments
15replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
5asks a question
0says they intend to try it
17other source context

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Browse the original comments22 preserved records · 22 of 22 source records accounted for
My indian skip manager at Amazon asked me out during a 1:1. He’s married to a woman, has a kid…And I’m a man 😩😩😩💀💀♥ 687source record 14138
That's an interesting story. Invite his family to dinner and tell them the story. 😳 That's actually wild!!♥ 75source record 14139
Or you could say that if THAT is relevant. I am not following exactly …♥ 8source record 14142
Amazon has been taken over by Indian workers it annoying.♥ 4source record 14149
I don't get it, he is an Indian engineer thats why its relevant to mention he is Indian? your statements don't make sense, so if it was a yt or blck engineer it wouldn't matter? I don't understand...♥ 4source record 14150
Well, if he’s in charge of skipping, that’s a big telltale sign♥ 2source record 14159
TRUST ME.. It would blow your mind.. if I told you.. my experience.. 🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫♥ 0source record 14166
I would of had fun with that one. 😂 I surley would have ⚫️📬 him 🤣😂😭 I would be the top employee for as long as I worked there and a raise hahaha♥ 1source record 14172
That's fireable offense for the manager. It's called shmexual harassment. He is in a higher position allowing him to pressure subordinates in fear of getting fired to perform shmexual favors. HR might do the right thing or they might fire you. If you have proof, a labor attorney is the best way.♥ 0source record 14175
i still work there but idgaf, ALLEGEDLY one of my managers is a pdfile ALLEGEDLY and he ALLEGEDLY got caught multiple times ALLEGEDLY grooming minors from my store and the other♥ 0source record 14237
When I use to work at maccas 90% of the male managers were predators. They promoted a guy who was 23, that took a 14 year old coworker to his home. Where he proceeded to lose his V-Card. He also got her up the duff and tried to run her over AND THATS JUST ONE MANAGER.♥ 0source record 14239
They’re ignoring you at the Hampton heath department. Hampton, VA. The manager doesn’t gaf and will do anything to put off tasks♥ 0source record 14241
HR girl would go through the salaries at the company then leave the company and connect with these guys she had already seen were the highest salary earners and date them 🤭🤣♥ 126source record 14260
Garage and dynamite in CANADA exploites their works and also has a hidden racism agenda to hire single darker skin individuals per store♥ 180source record 14673
Maybe you dont know but dark racism is real too. Sometimes they only hire dark people instead of white or whatever♥ 0source record 14678
Mhh nope, not at all.. I don't know how I make you think that, but whatever. Ok I understand you point: whatever it takes. I still think that's ashaming. Because if they hired on that, their jobs are not secured.. that's the issue.♥ 0source record 14681
lol you want me to be mad about black people being hired. I will never be angry about that. If someone is hired out of ‘tokenism’ but does the same work as everyone else, is treated the same and is paid the same I don’t see the issue. There is literally no issue. As I said, if left to their own devices white people would never hire dark skinnned people, so whatever it takes..♥ 1source record 14683
As you wish. She worked there, she saw, she knows... how about trusting a women denouncing a cie with some racist issues? 🤨♥ 2source record 14684
I work at GDI, this is absolute bullshit♥ 3source record 14690
Okay?? That’s a good thing. If left up to their own devices, white people would only hire their own. Thank god for dei♥ 5source record 14691
What’s the proof they’re actually racist? Brands hire based on appearance all the time, why is it only a problem when black people are involved suddenly. No one ever complaines when stores have exclusively white staff 🙄♥ 11source record 14693
LaserAway has a terrible culture of being racist to their black staff. They foster a very toxic work environment by over working their nurses and do not take migro-aggressions seriously. Anytime a black/poc starts working there (especially 1 they don’t like) they do not last long, they find a way to let them go. Also, they are grossly overpriced, nothing is worth getting done specifically at that company. You are better off getting that stuff done at a derm office. The “training” they provide for their nurses is laughable and consist of them just practicing on eachother in the office for an afternoon and them being “cleared” to preform services. You don’t need any prior injectioning/aesthetic experience & a lot of their RNs are hired straight out of school. They also have a history of burning ppl with their lasers so …♥ 144source record 14866

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Pay, promotion and who is really on the payroll149 index entriesActual hourly figures, bonuses and promotion routes from inside one well-paid retailer, and the people who say the route is closed.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Pay, promotion and who is really on the payroll

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Pay, promotion and who is really on the payroll

149 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are weighing a front-line job, or wondering what it actually pays

How commenters applied it: 149 records. The Costco thread is the corpus's most detailed pay disclosure and it is argued down to the decimal: current and former employees post hourly rates, the Sunday premium, the twice-yearly bonus and the hours threshold that unlocks it, and a former admin worker explains how the headline annual figure is assembled. Others dispute the top-out figure and one posts a search result contradicting it entirely. The promotion argument is sharper: several long-tenured employees describe advancement as closed without a personal connection, while others name colleagues promoted inside a year and give the application advice that worked. Two shorter reports round it out — an owner said to have registered a business in his wife's name for a set-aside, and a law firm where unadmitted staff allegedly worked under a partner's signature.

What readers reported: Stand out. Most buildings get over 90+ apps per week or per day sometimes. You can apply for three different locations. Apply for any open jobs*, put open availabliliyyyto work any schedule + even holidays (don’t worry they don’t work) and go in personally to these locations speak with a managers form the front introduce yourself and hand in your resume. I was told this my a former employee and it got me the interview. Best of luck.

Limit: The pay figures are what individual employees say they earn and vary by region and tenure; one commenter posts a much lower published average. The two single-source allegations in this card are unverified and were never answered.

What the replies added2

Not true at my store, and yes I'm a refund clerk, $32/hr

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Nah bc I’m with you, that shid was public knowledge, I was waiting for actual insider goss like why they broke up or SOMETHING 😂

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I do not work Sundays, my choice. I also think it's location based.

source record 11147♥ 1
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$32/hr, full time. I do not work Sundays, my choice so no time and a half pay. Bonuses are up to almost 4k.

source record 11120

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I worked at Costco and have nothing negative to say besides members being entitled and acting like they’re better than us. Sir your cashier makes 75-80k a yr…

source record 11096♥ 19,450
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The owner of the last company I worked at put the business in his wife’s name so he could get tax write offs for being women owned. Worked there for years and never even met her once (because she literally has nothing to do with the company )

posted about 59 days after the source♥ 1
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Ppl don’t know this but it’s in the Terms & Conditions they sign when getting the membership card. lol it’s a member only store what do ppl expect? I been shopping whole sale for 20 yrs this isn’t new.

posted about 50 days after the source

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4top-level comments
145replies

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2explicitly reports a benefit
3explicitly reports a limit or failure
19asks a question
0says they intend to try it
125other source context

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Attach it to an existing routine 4Change the sentence 2Create a default 2Swap instead of subtract 2

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I worked at Costco and have nothing negative to say besides members being entitled and acting like they’re better than us. Sir your cashier makes 75-80k a yr…♥ 19,450source record 11096
That’s top pay. But if u grind hard enough and promote to supervisor your first year you get that pay.♥ 988source record 11098
This makes me so sad as a teacher… average start is $50k with a degree and so much mental load beyond our contract time …. I will daydream of being a Costco cashier now…♥ 39source record 11099
I have 3 degrees and working on a terminal degree currently and walked into my 8th year as a teacher this past Aug ‘24 at 33. I was suspended and then released due to admin feeling basically “impending doom” because they knew had I stayed this entire year with nothing on my record I would’ve walked into 25-26 as it being MY SCHOOL. They hated that thought♥ 1source record 11100
I’m right there with you. My dad was a guidance counselor for 40 years and in 1997 retired at $27K. I’m a RN and in my hometown area (which I don’t want to leave because of my sons ) pays starting RNs $26 an hour 😢♥ 1source record 11101
It infuriates me how little we pay our teachers when you all do so much for our children and with so much passion and because of that, you spend a lot of your own money for supplies. I observed all this volunteering at my children’s schools.♥ 1source record 11102
Wow! That’s pretty low. My daughter’s best friend just graduated and she started at $68k. Where do you live?♥ 1source record 11104
Las Vegas… 5th largest district in the country and I’m quickly seeing it might be the #1 mismanaged financially! 🤦🏻‍♀️♥ 0source record 11105
saddest thing I ever read. everything is so, not even backwards. just wrong. love and light need to come back to the fore front. no one should have to feel this way that has such an important job 😭😭♥ 1source record 11106
How is this sad? They make $70k working year round, you get 1/4 of the year off, guess what 3/4 of $70k is? $52k. Despite what the industry is someone has to do the job and obviously Costco is a lot higher in value compared to Wal Mart, you chose to go to school, become a teacher and make what you make.♥ 0source record 11107
This tells me you have no idea what teachers do. Period. Doing the math we have 13.9% of the year off… that means that if we clean or organize our room at end of year it comes out of those days… and we go back early unpaid to get our room ready. Just the amount of extra time I spend outside of contract hours during the year would offset the entire summer…. Not to mention working on continuing education credits ALL summer (I need 225 units by next June.. 3 hours equals ONE unit)….. and we need to prep our entire next year during our “off time”. I personally still check in with students all summer…. Not to mention we don’t get 2 weeks paid vacation per year … we show up every day for our kids. We have the luxury of 5 sick days and are penalized if we use 3 or more of them. 🙄 But yes… we chose this so we deserve it…. Have the day you deserve. ❤️♥ 0source record 11108
I was a pre school teacher for fours years now I been with Costco 6 years better pay and benefits… so sad to say because I love teaching, but I live in California also and I couldn’t pay my bills♥ 2source record 11111
So glad you found a way in! Even happier that it is better and what you needed! ❤️I will keep this info in my back pocket if teaching doesn’t pan out 🤔♥ 1source record 11112
Top out is $30.20 supervisor pay is 32.20 idk where dude got 85k from. If you work there 10+ years you’ll get a $3750 bonus 2x a year♥ 8source record 11115
Remember the next three years top out employees will get a dollar raise yearly. As of now Assistance get 30.90 Clerks are making 31.90 sups get 2$ premium on top of that. You also have to include Sunday premium which is time and a half, plus the bonuses (if they qualify for them). I worked in Admin I’m not pulling this out of my ass. My co worker and I both made 70k full time hours pay off 😂♥ 10source record 11116
You can “supervise” and also help out at the registers. Basically capable to help out wherever, whenever needed♥ 2source record 11117
Front End Supervisors are asked to cashier when they need to help move members out of the building. No one wants to wait in a long ass line♥ 1source record 11118
The pay is good and the responsibility doesn’t fall on you.♥ 0source record 11119
$32/hr, full time. I do not work Sundays, my choice so no time and a half pay. Bonuses are up to almost 4k.♥ 0source record 11120
3250 if you worked there 10+ years. It’s 30.20 an hour unless clerk pay. Sundays 45 an hour. Took 7 years to get to bonus and most people don’t get topped out until 5-7 years.♥ 0source record 11121
Clerk pay, $32/hr been there going on 18yrs. Don't care about the extra $2 for sup pay. Full time after 3yrs, bonus started around 4yrs. I believe pay scale also depends on area. I'm in PA♥ 0source record 11122
now it’s 12400 hours to get bonus. And ost Costco hire part time and Sunday goes to seniority. I knew people that worked 7 years part time before they got full time.♥ 0source record 11123
Awe man, I guess it depends on the warehouse bc the Sunday seniority is not a thing mine. And I forgot about the hrs worked increase for the pay scale/bonuses♥ 0source record 11124
At my former job, a CPA that specalized in estate returns left to go be a manager at Costco. I will add she was also having an affair with one of the partners.♥ 527source record 11126
Stand out. Most buildings get over 90+ apps per week or per day sometimes. You can apply for three different locations. Apply for any open jobs*, put open availabliliyyyto work any schedule + even holidays (don’t worry they don’t work) and go in personally to these locations speak with a managers form the front introduce yourself and hand in your resume. I was told this my a former employee and it got me the interview. Best of luck.♥ 51source record 11131
Try applying after summer ends. Most likely they’re getting ready for the holiday season and will need extra ppl. Good luck 🩵♥ 0source record 11133
My friend Willow is a head manager, not even 30 making over 37 and hour♥ 1source record 11137
Not true at my store, and yes I'm a refund clerk, $32/hr♥ 50source record 11143
You already getting your bonuses?? I was taking 75k home on my last yr before I left and an Admin clerk.♥ 9source record 11144
Yes, I've been there going on 18yrs. Started in Deli part time, transferred to cashier asst & was lucky enough to get a lot of hrs, made full time after like 3yrs.♥ 14source record 11145
Weird everyone in my dept was taking that home by the end of the year 😅 it’s including Sunday premium and bonus.♥ 6source record 11146
I do not work Sundays, my choice. I also think it's location based.♥ 1source record 11147
14 years and clothing department making 39’ an hour j love Costco♥ 2source record 11148
39! wow are you on the west coast? I think that depends on pay scale♥ 0source record 11149
Such an amazing company to work for. I had to quit because I’m a single mom and need 9-5 hours. When they are grown I’m going back. They pay well and it’s a fun place to work. You stay in shape too if you work in the right departments♥ 12source record 11151
As a long time customer, I have never encountered a rude employee at Costco. And nice looking men work there too.😁♥ 2source record 11152
Oh yeah. Lots and lots of cute dudes for sure. And they were all kind as well ❤️♥ 1source record 11153
Dude to get to supervisor you have to be in some type of illuminati blood pact. 😂 Either be married, dating/affair, related somehow or be a dei to get promotions. Also if you’re a man, it’s going to be way more difficult. Working your butt off means nothing! I know someone who worked there for 25 years from warehouse to corporate and told me how everything goes down.♥ 6source record 11157
Ehhh depends on warehouse to warehouse. I saw several new employees promote within a yr. Old employees got mad but I even told them you had the opportunity years ago why didn’t you?? A lot of employees are also entitled and have shitty attitudes. A girl I trained just became a manager in food court, only 4yr employee. I’m so proud of her she busted her ass off.♥ 3source record 11158
She prob someone’s relative or secret bff. It’s so bad they had to sign a paper saying Costco would no longer announce when friends and family are hired because it gave the perspective of favoritism when those people get promoted. LOL imagine working hard for years and some cute 23 year old chick get hired and get promoted in 7 months then you find out she is the managers sister in law from his brother.♥ 5source record 11159
Remember it’s all up to the desecration of the GM, the ones I worked with transferred out all family members within the month they got there😂 they didn’t allow that. Every GM will do what they want in their warehouse.♥ 2source record 11160
Seems like a rare case. Imagine finding out, out of 10 managers 4 (one is also a gm) are married to supervisors another one is a nephew and the last five have all worked with each other for 20+ years. At the same levels so they hire each other up. Then you have like 50 supervisors over half are dating or married to each other, 2 are married to a manager. If the ones aren’t married they’re related somehow to the managers or supervisors. I’m not joking when I said Illuminati blood pact😂😂😂 that’s how someone who worked there for years doesn’t move up, so when you ask them “why”? As if the opportunity existed for them to move up, it’s hilarious. When a job posting goes up, there’s already someone hired. They just post to give the illusion of equal opportunity.♥ 2source record 11161
as a Costco customer my only complaint is other customers. they're really something.♥ 29source record 11163
Seriously!! I had a woman yell at me for blocking an aisle, and it wasn’t my cart blocking. She said eff you to me multiple times. 😝 she was scary af.♥ 1source record 11164
I've legit thought about applying at Costco because everyone I know absolutely loves it there and that pay is nice!!♥ 6source record 11166
Full time, plus Top out pay, if they work every Sunday it’s overtime pay and bonuses.♥ 4source record 11168
75k for a cashier is bank♥ 0source record 11171
Wait till you find out most old employees are millionaires cause they bought Costco stock like crazy back in the day 😂😂♥ 2source record 11172
75-80k a year no degree and it’s more than a teacher WOWWWWWWWW♥ 2source record 11173
Yeah a lot of students stayed with the company even after finishing school cause they didn’t want they pay cut. Also hired a lot of retired teachers while I was still there. Sadly it’s not a livable wage in Los Angeles 😂♥ 0source record 11174
I just left working as a relationship banker…Costco cashiers were making more than I was♥ 2source record 11176
Hahahaha omg the costco affairs are another story 😂😂 idk in my building anyone caught stealing was fired immediately 😂 time clock fraud was big, omg one dude reused a hot dog combo receipt that hadn’t been marked off. Fired!♥ 2source record 11177
Surprisingly, a big one for us is coming to work drunk or drinking once they got there. We had an assistant try to claim he didn’t know mimosas had alcohol in them after coming into work after brunch. 😆♥ 1source record 11178
Seriously Costco is ELITE. And has the best insurance of literally anywhere else. My husband worked there for 6 years and had to take a pay cut to start his corporate career. And our insurance went from amazing to basically nonexistent.♥ 1source record 11179
Girl I felt this! I took a pay cut coming into county and went from having the best PPO to Kaiser 😭 it’s sooo ghetto lol I hope it pays off in the end.♥ 0source record 11180
It’s true. Hubby works there he makes 88K I believe. He has been there for 18 years tho♥ 1source record 11181
Literally!!! My mom worked there 23 years♥ 1source record 11182
Hope she was smart and set up her 401k right. If so she’s set!!! I had co workers that had 15-20yrs held zero shares 😭♥ 0source record 11183
so my job of 6 years is closing, I was an admin, supervisor and bartender and I was thinking of switching industries and was thinking of Costco. if you dont mind answering, how is the hiring process ?♥ 0source record 11185
It depends. The hiring process is straight forward. You have your first phone interview to see if you’re even eligible/interested in an interview which whatever is available, you have your set interview and it all depends on how you answer the questions if you have what they’re looking for. Pass that you then get the interview that same day or another day with an AGM or GM for final approval. You then get drug tested and we’d contact you back to schedule once backgrounds clear to schedule orientation. Just know you will be starting from step one no one gets hired right off the bat to be a manager. Costco only promotes from within. Hope this helped. There’s nothing really special about how they hire, it’s just a matter of luck and having what they believe is Costco material. You’re not working for any regular retail store member service is what they strive for and they mean it.♥ 0source record 11186
Uh oh Costco corporate enters the chat 😂♥ 1source record 11188
Costco get sued a lot they just settle to keep the reputation♥ 1source record 11190
I've worked at costco for 10 years and I have plenty of not great things to say lol♥ 1source record 11192
Is this one of my favorite uncles has Work there since the day it opened and literally has the best life♥ 1source record 11193
You should only be using the Costco website for job openings. Have to make sure you are putting open availability as well. Ex: weekends, any hours, holidays. Once u apply to three locations go in person and introduce yourself to a manager ask if they are hiring, if they say no just hand over your resume. Tell them to reach out once they do, first impressions matter.♥ 1source record 11195
Oh, I understand. I probably would have stayed quiet too. Gotta let people hold the crazy crown some days.♥ 1source record 11196
I met a young guy my age (early-mid 20s) on a flight and he essentially told me he was making bank living in one of the most expensive cities in our state working at Costco. Was able to travel and go to concerts and much more off a Costco salary.♥ 1source record 11197
COSTCO ACTS LIKE THEY ARE ENTITLED AND DONT NEED YOUR BUSINESS. STOP WITH ALL THE NATZI OVERKILL MEMBERSHIP CARD CHECKS...FEELS LIKE IM IN A PRISON EVERYTINE I GO. IM SO DONE WITH IT!!♥ 0source record 11199
Ppl don’t know this but it’s in the Terms & Conditions they sign when getting the membership card. lol it’s a member only store what do ppl expect? I been shopping whole sale for 20 yrs this isn’t new.♥ 0source record 11200
Yeah they got every penny down the minute, you clock/break at the exact times. All palettes must be perfectly flush in line, etc lots of honestly good business practice all around♥ 0source record 11201
Also worked there, decent company♥ 0source record 11202
ok but why do I feel attacked at the self check out. they run up and start checking stuff like im really going to steal bulk items !♥ 0source record 11205
i make 24k a year 😭♥ 0source record 11207
Been with Costco for 6 year and same .. it’s so crazy♥ 0source record 11210
Yeah I regret not starting right after HS but you’re definitely in a different tax bracket now has a practitioner. Congrats♥ 0source record 11211
That’s actually a lot $75-$80k 👀♥ 0source record 11212
I’ve heard Costco treats employees great as far as pay, hours and benefits!♥ 0source record 11213
I love Costco because they pay a good wage and the CEO is ethical and fair. I keep my membership even though I don’t need it. I have noticed though some of the employees are a little meaner these days.♥ 0source record 11215
YOU MADE WHAT???? That’s more than some office workers make in a year holy shit. I wanna know why you left 😭🙏♥ 0source record 11216
Management and members here in Los Angeles are theeeeee worst!♥ 0source record 11217
just started working at costco and i’m making as much as i did at my old job working overnights with a differential and i was there for two years 😀 love it so far!!♥ 0source record 11221
I’m in corporate and wish I worked at Costco lol♥ 0source record 11223
Dang! Where I’m at, Costco only pays $15-17 an hour! I heard they had good benefits though♥ 0source record 11226
I actually make more than 80k, and I still treat people with respect. Being decent to others shouldn’t depend on your paycheck.♥ 0source record 11227
I actually worked for Costco for a little while should’ve kept the job but they have A1 health insurance and you get a dollar raise every year ( until the cap ) it’s some people making 22+ an hour ! Or more !♥ 0source record 11228
Wow I felt this way as I worked there through the holidays one year. The young supervisors treated people like garbage. I did not like working there. I was glad when it was over!😃♥ 0source record 11229
I worked HARD as a seasonal having just moved from another grocery store as a lead and was written up after two weeks bc I asked for a break bc I almost passed out in summer doing carts & I was FIT. Lead hated me. Every day a new person was in the office in tears. I left the minute I got an offer for anything else. And then they had the audacity to beg me to stay 🤣🤣🤣♥ 0source record 11230
The cashier makes more than me as a full time paramedic♥ 0source record 11231
And that’s why shopping at Costco is ALWAYS a pleasure. Now the jagoffs checkin receipts is another story 🤣🤣🤣♥ 0source record 11234
Dang my mom worked at Costco and they basically forced her to work the day our dog was put down.♥ 0source record 11238
Did you just tell me i need to work at costco!?🤨 I make around the same as a production associate♥ 0source record 11241
I wouldn’t you’d start from the bottom 20$hr unless you got time to invest to move up the pay scale & get promoted.♥ 0source record 11242
If the people checking the receipts at the exit getting the same pay, Costco is way over paying them MFs!! They make that like go so damn slow. I’m like hell no my kid don’t want a smilie face we need to go!!♥ 0source record 11245
Ppl who don’t work at Costco will never understand it but those ppl working the door save the company thousands if not millions of dollars in inventory. They are worth the pay. 👏♥ 0source record 11246
All they do is put a line through the receipt. There’s no way in the 1.32 seconds they have actually looked at what’s in my cart vs on the receipt.♥ 0source record 11247
Well if I was a cashier making 80k I’d feel better than most customers too lol♥ 0source record 11251
I know it’s wild Costco employees are paid so well I heard this I love it I’m about to apply lol♥ 0source record 11256
Costco pays well in certain departments. Others you are a pawn and are a number in a lotto when trying to move up.♥ 0source record 11258
Bro where? I live in Seattle and interviewed. I turned it down. They offered minimum wage, wanted me to be available 7 days a week, work full time days 5 days a week, to close only for 4 hours all those days. I have 20 years experience in retail, sales, warehouse with Lowe’s and Home Depot. I immediately turned it down.♥ 0source record 11259
This is validating! Why was the guy at the hearing aid place so RUDE? So it's not just here.♥ 0source record 11261
Costco customer here and I agree! Thank You for sharing your experience.♥ 0source record 11265
If you’re not connected and you’re ambitious that will work against you most the time. Knowledge is power and they know that. If you want to learn and grow do it slow but develop “relationships” with the supervisors and managers that will help you more than learning. Don’t brown nose though no one likes that and it will make other employees hate on, blame things on you. It’s crazy the hoops some have to go through while others just get placed.♥ 1source record 11267
Lmao this is so damn accurate! I recently left Costco and man the members are so damn entitled it’s insane♥ 1source record 11268
Spill the tea how to get freaking HIRED at Costco! My husband needs a fugging job & all I hear is good things about them!♥ 0source record 11269
costco employees from Miami Kendall are pedos!!! i have proof Photos and videos A guy got a 17 year old pregnant♥ 0source record 11270
Human’s who behave like they are above others have something coming to them. How rude!♥ 0source record 11271
Google is free: Here's a breakdown of Costco cashier salaries and related information: Average Pay: The average hourly pay for a Costco Cashier in the United States is around $13.46 per hour. The average annual salary for a Costco Cashier is estimated to be around $28,000.♥ 0source record 11273
My NDA is up I did a nanny for The packer family in 2016. James was engaged to Mariah Carey and Erica was dating Seal♥ 8,177source record 12354
The post is asking for company secrets. Saying who you used to work for isn’t exactly meeting the brief.♥ 567source record 12356
Yeah so if you continue reading her comment after her first sentence, you’ll see that she does say secrets♥ 576source record 12357
It gets to a point where maybe you need to give this app a break.♥ 668source record 12360
The secret is who I worked for. I wasn’t allowed to say until NDA expired. 😊♥ 31source record 12362
The secret was who I worked for♥ 3source record 12366
Girl no u not blowing up off someone!! News flash nobody cares about some old ass 2016 drama see this exactly why they made u sign that NDA big mouth♥ 6source record 12368
Girl those are not company secrets.. it was global news that packer and Mariah were engaged and the seal thing was widely talked about… some of you are too young to be adding to these conversations.♥ 1source record 12376
Of course it’s a secret, you’re there to care for the kids & not just any kids, kids who have billionaire parents. Also, any work involving kids is confidential.♥ 1source record 12378
why are you so passionate about this? who cares. that’s what came to her mind. it’s close enough to a “company secret” good god.♥ 1source record 12385
How do you get “passionate” from my comment? You seem much more passionate about my comment than I am about…well literally anything.♥ 0source record 12386
We shouldn’t have to dig in a thread where comments aren’t even in chronological order bb♥ 0source record 12389
Technically they are the company she worked for sooooooo….♥ 1source record 12391
I didn’t tell anyone what to do. I said what my opinion is of what she said. That’s two different things.♥ 6source record 12394
this person is probably in the industry trying to pull a look here not there situation. Creeper for sure.♥ 0source record 12399
ur display was right about you, you are anything BUT grown to be arguing on the internet. a secret is a secret♥ 2source record 12402
Why are you interrupting anyone when they’re telling their secrets who gives a shit what their secret is about. Just because you don’t care doesn’t mean the rest of us. Don’t let her talk ! 😆 Geez♥ 2source record 12408
How is it possible to interrupt someone in a social media format? “Let her talk” - how could I possible stop her? 😂😂😂♥ 0source record 12410
You really are a dumb American, because she worked for them and they had a secret that no one knew about… and she just told us a secret… SHE LITERALLY DID WHAT THE GIRL FROM THE VIDEO ASKED TO DO😂😂😂😂 go do something better with your time bitter betty. And stop being so salty, Because GIRLLL i can smell the salt all the way across the world🙄♥ 2source record 12413
Or maybe you could keep your opinion to yourself if your gonna be disrespectful. Like hello. It’s not hard to be fucking nice. dickhead♥ 1source record 12416
It’s relevant to the topic tho bc she’s working for someone that’s someone would then be her boss and then these would coming secrets to people who find interest in them. MOVE ON♥ 3source record 12419
it was her place of employment and the video says "now that you don't work there" so....yes it does you f*cking weirdo♥ 1source record 12421
Its still somewhere she used to WORK brainless.♥ 1source record 12426
JUST SCROLL TF ONNNN OH MY FUUHHH BRUH… it’s never that serious♥ 5source record 12427
ok.... she's not the only one who spoke like this it's not your post anyway why do you care so much🙄♥ 24source record 12430
But she sure is a dick. People like her are why we can’t enjoy things. 🙄♥ 1source record 12435
How were they? How much did they pay? just curious since he’s a billionaire♥ 3source record 12436
They were both extremely warm and kind! I was paid $20/hr♥ 9source record 12437
It was the trial salary. The salary for the job was insanely high♥ 0source record 12439
I saw people sharing their celeb experiences so I thought maybe it’s time I did♥ 0source record 12449
Why are you so mad that they’re not doing exactly what the question is, I was still interested if you’re not, you can scroll♥ 2source record 12450
girl I don't know who the packer family is or Erica or anything and I just went on a whole rabbit hole trying to find who they are and ended up on so many damn vivideos😂😂♥ 1source record 12458
The secret is who I worked for♥ 0source record 12460
Nah bc I’m with you, that shid was public knowledge, I was waiting for actual insider goss like why they broke up or SOMETHING 😂♥ 1source record 12467
The secret is that I worked for them, but my NDA expired.♥ 0source record 12468
technically she's her own company as nannying was her job & since she no longer works there, as the video states, she can share secrets from it. no need to get so technical & specific & be so rude. i hope you have better things to do with your day instead of nitpick random people like this♥ 3source record 12487
Yes, but I couldn’t disclose I worked for the Packers until the NDA expired♥ 0source record 12490
My brother in Christ - the fuck you think this is? Of course that’s company secrets. That’s some of the biggest money stuff. TYBAH♥ 28source record 12494
This is giving 12 year old commenting and after checking your profile 😀 wow … was not expecting that 🤡♥ 2source record 12495
You should retire the cosplaying; you aren’t fooling anyone.♥ 1source record 12500
The owner of the last company I worked at put the business in his wife’s name so he could get tax write offs for being women owned. Worked there for years and never even met her once (because she literally has nothing to do with the company )♥ 1source record 13460
Worked at a law firm. Some lawyers hadn't even taken the bar. Just senior lawyers signed off on their paperwork..♥ 205source record 14589

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Children: daycare, school and the people you leave them with783 records · 7 sub-topicsThe hardest section to read and the one with the most disputed claims — current educators contest almost every generalisation here. 783 records.
Do not send a child who cannot yet tell you what happened177 index entriesThe corpus's most-liked childcare claim, and the current educators who reject it in the same thread.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Do not send a child who cannot yet tell you what happened

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Do not send a child who cannot yet tell you what happened

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Use when: You are deciding when, or whether, to start childcare

How commenters applied it: 177 records. The most-liked childcare claim in the corpus is that a child who cannot yet speak cannot report what happened to them, and the argument underneath it is the most instructive part. Former daycare workers agree, several saying they left the industry and will not use it themselves. Current educators reject the generalisation and say it describes bad centres, not childcare; one points out that relatives are statistically the more common risk; another notes that childcare staff are mandated reporters. Parents in the middle describe having no alternative. The one substantive thing both sides supply is what to do instead of choosing: check reviews from staff as well as parents, and treat a sudden change in a child's behaviour as the signal.

What readers reported: I work in the child safeguarding space as a PI. If you can afford to not to send your child, don’t send them. If you have no alternative but to place your children in day care, here’s some advice: 1. Ask the director or person in charge to see their centres policy on child safeguarding and supervision of children. Do not accept anything less than a supervision policy outlining there is to be two eyes on a child at all times. If they don’t do not send your child there. Next you are going to ask every individual worker what the child safeguarding and child supervision policies say. Ask them what are appropriate interactions with children and what are not, what they do when a child makes a disclosure of abuse or they witness someone abusing a child, ask about supervising children going to the toilet (make sure they say two people at a time go with the children ). Make sure everyone knows you are watching and checking policies and conduct. This will make your child less vulnerable and you can identify the workers that are a potential risk by how they answer your questions and you can then raise your concerns with the person in charge to Your assertiveness makes your child less vulnerable. It won’t make you a Karen, it will assist with making the centre accountable, motivated to be compliant and a safer place for your child.

Limit: This card contains serious allegations about unnamed centres that are not verified, and current educators in the same threads reject the generalisation. Most families cannot act on the advice, which several commenters point out.

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All daycares have had employees who mistreat children. It does not mean all employees are mean to kids, but all daycares have employees that are mean to kids, and you have no idea which ones they are until it’s your kid that is treated poorly. Not worth the risk.

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not true that’s sketchy ones! work in a great daycare and every kid is happy any injuries r reported, every room has 2-3 cameras WITH sound and recording, outside playgrounds have 3-5 cameras on each playground with sound as well

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Disagree. Have worked for them for 11 years. There are good ones and there are not good ones. However the people who statistically harm children the most are relatives.

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please don't say this now I'm scared

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I always said not until they are old enough to talk. 4 kids and 16 yrs later and I never did it. Trust your gut. I’d so much rather be safe (and slightly more broke) than sorry.

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I remember when I was hunting for a school/daycare for my baby before I realize I can put my son to preschool as I work their because I though I had to pay I didn’t know it was free. There was a daycare I like that was by my house the day I decide to read their papers at home to sign and have my son go their, pathway the program that refer me to them call me about them getting sue for an accident that happen with a kid in their. Guess what the daycare staff did not call to let me know about that shit it took the source to inform me about this shit so when I call her ass she was like “oh, you know how kids are is a misunderstanding” and I was like then why didn’t you call me to tell me that shit or tell me what happen??? She was literally stuttering with excuse I lost my trust in them. Thank god pathway call me and give me the warning because baby they will NEVER call you if their is an accident at their daycare you will not know shit so pay attention and be friends with the families that drop their kids because boo you never know

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Your message is important. Thanks for the reminder. Hopefully these trolls will remember twice a child, bc this message also applies to nursing homes, unfortunately.

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I’ve worked in day cares. Don’t send your kid there if they don’t know talk.

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After working in a day care, I knew I could never send my kids to one.

posted about 48 days after the source
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I went to pick up my baby and he was in the floor with other baby and they were eating wet wipes. The usual person wasn't there like she was that morning. It was a kid watching a lot of babies under a year except she was watching the Simpsons on TV not the babies.

posted about 40 days after the source

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Which is crazy because my family keep trying to pressure me into daycare for my bby I said maybe when he’s at least 1 like come on he’s still small no 😭♥ 154source record 4699
Don't listen to them . You do what's best for you and YOUR baby♥ 222source record 4700
Don’t don’t don’t if you don’t have to don’t. We have babies crying and attend to the ones who cried first. Like first come first serve kinda thing it’s bad. The ones who are favorably can be left to cry. I would get in trouble for holding them I would get told “ yup just like home… all in the arms “♥ 0source record 4701
Asa daycare provider please try to wait u til baby can talk and communicate. I seen so many horrible things. That’s why I open my own bcuz working. At one 21 years ago was sick! Never trust the big centers♥ 2source record 4702
ive worker in a few daycares. I did my very best to protect the smaller ones from the bigger ones rough play. I dont like mixed age daycares at all.♥ 2source record 4703
i work at a daycare and my babies are very well taken care of and loved❤️it depends on the place♥ 5source record 4705
Don’t do it! My son was in daycare for 6 months when he was 1.5-2yrs and it was the worst. He would get sick every other week: colds, RSV, HFM, stomach bugs (we would be at urgent care or ER at least once a month). He would hardly eat and they didn’t care to tell me. He would always cry so much at drop off. He got extremely skinny from not eating well and being sick all the time. We finally pulled him out and he never went back. He’s healthy weight again, doesn’t get sick anymore (just maybe 2x a year) and is happy. My other baby is now 1.5 and we are not planning to send him at all.♥ 0source record 4706
yu should pray over yo baby i put my oldest in dc at 4mnts. but I also cut 10 rugs in the nicest nastiest way!! DC didn't know how to act but they respected me and treated my kid 💯♥ 0source record 4708
Not until four years of age. Ex teacher here, there’s unseen abuse happens to children esp if they can’t articulate themselves. Abuse takes 5 seconds.♥ 11source record 4709
I always said not until they are old enough to talk. 4 kids and 16 yrs later and I never did it. Trust your gut. I’d so much rather be safe (and slightly more broke) than sorry.♥ 1source record 4711
Don’t sis, is your baby not your family and do not let them pressure you, when your ready find one that’s for you and have access to cameras in there for you to access ok. Because with my baby I stay two years with him and put him in preschool after and aka I was a teacher assistant at his school and will work at other school so I work at a lot of school as a sub before I chose the right school for my baby that I know I can trust and I will pop in and or work next room to his class lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣I was not playing about my baby and I will block anyone that try me.♥ 4source record 4712
there's always a risk for abuse, my brother went through it and some daycare caregivers are sooo audacious!♥ 0source record 4713
Oh and believe them no matter how crazy your child’s story sounds believe them.♥ 0source record 4715
Hes too young for the daycare too and kids learn to socialize in other ways aswell not only daycare uno whats best for ur child♥ 0source record 4716
do anything you can to avoid sending your child, my wife has worked for a few they are all bad and dont care about your kid, they are all for profit and your child is just a number♥ 1source record 4717
I waited til my baby was 2 years old. Trust your gut♥ 2source record 4718
honestly just wait until you’re able to put them in preschool♥ 1source record 4719
I work in the child safeguarding space as a PI. If you can afford to not to send your child, don’t send them. If you have no alternative but to place your children in day care, here’s some advice: 1. Ask the director or person in charge to see their centres policy on child safeguarding and supervision of children. Do not accept anything less than a supervision policy outlining there is to be two eyes on a child at all times. If they don’t do not send your child there. Next you are going to ask every individual worker what the child safeguarding and child supervision policies say. Ask them what are appropriate interactions with children and what are not, what they do when a child makes a disclosure of abuse or they witness someone abusing a child, ask about supervising children going to the toilet (make sure they say two people at a time go with the children ). Make sure everyone knows you are watching and checking policies and conduct. This will make your child less vulnerable and you can identify the workers that are a potential risk by how they answer your questions and you can then raise your concerns with the person in charge to Your assertiveness makes your child less vulnerable. It won’t make you a Karen, it will assist with making the centre accountable, motivated to be compliant and a safer place for your child.♥ 16source record 4720
Yes wait until they can talk do your research on whatever daycare of it dot feel right find a new one♥ 47source record 4721
Exactly because my baby was speech delay so I was not about to trust my baby at all daycare when he can’t even talk♥ 13source record 4722
Same situation here my therapist advised me to put my kid to daycare but after some months my kid started crying histerically amd not wanting to let go of me and instopped sending asked the daycare they said nothing happened (theres no cameras ) so yeah♥ 1source record 4723
Exactly don’t take your chances, listen to your gut and sacrifice and find a safe trusted solution because it will save your baby and your pain in the long run.♥ 1source record 4724
True ! I also mentioned in some comments above that sending kids to daycare doesnt do much for socialization tbh there are other ways aswell or sometimes kids just dont want to i guess♥ 1source record 4725
I visited another daycare and asked the lady if there were any cameras. She looked me in the eye and told me that I needed to trust her with my child, which meant there were no cameras or even pictures or videos to show how my child was doing. I thought, “Excuse me, I just met you!” I was trying to get to know her because I wanted to trust her with my child. But instead, she was telling me that I had to trust her immediately and that she wouldn't provide any updates about my baby while in her care. I quickly took my child and left, thinking, “Say less, I’m out of here!”♥ 1source record 4726
Honestly many bad things happen nearly everyday at some point in daycares tbh i feel like if the child talks its different but with a kid who dont better to not risk it you did the right thing♥ 1source record 4727
Also to me that sounded like a red flag tbh cuz they could get away if anything bad happens♥ 0source record 4728
He’s probably speech delayed because he spends 24/7 with one person and doesn’t get enough interaction 🙄 Daycare is amazing for speech delayed children, they hear talking all day and TO them.♥ 1source record 4729
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣You mean I stay muted with my baby and don’t talk to him or take him out or have play dates lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣you don’t know nothing or how a child can be born speech delay and you bring your selfless thought and thinking you know me and my baby lol 😂 girl bye 👋♥ 0source record 4730
Babies aren’t BORN talking or with a speech delay 🙄 I have 2 kids, both daycare since age 1 and both extremely intelligent. 🤷🏼‍♀️You do you but your little playdates with other autistic kids aren’t gonna do it before school.♥ 0source record 4731
🧐Wow, the ignorance is loud. Let’s clear a few things up: Children can absolutely be born with speech delays due to a wide range of factors from birth complications to neurological differences, hearing issues, or even genetics. You having “2 daycare kids” doesn’t make you a child development expert. It just makes you loud with a narrow lens. My son is not only smart he’s thriving in his own way, at his own pace. Just because he didn’t follow your cookie-cutter timeline doesn’t make him less than. It makes him unique and I celebrate that every day. You assumed I sit in silence with my child and don’t socialize him, which says more about your mindset than my parenting. My son is well-loved, stimulated, and supported with intentional care, not just dropped off to be one of many. And finally throwing around the word “autistic” as an insult is disgusting. If your kids are truly “extremely intelligent,” I hope you’re raising them to be more empathetic and informed than you’re showing here. Take several seats. 🪑🪑🪑♥ 0source record 4732
I’m a maintenance contractor for a large daycare chain and I would never take my children there nor recommend anyone else to.♥ 26source record 4733
my mom said I was touched as a child , this occurred in the 90s I vaguely remember daycare though♥ 9source record 4734
I’m a single mom with no village who has to work full time or we have no roof over our head. I’ve been trying to ignore those comments. 😭 luckily I know his daycare worker thru my work and she lets me watch their cameras.♥ 7source record 4735
I worked as a preschool teacher and it’s not that bad. You have to do your research and definitely ask about pop in visits. But I was in Cali so idk if it’s different in other states. Private school or daycare very much will cater to parents. A teacher will lose their job if there is any wrong doing going on. Stay away from in home daycare’s unless you know the person.♥ 4source record 4736
Yea I don’t do daycare. My husband and I work out of schedules. My babies too young and don’t even talk yet♥ 3source record 4737
Every time people try to shame me for not looking for a daycare, I tell them I will let him go when he can talk. And they look at me like I’m crazy. 🤦🏻‍♀️♥ 2source record 4739
I can’t believe it - I worked at a daycare in the summers as a college student and saw none of this 😔… but I was young and naive♥ 1source record 4741
I just pulled my daughter out of day care bc i caught the teacher shouting at kids and i feel so much more relief♥ 1source record 4742
Fr i work at a daycare and love my kiddos i could never imagine them being treated badly. I will say though a lot of parents treat their kids badly and bring them to daycare ifykyk♥ 1source record 4743
Boo that shit saved me and my baby I completely delete the application process and say no thank you and hang up. Literally miss a bullet thank god♥ 1source record 4744
Daycare is crazy if you don’t work there you better have some extra special educators or your child will just get the basics and no extra care♥ 0source record 4747
Daycares are as scary as nursing homes. I have so many horror stories from when my kids were in daycare. Really bad stuff.♥ 0source record 4748
just know not every single one is like that ❤️i loved every single child and im still friends with a lot of my children’s parents to this day ! it’s mostly because they hire teenagers who don’t care about children but care about money♥ 0source record 4751
its all true. Daycares are the worst, i worked at a daycare 2yrs ago and they were so nasty towards the children; going as far as telling a non verbal 3yr old to shove his blanket in his mouth and chke himself. i quit after.♥ 0source record 4752
I hate it I don’t want to send my baby but we can’t afford it. She’s only 9 months😭♥ 0source record 4753
As someone who’s been in the early education industry for 11 years, do your research and always make sure there are cameras in the classroom that you can access♥ 0source record 4755
It’s horrible and to think them ppl haven’t done anything about it I’m sure. This along with the aged care ones♥ 0source record 4756
Family Daycares are better. My mom is the sole provider in her family daycare, has a limit of only 5 children and only one can be an infant. She was a teacher in our country so she does didactic activities with them throughout the day.♥ 0source record 4758
daycares are awful. family daycares however are great♥ 0source record 4759
I ran a daycare for 15 yrs … I made all my babies food from scratch, I was a teacher even thought them Spanish , their personal driver, I took them to theme parks, gift for their birthdays and Christmas, potty trained, I was their safe space.. now having babies of their own calling me now in their 20s wishing I still did daycare. Seen this comments just makes me want to do it again.♥ 0source record 4760
Stay home with the baby even if it means barely making it♥ 0source record 4761
I have only had one good home daycare lady, the rest were shiesty. One lady, I gave a two week notice verbally, at the two week mark she said she needed it in writing. So, we owed her another two weeks pay. Another called in a few days and said her brother died. She was a care giver for her sick brother. Lone and behold he was there as I brought her a sympathy flowers and cards. We left a few weeks after that.♥ 0source record 4763
I love daycare! Haven’t had not one problem and my son is four now! Praying for those who didn’t get to experience this!♥ 0source record 4764
Sadly they’re true. I worked in a daycare for a month and a half and quit due to how I’d see some of the children being treated. The “bad” kids were always treated poorly. Very sad♥ 0source record 4765
Check out the news in Melbourne Australia right now. I don’t have kids but I would never send mine to day care.♥ 0source record 4766
I have owned/worked places that are great. This isn’t true. You have to go with your gut but there are lots of lovely daycares with great staff!♥ 0source record 4767
I never have and never will trust a daycare. I've seen proof they're no good♥ 0source record 4768
Not all of them 😭 I worked in a daycare for 7 years. Those were my children. Most of them are in the 11-17 year old range now and still come up to me when I see them out and about. We had a timeeee every day and they remember it 😂♥ 0source record 4769
What’s sad is that I’ve worked in daycare for 6 years and I’ve never mistreated any child in my care and have treated them all as my babies and parents will take their aggravation from the office out on their child’s teacher when we are doing the most for their children and this is why a lot of daycares get deemed “awful”. Now I’m not saying there’s not terrible people working in daycares bc I’ve seen plenty but a lot of the time in MY experience it’s the parents manipulating the situation♥ 0source record 4770
I hope that teacher was immediately let go? But sadly I’ve seen enough that I doubt it.♥ 0source record 4771
I think they were but it was 4 years ago so I don’t even remember♥ 0source record 4772
I was forced to work in one when my home clients cancelled and let me tell you, don’t put your kids in daycare. I’m glad I made that sacrifice not to for child 2&3 b/c child 1 had so many daycares & sitters for this very reason.♥ 0source record 4779
I remember when I was hunting for a school/daycare for my baby before I realize I can put my son to preschool as I work their because I though I had to pay I didn’t know it was free. There was a daycare I like that was by my house the day I decide to read their papers at home to sign and have my son go their, pathway the program that refer me to them call me about them getting sue for an accident that happen with a kid in their. Guess what the daycare staff did not call to let me know about that shit it took the source to inform me about this shit so when I call her ass she was like “oh, you know how kids are is a misunderstanding” and I was like then why didn’t you call me to tell me that shit or tell me what happen??? She was literally stuttering with excuse I lost my trust in them. Thank god pathway call me and give me the warning because baby they will NEVER call you if their is an accident at their daycare you will not know shit so pay attention and be friends with the families that drop their kids because boo you never know♥ 2source record 4780
my local daycare just had a 26yo male daycare worker charged with 70 SA offences, and now over 1200 children need to get tested for chlamydia and gonorrhoea...last year a male daycare worker an hrs drive away got charged with over 300 offences...if theres a male worker, I'd never send my kids there.♥ 1source record 4781
No One loves your baby or child like you. We never used daycare. Me My Husband or my Mom . If not get a Nanny♥ 0source record 4784
If you can keep your child home or with family please do. Daycares do not give af about your baby. Honestly even at church child care centers, they will mistreat your child, especially any with special needs since they are not equipped to deal with them and these are only volunteers.♥ 0source record 4785
It’s weird to idk iv worked at three preschools and everything was perfect but i recommend a woman’s only one and you’ll find that within a religious prek especially Jewish regardless if you are Jewish they don’t talk about god but they do some Jewish things but there fun asfff!! And my ymca in fl was amazing but I got to Texas and they have dudes working so just look for female only prek or day care♥ 0source record 4786
I’ve worked in day cares. Don’t send your kid there if they don’t know talk.♥ 41,663source record 8954
Oh stop it not all daycares are bad. Being so dramatic just like the kids♥ 53source record 8958
You sound like the type to dismiss a predator in the family. What she says is true, because not being able to communicate wrongdoing should concern you lady.♥ 136source record 8959
Well since you know me so well you’re so right 100%. Congratulations 🎉♥ 1source record 8960
All daycares have had employees who mistreat children. It does not mean all employees are mean to kids, but all daycares have employees that are mean to kids, and you have no idea which ones they are until it’s your kid that is treated poorly. Not worth the risk.♥ 54source record 8961
ur right not all daycares are bad, but bad people get hired on and abuse starts to happen or good people make a big fuck up and instead of owning up & fixing it try to cover up♥ 17source record 8962
be wary of scare tactics that the right are using to try to get women to stay in the home♥ 8source record 8963
Uhhh, just bc YOU don’t want to protect your kids doesn’t mean the rest of us don’t. 💕♥ 1source record 8964
So then all Teachers, police officers, and doctors are bad. Don’t send your kids to school or go to the doctor. Definitely don’t call a police officer♥ 0source record 8967
Girl what are you even yapping about please hush if my child can’t speak I’m not sending them no where that ain’t under camera surveillance..once my child can SPEAK UP then I will feel more comfortable otherwise f that♥ 1source record 8968
Just like people assume about daycare workers. If all the workers are bad then everybody is bad♥ 0source record 8970
Once again that’s coming out of your MOUTH so it’s your assumption no isn’t saying everyone bad, please learn to comprehend..a lot of daycare workers are 🗑️only in it for the money♥ 0source record 8971
Haha most r bad sorry to break it to u but ur towns preschools r breaking code and just lying to state so they dont get in trouble 😂😂😂♥ 0source record 8974
Thank god someone else is noticing it too. That’s the real secret. It’s the same as “birth control is bad for you” propaganda.♥ 0source record 8975
Agreed! I worked in one for years and it was really great. Kids came first. Parents were the only ones who would cause problems. Babies were ALWAYS cared for!♥ 0source record 8982
YESSS! I have all one year olds. Oh my goodness they are my whole heart.♥ 0source record 8983
I just wouldn’t send my kid to one until they can talk so they can tell me if something happens to them♥ 0source record 8984
The daycare my daughter goes to has camera in ever corner and outside♥ 0source record 8985
It’s just how I personally feel I still wouldn’t feel comfortable things can still happen w csmetsd or in places without them and if they can’t talk they won’t be able to vocalize if something went wrong♥ 0source record 8986
I don't think it's that I think it's a scenario where God forbid if your child is SA'd or abused they won't be able to speak up for themselves and you may miss the signs early on. You can never be too careful so I agree on this one♥ 0source record 8988
You seem to feel inferior to her honesty and it shows in your comment.♥ 0source record 9005
the irony of your comment having a mistake in it is gold♥ 379source record 9012
Please do not apologize to them. They knew what you mean they wanted to be a-holes. 💁🏾‍♀️♥ 2source record 9017
Your message is important. Thanks for the reminder. Hopefully these trolls will remember twice a child, bc this message also applies to nursing homes, unfortunately.♥ 4source record 9018
You shouldn't have to apologize for the grammatical error she should apologize for being rude. She felt inferior to you being candid and her immaturity was proven in her statement.♥ 0source record 9020
Facts, I worked in daycare and they would talk so bad about the kid and the family♥ 24source record 9022
not true that’s sketchy ones! work in a great daycare and every kid is happy any injuries r reported, every room has 2-3 cameras WITH sound and recording, outside playgrounds have 3-5 cameras on each playground with sound as well♥ 10source record 9024
Do not send them regardless. They truly do not care about you and are more interested in the drama ..♥ 10source record 9025
I had a classmate whose child was killed in a daycare… not sure if she knows what “really happened” to this day & it was prob about 10 yrs ago now.♥ 8source record 9026
I work at a daycare and honestly all the teachers in my location are loving. Not everyone is bad♥ 5source record 9029
I work at an excellent daycare. Not all of them are bad.♥ 5source record 9030
I work in daycares now and I hate it. 😭♥ 1source record 9031
worked in one for 10 years. if you see soemthing wrong don’t be afraid to speak up. few bad ones gives bad names to most of them. do what you think is right!!♥ 4source record 9032
Even if they do. I watched a teacher shake tf out of a kid and when she went crying to one teacher about it, the other teacher said it never happened.♥ 4source record 9033
I actually don’t like cameras , creeps watching my kid all day or hacking the school cameras, anyone can watch the live stream. No thank you.♥ 3source record 9037
My children are in their 20s and I never sent them until they could talk. I agree!♥ 1source record 9042
I worked at a daycare for 4 years and we all treated those kids like they were our own. I’d say choose your daycares wisely though!♥ 1source record 9046
I definitely have. I thought she was referring to something - until she clarified it was a typo. Now I know what she meant. Was trying to understand♥ 1source record 9047
I had an in home daycare for years and I loved those babies like my own. We had parties and I sang happy birthday to them. I had one little boy from the time he was 8 weeks to 3 years. I still keep in touch with his family and have playdates with my daughter who was the same exact age as him. Some daycares are bad, but not all of us. Some of us do love the babies we keep ❤️♥ 1source record 9048
I used to work at a church daycare and idk what you’re talking about. We treated those kids like they were ours♥ 1source record 9049
You and the rest of us knew what she meant this isn’t English class. This is social media. 💁🏾‍♀️🥴😅♥ 1source record 9050
NOT TRUE. I am a preschool teacher. Some places are trash and should be closed. But there are places that are amazing no matter the age. Peace and blessings 🫶🏾♥ 1source record 9053
As a daycare teacher this is 100% true♥ 1source record 9056
After working in a day care, I knew I could never send my kids to one.♥ 0source record 9062
As a day care worker, I secound this. If they can’t talk DONT Send them. I was a floater so had no say. I felt so bad.♥ 0source record 9064
What is this meant to say? Sorry I’m struggling to understand♥ 0source record 9066
Tell my husband this often. I want to work, but I’m absolutely not ready because they are still so little in my eyes. They can talk, but let’s be honest they can still be manipulated♥ 0source record 9067
:/ makes me thankful for the one I work at♥ 0source record 9068
I’ve been a teacher in a daycare for 17 years and it’s a beautiful place to work. I’ve been blessed to work with infants and toddlers. I love my career and my coworkers are top notch!♥ 0source record 9069
[account] Difference is that there’s mandatory reporting in child care. Not non-disclosure. I hope your using your voice and sm platform to speak up on their behalf 😊♥ 0source record 9070
I keep saying this in my mind bc my bby 2 autistic and can’t talk yet !!!!♥ 0source record 9072
have you heard about the atrocities that have been happening in Australian daycares recently!? 😭♥ 0source record 9076
This is so true. My son told me years later that one of the women at his daycare was mean to him and would yank his arm. I would see finger prints on his arm but didn’t know who did it and management would notate the marks but nothing further was ever done. It was so frustrating♥ 0source record 9077
Me too I suggest don’t send your kids there at all!! 😭 Because working at daycare the managers and assistant managers don’t like kids they only pretend like they do. Talk down on them and all! That’s why I can’t work in child care anymore. I had plenty of daycares trying to hire me because I ready have the love and care for the kids, they hate when you tell them you will think about it and that’s when the true colors start coming out. They only wanted me is to make there image look good and it’s really crazy like the managers HATE KIDS. I will never put my child in a daycare can ppl are nasty to kids fr.♥ 0source record 9079
not sure if it's international but have you heard what's happening in Australia ATM with daycare... it makes me want to quit working in DC and not let me kid step foot in a DC again♥ 0source record 9080
Yeah I’m refusing to ever send my son there once he’s born 😭 already told my man I will be staying at home no negotiations♥ 0source record 9087
It’s true, I’ve worked at a private school as a pre k teacher and the things I seen teachers do to the toddlers in the daycare section was horrible. I had to quit and report what was going on. Bonus … the PE teacher was too hands on the middle school girls… it was gross.♥ 0source record 9092
Former daycare worker and I say this exact thing to every person I come across. It’s so scary what parents don’t know…♥ 0source record 9095
I work for a SpedEd program at a middle school and while most of staff are incredible, many are so so lazy and it impacts the students — especially those that are nonverbal & unable to effectively self advocate bc they aren’t checked in on as often & their education is seriously lacking.♥ 0source record 9096
Yessss! If you don’t have to send your child to daycare…DON’T♥ 0source record 9097
I second this! I worked at daycare too and if you can find a family member to take care of them please do it♥ 0source record 9099
This✨ My daughter came up to me and told me exactly who bit and kicked her in front of the teachers. They replied with, we are working on the accident report. Like no, that should have been mentioned to me as soon as it happened.♥ 0source record 9100
As a former daycare employee this is true I quit and reported the facility I worked in because of the things I’ve witnessed♥ 0source record 9101
I refuse to send my daughter to daycare since she can’t talk yet. You just validated me without even trying. Everyone thought I was crazy when I said that! Thank you 👏👏👏♥ 0source record 9104
My son is nonverbal and autistic and it scares me so much bc he cannot verbalize if someone is abusing him. 🥺♥ 0source record 9107
I always said this. My kid never went until she knew how to tell me everything.♥ 0source record 9108
Yep I refused to send my kid to child care until she was vocal asf cause yea tell momma what happened bae😡♥ 0source record 9109
I worked in several daycares and with the way my coworkers talked and treated those kids I would never send my kids to a daycare and never did.♥ 0source record 9110
This is so true! I have worked in one. A child was being abused by someone outside of the daycare but the boss told her daycare “teacher” not to say anything because they didn’t want to loose the child because the parents paid every month on time♥ 0source record 9116
Exactly. This is why I quit my job to stay home whil the rest of my life”friends” went back to work and asked me questions like “so what do you do all day?” Umm …!♥ 0source record 9117
That part! Me and my sister stayed home with our kids until they could. I DONT TRUST ANYONE! Lol♥ 0source record 9120
‼️‼️‼️‼️I worked in daycares tooo and this is so true also teddy bears or anything made of cloth keeps the kids sick‼️‼️‼️♥ 0source record 9121
I asked for a sign and this is it, I have a son with Down Syndrome💙 thank you!!❤️♥ 0source record 9122
We only found out once he got into preschool and saw a huge improvement in his behavior and speaking abilities. He tell us about his day and compare how much nicer his new teacher was to the old daycare provider.♥ 0source record 9123
Real shit! My godson was in a “family friend’s” daycare and she would try to break his spirit. She would lock him away in the laundry room while he was strapped him in a high chair with a sock stuffed in his mouth 😭♥ 0source record 9124
I agree I never worked at one but my son was a selective mute like me when I was a kid and he ended up getting a big scratch under his eye and wouldn’t tell me who did it.♥ 0source record 9125
So glad I was fortunate enough to never have to put my daughter at a daycare or sitter! I had to make a lot of changes in my life, but it was worth it to know she is always safe and with someone I trust.♥ 0source record 9126
Facts I tell them parents everything never kept a secret that’s why they always wanted me to babysit on the weekends lol 😂♥ 0source record 9127
I truly live by this !! Don’t send them anywhere without you as well♥ 0source record 9128
This is true, I know a lady that has an in home daycare and she was pinching the cheeks of the kids that couldn't speak so hard it left bruises on their faces. I called DSS on her and made a case but nothing happened since they had no proof of where the bruises came from.♥ 0source record 9129
I also worked at a daycare 3 to 9 months room. we were the best people in charge of your baby. best ladys ever.♥ 0source record 9131
100%! I haven’t found a daycare yet that isn’t terrible♥ 0source record 9136
Just don’t take your kid to a chain coming from someone who works in childcare♥ 0source record 9137
I would argue not to send them there at all but especially if they can’t talk. The regular abuse is crazy♥ 0source record 9139
Trueee and if ya have to work n it’s not other option makes they they have cameras everywhere♥ 0source record 9140
Exactly! I worked in a couple and it’s terrible. I didn’t send my kid until her speech was clear enough for anyone to understand♥ 0source record 9144
THIS!!!!!!!! I worked in THREE daycares all treated those kids awful♥ 0source record 9147
i told my fiancee that we will NOT have our kids in daycare .♥ 0source record 9150
Uh yes it is.. I’ve worked in several and seen first hand. I left because my own child was getting neglected at the daycare I worked at.♥ 0source record 9153
I own a preschool center and this is offensive!!!! Not all preschools are the same 😡♥ 1source record 9155
I went to pick up my baby and he was in the floor with other baby and they were eating wet wipes. The usual person wasn't there like she was that morning. It was a kid watching a lot of babies under a year except she was watching the Simpsons on TV not the babies.♥ 0source record 9157
its day care..... I was a daycare teacher and we had TONS of non verbal children. 😐😐 we loved them just as much as the others. also, it seems you clearly dont know English very well. how hypocritical♥ 0source record 9159
Agreed!!! They are all bad. I worked as a sub for a bunch of daycares in college and it’s disgusting♥ 0source record 9160
I came to second this! I’m a stay at home mom because I used to work at a daycare before I had kids 😅 thankfully my youngest is almost 3 and I’ll be heading back to work in the next year or two♥ 0source record 9162
1) that’s not an option for most people, and 2) there are tons of great daycares with amazing caregivers. Yours apparently wasn’t.♥ 0source record 9163
My son learned how to talk from going to daycare. It helped him attempt when he previously wasn't. Started talking within months. Your daycare must suck.♥ 0source record 9164
my son just did his first year of pre school and they shut the program down. I saw a student (it was at a high school) that had his class and her mom said that their was drama surrounding my son and something about the way the teacher treated him, she stood up for him and ended up having to leave the class. my mom works at the high school and asked the principal about it and she didn't remember...seems sketchy but my son doesn't know♥ 0source record 9165
This! I used to work at one when I was like 19 and they would hit the kids and when I tried to report it to the manager, she ended up screaming at me and I walked out.♥ 0source record 9166
My mom used to work at a daycare. She quit because her coworkers would hit the 3 & under & the person who was suppose to clean barely would. When she told her boss she didn’t do anything about it.♥ 0source record 9167
I’ve worked at daycares. Why would you say this? Plenty of children I worked with couldn’t talk…♥ 0source record 9168
I hope that you were a voice for those that couldn’t use theirs♥ 0source record 9169
worked one shift and quit by email that night. some girls in there are AMAZING but the way they talk to them is just 🤮♥ 0source record 9170
just because you are a terrible daycare worker doesn't mean that the rest of them are. many places have extremely high standards for their child care employees that put stay-at-home moms to shame♥ 0source record 9171
Day care is not a safe place for your children so better patch it up with granny or mother in law they gonna watch and live your baby better than day care !! I stand on this one♥ 1,541source record 12124
Youtube/TikTok channel "Corporate Clapback" posts reputable companies offering remote work♥ 2source record 12126
My sister works at a daycare (with little experience,but she knows what she’s doing) they have like 5 newborns assigned to her♥ 1source record 12127
My parents and grandparents didn't trust day care. My children stayed home until kindergarten♥ 0source record 12129
Disagree. Have worked for them for 11 years. There are good ones and there are not good ones. However the people who statistically harm children the most are relatives.♥ 8source record 12132
This because I just got fired for reporting child abuse from a coworker on the infants and nothing got done so I reported it to the parents and they fired me for going over their heads, that lady abusing infants still works there♥ 0source record 12134
My grandmother kept my first 3. By the time I had my last 2 (11 year age gap b/sets), she was too old. Had to send both to daycare! Sucked!!♥ 0source record 12135

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I walked in a little early to pick up my bfs youngest told them who I was waiting for, they just gave me the wrong child. Be careful.

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this. worked at a daycare when i was pregnant w my second hoping to get my daughter in and him on the list & NOPE. they were absolutely horrible and its literally the best rated one around us bc its a Montessori school.

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Not true. Some teachers are really nice and love being around children.

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It’s the opposite in my case. My child was preforming and I asked for it to be carried out in school, I was told no they don’t have the staff to help assist, they keep the parents FAR away from

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I’ll never put my babies in daycare. I’ll just be broke if I have to.

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I walked in a little early to pick up my bfs youngest told them who I was waiting for, they just gave me the wrong child. Be careful.

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As an ESE teacher…100%!!!!!!!! Had a district official tell me I needed to be careful when I advise services kids need, because I have “no clue” and I’ll be the one “liable for paying for said services because it was my idea.” I was advocating for a sixth grader who couldn’t sit well because it hurt his body, and could not spell his name. Had only RECENTLY gotten an IEP.

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If your child cannot talk, make frequent surprise visits to their daycare or classroom. Being advocates to IEP meetings. They’re worth every cent

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Shit like this is why I'm so glad I've been able to stay home with my kids, omg. I feel awful for any parent that wants to but can't 😭

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its not illegal in wv and its how I hold my bosses accountable. they won't be going back on their word.

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If your child cannot talk, make frequent surprise visits to their daycare or classroom. Being advocates to IEP meetings. They’re worth every cent♥ 18,726source record 5285
As a special needs mom with a non verbal son that was abused at school, THIS is the one. I wish I had 😭♥ 744source record 5286
I also have a nonverbal child that has significant trauma from school. Hugs!!♥ 1source record 5287
my kid was non verbal til 3 and I had issues before he could speak also♥ 0source record 5288
How did you figure out? And what happened? Please tell me, my son is autistic and pre verbal, possibly starting school soon!♥ 133source record 5289
Pay attention to his/her behaviors. I ignored my son thinking because he was approaching teens he was just being stubborn but wondered if something was going on. He didn’t want to get dressed and go to school where before he loved it. We found out and it all clicked. Trust your gut always! I wish I had!!♥ 293source record 5290
Omgg I would be so angry ugh these piece of 💩, I don’t understand why they work with these kids & treat them this way..there special place for them♥ 53source record 5291
Find a daycare with live cameras for you to access. If you’re at a desk job or chill job get a tablet or phone and watch the cameras all day. It may seem obsessive but I caught them secluding my baby doing it.♥ 218source record 5295
Yes, the same happened to my 3yr old daughter. My once happy autistic kid suddenly would cry hysterically every morning on her way to preschool and began to hit. She was being bullied by the older kids in her special needs class and the teacher admitted that they would send her to a corner all the time. I pulled her out of that public school and found a Montessori school where she thrived.♥ 5source record 5298
Giiiiirl I called up there and told them to take my baby out of that seat and let her play. From then on out they knew I was watching♥ 3source record 5299
Hi! I am a SLP in a school and I do clinic work across the lifespan. Pay attention to their consistent behavior going into the session or school. For example, if they are weary of going in the first month or 2. Okay, fine. But, when they are comfortable, they will walk in. I say a month or 2 just because a lot of my kids who have ASD take a while to acclimate. However, if they are fine with going in and then all of a sudden they don’t want to go in on a consistent basis (not just a random one or 2), consistent basis, if they have problem with one specific teacher/para/staff and not the others. If they are consistently crying and getting behavior reports that were once good and then all of the sudden bad consistently. Investigate it. Get the specific details. What they did to redirect the behavior and things like that. If they give vague answers, keep an eye on it, request cameras be in the classroom. If they have them, ask to randomly (no warning), pull them. Just please remember consistent being a key word here. You have to be able to differentiate between off days/weeks and neglect/abuse. Sometimes the student doesn’t jive with the therapist or teacher. Request a new one. See if it continues♥ 0source record 5300
Buy an Angel sense. I found out that her teacher was treating her bad because of it♥ 41source record 5301
Isn’t that a gps tracker? Do you know anyone that record sound♥ 3source record 5302
As a para educator of many years, if your child doesn’t “light up” or show their common signs of happiness when you talk about the teachers and staff something isn’t right. Even my students that I have pushed hard so they would refuse to do what I had asked them to do and get mad at me on a daily basis, still light up like a Christmas tree when I see them and draw me pictures, or give/make me random gifts. When you truly teach a student and truly care about them, the student can tell even if you push them to do their best.♥ 12source record 5305
Check out the studies that show the benefits of increasing vitamin D for kids with autism.♥ 8source record 5306
As someone who works with children with ASD and teaches preverbal skills, kids communicate in different ways.♥ 63source record 5307
I would always tell daycare if I was dropping my kid off late or picking them up later than usual, but not if I planned on picking them up early♥ 63source record 5308
Advocates do nothing at an IEP mtg! No one cares about what they say as team members are motivated to support children. Advocates make us chuckle♥ 12source record 5309
I don’t agree- advocates put extra pressure on the situation in the child’s favor and may be able to pull in legal representation if necessary. Don’t underestimate the power of having a bigger team!!♥ 19source record 5310
A good advocate can help -yes. But many I've seen are loud, argumentative and make things worse. They often advocate for the wrong things. If a parent wants something, they should offer to help the teacher and frequently volunteer in the classroom. They'll get more with honey than with the bee. Also, where appropriate, carry over strategies that work at school, in the home, and vice versa.♥ 1source record 5311
They shouldn’t HAVE to help you do YOUR job that you’re PAID to do just for you to treat their kids right :)♥ 9source record 5312
It is a team effort. Usually children w/ special needs have issues which span across home and school. The parent can undo everything done at school if they don't assist. Potty training is an example. If the parent doesn't carry over at home, the child may revert back to diapers.♥ 0source record 5313
💀 I thought you meant some workers weren’t caring for children and treating them poorly just due to parents not volunteering to come there and help. My fault♥ 1source record 5314
It’s the opposite in my case. My child was preforming and I asked for it to be carried out in school, I was told no they don’t have the staff to help assist, they keep the parents FAR away from♥ 1source record 5315
The school and we are not allowed in classrooms, IEPs are non existent no s&L no ot no Pycologist it’s disgraceful♥ 0source record 5316
That is unfortunate. It is great when a parent is understanding, helpful and supportive. They must have had some bad experiences in the past for them to keep parents at arms length.♥ 0source record 5317
Girl, it’s a special school. It’s not the same as mainstream they don’t care about children with disabilities it’s so awful♥ 0source record 5319
I don’t care if you disagree! I know! 🤣Parents paying for advocate? Laughable, but do you… it changes nothing♥ 0source record 5320
It sounds like we have experienced different things and have different perspectives. It probably depends on the situation and who the child advocate is 🤷🏻‍♀️♥ 9source record 5321
Also maybe the school / daycare you work for does not care about families or does not have the resources to change anything?♥ 1source record 5322
Yes my son is on the spectrum and I didn’t find out he was being bullied until I showed up to get school for him having a big knot on his head. The school district has a permanent note saying “mom has legal representation on standby” FIGHT FOR YOUR BABIES♥ 29source record 5324
Never go to an IEP meeting alone. They will gang up on you quick. Take a friend, hire someone, ask one of the therapists. Anything.♥ 7source record 5325
And if they’re under the age of three, get your child in early intervention. It’s an every state in the US.♥ 5source record 5332
THIS!! Mine has cameras and I caught them secluding my baby from everyone else. I called up there and watched them remove her. Now I pick her up at different times every single day.♥ 4source record 5333
my wife is a school psych, advocates are good absolutely recommend them but there are some out there that make it their mission to just be mean♥ 2source record 5337
As an educator and mom myself I agree with this completely! Working within schools I’ve seen a lot especially in special education. Always be that advocate for your child because your voice matters.♥ 2source record 5338
I'd put a recording device in their back pack or pocket. Even a hidden camera, they are so savvy these days just about anything can be a camera.♥ 1source record 5340
I can't stress this enough early intervention will put your child on a great path. If you ignore it especially bc you're upset or in denial your child will suffer for the rest of their lives and so will you.♥ 1source record 5341
Instead of putting your children in a regular daycare, you need to go the extra mile and put them in a specialized daycare center/therapy center.♥ 1source record 5344
Those places be where those negligent ppl are at the most cus they know exactly what they are doing♥ 1source record 5345
Here where I live the school won’t allow you near the class rooms unless they’re having an event for that specific class.♥ 1source record 5346
Yeah I’m sure the parents would love to make surprise visits to the classroom. The same way there’s always an excuse for why they don’t answer emails or calls about their kids behavior♥ 1source record 5347
That I do agree. Also helps. If your child have an IEP. They can take it all the way to college.♥ 0source record 5350
As a school SLP I agree with this statement. Advocates make a world of a difference♥ 0source record 5351
As an ESE teacher…100%!!!!!!!! Had a district official tell me I needed to be careful when I advise services kids need, because I have “no clue” and I’ll be the one “liable for paying for said services because it was my idea.” I was advocating for a sixth grader who couldn’t sit well because it hurt his body, and could not spell his name. Had only RECENTLY gotten an IEP.♥ 0source record 5352
Do public schools just allow you to pop in randomly? Like wouldn’t they just ask you toenail at the front desk to visit your child?♥ 0source record 5353
I second this! Do your research on special Ed laws or find an advocate for your iep meetings. They will help you understand all the hard lingo and actually push for sped services if that’s what you want♥ 0source record 5355
My son was unable to speak as a toddler because he needed tubes in his ears, and the doctor was scamming us into thinking that he couldn't get them. i think he was in cahoots with the insurance company. Anyways, I discovered one day that the staff had been leaving the kids out in the high summer heat, and not relieving them in any way from the weather. They were also just sitting around ignoring the kids and chatting with each other all day. My son was so frustrated, not being able to communicate and from being treated this way, that he eventually began biting other children. I didn't realize the true problem until I visited once during the middle of the day and caught them in the act. My other son was even younger when he was at a home daycare. i had no experience with daycare.I never intended to put my kids in one. I found out after his nine year old sister joined him in the summer at the daycare, part time that the child was being neglected. he was not being fed or changed until it was almost time for me to pick him up. The woman who took care of the children at her home was ignoring them and leaving the room with all these little kids by themselves. Since my stepdaughter was there, she would especially leave the room for long periods of time, expecting that the older child would somehow watch the kids. Thank god, my stepdaughter, was there because one day they were all watching tv in the day room, which was just off the backyard that had an open pool. The sliding door and screen were both open and my 11 month old son was caught by my stepdaughter, as he was just about to reach the pool. That in itself was a miracle, because she was the type of kid that once she started watching a TV program, she became like a zombie and nothing else existed. They had all been watching t v. I was so thankful. She also caught him with a coin in his mouth that he had found on the ground at the daycare. It was a dime, and he easily could have choked on it. I found out the lady also let him scream in the nap room by himself. After all that, I quickly found him a better place to go. I have so many more daycare horror stories that I could tell♥ 0source record 5356
Oh, and the lady was also letting her son take my baby boy off the property in his truck over to some random Mormon place, and he wasn't even properly buckled in a car seat like his car seat wasn't even attached to the seat. I only found that out because I drove up right when he was coming back with my kid and I was like, what the heck? She had ten kids, and she had grown numb to giving a crap. If I only knew then what I know now..♥ 0source record 5357
I will say that you can tell a lot about whether a care provider is good when your child is unable to communicate by how they react when you pick them up and drop them off. of course. The first few days, some kids can have issues. But they should settle in and start to enjoy being there. But if after a week they're freaking out when you pick them up and they're freaking out when you drop them off, that should be a big red flag.♥ 0source record 5358
My boss was our advocate, no fees involved. She's just a great person who had been through IEP's before and wanted to help. She was INVALUABLE!!♥ 0source record 5361
My dad did this after our family made a choice putting our grandma (his mom) in a NH. She only spoke and understood Spanish. I went to visit her one day and he met me there, I heard one of the staff say here comes Inspector Gadget. 😂😂♥ 0source record 5364
As a special education teacher, this is not always true. Most special education teachers truly want to help the. Child. Most of the advocates do not understand education .♥ 0source record 5365
My child’s non verbal. All her Therapist said, do not send her to school and keep her home unless she has a means to communicate.♥ 0source record 5366
I told my friend the same thing. Her kids are nonverbal she checks the cameras like a hawk and asked me if she was being too much I told her in her case she’s doing too little lol I said pop in randomly never pick him up at the same time. Don’t let them know your pick time.♥ 0source record 5367
Special Education Advocates are worth every penny you pay them♥ 0source record 5370
I worked in more than one daycare, PLEASE do random checks on your children. I refused to put my daughter in daycare.♥ 0source record 5371
Mines autistic non verbal he’s 2 I won’t send him yet !!! Bc he can’t talk and tell me 💯♥ 0source record 5372
I work in daycare and will only send my child if I work in the room with them until they can talk they will be with me.♥ 0source record 5373
As someone who works at a daycare too the abuse that happens frequently makes me so incredibly sad, I give my kids extra attention and love because its awful what happens at others.♥ 0source record 5374
This! I ended up finding the right place to help my child after calling around and she’s talking and I pulled her out of that daycare/pre school and she’s in a bigger much better school. She’s talking so much ♥️♥ 0source record 5375
Small FYI: Every state has a parent training and information center that can potentially help before having to pay for an advocate! Google your state and Parent training information center and it should come up! You do not have to sign the IEP at the meeting, take it and absorb it and then sign if you agree or disagree!♥ 1source record 5376
Used to work in a daycare and yes do this regularly shit gets hidden♥ 0source record 5377
I know everyone already knows this but even when the kiddos are older don’t let up on advocating for your kiddo during IEP meetings. My kids middle school had multiple teachers not following her IEP and I even talked to one of her teachers over the phone and she let me know “I have 34 other IEP students and I’m only human, it can’t be helped!” I said “ma’am, the state would be FLOORED to know that just came outta your mouth.” She went silent.. lmao. Unfortunately, I didn’t record the phone call but I immediately went and reported it to the school district along with other issues the school caused us. The school district took no action to hold the school accountable (that we’ve seen) since it was the last week of school and the kiddo was in 8th grade.♥ 0source record 5378
I did this allll the time when my son was in daycare. Make your presence known!!!♥ 0source record 5381
So true! I never say when I’m picking her up early unless it’s during nap time. Pay attention to your kids behavior as well! Kids don’t lie♥ 0source record 5382
Yes! I cannot agree with more! Advocate for your kids and work with their teachers on how you want them to be taught. That teamwork will pay off. Being involved will make a huge impact on your kids’ experience there, unfortunately♥ 0source record 5385
from the front desk today, I heard 2 female and male voices (Teacher Assistants) yelling at the top of their voices "pick it up, I said pick it up" over and over again from 50 ft away down a hall. I went toward the noise and I entered a classroom where I saw a non-verbal middle school boy surrounded by 3 adults in his face yelling at him. he was standing near a garbage can with his head all the way down to his chest. There were 10 other kids in that class and when I walked in I said, is everything okay in here? The adult dispersed away from the boy except one who didnt see me until I got in her face. i let her have it amd told her that's not how you handle a difficult situation, she didn't she need to work with special needs students etc etc I stayed a while but realized I was powerless to actually do anything more in that moment. do you know the school cop was two doors down from the yelling and verbal altercation. That teachers assistant said only one thing to me, she said shes been working with him since elementary school. I said so you've been abusing him for years? im so upset, I can't sleep tonight♥ 1source record 5387
I work in a SpEd classroom and whatever you’re suggesting here is not true. You’re just a nightmare parent trying to antagonize staff who have very little resources & say in the curriculum, while doing everything they can to support your child.♥ 1source record 5388
What a crazy assumption to make to the sentence that the parents don’t answer phone calls or emails about their kids and neglect them. I see reading isn’t your strongest suit but reacting sure seems to be. I’m guessing you’re a parent who doesn’t communicate your child’s behavior with the teacher huh♥ 1source record 5389
As a childcare educator, I wish more parents showed more Interest at what happens at daycare. Not for any bad reasons, but so much good happens and they’re never around to see it. I used to love when parents would hang around and see what goes on. Take extra time before leaving, watch your children play without them knowing. It’s priceless x♥ 0source record 5390
This was me! I only sent my ASD non-verbal son for 3 hours a day and knew something was up when he started freaking out when I’d get his bag out and refused to go. Stopped in an hour earlier than usual and took a half day from work. Found them DRAGGING him across the floor because he refused to go outside, he was screaming. The look on her face when I banged on that window, I nearly busted it down. We never went back.♥ 0source record 5391
My early clock out days were a true way I realized my baby was just in a room in the back of the home by himself through the day… she’d tell me he was napping during pick up on my normal…so I thought it was coincidence at first. But she also contradicted when she said that he didn’t nap well that day. So why was he always back there? There were other things that led on after this, but my first sign was showing up at random.♥ 0source record 5393
I deployed when my son was almost two. I came back to a 2 year old nicknamed “Pat Pat” because he didn’t talk, he would only ‘Pat’ and ‘point’ at what he wanted. The daycare that he spent 10 hours a day thought this was cute and never took time to “help” him speak words. I immediately required him to open his mouth and talk and immediately removed him from said daycare!!!!!♥ 0source record 5394
As a Sped teacher. Please do this, public schools with special education populations especially in Philly baffle meee. I have seen some things & had to advocate for students.♥ 0source record 5395
I use to do that with my little brother I leave class to go check on him my oldest is go check on also they never knew I was there♥ 0source record 5396
[account] 🫣😳 You should do this at the baby’s school. If they have a problem with it, then you know she needs to leave asap!♥ 0source record 5397
Yes! 😔 I know of a person who made headlines near where I used to work years ago who specialized in taking care of kids who didn’t talk. They were young & well liked. They’re going away for a very long time. I literally 🤮 thinking about how the victims couldn’t/can never say what happened or how they feel. Ppl who do this will in fact go to college just to be around who they want to victimize. I researched it a lot when I came to.♥ 0source record 5398
Wheeeeeeeew I tell people this and to throughly check their children body and them parts before leaving the center‼️‼️‼️♥ 0source record 5399
I am a TA and approve this message. Keep a presence at your child's school, they will be treated better.♥ 0source record 5400
I’m a sped teacher- bring an advocate. Save all paperwork! Make them read the safeguards. Dint be crazy though. Schools have rights too.♥ 0source record 5402
This!!! Random pop ups and participate with activities. Let the teacher and aids know you are watching 👀♥ 0source record 5403
Daycares are the worst. The teachers are fake when you walk in and talk crazy once you walk out the door. PUT A RECORDER IN YOUR CHILD BAG. You’ll be shocked♥ 13,778source record 6146
Check the laws in your state before attempting to use the recordings against the center 👀♥ 1,115source record 6147
Of course it comes first. Was giving them a heads up for other potential legal issues along the way. If you don’t trust the place, don’t leave your children and bug them JFC!!!♥ 1source record 6149
Who gives af?! This is the problem people don’t make children a top priority and so they continually get abused at an alarming rate.♥ 84source record 6152
I didn’t say NOT to record. I said use it against them. As in it may not be permissible in court or you could be sued back. Sigh♥ 31source record 6153
Probably illegal because of the rules of the daycare…♥ 0source record 6154
Illegal to protect your child?♥ 0source record 6155
In two party consent states, sure. One party? As long as YOU consent to recording they can't do jack.♥ 299source record 6156
I'm not quite sure what it's like in America, but in Aus (QLD only as it's the only one with 1PC law) you HAVE to be part of the conversation/situation YOU are recording. you CANNOT put a recorder on someone else, unless they have proven informed consent to recording the conversation.♥ 1source record 6158
Maybe just ask to see the cameras in the daycare if you suspect something. I had a parent think i yelled at her kid and we pulled up the camera to me at the kids’ level talking calmly for 10 mins. I would never have my kids in a center where there was no cameras.♥ 10source record 6161
not really. the one party consent means one of the parties actually being recorded needs to consent. your kid isn’t consenting and obviously the worker isn’t either. if you’re to the point where you wanna record your kid’s daycare provider, maybe withdraw them and go somewhere else♥ 74source record 6163
Fuck that im sending those records to dept of children and families♥ 7source record 6164
But you have a right to record your child. You don't need their consent, you are their guardian so you can record them.♥ 9source record 6166
Not illegal in all states♥ 33source record 6168
this. worked at a daycare when i was pregnant w my second hoping to get my daughter in and him on the list & NOPE. they were absolutely horrible and its literally the best rated one around us bc its a Montessori school.♥ 7source record 6171
I worked at a daycare for a while and left because of some of the teachers and the director. Absolutely horrible.♥ 5source record 6173
No lie daycares are so wild like the teachers really hate their jobs it’s kinda crazy , if only the parents knew. But I would say all kids doesn’t experience it but most. Def try the recorder. I wouldn’t put my kids in a daycare, but if I had to the class room must have a camera♥ 3source record 6176
Cool ok good to know thanks! Yeah can’t imagine being around so many kids that long but no excuse to mistreat them they’re brains aren’t developed. I’ll try that out though♥ 1source record 6177
This is true. My Daughter, who was 4 at the time, told me that they were nice when I was there but "not so nice" when I left. I asked if she wanted to leave because she didn't need to go back, and she said no, b/c she'll miss her friends. I told her the day she wanted to leave to let me know. I had a Hard conversation with them about it, because I couldn't sit on that. The main one smiling and grinning in my face was apparently the mean one. She said they were nicer afterwards, but a week later, she said I'm done Mommy, and that was her last day.♥ 3source record 6178
Not true. Some teachers are really nice and love being around children.♥ 2source record 6179
You must worked in the hood centers. Now that might be true. I worked in nice areas.♥ 0source record 6181
That’s illegal. Why are you out here lying about daycare♥ 2source record 6183
Thank god I never had to put my daughter in 1 she is 8yr old now♥ 0source record 6184
As an ex daycare worker I would never send my kid to daycare some of the “teachers” are fake af and talk crap about you and your kid 🙄 had to leave love the kiddos the adults were the problem♥ 0source record 6186
I always knew I would be doing this when I get kids! and this comment just confirms why♥ 1source record 6189
Girl it’s crazy fr I have worked at alotttttt of them and I would never♥ 1source record 6190
I actually think most of them are this way, totally depending on the teacher. I have worked in daycare, and I have seen some amazing teachers. I think a lot of it has to do with the director and what they tolerate.♥ 1source record 6193
At darecares the workers are called dare care workers DO NOT call them teachers. Teachers in early childhood are in preschools and are usually own by an organization or corporate. They hire educators with degrees.♥ 1source record 6195
Not a female, but by guy wut I said was valid preschools are different then day cares theyre not the same thing daycares are for watching children up to 12, preschools are schools that teach early education. Company owned schools in force more of a schools based out let it’s the main principal of all preschools owned by a most companies but like i mentioned in another post it is based in state and gov and what they deem as appropriate. My state required teachers to have degrees but only in preschools that were licensed as a school. Preschools and daycares that were mom and pop owned usually can’t afford the same recognization or structure but try but bc of lack of education for teachers and funding they usually can’t become licensed for preschool but are for daycare, the gov are the ones to make that call. And ur care can go through gov organizations to help u out to get that license and recognization that ur care is a school.♥ 1source record 6197
In most states u don’t need degrees to teach preschool and early education u just need to complete a certain amount of training hours a year to keep the title. Lots will even help pay u to get certifications or degrees in ur field while u work there.♥ 0source record 6199
Yes I’m aware but again companies or organizations especially those that receive funding from gov to be recognized as a school who pre schools generally have more money f a school atmosphere which is why they generally either only except ppl with degrees or just hire ppl with degrees. As a person that worked in early childhood ed for 12 years I didnt just educate myself in one school I went to daycares and mom and pop schools. Private owned were horrible even had kids threatened me. The worker only had experience as a mom and we extremely lazy dirty and yes abusive even on the low not saying ur wrong just say Theres a difference, love. And agian it’s gonna be pre state especially big cities there gonna be more supportive of education then others♥ 0source record 6200
No honey they dont day cares are for watching, if a teach ends up there it’s probably for a major burn out. I got 12 yrs under my belt and probably more bc I grew up in that environment. Bc I jumped from daycares to schools I can validate that they are extremely different babes♥ 0source record 6201
No worries girlie all it really was is that as a teach for 12 years in and out of corporates and daycares they really are very different. Btw companies pay there teachers 💩 and give them too much💩then wuts humanly impossible. And I actually never considered ppl a teach bc anyone can be there unless u got prof. Anyways since u know it all love, hope u not there bc u a mom or to be a mom. Happy journeys and limiting ur education by not taking advice from actual vets❤️♥ 0source record 6203
Lmao what does u being a vet have to do with being a teacher two completely different jobs also i dont need to further my education because i already know this u just didnt give the full right advice so i added on to it and it’s actually extremely disrespectful to not call trained teachers teachers because they dont follow ur state laws or company policies 😂 grow up, i have also been a teacher for many years ur amount of years doesnt equal how much u know and how smart u are i have worked with plenty of directors and teachers who have 10+ years of experience and don’t know crap😂💀♥ 0source record 6204
As a past teacher at a daycare and mother of two TRUST I know and they’re so jealous of mothers that come in to drop off their kids looking decent or pretty. If they hate on the mother they’ll treat the child funny.♥ 0source record 6205
You should be worried they don’t report everything to the parents , I swear the daycare industry need to be investigated♥ 1source record 6207
Agreed, I used to tell the parents as much as they cared to know. How they ate, napped, if we had any issues, if they got hurt, how their potty training went, etc. They deserve full transparency.♥ 0source record 6208
Girl the pictures through out the day is forced we not suppose to send bad pictures lol only good♥ 1source record 6209
Yep! I was pregnant while working at a UNIVERSITY preschool for professors and phd students and you couldn’t pay me to bring my child there. It was by far the most hostile place I ever worked. I could not wait to get out of there.♥ 1source record 6212
You can show up at any time if you need to. They can’t stop you from seeing your baby♥ 1source record 6213
You can’t just walk in you have to be let in and they also will let the teacher know babe , they text us or us the walkie talkie♥ 0source record 6214
My kids got smart ass mouths so I’m good they prolly deserved it😆♥ 0source record 6215
I worked at a Daycare for a year as a floater. A lot of the teachers yell at the kids. The kids always came to me for comfort because their teachers wouldn’t hold them or give them the comfort they need :/♥ 0source record 6217
I've seen this and hate it. I dont understand how people can be so fake. I always talk like a parent could walk in at any moment and hear me.♥ 0source record 6218
its not illegal in wv and its how I hold my bosses accountable. they won't be going back on their word.♥ 0source record 6219
That’s true! I worked in several schools and daycares. I genuinely loved the children and was always patient and playful with them. What I didn’t like was how some teachers treated the students, which is ultimately why I left. The only place where I felt the children were treated with real respect and care was at a Montessori school.♥ 0source record 6225
It’s very true, coming from a girl who went to daycare for years. They were all EVIL and put up the biggest front to the parents.♥ 0source record 6226
I have so many vivid memories when I was at my daycare which was next to my mom’s college (she had my brother and I before 21) and I loved my day care ngl. Got some waffles, syrup and watched A bugs life and would take a nap after. I don’t know why I remember so much about my daycare but I was a cute kid and someone else said the cuter kids were treated better so maybe idk 😭♥ 0source record 6227
As a current daycare employee, I'm thankful that my daycare isn't like that. We have 2 others in the same town that have had bad reviews for situations like that. It breaks my heart, I love my daycare kids like their my own! hell, my own daughter comes with me to daycare. I'll never understand how there are such monsters out there that care for kids and/or adults and are so awful to them.♥ 0source record 6228
Some childcare’s are horrible, but not all!!’ I worked at an amazing childcare. Just have to do your research before enrolling your child♥ 0source record 6229
I did that with my daughter for weeks only to find that they cared more than I actually thought. Felt so guilty♥ 0source record 6230
I work at a daycare, we love all the parents and kids and I know the other staff feels the same… maybe find a better one😅♥ 0source record 6231
I worked at a daycare! I was not fake I loved the kids BUT my boss manager and colleagues were fake and treating others like shit. my job back then made me sick and I left!! but I loved working with kids 🥺💕♥ 0source record 6232
I agree. I was always bullied by my teacher. She always acted nice in front of my dad, but once he left, she became so mean. One day, I cried because I didn’t want to go to daycare and told my dad that the teacher was mean. After that, my dad moved me to a different daycare. He later told me that after I left, a lot of other kids also started complaining and stopped going there for the same reason.♥ 0source record 6233
Heavy on this one, I got a trauma as a kid with peaches when I saw a teacher forcing another kid to eat it holding his jaw and yelling at him. I still remember that kid crying.♥ 0source record 6234
Literally witnessed this yesterday out in public! They were taking kids to get ice cream and my ears perked up because of how they were talking to the kids! Poor kids looked miserable. 😭♥ 0source record 6237
I’m a daycare provider and the school in which I work is wonderful. Sometimes parents are the worst. Just saying.♥ 0source record 6239
I’ll be poor my whole life bc I was a sahm and these daycare comments make me feel better abt it♥ 0source record 6240
I’m an early childhood educator I love my job and the kids so much and the connections with the parents are one of the best parts!♥ 0source record 6243
Don’t encourage people to violate FERPA (and possibly HIPAA) laws, lol please. Plus, many daycares have live video footage of what’s going on that families have access to, although I still think that could be a violation if someone decided to record their screen while looking at it.♥ 0source record 6245
Childcare centres are over represented in the safeguarding space.♥ 0source record 6247
I worked in childcare and I never said anything bad ever that I wasn’t willing to say to the parents faces. I 100% reported workers that said inappropriate things about the children but that came up twice in the 2 years I was there♥ 0source record 6248
I used to teach at a nursery. I cared for and loved every single parents child as if they were my own. I know not all do- but some of us really do adore kids and want to do our job right ❤️♥ 0source record 6251
Wouldn’t do that but I feel so bad yall had terrible experiences but I am a prek teacher and all three schools iv worked at were amazing and two were woman only house were the best ones ! And the ones that don’t higher you get than 21 years old♥ 0source record 6253
Most educators check children’s bags each morning, it would be found very quickly. Also can be a child protection violation in some locations, as it’s a recording device.♥ 0source record 6254
I have worked in over 30 schools and never seen a director check the bags for a recorders def won’t be an easy find if they put the small recorded inside the bag linings♥ 0source record 6255
Educators themselves check bags regularly. Especially in the room with babies, I would empty their bags every day, because there is clothes, bottles etc to remove. if anything was found it would be reported up.♥ 0source record 6256
Not illegal in all states and some parents GAVE DONE IT BEFORE.♥ 0source record 6257
My gf worked as a child educator and everyyyy woman working their would scream at the children even if it wasn’t needed. Like scream at the top of their lungs mind you she worked at 4 different locations and it was the same everywhere♥ 0source record 6258
So true and kids get neglected sm nobody actually does anything with the kids and when I did they got jealous and bullied me into quitting 💀♥ 0source record 6259
I’ll never put my babies in daycare. I’ll just be broke if I have to.♥ 0source record 6261
I used to work at a preschool and it was a good local one…but even I was disgusted at a couple of the ladies there. Nothing crazy or even wrong, just the TONE that some people talk to kids. I can’t imagine breaking their trust or feelings 😭♥ 0source record 6262
Naahhh fr. I hated working there. I loved all my babies(from 1-6 years old) but the coworkers made it unbearable and the director disregard a lot of issues I brought up. Idk how the place didn’t get closed down tbh.♥ 0source record 6265
If it’s that deep I will be on welfare. Cause what? I can see a recording♥ 0source record 6266
I’ll rather get fired and have you saying some disrespectful nasty stuff. Oh well you were caught♥ 0source record 6268
I was literally a minor and she was recording me in school lol, well recording the entire class actually and she got fired and we could’ve all pressed charges. Just giving you the detail to just tell you to be careful.♥ 0source record 6269
Yeah this is why I searched and searched and searched as hard as I could for a remote job I could do with my kid at home with me, I refused to put her in daycare and same for my son. Oldest is about to go to PreK and youngest is gonna be 1.5 when school starts for big sis♥ 0source record 6270
y'all it really depends on the daycare. do your research. I've worked at several over the years and yes some are horrible and I left. the one I'm at now, absolutely amazing teachers, yes TEACHERS. We are not sitting here babysitting your kids all day. we are a TRS school and have to have a curriculum for each class and a new one each week with a different theme and age appropriate things to learn. I'm a lead teacher and the one that does the lesson plans and follow through. our directors check in on these things. I love my kids like they are my own and so do my coworkers. my 3 kids are there with me as well and they love it. we have to have mandatory training hours that we have to do every year. they range from child safety, to child psychology, to early development, learning signs of developmental delays, cpr, different abilities, spotting abuse, ALL KINDS of different things we are certified in and required by state law. we can even choose to go and do additional training for whatever we want to learn and the school will pay for it, and many do. we go to trainings on our time/days off. I may not have a degree, but I am not just a babysitter collecting a paycheck. we buy things for our classrooms and spend hours decorating and buying small things for the kids we know they'll love just to see them smile. we make parent gifts and give our kids gifts for holidays spending our own money. we have parent teacher conferences and go over their milestones and their development post activities and pictures on our app and talk to parents all the time. we also have cameras in our facility. sooo much we do behind the scenes that no one realizes. we are with those kids more than their own parents are with some. we are helping raise your children. we love those children. we are responsible for those children and their development. we only get paid $8-$13 and hour as well so we are NOT there for a big paycheck. like with any place, do your research and tour, look at the classrooms and their curriculums, pop in at different times and see what the classrooms are doing. if they do any field trips or special activities. that makes a big difference too. there are good daycares.♥ 1source record 6274
Yes same I would never send my kids to a school with male teacher like NEVER. It’s rarely men in this industry as well. But yes pull them out bc girl I have pictures of kids that fell and bloody nose and the parent didn’t find out. Also ALOT OF TEACHERS ARE NOT CPR CERTIFIED. The directors lie and say they are♥ 1source record 6275
Shit like this is why I'm so glad I've been able to stay home with my kids, omg. I feel awful for any parent that wants to but can't 😭♥ 0source record 6276
my mom was s daycare worker and one day I decided to hang out. They're terrible!!! my mom was the first shit talker sadly.♥ 0source record 6278
Technically it’s a public place even if it’s on private property. You could def use a hidden body camera and it’s protected by the first amendment. If they are cussing out classroom full of kids and it’s caught on body camera, that is absolutely admissible in court♥ 0source record 6279
very true!! i was crying for my mom and the lady grabbed me by the neck of my shirt and told me to shut up.♥ 0source record 6280
Oh I believe it, I overheard a teacher calling my kids inbred, pulled my son out that same day and never went back. If she was confident enough to say it when I was there and could overhear then wtf was she saying when I wasn't?♥ 0source record 6281
I remember being in daycare and being put in time out all the time for stupid things. Every time my dad would come get me she always said I was an angel.♥ 0source record 6282
Dang girl ur still going I don’t care that much babes u were wrong in what u said so I fixed it cry someone else a river I got kids to care for😂😂♥ 0source record 6283
Of course u do, called but anyhow love I was not, u can all that 💩 online maybe do google searchin sometime. And u wrong bout me maybe bc this a TikTok post yh… idk it’s ur life bruh I’m not one to judge but u think wut u want love I’m just doing it for everyone else to see🤭 btw not a girl that’s just a random pic♥ 0source record 6284
Used to work at daycares for a dance program and it made me realize just how many strangers have access to your kids without you knowing.♥ 4,366source record 7461
110% I ALWAYS tell other moms to at least make sure the daycare has live streaming so you can check in on them anytime. Daycares are actually really scary!♥ 61source record 7464
Even with cameras it’s dangerous. The bathrooms aren’t monitored. I was SA’ed as a kid in 2 diff daycares by the staff “helping” me in the bathroom. I watched other kids get SA’ed too, even though I didn’t really understand at the time. Just felt wrong. 😞♥ 2source record 7465
:(((( so sad that this is what we gotta worry about. I’m not even a mom and I’m so disappointed it’s this way♥ 10source record 7466
Huh⁉️all the daycares I worked in I always went to different classes and interacted with all the kids, cleaned noses, cleaned faces, read books, gave love, received a bit of domestic violence 🤣😂 outside of us providers only the parents would be escorted to the classrooms and siblings♥ 29source record 7468
Bit of a rude response to someone who wasn’t automatically agreeing with you…♥ 2source record 7470
They obviously do it’s definitely a word. Grow up it’s not that serious♥ 3source record 7473
I walked in a little early to pick up my bfs youngest told them who I was waiting for, they just gave me the wrong child. Be careful.♥ 13source record 7474
Literally my friend got hired as a teacher no experience at all she just loved kids soon had to call cps on the building cause they were mistreating the kids and had a trans pretending to be a women but would scare the kids in his man voice and pinch them♥ 16source record 7475
They hire ANYBODY!! and depending on how many kids you have, sometimes a nanny can actually be way more affordable anyway!♥ 13source record 7476
I’ll be poor for the rest of my life because of my sahm years and comments like this make me think it was worth it 😭♥ 6source record 7477
I promise it’s 100% worth it and you’ll always have peace of mind. Idk what state you’re in but sometimes a nanny can be cheaper than daycare depending on how many kids you have. Good luck mama ❤️❤️❤️♥ 2source record 7478
😩I have no choice because I have to work. My sister works there though so it makes me feel a little bit better. My son is talking so much more now too so he tells me everything♥ 4source record 7479
I’ve worked at 3 different daycare/preschools and have been in my current program 17 years. Our school is locked and has very strict visitor policies. It is a very safe place!♥ 2source record 7480
Having seen a few men under the suit...can we normalize not forcing our kids to sit on the laps of mall santa, easter bunny etc alot of the time its the sketchy security gaurd 🤭♥ 3,594source record 9936
I misspelled a word, im not deleting it bcos its involving children's safety get over it 💓♥ 127source record 9937
We shouldn’t be forcing our kids to give up their personal space for anyone.♥ 81source record 9938
At my mall, they have the kids stand or sit next to Santa/easter bunny.♥ 26source record 9939
This is true! I used to be a photographer at a Santa set for years. Those Santa’s are not the type of men you want anywhere NEAR your kids. Even if they have the working with children check cleared 😔♥ 20source record 9941
how about normalizing that Santa isnt real and the other things then♥ 19source record 9942
I mean your choice to raise kids how you please - I support that! just strange mens laps id avoid for sure.♥ 26source record 9943
so you admitted to being a hypocrite because what you are doing is lying and yet when they lie they get in trouble for it♥ 1source record 9944
You're taking this wayyyyy too seriously; breathe. Goodness. ✨♥ 9source record 9946
💯💯💯 I listen to kids words, body language and demeanor around everyone. animals too.♥ 7source record 9949
🫶🏽💪🏽 💯👑Their minds are too free still to be hardwired into seeing things the way adults learned to.♥ 2source record 9950
yea the thought of some guy having hundreds of kids sit on his lap all day never sat well with me♥ 5source record 9952
I mean i didnt mention skin color, we had all different peoples- race only seemed to matter to the applicants where I worked not the hiring process. my kids love black santa at Lowes (he isnt stranger danger bcos its a statue) 💓♥ 3source record 9953
The Easter Bunny followed me and my sister around the mall. Once we met up with our parents he stopped. I've never made my kid meet the easter bunny because if this.♥ 2source record 9954
I never have with my kids. They usually stand next to them if AT ALL♥ 3source record 9957
Yes they hire anybody . Looks like they pulled them out of deathrow to work the day before they get rid of them 😒♥ 2source record 9968
All the pics of my kids are on the Santa chair alone, I’d go as soon as the mall opened and take the photos myself. I trusted no one with my children.♥ 1source record 9969
well I love them offering it to someone other than an old white man BUT if you were coerced with monster it makes me wonder who else has been 😭♥ 1source record 9970
Mall security people are often dishonorably discharged police and military.♥ 0source record 9971

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Who gets treated well, and who does not113 index entriesOne daycare worker's claim about appearance, and the long argument underneath about whether that is the centre or the industry.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Who gets treated well, and who does not

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Who gets treated well, and who does not

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Use when: You are trying to judge a setting you cannot observe

How commenters applied it: 113 records. One daycare worker's claim that better-looking children are treated better produced a 113-record argument that is more useful than the claim. Workers who have moved between many centres say it is real and describe what they saw, including a child called ugly for crying. Current staff at single settings reject it and several say the pattern says more about where the original commenter chose to work. A third group reframes it as ordinary documented bias rather than a childcare practice, and a fourth extends it to behaviour and cleanliness rather than appearance. The practical residue, offered by staff on both sides, is that reviews rated highly on paper tell you very little.

What readers reported: Actually, many daycares look good on paper but are completely different in person when parents aren’t around. You’d be surprised how many “teachers” are actually so mean to the kids and are nice to kids who are cute or are related to staff members.

Limit: Neither side offers anything but personal observation, and the claim is about unnamed settings. Current educators in the thread consider it defamatory of their profession.

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I work at one and this is absolutely not true where I work 🥹 some of yall need to not settle for awful daycares

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I worked in kindergarten, this is not true and if it is, whoever you work is filled with disgusting people.

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Maybe it’s individual workers who are terrible people?? Because I worked at a few and that is not true

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More are awful than not so it’s okay to point that out. Daycare is unfortunately generally NOT the best or safest option

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And unfortunately in this society some mothers don’t have the choice but to use childcare. People just need to research where they’re sending their child.

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Daycare worker edition: the cute kids get treated better than the ones not so cute it’s the TRUTH

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I can confirm this is true!

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Its true but The cute ones bad AF and spoiled disrespectful disobedient lil monsters though😂😂😂

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Daycare worker edition: the cute kids get treated better than the ones not so cute it’s the TRUTH♥ 101,054source record 2905
I work at one and this is absolutely not true where I work 🥹 some of yall need to not settle for awful daycares♥ 6,912source record 2906
Girl hush IT IS TRUE. I have worked at alottttt of daycares and they are a hot mess. Idc what you say.♥ 4,741source record 2907
Your part of the problem agreeing that its the truth bc some adults are nice♥ 0source record 2908
More are awful than not so it’s okay to point that out. Daycare is unfortunately generally NOT the best or safest option♥ 964source record 2909
And unfortunately in this society some mothers don’t have the choice but to use childcare. People just need to research where they’re sending their child.♥ 364source record 2910
And most do their research and even the schools with nothing reported still have problems. Just because these things we still need to mention it’s generally the least desirable option to send them. My boys were at a place I deemed really great. Made friends with a teacher and she spilled the tea. They hide when teachers hurt kids if it’s not gonna be obvious enough to the parents. They. Don’t. Care. Usually. So yeah single parents usually have to do what they have to do,.. but it doesn’t change if you can help it don’t do it. Use a nanny. A home daycare. A family member. Try anything. Of course all can have consequences. But daycares are usually pretty bad especially for children with different abilities like autism etc. the teachers are not cared for and the kids are getting sick every week. So yes do what we gotta do but try to make it the last option imo. I quit my job and we lived in poverty because I needed to stay home to make sure my children were safe. Now my hubs got a better job and thankfully we are out of the poor zone. But I sacrificed my career and more to take care of my kids. Now I’ve moved on to another more aligned career where I can still homeschool my kids and things are even better but that’s besides the point. Most daycares are not safe. Period.♥ 78source record 2911
A friend of mine just won a lawsuit against our most prestigious and highly regarded pre through kindergarten school in our county. Lawsuit included mistreatment of staff and lack of care for the children. I think most just have to settle when it comes to daycare. Every teacher in these schools are underpaid and overworked.♥ 3source record 2912
Honestly relatives are statistically more likely to harm children. We see daycares in the news which scares us. But children are going to be at risk wherever. That’s why you need to research where you’re sending them. If you’re researching properly, you’ll see reviews from parents, and even staff.♥ 4source record 2913
Some people have one day care near them so it doesn’t matter what research they do because they physically don’t have the resources to take their kids anywhere else.♥ 1source record 2914
Unfortunately if you know a daycare if harming your child in any way, they still shouldn’t be going.♥ 0source record 2915
unfortunately research isn't enough, I used to work at a horrible childcare with 5/5 rating ☹️I think asking ex employees would be best if possible!♥ 1source record 2916
Actually, many daycares look good on paper but are completely different in person when parents aren’t around. You’d be surprised how many “teachers” are actually so mean to the kids and are nice to kids who are cute or are related to staff members.♥ 1source record 2919
I’m very familiar with the field, thank you☺️you can research both staff and parent reviews very easily! You should be doing your due diligence to not work for places like that.♥ 0source record 2920
It’s obvious you work at a good place & that’s great. What you’re clearly too small minded to understand is that there are MANY places with good reviews for both the place & the staff itself even if they ARENT actually good to ALL children. I have been a teacher for 10 years and have worked at MANY places that are rated highly and once you’re there, you can see a lot of what’s wrong. I quit these places & looked for something that better aligns with my morals but it doesnt mean that “good daycares” on paper can’t be bad in person . Lol♥ 2source record 2921
I’m not reading a novel from someone who supports shitty daycares♥ 0source record 2922
How can you research where treats cuter kids better? Like that’s not a criteria that you can research. Be for real.♥ 0source record 2924
If you’re using your brain, you’d know you can research both staff and client reviews of childcare centers. It’s easy.♥ 0source record 2925
WOW! My previous work was one to one teaching with an autistic 5 year old boy, i can’t imagine me nor the school leaving him to cry all day without any help. This is crazy im sorty that your son went through this :(♥ 2source record 2926
❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺so disheartening, so grateful for the lady who told you and I hope you and your boys are happy and doing good.♥ 1source record 2927
Yes was thankful she was so honest with me! We are doing wonderful! Decided on homeschooling and we are blessed with so much freedom to be us and have so much time together now! 💖♥ 1source record 2928
This makes me so happy!!💞💞Sending lots of love, happiness and prosperity your way Momma! You’re doing great.♥ 1source record 2929
Pretty privilege is and has always been a thing. It doesn’t discriminate based on age♥ 5source record 2931
I worked at maybe 7-8 of em. This statement is very true unfortunately♥ 2source record 2933
I’d be ashamed to admit I’ve worked for so many crappy daycares. That doesn’t happen where I’m from♥ 1source record 2934
No it’s 10000% true lol the cute kids are treated better but the also seem to behave better a lot of the time so♥ 2source record 2935
It’s true about life. Not just daycare. And getting treated better doesn’t always mean sb is treated bad. The state fair isn’t the Disney but they both pretty cool right?♥ 68source record 2937
She didn’t say all daycares . that’s HER experience not yours tf♥ 21source record 2938
Ppl are crazy smh im speaking on the places i have worked!!!♥ 10source record 2939
😂😂 This has been studied.. people that are better looking get treated better. Maybe you don’t do that, but most people do it.♥ 0source record 2942
You seem to be really concerned with what I do in my spare time. I can’t say the same. I personally don’t care what you’re doing with yours. I love reading btw 🥰♥ 0source record 2947
It definitely is true, i remember teachers bullying me when i was in school♥ 0source record 2948
This is scientifically proven mind you they did studies on this cute kids get treated better 😭♥ 6source record 2950
nah this is scientifically proven. the prettier the person the more inclined people are to trust them and get an overall "good feeling" from them and willing to do and br around them. that's not just with kids.♥ 3source record 2951
The daycares you've worked for should be reported those are babies wtf and definitely not all of them are like this I can attest♥ 0source record 2952
There have been studies that prove that cute kids get treated better, even by their own parents♥ 1source record 2953
People are so fake how are you supposed to know a good from a bad one♥ 13source record 2954
You won’t know hahahahah that’s the crazy part but I will say, make sure you give the teacher something on TEACHERS APPRECIATION DAY. When you don’t omggggg they treat the kid soooo bad♥ 27source record 2955
You def be abusing these kids by how hostile & entitled you are..you don’t need a gift to treat kids with respect♥ 3source record 2960
I hope you weren’t one of these teaches the way you are speaking. Sounds like you work at ghetto daycares. Sad♥ 0source record 2961
Oh girl shush we get it you are one of the good ones now let people point out the problems in this society in peace and grow tf up♥ 0source record 2962
I’ll do whatever I please actually. Thanks for the suggestion though!♥ 0source record 2963
I’m telling you I it’s soooo bad one time this elderly lady was telling one child he is too ugly for all that crying. It’s soooo bad♥ 569source record 2965
That’s heart breaking. I had teachers let my son cry all day and ignore him and let him be alone because they “didn’t know how to help him” he’s autistic and it was a sub not the regular teacher. They didn’t tell me there would be a sub so I couldn’t let her know about my son’s needs. All he needed was a snack. They didn’t care to help him. When a familiar teacher got there they said “thank god you’re here we don’t know what to do with him” and he was all alone in a corner crying. She thankfully told me and we took care of buisness. I keep my boys home now.♥ 71source record 2966
That is so sad. Calling a child ugly will scar them for the rest of their life. Ask me how I know.♥ 3source record 2967
Sadly yes i have a nonverbal kid and the therapist adviced me to send my kid to daycare for socialization and i tell you they do nothing for socialization they just leave my kid as it is and inworry cuz if something happens how my kid is gonna tell me♥ 0source record 2970
Exactly!!! I’m sorry that happened but I’m glad you are aware of it so you can stand up for your kiddo! But you’re so right. My son would often just be on his own doing his own thing. It was more stress than “socialization” and he also was at a point then where he couldn’t really tell me what was going on. 😩 It’s so hard for us moms in general but especially with a disabled kiddo. It feels like the world is against us at times. Stay strong 💖♥ 1source record 2971
I live in a joint fam and there are plenty kids no matter what i do or how much the kids want to play with her she just doesnt sometimes she just wants to be close but not get too involved so yeah whats the daycare gonna do anyway especially for the kid like mine they would just leave as it is♥ 1source record 2972
Well it’s not just daycares it’s life and it’s not the parents fault. I was always an older looking kid and got the least opportunity the least benefit of the doubt and the most punishment. Preschool all the way to high school.♥ 0source record 2976
You don’t have to be a professional to know about pretty privilege. It happens everywhere, it’s human nature.♥ 4source record 2978
What are you saying??? Did you read your comment??? Got me thinking I can read in dimensions♥ 1source record 2980
Maybe it’s individual workers who are terrible people?? Because I worked at a few and that is not true♥ 0source record 2981
The centre I’m at treats all the kids the same. Your experience does not apply to all♥ 0source record 2982
My questions is why does this pattern sound like it follows you to the several daycares, and if it’s not you then why haven’t you legally done anything to protect said kids. Either way this says a lot about you.♥ 10source record 2983
Pretty girls get picked on in middle school and high school by other girls not as pretty because all the guys want them♥ 0source record 2984
My question is why have you moved around and worked at so many? 🤔♥ 0source record 2985
Yea definitely not all of them the one I work at isn’t like that at all… I’ve been working there for 4 years♥ 0source record 2986
It is true 💯💯 I worked at one! I’ll NEVER send my kids to daycare 😏♥ 6source record 2987
Me either I would neverrrrrrrrr . The amount of things that are covered up♥ 1source record 2988
I can tell from your vernacular that you’re probably working in a subset of daycares♥ 1source record 2990
Cause clearly you care about aesthetics and put it on a pedestal♥ 0source record 2993
Absolutely true. Used to work at a few CDCs on base and unfortunately the chunkier, dirtier, and less dressed ones always got treated differently (by other staff, never by me)🥰💔♥ 1source record 2994
Oh and don’t let the DAD be cute… it’s sick how these women will treat kids♥ 1source record 2995
This is why my kids won’t go to school or daycare. I’ve worked at them and no thank you. I’ll raise my own♥ 1source record 2998
i agree with you cause as an Early Childhood Educator who works SO hard to give ECEs a good name by being the best educator i can be, it breaks my heart seeing SO many people generalize us to being bad. i get there are so many things that have happened and im not dismissing that there are awful educators out there. but there ARE good ones♥ 1source record 3001
You’re one of the few sane people here lol. I don’t care how many of them argue with me lmao. I’ve worked in this field for 11 years and would never treat any child differently. They’re all just outing themselves.♥ 1source record 3002
Just from working in childcare for years now; it’s one of those jobs where you won’t fully understand unless you do the job yourself and see why it’s so bad♥ 1source record 3005
I understand as I deal with similar in property management. Thank you for explaining and my apologies to the person I replied to originally♥ 1source record 3006
she never said all of them? you just arguing to argue atp♥ 1source record 3007
Same goes for students in an older school setting. Some teachers pick and choose who they like and it’s really ugly that they do. One big reason I’m tossing my EA career away and going for my teaching degree.♥ 1source record 3008
I treat the kids the best who treat everyone around them the best tbh♥ 1source record 3010
This is everywhere. I have a fair skin baby and everyone loves her. 😭😭😭 I was the dark baby growing up 🥺♥ 1source record 3012
That has literally nothing to do with what I said 😂 I don’t care what she does with her day lmao. I never told her what to do. See how what you said had no relevance at all?♥ 0source record 3015
I eat uncooked rice for breakfast, too tuff like that Krysten♥ 0source record 3018
What’s with the hostility 😂 got me questioning you working with children. Coming from a nanny in nyc.♥ 0source record 3021
She’s right. It’s biological. Dress your kids up every day♥ 2source record 3028
it definitely is true u can even see it with your own family. they treat love the more cuter kid♥ 2source record 3030
As someone that remembers my childhood very vividly, it’s true♥ 2source record 3031
I can tell the people in your life don’t really like you. You’re kind of like a gnat that’s hard to get rid of♥ 2source record 3033
I can believe this bcos my kids were always favored over some of the other kids when they were younger and I never understood why😂♥ 2source record 3034
I second this!!!!! I worked in a daycare and the cute kids always got special privileges♥ 2source record 3035
I worked in kindergarten, this is not true and if it is, whoever you work is filled with disgusting people.♥ 2source record 3036
Babe honestly it’s hard to trust people with your own kids. That’s just the truth♥ 2source record 3037
Yall 🤮 af, you shouldn’t even be allowed to work with this mindset wtf♥ 2source record 3039
I work in daycare and that’s so not the case we love them all equally I’m so shocked♥ 1source record 3041
as someone who used to work for kindercare, this is, unfortunately, SERIOUS truth♥ 1source record 3045
I guess i agree with you, my kid is cute not just for me, but everyone telling me. I can literally see it how she's treated or how much they'd say goodbye at the end of the day when i'd pick her up, they'd all want to kiss ang hug my little girl bcause again they find her cute jolly♥ 0source record 3055
Well this was how it was in elementary I remember </3 one of my teachers deadass named her kid first name and middle name after the two popular boys in my class I kid you not♥ 0source record 3059
I can attest to this!!♥ 0source record 3061
I agree 100%. It’s not that the not so cute ones get treated unfairly or anyone is mean to them. The cuter ones get away with way more things than they should plus extra privileges.♥ 0source record 3063
As someone w an elephant memory I remember being treated bad and I am sure it is because I wasn’t conventionally good looking♥ 0source record 3064
wtf, never have i ever picked favourites when i was working at a day care/day camp.♥ 0source record 3065
I work at day care and I don’t agree with you, but the clean kids get treated better♥ 0source record 3066
If i worked there, even if you're cute but cries a lot or stubborn, I would not like you. 😂 The one who's cute and well behaved would get my attention. Good thing I'm not a daycare worker, and never will be😂♥ 0source record 3069
It’s true at awful daycares, no cap. But there are plenty of great ones 🥰♥ 1source record 3074
I was the kid in daycare that was only allowed to be up and get the good snacks when all the otner kids were sleeping and allowed in the back room to watch Young and Restless with the daycare director. This is true.♥ 1source record 3075
Can confirm, my son is cute and they get upset when he isn’t there and when I come get him lol♥ 1source record 3078
AGREE! I used to work at one♥ 1source record 3084
facts I worked at a daycare for 3yrs♥ 1source record 3085
TRUE! And if the child cries a lot(Coming from a former day care worker)♥ 1source record 3090
As a former daycare worker I agree.. the amount of times I’ve seen this♥ 1source record 3096
Hate to say it but it’s the truth. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I’ve been working in special education for a few years now♥ 1source record 3097
true. but can’t say too much bc everytime i talk about the place i worked the owner calls me😭😂♥ 1source record 3098
While this seems very plausible I think behaving decently also helps (like being well behaved makes them sweeter for sure)♥ 1source record 3103
Definitely true. My step-grandmother worked in a daycare and I literally saw how she treated some vs the others. Literally made me so upset♥ 1source record 3106
I can confirm this is true!♥ 0source record 3110
I can say this is true my son was three at day care they catered to him♥ 0source record 3113
I worked in a daycare and I witnessed this firsthand 🥺♥ 0source record 3115
I noticed this while working at my church nursery in middle school. Smh♥ 0source record 3120
I vouch for this. My kids get treated so good at the daycare the workers always get so excited when they come in. And one of the teachers said she wanted her son to look just like mine😭♥ 0source record 3121
This is why it’s really important to send your child clean and presentable every day. Daycare workers are human♥ 0source record 3122
Hell nah. I’ve worked with kids over 10 years…we treat all the kids equally.♥ 0source record 3124
Its true but The cute ones bad AF and spoiled disrespectful disobedient lil monsters though😂😂😂♥ 0source record 14226

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The director, the turnover and the front they put on30 index entriesWhere former staff put the blame: not the room, the office.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: The director, the turnover and the front they put on

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The director, the turnover and the front they put on

30 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are reading a childcare setting and want to know where to look

How commenters applied it: 30 records. Former staff move the blame off the room and onto the office. The reports are specific: a director who was the owner's daughter, a director who punished the whole staff for one lapse, a director who ignored escalated safety concerns, and several who describe being pushed out after raising something. The most useful inference in the thread is offered by a parent rather than a worker — a centre that is permanently hiring is telling you something about why nobody stays.

What readers reported: Every single daycare near me is always hiring. I don’t understand why people don’t see that this is a problem. It makes me think. Why aren’t the workers staying? What’s happening to the children?

Limit: This is a generalisation from a handful of former employees about unnamed settings, and staff in the same thread describe directors they rate. Turnover has many causes, including pay, which the thread also documents.

What the replies added2

I worked in a day care. The director/owner was so mean to the kids. I ended up quitting and reporting her to the state.

From the replies♥ 67

Facts the directors to be the worst person in the school

From the replies♥ 51

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Explicit limit or counterpoint

Yup, I learned this the hard way. I was given my first strike warning and then a couple days later I was fired for the same offense they gave me a warning on.

source record 10667

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Daycare worker edition: the director is FAKE. ALWAYS FAKE. The messiest one in the daycare. That’s why there are always new teachers

source record 10604♥ 2,755
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I work at a daycare and can validate that

posted about 54 days after the source
Zero-like source

Daycare over there sounds horrific lol. They’re so so SO different in Norway. I work at one and I’ve NEVER witnessed or heard about anything bad or shady

posted about 33 days after the source

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1explicitly reports a limit or failure
4asks a question
0says they intend to try it
25other source context

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Swap instead of subtract 4

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Daycare worker edition: the director is FAKE. ALWAYS FAKE. The messiest one in the daycare. That’s why there are always new teachers♥ 2,755source record 10604
I worked in a day care. The director/owner was so mean to the kids. I ended up quitting and reporting her to the state.♥ 67source record 10605
I worked at the daycare my kids went to briefly years ago bc I saw the director grab my child by his arm and move him!!! I left those kids unattended in that class and almost blew the lid off that mf!! I have NEVER sent my boys back to any daycare, Bc of that and many other things I’ve experienced. They’re 12 and 13 now but you’re absolutely correct!!! They are. They lose great teachers that love the kids for those that match their agenda!♥ 15source record 10608
Yeah, ours was intense. She forced all the workers to wash our hands so much more than was necessary until our hands cracked and bled all because she saw one person skip it in front of her.♥ 17source record 10609
I worked in a daycare briefly, and my director was so bad with the kids. Like... she clearly had no idea about the business she was running. She was just the owners' daughter who'd failed to launch.♥ 13source record 10610
Every single daycare near me is always hiring. I don’t understand why people don’t see that this is a problem. It makes me think. Why aren’t the workers staying? What’s happening to the children?♥ 10source record 10613
can confirm. this was my situation 4 yrs ago when i worked in one. i will NEVER put my children in daycare. EVER.♥ 1source record 10622
Coming from a girl who went to daycare for years, this is 100% true. She was EVIL and put up the biggest front to my parents.♥ 1source record 10624
This is literally so funny because our daycare director was sleeping with my husband. We're divorced and they're married now 🤣♥ 0source record 10627
You are right. I worked for one and she was an evil woman. I quit on the spot.♥ 1source record 10630
I was just thinking last night about how I used to get bullied by the director when I worked in a daycare!♥ 1source record 10634
literally!!! i cannot stand my boss but i love my babies♥ 1source record 10637
I work at a daycare and can validate that♥ 0source record 10639
Daycare over there sounds horrific lol. They’re so so SO different in Norway. I work at one and I’ve NEVER witnessed or heard about anything bad or shady♥ 0source record 10641
Yes this is 100% true♥ 0source record 10649
This is trueeeee! The director at my son’s childcare center was asking his teachers if we were divorced….like we gave NO indication of that, our son never talked about that. His teachers were confused as hell and told us about it. Like tf?♥ 0source record 10650
I’ve been a teacher in the same daycare for 17 years. Our program is top notch! I love my job!♥ 0source record 10653
100% agree! Usually the one to spread all the gossip too♥ 0source record 10654
100% true, left my last job because of it. One of the very few places that the teachers were so in sync and friends with everyone, no drama it was always admin vs teachers with the exception of one assistant manager than became interim director, she was all for healthy work environments and children’s needs. Of course higher ups didn’t like that and she got fired and replaced with the person that made me quit in a rage and tears. I worked there for 3 years!♥ 0source record 10655
I’m literally about to change my baby daycare due to this♥ 0source record 10656
Girl why is you so salty on daycares, this is your 4th post on this TikTok about daycares. We sre not all bad lololol♥ 0source record 10660
yupppp!! worked for a preschool and had a medical emergency and told her i was leaving to get it checked out, she looked me dead in my face and said “you can’t wait two weeks?” turns out if i had waited two weeks i would have 💀 i really should have sued♥ 0source record 10662
the director that i worked for at my local YMCA (over ten years ago) got caught taking soooo much money. they didn’t even press charges-just let her go. INFURIATING.♥ 0source record 10664
Damn I had a cool director lol like cool outside of work but I do believe this growing up in a daycare i remember this one teacher I will never forget her♥ 0source record 10665
Man I have the best director currently. But I sure have seen some that don’t deserve their position!♥ 0source record 10666
Yup, I learned this the hard way. I was given my first strike warning and then a couple days later I was fired for the same offense they gave me a warning on.♥ 0source record 10667
TTHHIIISSSSS OMMFFGGGG even alot of the coworkers. I looovveedd my babies but the coworkers made it soooo stressful and the director ignored soooo many issues i brought up with her from workers to the safety of the kids. Idk how the place didn’t get shut down♥ 2source record 10670
The BIGGEST bully of them all. I quit childcare for that reason.♥ 1source record 10671
I was a Director and while perhaps true for most, I was not. I did, though, get my daycare shut down 😂♥ 0source record 10674
the director I worked with was a nice lady but a total ditz!♥ 0source record 10675

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Children tell their teacher everything109 index entriesTeachers, bus drivers and nursery staff on what they end up knowing, and the former children who say they never told anyone anything.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Children tell their teacher everything

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Children tell their teacher everything

109 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are wondering how much of your household is known outside it

How commenters applied it: 109 records. Teachers, nursery staff, bus drivers, swimming instructors and a school nurse all confirm the same thing with examples: medication given that morning, an argument overheard the night before, who stayed over. The most quoted correction is that it runs both ways — children report the teacher to the parent as thoroughly as they report the parent to the teacher. The substantive dissent comes from adults describing their own childhoods, several noting they were explicitly taught not to discuss home, and one pointing out the darker version of the same fact: abused children are often the ones who say nothing.

What readers reported: AND the kids tell the parents everything the teacher said, did, coughed, favored another kid etc. We know… former teacher, and current parent.

Limit: This is a set of impressions from people who work with children, not a measurement, and the original commenter concedes in the thread that 'everything' overstates it.

What replies pushed back on4

As a former child, this is not true lol…it depends on the kid 🤣

Pushback♥ 1,901

No, it’s not true, and that’s a fact. All kids do not tell their teachers everything. And the ones that do share things don’t share everything. Hope this helps

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I worked at a daycare and this little girl told me her mom and dad had a sleepover but her dad was married 🤣his wife came and picked the girl up and asked me if she told me anything I’m like girl nope

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I used to teach free primary. They told me everything. I remember one time I asked the parent if their child was still sick and had a fever. She said nope they’re all better and haven’t had medicine in 48 hours as soon as the little kid got in my class, he said mommy gave me pink magic medicine this morning. It was bubblegum flavoured lol they will not lie.

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Aye I tutored at a HS & it’s even true for them they don’t care lol these kids get tired of their homes sometimes unfortunately…

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EVERYTHING EVERYTHING EVERYTHING that your child hears or does at home or anything that happens to them, guess what? They tell their TEACHER!!!!! yes I’m gonna say again EVERYTHING!!!! 😅😂🤭

source record 2138♥ 32,369
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And is they have a therapist… they tell them too!!!!

posted about 64 days after the source
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As a mother who is very emotionally tired from reading the news, GOOD.

posted about 40 days after the source

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6asks a question
0says they intend to try it
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Attach it to an existing routine 2Create a default 2Turn it into a game 2

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Browse the original comments109 preserved records · 109 of 109 source records accounted for
EVERYTHING EVERYTHING EVERYTHING that your child hears or does at home or anything that happens to them, guess what? They tell their TEACHER!!!!! yes I’m gonna say again EVERYTHING!!!! 😅😂🤭♥ 32,369source record 2138
As a former child, this is not true lol…it depends on the kid 🤣♥ 1,901source record 2139
maybe bc black folks was always told “what happens in this household stays in this household, We don’t need everyone in our business”♥ 21source record 2140
Former child 😂😂 love it♥ 1source record 2143
“As a former child” lmaoooooo♥ 2source record 2146
As a teacher and former child I still believe what I said is true😂♥ 657source record 2149
AND the kids tell the parents everything the teacher said, did, coughed, favored another kid etc. We know… former teacher, and current parent.♥ 1,017source record 2150
my sister (4) proudly told me that she told her teacher that she stinks and should take a shower and remember to put on deodorant this time..♥ 7source record 2152
yeah but you'd hardly know sensitive information about the teacher. like, she might tell you I coughed or tols a dumb joke but she told me "I don't know who my dad is and mom doesn't do anything she just spends grandpa's moneh" lmaoo♥ 0source record 2153
THIS. The best is when the teacher tells you a snippet of an incident and my child tells me everything that actually happened and the unprofessional comments from the teacher / teachers 🙃♥ 0source record 2155
That’s good! A student should always feel comfortable enough to tell their parents thing!♥ 0source record 2156
Well to be fair u would know better than me since you’re a teacher lmao maybe kids are just more opened these days? 🤷🏽‍♀️♥ 15source record 2158
as a former child.. this is true.. I even remember drawing embarrassing home reenactments in stick figures on the chalk board before class... why did i do that 😅♥ 3source record 2161
Oh wow! Like I said it really depends on the kid. I’ve heard of kids doing that. That is wild 🤣🤣♥ 2source record 2162
you're absolutely wrong lol like, blatantly ignorantly so increadibly wrong. sure they might say a lot* but most DEFINITELY DEFINITELY DEFINITELY NOT EVERYTHING bsffr♥ 0source record 2169
Everybody has different experiences, but nowadays in this time, what I said is true from my experiences. Hope that helps lol♥ 1source record 2171
Hey so just in case you forget what you said, you said they tell you everything, which is impossible. Hope that helps♥ 1source record 2174
You said in all caps EVERYTHING EVERYTHING EVERYTHING that the child hears or does at home they tell you. Which no, they don’t, and can’t tell you EVERYTHING EVERYTHING EVERYTHING 😂😂😂. Hope that helps!♥ 1source record 2176
Oh Lord! My point of the comment is that the craziest things that happen in a household are told to me! I’m not trying to say every little thing is told to me. Obviously not the smallest details! As you can see from the other comments my community of teachers also agree! Idk what else I can say! 😆🤷🏻‍♀️♥ 0source record 2177
Oh so you didn’t mean what you said. Gotcha! Thanks for clarifying. If only that was ur original comment 😂 Glad I could help you get out what you meant to say!♥ 0source record 2178
No actually I stand my original comment! I always have and always will! So do many other professionals like myself! I’m glad I was able to help you come to that understanding! Have a nice life! 👋🏼🥰♥ 0source record 2179
My momma always told me not to tell what was at home and if anyone questioned me tell them to “ ask my momma”♥ 2source record 2180
As a teacher I agree!!♥ 0source record 2184
As a former child 😂♥ 1source record 2185
It’s true, even your “good” child spills everything. They especially like to talk if the teacher is their favorite. If you’re not training your kid to not talk, they’re gonna spill EVERYTHING. You’d be surprised by the amount of information I have on the families I’ve worked with. Mind you, I don’t ask, I don’t care to know, the kids just tell it.♥ 8source record 2186
Mmmmm not everything. A lot of children are groomed to not say things♥ 3source record 2189
I’m sorry to hear that and I understand some People don’t say anything. But most do, I know from experience. They tell me all the bad things going on at home and I would have to go report it 😳♥ 3source record 2192
Been teaching 18 years / been parenting for 18 years - Kids tell a lot to both teachers and parents. Kids also lie and stretch the truth a lot to teachers and parents. 😂♥ 3source record 2198
I worked at a daycare and this little girl told me her mom and dad had a sleepover but her dad was married 🤣his wife came and picked the girl up and asked me if she told me anything I’m like girl nope♥ 1source record 2200
I learned this during covid, when I would overhear the most interesting things on the kindergarten zoom calls 😆♥ 1source record 2203
im in childcare. everyday I tell at least one kid that their parents "probably dont want their child to tell people that."♥ 1source record 2205
I used to teach free primary. They told me everything. I remember one time I asked the parent if their child was still sick and had a fever. She said nope they’re all better and haven’t had medicine in 48 hours as soon as the little kid got in my class, he said mommy gave me pink magic medicine this morning. It was bubblegum flavoured lol they will not lie.♥ 1source record 2206
As a teacher, this is very true, and it is always unsolicited 😭.♥ 1source record 2210
That's ok, because nothing should be done or said around your child that you should be scared of anyone finding out.♥ 0source record 2211
can confirm, I know way too many personal details about my kiddos' parents and home lives, and the information was 100% volunteered by said kiddos 😂♥ 1source record 2213
As a former teacher this is true! The kids spill the tea the worst!♥ 1source record 2215
As an EA, it doesn’t matter the kid, as long they’re comfortable w u they’re gonna spill any chance they get just to sit w u♥ 1source record 2216
oh this you're absolutely right I used to work in a elementary school 🤣🤣those kiddos doesn't have filters♥ 1source record 2221
I know thats my 3yr old🤣♥ 1source record 2224
It's true my Sunday school kids do tell me everything, if there shoes are new, if you travelled, fought, sick all is out♥ 1source record 2226
Good! Children should be able to tell other adults what goes on at home! Also, children come home telling us what teachers do & say.♥ 1source record 2228
my mum owns a kindergarten. yup, some kids just tells everything to the teachers voluntarily 😂♥ 1source record 2229
I can vouch that this is true. I was a preschool teacher for 10 years and I knew everything about every family and parent because of their kids. don’t think a 2-3 yr old doesn’t hear what you are saying and understand, they do.♥ 1source record 2231
And my disabled adult daughter too 🫣 why do they always present innocent things in a way that makes us look bad every single time? 😂♥ 1source record 2232
the weird thing is, kids that are abused don’t talk much about home. i remember being a kid , coming home to beatings every day, and i never told a SOUL about it until i was around 13-14♥ 0source record 2237
Well, I’m glad you had the courage at 13 or 14 to speak up about your abuse! <3♥ 1source record 2238
Aye I tutored at a HS & it’s even true for them they don’t care lol these kids get tired of their homes sometimes unfortunately…♥ 1source record 2239
Just know that so much of it is lies! 😅 My kid has told her teachers I’m pregnant and so many other tall tales. 😩♥ 0source record 2241
I definitely take what some of the kids tell me with a grain of salt! But I can also definitely tell when a student is over exaggerating, straight out lying, or is telling the truth. And I want to say from the experience that I’ve had.most of the kids are telling the truth. And I know this because of how the parents act or even their siblings and other people in their lives. 😅😅😅♥ 1source record 2242
Sure do, and sometimes we ask for details 🤣🤣🤣🤣♥ 1source record 2246
i’m a swim teacher, and i always get the most random things about their family all the time 😭♥ 1source record 2249
I was a teacher- can confirm 😅♥ 1source record 2250
💯 I had a child run up to me saying they had a sleepover with one of their classmates and it was "so cool cause mommy let (insert other kids name)'s daddy stay the night too! and they were having a tickle fight all night! and for breakfast they made chocolate chip pancakes for us!" .. when I tell you it was very hard making eye contact with said parents after that...also called a father to come pick up their kid cause he had a fever and another woman answers their home phone giggling saying (father's name) isn't here, before he grabbed the phone and said he would call back.. the mom was on a work trip and the father worked from home.. the judgment was real cause she was pregnant with their 2nd child.. its so bad♥ 1source record 2252
Woahhhh wilddddd!!! Literally I’ve had a few cases of like parents cheating on each other it’s♥ 1source record 2253
its crazy lol but you get better gifts at holidays cause its like they think we blackmail them 🤣 I never said one word, my only concern is their child from 6am-6pm.♥ 1source record 2254
I will confirm this comment as a former school teacher myself. They tell all♥ 1source record 2255
As a teacher they sure do !♥ 1source record 2256
Yes! My niece used to always say “I telled Ms. Jones” she used to tell her teacher everything!♥ 1source record 2260
As a teacher I can confirm that this is indeed true 🤣♥ 1source record 2262
as a aren't we know this...secret they also tell us evvvverything about the teachers and staff. 😂. Teachers ans staff talk around the kids like they arent there and we get alllll the tea. I found out one of my kids femal teachers had in affair with one of the moms. the dad found out they got divorced the mom moved in with the teacher. I found out another teacher shames the "bad" kids infront of all the other kids to teach them a lesson. A good gossip is i found out a teacher goes to the school boards to fight for kids aid and tuition and never tells anyone she does it. it just happens to be approved 🥰♥ 0source record 2263
“Aren’t we know this”? I’m confused lol and yikes! And dang yeah some teachers be making that mistake thinking that students don’t understand or aren’t listening to them when they’re gossiping. But yeah I’ve heard lots of crazy things about parents too! 🤣♥ 1source record 2264
And is they have a therapist… they tell them too!!!!♥ 0source record 2266
Daycare owner here and sometimes they tell me the sound effects n movements too😂😂😂 And as usual I say "GET IN TIME OUT RIGHT NOW"♥ 0source record 2267
this is definitely not true lmao i hated all my teachers and wouldn’t even talk to them to ask for help😂 same with most my friends♥ 0source record 2268
as a teacher, this is true 😭 but it depends on how talkative the child is. the quiet ones don't usually tell cos they're not so bothered. the talkative ones will tell me ANYTHING unprompted 😭♥ 0source record 2270
Vice versa I cannot tell you how many daycare teachers I have a ripped a new arsehole from the things my daughters come home and told me.♥ 0source record 2271
it's the other way around actually. whatever kids hear, say or do in school they come home to tell their moms♥ 0source record 2273
I don’t think it’s the exact opposite, I think it goes both ways. I think they go to both adults in their life, their teacher and their parents, and tell them everything.♥ 0source record 2274
growing up it didn't happen often around me. but I understand♥ 0source record 2275
As an introverted child I never did anything like that. I’ve always been privy to boundaries and stuff idk how but idk that just wouldn’t have felt right for me and I didn’t trust them like that or see it necessary to tell them things. My biggest fear is that my son will be one of those overly friendly, sharing children 😂♥ 0source record 2276
As a mother who is very emotionally tired from reading the news, GOOD.♥ 0source record 2278
As a former child, I’ll say this is partly true😂😂♥ 0source record 2279
Na yall jus dont train yall kids right😂 i never went round telling my family's business if nun wrong♥ 0source record 2283
True some kids are trained to not talk! But I don’t have kids of my own, and even if I did have kids, I wouldn’t train them to stay quiet because that can be interpreted as something bad lol!♥ 0source record 2284
Kids should know their place and telling their home business shouldn't be something they do♥ 0source record 2285
Well, as long as nothing bad is going on at home, the parents shouldn’t be training their kids not to talk. Because they shouldn’t need to be training them to hide anything.♥ 0source record 2286
Okay well I’m a teacher, teacher and I 100% believe this♥ 0source record 2292
I can attest to this. 😂😂♥ 0source record 2295
I told my kindergartner students I was cleaning the table with Alcohol.. meaning disinfectant.. and one student responded saying their parents like alcohol too. 🫢🫢 as in EVERYTHING, they say it in the most random instances. 😂♥ 0source record 2297
As a mom, this is true. And if your kid isn’t a good speaker you will have many meetings♥ 0source record 2298
Not true I remember when I was six and never Told any of my teachers what went on at home♥ 0source record 2299
Sorry that you never felt like you could open up to your teachers!♥ 0source record 2300
Or rather nothing interesting would happen at home, only when they would take me to the water parks, the beach and camping I used to tell those stories♥ 0source record 2301
And many kids, the day care thing I’ll believe it but not all, in fact not most day care facilities are like that… it’s just that when it comes to kids, it will always show in the news..♥ 0source record 2303
What day care? I never said all kids! I’m very lost with this message.♥ 0source record 2304
Right!!! School school it’s just that everyone gives daycare so much hate in here that I just dragged the word in the conversation.♥ 0source record 2305
Rly cuz my dad would roll up joints in front of me when I was in elementary school and I never said a word♥ 0source record 2311
And that’s why I quite cause the area manager doesn’t do anything about it. I’ve heard some sad messed up stuff.♥ 0source record 2317
Mine came home telling me how the teachers family died.....she's 4....most she said about me was "My mommy ate my pizza" 😂😭😂😩♥ 0source record 2318
As a former child and former teacher not true you have no clue what kids are being physically abused half the tune.♥ 0source record 2322
This comment was never meant to be about the abuse that children experience at home. You are correct sometimes you don’t know when a child is being abused at home. But again that’s not what my comments about. This is about the silly and random things that happen at home. This is about the crazy things that happen at home. These are about the other bad things that happen at home.♥ 0source record 2323
After a week with me my 3 year old really liked to say W T F heavy on the fuqqqqqqqq♥ 0source record 2324
You can't possibly know if you know everything. They e probably told you a lot but there's a lot they don't tell you also.♥ 0source record 2327
Oh Lord! My point of the comment is that the craziest things that happen in a household are told to me! I’m not trying to say every little thing is told to me. Obviously not the smallest details! As you can see from the other comments my community of teachers also agree! Idk what else I can say! 😆🤷🏻‍♀️♥ 0source record 2328
Same thing with Children being at school my daughter tells me about every look, every stare and every comment a teacher makes. Yes even the snarky ones.♥ 0source record 2329
I’m sorry your daughter feels that way and doesn’t like all her teachers but these days I just know kids are always spilling everything. And parents don’t even know. Same thing for kids telling parents about what goes on in school.♥ 0source record 2331
Yes, my student told me that her mother was beating her dad in the head on the way to dropping her to school and they almost crashed 🫠😳♥ 1source record 2332
I’m a teacher and true enough the little kids are such chatterbox!! I know mommy & daddy had an argument last night bc mom’s screaming!! 😱♥ 1source record 2333
I am a retired preschool teacher and I can confirm this. I have been told so many stories I wish I would have written them down and turned them into a book. bet it would be #1 seller. inwas once ask by a 4 year old if my water bottle was my whiskey bottle. I told the little one no its a water bottle. he then went on to tell me his papaw let him have a drink of whiskey and it burnt his throat when he swallowed it. needless to say the little guy was removed from his grandfather's home a few years later.♥ 1source record 2334
I can agree to this as a kindergarten teacher. The children are very open about their family lives. Like their car breaking down & going to the workshop, a family member passed away, went on vacation here and there, them being upset bc got scolded by one parents. They literally tell you everything!!! Whenever I tell back the parents on what their child said: they’re all shocked that their kids know and is able to share it w us!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it’s comical really♥ 1source record 2335
true, my mum used to be a teacher and some kids will come in telling her they say their parents naked and shouting.♥ 1source record 2336
So true! my neighbors has a pretty crazy life and her 4 year old goes to my sister school and my sister knows everything like for real!♥ 1source record 2337
Yup! If you co sleep with your child, be assured that teachers will hear the spicy stuff too😂♥ 1source record 2338
I still believe in Grown folk business and separate kids tables lmao 🤣 don't show them nothinggggg♥ 1source record 2339
I can vouch for that….I had a litlte girl who told me things and I can’t even look the parents in the eyes anymore.♥ 1source record 2340
I believe this, my 6 year old teacher told me that she tell her things she shouldn’t be telling and now I wonder what all she’s said.♥ 1source record 2341
That’s why we TN teachers are automatically given a $500K policy to cover our butts when we get involved with DCS♥ 1source record 2344
If you are teaching your child, not to talk about the things that are going on at home, that’s a problem♥ 0source record 2346
I’m a kindergarten teacher and let me tell you… I know allllll the things that go on at home. 😅♥ 173source record 14694

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Schools that pass students who are failing38 index entriesTeachers and substitutes describing social promotion, with the parents who tried to have a child held back.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Schools that pass students who are failing

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Schools that pass students who are failing

38 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are trying to understand why a child's grade does not match their work

How commenters applied it: 38 records. Teachers, substitutes and paraprofessionals describe the same practice from several districts: students advanced despite failing marks, attendance or behaviour, because retention rates are what administrators are measured on. Several name the policy pressure explicitly, one describes failing grades converted to a passing mark, and a substitute describes students who slept through an entire year and moved up. Parents reply with the other side of it — being told holding a child back does more harm than good, and finding a child moved up a grade without being consulted. A university lecturer says the same pressure exists at their level.

What readers reported: No, not even if they’re failing reading and math. Districts and administrators are graded on suspension rates, attendance, and failures. For the most severe behavior, students may receive “in school suspension” which means they’re placed in another teachers room. Nobody fails, no matter if they do nothing but sit. “Did they put their name on the paper? That’s something and needs to be given credit.” Participation grades are given for showing up. School

Limit: These are teachers' accounts of their own districts, not a survey, and the research question the parents in this thread raise — whether retention actually helps — is never settled in the corpus.

What the replies added1

I worked at a high school in a wealthy area one year and a lot of the kids steal drugs from medicine cabinets and I know of 2 instances where kids broke an arm on purpose to get pain killers.

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The public school system passes students who are failing. I’m not talking “hey your kid’s average for the year is in the 50-59% range. I’m talking 25-30%. Sometimes less.) I worked w/ 4th grade (one of the most crucial learning stages) I’ve seen kids complete less that half of the school year’s work due to repetitive sleeping in class, excessive absences &/or behavioral issues. Students that I would have to spoon feed through entire assignments because they couldn’t read/comprehend the most basic concepts. All of this & the school just moves them on to the next grade the following year, with teachers “celebrating their advancements!” & nobody bats an eye. (this isn’t slander on the kids)

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University Professors are sometimes(most of the time) forced to pass kids that have failed, not because they want to, they're made to.

posted about 63 days after the source
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I can tell you this happens in Portugal too. if the number of students who fail are big, school receives less points so they need to check why so many students are failing and who's fault is that. they just let everyone pass so no one bothers them

posted about 24 days after the source

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The exact phrase “to the next grade” recurs across 4 of the 38 source records in Schools that pass students who are failing; the complete archive stays available below.

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The public school system passes students who are failing. I’m not talking “hey your kid’s average for the year is in the 50-59% range. I’m talking 25-30%. Sometimes less.) I worked w/ 4th grade (one of the most crucial learning stages) I’ve seen kids complete less that half of the school year’s work due to repetitive sleeping in class, excessive absences &/or behavioral issues. Students that I would have to spoon feed through entire assignments because they couldn’t read/comprehend the most basic concepts. All of this & the school just moves them on to the next grade the following year, with teachers “celebrating their advancements!” & nobody bats an eye. (this isn’t slander on the kids)♥ 564source record 14000
💯💯💯 I feel like it was good at the time but it's shit in the long run♥ 5source record 14002
As a teacher, yes this is true and I feel like a fraud passing students who can’t even read…. They don’t pay attention in class, have behavioral issues and skip class often too.. what am I supposed to do as a teacher♥ 14source record 14004
My wife teaches. Kids literally curse all day skip class on their phones and there’s no penalty. Then they just get moved along it’s frustrating♥ 13source record 14007
So does no one get held back anymore? I feel like there were always a handful of kids in every grade that got held back when I was in school.♥ 7source record 14009
No, not even if they’re failing reading and math. Districts and administrators are graded on suspension rates, attendance, and failures. For the most severe behavior, students may receive “in school suspension” which means they’re placed in another teachers room. Nobody fails, no matter if they do nothing but sit. “Did they put their name on the paper? That’s something and needs to be given credit.” Participation grades are given for showing up. School♥ 0source record 14010
might as well be called daycare. It may be different other places, but in most large urban cities, this is fact. It’s terrible. I realized “they” (whoever they are) do not want a thinking population of people. Thinking people ask questions and “they” only want worker bees. Don’t think, don’t ask, just work.♥ 0source record 14011
definitely not, there was one person that i knew that got held back, havent seen a single kid since then♥ 2source record 14012
this is 100000% true. i’m a substitute and i’ve encountered students who literally sleep through the whole school day, every day, all year long, and they ALL got passed to the next grade.♥ 5source record 14013
Make the school look bad right? I remember teachers calling and telling me they were depending on my daughter to do well on the standardized tests bc she’s one of the main ones that’s proof teachers are doing their job. My kid is just super smart, she hasn’t needed help with school work since 4th grade and she’s in high school now 😂♥ 3source record 14016
Someone told me they aren’t holding kids back anymore which is insane. You’re telling me that someone who can’t even do basic addition & subtraction gets to graduate?♥ 3source record 14017
Yes! The teacher may want to have the child repeat but admin or the parent can just say no even tho we’ve been keeping data on this child all year♥ 2source record 14018
That’s crazy. I know someone whose daughter needs extra help in certain classes and it’s like if she’s not ready just let her retake the class or grade so she doesn’t feel behind when she actually has to go out in the real world. No wonder a lot of these kids are well not smart or competent with easy things 😭♥ 1source record 14019
I pulled my son out of the public school system at the beginning of the year. We were told he was staying in the 3rf grade, we show up to meet the teacher and he was in 4th. He had 40s when I pulled him. He has made exceptional progress homeschooling with me, but he's still so far behind in math. 😔♥ 2source record 14020
Now this is what taking action is all about ‼️Hats off to you & dad!♥ 1source record 14021
my son had this happen thru jr high. 6-8th grade. he didn't nothing the last 2 yrs bc he knew they'd pass him bc they said it in front of him. come high school he is bored & doesn't do the work or wanna go. now we're are in truancy court. but he can't legally drop out bc the other parent won't sign off on it. smdh ffs.♥ 2source record 14022
This is true. I flunked my way up to my sophomore year of high school. Thankfully I actually paid attention I just never did any of the homework.♥ 2source record 14024
they did a whole multi-year report on that here in MD; they were passing kids who'd never been to school♥ 2source record 14025
That’s why I appreciate the people that take out their time to investigate this type of issues. The children were discussing, will literally be the future generation 🚩!♥ 1source record 14026
I didn’t realize how true this was until every teacher sophomore year was stepping out intentionally during state exams. Ofc everyone is cheating 😂♥ 1source record 14028
Yup. The world is over populated. Rich/Private schools get all the funding and everyone else is being left behind 🥀♥ 1source record 14031
This is true . I adopted my half sister and the school would give her answers to pass her because if too many students fail they can get in trouble♥ 1source record 14032
Yup. Teachers can’t fail anyone really. All Fs are changed to Da which is considered passing. Very sad. I have teachers in my family and it’s sad that even schools aren’t holding kids responsible♥ 1source record 14034
When my son was in third grade he was doing poorly in math and when I talked to the teacher about how I was concerned she said “we don’t fail kids anymore so he will be fine. Studies show that it actually hurts the kids more than helps them when we hold them back.” I was flabbergasted. If my child isn’t doing well PLEASE don’t just send them on to the next grade where they will continue to fall behind.♥ 1source record 14035
Can confirm. They need their ratings up so they will pass and graduate ANYONE no matter what.♥ 1source record 14036
I have learning disabilities and I wasnt great in school. Especially testing. They actually exempt me from all the major test and basically pushed me out my senior year. I did all day co-op. So I just had to hold a job and work. Years later I resent them and my mom for it bc I missed my senior year and didnt get to do all the fun senior stuff.♥ 1source record 14040
Yes I should of failed the 8th grade back in 2000 I never did my homework or did any school projects literally zero and I graduated to Highscbool♥ 1source record 14043
This! Situations like this bring new meaning to the saying “ the world is a stage” Because how could everyone miss that?♥ 0source record 14044
I can tell you this happens in Portugal too. if the number of students who fail are big, school receives less points so they need to check why so many students are failing and who's fault is that. they just let everyone pass so no one bothers them♥ 0source record 14047
my friend is a teacher in VA and it's true. I remember that from when I was in public school as well.♥ 0source record 14048
I once had an ex, and at 25, he couldn't read or write anything but his name. Graduated high school with 4.0 cause he was good at building maintenance. 🙄 he passed away at 25 back in 2006. Could take anything apart and put it back together like nobody's business and could travel anywhere by motorcycle and do fine, but couldn't say his abc's. #DefundPublicSchools♥ 0source record 14049
This is true I knew that since a kid somehow and didn’t even try all through school until senior year to actually graduate lol♥ 0source record 14050
Yep. Admin forced us to give every student a pass for their afternoon class regardless of whether they did the work or engaged. So unethical.♥ 0source record 14051
Truly shameful how it’s allowed to just fall under the radar!♥ 0source record 14053
happening with my 13 year old who has autism, I'm thinking of doing monitored home schooling for him, he keeps asking me if he can♥ 2source record 14054
I worked at a high school in a wealthy area one year and a lot of the kids steal drugs from medicine cabinets and I know of 2 instances where kids broke an arm on purpose to get pain killers.♥ 1source record 14055
Social promotion- passing the child to the next grade even if they failed.♥ 1source record 14058
University Professors are sometimes(most of the time) forced to pass kids that have failed, not because they want to, they're made to.♥ 0source record 14189

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Where the tuition is worth paying114 index entriesA private-university employee's advice, argued out by people who took each route and are naming what it cost them.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Where the tuition is worth paying

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Where the tuition is worth paying

114 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are choosing between a community college and a four-year school

How commenters applied it: 114 records. A private-university employee's advice — go to community college unless you need law or medicine — draws out the corpus's most balanced argument. The supporting reports are specific: people who transferred after two years and hold the same degree for half the price, several who are now lawyers, engineers or doctoral candidates having started there, and faculty who teach at both and say the instruction is the same or more personal. The dissent is equally concrete: commenters who value the network and the recruitment pipeline at four-year schools, and one who points out community-college pricing varies enormously. What almost everyone converges on is the hybrid — prerequisites there, transfer after.

What readers reported: Take your prerequisites at CC then transfer to big universities-less loans, will give you time to figure more out, how to manage life, studying, money, and you are much more likely to get into the school you want. Big universities are sooo competitive now!

Limit: This is entirely US-specific, costs quoted range from a few thousand to $50,000 for the same category of institution, and career outcomes here are individual anecdotes.

What replies pushed back on4

Even if you don’t do community college you can go the cheaper route like a public state school instead of private.. private is def not worth it

Pushback

The experience is not worth the pressure of having to make student loan payments. I’m taking 2 gap years to work while deciding on what to study for my masters degree. Wouldn’t be able to do this if I had to pay off loans

Pushback

I disagree. I think 4 years at a university, you developed a social skill sets that will further you in life. Also, the connections you get from being in a frat or sorority.

Pushback

I wanna go but I’m flat out broke and another thing too is my parents aren’t really in my life to help me with life stuff 😭😭 idek how I would

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id rather be in community college. I'm graduating with my associates and will have zero debt. unfortunately I will need at least a bachelor's degree for what I want to but I'm going to be getting much cheaper than if I'd gone straight to a 4-year school

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Well unfortunately schools won’t hire me as a teacher with 2 years of community college 😭

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I currently work at a private university, unless you want to go to law/med school, just go to community college. I’m so serious. You get into the workforce faster and without debt. GO TO COMMUNITY COLLEGE!!!

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Also, take community college classes in high school. You’ll earn college credit and graduate high school faster.

posted about 66 days after the source
Zero-like source

And if you want your degree for free start working full time at the school! they typically all cover 3-4 classes each semester. I got 2 associates for free

posted about 40 days after the source

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Across 114 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Change the sentence” (4 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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14asks a question
0says they intend to try it
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I currently work at a private university, unless you want to go to law/med school, just go to community college. I’m so serious. You get into the workforce faster and without debt. GO TO COMMUNITY COLLEGE!!!♥ 79,513source record 4137
why do you say that? i want to go to college soooo bad, i want a degree, but mostly i want the experience it seems so fun, i think someone told me community college is full of older ppl ? or is it really same thing♥ 275source record 4138
yeah there's people of all ages, if u wanna see people around 20-24, just go to a uni. doesn't matter either way. it's worth it if u can land coop or internships. nothing interesting about the social life.♥ 1source record 4139
We are more afraid of you, than you are of us. And not all of us are slow.♥ 27source record 4143
I went to technical college and still attended the college parties to other local universities. You can still make it fun and not be drowning in student loans like so many are. Most jobs don’t pay enough to get you out of that hole easily.♥ 0source record 4144
College gives you the opportunity to do a lot of cool things, but to really enjoy yourself you need money. And LOTS of it.♥ 130source record 4146
So you’re gonna put yourself into debt for fun? Lol you don’t need to go to university to party and unless you are getting a degree in something like becoming a doctor or something it’s not worth.♥ 0source record 4147
It depends. I mean it’s kinda the same thing but it’s not. There is a big difference in ivies, little ivies, or high ranking colleges than normal state or community but it’s not through experience so to say. People go to higher elite colleges bc the people there are more connected. You get jobs easier and the schools reputation gets you connected to higher education for phd and bachelors along with inner circles for higher level civilians. However, if you looking for education, the comment is correct. Obviously schools are stronger in certain subjects, but if you are from the lower class, connections are not gonna be as important then an education it seems. So ig it depends on your situation.♥ 2source record 4148
I think if you have a plan, attend a public/private university. I went private and one thing I wish I did was network more with my classmates. They’ve gone on to do amazing things!♥ 0source record 4149
Don’t listen to these people if you’re goal is to get the full experience I did and I don’t regret plus my tuition for in state was only 10k state schools are way cheaper just go to a state school community college will have you with no friends or social life at least I’ve heard from a lot of ppl who’ve gone to community♥ 1source record 4150
Take your prerequisites at CC then transfer to big universities-less loans, will give you time to figure more out, how to manage life, studying, money, and you are much more likely to get into the school you want. Big universities are sooo competitive now!♥ 0source record 4151
girl if you’re debating just go. i wouldn’t trade my 4 years in college for anything. obviously education is #1, but meeting people from outside of your town and new experiences in a different area are priceless. and learning how to live independently♥ 1source record 4153
Even if you don’t do community college you can go the cheaper route like a public state school instead of private.. private is def not worth it♥ 0source record 4154
i went to a traditional 4 year university. its a waste of time and $. yes i had a great experience and formed long lasting friendships. but i suggest finding a school/cert that deals specifically with your interest. college is a business 1st. its about money. not our education.♥ 0source record 4155
I went to both community college and then a big university- trust me, if you want the experience, go straight to the big university! You will have a lot of fun times and memories, speak to your guidance counselor about financial aid♥ 0source record 4156
If you want to go for your experience, by all means, get the loan and pay for it for the rest of your life- especially if being around older people at a community college gives you such ick. Go on now- do it 😆♥ 0source record 4157
thats an expensive experience. get a few roommates in college. same♥ 0source record 4158
Do you want to pay for an experience for the rest of your life? The interest on those loans is insane♥ 0source record 4159
If you want the degree, get the degree. I did a couple semesters of community college while attending a university and it was 100% better because it was smaller and I wasn’t one of several hundred students vying for the teachers attention. Also met a solid group of friends who I still hang with many years later.♥ 0source record 4160
hey! you can do community college first then transfer in. that’s what i did! graduated undergrad with the same degree from the same school for half the price because i transferred. highly recommend :)♥ 1source record 4161
I had a lot more money for drugs, crazy Vegas trips, nails + hair + makeup when I was in community College paying almost nothing for my education 🤷‍♀️🤣😅 just sayin 🤭 so I guess if you have family paying for it maybe go to a specifically chosen university but if not, honestly don't waste your money.♥ 86source record 4162
It’s not full of older people lol, the only thing is that community college really isn’t a place you make outside class friends, you’ll make some but definitely not like a university… that said technically speaking those friends you make will be more authentic people♥ 0source record 4163
The experience is not worth the pressure of having to make student loan payments. I’m taking 2 gap years to work while deciding on what to study for my masters degree. Wouldn’t be able to do this if I had to pay off loans♥ 0source record 4164
If you want the college experience and go to a cheap state school, they’re the most fun♥ 0source record 4165
my advice. go to community for the first 2 years. then transfer. save a ton of money. and still get the college experience at University.♥ 0source record 4166
it depends on what kind of student debt you want to have afterwards♥ 0source record 4167
There are so many community colleges out there and they range! The one I went to had dorms and didn’t really have many non traditional older students. I transferred to a state 4 year after and both had similar college experiences on campus and fun college night life!♥ 0source record 4168
I wanna go but I’m flat out broke and another thing too is my parents aren’t really in my life to help me with life stuff 😭😭 idek how I would♥ 1source record 4169
awh :( i’m sorry. maybe call the closest colleges to you and- wait gur idk 😞 i need help too. i wouldn’t know where to begin. i hope you make it though :)♥ 0source record 4170
I went to a big Uni but most of my fun college experiences were actually outside of school and involved non college related activities and ppl. Tuition wasn’t bad cause I was in state. The fun stuff I did related to school, including just learning in general (very fun and engaging), u can definitely get at a community college. Ultimately, the choice is up to u.♥ 6source record 4171
id rather be in community college. I'm graduating with my associates and will have zero debt. unfortunately I will need at least a bachelor's degree for what I want to but I'm going to be getting much cheaper than if I'd gone straight to a 4-year school♥ 9source record 4172
i go to a community college and have has the whole experience!! dorm/roomates/parties/events/etc! :) it can absolutely be the same experience for a fraction of the price n troubles 💜♥ 26source record 4173
Go for the education. Not for the fun. Teens get out of high school, get freedom in college and go wild. Have fun but don’t make it a reason to go.m Spend the money for the education so you can have the money for the fun later.♥ 4source record 4174
Go to college. I would pay triple to get those days back again, the best years of my life and also NETWORKING. The real money is in who you meet not the education you receive.♥ 0source record 4175
The money you save going to a community college can be spent towards actual fun experiences like travelling or events!♥ 7source record 4176
College life is not replaceable…the best years of your youth.♥ 66source record 4177
True it’s an extension of youth from HS for those under 25. Just watch the ROI. $30k is ridiculous in loan costs.♥ 1source record 4182
My local community college is $50k wdym no debt??♥ 17source record 4183
I think you’re confusing community college with state school. Community colleges usually charge like ~5,000 per year.♥ 3source record 4184
See if your state offers Guaranteed Acceptance. Plus, PELL grants should pay for that. Also, community college ALWAYS offers easy-to-get scholarships.♥ 3source record 4185
There’s no way community college is $50k for one semester…♥ 1source record 4186
What? That’s not a public community college if it’s $50k♥ 3source record 4187
I am a huge advocate for community college. Teaches professionalism EARLY on. An Associate's degree is a LITERAL foot-in-the-door degree💯♥ 5source record 4188
1000% a FACT! I did community college and have WAY less debt compared to some of my friends. Also your first two years of college is all pre requisites anyways so you’re better off doing it at a CC for a fraction of the price♥ 4source record 4189
my grandparents are university professor's. THEY SECOND THIS.♥ 1source record 4190
Go to community college even if you do wanna go to those schools! They don’t look down on it. My friend got into Harvard law and went to community college first.♥ 1source record 4191
Honestly I’d prefer to go to college with older people 💀 my peers scare me and they’re pretty lazy♥ 1source record 4197
[account] at LEAST for the first 2 years!♥ 1source record 4198
Agreed! Worked for a private university for 10 years and recommend community college to everyone. I once got in trouble for telling someone that. ✨♥ 1source record 4200
I went to Aveda in 2005, it was 20k then, I can’t image how much it is now. Btw just go to John jay or so an apprenticeship at your local salon♥ 1source record 4203
Also, take community college classes in high school. You’ll earn college credit and graduate high school faster.♥ 0source record 4204
You can still go to community if you want to do med school. My uncle did and is one of the top cardiologist in his state♥ 0source record 4205
When I attended, the same professors worked part-time at the community college while holding full-time positions at larger universities.♥ 0source record 4207
Study. Com major colleges accept credits from this website 💕♥ 0source record 4209
this! I'm 33 and when I tell people I'm going back to school they look at me SIDEWAYS when I say I'm going to community college!!♥ 0source record 4212
All my professors graduated from universities and have said the same thing. I think ppl just go for the name sake & experience.♥ 0source record 4214
Elaborating here!! A lot of states have certificate studies!! Which are shorter and sowmtimes way cheaper than the whole course. And quickly help you with internships pertaining to that field.♥ 0source record 4217
Im a public servant and you 100% need a bachelors degree for the higher paying jobs.♥ 0source record 4221
I told my son this. If nothing else get your basics at a community college and then transfer and do another 2 for a bachelors at a university. He ended up not doing either at least not yet. imIt just makes more financial sense.♥ 0source record 4227
And if you want your degree for free start working full time at the school! they typically all cover 3-4 classes each semester. I got 2 associates for free♥ 0source record 4229
10000% agree w this♥ 0source record 4231
Honestly though i got into law school going to community college, then transferred to finish my degree! saved money and reached my goal! so even if you want to go law school, you can still go to community college!♥ 0source record 4232
I disagree. I think 4 years at a university, you developed a social skill sets that will further you in life. Also, the connections you get from being in a frat or sorority.♥ 0source record 4233
As someone who works at a community college, I cannot agree with this more. Not just in support of my own job, but the number of jobs that we help get students into. Seriously, it's so much cheaper, and the instruction is often far more personalized.♥ 0source record 4236
I’ve done both. I use my “community college” degree wayyy more.♥ 0source record 4238
100%!! no debt & got to visit friends at school for the “college experience”♥ 0source record 4241
I did this and am debt free and making 6 figures a year!!! Listen to him. I still have a bachelors degree just no loans 🥰♥ 0source record 4243
I went to community college and I am now a lawyer, so even then!♥ 0source record 4244
Well unfortunately schools won’t hire me as a teacher with 2 years of community college 😭♥ 0source record 4245
No. Most employers require 4-year degrees which you can’t get at community colleges. You should know that.♥ 0source record 4246
Literally say this all the time. Just graduate if you can afford it at a top school but even then. It’s. Waste.♥ 0source record 4247
yes 👏👏 I work at a community college and I help students with getting tuition paid 100% plus I have scholarship workshops♥ 0source record 4249
for my field in particular they won’t even open your résumé unless you have a degree though♥ 0source record 4250
but im getting my associates out of high school, so i wont be able to attend a community college♥ 0source record 4251
I second this! Wish i did my first 2 years at a CC♥ 0source record 4257
Wrong. I worked at a community college and they very much have the college experience.♥ 0source record 4258
And also, students can get $20k in funding for a year, no debt. I graduated from the Universities of Kentucky and Michigan but work at community colleges. Community colleges, even just to start are a better option.♥ 0source record 4259
I went to community college and a city college and i preferred the community college so much more. Loved them both tho♥ 0source record 4260
My daughter - started ComminityCollege (C) her last 2 years oh high school; finished her associate in Fall- enrolled JMU next spring- finished her bachelor 1 year ahead and ZERO - I could afford to send her- no financial assistance♥ 0source record 4263
Then why did you make it sound like you don’t know what you want to do, and that you just wanted to go for fun? Why are asking people questions about things you now claim to already know?♥ 0source record 4266
where did i state i wasnt sure what i wanted to do? TJ😭 and neverrr did i say i JUST wanted to have fun! i would love to have study mates, super fun! people are asking questions/ giving advice because they don’t know me. their just giving their opinion since i asked for it. i can have my mind made up on something and still want different perspectives and still be curious to know everyone else’s thoughts. what i initially said was quite simple.♥ 0source record 4267
You can’t even use the correct “they’re”. Let’s just say you’re not gonna make it. ✌️♥ 0source record 4268
When you say community college, do you mean a state college? I went to UF for undergrad and medical school. I feel like I would’ve had a lot harder of a time getting in if I had gone to school somewhere like Fordham♥ 0source record 4273
I only did one year of college. I did community college. Most of my professors also worked at the big university down the road from the community college 💀 so I second this. Lmao GO TO COMMUNITY COLLEGE.♥ 0source record 4274
A lot of business do recruit pretty heavily from 4 year schools though. Something to keep in mind♥ 0source record 4275
This! I went to a trade school. Within 3 years I became an infrastructure engineer with practically 0 debt.♥ 0source record 4276
forgot to mention I'm old going to a 4 yr school.. they exist there too not just at cc.♥ 0source record 4278
man I'm going to law school for sure after I finish all this hard work. I said I'll find ways to pay it if I can't stay under the new cap ain't nothing changing my mind it makes me want to push harder now♥ 0source record 4279
I will attest to this. RN for 18 years and paid for my degree out of pocket. I have no students loans and never have. I get paid just as much or more than someone who went to a university and has tons of debt.♥ 0source record 4280
This! Went to Columbia and still have to work two jobs for loans… Should’ve just gone to a community college♥ 0source record 4281
I went to CC for engineering, and although it took longer for me (because some credits didn’t transfer), I was able to finish my career (in materials science and engineering - MSE) WITHOUT ever taking out a loan. I am currently doing a PhD in MSE and let me tell you… the respect I get out of people by saying I started in community college is 10/10. Also, it has helped so much with applications and scholarships. It shows that you are perseverant and hard working. And again, regardless of it taking longer for me, I would do it the same way all over again 🙏♥ 0source record 4282
Yes but also teaching! You can also do public colleges too! For example Appalachian State University is a public school so it’s cheaper than private (better too) but more than just law or med require more than community♥ 0source record 4283
I went to a community college instead of culinary school. People think my degree isn’t real but I have no debt. They do 😂♥ 0source record 4284
I work with several attorneys who went to community college. One went to Harvard law.♥ 0source record 4286
So true ! I did this then went on to a four year, then went into grad school…. Still an engineer like my peers making the same paycheck lol no debt 😂♥ 0source record 4287
Hi. I know you must get this a lot, but do you have any tips for transferring to a private university? How can I better my chance?♥ 0source record 4288
honestly I'm currently getting a doctorate on a full academic scholarship WITH a stipend and went to CC so even then... go to CC.♥ 0source record 4289
You are ABSOLUTELY correct 👍🏾!!! I attended community college first. I made good 💸 !!!♥ 0source record 4290
Ok so I’m in a university trying to go to law school any other tips you know at least I’m not wasting my time right now lol.?????♥ 0source record 4291
Currently completing my PhD this is a thousand percent true!!!♥ 0source record 4292
Agree with this! I went to a private uni and helped my friend with an Excel class at a community college so she could get a raise, the class I helped her with was so much harder and I held onto the notes I put together to help her study bc they were that helpful.♥ 0source record 4293
this!! both my sister and I did community college for associates then transferred to four year schools and it’s saved so much money!!♥ 0source record 4294
I ended up walking out of that too. I’m in the 12th year of my career. As you said, unless it’s law or med, go anywhere else and if you want to work in tech, if you aren’t headed somewhere prestigious, teach yourself.♥ 0source record 4295
100000% agree. I was a TA for a remedial English style class. The amount of students who said they weren’t even planning on using their degree 😭 don’t go to 4 year college unless you actually need the degree♥ 0source record 4296
Even when college was inexpensive, I went to the community version of Indiana University. Got an accounting degree for way less $, the professors were all tenured/had long careers & I still worked to pay my everyday bills.♥ 0source record 4297
lol no i’m not offended but u kinda funny cuz where are you getting that from whatttt the heckkk 😭😭 are u ok bc im fine with ADULTS at a college. it was a question♥ 0source record 4299
it was a question and you acting like i dissed older people♥ 0source record 4300
please tell me where i said there’s something wrong with old people in college? when did i say being older makes your degree and hard work less worthy ?♥ 0source record 4301
Some med schools and dental schools want classes from a university because it’s more difficult and demanding… and I know this as a pre dental student♥ 0source record 4304
you definitely are. only losers go to college and don't make friends. its a work skill♥ 0source record 4306
What if you go to community college then a 4 year then law/med school? I think it’s cheaper that way at least♥ 0source record 4307
I mean yeah if u have no life and no clue who u are I guess you need a school to have fun….♥ 1source record 4309
The smartest people I see out there were the good students from small, regional universities or community colleges. Like half my coworkers went to Stanford and they dumb as shit 😂♥ 0source record 4310
So like if i just wanted to be a veterinary technician can i still go to a community college or would i need to go into a university? Dumb question I know 😂♥ 0source record 4313

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Elder care, and people who cannot advocate for themselves236 records · 2 sub-topicsAides, nurses, administrators and families, in almost total agreement about the cause and in open conflict about who is to blame. 236 records.
Nursing homes: the money, the staffing and the neglect225 index entriesAides, nurses, therapists and administrators, near-unanimous on the cause and openly split on whether the floor staff are part of it.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Nursing homes: the money, the staffing and the neglect

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Nursing homes: the money, the staffing and the neglect

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Use when: You are choosing, or already using, a residential facility for a relative

How commenters applied it: 225 records. The largest and least contested section of the corpus. Aides, nurses, therapists, kitchen and laundry staff, a hospice worker and a plaintiff's attorney describe the same mechanism, and one former employee states it plainly: corporate allots a budget per department and management is bonused for spending under it. Underneath that sit the consequences people report seeing — one aide to dozens of residents, the same evening meal every night, residents left in soiled clothing, call lights unanswered. The fight in this card is not about whether it happens but about who is responsible: floor staff insist repeatedly that administration is the problem and that they are the ones running themselves into the ground, while other commenters describe coworkers who genuinely did not care. Several administrators reply describing facilities they say are nothing like this.

What readers reported: this is because the corporate office allots a certain amount to each facility. this gets broken down into dietary/nursing/maintenance/supply/office/you get the picture. then each get a bonus if they spend UNDER the budget. therfore, management is incentivized to spend less.

Limit: These are personal accounts of unnamed facilities in several countries; no home is identified and none was contacted. Staff in the same threads describe good facilities in detail, and the ratios and prices quoted vary widely.

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As an Administrator of a private home, not true for me. Those are my family members now and get the best of the best for the years they have left ❤️

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This is not true everywhere. I have worked at a long term care facility for nearly 4 years and we have the best bonds with the residents. Make jokes, take them on outings, sit and do their hair, have tea and conversations. Whenever one passes on we take the residents and travel to their home community of the funeral and pay our respects. We’re big on love over in Canada.

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Not true. My very favorite job was a nursing home and I loved those people like family.

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That’s crazy. Bc I work in a nursing home. And this is definitely not true. 😂not all nursing homes are bad .

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this is because the corporate office allots a certain amount to each facility. this gets broken down into dietary/nursing/maintenance/supply/office/you get the picture. then each get a bonus if they spend UNDER the budget. therfore, management is incentivized to spend less.

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No literally! My great grandad fell around christmas time and broke his hip so he was put in a care home. He has had this scab(?) that hasnt went away for basically a whole year or something and they refused to take him to the hospital or to any of his appointments to get it checked out🙃

Reported failure

My grandpa died from neglected the nursing home. He fell out of bed and broke his hip and they just shoved him back in the bed. He ended up getting sepsis later and passed away. There needs to be more awareness about this!

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I care for all of my patients! But the atmosphere has changed drastically in all the facilities.. Short staffed. It's a business not a service.. We nurses and cna's are expected to do everything from our jobs to everyone else's and spend proper time with residents.. If i have 30 residents in 8 hrs, it's almost impossible to give them all adequate time. I hate it

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Travel nurse here - staffing is unfortunately a problem everywhere no matter how nice it is 😢

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Nursing homes don’t care about your grandparents they just want the 10-15k a room

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I just dropped out of nursing school. Even after that comment I posted I gave it another go but I just couldn’t do it. Don’t work nursing homes anymore either. I get anxious even at the thought of it

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My mother worked at one and she only lasted 3 hours. It haunted her for years.

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Nursing homes don’t care about your grandparents they just want the 10-15k a room♥ 61,761source record 1267
I wasn’t saying it as a secret but a statement lol. Most cnas can’t speak their mind or they get in trouble 🤣♥ 913source record 1269
Yup. I was retaliated against frequently for following things by the book as a cna. Nursing homes are not a fan when you advocate for a patient’s right to say no to anything they don’t want to do.♥ 68source record 1270
Then you were working in the wrong one. I have never had any issues advocating for my residents and the management at our building will advocate as well♥ 5source record 1271
It’s just about everywhere now. I’ve worked as a cna in multiple states even. If you’re at a good place that’s rare.♥ 3source record 1272
A lot of ppl didn’t know that bookianaaa so ……. Statement invalid♥ 0source record 1273
As a former LTC cna I can say that 98% of management really doesn’t care. But the nursing department staff actually does. I always gave the best care I could. I wouldn’t want my parent or grandparent treated like crap. I would joke around with my residents and tell them about my day, my kids, my life (nothing that would stress them out - just the fun stuff). You truly do become family to a lot of the residents who live in LTC facilities.♥ 98source record 1274
Completely agree with you. Nurses are needed everywhere. The ones that choose to work in LTC usually do so because they have the heart for it. The suits that run a lot of the places though are a different story b♥ 2source record 1277
And the cnas are the ones who do all the work it seems at an indoor facility♥ 0source record 1279
Not all the way true Depends on the nursing home. Majority want the government (Medicaid) to pay for it not the patients. As clinical staff I don’t speak on business office duties cus little do we really know. Leave it to them♥ 51source record 1280
fr cause i always tell them, they don’t even touch up on the financial aspect in school cause we’re focused on actual pt care and not the logistics♥ 7source record 1281
As someone who has seen a lot of the behind the scenes…it’s all about the $$$. They would want me to change medications/treatments to “formulary” but the preferred medication/treatment didn’t serve the illness/wound. But,never blame the floor staff you actually see working because trust me they are trying to fight for your family too.♥ 11source record 1282
That’s state run trash places my dad was in a 15k one for 3 years once the money ran out he went to state ran one for a month and died of septis bc he feel and they didn’t take care of it .. he passed 5 months ago at 65 from parkisons n dementia stage 5♥ 1source record 1283
I’m so sorry to hear that. Mine isn’t state fan but they do take Medicaid. Things can be very difficult. I’m sorry to hear that♥ 0source record 1284
When I was 15 I worked as a house keeper for a nursing home. There would be some residents begging for a nurse to walk them to the bathroom, and they would not care. In fact they would joke about it and act annoyed. Only the rly expensive ones r decent sadly♥ 1source record 1286
smfh i cant stand people like that disheartening just soulless♥ 1source record 1287
no the patient care staff do care. management and business office care about the money♥ 0source record 1292
i mean obviously but i know that some staff actually do not care about patients ive seen video footage and my uncle was one that got mistreated some are just pure evil♥ 1source record 1293
Nursing homes are not known for their love of the elderly doll. 🤷‍♀️♥ 1source record 1296
well some are may be just not where you are and ive seen care takers with their residents and the lady just stated how she cares so ill stick with the evidence its 50/50 not everyone is evil♥ 1source record 1297
As an Administrator of a private home, not true for me. Those are my family members now and get the best of the best for the years they have left ❤️♥ 57source record 1298
Where do you work? When my grandpa was in one, he got infections from not being cleaned and bed sores♥ 5source record 1299
My sister is an administrator. While yours is her perspective as well greed can be the goal of ownership. The last was an east coast company who owns facilities there and where we live in the midwest. She's also worked at a VA facility, VA has its own issues; a county facility, we live in a very high income area, the facility is great and very well run; and for a religious society, which also had a better perspective than the corporate run.♥ 1source record 1301
I love how they are miraclessly healed in 30 days when medicare stops.♥ 13source record 1302
Yep worked in places they would turn down Medicare patients for private pay all the time♥ 6source record 1303
I work in a skilled nurse facility and sadly this is very true. I wish they’d investigate our olace♥ 5source record 1304
Travel nurse here - staffing is unfortunately a problem everywhere no matter how nice it is 😢♥ 1source record 1305
I heard if you snitch on your boss u can get a 10k compensation♥ 1source record 1306
🤣🤣 If only that was true. Many have tried 0 have succeeded. Where I live it’s all about who you know. Nothing but rich farmers and ppl with money to buy their way out of ANYTHING. A farmer killed a man Dui 2nd the limit. No jailtime just unsupervised probation.♥ 1source record 1307
Girl I’ll send you a link where a man killed a little 4 y/o hit their truck and died on impact. He also serves no time bc he was related to the judge. The video of the accident was not allowed to be played in court. This is not a lie! Google ND news♥ 1source record 1309
I can attest to this as someone who has worked at a nursing home♥ 4source record 1310
The admin office only come to work when only when the “state” comes to “check in”♥ 4source record 1311
I love my residents though. They really do become family.♥ 3source record 1312
The people who work there don’t see it that way. I absolutely treated each elderly person assigned under my as a grandparent.♥ 3source record 1315
This! Was in an elevator w/ a cna who was w/ a resident who had dementia & was in a wc. She was softly and gently speaking to them, gently rearranging their blanket. Seeing the way she treated that resident got me all 🥺 When she gets older & needs an aide, I really hope she has some1 as amazing as she was!♥ 2source record 1316
This 😩and they make it so hard for the ppl who do care that either they run them off or they stop caring too!!!♥ 2source record 1318
i mean i know not all but i was speaking on the pricing i knew it was places that miss treat people but they get paid that much is crazy♥ 2source record 1321
It depends where you live for pricing. My small town of 30k people the prices are about $6k for a private room, $4k for semi private.♥ 2source record 1322
It ABSOLUTELY true, been a CNA for 19yrd and now intakes and billing ITS TRUE PERIOD✅♥ 2source record 1323
That's your opinion, as being in the front line? Well good thing I stand beside my caregivers right? I help with the cooking, bathing, medication and whatever else is needed for EVERYONE. Being the Administrator I worked harder so my staff and residents were good. I started as a CNA and moved my way up.♥ 2source record 1326
Everyone knows that. If you have family in a nursing home do not give them something worth value These things end up “lost” cna’s or nurses steal it and I suggest put cameras in family member’s room♥ 2source record 1327
This breaks my heart as someone who just lost their father who lived in senior care. I do think for the most part the people cared. Everyone was very sad when he passed.♥ 2source record 1328
Put their assets in a trust and apply for long term care with Medicaid. That’s what the $$$$ clients do. Or do long term care in the community the CDPAS program is great as well.♥ 2source record 1330
Yep my mom moved her money to an account so her name is no where on it so they can’t take it!♥ 1source record 1331
We don’t care about our abusive grandparents either. That’s why they’re there.♥ 1source record 1333
*Nursing home owners. Us working saps (CNA, LPN, most RNs) in the trenches actually do care. We certainly aren’t here for the pay. 😅♥ 1source record 1334
Yessss and the ppl who work for them (im one of them) you should see how some of these ppl are treated or how the staff is told to treat them♥ 1source record 1336
I’m not talking bad about Cnas some of the best people I’ve met, I’m talking about administration♥ 1source record 1338
AND THE ONES WHO DO CARE AND ADVOCATE FOR YOUR GRANDPARENTS ARE HAVING THEIR JOBS AND REPUTATIONS TARGETED. They see you as a liability♥ 1source record 1339
I worked in the therapy dept of skilled nursing facilities and u best believe the administrators were all hands on deck and there all day every day! I've seen them on a ladder dealing with some repair up on the ceiling. Any problems that occurred were their problems too. And they took care of business.♥ 1source record 1341
Same for these psychiatric and behavioral hospitals for children. Soooo much go on in there! If that insurance doesn’t go through, they’re outta there, “treatment” or not.♥ 1source record 1342
I work at a nursing home the owners are cheap asf the workers care about the residents but the higher ppl don’t gaf♥ 0source record 1345
Hospice here. Very true sometimes. Severely understaffed, under paid. The DON & admin are the main 😡 problem! sometimes pts don’t get feed properly or not at all, bathed, especially dementia pts. Staff complain about doing anything. They rely on hospice for EVERYTHING & families sign contracts &$$ for pts to live at the facilities to be taken care of. Families end up paying extra for a personal caregiver to help. Medical is burnt out still from COVID pandemic. It’s real. Our medical system is the pits.♥ 0source record 1346
***Put a camera in your loved ones room, you just have to let the facility know you’re doing it of course. Trust me! It helps you and your loved one even if they’re a good facility **♥ 0source record 1347
The prettier the facility is, we’ve found has more internal issues .♥ 0source record 1348
Adding to this comment because people don’t realize You could get PRIVATE CARE AT HOME 24/7 and pay way less than 10-15k/month♥ 0source record 1351
True but the staff usually cares about your loved ones, but unfortunately, they don’t have the help take care for them the way they wish they could♥ 0source record 1352
have a reputation of popping in at different days and times. they wont know when to expect you and grand parents get better care♥ 0source record 1353
Nursing homes also get a higher reimbursement from Medicare and Medicaid if a resident scores high on the mood assessment. Meaning the more symptoms of depression they have, the more they pay.♥ 0source record 1354
That’s very true either way assisted living places and what we did pay. My family member couldn’t walk, but they miraculously walked in assisted-living and fell then had to go to the emergency room OK♥ 0source record 1356
Realest comment I’ve ever seen. The ammount of neglect I see at work everyday is insane. They really don’t care unless you are dying or your family is there.♥ 0source record 1357
Not all nursing homes, and not all of them cost that much either 💓♥ 0source record 1359
the staff usually care, but the facility doesn't. they don't pay staff enough, don't put on enough staff and don't address behavioural issues♥ 0source record 1360
Not just the Nursing home but CNA’s seriously do not care nor the nurses or Dr that comes in.♥ 0source record 1361
this isn't completely true my mom runs a nursing home and I go in with my dog and lot and the residents get do excited and they love my mom and she spends HER money on craft items like yarn snd stuff for them and takes them places to get ice cream and sometimes just sits and talks with them because family with just stop visiting♥ 0source record 1362
Possibly… but the most of the ones actually’caring’ for them… the ones that feed them, change them, bathe them, talk to them, brush their hair… must of them do actually care!❤️I did! I loved my job as a CNA♥ 0source record 1363
100% true. I wore in a memory care. The way they treat residents was horrible. Mind you, families paid 10k a month. I never spoke because it was their word against mine. So I quit. It was so painful to see them suffer and caregiver not given a quack.♥ 0source record 1364
Im a server at one and yes I can say this is true most of the time. its so sad♥ 0source record 1365
Worked in therapy in nursing homes and unfortunately *most of the time* this is true unless you have an administrator of the building that cares about their patients. I’ve worked in really bad ones and good ones.♥ 0source record 1367
No literally! My great grandad fell around christmas time and broke his hip so he was put in a care home. He has had this scab(?) that hasnt went away for basically a whole year or something and they refused to take him to the hospital or to any of his appointments to get it checked out🙃♥ 0source record 1370
Fully assisted living nursing homes including private room, meals, medicine, and 24/7 care in facilities comparable to the US, both in cities and beautiful scenic countryside areas are only about $1,500USD a MONTH, in Thailand♥ 0source record 1373
I’m a nurse that works in one. You don’t know me or the people I work with♥ 0source record 1374
nursing homes don't butvas a cna i loved and cared for every patient like they were my family♥ 0source record 1375
no they don’t. i think my grandpa died because every facility refused to take him and we were unable to care for him properly at home.♥ 0source record 1377
That’s why I want to work at a nursing home. So I can treat everyone with respect and take care of them. And if I see a co worker mistreating them, I will report them. I can’t stand that.♥ 0source record 1378
Hell, they own family don’t care about them. Half of the residents don’t need to be in there but their family don’t want the burden.♥ 0source record 1381
The words good & nursing home in a sentence is an oxymoron♥ 0source record 1382
I once did a rotation at a nursing home where a lady kept complaining about her hearing. They ignored her. I realized her battery in her hearing aid had died. I replaced it and she started to cry. I can’t imagine how irresponsible the staff was.♥ 0source record 1383
This has been our experience. As a retired bedside RN I was shocked at the lousy care (esp on nights) my disabled husband received. He has gone to two different ones post hospitalization fr rehab. I took him home after 5 days the last time it was so bad.♥ 0source record 1384
‼️‼️Corrections! Administration doesn’t care. The staff there overworked and underpaid DO care. At least 80% do, be nice to them!!!👏♥ 0source record 1385
OK, I'm just gonna step in here and say I don't know about a government system, but I can definitely confirm the people that work in a nursing home as I am one of them love your grandparents more than some of you do♥ 0source record 1386
My mum is a receptionist and I feel like she she cares so much for them but can’t do much to help it’s so sad♥ 0source record 1387
This is sooo true and I work at one. I’m NEVER putting my parents in a home or any assistive living. It’s all a scam.♥ 0source record 1390
I could tell horror stories all DAY from the SNFs I've worked at♥ 0source record 1391
I can promise you that’s not true for all of them. I work at one of the most prestigious nursing homes in SWFL and the residents are 100% our family.♥ 0source record 1392
My dad went to a home for veterans and it was great. A fraction of the price and the staff looked at the residents as heroes. He genuinely liked it there.♥ 0source record 1393
not accurate, not ALL. I worked as a CNA in a really good nursing home - it wasn't super fancy, but everyone there truly cared.♥ 0source record 1394
I believe this. My grandpa is in a memory care room and my grandma still ends up helping him bathe and do all the things the nurses should be doing 😩 they pay for 2 separate rooms♥ 0source record 1395
[account] Facts , I work in one right now.. some pay damn near $20k and employees have the nerve to complain about care. It baffles me. We’re taking care of literal loved ones and human beings no less.♥ 0source record 1396
I was a dietary aide once and it was SO obvious. made me furious at times♥ 0source record 1398
They also over work and under pay the CNA’s which they really don’t care about. They only care about filling the beds, and making their bonuses. Give the CNA’s a break when you come in a facility to visit thinking you know how the day to day is for them. If you cannot take care of your mom or dad in a full day, how do you expect them to do it for 6-12 people in just 7 1/2 hours, charting, med-pass, toileting, feeding, bathing, cleaning, changing, and other tasks as well. 😩😩♥ 0source record 1399
Being a CNA in the past and watching them spray residents down like pets for showers, leave them in dirty clothes for hours, forget meals and not feed them anything bc “meal time past”, leaving fall risk residents on the floor bc “they do that a lot” ect..♥ 0source record 1400
Not entirely true. Worked at a few SNF’s and some really to care about the patients.♥ 0source record 1401
So sad but real I worked at one and got several people fired for mistreatment- I also became a medtech and if I saw anything I didn’t like I had authority to have them leave. After doing that I promised my mom I would never put her in a home. And cried about my grandma who was before she passed 🥺 they only cared about a paycheck not actual humans♥ 0source record 1402
yup. I work for one. it is noted.♥ 0source record 1403
As someone who currently works in one, there are many employees who care but the company itself doesn’t♥ 0source record 1405
yess I wanted to work with old people because I like asking questions like recipes or advice and stuff and playing board games ect but there I realised the nurses are so mean made sense when I found out all the mean girls in highschool become nurses.♥ 0source record 1406
we actually care deeply and fight tooth and nail for our residents because we know it's someone's vulnerable loved one. The reality is, even with 20k/month there's not enough adequate care and attention each resident deserves, so even the upper class can't buy good long term care. I've had great directors and their terrible successors, but the staff that provides hands-on care will put their own health on the line for your family, know that.♥ 0source record 1409
as someone that works at an assisted living, I can promise you that is not true at all could just be depending on the facility, but we care about our residents so much. we go above and beyond for them even if you have someone that moves out, we do have staff members that will go out of our way to go visit them to make sure that they’re doing OK at their new place.♥ 0source record 1410
I’m 100% sure my granddad died with his call light pushed♥ 0source record 1411
The owners dont, those on the floor do. I speak for myself because i to be taking care of the elderly 😁♥ 0source record 1412
Nursing homes share oxygen with other patients when one doesn’t have the coverage can’t not fathom what’s going to happen to those poor souls under this administration. First day as a student can in highschool was a Texas catheter as a 10th grader it was like an episode of survivor♥ 0source record 1413
This is 1000% percent not true. I've worked in nursing homes for years and my husband is a PT in one of the best in our city. They care very much, but they are underpaid and overworked.♥ 0source record 1415
My mom has always been a horrible person, I can’t believe she’s worth that much a month 👀♥ 3source record 1416
i explore abandoned buildings every now and then, and boy the evidence they leave behind in some old nursing homes would get all the active ones shut down 🤷🏽‍♂️♥ 2source record 1417
The nurses and aids DO care! I dunno about the administrator tho.♥ 1source record 1418
Nursing homes don’t care about anyone, they want the money and the body’s to care for the elderly while the managers sit on their butts♥ 0source record 1420
Most old people are racist I wouldn’t do it without the money either 😐♥ 0source record 1423
Nursing homes are filled with neglect. No staff, and owners don’t care.♥ 18,406source record 4449
They cut everything too. They feed them bare sandwiches every day. They leave them in the same clothes. The employees get paid like minimum wage so they don’t care bc they are barely surviving.♥ 522source record 4450
I worked in ltc for 15 years and yes this is true for most of the workers but there will always bea handful that actually care about the residents♥ 7source record 4451
A lot of times they are so poorly trained the resident request you just leave them the hell alone. You have them warm those sweet babies up to change them and properly care for them. 🥺It’s very true♥ 8source record 4452
They absolutely do. Worked in ltc for 15 years. Everynight, and I’m not joking, soup & sandwich. And as soon as trays are done, they close up and are gone by 7. Residents are hungry, they gets crackers. It’s disgusting♥ 296source record 4453
You show up for your loved one. Stay very active in their day to day, what’s happening. If they’re eating, if they’re taking their meds. Be their voice♥ 3source record 4455
It sounds like I was lucky to have someone I knew looking after my nan in a care home otherwise god knows what could’ve happened. This is utterly upsetting♥ 2source record 4457
I would completely starve to death, because I can't have bread at all or crackers or cereal or oatmeal or noodles. They'd have to put me in an asian nursing home with all the rice and stuff 😁♥ 0source record 4458
this is because the corporate office allots a certain amount to each facility. this gets broken down into dietary/nursing/maintenance/supply/office/you get the picture. then each get a bonus if they spend UNDER the budget. therfore, management is incentivized to spend less.♥ 7source record 4459
It’s really sad. I was a PCA when I worked there and I moved to the laundry room bc I was overwhelmed at how neglected the residents were. I loved being in the laundry room working alone until they got 20 new beds open and refused to hire a second person so I could never take a break. Begged them to hire another person and of course I made pennies so I had to quit. Didn’t think they could find a way to cut with the laundry room, but they did there too 😹 Where is all that money going??? It’s insane. Then I got blocked on the job recruiting sites for accurately reporting what was happening. So there will never be any accountability♥ 123source record 4460
It’s administration. They saw that although they weren’t running a good home bc of staff but they still functioned. So now they’re gonna scrape til something changes.♥ 23source record 4461
Wait, who and how do they block you from recruiting sites and what sites? I want to spill the tea on indeed about an ex employer♥ 14source record 4462
Not to support the owners or anything but nursing homes are severely underfunded which makes it really hard to pay employees a good wage and afford good meals, the owners could just share a bit and not gobble up all the money for themselves tho♥ 3source record 4464
tell us something we don't already know. it's time to care of our own family memebers♥ 1source record 4465
We should normalize living with family’s longer and together more. I’m a single 39 yo woman with no kids and I moved in with my mid 60’s age parents last year. At first I felt really bad about it but now it’s like you know what? I’m pretty much the only one who is going to be taking care of them in their old age, I’m the oldest daughter with no family whose background is in caregiving. So now I am pretty content I don’t know what the future holds for me but for right now I feel like they have my back they know I have their back and we have become close and I know their routines likes dislikes everything about them so there is a lot of trust.♥ 25source record 4466
You’re correct. I work in aged care in Australia and I understand that aged care doesn’t exist in many countries.. because the families care for their elderly.. easier said than done yes. But you’re onto the right idea.♥ 0source record 4468
YUP!!! If you put your parent or loved one in a nursing home, come at random times everyday to visit if you can. That way they will 100% have cared for your loved one and will not put them on a back burner bc they know no one is coming to visit them. Those that never have visits are always put last to be taken care of.♥ 9source record 4469
I care for all of my patients! But the atmosphere has changed drastically in all the facilities.. Short staffed. It's a business not a service.. We nurses and cna's are expected to do everything from our jobs to everyone else's and spend proper time with residents.. If i have 30 residents in 8 hrs, it's almost impossible to give them all adequate time. I hate it♥ 8source record 4470
Please don’t group all nursing homes into this. There are many that treat their residents and staff with respect and dignity and take great care of their folks.♥ 7source record 4471
Where? Work at a nursing agency. It really opened my eyes. It’s not just one or two places, it’s literally every place I’ve been. I’m happy to hear that there are standards at some places, just not here.♥ 3source record 4472
I have worked at 14 different facilities and every one is like that.♥ 1source record 4473
How do I determine who is neglecting and who’s doing their jobs♥ 0source record 4474
Only because the staff who do care quickly get labeled as a problem maker, and pushed out via bullying or firing.♥ 6source record 4475
I used to cry after work cos of the way people treated residents when I used to work at the retirement home. I quit and vowed never to let my parents live in one. They actually look at you weird when you care for the residents, talk with them and be their friend instead of gossiping with coworkers all day, that was the worst part.♥ 1source record 4476
I walked away from nursing. I literally do landscaping now. Oddly I make more $ and minimal stress. Whole new world.♥ 3source record 4477
I know inmates who live better than a person in a nursing home♥ 3source record 4480
Private homes are ok, not all. When my dad was in one, my brother and I visited almost every day to make sure he was cared for and fed properly.♥ 2source record 4482
Resent this comment a little. No MANAGEMENT OR CORPORATE cares about the staff or the residents. Because I care for my residents as if they’re my family and a lot of the other girls do. We have that lacking in the agency department and our management department they don’t care they just want money♥ 0source record 4483
It’s not a personal attack on anyone. You do your job, good for you. You got a good team, that’s great. But it’s not like that everywhere. I did my job awesome too, I did the work of 3+ ppl for years. I left healthcare bc it burnt me out and a job I loved become one I hated. Kudos to your management for doing it right♥ 1source record 4484
I said our management don’t care about the staff or residents….♥ 0source record 4485
Oh I’m not being nasty at all. I was saying the majority of nursing home issues is that if management bc management is list wants bodies and money♥ 1source record 4487
staff care but they are helping 40 people, stretched thin by corporate greed♥ 1source record 4488
My aunt is a manager of a nursing home, and the amount of staff she fires because they don’t do their job or and disrespect/ are hurtful to the residents is craaazy♥ 1source record 4489
This is not true everywhere. I have worked at a long term care facility for nearly 4 years and we have the best bonds with the residents. Make jokes, take them on outings, sit and do their hair, have tea and conversations. Whenever one passes on we take the residents and travel to their home community of the funeral and pay our respects. We’re big on love over in Canada.♥ 1source record 4490
very true I would go in on my days off to take care of my patients because of the staff I used to work with♥ 1source record 4491
My mom worked in the nursing home for years and she always said if we put her in one of them places she’ll haunt us for the rest of our lives. She said it’s so awful how they treat them!!♥ 1source record 4492
Not true. My very favorite job was a nursing home and I loved those people like family.♥ 1source record 4493
As a nurse who has worked in a nursing home, this is not always true♥ 0source record 4494
I’m happy to hear that not all places are bad. Gives me hope.♥ 1source record 4495
That’s crazy. Bc I work in a nursing home. And this is definitely not true. 😂not all nursing homes are bad .♥ 1source record 4496
I brought my dad home from the hospital yesterday to start hospice instead of doing hospice in a nursing home. Im so happy I did. Your comment re confirmed my decision 🙏♥ 1source record 4498
I dropped off a DoorDash order in a nursing home and a man was in a wheelchair pushing himself through the halls with his feet and coughing in his hands. I had to drop the order off in the room of the customer and it was a husband and wife. Wife was in her bed and she looked like she was on her last days. I don’t wish spending your final days in a nursing home on anyone♥ 1source record 4500
homeless shelter are contracted by the government to take care of the problem , but they get bonuses with every problem they find and the more kids you have the more the shelter gets 1 p 1 c is about 30 grand a month. if your ill with cancer of mental health off they get money for that too. and donations are never giving to the people but used by the staff♥ 1source record 4501
I start my position there soon - I really hope I can be the one to change this 🥹♥ 1source record 4502
Not all of them! My mom has run multiple kitchens (dietary manager) for multiple nursing homes for YEARS and they eat well! I’ve also helped on the kitchen and they are well taken care of food wise!♥ 1source record 4503
And they charge a ridiculous amount per day for skilled nursing and they don’t get it. So sad what is done to ill and elderly people.♥ 1source record 4505
They don’t have enough staff to properly clean rooms, residents, showers, feeding, nail care, etc. truly not enough ppl for the workload. Therefore workers end up with burnout. On top of it cnas take the most of the blow, family is rude, residents fed up, so you are faced with nothing but negativity so those who care quit and the ones that stay stop caring.♥ 1source record 4506
You are 100% right. I just walked away from nursing. It took every last ounce of patience I had. In the end it burned me out too much.♥ 0source record 4507
I just dropped out of nursing school. Even after that comment I posted I gave it another go but I just couldn’t do it. Don’t work nursing homes anymore either. I get anxious even at the thought of it♥ 0source record 4508
True in most cases. Don’t let them know your coming one day or change your routine and you’ll see.♥ 0source record 4509
I am an ex carer and i can say i got fired multiple times by 3 jobs now for speaking out about the neglect i saw. so this is facts.♥ 0source record 4510
I cared so much when I worked at a retirement home😢 by far the best job I had but very sad when you come back from your weekend and your friend has passed♥ 0source record 4512
My mother worked at one and she only lasted 3 hours. It haunted her for years.♥ 0source record 4513
My mom worked in hospice care 💔 and wanted to make sure she was never put there… makes me question the way she treated patients :(♥ 0source record 4516
Client just told me today that it's 30 patients to one RN at a nursing home. and 15 to one per CNA. I thought that was very sad.♥ 0source record 4518
I wonder if family just popped up more it would get better…like does our gen not know we are going go get old. We gotta do better😭♥ 0source record 4519
Had my mother and grandmother in one for 23 years combined. This is true. We were in there every day checking on them. It's a must!♥ 0source record 4520
I was genuinely disgusted at the place my nana and papa were living in before they died :(♥ 0source record 4521
the sad thing is that this is 100% true, from experience when my nan who had dementia would have purple bruises appear on her each visit… :(♥ 0source record 4523
This is unfortunately true. The buildings operate in the direction of revenue, not quality of life.♥ 0source record 4524
I know a lot or horrible but I work at one as one of the directors and we all truly do care a lot and are always actively working on trying to improve things. Corporate gets in the way a lot.♥ 0source record 4526
it’s disgusting how little they pay and how much we do. so many people are just there for a paycheck and could not care less about the well being of the residents. people call in constantly. people are mandated to stay 16 hours no warning. corrupt companies do not send your family members there if they need more attention/assistance.♥ 0source record 4527
Gf works at one and the amount of places she has quit because of the amount of neglect, but it’s not reportable ofc! So she’s done with healthcare for now.♥ 0source record 4530
I’ll say out of all the staff in the building there is always at least 2 that ACTUALLY care💯 I commend them♥ 0source record 4531
True. Worked in the kitchen for bickford and the neglect is crazy. Residents left in dirty clothes, call lights get ignored. The food was good tho I will say that. One of the better ones but still bad. All they care about is money♥ 0source record 4532
Items that don’t sale at Target are sent to the Goodwill and are sold there♥ 0source record 4533
I’ve been in it for a decade and i hate what i see. I report it all. I have followed families home to help them when they take their loved one out cause they finally walked away. It breaks my heart♥ 0source record 4534
Im a plaintiffsmedical malpractice attorney. Never send your loved ones to a nursing home. Also, absent a few circumstances, if your loved one is in a nursing home♥ 0source record 4535
not speaking for all staff. some are there because they do care.♥ 0source record 4537
at my old job I spoke to the director of social services and asked if chemo was pts wishes or was daughter saying she did cause the pt didn't speak English and they were surprised I actually respected pts wishes♥ 0source record 4538
Even home facilities are the worse yes they are better well maintained but the owners are just a greedy maybe more♥ 0source record 4541
use to work at one…they’re all not the same 💀 the staff act do love the elders and treat them as if their their own family.♥ 0source record 4543
There’s a few rare good ones, sadly I. My area, they’re far an few between♥ 0source record 4544
My mom (RN) is an incredibly compassionate advocate for the elderly. Unfortunately our healthcare system needs reform, but I assure you there are staff who care. They just don’t have resources/support♥ 0source record 4545
My friend is a CNA and just got off her 12 hour shift. There were 2 CNA's for 30 people and one nurse and some tech?. They were budgeting people to save cost. She said will quit if another CNA is not added her next shift. I know my friend she works hard. Worked 7 to 7 and had lunch at 4:30.♥ 0source record 4547
That’s bc they’re mostly owned by private equity so the stockholders just wanna get paid♥ 0source record 4548
I can confirm this unfortunately 😬♥ 0source record 4549
Many staff does care and are understaffed! I have friends that cry cause they care too much and cant cover everything all the time♥ 0source record 4550
I worked at one, and it was horrible the way some coworkers would treat our residents.. we got someone fired because we saw him hurt one of our dear sweet little ladies.. 🥺🤬♥ 0source record 4553
I worked at a luxury retirement home and they were too cheap to hire enough personal care workers so call bells going off constantly, if there’s an emergency don’t expect to be seen for over an hour, sometimes only 1 care worker for the whole building and when they’re on lunch there’s no one to fill in for them so nobody can get help even tho they pay $15k a month♥ 0source record 4556
Yup my grandma fell out of her bed in the middle of the night and they didn’t “find” her until the morning… when she was deceased. The assisted living industry is EFFED in America!!♥ 0source record 4558
The conditions of employment are the conditions of care♥ 0source record 4560
i worked in one and i deeply cared about those sweet grand parents♥ 0source record 4564
Yep! After my grandmother had a sezisure that left her with hemiplegia and the need for 24 hour care, so we had to place her in a nursing home for some time. With my mom being a retired RN she made sure to visited her mother almost every single day, and she warned me of the abuse of elderly whose family’s neglected to visit often. She was always so eloquently vocal about any issues or concerns and she taught me to always have someone with you to advocate for you in those vulnerable moments and to always be that advocate for others.♥ 0source record 4565
Most of the employees I've seen who work in care there always have an attitude, don't do their job, and call out literally every other day. So sad.♥ 0source record 4566
Most patients who check in only have a 5 year life expectancy as well. Even if it was 10-20 beforehand due to the fall ricks and neglect.♥ 0source record 4568
They also cover up accidental deaths caused by mistreatment or pure accidents they don’t want to report♥ 0source record 4574
It’s a never ending business nursing facilities are meant to kill not make you loved one better as to why some decline faster♥ 0source record 4577
My mom pass because of the neglect at the care facility she was at - all the patients got Covid wiped out half the residents - it’s so sad♥ 0source record 4580
My grandpa died from neglected the nursing home. He fell out of bed and broke his hip and they just shoved him back in the bed. He ended up getting sepsis later and passed away. There needs to be more awareness about this!♥ 0source record 4582
I’ve seen that with state run not really private facilities♥ 0source record 4583
what nursing home are you in? the ones I have worked in for the last 22yrs have staff who run themselves ragged trying to do all the things that are needed but can never get done bc there isn't enough stuff and management/owners are busy in meetings but include themself in the census ✨♥ 0source record 4584
I agree with this. A handful of caregivers do the majority of the work, and bring supplies the resident needs if the family doesn’t bring it. There are a lot of caregivers who are outright abusive or extremely neglectful and it doesn’t matter if we report them, management doesn’t care and will go out of their way to hide it. If you have to put your family member in a facility, be the annoying, overprotective family. Show up a lot, at random times. If you are nice to staff, they will be a bit nicer to your family.♥ 0source record 4587
my grandma almost died in a physical rehabilitation center/nursing home after recovering from a fall. they did not adhere to her no cholesterol diet so she didn’t eat. they also stole from her and claimed she had covid and isolated her when she didn’t.♥ 0source record 4589
I figured that out when they kicked my mom to an inept hospital before she passed.♥ 0source record 4590
group homes are similar but mine that I work for is awesome and i love my job!! 😁😅♥ 0source record 4593
this is so true my mom works in abuse and neglect and the amount of calls she gets just about treatment at nursing homes is shocking♥ 2source record 4595
Pick a place in upstate Ny. Chances are good you’ll get a bad one. Good luck with the hunt. I had a mean rotten grandmother too, I get it.♥ 1source record 4596
yes my mom works at one. her client was a whole asshole but they barely took care of him.she did most of the work♥ 1source record 4597
Yes, this is real, worked in one for 16 years I know on my own cleaning business the shit I saw I cannot see. The amount of times I reported and nothing was done.♥ 0source record 4598
Facts I used to work in one as a CNA and they would be left in their feces and urine for hours 😭 even the nurses didn’t give af♥ 0source record 4599
My Grama was a CNA my mom was a CNA I am a CNA. If you love ur family NEVER put them in a nursing home. They can be raped, mistreated, neglected, abused even die. Just don’t it’s the worst thing u could do to a loved one.♥ 0source record 4600
facts, my wife worked at a nursing home for a bit. she would come into work alot to dead patients because no one else cared to look after them. she got so upset that she ended up quitting because she genuinely cared :(♥ 0source record 4601
I worked every weekend as a part-time job for six months at a nursing home, these people are so neglected, I did the best I could and then told them how disgusting this place was and I quit.♥ 0source record 4603
and that's why I love my job cause I'm quick to clock somebody on neglect and abuse.♥ 0source record 4604
I worked in aged care and a resident shat herself all in her wheelchair and lower body, up her back too. I pressed her emergency button that is hung around her neck by lanyard. Nobody came. I yelled out for someone in which a carer casually said "oh... This always happens to her. I'll clean it up. " and took her time while the resident sat in her chair crying. I couldn't do anything Because I wasn't qualified yet.♥ 0source record 4606
Very true.i got 4 dollar pay cut with new owners, then I was only girl on shift sometimes a 2nd person. With 3 full halls. Could not change them regularly or get showers in. Feeding was nearly impossible to get in on time. And the ones like me who did what we were supposed to do for them end up with burnout and quit. lol♥ 0source record 4607
When I worked at a nursing home in the dining room, residents used to pee while sitting in the chair and it would go straight on the floor. This is bc their diapers were already full :(♥ 0source record 4608
The other CNAs i worked with were absolutely appalling and no one gave a freaking crap. I was sick to my stomach every time i left work. I had to quit asap♥ 0source record 4610
You're absolutely right. I was a PCA and I had only ONE coworker who I could trust to help me consistently when we worked together. If she wasn't there, I was in charge of almost 50 residents on my own which is both unethical and unlawful. I LOVED my residents and job but I left because it felt like swimming against a current.♥ 0source record 4611
I was a cna for 10 years. I’ve seen it. Its my experience. Happy to hear it’s not yours. But where I’m from, it’s terrible. And I won’t pipe down, someone has to advocate for these residents. So kindly watch your manners. It’s my opinion, not a fact. Don’t jump on ppl because they see things differently.♥ 0source record 4613
The in home healthcare/caregiver business is riddled with fraud♥ 145source record 14856
CEOs of these companies take the bulk of the $ for the clients, and give pennies to their workers. Most caregivers get paid less than fast food workers. Our senior care in this country is so behind and disgusting.♥ 7source record 14858
Facts. Had a friend work at one and quit within a month. Definitely some shady stuff going on♥ 1source record 14861
Omg no surprise there. Fraud is so common. At my work (I work as a counselor) we have to have our clients initial that they actually met with us lol♥ 0source record 14864
nursing homes and assisted living will hire anything with a pulse...also the abuse and neglect people get away with is beyond me ..♥ 130source record 14908
Sadly I can attest to this too, I did a co-op for high school in one and I would sit with this lovely lady everyday but one day I was told I couldn’t anymore. Found out it was because her family hadn’t paid yet and she wasn’t allowed to do anything until they did. She also never had any other visitors♥ 2source record 14909

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Put a camera in the room and visit at random11 index entriesThe one action this section repeats, and the staff who say cameras are not permitted where they work.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Put a camera in the room and visit at random

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Put a camera in the room and visit at random

11 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: A relative is in a facility and you want a way to see what happens when you are not there

How commenters applied it: 11 records. The instruction is one line — put a camera in the room, because residents with cameras are treated better — and the replies are worth more than the claim. Care workers split three ways: some say every facility they have worked at permitted cameras, one says most do not and search for hidden ones, and one says management instructed staff to unplug them. A family member describes watching footage that showed an assault they would otherwise never have known about. One aide argues the camera protects staff as often as it catches them.

What readers reported: Watch the camera often! We unfortunately opened it one day to a severe molestation and assault of my poor nana and we would have never known if we didn’t look 😭

Limit: Whether a camera is permitted, and whether it must be disclosed, varies by facility and jurisdiction; the thread contains directly contradictory accounts from workers. The claim that cameras change treatment is one person's inference.

What the replies added1

not true at all, i’ve worked in several and all of them had residents with cameras lol

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Watch the camera often! We unfortunately opened it one day to a severe molestation and assault of my poor nana and we would have never known if we didn’t look 😭

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oh my, that’s disgusting i’m so sorry! yea i definitely had to get out of the field from what i’ve witnessed in health care unfortunately

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if you ever need to put someone in assisted living/memory care MAKE SURE you have a camera in their room.. they only treat the people with cameras in their room decent.

source record 11902♥ 1,071
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my managers get a bonus for the staff members doing their training modules

posted about 38 days after the source
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oh my, that’s disgusting i’m so sorry! yea i definitely had to get out of the field from what i’ve witnessed in health care unfortunately

posted about 24 days after the source

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if you ever need to put someone in assisted living/memory care MAKE SURE you have a camera in their room.. they only treat the people with cameras in their room decent.♥ 1,071source record 11902
I don’t be caring about the camera when it’s literally the resident causing problems…I feel u can watch that camera so day n night u can take ur ppl home with u…so annoying But it covers the cna cuz like I said it be the resident sometimes…take em home♥ 19source record 11903
You sound like the shithead that they are talking about♥ 19source record 11904
They won’t let you have a camera in the room at most places and they SEARCH for hidden ones.♥ 1source record 11909
the ones i’ve worked at all allowed cameras♥ 2source record 11910
my managers get a bonus for the staff members doing their training modules♥ 0source record 11912
😭😭 Management told us to unplug them or it’s never connected to the WiFi so good luck with that Camara but for real the residents or the trouble I promise u♥ 0source record 11913
Most facilities allow cameras, but there usually has to be a sign posted that there is a camera in the room. Maybe not in every state, but in most.♥ 0source record 11914
we aren't allowed to know who has cameras in their room at our facility, not all of the facilities are the same :)♥ 0source record 11915
Watch the camera often! We unfortunately opened it one day to a severe molestation and assault of my poor nana and we would have never known if we didn’t look 😭♥ 1source record 11916
oh my, that’s disgusting i’m so sorry! yea i definitely had to get out of the field from what i’ve witnessed in health care unfortunately♥ 0source record 11917

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Police, courts and public institutions618 records · 6 sub-topicsOfficers, dispatchers, prosecutors, correctional officers and social workers, several of them contradicting the report they replied to. 618 records.
Police officers and the law they enforce162 index entriesOfficers, a prosecutor, dispatchers and lawyers arguing over training hours, and what a second patrol car at a stop actually means.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Police officers and the law they enforce

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Police officers and the law they enforce

162 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You want to understand what an officer is and is not required to know

How commenters applied it: 162 records. A claim that most officers do not know their own state laws produced a 162-record argument in which officers, a prosecutor, dispatchers and lawyers all take part. Officers reply with the training they receive — hours of legal instruction, annual testing, memorised amendments — and a prosecutor describes sending cases back over defective warrants and body cam review. Against that, people describe stops for things that were not offences and being corrected only after a supervisor arrived, and two commenters with lawyer siblings describe cases delayed or dropped over procedure. The separate claim that a second patrol car means the first officer cannot issue a ticket is rejected almost unanimously by officers, including one who says the second car is standard backup for safety.

What readers reported: No. The reason is that we always back up an officer on a traffic stop. If it is needed, a third officer will arrive to assist because there’s a problem with the status of the driver or occupants in the vehicle, usually a warrant or some other violation requiring further investigation. That is all.

Limit: This card is mostly argument rather than reporting, and the strongest counter-claims come from people who say they are serving officers. Nothing here is legal advice about any encounter.

What replies pushed back on5

One tried to give my sister a ticket for having more then one person, or family in the car with her!! Hahaha NOPE!! We were all sisters and that is legal! She shut up after my sister corrected her!!

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Yea I’m denying your experience, so anyone can just say they’re pregnant now and use the HOV lane huh, and cops can’t void their own tickets, and appealing doesn’t happen just bc you disagree with the charges

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What! I’m a cop an that’s not true

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I used to get so irritated when people would ask me for me for proof of things, and now I just laugh because I know they're actually genuinely uninterested in learning. These kinds of people are the ones who waited until their mom would clean their room in order for it to be cleaned. 😂😂😂

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I dated a guy who was in the police Academy, and the instructors literally told them that they Google which code people broke when they pull them over

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Wife of retired police officer doesnt qualify you for the actual stats on cases where officers messed up unknowingly unfortunately 🤷🏾‍♀️✨️

source record 1119♥ 1
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Voiding vs. Dismissal: An officer can void a ticket (or choose not to issue it) before it's officially submitted. This might happen if they realize they made a mistake, or if they decide a warning is more appropriate.

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most police officers dont know their own state laws and regularly break the law unknowingly

source record 1008♥ 63,280
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Sir you responded to my comment that was made over a month ago pretty disrespectfully. Reevaluate your entire existence and start over.

posted about 59 days after the source
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Yes nothing like a faceless troll to even the score of all the people under this comment literally ARGUING AGAINST what I said 😂😂😂

posted about 42 days after the source

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most police officers dont know their own state laws and regularly break the law unknowingly♥ 63,280source record 1008
Hell, cops can legally lie to you. They can be wrong and arrest you which makes knowing the law redundant♥ 1,164source record 1010
What does this have to do with what she said, yea cops can 100% lie to you, and you can also lie to them,♥ 159source record 1011
It means cops don’t have to know the law. What’s the point of knowing the law if there are no meaningful consequences for wrongly arresting someone?♥ 252source record 1012
I'm glad you at least know that part! It is the most important to actually KNOW that they can lie.♥ 29source record 1014
If you truly want examples you can use your phone and type in even here on tiktok and see how many cops don't know their own state laws♥ 54source record 1015
Examples, bc if a cop consistently arrests people for the wrong thing they will get fired very quickly 😂 I’m sure you have plenty of examples♥ 4source record 1019
You waited over 6 hours and still haven't lifted a finger to see it for yourself? Come on, generic comments are your thing, so use that fancy phone of yours, type away and educate yourself, big fella!♥ 5source record 1020
I used to get so irritated when people would ask me for me for proof of things, and now I just laugh because I know they're actually genuinely uninterested in learning. These kinds of people are the ones who waited until their mom would clean their room in order for it to be cleaned. 😂😂😂♥ 10source record 1022
They can lie to you in interrogations (i.e. saying we found x,y,z in your house, or your brother said you were here st this time). But they have to know the basics of the law in order to enforce it♥ 1source record 1024
As a prosecutor I have to look at the affidavits and warrants and I usually review body cams to make sure everything was executed properly. If not I send the case back to the cops and refuse to file charges. If they repeatedly mess up on purpose they get a Giglio tag. My job is to seek justice and I’m not about to violate someone’s Constitutional rights!♥ 1source record 1025
But your lie can be used against you in a court of law they chalk their lies up to “misconduct on the job.”♥ 1source record 1026
They must’ve gotten between you and some stolen cupcakes♥ 0source record 1030
Although you can lie to them it’s not legal and you can go to jail for lying to a cop♥ 0source record 1032
You have a 5th amendment, you absolutely can lie to cops, just can’t file a false report and can’t lie about your identity♥ 0source record 1034
No you can definitely be put in jail if you lie to a cop 100%♥ 1source record 1035
LEO for 10 years bud♥ 0source record 1038
not really an example of a cop breaking the law, but cops not knowing their laws in the states they live in is so common, was stopped on the road because i had airpods in (not illegal in my state) and then we proceeded to argue if its legal or not, got his supervisor to let me go because, guess what? it isn’t illegal to wear airpods and drive lmfaoo♥ 0source record 1040
Not legally you can’t, no. That’s the point.♥ 0source record 1041
Yes you absolutely can 😂 what’s the charge for saying you didn’t do something when you actually did it 😂 we literally have an amendment for not incriminating yourself♥ 0source record 1042
Your husband maybe because he works for a good agency. My husband is a federal agent and even some of his coworkers don’t know the law. It’s not uncommon 😌♥ 2source record 1043
Knowing the law is not a requirement To become a police officer🤣♥ 0source record 1045
facts…they will do ANYTHING to get you to incriminate yourself even for something small, but most people assume that they have to answer all questions a cop asks because they’re just trying to protect you. WRONG!! cops very rarely are protecting you. They’re usually looking to hit you with any fine possible♥ 2source record 1046
They can lie during investigations to coerce a confession but they cannot make up a false charge to get you arrested.♥ 1source record 1047
actuallyyyy, that’s untrue. some cops* don’t know their shit. just like not everyone is perfect at their 9-5 office jobs. but go on♥ 0source record 1048
I refuse to believe you are any older than 14. Calling women “304” is what boys in my class would do in middle school. If you actually are an adult then you are just extremely immature.♥ 1source record 1049
He's pretending to be an adult and having knowledge of things he has continually been prove wrong on 😂😂😂♥ 1source record 1050
In the state of Texas, peace officers can only lie to children in the attempt to gain the truth from it. Peace officers are not legally allowed to lie to an individual, nor make an unlawful arrest. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen, but those are the facts. In order to make an arrest, you must have a lawful reasoning to bring them in. This is covered in the 4th amendment. A seizure of freedom has been covered in several court cases across America♥ 0source record 1051
literally just turn on the news there are so many examples of law enforcement not following any laws♥ 2source record 1053
like all you gotta do is use Google more than your tiktok and you could definitely argue productively more than just saying random things that make sense only in your head.♥ 0source record 1055
He's watching the 👉🪽🪽 news 😏😏😏 that's why he thinks he's always correct♥ 2source record 1057
They don't spend a single second going over the U.S. constitution for one thing. They have no idea what your rights are, and they don't care.♥ 0source record 1058
My academy made us memorize the 4th amendment word for word, but I’m sure you have plenty of experience in police training♥ 0source record 1059
LMFAOOAOAOAOAO YOU RESPONDED, please brother keep employment me and the coworkers laughing at you♥ 1source record 1061
Had a cop try to trespass on my private property. Big gate and camera— but I didn’t know it was private!!! lol♥ 1source record 1065
Lots of YouTube videos that are in real time that show this exact thing.♥ 0source record 1066
you didn't post anything but a picture begging for money♥ 4source record 1068
Not begging but clearly you didn’t look hard enough 😘 it’s from last year.♥ 2source record 1069
You didn't post any video of cops, you're misdirection people to your page for money donations 🫰🏾😘♥ 7source record 1070
Use of force in many states have changed and police officers are constantly being sued♥ 0source record 1073
One tried to give my sister a ticket for having more then one person, or family in the car with her!! Hahaha NOPE!! We were all sisters and that is legal! She shut up after my sister corrected her!!♥ 0source record 1074
example would be the fact that they literally do not learn the laws in school to become a cop♥ 0source record 1075
They absolutely do 😂 and do monthly tests and yearly inservice on the laws. My academy had over 50hrs of legal classes♥ 0source record 1076
not where I live they don't- I had courses with those in Police Foundations and learning the laws is not required for graduation also quick Google search shows I'm right lol♥ 1source record 1077
Literally every single post organization requires a certain number of hours of legal and law training. You’re completely full of bs♥ 0source record 1078
😂😂 no it doesn’t, you don’t even know if you’re a man or woman I’m not gonna argue with you about something you literally have zero knowledge on♥ 0source record 1080
He has pretended for over a month to be knowledgeable being proven wrong countless times now and still going strong in the paint.♥ 0source record 1081
I had a cop lecture me for pulling over in the left but he lit me up as I was turning onto a one way. If I had pulled into the right lane, that would've been a violation. He literally argued this with me despite me actually putting him in a safer position.♥ 0source record 1082
Driving around staring at the phone while issuing single mothers book tickets for minor infractions♥ 6source record 1083
Y’all would defend a cop for anything and everything and the way they’re not afraid to put you on a shirt and walk away free 😭♥ 7source record 1084
I had to tell a cop in atl that it was okay for me to drive in hov lane while preggers and he wrote me a ticket anyways bc he “hadn’t heard of that” called back a couple hours later to apologize and voided my ticket♥ 0source record 1086
Yea that didn’t happen 😂 and the police in GA don’t void tickets, the DA or a magistrate judge will have to do it♥ 0source record 1087
Lmfao not you denying my experience🤣 He just ain’t wanna go to court,I was gonna appeal tf outta that ticket🤣♥ 1source record 1088
Yea I’m denying your experience, so anyone can just say they’re pregnant now and use the HOV lane huh, and cops can’t void their own tickets, and appealing doesn’t happen just bc you disagree with the charges♥ 0source record 1089
Lmao okay love and no he could easily see I was pregnant at 8months but you can join him in your doubts 😂♥ 0source record 1090
Voiding vs. Dismissal: An officer can void a ticket (or choose not to issue it) before it's officially submitted. This might happen if they realize they made a mistake, or if they decide a warning is more appropriate.♥ 1source record 1091
ALSO Yes, in Georgia, a pregnant driver is legally allowed to use HOV lanes. This is because Georgia recognizes an unborn child as a person, meaning a pregnant woman with an unborn child fulfills the two-or-more-occupants requirement for HOV lane usage. While it is legal, enforcement may vary, and it's ultimately up to the discretion of a law enforcement officer.♥ 1source record 1092
Depending on which agency most tickets are entered electronically, as soon as the person signs it’s entered 🤦🏾‍♂️but you gotta live your truth, not the actual truth♥ 0source record 1093
He has no idea what he's talking about. I literally just read it off to him and he'll still find an argument lol♥ 1source record 1094
Google. you're arguing things that can easily be explained just by looking up the laws in the states you're arguing about.♥ 0source record 1095
I had a cop tell me once he was gonna make sure I lost my kids. Now how unprofessional is that? I still got these kids tho.♥ 6source record 1096
I crossed examined a cop and told him to recite his oath of office onto the record and he didn’t know it♥ 3source record 1097
My mom’s a lawyer and always told us this. Never let them search your car or ask a bunch of questions.♥ 3source record 1098
Oh should they have known you were a single mother or should single mothers just get a pass for everything??😂😂 Yall just make your own rules up and get mad when it doesn’t work 😂♥ 0source record 1100
wtf are you even saying😂when did I say they should get a pass for everything bootlicker I said a book ticket do you understand what that is? Or is it to hard for you to grasp they are no better than anyone else and know people aren’t made of money writing a ticket for more than 1 thing is bs and cops have said it before♥ 0source record 1101
Don’t try to walk it back now you sounded uneducated the first time now it’s just getting worse. “Know” instead of “no”😂 how about you learn to write first?😂 writing a ticket for multiple infractions is deserved not “bs” stop crying and stop getting pulled over 😂♥ 1source record 1103
how can you give an example it's pretty straightforward♥ 0source record 1105
more like knowingly but yea they really don't know the laws♥ 2source record 1108
Do you know how many state laws there are, you cannot possibly expect a person to know each one 😂♥ 0source record 1109
Do you know that you're required to know them if you're going to police the public... It's not rocket science here. If you cannot retain information, that's important.It's time for you to remove yourself from the position you applied for.♥ 0source record 1110
I'm not your honey. That only works in your personal circle.♥ 2source record 1112
I'm well versed in evil women behavior like that you've dispalyed ashley, move onto another comment.♥ 0source record 1114
Worked for state and can confirm this… 😑♥ 2source record 1115
This!!!! They came to me because I almost had to pew the neighbors dog for charging after my kid on my property and I asked him if he knew the ordinances and he was blubbering. Get off my porch, I’ll see you in court were my words.♥ 2source record 1116
MHM! it's not that most don't know the laws and then just get sent out into the public. my comment, (not to you) , but for those who are not understanding and arguing above, is that most of them do not retain the laws they are taught, and then BOOM, they're thrown out into the public and cause problems for themselves, the people and the city!♥ 2source record 1117
Most police officers go to training which includes classes on state laws, so not really true. (Wife of retired police officer from more than one state)♥ 1source record 1118
Wife of retired police officer doesnt qualify you for the actual stats on cases where officers messed up unknowingly unfortunately 🤷🏾‍♀️✨️♥ 1source record 1119
I wasn’t speaking for all. If you notice, my comment said “most”. Also saying “cops don’t know the law” is a broad statement♥ 1source record 1120
my question isn't rocket science. The last time you commented was almost a month ago.♥ 0source record 1123
I didn’t think it was Rocket Science. I just wasn’t sure what context you meant it. I don’t get on TikTok daily or even very often which is why the late response. Hope that cleared things up!♥ 0source record 1124
No it doesnt clear it up. Because a few days is ok, but almost a whole month is crazy. End this convo. You're not in it.♥ 0source record 1125
I’m not in what? I don’t get on TikTok as much as you do. I have a job, see, and just get on in spurts…like this one. It’s fun♥ 0source record 1126
It was literally my job for 10 years but yea you’re right♥ 0source record 1128
And you were still wrong here. You have proved me correct in this statement alone let alone the hundreds of times since I've posted it... HELLO!?♥ 1source record 1129
Can regular citizens obtain pdf copies of our state laws aka their handbook♥ 1source record 1130
Here in Chicago I watch them from my apartment turn their lights on to get through a busy intersection then turn it all off once they are through. They do it in the dead of night when there’s no traffic too - ask me how I know 🙄♥ 1source record 1132
I’ve seen video after video of cops who think they can arrest someone for peacefully filming them in public it’s so embarrassing for them and scary for us♥ 1source record 1133
SARAH CONNER😭😂 I'm just kidding lol BUT Massachusetts I've grown up my whole life here cannot wait to boot scoot and boogie when I finally can!♥ 1source record 1134
Yes and many of them never worked patrol. Desk cop or worked in the jail. I’ve worked in law enforcement 16 yrs. It’s facts.♥ 1source record 1135
My bf is a cop and I never thought to read the laws we have in Louisiana. But that man on his down time, reads the laws and does it frequently to see if any new ones have been made or changed. I was impressed.♥ 1source record 1137
I dated a guy who was in the police Academy, and the instructors literally told them that they Google which code people broke when they pull them over♥ 1source record 1138
And do I actually most my local and some my federal laws just did 2 years county time and I read it all also just beat a case at trail no paid lawyer 😁😁😁🥰🥰 be blessed I know exactly how they play it at court courts nothing but which lawyer can sell the best story to a jury who also know none of they local laws♥ 1source record 1139
I ain’t paying him no attention lol I literally just got out of jail fought 2 cases beat one at a trail setting and watched 2 friends go to trail n win. I know exactly how it goes♥ 1source record 1142
This!! My hubby is former GSP and will call cops out regularly for pulling him over while they were doing something illegal or not knowing the law♥ 1source record 1144
My friend read the replies, many don't and are taking it VERY serious lmao. this comment done went over too many heads 😂😂😂♥ 1source record 1147
Omg I just realized you're a child😳... I apologize I thought This was an adult behind the account but it makes sense now as to why it's not actually processing for you 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️My bad little man.♥ 1source record 1151
I respond from my notifications 🥰🥰🥰 remind yourself you responded to my comment interjecting yourself into a convo you weren't in just to argue with strangers online over something that went over your head♥ 1source record 1152
As someone familiar with TikTok, having had a sizable platform here previously and moved myself over to instagram, my being present since the Musical.ly era, it's clear that conversation isn't really your superpower, and you could seriously level up by exploring methods for engaging in discussions using your device, genius.♥ 1source record 1153
I didn't need you to *fix* it because what I said stands factual. My statement is speaking on the ones who don't know.♥ 1source record 1154
Makes sense. They’re police not lawyers and too ig’nant to uphold the law. They were the kids in the back of the class …sleeping 😂♥ 1source record 1158
Sir you responded to my comment that was made over a month ago pretty disrespectfully. Reevaluate your entire existence and start over.♥ 0source record 1165
that would be because they don't need to learn the laws to graduate and become a police officer♥ 0source record 1169
as two siblings that practice law, one of the things they complain about most is how police do things incorrectly and they have to delay processes or throw them out. not even just criminal issues, casual everyday duties of their jobs. they know the highlights, not anything further until they have years and years of coming across others mistakes.♥ 1source record 1170
I know you commented this after seeing the hundreds of replies of people fighting this facr♥ 0source record 1172
Exactly most police are incompetent little twits on their little motorcycles most lawyers are garbage too♥ 0source record 1175
They literally go to school and pass a test but ok say whatever sovereign citizen 🤡♥ 0source record 1176
I mean yes… most cops are dumb. You need to go to police academy for a few months…♥ 0source record 1177
I promise you cops know state laws better than you unless you’re an attorney♥ 0source record 1178
Your promises mean nothing. There are numerous attorneys and people who have worked in the court systems across the US in my replies arguing against people like you who just say this random stuff out your butt making it very clear exactly what I said is true.♥ 0source record 1179
About 0.4% of the population of the US are attorneys. My point stands. For example: Cops know how to charge someone with a DUI due to Actual Physical Control which is where they’re drunk in a parked car. That sounds like corruption and not knowing know the law to the normal public, but it’s actually probably saving someone from a potential wreck. The way statutes are interpreted helps them stack charges on bad people.♥ 0source record 1180
I'm speaking on ACTUAL police not knowing their own laws. Not police who KNOW their laws and intentionally use them to their advantage. You know what I'm speaking on. There's no need for people like you to ALWAYS want an argument.♥ 0source record 1181
I would say unless you’re in the middle of nowhere, every police officer is going to know their state statutes. If they don’t then they get fired or demoted because of too many affidavits being sent back from the district attorney’s office. I’m not trying to argue but I’m really trying to understand what police you’ve encountered who don’t know their state laws♥ 0source record 1182
Yes nothing like a faceless troll to even the score of all the people under this comment literally ARGUING AGAINST what I said 😂😂😂♥ 0source record 1184
Because you're uneducated and it slows the real conversation, I understand as child mindset keeps you from thinking rationally. That's why you have to be told.♥ 0source record 1190
Did that help you feel better Barone? put down the honey pill♥ 0source record 1198
Source is quite literally stats between states and governmental research BUT, I know clearly there's a huge uneducation issue happening. No worries burrito, we dont judge you for it.♥ 0source record 1201
I replied to your original comment. If you don't like it, uninstall Tik Tok.♥ 0source record 1207
There's hundreds of people like you here. It's isn't new to see y'all come across nor is it bothersome. go eat some cake chase.♥ 0source record 1208
"Random unrelated and meaningless comment. Another meaningless comment. Random, meaningless insult." When you thought you were cooking, but it was just microwaved ramen.♥ 0source record 1209
I apologize I didn't realize you were a minor. You're the second one in the last week to be in adult spaces!♥ 0source record 1210
most? wtf you talking 🙄🙄🙄 No MOST cops are your neighbors and they have families and are great people. you talking inner city cops that small number of them are dirty♥ 0source record 1211
Yea it clearly is from the people screaming about it in my replies 🦧♥ 0source record 1213
This is a good one! How many times have we watched TikTok videos of police officers violating someone’s rights? And then they get sued! Seems like it happened all the time. Good one.♥ 1source record 1216
This is true!! I grew up with cop parents (both took it seriously) and they would always talk about coworkers that would ignore laws! My dad once arrested another cop even♥ 1source record 1222
and they can steal and do bad things, corruption is everywhere♥ 0source record 1224
I think they knowingly break the law way more than people think they unknowingly break the law 😂♥ 0source record 1225
This is true. An officer stopped me said I was speeding. I told him it isn’t 55 and he said no ma’am. He takes my dl and goes to his cruiser and comes back hands me my dl and says have a nice day 🤭♥ 0source record 1228
yesss I had a officer driving in front of me made a u made another u to get behind me and pulled me♥ 0source record 1229
No I said what I said. That would be another comment. This comment I made was specifically for what I said.♥ 0source record 1231
Omg this is so true. My friend got pulled over by GSP (Georgia State Patrol) for some BS. She was sober at the time and still is to this day. She had two dash cams in her car. One in the front and one in the back. The cop requested backup, bc they smelt 🌱… the cops didn’t notice the front or back dash cams. One of the cops planted contraband 🌱 in her car, both their cameras were turned off, & arrested her. She was then taken to jail. She didn’t make a scene. She was in pre-law at the time. She hired two lawyers representing her case. At first, the cop was suspended with pay. Then when the judge found out about the dash cams, the cops cameras being turned off, and placing the contraband in her car, she won the case. The cop and his partner, was then fired without pay and were no longer allowed to work in any type of law enforcement again. She now has a thriving career, a PHD, and is making 6 figures a year 💅🏼 ✨ 🥰♥ 0source record 1232
thats true ,because they dont know any school bus laws thats why they let so some ppl run are reds 😒😬😡♥ 0source record 1233
Correction, they know the laws and still break them. Also this isn't just say random opinions day. Its company secrets♥ 0source record 1234
I posted MANY here Chase. Clearly you never saw the responses. Let's not just join convos we don't know about.♥ 0source record 1235
Plus, all police officers pull ‘laws’ out of themselves andd quote them as fact. Mostly so they can violate your rights.♥ 0source record 1236
have you seen the responses to this comment??? its a secret to those arguing down there♥ 1source record 1240
its clearly not public knowledge. have you not seen the people arguing in my replies its been weeks now♥ 0source record 1242
All the comments I see are just confirming that cops lie and don't know the law? anyways I was just piling on to the joke that its known that cops suck♥ 0source record 1243
They know but don’t care because they can get away with it anyway♥ 0source record 1244
It is clear as day form the responses here that most dont.♥ 0source record 1249
Check the comments and the ones arguing for weeks on end over this statement. then log off.♥ 0source record 1255
Because your comment isn't validation. Your comment is a sarcastic comment response stating that I spoke common sense and it wasn't needed to be spoken. If you agree the statement would read like others who agreed.♥ 0source record 1257
This is true i have a family member who studies statutes regularly because they think it’s embarrassing when they work with people who just say stuff♥ 0source record 1259
learned this and they told me I can't ask for their help when I need it♥ 0source record 1260
Therefore you can sue them if they impede on your rights♥ 0source record 1264
I just had a state trooper hit 80 or higher (I assume because I was doing 65) to fly past me on a back road. I didn’t know it was a state trooper until he got beside me or I definitely wouldn’t have been going that fast. He didn’t have his lights on or anything, was just flying to be flying.♥ 0source record 1265
The reason why you get pulled over by multiple cops is because the first officer is a level 1 ( I think can’t remember the rank ) and he can’t arrest or give tickets so another cop (level 3 ) has to be called. Learnt this from my ex♥ 434source record 14060
As soon as they become a cop they can write tickets and arrest. In my state anyways.♥ 33source record 14061
This is only if they are out of their jurisdiction. (Different county/city/state). Any cop who pulls you over can arrest if needed or give tickets.♥ 14source record 14062
It’s true both of my friends were class 1 cops and they told me they couldn’t arrest or ticket anyone without a class 3 around♥ 0source record 14065
I could switch the classes around but either way that’s what I was told and they both live in different parts of the state♥ 0source record 14066
Idk about this one I’ve known multiple cops and they all told me it goes by their tier level they are after graduation from the police academy. That could be true for your state idk♥ 8source record 14067
You aren’t allowed to pull anyone over if you don’t have the power of authority to arrest etc. I’m a cop in Tx so I figured it should somewhat be similar. But yea could be.♥ 4source record 14068
Gotcha I’m in SC and from how I understand it if you are a certain level u can’t do anything with the higher level present♥ 1source record 14069
No. The reason is that we always back up an officer on a traffic stop. If it is needed, a third officer will arrive to assist because there’s a problem with the status of the driver or occupants in the vehicle, usually a warrant or some other violation requiring further investigation. That is all.♥ 2source record 14070
Not in my state in sc, well depends on county too, but its all safety protocol as in making sure everyone is safe, having multiple sets of eyes regardless of ranks♥ 2source record 14071
Here in Clayton County, Georgia if you get pulled over by more than one cop it means you’re going to jail 😭😭😭♥ 0source record 14075
Small town cops will have multiple at a stop if they’re bored♥ 1source record 14077
I used to be a dispatcher. and where I was , this isn’t true. it’s usually for safety. they always just stop and check on each other. unless you’re in big trouble then they call for backup.♥ 0source record 14080
Maybe where you're from? My sister is a patrol officer. And she’s been ticketing and arresting individuals since day 1 out of the academy.♥ 0source record 14081
Not sure what state you’re in, but I work I. Georgia. Generally, the amount of police presence is based on the amount of people in the car and the severity of the crime being investigated. So for example if two people are in the car, maybe 3 officers will respond depending on staff levels and call volume.♥ 0source record 14082
I got pulled over & literally 6 police cars showed up 😂 I was the designated driver but they thought everyone was intoxicated because the people in the back seat were acting crazy. I did NOT get arrested but I did get a ticket for expired tags 😆♥ 0source record 14084
It’s literally for officer safety. If dispatch comes back with information or the car gives a bad hit, we ask for more cars. Some departments immediately start going because traffic stops are the most dangerous thing for cops aside from domestics♥ 0source record 14087

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Calling 911, and what the questions are for43 index entriesDispatchers explaining what is already happening while they ask, and what a hang-up does and does not trigger.
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Calling 911, and what the questions are for

43 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are anxious that answering questions is delaying help

How commenters applied it: 43 records. Dispatchers explain the mechanism that answers the anxiety: units are dispatched within about thirty seconds of the call being answered, by radio or electronically, while the questions continue — and the answers are relayed so responders arrive knowing what they are walking into. They add the operational detail: an address is needed first because a mobile call gives a map location rather than a unit number, radio traffic takes priority over the phone, and an unanswered weapons question can hold a call at a lower priority. The most valuable correction in the card contradicts widely repeated advice: calling and hanging up does not reliably summon anyone — dispatch calls back and treats a no-answer as a pocket dial. Several callers reply that dispatchers rarely say help is already moving, which the dispatchers dispute.

What readers reported: NO! this is terrible advice!!!! if you call and hang up we will call back. If you don’t answer then we assume it’s a pocket dial and no one comes. TEXT 911 if you can’t call. Or call and leave the line open so we can hear the problem. Don’t just hang up.

Limit: Practices differ between dispatch centres and countries and everything here is described by individual dispatchers about their own centre. Emergency procedure should be taken from your own local service.

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nope, it’s always the first thing I personally say after getting the location. “I have help already on the way and me asking these questions isn’t slowing them down in any way.” It helps calm some and others it doesn’t but unfortunately you do what you can

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nope, it’s always the first thing I personally say after getting the location. “I have help already on the way and me asking these questions isn’t slowing them down in any way.” It helps calm some and others it doesn’t but unfortunately you do what you can

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911 dispatcher- we’re dispatching people within 30 seconds from when we answer the call. Either electronically or via radio while we listen to you. Help is coming but we have to ask you those questions for your safety and the safety of the people we’re sending. But I can’t make them go faster unless you tell me a reason. I can’t up the call priority without a reason.

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if you have an alarm system the signal is not sent to police, it's sent to a call center and they call police. also because it's a call center the police consider it low priority unless they can confirm it's a robbery.

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I’m so sorry I wasn’t trying to dislike your comment! I was trying to click the more button sorry!

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911 dispatcher we take calls and radio at the same time. But the golden rule is radio always comes before calls! So if you’re on a 911 call and someone is having a heart attack , if an officer needs anything on radio it comes first.♥ 1source record 12530
When they tell you if you just call 911 when in trouble and hang up , they will come. That is inaccurate unless you call from a home phone(so we have exact location) and even then they just ride through the area unless we hear distress. If you call from a cell phone it would just ping off the tower and the cops will circle around that location. I advise anyone with elderly or children in home get a home phone.♥ 0source record 12531
Also when we are asking you all those questions , your call was already dispatched out! As long as we have the location and the reason for call.♥ 0source record 12532
911 dispatcher- we’re dispatching people within 30 seconds from when we answer the call. Either electronically or via radio while we listen to you. Help is coming but we have to ask you those questions for your safety and the safety of the people we’re sending. But I can’t make them go faster unless you tell me a reason. I can’t up the call priority without a reason.♥ 5,392source record 13372
Being a dispatcher is awesome. It has its challenges. People don’t know we are talking on the phone and on the radio dispatching and acknowledging other traffic simultaneously! Dispatchers are the epitome of multitasking! Officers have told me they wouldn’t do my job at their own rate of pay 😂.♥ 223source record 13373
Yes, my multi tasking and situational awareness skills got 100 times better after working for a 911 dispatch center.♥ 53source record 13374
You just apply, most places will train you. You need a good resume tho. I have a degree in communications but many don’t. No criminal history. Most people don’t make it through training because it’s pretty tough to multitask the way we need to. But if you’re good at quick thinking, calm in emergencies and good at multitasking then apply at your local sheriff’s office♥ 23source record 13379
Some people have done bus or truck dispatch, anything in management, many jobs can work into this. Leadership is big.♥ 4source record 13381
Dispatchers really need to communicate that more clearly: people think the questions you ask determine whether or not help is going to be dispatched - as if they need to pass a test. They think they are actively failing at getting their loved ones help. It’s such a horrible thing to do to people in crisis. Just say “I need to relay more information while they are in route” or something like that to avoid psychologically terrorizing people in crisis♥ 9source record 13384
Thank you for what you’re doing. I know it’s gotta be extremely difficult sometimes, mentally/emotionally draining, and even traumatic. I bet it’s easy to become apathetic, to lose faith in humanity sometimes - try to remember how vital you are! You are so many peoples’ heros & lifelines. You don’t hear it enough!♥ 7source record 13385
why do y’all ask the address if you already know where we are♥ 0source record 13386
Multiple reasons, we don’t get an exact address unless it’s a landline phone. We get a dot on a map. And even that is only so accurate. If it’s an apartment complex or duplex then we wouldn’t know where to go. On occasion, like if it’s an internet call or if there’s no phone service then the map will tell us the wrong location.♥ 6source record 13387
this part!! I had a 911 caller who was very uncooperative and screaming and just said “do your job and send them!” Well she wouldn’t answer my weapons question and guess what? There was a g*n being aimed but I couldn’t save it as a hot call like that because it was “unknown weapons” so it was saved as a disorderly. luckily, we got there but still. PLEASE ANSWER OUR QUESTIONS!! WE ALREADY HAVE HELP ENROUTE AND IT DOES NOT SLOW THEM!!♥ 4source record 13388
The first thing you need to do in order to have a coherent conversation is let the caller know help is on the way. That situation is on you♥ 0source record 13389
We do. I reassured her probably 10x they were ON THE WAY AND IT WASNT SLOWING THEM DOWN but people react in different ways and you can only do so much over the phone.♥ 1source record 13390
Ok well that’s good. I’ve listened to hundreds of emergency calls and I can count on one hand the number of times this has been mentioned to the caller.♥ 0source record 13391
nope, it’s always the first thing I personally say after getting the location. “I have help already on the way and me asking these questions isn’t slowing them down in any way.” It helps calm some and others it doesn’t but unfortunately you do what you can♥ 3source record 13392
911 dispatcher here also, this is ALL true. We are only asking the questions so that when first responders make it on scene they don’t have to ask them and are able to help you immediately. All the answers are sent to them.♥ 2source record 13395
A quick question, is there a way to become a dispatcher remotely? because ✨♥ 0source record 13396
ok understandable, I previously just signed NDAs when I had access to too much information♥ 0source record 13398
so no it wasn’t on me. I ran through all the questions we’re required to ask while reassuring they’re already on the way. If you’ve never worked it then you wouldn’t know cause I can guarantee all dispatchers can say this.♥ 2source record 13399
Look for things to make you stand out like volunteer with the fire department♥ 1source record 13402
May I kindly ask on your insight on how you were able to get in ? What can help me to be a better candidate? What other agency’s can I look into for the same position ?… 🤷‍♀️♥ 0source record 13405
my dispatcher tried to get me to do CPR on my mom after I told her she had been dealing with kidney disease for 4yrs. the answer was NO. I'd never bring her back to that hell. she deserves peace.♥ 1source record 13406
Totally understand. I’m sure you can also understand that the dispatcher was just doing her job.♥ 1source record 13407
sure, but recommending that for someone whose been chronically ill just blew my mind. maybe there should be a Lil more training about when its appropriate to say it tbh. if someone said their person had cancer.. cpr ain't the answer.♥ 0source record 13408
A dispatcher saved the lives of my kids & my mom from being unalived, thank you all for your hard work♥ 1source record 13409
Do they also train you to ask a question and then keep talking so the person calling can’t answer the question? 😆 Because anytime I have called to report something like a car accident or a disabled vehicle, all they do is interrupt me when I try to answer their questions♥ 1source record 13410
A few times I called for dv and the cops just never showed up.♥ 1source record 13411
Nosey question. Why do dispatchers send LEOs for calls where no crimes are being committed? Ex. someone recording on a public sidewalk.♥ 0source record 13412
Former dispatcher here this is FACTS‼️♥ 1source record 13415
I get so confused when they would rather give a speech about not answering when it was a simple yes or no question and we could have been done 😔♥ 1source record 13420
why cant you immediately say "help is on the way" and then procceed with questions? that person is getting frustrated cause they think you still hadnt sent anyone♥ 0source record 13422
i did an emergency first aid course the other week and when we were practicing CPR the guy was telling us every ten minutes ‘you HAVE to say not conscious and not breathing as soon as you’re given the chance’♥ 0source record 13424
On that note, always give your location first in case phone cuts out or something. Means first response can at least go in the right direction while you fill in the rest of the details.♥ 0source record 13426
Just wanted to tell you your work is very appreciated thank you for all you do🤍💞♥ 0source record 13427
sometimes i've heard them fail to disclose "i've contacted help and they are in route" they just keep asking questions and the victim is like "I NEED HELP!" and the dispatchers are like "where is the weapon?" ... just tell them they're on the way 😂♥ 1source record 13428
Just call and hang up especially if you are unable to speak for safety reasons! They’ll come faster then♥ 0source record 13430
NO! this is terrible advice!!!! if you call and hang up we will call back. If you don’t answer then we assume it’s a pocket dial and no one comes. TEXT 911 if you can’t call. Or call and leave the line open so we can hear the problem. Don’t just hang up.♥ 5source record 13431
I’m so sorry I wasn’t trying to dislike your comment! I was trying to click the more button sorry!♥ 0source record 13433
Hotels don't always change the bed sheets and towels. If they look clean and pass the sniff test they don't get changed. Always ask for your bed to be remade with fresh sheets while you're in the room. 🤢♥ 0source record 13434
then tell the caller that instead of all those stupid ass questions that make them think you're not doing a damn thing♥ 0source record 13436
if you have an alarm system the signal is not sent to police, it's sent to a call center and they call police. also because it's a call center the police consider it low priority unless they can confirm it's a robbery.♥ 1source record 13463

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Inside jails, prisons and the mortuary37 index entriesFormer correctional and medical staff on checks, communication and what families can do from outside.
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Inside jails, prisons and the mortuary

37 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: Somebody you know is in custody and you are trying to check on them

How commenters applied it: 37 records. A former correctional officer's instruction is to keep contacting people in custody, and the practical additions come from other staff: locate the facility, use the commissary and messaging system most facilities run, and if you cannot reach the person, ask for the medical unit, mental health or inmate classification rather than the front desk. A jail mental-health risk assessor confirms families use exactly that route. Officers in the thread describe why the checks matter — mandated rounds skipped, injuries arriving in medical that they say were not accidental — while another officer replies that this does not describe their facility. One commenter warns from experience that attention from outside can make treatment worse, not better.

What readers reported: I work in a jail as a risk assessor in mental health - we have families that call either through medical, state you have a concern about the inmate if you are unable to get in touch with them

Limit: This is a handful of former staff describing unnamed facilities, contradicted by a serving officer in the same thread. Systems, providers and costs differ by facility and state.

What the replies added2

Checked, called, followed up as NO A/C for months in Veterans dorm at Florida corrections facility. No smoke detectors in confinement, stolen clothes, gruel to eat and guards letting gangs in at night to beat people. GEO did nothing about it.

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every one has broken the law including you. there are people in prison for smoking Marijuana and Marijuana is proven to help many diseases and cure cancer and stop seizures. it's legal in many states. no one should be in prison for Marijuana. I am a retired level one trauma nurse and date a lot of doctors lawyers and police officers and most of them used Marijuana.

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Checked, called, followed up as NO A/C for months in Veterans dorm at Florida corrections facility. No smoke detectors in confinement, stolen clothes, gruel to eat and guards letting gangs in at night to beat people. GEO did nothing about it.

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i was a correctional officer, call your people & check on them if they’re locked up, too much sneaky stuff & abuse by authority for fun.

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I worked at a Mortuary the way the dead, beautiful women is being treated, you'll swear thy alive😳

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Depends on what they are in for, some deserve no contact

posted about 51 days after the source

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4asks a question
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i was a correctional officer, call your people & check on them if they’re locked up, too much sneaky stuff & abuse by authority for fun.♥ 3,604source record 8659
typically through GTL, you will need to know what facility they’re located in♥ 42source record 8660
you cannot call direct but yes up to the facility. most places use GTL, you can make an acct there and majority of facitilties DO have some sort of messaging system to pay so many cents a message to them. & you CAN message directly to the inmate, relay your # so they can call you direct. some states do require you to pay for calls♥ 8source record 8662
power trips big time, they all as a collective need to be retrained and have higher standards♥ 15source record 8663
retraining won’t change corrupt people. i personally had amazing training while going into the force, people are just gross & inhuman. definitely a power trip♥ 29source record 8664
I work in a jail as a risk assessor in mental health - we have families that call either through medical, state you have a concern about the inmate if you are unable to get in touch with them♥ 13source record 8665
I was also a correctional officer, I second this 👀 power trip is real, rights often violated, and inmates treated like shit for no other reason then they’ve made mistakes in life♥ 7source record 8666
i wish i knew this before my cousin was “unknowingly sick” in prison and died #LLMalgaYanga, we’re now suing the state♥ 6source record 8667
my husband works DOC yes. this is true. IDOC needs to be investigated♥ 6source record 8668
Checked, called, followed up as NO A/C for months in Veterans dorm at Florida corrections facility. No smoke detectors in confinement, stolen clothes, gruel to eat and guards letting gangs in at night to beat people. GEO did nothing about it.♥ 4source record 8669
WE’re reminded every second of the day. Before birth to current date. 🤏🏾♥ 1source record 8671
Also put money on their books so they can get useful stuff, better clothes and comfort foods, etc♥ 2source record 8674
I worked in medical for 3 years, and some of the injuries that would come into medical were wildly suspicious and I knew exactly why. It’s really sad..♥ 2source record 8676
Depends on what they are in for, some deserve no contact♥ 0source record 8678
Do wellness checks. Complain. Call higher ups. Really really bad stuff in some of these places…Oklahoma county…inhumane and some workers are worse☹️♥ 1source record 8681
As a former inmate THIS IS THE ONE♥ 1source record 8682
Omg I am so curioussss, do u have any mind blowing stories while you worked there?♥ 0source record 8684
There are a LOT of corrections officers who are far worse than the inmates. Evil people who get away with abusing inmates because no one cares what happens to incarcerated people. Also a reminder not everyone incarcerated is in for violent crimes.♥ 1source record 8686
sad that you're barely asking this question tbh. You should also send a little something to their books if you can.♥ 1source record 8687
nah was coming home to my man to do that. an inmate can’t offer me anything i don’t have at home 💁‍♀️😂♥ 1source record 8690
speak the truth girl! it is mentally EXHAUSTING to be in the environment. i’m proud of you for stepping away 🫶♥ 1source record 8691
Nothing really happens when you do that… people just get annoyed in my experience♥ 0source record 8692
if you call the facility direct and ask about the inmate, yes they do get annoyed BUT at least they’re checking. “mandated” rounds for checking on the inmates get overlooked frequently due to laziness, so it applies pressure for people to do their jobs if families are calling direct. who cares who is getting p.o. as long as you know your people are breathing still.♥ 1source record 8693
I’m just saying that it doesn’t necessarily help the inmate… Sometimes it can make the treatment worse. There are times when it gets higher up staff to talk about it more for sure but it’s kind of a mixed bag♥ 0source record 8694
there is no secret, use the facility locator to see where they’re at, then find the public page for said location & they’ll have all forms of communication posted♥ 1source record 8696
Lmao suppose to have sympathy for criminals? How about make sure ya ppls ain’t getting locked up to begin with. Esp repeat offenders df 😂♥ 0source record 8698
because it was sick to watch other officers violate human rights for their entertainment on a daily basis, i couldn’t get along w my authority bc of it so i left.♥ 0source record 8701
as a corrections officer, you’re wrong. if your facility is like that, there’s a problem. ik there are bad facilities but it’s not every one.♥ 0source record 8702
i didn’t say every facility was like this but MAJORITY are. your ignorance is showing. i worked in a state prison so that says enough from my POV.♥ 0source record 8703
Don’t break the law and get arrested. Simple♥ 0source record 8704
doesn’t look like you have a seatbelt on in your profile picture. i’m sure you use your turn signals, drive the speed limit, etc right? ignorant.♥ 0source record 8705
Ask for mental health or inmate classifications♥ 13source record 8708
every one has broken the law including you. there are people in prison for smoking Marijuana and Marijuana is proven to help many diseases and cure cancer and stop seizures. it's legal in many states. no one should be in prison for Marijuana. I am a retired level one trauma nurse and date a lot of doctors lawyers and police officers and most of them used Marijuana.♥ 1source record 8709
or don't break the law♥ 1source record 8712
ignorant just bc YOU may know. you’d be surprised at how many people don’t know there is corruption in the system lmao.♥ 0source record 8716
This I believe…went to jail for something I’m not proud of…learned my lesson. But the way they treat you is as if your literal scum. They denied me water for 3 days and without a shower for 5. I started my you know what and it soaked my uniform and they also wouldn’t give me pads. I asked for a change of anything bc my clothes were soaked and the officer threatened to beat me up if I asked again. The trauma I had just from those 5 days. You walk out not feeling like a human anymore.♥ 0source record 8717
I worked at a Mortuary the way the dead, beautiful women is being treated, you'll swear thy alive😳♥ 1source record 13457

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Social workers, CPS and what the system is built to do190 index entriesThe corpus's angriest thread: one former social worker's argument, and dozens of current caseworkers taking it apart line by line.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Social workers, CPS and what the system is built to do

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Social workers, CPS and what the system is built to do

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Use when: You are dealing with, training for, or forming a view about child and family services

How commenters applied it: 190 records. The angriest thread in the corpus, and the disagreement is the finding. A former social worker argues the profession functions as surveillance — that the working day is documentation into a state database rather than connecting people to resources, and that agencies bill far more per unit than they pay staff. A queue of current caseworkers reply, several of them point by point: mandated reporting is disclosed to clients and is not snitching, most social workers are not in child protection at all, removal is a last resort decided by a judge over a long evidenced process, and the claim that agencies are paid per adoption is denied with a pointer to public budgets. Former foster children and foster parents post on both sides. Nobody concedes anything, which is itself worth seeing.

What readers reported: In order for Child to be adopted legal parent first has to be unfit.. that is long and evidence based process. I worked abuse courtroom and know this process well. The cps workers provide reports and offer opinions but the status or parents fitness are decided by a judge over course of a long period of time. The incentive is for Forster children (who don’t have permanency) to find a permanent home. And it’s above a threshold to get them out of limbo- not to push them into the system..

Limit: Almost every factual assertion in this card is denied inside its own thread by somebody who says they do the job. It is retained because the argument is the information; none of it is verified, and it is US-specific in a thread that includes Canadian, Australian and Brazilian workers describing something quite different.

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Hey so you can disagree with me & my experience as a social worker & keep it pushing, sis. ✌🏼

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I worked for CPS. It is very flawed and often makes mistakes. I don’t trust CPS at all. But this is NOT true. They don’t get money for that. I did care about the kids.

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I also have experience as a social worker and I disagree. What makes your experience more valid than mine?

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It's way worse than you could ever imagine..Hum[account][account] at its finest.

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I’m Canadian but I am and always have been very anti-Trump, I guess when I heard your original comment I envisioned a dysfunctional family being broken up, I don’t know much about US social work, sorry.

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That is quite literally their job description. They aren't meant to mend ur broken family unit. Rather, to assess it and report to the state. Which in tern has policy surrounding findings. Not excusing the system, but that is the system.

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Social workers don’t help families, they snitch on them to the state.

source record 12718♥ 6,071
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Because a lot of social workers aren’t the “good guys” they’re pretending to be. Kind of like cops. It’s also about how the same systems pretending to “help” are often hamstrung by policies and bureaucracy. Social workers and mandated reporters are forced to perform surveillance over providing support. Calling out the policy impact (like the Medicaid cuts under Trump that will hurt 135,000 in my district) is an attempt to also hold the system accountable. But a lot of social workers in my district are Triple Trumpers 😒

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I know it’s hard to believe that a government agency wouldn’t have our best interests at heart. 🫶

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Across 190 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Turn it into a game” (6 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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Turn it into a game 6Change the sentence 5Swap instead of subtract 3

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Browse the original comments190 preserved records · 190 of 190 source records accounted for
Social workers don’t help families, they snitch on them to the state.♥ 6,071source record 12718
lol fighting for my life? Nah babe I just got time today 💋 I left social work once I saw the systemic corruption on the administration level. Social workers aren’t the good guys they pretend to be.♥ 40source record 12719
blanket statements like that really harmful. are there shitty SW? absolutely, but there are shitty people in EVERY profession. system is fucked, yes, but this is why I as a SW advocate like hell for my clients and will actually tell them what's up and where the system may help or hurt and how to navigate it the best we can. That's why I'm a SW, but it ain't for the weak. Takes those with integrity and values to not become jaded or turn on what they believe. (p.s. I ain't EVER "snitched" in a client, but you must have been in a shitty place with shitty SWs)♥ 1source record 12720
I concur! The court cases have begun! The one thing my attorney said is "no matter what, dont EVER get CPS involved" To this day his words haunt me and im glaf i didnt.♥ 1source record 12723
Oh baby I RAN. They weren’t happy about it either but I still gave them my 2 weeks & made sure my cases were transferred responsibly. Just gonna copy & paste my response to this since yall refuse to read. Not every social worker is in CPS & there’s a LOT of mandated reporters like Health Professionals, teachers, not just social workers. When I worked in social services, myself - I was required to spend MORE of my time documenting / tracking individuals in a state-run centralized data base called HCSiS than actually connecting folks to resources & doing the work. & come Dec2026, over 135,000 in my district alone (Lancaster, PA) will lose their Medicaid/Medicare coverage thanks to Trumps policies. Social workers aren’t able to help the communities they try to serve. Instead they’re tools of the state. Surveillance isn’t support & now? lol now they’re trying to shift case loads onto unqualified new hires by developing “social work certificates”, so no college degree required. The last agency I worked for charges the county around $25-$30 per unit (so, per 15 min) yet only pays their social workers about $30 an HOUR. Fuuuuuck that.♥ 0source record 12725
I'm sorry that was your experience, but it's not like that everywhere♥ 0source record 12726
You’re not seeing the big picture. Social Workers think they’re helping families but in reality, the only people being helped are the agencies themselves. They only exist to feed their own interests, which is to stay in business not to actually help the communities most vulnerable. Do you know how a state determines where they’ll build prisons? They look at 3rd grade reading scores & build cells with predictive data. Our most vulnerable are pipelined to prison/incarceration & guess what documents back up the reason for them to be jailed? So again, social workers are tools of the state. They do more harm than good.♥ 22source record 12733
I know there are real people out there that need the help but sometimes families get false accusations, and are systems are corrupt everyone knows that…?♥ 0source record 12734
You spent more time making wild assumptions than considering that there’s space for my experience and yours 🤷🏼‍♀️♥ 10source record 12736
Have whatever experience you want, I don't care 🤣🤣🤣 Your aggression here is weird and misplaced, but by all means, keep going 🍿🍿🍿♥ 16source record 12737
If you’re not outraged then you’re not paying attention♥ 0source record 12738
Regardless of where you sit, whether it’s county-based services, private out-patient, non-profit 501(c), if you’re documenting into a centralized database, you’re doing more to help the state build a case than actually helping individuals & CPS does more to keep families in separation than serving as community liaisons, advocates & partners to help families out of systemic poverty cycles, addiction, abuse, preventable disease, etc.♥ 18source record 12739
Just gonna copy & paste my response to this since yall refuse to read. Not every social worker is in CPS & there’s a LOT of mandated reporters like Health Professionals, Teachers, etc. When I worked in social services, myself - I was required to spend MORE of my time documenting / tracking individuals in a state-run centralized data base called HCSiS than actually connecting folks to resources & doing the work. & come Dec2026, over 135,000 in my district alone (Lancaster, PA) will lose their Medicaid/Medicare coverage thanks to Trumps policies. Social workers aren’t ABLE to help the communities they try to serve. Instead, function as tools of the state much like police. Is every cop bad? Probably not. But just because you have sunshine & kitten rainbow intentions made of pure gold doesn’t mean you can’t leave a shit stain impact overall. I said what I said. Argue with a wall.♥ 0source record 12741
This is just a sad statement because it's such a 180 from my experience. Yes I had to put information a databases and yes I was a mandated reporter but I never had to report anyone in the last decade. But that was literally my job I help people escape from abuse get a treatment programs that they wanted to I never pressured a direction for anyone. Whatever plan that was built for them they made with me if they want to treatment they got treatment if they wanted housing they got housing if they just want some food for the day they got food for the day but it pressure things on people I met them where they were at that's what a good social worker would do♥ 0source record 12742
when something is actually happening, they don't do shit.♥ 8source record 12743
its not that is just there is a finite of people we can help and the system is understaffed with CM and SW 60 to 80+ caseload. it may seem like we are not helping some people but the truth is there are far worse unimaginable situations happening that need our attention first♥ 0source record 12744
Just gonna copy/paste this since yall refuse to read: I’m not talking about mandated reporting when you suspect abuse / neglect. I’m talking about how agencies are paid via tax dollars, billing per unit at rates twice the amount they pay social workers, who have zero efficacy in actually helping families. But instead, act as a tool of the state to keep folks integrated / tracked in a database that was designed to exploit / not help them at all♥ 1source record 12746
I’m a social worker -you’re referring to mandated reporting. This isn’t a secret and should be disclosed to all clients.♥ 7source record 12747
Uhh I don’t even understand what you mean.. but sure.👍🏼 my point was more “snitch” is a word in common use. I think it shouldn’t be used as metric to determine experience or ability. Or value for that matter.♥ 6source record 12748
I’m not talking about mandated reporting when you suspect abuse / neglect. I’m talking about how agencies are paid via tax dollars, billing per unit at rates twice the amount they pay social workers, who have zero efficacy in actually helping families. But instead, act as a tool of the state to keep folks integrated / tracked in a database that was designed to exploit / not help them at all♥ 6source record 12749
Who were you working for?!? This isn't a social worker issue, this is your employer/ state. I'm sorry, I've been a social worker for 20 years and NEVER have I worked for an organisation/ government that does this!♥ 0source record 12750
I’m not here to convince you. I’m here to share my experience.♥ 0source record 12753
Please don't group all social workers in your personal experience, it's insulting to those of us who do it because they want to support people and create change. Your example is like saying all doctors are bad because of one bad experience...♥ 1source record 12754
& when it comes to social work, you can have a heart of pure intentions & still make a shit stain impacts because guess what? Drum roll….. 🥁 THE ENTIRE SYSTEM IS DESIGNED TO KEEP PEOPLE OPPRESSED. Social workers are essentially cops with clipboards instead of guns. I said what I said. Argue with wall.♥ 0source record 12757
"Zero efficacy in helping families"? 100% false. I can think of countless success stories... again, I'm sorry about your experience, but in my experience that's not the norm.♥ 0source record 12758
Cool. Hit me back in DEC2026 when your case load doubles & everyone of your clients lose Medicaid♥ 0source record 12759
Well, I've been at this particular job for 12 years, so I'm pretty confident in speaking on it. Yes, I agree that the cuts to Medicaid are beyond horrifying, but that's a separate issue and is caused by our current administration, not social workers or anyone else in the field.♥ 0source record 12760
I’m in southeastern PA & instead of paying social workers a livable wage that is in alignment with inflation, they’re creating “social work certificate” programs so people without college degrees can take on cases. I’m glad you’ve had a rainbows & kittens experience but nothing demoralized my faith in humanity more than working in social services.♥ 0source record 12761
You’re not entitled to my labor. You can look up your own examples I’ve given you plenty already & Ion have the time nor crayons to explain this *very basic* shit to someone not willing to stretch critical thinking skills.♥ 12source record 12762
CPS didn’t take my kid, but I’ve worked in the school system with severely abused foster kids who are terrified to go to their foster homes.♥ 4source record 12763
Wish someone would have snitched for Gabriel Fernandez's sake 💔♥ 4source record 12764
You’re missing the point. It’s about how reporting isn’t enough, and most of the work social workers are engaged in, does more harm than good long term♥ 2source record 12765
Everyone misunderstood your comment. This is coming from a former foster child. I understand you 🥰♥ 3source record 12766
As a child who grew up without parents, you sound like an actual idiot.♥ 3source record 12767
Social workers are dogshit Scum of the earth. …. I can agree there♥ 0source record 12769
Let’s see if you even have a job come Dec 2026 when Medicaid/Medicare is slashed & there’s zero federal waiver funding to pay your salary 🤷🏼‍♀️♥ 0source record 12771
So I was a social worker in southeastern PA. I’m speaking from my own experience, kiddo.♥ 0source record 12773
Do you drink a lot because you come across like you have a problem.♥ 0source record 12774
Idgaf what you believe. I worked for a non-profit agency in south central PA called “ECCM” & can confirm, social workers are taught tools to survielle > given tools to support. Take it or leave ya, twink-ass-bop. I said what I said.♥ 0source record 12776
Hey so you can disagree with me & my experience as a social worker & keep it pushing, sis. ✌🏼♥ 38source record 12777
I also have experience as a social worker and I disagree. What makes your experience more valid than mine?♥ 2source record 12778
So you mean you don’t spend the majority of your time documenting & tracking the most vulnerable people in your community in a centralized state-run database while agencies fight over tax-funded crumbs, billing at rates 2x per unit than they pay social workers? Because here in Southeastern, PA / USA that’s exactly my experience.♥ 0source record 12780
Social workers have no reason “snitch on you” to the state, unless you give them a reason to be concerned about the safety of your kids. They don’t want to be in their office all night trying to find a foster placement for your children if they don’t have to. Take care of your kids and you won’t have to worry about it♥ 0source record 12781
Just gonna copy & paste my response to this since yall refuse to read. Not every social worker is in CPS & there’s a LOT of mandated reporters like Health Professionals, teachers, not just social workers. When I worked in social services, myself - I was required to spend MORE of my time documenting / tracking individuals in a state-run centralized data base called HCSiS than actually connecting folks to resources & doing the work. & come Dec2026, over 135,000 in my district alone (Lancaster, PA) will lose their Medicaid/Medicare coverage thanks to Trumps policies. Social workers aren’t able to help the communities they try to serve. Instead they’re tools of the state.♥ 0source record 12782
I’ve never been on the receiving end of social services. But I did work as a social worker, myself. Hope this helps clarify where I’m coming from.♥ 0source record 12783
This is true, but they have no reason to try to take kids out of their homes or snitch on people. They actually do want to help people♥ 0source record 12784
In my experience, social workers cause more irreparable harm to families than they help. 🤷🏼‍♀️♥ 0source record 12785
You can have the best intentions & still leave shit stain impacts.♥ 0source record 12786
A lot of times social workers are prevented from doing what’s best because of the bureaucracy, but I don’t think most of them are actually trying to make peoples moves more difficult♥ 0source record 12787
Again. You can have the best rainbows & kittens intentions but because the profession itself is set up to oppress, not empower- social workers end up acting as snitches / tools of the state - whether they know it or not. Impacts > Intentions♥ 0source record 12788
they play a vital role in helping families the best they can while following the law and confidentiality… (social work student)♥ 0source record 12789
Was that on your college major brochure? Because baby if you’re planning on practicing in the US, I’m gonna hold your hand when I say this….♥ 0source record 12790
Thanks for doing the work. We’re gonna need your help when we start trying to seek asylum across your borders. Not me though. I’m going down with the ship♥ 0source record 12792
Not in brazil! They are the realest most hardworking people ive ever met! The type of person to lie to the state for you and give their everything to help you.♥ 1source record 12793
I should’ve really prefaced this with being specific to the US, it’s a dumpster fire over here♥ 0source record 12794
Oh sorry! But i hope it gives you hope to know in Brazil they are absolutely wonderful people ❤️♥ 1source record 12795
I’m straight as can be but Brazilian women are the most beautiful women in the world♥ 1source record 12796
My social worker is the best, she knows literally everything and everything is confidential but I’m from Aus. American support works wouldn’t suprise me if they did that♥ 1source record 12797
my mom is a social worker and she loves all the kids she helps out of homes. as well as doing interviews, but im also in canada so it might be different.♥ 1source record 12798
My mother was a social worker, most of the time she had to "snitch" it was due to abvs1ve/n3gl3ctful parents (and alike). There was one case where she reported somebody because this girl was allowing her children to live in filth (mouldy fast food bags/cups/boxes, young children, dishes stacked, lots of mould in the kids bathroom although the room where she did art was mostly clean) the mother blamed it on her diagnosis (which was ADHD).♥ 0source record 12799
Just gonna copy & paste my response to this since yall refuse to read. Not every social worker is in CPS & there’s a LOT of mandated reporters like Health Professionals, teachers, not just social workers. When I worked in social services, myself - I was required to spentd MORE of my time documenting / tracking individuals in a state-run centralized data base called HCSiS than actually connecting folks to resources & doing the work. & come Dec2026, over 135,000 in my district alone (Lancaster, PA) will lose their Medicaid/Medicare coverage thanks to Trumps policies. Social workers aren’t able to help the communities they try to serve. Instead they’re tools of the state. What happens after a report is made? Generally, nothing. In most cases, nothing happens.♥ 1source record 12800
Im actually Australian so its a different story here, my mother isnt in CPS either. She works with (typically mentally) disabled people (like autism, schizophrenia, OCD etc) I was personally giving a unique perspective that is based on another person's experiences instead of just yours. Although I do understand that it's a different field, this comment is harmful as it stops people from getting help they may need.♥ 0source record 12801
Not every social worker sits with CPS. I’m not talking about mandated reporters, a LOT of folks are mandated reporters like healthcare professionals & teachers. I’m talking about how when I was a social worker myself, I spent more time documenting (I.e. tracking individuals in a centralized database called HCSiS) than I did actually connecting folks to resources. Oh, and come Dec 2026, over 135,000 individuals in my district (Lancaster, PA) will lose access to Medicaid & Medicare thanks to Trumps policies. Lemme ask, who’d you vote for?♥ 1source record 12803
As a SW myself I agree to an extent. There’s ALOT of bad and corrupt apples in our field and a lot of them are older MSW’s who never got reprimanded for their bad/racist/unjust behaviors. I try my best to report them and advocate for my families♥ 0source record 12806
D, CPS is selling and trafficking our children; They are reporting things for the state to learn who lives the children enough to pay the court fees and will give children to their abuser. These kids get trafficked. A lot of times they are looking for larents who dont care so they can take the children and make money off them by placing them elsewhere. The whole system is disgusting and built for profit.♥ 1source record 12809
Maybe the parents should take care of their kids, and cps wouldn’t be involved. 🤯 I’m not saying trafficking is ok, but if parents would care for their kids that would be a great start. Also, parents traffic their own kids so idk what your point is.♥ 0source record 12810
Maybe you havent been in the same court rooms I have. The world is t black & white, it's more Alice in Wonderland. Things are nit as they seem. CPS has literally been on record trafficking children and laughing about it.♥ 0source record 12811
Lmfao what are you talking about? If the PARENTS ARE BE INVOLVED NEGLECT CAN’T BE AN ISSUE what isn’t clicking? Take care of your kids and you won’t be in family court HELLO????♥ 0source record 12812
Social workers will take your kid lie to the court so the other foster family can keep them !! Social workers are the devil.., they all lie especially if they like the foster family..♥ 1source record 12813
Happened to me but I fought for mine!! I saw exactly what they were trying to do!!!♥ 0source record 12815
The way supervisors would talk about people on their caseload was un-fucking-reaaaaal♥ 0source record 12816
Yup I believe it !!! They talked about me but the judge saw otherwise lol !!! I even got a letter in the mail telling me that I was denied getting my nephew. They thought that I would just walk away, but I showed up to every court hearing. I made sure that I was seen, and the judge saw that they tried everything in their power to not place my nephew and my Care! But I won at the end♥ 1source record 12817
Most of the time all it takes is consistency & being gainfully employed. They don’t give a fuck as long as you’re working & paying taxes♥ 1source record 12818
If you think you’re lil “ok hon” isn’t passive aggressive as hell, bless your lil heart sis idk what to tell ya♥ 1source record 12819
I’m not going to violate an individuals HIPAA rights just to prove my lived experience to a stranger committed to arguing with me in a comments section. Take it or leave it, kiddo. But we’re done here.♥ 1source record 12820
Again, I’ve never been a recipient of services but I don’t judge anyone who does. I was a social worker until I encountered a level of nihilism I couldn’t shake, because I knew I was set up, as all social workers are, to be harming more than I was helping.♥ 1source record 12821
I’m in school to be a social worker hopefully I can make some difference♥ 1source record 12823
Pay your dues until you can get to the administrative level & maybe consider a career in local government like healthcare administration because that’s who’s making all the decisions / selling their souls for profit♥ 1source record 12824
Can’t really do much until we restore some pretty basic shit here♥ 1source record 12826
What happens after a report is made? Nothing. Exactly. More harm than good.♥ 1source record 12827
Because the parents are doing something that needs to be reported.♥ 1source record 12828
Whoever believes this people are here to help are slow . Been known those people were snitches since I was a teen♥ 1source record 12830
Two things can be true, thanks for understanding that even though it wasn’t YOUR experience, that my lived experience is still valid♥ 1source record 12831
It’s a nuanced argument but generally speaking, can’t argue against that. It’s valid. I’m in a doctoral program and we talk about this a lot♥ 1source record 12832
So if you saw something happening at home, you wouldn’t notify the necessary authorities because you wouldn’t want to be a “snitch”?♥ 0source record 12833
Just gonna copy & paste my response to this since yall refuse to read. Not every social worker is in CPS & there’s a LOT of mandated reporters like Health Professionals, teachers, not just social workers. When I worked in social services, myself - I was required to spend MORE of my time documenting / tracking individuals in a state-run centralized data base called HCSiS than actually connecting folks to resources & doing the work. & come Dec2026, over 135,000 in my district alone (Lancaster, PA) will lose their Medicaid/Medicare coverage thanks to Trumps policies. Social workers aren’t able to help the communities they try to serve. Instead they’re tools of the state.♥ 0source record 12834
We’re all tools of the state… I still don’t understand your point if this “snitching” helps. And why not make your point about Trumps policies rather than going at the people?♥ 0source record 12835
Because a lot of social workers aren’t the “good guys” they’re pretending to be. Kind of like cops. It’s also about how the same systems pretending to “help” are often hamstrung by policies and bureaucracy. Social workers and mandated reporters are forced to perform surveillance over providing support. Calling out the policy impact (like the Medicaid cuts under Trump that will hurt 135,000 in my district) is an attempt to also hold the system accountable. But a lot of social workers in my district are Triple Trumpers 😒♥ 0source record 12836
Generalized statements like this can be so harmful... I work for a mental health agency & literally EVERYONE I work with prioritizes helping clients/families. By law, we do have to report sometimes, but imagine if we didn't?♥ 0source record 12838
More often than not; social workers use the job title as a shield or like a “aren’t I a good person?!” performance when they quite literally CANT help people, most of the time all they can do is document, document, document (for the state)♥ 1source record 12839
sounds like your state needs to figure social working out then because ontario canada ain’t like that… they actually benefit families…♥ 0source record 12842
[account] I thought this meant support workers and I was like WOAHH♥ 1source record 12844
my sister is a social worker... this is not true for everyone♥ 0source record 12846
This is just like saying, “my family member is a cop. Not all cops.” YES VICTORIA, HER TOO - class traitors / doing more harm than goods♥ 0source record 12847
funny you think you know my sister... and weird that you categorize all cops as bad. you do know some people actually have a heart right? 😆🤣♥ 1source record 12848
my dad? the guy who's fought for your freedom? who is a member of the church? who runs 5 miles with a flag and cross everyday?... we were taught integrity, morals and respect. sounds like you might need to talk to my dad... not me🤣♥ 0source record 12850
Girlie Pop, my dad was a Vietnam combat veteran with war stories so fucking dark, it would make your dad’s entire military career look like an episode of Sesame Street & can guaran-fucking-tee you, I’m a better shot than your sanctimonious old man. Go bark up another tree, I said what I said. ✌🏼♥ 0source record 12851
it's so funny you think you know my sister and my dad. he was deployed multiple times lmfao & his dad was a door gunner on a huey... as if my family doesn't have dark stories too... you need Jesus. i'll pray for you dude. seriously... so argumentative and entitled.♥ 0source record 12852
I’m allowed to talk about my experience & it’s valid regardless of who your family is. I’m argumentative & entitled? Lol the projection is wiiiiild. We’re all set here, kiddo. Have the day your daddy voted for!♥ 0source record 12854
experience as a social worker? I'm one too. working currently for the county. you do understand what mandatory reporter is, right? thats not snitching thats reporting. lol what did you do? 🤔♥ 1source record 12856
I agree with you completely!!! I cant understand how muchbof these people trust their bias systematic government. 😐♥ 1source record 12857
They don’t realize you’re supposed to wear the boots, not lick them.♥ 1source record 12858
My mother was a social worker… she was as close to a saint as you can get. There are absolutely horrible people in that field… but there are really good people too.♥ 1source record 12860
It’s a very flawed system with the least funding, with overworked and underpaid workers. If you have a better way to deal with child abuse im sure the current admin would love to hear it.♥ 2source record 12862
Let’s start by voting in a way that doesn’t completely gut the federal funding we already DONT have. Maybe federally protect Roe. Maybe understand that abortion is healthcare to start.♥ 0source record 12863
social workers are mandated reporters. if they feel it’s something/someone/somewhere is unsafe they are LEGALLY obligated to report it. same goes for therapists,school counsellors, teachers.♥ 0source record 12867
Couple layers to this brain dead response so: 1. The core flaw in your logic is that mandated reporters and social workers are jobs intended to encourage snitching to protect victims. Thats a good thing. No system is perfect obviously but it does far more good even if the good isnt easy lollipop land black and white.♥ 0source record 12868
2. Congratulations, you've learned that large systems that manage countless peoples arent a magic black box with a red button, and need manpower to maintain. Here's a cookie. Hope you can think more critically with that knowledge moving forward.♥ 0source record 12869
I can use ChatGPT too. Here’s what it said when I asked for it to clap back to your incel ass: “Ah, the classic “here’s a cookie” move—nothing says critical thinking like condescension in lieu of substance. You’re preaching systems theory like it’s a mic drop, but all you’ve done is confirm that bureaucracies require labor. Groundbreaking. The original point wasn’t that systems are magical—it was about how their structure, implementation, and ideological roots impact real people. If you’re defending a system where harm is systemic and accountability is scarce, you’re not arguing for nuance—you’re just comfortable with the status quo. Mandated reporting may be “better than nothing,” but “better than nothing” is a low bar when families are being surveilled more than supported. So maybe skip the cookie, and chew on that instead.♥ 0source record 12870
Social workers are incredibly well educated and wonderful human beings.♥ 0source record 12871
I get you I did this once and they read all my insecurities and personal feelings to my parents to convince them that I needed to let them help me♥ 0source record 12872
Not true for my company! We help close Open CPS cases and keep the kids in the home if it’s a safe and stable environment! NOT ALL SOCIAL WORKERS ARE BAD!♥ 0source record 12873
As a social worker, I can tell based how your wording you probably needed “snitching” on. We don’t get paid enough to be messy.♥ 0source record 12875
Just gonna copy & paste my response to this since yall refuse to read. Not every social worker is in CPS & there’s a LOT of mandated reporters like Health Professionals, teachers, not just social workers. When I worked in social services, myself - I was required to spend MORE of my time documenting / tracking individuals in a state-run centralized data base called HCSiS than actually connecting folks to resources & doing the work. & come Dec2026, over 135,000 in my district alone (Lancaster, PA) will lose their Medicaid/Medicare coverage thanks to Trumps policies. Social workers aren’t able to help the communities they try to serve. Instead they’re tools of the state.♥ 0source record 12876
As a social worker, not all social workers are CPS. Although children should be one of the more important roles. Social workers do so many things.♥ 0source record 12877
Just gonna copy & paste my response to this since yall refuse to read. No, not every social worker is in CPS & there’s a LOT of mandated reporters like Health Professionals, teachers, not just social workers. When I worked in social services, myself - I was required to spend MORE of my time documenting / tracking individuals in a state-run centralized data base called HCSiS than actually connecting folks to resources & doing the work. & come Dec2026, over 135,000 in my district alone (Lancaster, PA) will lose their Medicaid/Medicare coverage thanks to Trumps policies. Social workers aren’t able to help the communities they try to serve. Instead they’re tools of the state.♥ 0source record 12878
That’s really sad but my aunt is a social worker for Métis people here in Canada, Manitoba, and it’s not like that over here.♥ 0source record 12879
Wtf are you talking about. I’m a social worker and have never worked with families in that capacity and most social workers don’t work in CPS!♥ 0source record 12881
Girl you ain’t lying but you know who needs it more? The families & individuals who will lose Medicaid/Medicare thanks to Trumps policies effective DEC2026♥ 0source record 12882
My mums a social worker this is 100% NOT true not every social worker “snitches” to the state be so fr maybe in your country but not mine♥ 1source record 12884
& yes I should preface this by calling out the fact that I’m speaking specifically about my own lived experience as a social worker in the US, which, if ya haven’t heard, is a complete and utter dumpster fire♥ 0source record 12885
My cousin does CPS. She genuinely cares and her cases keep her up at night. Her mental health has been severely negatively impacted by that job. Your comment is untrue as a blanket statement.♥ 0source record 12887
I can guarantee you she cries & can’t sleep ar night because deep down, she knows she’s not able to do jack shit to help those kids in the long term but spend more of her working hours documenting/tracking individuals in a centralized data base (I’m in PA so its called HcSiS over here) & being paid absolute dogshit just to be a tool for the state. You probably think ICE agents & cops are pillars in the community too 🙄♥ 0source record 12888
LMFAO you have no idea what you’re talking about in regard to anything in your reply. You sound like a miserable individual. Your stereo types are so far off base-you should really be ashamed. Both my cousin and I have probably done more than you ever will in regard to protesting ICE and supporting defunding the police movements. Gtfo♥ 0source record 12889
So did you know that you can have a heart of pure gold & your actions can be born of the ✨very best✨ intentions AND you can still cause more harm than good? I don’t care how much of a bleeding heart you are, if you work for CPS you’re doing more harm♥ 0source record 12891
Just gonna copy & paste my response to this since yall refuse to read. Not every social worker is in CPS & there’s a LOT of mandated reporters like Health Professionals, teachers, not just social workers. When I worked in social services, myself - I was required to spentd MORE of my time documenting / tracking individuals in a state-run centralized data base called HCSiS than actually connecting folks to resources & doing the work. & come Dec2026, over 135,000 in my district alone (Lancaster, PA) will lose their Medicaid/Medicare coverage thanks to Trumps policies. Social workers aren’t able to help the communities they try to serve. Instead they’re tools of the state. & no, it MOST CERTAINLY SHOULD NOT be that way.♥ 0source record 12896
my old worker trash talked my mom to my older sister once our case was closed for years💀♥ 0source record 12898
Since yall refuse to read I’ll just keep copying / pasting the comment where I’ve already answered this. I’m not talking about mandated reporting when you suspect abuse / neglect. A LOT of people are mandated reported not just social workers. Teachers are mandated reporters. Bus drivers. Medical Professionals. & not every social worker is CPS. I’m talking about how agencies are paid via tax dollars, billing per unit (1 unit = 15 min) at rates twice the amount they pay social workers, who have zero efficacy in actually helping families. But instead, act as a tool of the state to keep folks integrated / tracked in a database that was designed to exploit / not help them at all 🤷🏼‍♀️♥ 0source record 12900
That is quite literally their job description. They aren't meant to mend ur broken family unit. Rather, to assess it and report to the state. Which in tern has policy surrounding findings. Not excusing the system, but that is the system.♥ 0source record 12903
Since you refuse to read, I’ll say it again- Im not talking about mandated reporting. A LOT of people are mandated reporters like teachers, medical professionals, etc. I’m talking about what happens AFTER AA report is made, I’m talking about the systemic corruption at the administrative level. Im talking about how social workers are essentially cops with clipboards who do more irreparable harm than actually helping the communities they’re supposed to serve.♥ 0source record 12904
Sir. It is 4 o clock in the fucking morning & you want to argue with me for what? Idgaf what you think. Why do you even care that a 40-something woman who used to work in social services left the field for the rest of you “hero’s”? I said what I said. I have a bachelors degree & a grad cert from Harvard (extension not law). Idgaf what makes your bleeding heart sad. You’re just mad that you have no ground to stand on here, that nuance exists & you’re so f’ing lonely that this somehow feels like community to you. Take your edgelord contrarian ass to bed, which is probably still at your mom’s house FOH♥ 1source record 12905
I wasn’t “kept on the back end”, we ALL had the same expectations & requirements when it came to documenting ISP’s alone, and remaining complaint. No one else was allowed to document for my caseload, which was supposed to be capped at 30 individuals but swelled well beyond 50 persons by time I left. You’re just beyond out of scope here, kiddo. Now go get some sleep before I hand you your ass using AI or my brain cells or whatever tf I want. Goofy.♥ 0source record 12906
You’re still here, talkin out your type 2 neck? You gave a response in the wee hours of the morning that no-one asked for. I gave a better one, with & without ChatGPT. What’s actually happening here is that you’re big big mad that even Ai debunked your argument (if you can even call it that) & knows it’s dealing with a b!tch-made, misogynistic incel. Maybe you should cope, by raising your standards? Go argue with your momma because that’s who you’re really mad at, player.♥ 0source record 12909
Then you shud have said so. The rest of us are capable of reading. That's how we knew what you said was rubbish, bcuz it was an incomplete thought. If you make a proclamation, learn to be clear. That's called taking accountability.♥ 0source record 12910
Maybe you should here what they are saying!♥ 0source record 12911
As somebody who works with manyyyy social workers that’s false as hell! I’ve seen them get manyyyy kids to safety and out of absolutely abusive homes♥ 0source record 12912
Girl bye. I worked in social services & I’m speaking about MY OWN LIVED EXPERIENCE. Holler at me when Dec 2026 rolls around & these Medicaid / Medicare cuts further prove my point. Social work in the US is a scam.♥ 0source record 12913
Im in canada and ours is extremely helpfull. Im hearing horror stories about the usa to be honest! Thats bad im so sorry!♥ 0source record 12914
Some social works are good heavy on some !!! I’m a foster parent and babe I have stories!! I’ve since adopted my nephew and cousins but the hoops that I had to jump through is insane !!!!!♥ 0source record 12915
I’ve never seen someone gathered so quickly. But you said what you said right? 🤭🤭♥ 0source record 12919
Lolll can’t wait til Dec 2026 when these Medicaid cuts leave social workers without jobs. I posted this over 2 weeks ago, that’s “quickly” to you?♥ 0source record 12920
You said what you said and those who immediately responded to you GATHERRED YOU UP but you said what you said 😂♥ 0source record 12921
You’re just going to keep going until something sticks right? Hahahah so pressed for someone who was shut down that quickly.♥ 0source record 12925
It’s okay to have that opinion when you don’t know what are the policies they need to follow, if they are not self employed and work for an organization, they have policies to follow.♥ 0source record 12929
Hey so if you would just read the comments, I already explained how I worked in social services in southeastern PA.♥ 0source record 12930
Hey! Thanks for your comment, but I read your initial comment, so if that was your experience I respectfully recommend don’t generalize. I have a master in social work and i work in the industry as well. I love my job because I get to help the vulnerable population but of course sometimes my hands are tied due to the company policies.♥ 0source record 12931
No you don’t, I didn’t say you did lol.. sounds like you have some issues, hope you get better soon. Good luck!♥ 0source record 12933
Social workers unless working directly for the gov are not class traitors.♥ 0source record 12934
God you're so super trashy. I've never seen anyone defend themselves for abusing their kids as much as you.♥ 0source record 12938
So if you read thru the comments you’d see how I’m not talking about mandated reporting. A lot of folks are mandated reporters like teachers, medical professionals. Even lunch ladies. I’m talking about how systemically, social workers do more harm than good & work harder to track individuals in a centralized database than actually connecting folks to the already-minimal resources out there. & now? A LOT of social workers won’t have jobs come Dec 2026 with this new bullshit ass “BiG bEauTiFUL BiLL” but you know what they say… ✨FAFO✨♥ 0source record 12942
CPS doesn’t care about you or your kids. If you have a baby, they want to get that baby adopted because babies are a hot commodity they get federal $$$ from every adoption.♥ 3,109source record 14421
Except we don’t get money for adoptions, like at all. Government budgets are public record. Y’all are so dumb.♥ 102source record 14424
CPS is deeply flawed on so many levels sooo many lawsuits against them. It can be good or it can be absolutely horrible.♥ 70source record 14425
Ma’am it is factual there are many cases where CPS have hurt children have wrongfully taken children have done many foul things to children it does happen facts no not everywhere but it absolutely does happen♥ 50source record 14428
I worked for CPS. It is very flawed and often makes mistakes. I don’t trust CPS at all. But this is NOT true. They don’t get money for that. I did care about the kids.♥ 16source record 14429
I knew that when I called and told them my momma left welts on my thigh and threatened to kick me out at 13 and they told me she needs respite care and I need to listen to my mother. Some BULL! SHIT!♥ 14source record 14431
It depends what county ig cause I should’ve definitely been taken a few times and never was♥ 9source record 14432
That's funny then why did my white AH supervisors insist on taking kids from black and brown moms that were NOT physically abusive or strung out? If I complained they said I was enabling them. Enabling what? They were jumping through their hoops.♥ 9source record 14433
So wrong. Also “CPS” isn’t one blanket organization.. each state has their own process/rules//programs/system and they aren’t incentivized to adopt away children..♥ 7source record 14434
Girl bye. I realize “CPS” isn’t one blanket organization. It was the easiest way to say it to keep my comment short. “Financial incentives to increase adoptions from foster care” is literally in ASFA. And you know who is most likely to be adopted? Babies.♥ 11source record 14435
In order for Child to be adopted legal parent first has to be unfit.. that is long and evidence based process. I worked abuse courtroom and know this process well. The cps workers provide reports and offer opinions but the status or parents fitness are decided by a judge over course of a long period of time. The incentive is for Forster children (who don’t have permanency) to find a permanent home. And it’s above a threshold to get them out of limbo- not to push them into the system..♥ 6source record 14436
🥱 I worked it too, for years! …Which is why I even commented on this post. I know it’s hard to imagine that a government agency doesn’t have our best interests at heart. 😂😂♥ 5source record 14437
And also blanketing cps as one is bad because there can be poor choices or unethical activity in one state or even county and that doesn’t mean the entire system is bad. That certainly doesn’t mean that group shouldn’t be corrected and punished but that paints broad brush for a large group that is not part of an awful action of one♥ 2source record 14438
eventually people are gonna hide the fact they are pregnant and go back to delivering at home like the old days its scary now a days with cps♥ 6source record 14439
This is not even true. Social workers want to keep you with your family bc foster homes are few & good ones even fewer to take multiple children. It’s always kinships first, foster homes seconds & then adoptions MUCH later which takes YEARS through the courts♥ 4source record 14440
cps also takes kids that are in less danger they don't do anything for severe cases till they get more than 6 calls or someone is dead♥ 3source record 14443
When I worked for CPS, I would have argued with this BUT knowing what I know now, all the secrets and information coming out about th USA and the government, I believe it. Even the workers are lied to.♥ 1source record 14444
I would have argued with it at the time too. I left when I had my own children. I could never ever go back after the things I learned.♥ 2source record 14445
CPS are government agencies when a mom signs paperwork at birth and the hospital stamps the footprint it gives consent for cps to have access to a child… because mom signed as an informant which relinquish her rights… the government now owns the child you just take care of it♥ 2source record 14447
Actually it is if you knew the history and did your research beyond a google search. Have a good day♥ 1source record 14449
I’m not googling ANYTHING that I live everyday. Experience is a better teacher than a Google search. My day is marvelous!♥ 0source record 14450
I always thought the kids were being trafficked. I always knew cps didn’t care about the kids 😢♥ 2source record 14453
this is not true. my father was a cps investigator for years and rehousing the children was the last resort.♥ 1source record 14456
It must’ve changed. They took me & my sister in 85’ on a fake phone call, AND adopted us out to our FP’s 10 yrs later, despite valid reports of them abusing & isolating us the entire 10yrs. And bio aunt & uncle tried to adopt us, but DCFS refused… “bc they would all lose their jobs.” Bio aunt & unc got $60k to pay an attorney to take the state of IL to court, and DCFS threatened blackmail if they moved forward. When they said idc we’re doing it anyway, whaddya know, they forced my bio dad to terminate his rights and we were officially adopted by our abusers & moved out of state where no one could find us. Someone was profiting. It’s the only way it makes sense. You should read my book 🙃🙃. Lol sorry this was so long.♥ 1source record 14457
Kids are not safe with CPS at all. They got the same allegations as Diddy.♥ 1source record 14460
My husband works for CPS, and it’s the opposite in our state. Cps in Ct works hard to keep kids with bio families. Adoption is actually a drain on resources, not a money maker.♥ 1source record 14461
if you don't sign that b*rth certific*te you are good, go to your church & get a certificate of birth from your bishop or pastor💜♥ 1source record 14462
Heard this done in women's prison when they are pregant going into jail, have baby get it adopted by private agency and they make money for their commissary.♥ 1source record 14464
Adoption agencies tour women’s prisons and coerce pregnant women to sell them their baby. 100%. I’ve seen ex female prisoners talk about this 💔♥ 0source record 14465
It is true when there’s an adoption the sw doesn’t get paid instantly or just to them instead an amount will go to the department and shared round♥ 0source record 14467
I know it’s hard to believe that a government agency wouldn’t have our best interests at heart. 🫶♥ 0source record 14469
Ok, sis. 😂 I know it’s crazy to think that a government agency wouldn’t have our best interests at heart.♥ 0source record 14472
I was taken in 85’, and my bio aunt tried to adopt, and DCFS threatened to blackmail her. Why? They’d already put us FC with a family that they wanted to adopt us AND they were abusing us and everyone knew. Someone was making money off of us, bc that’s the only way my tragic childhood makes sense.♥ 0source record 14473
I had a friend tell me that they’ll put the child wherever just to avoid court and paperwork♥ 0source record 14474
That private adoption agency doesn’t care about you or your baby either. They will coerce you and do whatever they can do get their hands on a womb wet newborn. White babies go for more money in particular.♥ 14source record 14477
This is exactly how the adoption system started so I’m not surprised it’s maintained that way♥ 4source record 14478
While CPS definitely has a lot of flaws, they do not want your kids. They want you to get your s h i t together and get your kid back or at least find a suitable family member or family friend. Adoption is a last resort♥ 4source record 14480
It's way worse than you could ever imagine..Hum[account][account] at its finest.♥ 2source record 14481
This the only lie I’ve seen so far. CPS worker here, there are more parents giving their children away because they no longer want them, then there are cps agent taking them and “selling” them. Be smart.♥ 1source record 14482
in areas with large Native populations, they are extra devious. there are federal laws that they hope Natives don't know about, so they can get away with breaking the law.♥ 1source record 14483

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What readers reported: 100% true ! You never do your MOS. Just mop the floor, clean the latrine, build a tent, take it down, stand around, go for a run and chill in the barracks most of the day 😂

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The government could pay for Medicare even with a bloated defense budget. They just choose not to

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100% true ! You never do your MOS. Just mop the floor, clean the latrine, build a tent, take it down, stand around, go for a run and chill in the barracks most of the day 😂

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I’m so late but I am former military half our equipment is outdated or doesn’t work at all. Everything is a show lol

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Yea unfortunately, I am Korea right now and we have mechanics that work till 20:00 everyday and is heart breaking cause I finish work by 15:00

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Former military contractor here: the govt is the mafia and bullies other countries to export their goods and pays as little as possible & if they resist, the create a “fake war” & sell it to the media for yall to believe 🤷🏻‍♂️

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this is public knowledge all of those countries in there little fanclub called the P5 work together

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That's your leaders' fault 100% - coming from an Army O3, transfer to a better unit.....maybe even a better MOS.

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Former military contractor here: the govt is the mafia and bullies other countries to export their goods and pays as little as possible & if they resist, the create a “fake war” & sell it to the media for yall to believe 🤷🏻‍♂️♥ 15,123source record 5941
It’s because they have a massive supply of antimony. China is the other massive supplier and we ticked them off so we are trying to control Iran’s supply but they are currently aligned with BRICS. They use it in computing tech and war tech. Basically we are bullies and always have been♥ 122source record 5947
I read somewhere China actually refused to sell it to US bc of what it was going to be used for. They created this fake feud rather than admit that...makes ya wonder♥ 23source record 5948
look up the countries that America don’t have banks in that’ll tell you all you need to know♥ 160source record 5949
And as Americans we to complacent to do anything other than protest. We have the right over throw our own government but how does one actually do that ?♥ 37source record 5952
I like what some people in Texas are doing to ice agents. more of that and fascism collapses.♥ 1source record 5953
Ive been knowing this since the early 2000s, imagine how much stuff is hidden from the public especially now a days♥ 30source record 5954
Oh absolutely. I want to know what they’re hiding in Antarctica and what’s really behind Area 51♥ 6source record 5956
Antartica is just R&D science stuff plus it’s a desert not habitable for regular folks, limited resources hard to bring goods due to severe weather conditions♥ 5source record 5957
As far as Area 51 it’s just a military base that does R&D for aviation, night flight ops and a hanger for older aviation; no aliens here i promise lol♥ 7source record 5958
Eating up? No. Having like minded people who think the way you do? Sure, I’ll comment.♥ 2source record 5960
It’s unlawful and messed up tbh. Could this have been done a better way ABSOLUTELY but once again, the govt does whatever it wants and answers questions later and that goes for both LiBeRaLs and conservatives in general not just one specific party♥ 16source record 5964
waitttt what does oil have to do with this? genuine question im tryna figure all this out 😭♥ 2source record 5966
I've always said this and wonder why ppl still join the military. makes no sense♥ 8source record 5969
My ticket out the hood and traveling was my reasoning no regrets♥ 3source record 5970
Hello, Right now, can someone join the Air Force without dying in this next so called war ? I’m trying to see if I can go so I can get a job with a pension♥ 0source record 5971
so you sold your body to the government vs just getting a trade or getting out the hood on your own fighting for the elites. there's truck drivers, flight attendants, etc🙄♥ 1source record 5972
and I'm sure I make your pension in a week and didn't have to serve for those who don't care about us. sad story and gross♥ 0source record 5974
As the niece of a vet who served multiple tours, I can attest this sounds about right.♥ 5source record 5977
Keep reading his other comments and find the one about the oil reserves.♥ 5source record 5978
I've always said the difference between the government and the Mafia is that the Mafia lost.♥ 3source record 5979
They didn’t merge, the govt just took the mafia’s playbook and copy/paste everything♥ 5source record 5981
They definitely merged…gov works for the Mafia…Mafia purposely get into positions to have a say control policies allowing them to fo Mafia activity…AIPAC♥ 2source record 5982
I believe you. I saw them so this a few weeks ago when the media was reporting riots in L.A. There were literally peaceful protests, but the media had everyone thinking protestors were destroying people's property.🙄♥ 3source record 5986
I was there in downtown LA i made a TT where it was peaceful and respectful and yet no media coverage♥ 2source record 5987
sorry i dont count history that started in 1964 as natives and long standing history😭♥ 0source record 5990
I mean thanks for the confirmation but we probably had our suspicions and we definitely know murica is a bully♥ 3source record 5992
Yes!!! I totally believe this!! The US is a corporation and 200% corrupt!!!♥ 3source record 5994
Thank you! And everyone falls for it every time but I really do think everyone is starting to notice♥ 2source record 5996
US Gov is the macro to Walmarts micro, except a lot more weapons, Hollywood, and coups.♥ 2source record 5997
I saw something on TikTok, not too long ago, The grandpa was on his deathbed and was a military general, grandson leans over and he whispers in his ear: “We were always the bad guy!”♥ 2source record 5998
u have ur whole government name out here too just spilling it 😫♥ 2source record 6003
I’m not in any violations, it’s not like I’m revealing details or top secret information♥ 2source record 6004
this is public knowledge all of those countries in there little fanclub called the P5 work together♥ 1source record 6009
I'm pretty sure we all know this...we are just called crazy conspiracy theorists if we say it..♥ 1source record 6010
At least USA still protects freedom of speech so we can write comments like this. In my home country, i would be thrown in jail 😅♥ 1source record 6019
Most of us have been awake to this for years! Too many brainwashed who don’t open their eyes♥ 1source record 6020
Is hard to believe that US citizen are just seeing this while it have been the common practice for the US government since last century♥ 1source record 6021
Cops are like gang bangers at the bottom, enforcing the turf rules and doing the street work. The military got a little higher rank they handle the muscle when it's global, like the enforcers with passports. The the Boss is the politicians in the suits. Same system with the same goals. Money power control. just different uniforms.♥ 1source record 6022
Customs and Border patrols uses the collection of duty, taxes and free on imported goods- making them second largest revenue collecting agency in the US federal government.♥ 1source record 6025
Low key, I’d rather be in the mafia then against the mafia if those are my choices…♥ 1source record 6026
I’m so late but I am former military half our equipment is outdated or doesn’t work at all. Everything is a show lol♥ 1source record 6031
What are the best companies to invest in when that happens? Come on, keep spilling …♥ 1source record 6033
I am not a financial advisor lol if anything just copy whatever the liberals invest in like Nancy Pelosi, etc.♥ 0source record 6034
my dad told me this when I was 7yo after finding out I read most of his spionage books 🙈♥ 1source record 6035
Recently experienced this as a country in South Africa 🇿🇦♥ 1source record 6044
Hum yes… no need to be a former military contractor to know that. That’s pretty much what US has been doing to Irak, Iran, Syria, Vietnam and so on♥ 1source record 6047
My BIL works for the military, he tells me this all the time!!♥ 1source record 6050
We've survived thousands of years through their hatred. Their "waking up" is them feeding into the exact same bigotry. It may be rough, but antisemites hiding behind a screen will never bring us down🫶♥ 1source record 6054
Former Lt. Col.Stuart Scheller came out about this! how he would HAND tan sacks full of cash to our "ENEMIES". Absolutely insane, and nobody batted a eye!♥ 1source record 6055
I worked for the VA this is true♥ 1source record 6061
10000% as a former State Department Employee♥ 1source record 6065
I believe this one 1000%♥ 1source record 6068
You ain’t gotta be a military contractor to figure that out♥ 1source record 6070
This is what happened to the president of Haiti during Covid. He refused USA vaccines and was unalived😔♥ 4source record 6083
The fact you’re pushing stereotypes just discredits everything you’re saying♥ 0source record 6086
Free labor in prison system probably trying to build manufacturing here since China and other countries not messing with the tariffs…how do we know they are sent back? They get free airfare?♥ 13source record 6087
This I know is true my sister has been in it 30 yrs she's a chief or something like that and she says the same dont believe shit they tell you and they experiment on the soldiers♥ 5source record 6089
Everyone is talking about it bc ppl are finally realizing the bs our govt does and everything is coming to light!!!! Wake up!!!!♥ 4source record 6090
So WTH does izzy have on the US bc it feels like they’re an evil adopted child who’s blackmailing our governments♥ 3source record 6092
I wish more Americans would know this & realize we are not 'the greatest country'♥ 3source record 6093
I knew this for a while and after reading one singular book at the public library…I was fuming. People really need to get their ass up and go to the library. Read one fucking book about America and its involvement in literally anything…it’s wild♥ 2source record 6094
Yeah we know that , is happening in Africa right now, most of the terror are sponsored by the west and France aids by IMF♥ 1source record 6097
Or if they have something we want. Poppy fields in Afghanistan. Needed it to create the opioid epidemic in America. They fund the terrorists to kill our own people in their personal wars.♥ 1source record 6100
This is correct. Also they keep other countries impoverished by stealing their recourses and their ppl (just think about history) and then when they don’t act right they send them back to the same country they just stole recourses and ppl from. Basically the govt should have the fattest rico charge ever♥ 1source record 6103
So America do this right ? I know this is wrong but if you on the other side of country, that is suck but if you US citizens means you are good and safe. So is back for the good of the country but in dirty ways right ?? But this is been happening since Rome era, Basicly all Royal countries doing this dirty and bloody work. And as a people we better in the side of strong country. I know this is sound awful but is like surviving.♥ 1source record 6105
We’ve been saying this for years as Arabs, but no one listened. They really had y’all brainwashed 🤭😬 glad you're finally seeing it♥ 1source record 6106
been knowing that. right now it's the sniper shots of Palestinians in food lines that I'm concerned about...♥ 1source record 6108
WTH this TikTok algorithm is way too specific. My husband and I were just querying whether this is what goes on tonight♥ 1source record 6109
merikkka bullies if you don't give them what they want they will start a war♥ 1source record 6112
you could be straight up lying to me so hard right now but I won't care because i want to believe this is trues♥ 0source record 6117
Seeing people genuinely believe this scares me, explains the rise in nazism♥ 0source record 6118
The military is using your tax dollars to pay us to sit around and be glorified janitors all day♥ 5,578source record 9858
The government could pay for Medicare even with a bloated defense budget. They just choose not to♥ 169source record 9859
100% true ! You never do your MOS. Just mop the floor, clean the latrine, build a tent, take it down, stand around, go for a run and chill in the barracks most of the day 😂♥ 169source record 9860
😂😂 I forgot about the motor pool always re checking them vehicles but never taking them for a drive!♥ 1source record 9862
uhmm.. the army maybe but the airforce will make sure you are ontop of your AFSC (MOS in the airforce). They do not joke!♥ 45source record 9863
Happily sat my ass in a chair in a jet! 💖 And btw, my army mom and dad told me to go Air Force because it’s so much better. 😁♥ 34source record 9865
Never said is not better. The chair force is where is at but true has to be told yall don’t do shit and get all the benefits and tbh if I were to sign up again I go Air Force♥ 8source record 9866
mad thir making more money than you, and are actually educated♥ 5source record 9867
I flew in the AWACS. Besides fighter jets, they were the only active planes during 9/11. And whenever you grounders need help, you call us to get it to you. But ya, we don’t do anything.♥ 9source record 9868
But they do run everything though in those chairs. Better healthcare quality. Better intel. Better Pilots. Better food & life quality, in turn for focusing on your job. Its like coorporate but they will bust your behind if you arent ready♥ 7source record 9870
why is working h harder valued here? work smarter is the way to go. the idea that brut force and hard work is high value is something the oppressor would tell you to make you feel important and valued. so you'll keep doing the grunt work.♥ 2source record 9873
Were you in the Air Force?? Because I was ! And I promise you, we are ALWAYS TRAINING!! Most of our janitorial services are contracted out to developmental companies.♥ 3source record 9874
I was a dumbass army guy and then joined the Air Force National guard afterwards… you actually do your job there. The navy lets you do other peoples jobs voluntarily instead of yours (it’s called a cross-rate). Army is a circus.♥ 1source record 9875
My ex told me this. He said don’t let most of these vets make you praise them. It’s a lie smh♥ 29source record 9881
The AF hires janitors.. we don’t even clear our own plates at the dining facility (not mess hall lol)♥ 6source record 9883
NOT in the Air Force!!! If you don’t complete your Professional Military Education in the time allotted they WILL kick you out! ✌️👋. This is from Bootcamp to Chief and all Officers!! There is ALWAYS more training!!!♥ 5source record 9885
Also this is partially true but not entirely, some jobs you are actually busy all day 😭😭😭😭 engeeneirs and mechanics don’t go home till 20:00 almost everyday 😭😭♥ 4source record 9886
My husbands a mechanic. It’ll be days of doing nothing then days of doing everything!♥ 1source record 9887
Yea unfortunately, I am Korea right now and we have mechanics that work till 20:00 everyday and is heart breaking cause I finish work by 15:00♥ 2source record 9888
I grew up in a heavily military area. I know this for a fact. then, the amount of people that flex that the military is all combat and scary and manly is insane. like chill Jonathan, you probably pushed paperwork and mopped floors. you didn't attack Osama.♥ 3source record 9889
My husband is military and works 14-16 hour days. Not sure what your job is but enjoy it because it sounds like you got the easy assignment.♥ 1source record 9894
That’s cool I used to do the same and now I’m a firefighting instructor at officer training command. My first easy assignment after multiple deployments and hard duty stations in 13 yrs♥ 0source record 9895
He’s a group commander and in his 20th year. Been through 4 deployments that I remember and we’re about to do our 14th move. He’s yet to have an easy assignment.♥ 0source record 9896
Until there is a war my dude, lots of my friends joined year ago and thought this too, then they were all shipped to Afghanistan.♥ 0source record 9898
I happily pay my taxes to have military sit around, rather have them there and not need them. Thanks for your service! I def couldn’t do it♥ 0source record 9900
Agree! Spent 13 years in the Army, 9 different companies (locations). There’s a LOT of down time. We were always tasked to do janitorial work to kill the time.♥ 1source record 9901
My 40 year old son just retired from the Air Force. He was always on pretty beaches in different countries with beautiful women.♥ 1source record 9902
We were landscapers.! I was a 21Y (Geospatial Engineer) and I can honestly say I mowed more lawns than I created maps.! Then they turned around and sent me to Kuwait without additional training to CREATE MAPS FOR REAL LIFE SOLDIERS. That’s it that’s all, rant over 😩♥ 1source record 9905
my job in the navy was indeed glorified plumber, fixed more shitters and urinals then I care to admit♥ 1source record 9906
That's your leaders' fault 100% - coming from an Army O3, transfer to a better unit.....maybe even a better MOS.♥ 0source record 9910
Its all on your leadership, I chose being a cook 92G to stay local and we got a new facility, found any chance and holiday to use our field equipment, would have assigned personal to help us out, did competitions, field tested prototypes for military contractors and even went to south Korea before I finished my contract.♥ 0source record 9913
Been in 13 yrs it’s been every unit♥ 0source record 9915
In the Navy…first duty station as well, doing the job i trained for and travel for my primary and collateral duties. It just depends where you’re located.♥ 0source record 9916
This is not all true. My husband is a wildland firefighter in the army and works his ass off♥ 0source record 9919
100% true. They used to force us to go to the motor pool to pick the weeds out of the concrete with axes 😭♥ 0source record 9921
my man sent me a pic of a dry ass salmon. i said my tax money paid for that? get a new cook. NOW. 😂♥ 0source record 9923
Cleaning stations! FOD Walkdown! SWEEPERS SWEEPERS GRAB YOUR BROOMS! 🧹 🧹♥ 0source record 9924
I use to work with state/government contracts. we have money for everything we need, we use it so poorly.♥ 799source record 12712
not so much hoarding, but paying way too much for silly things and then not covering what we could have, like million dollar contracts to have the parking lot of the courthouses plowed. literally♥ 14source record 12715

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Lawyers, lawsuits and the free filing route75 index entriesA former paralegal on billboard firms, and the courthouse packet several commenters say made their divorce nearly free.
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How commenters applied it: 75 records. Two useful, unrelated reports. The first is a route several commenters say they used: ask the courthouse for the self-representation packet and file as indigent, and the filing fee is waived — one describes a divorce that cost four stamps. Replies add the practical detail that matters, including a financial affidavit, that it works cleanly only for uncontested cases, and a repeated warning to tick the name-change box because doing it later costs hundreds. The second is a former legal worker's argument against advertising firms, with specifics: caseloads well over a hundred per attorney, high turnover moving files between people, and cases accepted indiscriminately. Other former staff of the same named firm agree; a former client disagrees at length.

What readers reported: Self Help Divorce Packet for minimal fee and filing is free if you're indigent (unable to pay filing fee)

Limit: Court procedures, fee waivers and eligibility differ by state and country. The allegations about one named law firm are made by former employees and disputed by a former client in the same thread.

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Not true. My spouse was not responsible for anything. He thought I paid for the divorce, ha ha to him

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I disagree with this. Small local companies don’t get taken seriously. I used [account] and they were a BEAST! Highly recommend them!

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Nope! No emails were encrypted at TJH. If you were a client before Aug ‘24 your information was stolen along with their entire system. They just keep everything in Dropbox now 😂.

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Someone hit me with their giant SUV & tried suing me using some ambulance chaser lawyer. I recorded the guy laying on the ground working on his car when he claimed to have a back injury, needless to say that legal counsel didn’t work out for him

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If getting a divorced, go to the courthouse and tell them you want to pack it for a free divorce.You are too poor. they will help you fill it out. My divorce costed 4 stamps. 2 for his copy and 2 for mine. don't pay the courthouse all that money.

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You’re paying for the ads, not the work. That’s goes for contractors, real estate, etc

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The attorney or PIP adjuster(insurance) I know at law office they would make us get that PIP cuz we get a % and u wouldn’t get all the $$

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If getting a divorced, go to the courthouse and tell them you want to pack it for a free divorce.You are too poor. they will help you fill it out. My divorce costed 4 stamps. 2 for his copy and 2 for mine. don't pay the courthouse all that money.♥ 2,987source record 10294
packet I'm sorry talk to text 🤣🤣 you go to the courthouse and ask them for The packet to file for a divorce that you cannot afford it. you have to make a lot of money, which most of us don't to not qualify.♥ 172source record 10295
I think it depends on the county/state you filled in. I’m pretty sure if you check the box your name automatically returns to your maiden name.♥ 2source record 10298
Yep, made that mistake, now it's going to cost $600 to change it. 😒♥ 20source record 10299
Yup! I did too, had to go through family court to change mine. Had to write essay why I wanted to change it.♥ 8source record 10300
I have to go to court, swear I'm not impersonating another person, then take out a fictitious name statement it in a local paper for 4 weeks 😒 . Then the joy & cost of changing my SSN, passport, & and driver's license.♥ 6source record 10301
hold up can we chat because I def am in the process of getting one and they said just to file is $300 like excuse me 😩♥ 12source record 10303
I think I had to pay maybe for him to be served 17 bucks and 4 stamps one's self addressed to him and one's self addressed to me for our divorce papers to be sent to us. we went to mediation and then divorced court, and it was final.It took all of 2 months♥ 5source record 10304
I don't know if it's by state, but in the state of florida, you can file with a packet stating you cannot afford to pay for the divorce and they will ask you for proof of employment and you have to make a lot of money, not it's a qualifify. i didn't pay anything for my divorce. it was also simple, no children and no property together or bank accounts.♥ 11source record 10305
When going through a divorce, as a mother we are programmed to fight for custody of our kids. Fight for your assets first then use your assets to work out a co- parenting plan. Don♥ 1source record 10306
We didn't have kids a house nor bank accounts together.That's why it was so easy. thank God we didn't have no kids. no kids, no house, no bank account makes it very easy. To file that packet and get a nice, quick divorce.♥ 0source record 10307
omg I'm def going to do this I'm in tx and same no kids no property and no bank accounts together so it should be a clean break♥ 5source record 10308
I filed in march and was divorced in may 🙌🙌🙌🙌 i'm thinking it was free for me to file with the sheriff's department to have him served as well. so it costed me 4 stamps♥ 5source record 10309
I got divorced and I didnt pay anything. I went to the courthouse, picked up a packet, had him served, and didn’t use a lawyer and did not have anything taken out of my taxes for it. I have kids involved but we agreed on everything. Your process should be simple♥ 10source record 10310
ohh thank God running to the court house thank you so much ✨♥ 3source record 10312
I am so, so sorry, but COST. The past tense of cost is still cost🙈♥ 1source record 10314
Self Help Divorce Packet for minimal fee and filing is free if you're indigent (unable to pay filing fee)♥ 5source record 10315
It might be different from state to state.I live in florida, and I was able to do♥ 1source record 10317
Filing charges wil end up being taken out of your State Taxes eventually just sayin. It happened to me♥ 1source record 10318
Same in NC. I was able to get my divorce, full custody of my kids and name change free! They also served by sheriff for free.♥ 3source record 10321
my mom has a high paying job and that caused my ex step dad to drain 70k in divorce fees out of my moms pockets for “allegations and claims” against her that were proven false 🫠♥ 2source record 10323
Not every state or locality will have this. If it’s not a statewide option, it’s usually up to the judges in each locality. And staff should NOT be helping you fill it out.♥ 1source record 10326
It cost me like $350 total, did it all online. Was approved the next morning.♥ 1source record 10327
I paid about $280 for divorce, you can get the divorce papers off line through the county websites♥ 1source record 10331
Yes, tell them you’re indigent. You will have to fill out a financial affidavit but then you can file for free.♥ 1source record 10335
In Arizona they make you fill out an affidavit with financial info and if you’re caught lying, which often happens in divorce bc both parties have to disclose financial information to distribute, it’s a criminal charge…..♥ 1source record 10336
Of course, I had to sign that affidavit, and give my financials and I qualified for a free divorce. cost me 4 stamps, 2 for huscopy& for his copy and 2 for mine who said anything about lying?? i said it was possible to get a free divorce if you qualify. have a great day♥ 1source record 10337
ask for a fee waiver or In Forma Pauperis.♥ 1source record 10339
Not true. My spouse was not responsible for anything. He thought I paid for the divorce, ha ha to him♥ 1source record 10341
Yes, it is true, but obviously depends on the state and your individual circumstances. This is how I filed for divorce in NC, in my 20s .♥ 1source record 10342
My divorce was $175 through the courthouse. They didn’t have a packet, but told me where to find one.♥ 1source record 10343
I wonder if this only applies to women bc my brother tried this twice and no one would help him♥ 1source record 10345
This is true. I was too poor and the divorce with about $40!♥ 0source record 10349
so true with most court documents you ask for the waiver packet you will put everything I mean everything you pay out in bill an so on you literally in the end not pay nothing in fee's♥ 0source record 10351
But common sense tells you along with that packet, you're going to have to give financials, and you have to make a lot of money in order not to qualify I. Also said that in my comment have a great day♥ 0source record 10352
Considering majority of the population aren’t lawyers or have had to encounter family court, most people don’t know the process of filing papers in a court case. So whether or not you think it’s common sense, I was simply clarifying that just asking for papers and stating you’re poor doesn’t mean you will get them for free. And in fact, many times, your fees only get deferred, meaning you’ll still owe the monies at some point even if they’re not due to be paid at the time of filing. I am also not sure what you define as “a lot of money” but there are statutes and laws that determine that threshold. So if you’re saying majority of peoples income fall under 150% of the federal poverty guidelines, then I guess you’re right. But I don’t believe that’s the case. Good Day.♥ 0source record 10353
I don't need you to clarify anything.Go bother someone else you just want to correct somebody so bad and hear yourself speak well, not me.You're not correcting nothing because I didn't say anything wrong.So f*** off and have a great day♥ 0source record 10354
Go bother another like minded person like yourself with this nonsense, you spun my comment into something.It's not!! i never suggested to do anything illegal go be politically correct with someone else.♥ 0source record 10358
Yeah I saw a walk with me for 60 seconds abt a divorce and I was like girl go get a free one! That and bankruptcy. Free.♥ 0source record 10359
If you get in a vehicle accident or otherwise want to seek a lawsuit for personal injury. DO NOT go to any big law firm with ads on the highways, on the radio, etc. Instead, find a small local Personal Injury Attorney with good ratings♥ 1,953source record 11042
They often have very high turnover rates, which means cases are juggled around constantly. The place I worked for had some unethical things happen- we got hacked and were told not to tell clients. There were attorneys with over 150 cases assigned to them. Just about every single case is accepted (we even accepted new cases during the hack when our computers were all down and we were unable to run checks for conflicts of interest.) Things slipped through the cracks all the time♥ 111source record 11044
Back in high school (1985) I worked at a pizza place and one girl would spit into any food ordered by law enforcement. Maybe don’t order in uniform? Btw I like cops.♥ 2source record 11045
Yesss..100%. Choose a private attorney. Most of the atty are freshly grad out of Law school also. I worked at one , I was responsible for the medical records/bill part. Most of the time they would even touch or know about your case until we told them it was ready to begin the process .♥ 3source record 11046
150 cases per attorney is a lot...no? I wonder how that works♥ 1source record 11047
You’re paying for the ads, not the work. That’s goes for contractors, real estate, etc♥ 3source record 11050
I disagree with this. Small local companies don’t get taken seriously. I used [account] and they were a BEAST! Highly recommend them!♥ 1source record 11051
was in a small accident, ended up in pt for like 3-4 months and my attorney got me 5k outside of medical fees paid and their cut. was recommend them by someone i worked with, not a big law firm or anything. i lived an hour and a half away and they still took me. best decision of my life.♥ 4source record 11053
What injuries did you claim to have? A lady hit me and my 2 babies today. She was at fault.♥ 0source record 11054
nothing but mild neck pain come to find out i had a herniated disk in my lower back♥ 0source record 11055
Go to the dr and have everything on file! If the claim gets drawn out for a long time, they will ask why you never went to the dr and assume you recovered from injuries. So make sure you go to the dr and report any pain to make sure it will be on your record! Even if it’s headaches, stomach pain, ANXIETY from driving. All of it.♥ 0source record 11056
out of a $15,000 settlement , I recieve about $2,600 🤦🏾‍♀️Cochran Firm took the rest♥ 3source record 11059
Very true. My daughter was in a bad wreck & we had to sue for medical bills & personal injury. Small town lawyer did her great.♥ 3source record 11060
They also had us forward and receive sensitive medical and personal information over email without encryption. Documents that have SSNs on them. I was promised a three month training program and didn’t receive even a week of training. First day in asked to draft a “NORI” didn’t even know what that was, because they don’t have trainers or have any sort of organization. Just about 3 hours of basic online cybersecurity and workplace harassment lessons. / I also remember how, during thanksgiving, they fired half of the attorneys in one department, then in the staff meeting that day TJH said “Raise your hand if you feel under appreciated. Well, I’m sure many of you do.” (Nobody raised their hand since he just fired a bunch of people) - and then said “Come down to Corpus Christi, we’ll be giving cooked tukeys to the homeless and they’ll make you feel /so appreciated/ if you think you’re lacking that.” It was disgusting♥ 0source record 11063
All of my emails were secured. I didn’t have not one problem with them. I was very impressed.♥ 0source record 11064
Nope! No emails were encrypted at TJH. If you were a client before Aug ‘24 your information was stolen along with their entire system. They just keep everything in Dropbox now 😂.♥ 1source record 11065
Were you a client? I’m sure you know more about the inner workings of the corrupt company than someone who worked for them for a year. 😂♥ 0source record 11066
Also encrypted is different than secured, hun. They just use outlook email, which is unprotected and unencrypted. Thankfully I now work for a respectable business where I was taught actual cybersecurity and shown all the ways TJH mishandles private, sensitive information. Not a good company to defend, boo♥ 1source record 11067
No im not saying that. Yes I was a client in April 2022. Im saying that it was secure that I had to have a password to open up emails and send them.♥ 0source record 11068
As someone who worked for them, it’s not a reputable company and one day there will be a massive documentary-worthy scandal. Over half of my department left when I did, because of unethical and illegal workplace practices♥ 2source record 11069
something tells me desirae might work for them. I've been in personal injury for 5 years, I don't know many former clients that will go to bat for their large Law firm like she is. I don't know many former clients that will go to that for a single lawyer Law firm. also have you noticed how many personal injury law firms are now pivoting to bankruptcy on their billboards? at least in florida.♥ 0source record 11070
along this line, get a police report and have the other person present. my friends boyfriend got hit by a car but since the driver took off before the police arrived he couldn't get a big settlement♥ 1source record 11071
Someone hit me with their giant SUV & tried suing me using some ambulance chaser lawyer. I recorded the guy laying on the ground working on his car when he claimed to have a back injury, needless to say that legal counsel didn’t work out for him♥ 1source record 11072
I work at Morgan and Morgan. 100000% confirm. NEVER hire a big firm- is, Farah and Farah etc..♥ 1source record 11074
Former TJH here. Yup 😭♥ 1source record 11075
i got back 4000 from morgan and morgan 3 years later 😭😡🤬😤😡🤬😡😡♥ 1source record 11076
We lost thousands of documents and were told to re-order records and everything, which are all considered case expenses. It comes out of whatever settlement the client gets(if they get one), and we were told to re-order hundreds of dollars of items without telling customers their private info had been stolen. That includes medical records with patient SSNs on them♥ 1source record 11077
You can also file your own “PIP” or personal injury claim if u have the coverage for example TX u can get up to $10k easy to file. If ur attorney ask u if u want them to do it they take a percentage♥ 0source record 11079
Wait please say more. I’m in tx and progressive did me dirty♥ 0source record 11080
If u loook at ur insurance declaration page, it should say PIP right under Bodily injury limits/ Under insured. If u have the coverage it’s like $2.5k, 5k or 10k and u can contact the adjuster and ask what they need and they will send u a paper to fill out and u will just need to attach a “medical bill, days u lost from going to work (ur manager will have to sign” etc) to equal more than whatever u have and ull get a check♥ 0source record 11081
Interesting. They had told me I could only use PIP for injury and that I had to have my bills sent to them. Like they aren’t gonna cut me a check unless I pay out of pocket and they are reimbursing me♥ 0source record 11082
The attorney or PIP adjuster(insurance) I know at law office they would make us get that PIP cuz we get a % and u wouldn’t get all the $$♥ 0source record 11083
This is 100% accurate♥ 0source record 11086
Not so true the big law firm I went to was very good we got our settlement in 7 months♥ 0source record 11090
When I first began working there, there was a motorcycle accident case that was over a year old. The police report, which was received a month into the case, placed the client at fault. Instead of dropping the case, TJH continued having the client go to treatments, including getting shots in their spine. When we dropped the case TJH had wracked up almost $20k in medical expenses for said client. That debt falls on the former client’s shoulders when we dropped the case. It never would’ve happened at a small firm.♥ 1source record 11091
A lot of the billboard attorneys don't work up the cases themselves. They sign them up and refer them to the smaller firm with better rating and then get a fee split. Cut out the middle man.♥ 0source record 11094

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How commenters applied it: 154 records. The claim that the round-up is a corporate tax write-off draws the corpus's best-sourced correction. Nonprofit staff reply in numbers, several of them explaining that a customer donation collected at a register is not the retailer's donation and cannot be deducted by the retailer, and pointing to public filings and rating sites where the split can be checked. Others working in charities describe overhead honestly — salaries, logistics, fundraising — and argue that a low-overhead figure is not the same as effectiveness. Against them sit former retail workers describing exactly the practice claimed at named chains. What everyone converges on is practical: look the organisation up before giving, and several name the specific places to look.

What readers reported: There are a shit ton of nonprofits that do a ton of good. There’s a website called charity navigator that assigns ratings to each charity and breaks down what they do and how much they contribute. If you’re not EVER donating to charity because “they’re all bad”, you’re just not a good person. Period.

Limit: The tax mechanism is asserted and denied by commenters on both sides and is not resolved here or verified with any retailer. Small and large charities behave very differently, which the thread demonstrates but does not quantify.

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Not true in my experience. I’ve worked for several nonprofits. All of them paid low and did good work for the community

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Not true. U.S. law doesn’t require a minimum donation amount, and some groups give as little as 1% to the cause. The rest goes to salaries, marketing, and overhead.

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This is not true. I’ve worked at several non profits and only about 20% goes to operating costs (ie salaries, which are already very low) and we are legally obliged to ensure the money goes where the donor specified.

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This is not true. I have worked for nonprofits for the past 13 years, they are highly scrutinised for any operating costs and yet expected to run like businesses. Charities have to pay their staff too, we aren’t volunteers, we’re professionals and this is our career. The majority of funds absolutely go to the cause and. Operating expenses go towards making sure donations can reach the beneficiaries!

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Although there are fraudulent and criminal people running nonprofits, I am a humane society volunteer board member, treasurer, business manager. The only way our humane society functions is private donations and local grants from local financially successful families (four) that created grant (endowments) for local applicants to assist in their work. If it wasn’t for these families and thoughtfully generous people, it would not work. Expenses are kept as low as possible, including minimum-wage pay…which is painful to watch these people work so hard for so little. Me, no income for 14 years. Thankfully my “real” job supports my volunteering.

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Larger, seemingly “rich” charities yes. I work for EDS UK and we are totally funded by ourselves and sometimes we cannot afford to host certain events until we have the funds. But yeah many bigger charities unfortunately are making bank. I have a friend who lives in Syria, who was in the war zone and nobody saw a charity once. No food charity, no water, housing etc nothing but apparently they’re collecting for Syria.

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I appreciate everyone confirming that donating to charity doesn’t actually go to charity. I always suspected that was the truth so I always say no, but it always felt crazy. Really how far capitalism will go is to inhumane crazy lengths.

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And for this reason o e if the only organizations I donate to is St. Jude’s.

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they also have way more money than actually need ASPCA is full of crap with their commercials. they make over 200k/day. I know for a fact because I was the one scanning their stuff into the system+

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I appreciate everyone confirming that donating to charity doesn’t actually go to charity. I always suspected that was the truth so I always say no, but it always felt crazy. Really how far capitalism will go is to inhumane crazy lengths.♥ 57,029source record 2493
Yup! Non-profits are also huge frauds usually. Tons of extravagant “operating” costs and large salaries with a small portion actually going towards the cause.♥ 1,348source record 2494
Not “usually”. Many non profits do awesome jobs and help a lot.♥ 1source record 2495
My mom works for a non profit and it genuinely is that♥ 0source record 2496
Those would mostly be the large nonprofits. People should do their research because many many nonprofits are amazing and do need donations. All is public record♥ 715source record 2497
I work for non profits the huge ones have to show where there money is going♥ 0source record 2498
Exactly! Definitely have to research before you contribute. I’ve done that with many places♥ 5source record 2499
I 100% stand behind your statement girl.♥ 4source record 2500
This one…. Animal shelters are NP a lot and when I tell you every cent and donation is getting put to use… at least where I worked (no kill)♥ 0source record 2501
Charity salaries are a lot less than private counterparts. People who work in charities need paid too. If you donate 1000 to Charity to feed children in less fortunate communities, who do you think delivers it, organises who qualifies, manages the promotion, actually gives people the food, advertises for donations etc? Do they not deserve paid?♥ 26source record 2502
This isn’t true in my case. We fund research. We have a several million dollar budget. 85% goes to research funding while the other 15% goes to staffing and operating costs.♥ 5source record 2503
Not true in my experience. I’ve worked for several nonprofits. All of them paid low and did good work for the community♥ 25source record 2505
I worked for a SOF military non profit. Discovered after two years it was a huge scam. I endured emotional, sexual, and verbal abuse bc I thought I was doing something amazing for the SOF community. HAH. They scammed people and large corps out of hundreds of thousands of dollars just to line their own pockets and we hosted extravagant parties around the US just so the already millionaire and billionaire board members could impress their clients and friend. AND those non profit ratings are BS too. I got us gold star status meaning we were legit, but after I learned the truth, it was alllllll a big lie. I sued, won, and the org has to dissolve. They just rebranded under a different name lol and even the famous founder doesn’t say a word about it anymore 😂♥ 1source record 2506
I’ve heard many such stories. So sad when they’re corrupt like that. Many are fine, but many are not. The extravagant parties and events are very standard too. If you legally cannot report a profit might as well blow the money on fun stuff is probably their thinking. It’s sad.♥ 0source record 2507
Lololol non profit employees do not have huge salaries this is the biggest joke. Most non profit employees take their jobs bc they’re passionate about the cause.♥ 1source record 2508
There are a shit ton of nonprofits that do a ton of good. There’s a website called charity navigator that assigns ratings to each charity and breaks down what they do and how much they contribute. If you’re not EVER donating to charity because “they’re all bad”, you’re just not a good person. Period.♥ 151source record 2509
Not true. U.S. law doesn’t require a minimum donation amount, and some groups give as little as 1% to the cause. The rest goes to salaries, marketing, and overhead.♥ 16source record 2511
Again... I work for a non-profit. I know where the money goes. 🙃♥ 12source record 2512
so ask for their cost per dollar raised because your government isn’t regulating them properly don’t assume all charities are scams♥ 1source record 2513
Although there are fraudulent and criminal people running nonprofits, I am a humane society volunteer board member, treasurer, business manager. The only way our humane society functions is private donations and local grants from local financially successful families (four) that created grant (endowments) for local applicants to assist in their work. If it wasn’t for these families and thoughtfully generous people, it would not work. Expenses are kept as low as possible, including minimum-wage pay…which is painful to watch these people work so hard for so little. Me, no income for 14 years. Thankfully my “real” job supports my volunteering.♥ 11source record 2514
always check; Charity Navigator, Charity Watch, or GuideStar to assess a charity's effectiveness and financial health.♥ 7source record 2515
Can we please separate SMALL LOCAL charities from big large corporate type ones?? I work for a small charity and this is insulting being grouped in like this. We do hard work, get paid little, but see huge benefits in our community. We are not like these other places.♥ 5source record 2516
Remember that early 2000s sad commercial with all the hungry puppy dog-eyed kids? My mom called one day and asked how much goes to them. FIVE CENTS PER DOLLAR WTF♥ 4source record 2517
lol I wish I could say I was surprised. could they spare it? I’m curious how it’s legal but with a corrupt system that thrives on inhumanity it makes sense.♥ 2source record 2518
My cousins were born in Africa, can to where I was born & I asked about the charities & my cousin said every last penny is taken by the gov♥ 3source record 2519
I just started a nonprofit, and I want to encourage you all to do your research. There are mega nonprofits that rake in billions, but all of our funding is also public. Support the ones you trust! Maybe even mine [account]♥ 1source record 2520
Yeah no, it’s emotional warfare. Making you feel like, “If I don’t donate then I’m not a good person.” The fact that the government takes so much of your taxes should be enough for you to feel like you’ve given part of what you have. By a lot if I may add♥ 1source record 2523
this is why I donate to a ministry. they take photos of the kids picking out what they want. warms my heart.♥ 1source record 2525
when you donate to charity wheather at a store or food place you are paying the store back for what they had donated, you are actually donating to what they are saying you are♥ 1source record 2528
legally over 90% can go to operating costs. yous is the exception not the bad ones♥ 1source record 2529
i heard the companies pay up front and you are just paying them back♥ 1source record 2531
Pro tip: (unless you live in the USA), you can donate directly to your local hospital♥ 1source record 2532
Guess what? We can also get in trouble for wanting to donate food to them...or clothes, useful products. I understand a worry someone may harm the people, but I doubt there are many out there targeting the homeless. I've been refused to give chicken pot pies to families because they only wanted to take my money to "donate"♥ 0source record 2533
Doesn’t surprise me. People get written tickets for feeding the homeless and the US is 1 of 2 countries to vote that food is not a human right.♥ 1source record 2534
Charities are just ways for rich people to launder money♥ 4source record 2536
Donating directly to a reputable charity is ok. About 20% goes to overhead but 80% to the cause. But don’t donate at a business’ POS system. That’s just a tax write off for the business.♥ 1source record 2537
It’s ok. It speaks to a generous spirit. Not your fault that companies are so greedy they’re inhumane for the next dollar.♥ 1source record 2538
And they also get to use all the proceeds for tax right offs so your just giving them free money♥ 3source record 2540
And for this reason o e if the only organizations I donate to is St. Jude’s.♥ 0source record 2541
I'm devastated by this 💔 I REALLY have big dreams of helping people since I was a kid and this is not helping♥ 0source record 2542
I wouldn't say all charities. I have a local one that I know actually helps because I've met the founder and seen the difference it makes. Definitely do your research on a charity before donating♥ 0source record 2543
Walmart children’s miracle network goes 100% to children’s miracle network and we keep 0 dollars. We don’t donate a certain amount before the campaign. Every single penny we donate goes straight to them.♥ 0source record 2544
My parents donated money to Unicef for years and the money never went to save the children. I do not know how they found out because I was literally a kid but they told me years after that they had to stop donating because everything was a scam♥ 0source record 2545
I worked at a company that definitely gave to charity! depends on the place♥ 0source record 2546
They are already donated. We are just replacing the money that they donated.♥ 0source record 2549
Having family that work for doctors whiteout borders, and I my self have worked for Red Cross, and working whit finances in my normal job, I can tell you - the largest expense is for what you would consider charity, then there are a ton of travel expenses, salaries, marketing, expenses related to all the offices, incurrences for the volunteers, food and living expenses for volunteers, and much more off aaaaall these kind of expenses, that people for some reason, don’t understand that, a charity also needs to pay 🙃♥ 0source record 2551
yes I worked at a tanning salon and a slight fraction went to charity but we couldn’t say anything♥ 0source record 2554
I have learned local non profits aren't as bad about this. I will never donate to a large one.♥ 0source record 2555
I worked for a company that processed the money and I will NEVER donate.♥ 0source record 2556
As someone who worked in a charity call centre for years in NZ, the only money that 100% gets to charity is from auctions (ie. Products donated for auction) and volunteers collecting on the streets (usually outside supermarkets)♥ 0source record 2559
How many bad apples are there compared to good ones: 40 to 60% fall under bad... but there are no precise global stats. Also govs are using NGOs to promote their goals which is unethical.♥ 0source record 2560
Yea at least half of the money charities make goes to advertising alone and all the people that are door knocking, have a booth at a shopping centre or come to your business are all getting paid commission from your donations + a weekly income♥ 0source record 2561
From a former Red Cross sales representative♥ 0source record 2562
Read Peter singer ‘the life you can save’. Analyses which charities put $ where their mouth is♥ 0source record 2563
And they act so entitled to your money too! Especially Red Cross♥ 0source record 2564
You should see the lengths socialism and communism will go to deny human rights♥ 0source record 2565
I’m not allowed to see that for myself because our govt overthrows anything that’s not capitalism. But I’ll give you an example of common socialism that doesn’t threaten capitalism in anyway that people don’t think about: public school.♥ 0source record 2566
Good for you that your govt overthrows it, otherwise you wouldn’t be here. Public schools isn’t socialism. It’s state owned and operated, but private schools exist.♥ 0source record 2567
Before you donate to anything, ALWAYS lookup the percent that does towards ‘operating costs’ … if it’s more than 10% bail on it♥ 0source record 2568
Donate to non profits. No charities. I work with non profits and they literally pay workers based on what they get in donations or if the get grants for the state. Thankfully our CEO keeps us in the loop on every dollar given and spent♥ 0source record 2569
These multi million or billion dollar industries pan handling so they can get tax cuts. Asking the working people to round up there change. Walmart Fast food even gas stations. It's the same thing as if the owners were outside asking for money.♥ 0source record 2570
The exception is Taco Bell’s collage fund. It does go to people.♥ 0source record 2571
You’re describing thievery. Not capitalism. I haven’t taken a class on the topic so I’m very open to being educated on this.♥ 0source record 2572
you should look and see where the money from kars4kids goes to♥ 0source record 2574
I work in Dubai. we give our charity to people we know who are struggling. coz I knew I guy who was head of some charity and had the most lavish life wo working♥ 0source record 2575
I’ve been working for nonprofits for 15 years and have never encountered a nonprofit that has been a ‘scam’. Some of the large ones have CEOs that get paid a lot, but for the most part, most pay moderate wages.♥ 0source record 2576
Even if it does it’s a tax right off for them. Better you do it on your own and get the tax benefits♥ 0source record 2578
They sell it to be thrifted in africa/asia and other regions even local thrift stores they definitely don’t go to charity..the only clothes they go to charity are the clothes you put them there yourself♥ 0source record 2579
The charities you should absolutely avoid are any ones connected to churches.♥ 0source record 2580
It depends on the charity. But, there’s a reason that the big ones got big.♥ 0source record 2581
Ronald McDonald house is real though! We had to stay at one of those when my daughter was in the Nicu and it was such a blessing! 🙏🏻♥ 0source record 2582
I started a charity still trying to get funding. Almost everything so far has went to the actual mission. Even most of my own money.♥ 0source record 2584
This is not true. I’ve worked at several non profits and only about 20% goes to operating costs (ie salaries, which are already very low) and we are legally obliged to ensure the money goes where the donor specified.♥ 0source record 2585
If it’s any consolation, I work for a tiny non-profit and 100% donations goes back into the work we do with young people😌♥ 0source record 2586
But I do appreciate other charities cannot say the same 🫠♥ 0source record 2587
Larger, seemingly “rich” charities yes. I work for EDS UK and we are totally funded by ourselves and sometimes we cannot afford to host certain events until we have the funds. But yeah many bigger charities unfortunately are making bank. I have a friend who lives in Syria, who was in the war zone and nobody saw a charity once. No food charity, no water, housing etc nothing but apparently they’re collecting for Syria.♥ 0source record 2588
It really depends on the charity though, but yes the people trying to get you to sign up on the street get like the first 3 months of donation♥ 0source record 2589
Lost me at “capitalism”, like capitalism is the thing to blame about that sure..♥ 0source record 2590
It is a root problem. If you don’t see it or don’t want to; that’s on you 🤷🏽‍♀️♥ 1source record 2591
I’m not disagreeing with you but have my doubts bc of the people working in low-wage fast food industries, including high dropouts, so I’d need to test this theory lol♥ 0source record 2592
Taco Bell does its school scholarship and they actually go to people who apply! So when they ask to round up, say yes. It actually goes to the people. I’ve known 2 people who have received it (1 worked at TB)♥ 0source record 2593
There are several documentaries that break it all down true is not 100% but it is like 98% of them keep more than they give.♥ 1source record 2594
Then ask to see their audits? Because no, the actual money keeping charities afloat predominantly comes from big donors and they put charities through the ringer on “how you run the business” before giving♥ 1source record 2595
Don’t take my word for it the research has been done by actual professionals and lots of them have come forward that is almost all of it going into payroll and bonus for the CEO’s is not being giving to those in need.♥ 0source record 2596
This isn’t necessarily true. Corporations use charitable contributions as write offs on their tax return. The money is donated to charity…but they do it to lower their taxable income so that they can pay less taxes.♥ 0source record 2598
When you are in the store & they ask if you want to donate(ex: walmart) they already donated money for the tax write off & they use us by asking if we would like to donate to recoup their money back & more♥ 0source record 2600
Not in the moment though when you’re being asked to round up your dollar for your fast food order♥ 0source record 2601
Taco Bell is one of the VERY few who actually gives those donations back to their employees!♥ 0source record 2602
That is an insane take, your donation goes to the mission because it is competitive to fundraise, if you have a bad ratio of fundraising expenses to mission spending people stop donating, especially at the higher gift levels. I don’t know which country you are in, mine has public reporting on this on the government website, but if you are concerned about a particular charity ask them 1) “what’s your cost per dollar raised” 2) ask how they measure success with the impact/change they are trying to achieve. Not saying there aren’t horribly run “charities” but most aren’t♥ 0source record 2605
I would like to mention though that this doesn’t usually apply to small local places. If you want to be generous donate/give local to small operations. The unfortunate reality tho is that a lot of these little operations can’t sustain themselves long term♥ 0source record 2606
The key is to go for local, small, grass roots charities in your area that are specific about what they are fundraising for 👏♥ 1source record 2607
Choose the smaller non-profit to donate to. More local ones, they actually funnel the money correctly♥ 0source record 2610
This is not always true! There are tons of amazing nonprofits. Best one I ever worked for is ten thousand villages. Ain’t no one getting rich there I can promise you that.♥ 0source record 2611
“Non-profits” always have millionaire owners that dont work anywhere else. Makes sense right? lol♥ 0source record 2614
Here to say this one is not accurate! while it may often apply faith-based orgs, it may not often apply to nonprofits, just do research before donating♥ 0source record 2616
I never feel bad for not donating anymore because you could donate personally and then claim it on YOUR taxes instead of Walmarts♥ 0source record 2618
Yes! Ask your Alexa how much the CEO of the company you’re donating to makes per year?! You’ll be SHOCKED! It’s crazy! $$$$$$‼️‼️‼️♥ 0source record 2619
just like March of Dime. they only give ten cents for every dollar.. SMH♥ 0source record 2620
not always the case [account] is a 100% voluteer based nonprofit the funds always go to the rescue to pay for medical bills with a small portion going to admin cost like our license, insurance, events, fundraising costs♥ 0source record 2621
I can second that a lot of them are scams and you’re better off giving directly to homeless people you find outside or churches that donates stuff♥ 0source record 2622
it really depends but the "donate in store" ones are all a tax write off using your money.♥ 0source record 2624
wrong. if you donate at stores yes scam. but fundraisers and giving directly on the site is not a scam. look on charity navigator to see how the money is distributed.♥ 0source record 2625
OK, this is definitely not 100% true and you could do your own research. There are many resources to find which charities actually do take the money to where they’re saying they’re taking it to.♥ 0source record 2626
“You could do your own research”; it’s not that serious to be insulting. It’s true for businesses at POS sales not every charity in existence.♥ 0source record 2627
Telling you you can research charities before donating is not insulting, and I’m worried why you’d be offended by that? Also you never mentioned pos donations♥ 0source record 2628
The Ronald McDonald house fund through McDonalds truly does go to the RMH. They are a great resource for when you have loved ones in the hospital and the hospital is far away♥ 0source record 2630
There are charities that give every penny to the cause like Ricky Smiley. the comedian. Tom Joyner, Oprah Winfrey. Oprah usually pays all her overhead costs. There's more. Big corporations usually pockets a lot of money.♥ 0source record 2631
It depends on the nonprofit! I work for a library nonprofit and if you specify where you want the money to go it HAS to go to that program!! ♥️♥ 0source record 2632
I can promise you that the only charity that is legit out there is Ronald McDonald’s house of charities. In Iowa they have an apartment building across the street from the hospital that is run entirely off of this charity fund. My his and I stayed there when our child was dying in the hospital. Free stay as long as we needed, the cook meals every night (yummy ones), nice bathrooms In every bedroom and even a quiet place upstairs and one downstairs with a play area for littles with a mini library over any material you could possibly staying In one of the rooms for. God bless that charity and God bless McDonald’s for all the good they do for families through that charity. 🙏♥ 0source record 2633
yes I worked for kohls & Walmart for years & I learned when stores ask if u want to round up or donate $1 towards a charity that it's not actually going to the charity but to the store/ company bc that company has already donated or agreed to donate a certain amount to said charity on behalf of their expected customers' donations so they're just trying to get their customers to donate to recoup that $ &most of the time they get it all back plus more & they can pocket that plus they get to take credit for the donation publicly & on their taxes!♥ 0source record 2635
Unless you meet them in person and see the work they are doing and when it’s not in the US and not made by US citizens 😭♥ 0source record 2636
Phoenix children hospital and boys and girls club do🥰 100%♥ 0source record 2637
Ok it depends on the charity. I support kids through compassion international and my fiance from Uganda confirmed the kids in the programs actually get the money (in the form of uniforms, food, school etc).♥ 0source record 2638
I never donate to charities. Walmart and McDonald’s can afford to donate themselves. And I’ve seen too many people asking for GoFundMe and then buy/build a brand new house.♥ 0source record 2639
This is not true. I have worked for nonprofits for the past 13 years, they are highly scrutinised for any operating costs and yet expected to run like businesses. Charities have to pay their staff too, we aren’t volunteers, we’re professionals and this is our career. The majority of funds absolutely go to the cause and. Operating expenses go towards making sure donations can reach the beneficiaries!♥ 0source record 2641
It's even worse.Stores like Walmart make a profit from donations because if, let's say, they donate 500k, they claim it as a tax write off. So every donation you do, goes straight into their pocket making them money.♥ 0source record 2643
It's certainly not true for most charities and non profits. I'm not been paid in 5 years, we are a volunteer run non profit, no building, minimal costs so everything goes to the community. The way it should be. Not all people are bad. Not all humans treat others without respect. Not all others lack empathy or compassion. Not all others are greedy. Just something to consider.♥ 0source record 2644
Not always. There’s a charity here specifically for our children’s hospital, and I will donate every time I get the chance. My daughter had open heart surgery at 5 months old and was there for 3 weeks. On top of the stays PRIOR to her surgery. I never once saw a bill.♥ 0source record 2645
Yep. I applied for a young mother who was dying to every cancer support charity I could find. All she got was maybe $300 in gift cards and a teddy bear. These were massive million dollar charities and a $50 gift card was all you actually get if you need help and can’t work..♥ 0source record 2646
The huge non profits - yes. But us small guys still do the right thing. I run 2 different ones, and none of my board members have ever taken a dime as compensation and often donate.♥ 0source record 2647
yes, reminds me of the story where a woman travelled to adopt a girl as she'd been sending money, the little girl has an actual mum & it was all a con. the lady financially supports mum & baby now♥ 0source record 2648
I work for a Christian Ministry, I promise the funds actually go towards our mission 🙏🏼 Not all are like that. We run almost 100% on donations.♥ 0source record 2649
Bro my dream was to start an NGo specifically for this purpose but now how will I do so if people like these businesses exist?♥ 0source record 2651
But also, running a huge charity is costly as well. It’s like a big business where there isn’t any income besides donations and employees needs to get paid. That doesn’t justify owners pocketing a shit ton of money, but I understand how it can be an expensive operation for the charity.♥ 0source record 2653
It depends on the charity and that's extremely important to note. There are charities that actually help people.♥ 0source record 2654
Except Taco Bell. Taco Bell uses it to send their employees to college! Always round up!♥ 0source record 2657
Anytime I feel charitable I doom scroll go fund me and read the stories and donate anonymously♥ 0source record 2658
Yeah my cousin said his neighbor runs a “nonprofit” and they just built a custom house, new GMC vehicles and they just garnish the money for themselves. I think there’s a law that only 10% of the donations actually have to go to the cause. I don’t donate anymore lol♥ 0source record 2659
The American Heart Association isn't like that. They don't pay their employees that well, but their top doesn't make a ton either. I think it's almost 80% goes to the actual programs. It's a hard job. I could only make it 2 years!♥ 0source record 2661
Charity Navigator has a good gauge on particular orgs♥ 0source record 2663
Ronald McDonald house helped my parents personally. Car accident in my childhood; they helped them during the time I was hospitalized.♥ 0source record 2664
The only way you can truly donate to a charity is by donating to them directly, unfortunately.♥ 0source record 2665
I worked with a lot of non profits and they are shady♥ 0source record 2667
Donate to specifik ppl or small organisations with 5 ppl on fot♥ 0source record 2668
The worst part is the employees get low work performance reviews if we don’t get donations.♥ 0source record 2669
Theres actually a site that shows you what percentage each charity gives to the actual cause!♥ 0source record 2670
This is NOT always the case. I’m part of a completely volunteer run charity. 80% of money we raise goes back to the community, the rest keeps the literal lights on in our building and similar operating costs. Literally no one is making money. Look at your small, local charities that assist your neighbors.♥ 0source record 2671
Many non profits do incredibly important work. I work at one that does shelter and services for victims of domestic violence and human trafficking. Don’t let these angry selfish people harden your heart, just be sure to research the organizations you give to on Charity Navigator’s website!!! 💕♥ 2source record 2672
Donate to [account] with animal’s life free worth every penny♥ 1source record 2673
the existence of a charity is admiting that a government has failed to provide for their people. what do you MEAN a hospice for children with cancer, isn't funded by the government?! evil.♥ 0source record 2674
they also have way more money than actually need ASPCA is full of crap with their commercials. they make over 200k/day. I know for a fact because I was the one scanning their stuff into the system+♥ 0source record 2677
The best way to give back without giving money to scam charities, is to actually go out into different less fortunate neighborhoods/communities to pass out food/clothes goodie’s bags or gift cards.♥ 0source record 2678
I had a friend that stayed at the Ronald McDonald House while her son was in the NICU, that place was awesome (the RMH, not the NICU) I donate to them whenever I can.♥ 0source record 2679
This is not remotely true and a dangerous generalization. You can look into how donations are distributed before donating.♥ 0source record 2680
I’m a professional fundraiser. Many institutions (foundations, government agencies) have a strict overhead policy which limits the allocation to general operating expenses. So this is technically incorrect.♥ 0source record 2681
Look up a nonprofit organization on Guidestair and click on their tax form 990 and you can see the exact breakdown of their funds they receive. It’s public record and not shady at all♥ 0source record 2683
Your heart in the right place just give it to somebody you see on the street♥ 0source record 2685
Well duh that's why you should have the evidence for your claims like you can't just go around believing things without objective evidence♥ 0source record 2686
I work for a nonprofit that serves victims of human trafficking. Our donations go directly to clients. We pay for housing, cars, beauty school, and other trade schooling. We have millions upon millions donated every year. I’ve been to the founders house, and it’s just a regular house, and she drives a regular car. Not all non-profits are bad!♥ 0source record 2689
If you want to know how charities budget, i recommend browsing [site removed]. They show the financial breakdowns of most major organizations♥ 0source record 2690
I HATE how they've distorted the global image of Africa to get you to open your purse and now you all are completely ignorant about the actual state of the continent♥ 0source record 2691
[account] is the only one I’ll donate to. Money goes to the sponsored child and I get letter and pictures monthly.♥ 0source record 2692
I can confirm this with Red Cross. I know someone who worked there just to steal the best clothes that were donated!!!! Thats why i never help human beings lol♥ 0source record 2693
It will be the other way around as it costs so much to run a business (which non-profits still are) probably about 15-20% will end up to charity but that’s better than nothing at all.♥ 0source record 2694

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Charity call centres and the cut taken before the cause30 index entriesTelemarketing staff putting figures on what reaches the cause, and the small-charity workers who say the figure is nothing like that.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Charity call centres and the cut taken before the cause

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Charity call centres and the cut taken before the cause

30 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are asked to donate by phone or on the street

How commenters applied it: 30 records. A former charity call-centre worker gives a figure and another supplies the arithmetic behind it: of five hundred dollars collected, the telemarketing company takes two hundred, and the charity pays its own staff out of the rest. Others describe commission-paid street and door fundraisers taking the first months of a regular gift. A worker at a small charity replies that this describes contracted telemarketing rather than charities in general and asks not to be grouped with it. The action people settle on is to give directly to an organisation rather than through whoever contacted you.

What readers reported: out of every $500 we collected, our telemarketing company took $200, then out of the remaining $300 the charity would pay their CEO and staff. What's left for the charity maybe $20

Limit: The percentages are individual recollections from unnamed employers and are contradicted by charity staff in the same thread. No organisation is identified.

What the replies added2

Same, I’m glad a lot of these celebs starting doing cash app donations and personally putting money in folks pockets

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That’s exactly why. Instead I support my local charities being run from people I know so I know for sure it’s not being sent to someone else just to make a profit off it. Have a good day boss.

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the telemarketing company I worked for had contracts with over 500 charities across the US that we called in rotation, a LOT of them are corrupt unfortunately 😭 I learned a lot of inside secrets

source record 4860

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I worked for a charity call center ..90% of profits dont go to the actual charity

source record 4791♥ 18,397
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I’ve worked for charities for 20 years. Are you equating people get paid to work for charities as charities making profits??

posted about 58 days after the source
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MAJOR FACTS. I would never donate after working in one of those places.

posted about 40 days after the source

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The exact phrase “make a profit” recurs across 2 of the 30 source records in Charity call centres and the cut taken before the cause; the complete archive stays available below.

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5asks a question
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Browse the original comments30 preserved records · 30 of 30 source records accounted for
I worked for a charity call center ..90% of profits dont go to the actual charity♥ 18,397source record 4791
Same, I’m glad a lot of these celebs starting doing cash app donations and personally putting money in folks pockets♥ 378source record 4792
That’s exactly why. Instead I support my local charities being run from people I know so I know for sure it’s not being sent to someone else just to make a profit off it. Have a good day boss.♥ 42source record 4795
well you literally commented “i don’t give” not “i don’t give to charities i’m not educated on” boss 😂♥ 0source record 4796
Thank you for sharing this bc this is true - I work for one! When people see the initial comment they tend to group it into ALL charities. Small charities don’t do this :(♥ 1source record 4798
Should be fully volunteer work. In no way shape or form should 90% go to the staff.♥ 2source record 4800
90% needs to go to running the charity? No, it’s going to keep those executives rich.♥ 4source record 4802
My husband donates 2000 a year to St. Jude’s. My jaw dropped when he told me. Needless to say he won’t be ever since he told me. I rather help a family directly than to ever give to an organization♥ 2source record 4809
out of every $500 we collected, our telemarketing company took $200, then out of the remaining $300 the charity would pay their CEO and staff. What's left for the charity maybe $20♥ 2source record 4810
When I was 18 I interviewed for a call center for a local firefighter charity. Interviewer was wearing a stained wifebeater. Saw the track marks on the dude, heard "commission based, 1099 employee," and got the hell out of there.♥ 1source record 4817
I was being trained in a higher position, and learned a lot of inside stuff. I got so fed up with how horrible the job was, the pressure to collect as much as possible I actually just up and quit one day♥ 1source record 4818
Attest to this, work out a nonprofit as an EA and my bosses (2) got a $20k bonus.♥ 1source record 4819
I worked for some of them.. on payroll with a paycheck 🤣♥ 0source record 4824
I’ve worked for charities for 20 years. Are you equating people get paid to work for charities as charities making profits??♥ 0source record 4825
thats why i always help people directly not through so called charities♥ 0source record 4826
This is why when I go out to eat. I leave $100 tip cash or pay for another families dinner. I never say it’s me but it feels nice to see who you are giving to. 🙏♥ 0source record 4827
MAJOR FACTS. I would never donate after working in one of those places.♥ 0source record 4829
Doesn’t matter what matters is the work they are doing at the end of the year if they help 1m kids they help 1m kids 🤷🏻‍♀️the overhead fees still go to good things like shipping stuff overseas♥ 0source record 4836
Thank u. As a homeless person it’s very important that ppl understand where they’re putting their money and how they use it. That’s why companies or investors actually want the evidence and come to check and take pics.♥ 0source record 4841
that explains the benefits concert and other o’connell host article how there's no proof of the company giving back😭♥ 0source record 4843
Public charities is 10% min of what they have received….private charities is 5%….(not to mention that they get a huge tax’s break)♥ 0source record 4845
Charities don’t make a profit. What are you saying here? Are you trying to say that 90% of donations don’t go to the cause? That’s a serious claim. Only 10% pays salaries, insurance, and overhead? Must be a massive charity. Which one? 🤔♥ 0source record 4849
between the telemarketing companies who collect and the actual charities, only a tiiiiiny amount is allocated to "helping" those in need♥ 0source record 4850
Charities are an industry. Never give any money to any organization. Absolutely don’t give ANYTHING to any church. Ever. Help someone directly.♥ 0source record 4854
Just look them up on guidestar first. But also, some services are educational, which means the cost to do it is the salary of the educator. Shows up as payroll exp, but it's also the service.♥ 0source record 4856
Maybe not the charity you worked for. Go to charity [site removed] to check any charity before donating.♥ 0source record 4859
the telemarketing company I worked for had contracts with over 500 charities across the US that we called in rotation, a LOT of them are corrupt unfortunately 😭 I learned a lot of inside secrets♥ 0source record 4860
A lot of charity companies are involved in human trafficking but dont go down that rabbit hole.♥ 2source record 4861
They're not all a scam. Just vet before you donate! [link removed]♥ 1source record 4862
100% of donations go towards the charity with Kiwanis . They are an absolutely amazing club that helps kids. Just in case anyone was curious:) but definitely right about most!♥ 0source record 4865

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Churches and faith-based broadcasters98 index entriesThree former staff — a network employee, a temp accountant and a church administrator — describing what they saw in the books.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Churches and faith-based broadcasters

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Churches and faith-based broadcasters

98 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You give to a religious organisation and want to know what people who handled the money say

How commenters applied it: 98 records. Three former insiders rather than three opinions. A network employee of three years says donations funded leadership property and aircraft and that the organisation ran no outreach at all, and answers repeatedly in the replies from what they say was the accounting department. A temp accountant hired to trace funds at a large church says it could not meet basic bills. A former church staffer describes what they saw across a network of churches. The thread is full of people saying this is common knowledge, and full of others saying it very much is not where they live. The one practical instruction that recurs is to look for an organisation that publishes its budget, and to give goods rather than cash.

What readers reported: What you have to find is a church that is transparent with its budget and how it's using its money. it costs a lot of money to have staff. And buildings and upkeep everything and to put on programs and provide things for the people that come. that stuff isn't free, and it doesn'come out of nowhere. unless you want to attend church in the park with the bugs and the heat and the cold and the rain, and the nasty bathrooms.

Limit: These are three unverified first-hand accounts, and one names an organisation only after repeated prompting. Commenters in the thread dispute both the theology and the generalisation to all churches.

What the replies added2

Yeah if you google the net worth of some of these pastors you’d realize that there’s many more “wolves in sheep’s clothing” than you ever thought possible 💀

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I agree with everything except. God is most DEFINITELY REAL. IM NOT SPEAKING ON WHAT IVE HEARD IM TALKING ABOUT WHAT I KNOW💗

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I worked for three years at a faith-based TV network. Your donations buy the leaders’ multi million dollar homes, ranches, and planes. None of it goes to outreach.

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isn't it illegal??

posted about 60 days after the source
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Oh sorry. In my defense you currently have 545 comments.

posted about 40 days after the source

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95replies

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2explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
9asks a question
0says they intend to try it
87other source context

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Swap instead of subtract 3

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I worked for three years at a faith-based TV network. Your donations buy the leaders’ multi million dollar homes, ranches, and planes. None of it goes to outreach.♥ 47,262source record 3392
Yeah if you google the net worth of some of these pastors you’d realize that there’s many more “wolves in sheep’s clothing” than you ever thought possible 💀♥ 2,137source record 3393
"Pastors" why you call them something they aren't. Is disrespectful towards the apostols, and nowaday pastors to call those scammers "pastors".♥ 25source record 3396
Common knowledge for all atheists who realized religion as a whole is a scam 😆😆♥ 14source record 3400
That’s what I was thinking. Anyone with the brain knows that , but I’m glad it was said because maybe some people will wake up & quit giving them $!♥ 13source record 3404
It is to the ones that don't go to those churches and don't give them donations.♥ 1source record 3407
Sadly so may people but into it. I worked for one of them once, and quit soon after because I saw what was really going on.♥ 1source record 3408
I did a whole essay to my dad one time telling him to stop donating and the original tithing/offering is actually supposed to be helping your neighbors ans friend and churches started this to make profit. They never help anyone. I also donated a car to a church for a single mother. they sold the car ans never gave it to her♥ 67source record 3410
What you have to find is a church that is transparent with its budget and how it's using its money. it costs a lot of money to have staff. And buildings and upkeep everything and to put on programs and provide things for the people that come. that stuff isn't free, and it doesn'come out of nowhere. unless you want to attend church in the park with the bugs and the heat and the cold and the rain, and the nasty bathrooms.♥ 0source record 3411
actually tithing to the church is biblical, it's just that there are pastors who don't actually follow Christ, so they use the money for themselves but tithing is not what you said it is. tithing is different from charity.♥ 54source record 3412
it is tithing. whether it's wrong or not is up for debate, but it is tithing. tithing is the action of giving money to the church. it's tithing. however, my comment was not pertaining to yours. it was pertaining to the person i replied to. that's why I them, and not you.♥ 5source record 3414
In the Bible, tithing refers to the practice of giving one-tenth (10%) of one’s earnings, produce, or possessions to God as an act of worship, obedience, and trust. The word “tithe” literally means “tenth.” Numbers 18:21–24, Deuteronomy 14:28–29. To God, not the church, there are ways to “give to God” without giving to a church organization♥ 8source record 3416
Just curious, is this network located near the Euless/Colleyville TX area♥ 8source record 3421
They aren’t doing any outreach. Donations are funding million dollar ranches in CO and mansions here in TX with stuff like restoration hardware towels and stuff.♥ 5source record 3422
Ok…maybe I need to clarify…THERE. IS. NO. OUTREACH. None. Zip. There is no participation in the local community.♥ 3source record 3424
I feel like they are the ones that deserve it more than anyone else.♥ 1source record 3425
This is why I prefer my small town tiny community church. They are faith driven...not by money.♥ 2source record 3428
No but I had coworkers who came over from KCM. I worked at TBN.♥ 2source record 3429
Funny how the poor get stolen from everyday. And politics deals that we are scamming w housing and medical when we need it more. They complain about the poor /immigrants getting into their taxed but what about the rich ?????♥ 2source record 3430
You’d be very surprised of the amount of people who don’t.♥ 1source record 3441
This is any company that donates to charities, it does go to charities but it’s a write off on their taxes so they basically just get their donations refunded!♥ 1source record 3444
Oh preach! Cause ppl need to know this and stop giving them money♥ 1source record 3451
Yea, if they tax exempt NEVER give money. Especially churches. They benefit more from non perishables, clothes, and essentials. :)♥ 1source record 3453
They’re just like companies that do big charitable donations. They get big tax write-offs and recoup what they donated. And the money that people donate to them is PROFIT.♥ 1source record 3459
This is not the same for some radio ministries, btw. The big one? Yes. But the rest of us aren’t making the big bucks.♥ 1source record 3460
I worked for a company that processed money for non profits. if u send in cash they pocket and it never makes it to the non profit. ASPCA makes over 200k/day♥ 0source record 3477
You should probably say which one it is instead of lumping them altogether.♥ 0source record 3478
Oh sorry. In my defense you currently have 545 comments.♥ 0source record 3480
Close! But no. TBN. Corporate office is next to Alliance Airport.♥ 0source record 3484
My grandma watched that channel when I was a kid. Paul and Jan Crouch. She had huge pink hair.♥ 0source record 3485
I’d argue Kenneth Copeland is nearer to Satan than JO. But JO is pretty up there on the evil scale. Them and John Hager.♥ 0source record 3487
I’m surprised that people have not already snuffed these fucking bullshit Christian network out♥ 0source record 3492
I'm not a religious person anymore but the only good thing about the church I used to go to is that they had a kitchen that fed people every day so you knew where the money was going for the most part♥ 0source record 3495
I have a gut feeling this is The 700 Club and if so I KNEW IT.♥ 0source record 3497
I 100% believe this.♥ 0source record 3500
I have. There are a lot of truths there, but it’s not nearly as flamboyant at TRG♥ 0source record 3504
Even small Churches do this. Why is the pastor driving a bmw while the congregation driving lemons.♥ 0source record 3505
I haven’t heard about Klove, but I stopped listening years ago because every 3 months it’s “donate, donate, donate”.♥ 0source record 3508
exactly....yet, those who make these donations will not tip a server at a restaurant they go to eat at after the service.♥ 0source record 3518
You’d be surprised how many either don’t know, or don’t believe it.♥ 0source record 3531
Yup! My brothers Church too! Don’t worry cause the leaders are not going to heaven they use Gid to get rich and manipulate people’s emotions. I am all about god but not greed♥ 0source record 3533
Considering I was in their accounting department while they purchased said properties? Truth.♥ 0source record 3535
The Righteous Gemstones is the first thing that came to mind♥ 0source record 3537
My pastor growing up would say you can always tell assess if the church your attending has a good leader by how the pastor lives. Something along those lines.. basically saying watch out for church leaders living in luxury.♥ 0source record 3538
Which one? I thought about donating to charles stanley when he was alive but never did♥ 0source record 3540
we been knowing that since that succubus bought a plane cuz he doesn't want to be in a sky tube with demons.😂♥ 4source record 3541
Yeah there is no commercial flying for the leader of the network, or his family. Seeing what they spend people’s donations on is disgusting.♥ 3source record 3543
I am sure they are not all the sane. Don’t try and give them all a bad name♥ 1source record 3545
isn't it illegal??♥ 0source record 3546
Anyone who still thinks these con men/wonen get their riches through hard deserves to be scammed♥ 0source record 3548
i honestly knew this was a thing and is why i don’t donate to tv “preachers” howeverrrr. when i tithe, my intention is for it to go to God and give the first 10% of my earnings to Him. if the leader of said church decides to use it to get a nice home/car/assets, etc. that’s between them and the Lord. at least i can say my heart was in the right place when i tithed 🤷🏽‍♀️♥ 0source record 3549
Been saying that for years but Americans refusing te believe their donations aren’t crossing the borders 😭 don’t fall to that « sad africans » propaganda♥ 0source record 3551
Oh yeah that industry is so corrupted most of the time. Mega churches are insane♥ 0source record 3553
Use to tell my grandparents this. Like your twice the pastors age with a $30k car and your pastor, his wife and all kids drive Benz and bmws and live on ESTATE properties lol. And yall walk in every week with your tithe like morons 😂♥ 0source record 3554
Not at all surprised! Christianity is a corporate money making machine.♥ 0source record 3555
🥰 thanks for noticing the cults true intentions. also womb envy of Ingrate Lying men!♥ 0source record 3557
My biggest regret in life is not becoming a evangelical TV personality, Xtians are so gullible♥ 0source record 3558
I think this is common knowledge , and for the most part it’s old people who are senile that donate to those churches, that’s what makes it so disgusting and evil♥ 0source record 3559
That goes for 99% of churches 😂♥ 0source record 3561
Except for Shepherds Chapel. They even send free DVDs, books and more, theyre also one of the two or three that teach the truth. The former pastor Arnold also lived on his same family farm, in his small home throughout all of his career up to death, because thats a real God inspired man. Humble and Kind.♥ 0source record 3569
alot lof fundraisers "in the name disease awareness/research do the same (cough2x)♥ 0source record 3574
AND they get to write it all off because they are “charities”.♥ 0source record 3575
Considering I was in their accounting department the whole time…I absolutely can make those claims because I saw it first hand.♥ 0source record 3582
So why didn't you report it for embezzlement & fraud as it was a non-profit & you claim they directly pursed for-profit items for themselves? That's fully illegal so I'm not sure why you'd just choose not to speak up.♥ 0source record 3583
Then how is outreach funded? Because that's still a thing.♥ 0source record 3586
They didn’t have outreach. It was using recorded sermons of popular mega church pastors and then their own daytime shows.♥ 0source record 3587
I knew this as a child lol 😅 That’s why when my mom would say put money in I’d put it in and then when she looked away take it out and pocket it 🤣♥ 0source record 3588
I realized that the day I was homeless and contacted a Catholic Church and they could not help me with nothing not food or anything.♥ 0source record 3590
i’m Catholic, our priests literally get 0 salary or priestly. i would encourage everyone to look to the Church that most resembles Christ, the one founded by Him, the Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church♥ 0source record 3593
A charity organization are required to disclose where the donations are spent on. This goes for Red Cross. Most go to operating expenses. There are some orgs like Gospel for Asia where 99% goes into the field in India.♥ 0source record 3596
my ex worked for Robert Schuller back in the day. They bragged to their employees about using child labor to make the donation gifts♥ 0source record 3600
I think pretty much everybody’s awake to that one by now “won’t fly with a tube full of demons” so he got a real good price from Tyler Perry on a plane. While looking totally possessed the whole time.🤷‍♀️♥ 0source record 3607
I was hired as a temp accountant to track where all the money went at one of the largest churches in Southern California. Turns out, the church couldn’t even pay basic bills because the pastor had been blowing all the funds on call girls and slot machines!♥ 3,763source record 9232
This happens at every church. May not be the same things the money is blown on, but I bet the head pastor has a mansion and a Mercedes 😂♥ 29source record 9237
Not all Pastors. Many Pastors have to work a full time job and are required to donate 10% back to the church and governing entity. But that’s why you need a financial board to oversee money. Greed comes in all professions♥ 20source record 9239
😂😂 it’s crazy what people believe. The few times I’ve been to a church service in the last couple years the pastor is always stressing the importance of giving the church your money. And no one seems to question that 😂♥ 5source record 9242
wowww so messed up and ain't they except from certain taxes♥ 2source record 9248
Joel Olsteen had contractors over at his mega mansion to do a renovation and when they were demoing, they found bundles of cash in one of his walls. I'm surprised not one rapper turned that into a bar 🎵 hiding cash in my walls like Joel Olstee 🎶 the story disappeared rather quickly. Twitter kept it alive for a few days longer than the media.♥ 1source record 9255
I like your profile pic “every pawn is a potential queen”♥ 0source record 9265
Oh nvm the king sucks . Can’t be nothing without his queen 👎🏽♥ 1source record 9267
My mother's husband lost my great grandmother's house this way.♥ 0source record 9274
I worked in the church, that networked with other churches. Affairs, money laundering/favors, drugs, CSA, actively lying to congregation galore(aka pastors knowing God isn't real). Needless to say, i experienced a midlife crisis as I walked the life changing journey of snapping out of it and deconstructing.♥ 187source record 13821
I agree with everything except. God is most DEFINITELY REAL. IM NOT SPEAKING ON WHAT IVE HEARD IM TALKING ABOUT WHAT I KNOW💗♥ 86source record 13822
It's the Absolute Truth. People better wake up and pay attention. When I tell you that God has been working la and speaking to me. I've got a story to tell!!♥ 14source record 13828
💯💯💯💯💯💯Hallelujah!!! HE is real. It’s sad though that some churches have led people away from experiencing HIS unconditional love.♥ 9source record 13832
Something created humans but it's not in a religion, no such thing as "Christian god" or "Muslim God" or "Hindu God"♥ 1source record 13835
Not debating there is something but I can tell you most of the Bible was written by government and kings we all slaves♥ 2source record 13838
omg! when i say how obvious it was once I "allowed" myself to question things, I saw how clearly obvious and common these situations are. I was, in fact, involved in one of the biggest Abrahamic cults of all time. 😮‍💨😪🫠♥ 3source record 13840
Congratulations on your freedom. Deconstructing is terrifying but powerfully liberating. 💜♥ 1source record 13841
When I was on Admin team at church the things I saw was enough for me to never set foot in another church again. I’m not deconstructing but I am learning the truth.♥ 1source record 13842
I went to a church where the pastor was arrested one Sunday on the pool pit for embezzlement.♥ 1source record 13843
Left the church staff life almost a decade ago and have never looked back♥ 1source record 13844
Wow, I know too much as well. Spending 3k on one curtain of the pastors home👀 WTAF and that was the 80’s!♥ 1source record 13845
Ma’am that wasn’t a church of God that was a congregation of wolf in Sheep’s clothing. Satan is actively attacking us. I’m so sorry you experienced that♥ 1source record 13846
Sir God is real those pastors just don’t have the power of God because they are living in sin. Where sin is in you Gods power can’t activate because he doesn’t answer prayers of the sinners only saints. The only prayer God hears from sinners is prayer of repentance and changing of your mind only will he hear your cry’s.♥ 0source record 13854
This!!!!!! Them pastors know they’re lying to everybody. They take an oath, and they lie to everybody.♥ 1source record 13856
Yep figured this out when I was 17. God isn’t real. Religion is a lie to keep the less educated dumping money. It’s like a cult that ppl feel good for being apart of but there are bring taken advantage of♥ 0source record 13858
God is most definitely real. They was preaching to you about the WORLDY god and even he’s real. There Satan but Big different btwn the 2♥ 0source record 13860

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Thrift and donation chains5 index entriesFormer staff on what happens to donated goods, and where the proceeds actually go.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Thrift and donation chains

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Thrift and donation chains

5 source records

Use when: You are deciding where to take donated goods

How commenters applied it: 5 records. A very small card carrying two former employees' accounts: one describes the industry's scale, pricing of donated goods and treatment of staff, with one specific incident; another says items are recovered from the trash and sold. A third describes where the proceeds of one chain's stores go. The instruction attached is the same in each: give locally, to shelters, community centres and animal rescues, rather than to a national chain.

What readers reported: Local, local, local!!! Find somewhere in your town that accepts donations. Womens/Homeless Shelters, Low-Income Donation Centers, Thrift Stores, Churches often have community sales, even many animal shelters now are running thrift shops to earn money for the animals. Even giving it away is better than fueling Goodwill! 😭

Limit: Five records, no corroboration and no response from any named organisation. The corporate-structure claims here are asserted rather than shown.

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$86.9 BILLION dollar a year industry based on unsafe working conditions, exploiting disabled volunteers, overpricing DONATED (dirty) goods. When I worked there decades ago, a coworker had a stroke. They electronically clocked her out, and SENT HER HOME, NOT EVEN TO A HOSPITAL so they could claim it "didn't happen to her on company time/property." The boss got a new Range Rover as a bonus. 😭😭😭

source record 14371♥ 12
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Money from salvos stores goes to fund the people from the salvation army. Pays their living expenses, vehicles, amenities, travel etc. I got to know one of the chaplains really well and because she trusted me she told me so much stuff. I learned what I could. Took a lot of photos and got friendly with other volunteers, employees, truck drivers etc. thinking of writing a book.

posted about 277 days after the source
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I know. I worked there for 7 years. they even take items out the trash and sell them.

posted about 8 days after the source

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This report keeps all 5 source records for Thrift and donation chains together and surfaces traceable examples without converting anecdotes into proof.

5index entries
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0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
0asks a question
0says they intend to try it
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Browse the original comments5 preserved records · 5 of 5 source records accounted for
Money from salvos stores goes to fund the people from the salvation army. Pays their living expenses, vehicles, amenities, travel etc. I got to know one of the chaplains really well and because she trusted me she told me so much stuff. I learned what I could. Took a lot of photos and got friendly with other volunteers, employees, truck drivers etc. thinking of writing a book.♥ 0source record 14195
I know. I worked there for 7 years. they even take items out the trash and sell them.♥ 0source record 14366
Local, local, local!!! Find somewhere in your town that accepts donations. Womens/Homeless Shelters, Low-Income Donation Centers, Thrift Stores, Churches often have community sales, even many animal shelters now are running thrift shops to earn money for the animals. Even giving it away is better than fueling Goodwill! 😭♥ 5source record 14367
They get free shit and all profit. No idea why people go to that place. Just garage sale or shop Depop if you like thrifting♥ 1source record 14368
$86.9 BILLION dollar a year industry based on unsafe working conditions, exploiting disabled volunteers, overpricing DONATED (dirty) goods. When I worked there decades ago, a coworker had a stroke. They electronically clocked her out, and SENT HER HOME, NOT EVEN TO A HOSPITAL so they could claim it "didn't happen to her on company time/property." The boss got a new Range Rover as a bonus. 😭😭😭♥ 12source record 14371

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Retail: the credit card, the markdown and the back room943 records · 7 sub-topicsCashiers, loss prevention, buyers and warehouse staff on quotas, cameras, markdown days and what happens to unsold stock. 943 records.
The store credit card quota, and who it is aimed at90 index entriesCashiers describing the target, the write-up and who they were told to approach — and the managers who took the bonus.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: The store credit card quota, and who it is aimed at

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The store credit card quota, and who it is aimed at

90 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are being asked to open a card at a till, or you work a register where you have to ask

How commenters applied it: 90 records. Cashiers from several chains describe the same system in the same terms: a per-shift or per-day target, write-ups and cut hours for missing it, promotion blocked without it, and the bonus landing with management rather than the person asking. Several say they were trained to describe the product as a rewards card, and one loss-prevention worker says staff were told which customers to approach. The replies contain the two useful things: the tell that it is a credit application — it needs a social security number — and the reason to be gentle with the person asking, which several cashiers spell out. A separate report describes the same quota logic applied to fitting-room use rather than cards.

What readers reported: This is true! I worked at loss prevention and I remember hearing the managers tell the associates they should target old people and immigrants. They explained that they were more venerable and less knowledgeable

Limit: These are accounts of what individual cashiers were told at unnamed branches of named chains; no company confirmed any of it. Several commenters say the same cards worked out well for them.

What replies pushed back on4

worked at marshalls for a while. I refused to ask anyone to open a credit card. I was always honest with everyone that asked about it too. Not worth it.

Pushback♥ 2

Not true. It depends on your manager. You had a very nasty one then. I worked there 3 years on & off. It was the best job I had thanks to my managers & co workers 🤩.

Pushback♥ 2

this! and you don't need Mastercard versus Store Card. they will try to sell you on both if yo7 have one- it's based on credit and they can't guarantee you'll be approved for other- not worth the credit ding if you already use one of their cards.

Pushback

When I worked at Marshall’s Even the employees said getting that credit card was the worst thing they did and it ruined their credit and they warn new hires

Reported failure♥ 3

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isn't it crazy how they encourage you to lie to people? I hated it. not to mention the harassment from management about it. im so glad to be out of retail.

source record 2829

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tj maxx and Marshalls push their cashiers to ask for the credit card, many times encourage to lie about it being a credit card. the cashiers get nothing, the managers are the ones that get bonuses for it. be kind to the cashiers but don't get the card.

source record 2793♥ 1,830
Later-arriving source

But that money goes towards the snack rack and luncheons during the holidays. I hated them for that. 🙄🙄🙄

posted about 54 days after the source
Zero-like source

yup they totally benefit that's why they push it so hard. its ridiculous. and at most you MAY get a gift card or a random 20% 🙄 pathetic lol

posted about 43 days after the source

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90index entries
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87replies

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0explicitly reports a benefit
1explicitly reports a limit or failure
7asks a question
1says they intend to try it
81other source context

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Swap instead of subtract 3Create a default 2

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Browse the original comments90 preserved records · 90 of 90 source records accounted for
tj maxx and Marshalls push their cashiers to ask for the credit card, many times encourage to lie about it being a credit card. the cashiers get nothing, the managers are the ones that get bonuses for it. be kind to the cashiers but don't get the card.♥ 1,830source record 2793
yup!! it also affects you getting a better position like front end coordinator which is full time and more $$$. so messed up.♥ 34source record 2795
What’s the best and easiest department to work in at marshals♥ 0source record 2796
stockroom. they are the ones that open the boxes and get the merch ready for the salesfloor. don't have to worry about customers or credit cards. usually the shifts are early morning though so atleats you get to leave earlier.♥ 1source record 2797
Im currently working there and im sales associate ladies department it’s horrific♥ 0source record 2798
Yes!! That’s exactly what happened to me and I would get in trouble if I didn’t mention the credit card for every transaction♥ 22source record 2799
I was a front end coordinator and they’d tell me that we got $$ on our store card for meeting credit card sign-up goals. That money was used to cater food for us.♥ 5source record 2800
yes!! and more hours and yada yada, but really the managers just want the bonus they get for meeting our goal. its ridiculous♥ 4source record 2801
YES!! I hated being a cashier at tjmaxx so I just never asked people for the cards and my manager took me off the register😂 the cards also just cut costs that the company has to pay to the banks for people using normal cards♥ 19source record 2802
💯 they pay less if customers have the card very true. they will pull you aside if you're not meeting the numbers and WILL watch you too. i have ptsd from working there 9 years♥ 6source record 2803
Girl yes this lady was trying to convince this old lady next to me but being aggressive and rude and I pht her in her place and the old lady thanked me♥ 11source record 2806
Deng lady asked me 4 times I was like damn they really pressuring you huh. I’m good have to many♥ 2source record 2808
yes they really harass the cashiers about it. if you don't get atleast 1 they start watching you to see if you're actually asking and insisting. it was pure hell.♥ 8source record 2809
I’m reading all of these and I’m so shocked how they still keep this up bc I currently work at one and they pound this information to me all the time💔♥ 1source record 2810
I tell them my credit score only has 2 digits sooooo….they don’t say much after that♥ 6source record 2811
This is true! I worked at loss prevention and I remember hearing the managers tell the associates they should target old people and immigrants. They explained that they were more venerable and less knowledgeable♥ 6source record 2812
They almost got me by calling it a rewards card! I was like you have to check my credit for a rewards card is that not a credit card and the cashier started sweating 😂♥ 1source record 2814
I get it. but i had one lady ask me over 10 times in one transaction . and im normally a very nice person. but I was fed up. like unless you're going to personally pay the interest on that every month. bag up my $18 worth of dog toys and LET ME LEAVE.♥ 4source record 2817
no yeah there's definitely some cashiers that take it seriously. I personally hated to ask because most times customers barely greeted me lol. one no is enough for me.♥ 1source record 2818
I get it. I use to have to ask for stuff at Walgreens too. I know they don't want it, they know they don't want it. it's the worst.♥ 1source record 2819
Target is actual savages about Red Vards and Lowe’s are savages about Lowe’s cards too. You CANNOT GET REAL EMPLOYEE RECOGNITION WITHOUT THEM and your performance marks are hecka penalized if you don’t get people to apply. 💛😌♥ 3source record 2820
One time I sold THREE TJX cards to customers in the same day when I worked at Marshall’s back in 2019. My manager was rubbing his hands like birdman watching me and now I know why LMAO! I remember telling my sister I should’ve gotten a raise for that. 😭♥ 1source record 2825
yup they totally benefit that's why they push it so hard. its ridiculous. and at most you MAY get a gift card or a random 20% 🙄 pathetic lol♥ 0source record 2826
An easy excuse to use if they are being pushy is that you have your credit frozen. Or say you’re in escrow to buy a home♥ 1source record 2827
old navy too, we were told to advertise it as “like a gift card” We were told to not tell them its a credit card. Then we got in trouble if they didnt sign up!♥ 1source record 2828
isn't it crazy how they encourage you to lie to people? I hated it. not to mention the harassment from management about it. im so glad to be out of retail.♥ 0source record 2829
ME TOO. they constantly bullied me at old navy. It was awful. I never lied to a customer which made them more mad♥ 0source record 2830
I will never forget how I used to get written up for not asking enough people for credit cards and they would give me less day to work♥ 1source record 2831
this literally happened to me because i knew the credit cards were bullshit, didn’t push them hard enough and my hours were cut to 10 a week. needless to say the grass is greener at my new job.♥ 1source record 2834
I have the card… i like being able to oay later lol sorry but ill keep this in mind for sure♥ 1source record 2835
Big reason I quit because as a coordinator we were put down so badly for not getting one. They have 33% interest and most people at TJ Maxx were obviously shopiholics. I couldn’t morally push that credit card I did not care how much they yelled at me. The managers get the bonuses, nobody else does.♥ 1source record 2836
yes!! I was there 9 years and did not grow in the company because i didn't get credit cards. I was qualified in everything else! its ridiculous. its a horrible environment♥ 1source record 2837
Truly the worst work environment I’ve ever been in. All the coordinators I was hired on with quit with me in the matter of a few months because the managers were all just like 40-50 yr old bullies and just talked shit about everything and micromanaged everything we did♥ 0source record 2838
The information from this comment gives me the urge the next time I’m checking out to ask for the manager and go tf off a little bit about how stupid this is. 😅♥ 1source record 2839
💯 doesn't matter if you're the fastest cashier or in my case in Miami I was bilingual! i didn't make enough cards so they made my life hell!♥ 1source record 2840
I've worked at tj Maxx and Burlington... they do this in both stores for sure.♥ 1source record 2841
Sams club as well and most times because they have to meet a quota they keep your information!♥ 1source record 2842
But that money goes towards the snack rack and luncheons during the holidays. I hated them for that. 🙄🙄🙄♥ 0source record 2845
Got the credit card because how pushy the cashier was. Sounded fine since I frequented enough. Then it ran my credit 3 times!!!! Made my credit score get hit because I got approved. Never had anything check my credit 3 times. Smh♥ 0source record 2846
I worked in retail and this is every store. All the employees get is written up if they don’t get enough people to sign up for the credit card. I have the tjmaxx card and you do get rewards, so it can be worth it.♥ 0source record 2847
This is all true. Cashiers do get write ups when they don’t meet the quota. Worked under a district manager♥ 0source record 2848
Same for kohls as an kohls employee! Don’t get the card. Not to mention at least at my location we have incentives for a reward sign up and credit card for our employees. Our manager added an extra 5 minutues to a cashiers break for getting a customer to have a CC and they gave me a Starbucks drink too for getting someone a reward sign up. 😂 Managers are so desperate♥ 0source record 2850
I actually had this happen yesterday, I had to say no like 5 times, it was real FN annoying actually. They are too much.♥ 0source record 2851
In high school they forced us cashiers to wear these loud embarrassing Christmas head pieces until we sold a cc… selling an awful cc to someone who rly shouldn’t have gotten it never sat right with me so I never brought it up let’s be so real♥ 0source record 2853
This is such a turn off for shopping at these stores. It makes checking out not a fun experience. I’m usually very friendly to cashiers, but I’m on guard before I even say hello at TJ Max. And it never falls that they bagger you about that damn card.♥ 0source record 2854
most bankers at banks do this to their tellers too. tellers at the time i worked don't get credit card bonuses♥ 0source record 2855
mine literally tried to threaten us with ‘the customers can sue for discrimination’ if we didn’t ask them if they wanted the credit card 😭😭😭♥ 0source record 2856
TJ Maxx & HomeGoods don’t let you drink water when you’ve been standing at the register for hours and talking to customers and being pressured to sell credit cards for no commission. Btw not giving access to water is illegal no? I told them I had gerd & they didn’t gaf. Said sorry no water bottles behind the counter still that’s against policy…♥ 0source record 2859
that's crazy!! they cannot deny water to you you wth? i would so contact HR. my store didn't do that.♥ 0source record 2860
That makes so much sense. Everytime I go I either feel bullied into getting one or really bad for saying no bc I thought the cashier was getting money.♥ 0source record 2863
When I tell y’all we are literally required to do that damn intercom message about the credit card…I’m not being annoyed and I want me to shut up too lol♥ 0source record 2864
lol!! yes!! the announcement every 5 minutes. I hated that. or during the holidays they make the floor associates push it too, walking around with the pamphlets!♥ 0source record 2865
Same with Kohls. We got $1 for every person that opened a Kohls Charge Card. We also got in trouble if we didn’t ask EVERY customer♥ 0source record 2867
omg one of the workers was hounding me about getting it like as if her life was depending- it was nuts! 😳♥ 0source record 2868
this! and you don't need Mastercard versus Store Card. they will try to sell you on both if yo7 have one- it's based on credit and they can't guarantee you'll be approved for other- not worth the credit ding if you already use one of their cards.♥ 0source record 2869
I use to work there they try to tell to sell these credit cards to each and if we do they only give you a gift card lol sad♥ 0source record 2870
my store basically did a raffle if you got a credit card and they would give you company branded crap no one wanted. gift cards were only if you got like 10 cards in day. i got a water bottle and a stupid tent once. a TENT! lol . while the bosses get actual $$$♥ 0source record 2871
I always say no but never rude about it just tell them credit cards are a scam especially store cards♥ 0source record 2873
Years ago I worked for Kohls and the same. I lost my job bc I wouldn't ask anyone. Most of the public was hurting and I didn't want to further burden them.♥ 0source record 2875
they definitely lie! they told me it wasn’t a credit card, just a rewards card. once it asked for my ss # i said yeah no yall playing!♥ 2source record 2878
Old Navy sucked my husbsnd into a “loyalty card”. It’s a credit card. He was pissed.♥ 1source record 2879
yeah the discount especially for that TJx rewards is not even worth it affecting your credit lol. the employee discount was just as shitty. ooh 10% don't spend it all in one place 😂♥ 0source record 2882
I always apply so they get credit for trying knowing damn my credit sucks and it's a sham 😂 idgaf about credit♥ 0source record 2883
many stores with credit cards push employees to have as many people sign up for credit cards, and to specifically target the more vulnerable/clueless (young people, foreigners) even though it CAN RUIN THEIR CREDIT♥ 225source record 14540
worked at marshalls for a while. I refused to ask anyone to open a credit card. I was always honest with everyone that asked about it too. Not worth it.♥ 2source record 14542
Yep! Most of the stores have a daily goal for the number of credit cards they need to get customers to sign up for. When I worked at JC Penney, there would be a goal each day. On the weekends it was higher, I was let go because I didn’t get anyone to open a credit card account. I hated asking people to sign up for credit cards! The more cards you get people to sign up for, the more the managers like you.♥ 1source record 14543
i hated working at marshall’s my manager would try to get us to sign up for the credit card cuz we were all 18 and they needed their goal i never did it♥ 0source record 14544
Our manager would tell us to get as many people to sign up as possible. They encourage us to be pushy towards those most vulnerable to say yes.♥ 0source record 14546
How are they targeting them? I’m neither of those things and they still ask me to sign up for cards.♥ 0source record 14547
I’m obviously only talking about the people who don’t understand how it works. They target young adults and people who don’t speak english.♥ 0source record 14548
Yes!! I got a Kohls cc at 18 to get my credit up for my first car. I’m 21 now and still struggling to keep up with it. They just sent me a collections notice last week😅 credit is a scam.♥ 8source record 14550
When I worked at Marshall’s Even the employees said getting that credit card was the worst thing they did and it ruined their credit and they warn new hires♥ 3source record 14553
But if they do, using credit wisely and making on-time payments can help. You’re just choosing to see the negative.♥ 1source record 14554
BASS PRO SHOP is one of em that pushes for credit cards. They mainly go for the younger generation.♥ 1source record 14556
ulta beauty in general is lowkey a scam. They up charge so bad and trust u don’t need that credit card. Everyone qualifies for it!! they have sticky notes on the back of the stands to remind cashiers to sell to you. They make it a competition between the associates in who can sell the most credit cards♥ 8source record 14829
think abt it, it takes way more than just your name and email to “run your credit” in three minutes at that!!They would need your ssn and stuff to associate it with your credit line. You aren’t building anything just signing a debt contract really. then they have your contact info to find u if anything♥ 0source record 14832
As a former Ulta manager, they do indeed run your credit, but they do make it a competition and who makes the most credit card sales. and you are elite if you get the most and even can move up to management.♥ 0source record 14834
they can’t run your credit right there off an email and address it’s literally impossible. You would need someone’s social to run their actual real time credit score.♥ 0source record 14836
I love my Amazon card, the interest is low and I earn rewards.♥ 1source record 14839
Worked at Victoria’s Secret and we would get written up if we didn’t get a certain amount of people to “take an item” into the dressing room to try on.♥ 137source record 14871
Worked there and this is accurate♥ 0source record 14872
Awww so happy to hear that!!!! I worked at 2 locations and they both were pretty nasty… :(♥ 0source record 14875
Not true. It depends on your manager. You had a very nasty one then. I worked there 3 years on & off. It was the best job I had thanks to my managers & co workers 🤩.♥ 2source record 14876
I also worked for VS and they gave me an official write up for having brown on a little part of my black boots. Worst job I ever had.♥ 0source record 14878
Keep track of how many people you signed up for a credit card and you got in trouble for not hitting monthly goals♥ 1source record 14880
Oh I don’t doubt it. All retail is toxic I also worked at American Eagle which didn’t do that but they pushed signing up for a credit card terribly. ULTA is AWFUL as well…. They♥ 0source record 14881
there must be other stores that do the same thing because when I have clothes in my hands, they immediately are like can I get a room started for you? And I'm just like no, I'll carry my stuff.♥ 2source record 14882
I was offered a job at Victoria's Secret in my 20s. They told me if a man asked me to try on and model lingerie that I had to do it. My dad said HELL NO! I did not take that job.♥ 3source record 14883
This! I worked there Part time in 1999. They also pulled me from register and wrote me up for never asking people to sign up for a credit card. I hated asking lol 😂 manager told me I was better off working at a factory. I quit 😂♥ 3source record 14884
Now I feel bad, imma start pretending to try stuff on (knowing it’ll fit) just so they don’t get written up 😭♥ 20source record 14885

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Let me check the back31 index entriesOne line about a habit, and the retail workers explaining why they did it rather than say no.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Let me check the back

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Let me check the back

31 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are about to ask a shop assistant to look for stock in the stockroom

How commenters applied it: 31 records. One line — that the walk to the back was theatre — and the replies explain why rather than pile on. Retail workers say many modern formats hold no back stock at all, that everything is pushed to the floor continuously, and that staff who stop moving get in trouble. Several say they went through the motions because customers would not accept a straight no. The corrections are honest: several name chains and departments that do keep back stock, and one describes a shop assistant returning with five units that genuinely had not been put out yet.

What readers reported: What you don’t understand is, if retail workers stop moving or don’t look like they are doing something, they get in trouble, even if there’s nothing to do. So they end up stocking the same shelves allllll day long, that’s why there’s nothing in the back, it’s already been put out repeatedly

Limit: Whether a shop holds back stock depends entirely on the retailer and the format, and workers in this thread give opposite answers about their own employers.

What replies pushed back on2

Not true lol I can go into Nordstrom and ask for Uggs in the back and get them. But as I r stated because most USE TO have backstock. Not like announcements are being put out that it’s changed especially if people are pretending to look for it and it’s not there. Let’s use our brain lol

Pushback♥ 1

This is not true at an Old Navy, ask them to look in the back, they might have it!

Pushback♥ 1

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Worked at a an electronics store. When I went to “check the back”, I just stood there for a few mins. We never “had more in the back.”

source record 6288♥ 5,162
Later-arriving source

I would go have a conversation with the receiving manager she became my best friend then.

posted about 55 days after the source
Zero-like source

this ks thankfully usually true for me company because they get mad if we try to actually use our store room and stock room to hold stock that wont fit on the shelves out on the floor. 💔

posted about 32 days after the source

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The exact phrase “i worked at walmart” recurs across 3 of the 31 source records in Let me check the back; the complete archive stays available below.

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4asks a question
0says they intend to try it
27other source context

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Browse the original comments31 preserved records · 31 of 31 source records accounted for
Worked at a an electronics store. When I went to “check the back”, I just stood there for a few mins. We never “had more in the back.”♥ 5,162source record 6288
I work at a store where we don’t have a back, at all. I just tell people” sorry if you don’t see it, we don’t have it.”♥ 1,866source record 6289
this ks thankfully usually true for me company because they get mad if we try to actually use our store room and stock room to hold stock that wont fit on the shelves out on the floor. 💔♥ 0source record 6290
What sucks nowadays, where I work, multiple times a day someone will pull up to you 'scuuse me!' "I'm looking for X -,and points at their phone "it says you have X amount in stock but I'm not seeing it" If my PDT shows less than 3 units -and it have a stock bay location it means on the floor I just say the app/site isn't always caught up -and that there's chance the 1-2 that the computer thinks we should likely got stolen♥ 0source record 6292
I don't know why people think stores hide products in the back when they are trying to sell them lol♥ 8source record 6299
No one thinks that- if it’s sold out on the floor thet day then maybe they havnt gotten the chance to restock yet so we ask♥ 19source record 6300
What you don’t understand is, if retail workers stop moving or don’t look like they are doing something, they get in trouble, even if there’s nothing to do. So they end up stocking the same shelves allllll day long, that’s why there’s nothing in the back, it’s already been put out repeatedly♥ 5source record 6301
not at target 😭 my store will RARELY be at 100% or even above 80% because it's so big and there's just not enough people to pull & push it all. 😭♥ 2source record 6302
Not true lol I can go into Nordstrom and ask for Uggs in the back and get them. But as I r stated because most USE TO have backstock. Not like announcements are being put out that it’s changed especially if people are pretending to look for it and it’s not there. Let’s use our brain lol♥ 1source record 6306
I was just at Sephora and online they were showing the product I wanted was in stock but I couldn’t find it. I asked someone and she said we’re out. So I told her and she looked it up and said let me check the back and then came back with 5 and said they hadn’t had a chance to put them out yet. Not all retail stores are the same.♥ 0source record 6308
U worked for Sephora, the reason that happened was new stock was being put out. it's not like it doesn't happen but that's not what this is saying. there are customers who think everything is kept in the back in large quantities and put out a little at a time. stores do NOT do that.♥ 1source record 6309
Damnn fr? 🤣 I hate ppl, makin life harder for others bc they wanna be difficult themselves 😭♥ 1source record 6313
Because they’d never believe me if I said we didn’t have any.♥ 3source record 6314
I used to bring people with me and make them help me look at the empty shelves. We had a room but it ain’t got nothing in it- I ain’t lying Karen.♥ 2source record 6315
I used to do that😭 it also depends on how rude or nice the customer was bc maybe we did have it 😝🤷🏾‍♀️♥ 2source record 6317
I worked at a Joann’s for 2 years. Stalking shelves and unloading the trucks. I KNEW if we had something or didn’t… but yeah I’d still go back for a few mins, come back out and say we didn’t have it.♥ 2source record 6318
lmaooo my one boss always told me about a story when he worked at KB toys in the 90s and tickle me elmo was the popular toy one year sold out this one dad harassed him to go check the back he went and just chilled lol♥ 3source record 6319
I remember doing something like this when I worked at sprint 😂♥ 1source record 6320
I used to do that at Ulta 🤣♥ 1source record 6321
This is not true at an Old Navy, ask them to look in the back, they might have it!♥ 1source record 6323
Yep, I did this at a major retailer too. I also knew nothing about electronics when I worked in that department. I said that my friend had the item, and they loved it.♥ 1source record 6324
This is what we did when I worked at Walmart lol.♥ 1source record 6326
did the same when I worked at Walmart!♥ 1source record 6327
Same when I worked retail! It was especially nice to be able to go hide from demanding customers for a few minutes♥ 1source record 6330
That’s what I used to do when I worked at the GAP. When I ask workers I know they’re lying.♥ 1source record 6334
I work in a family owned business and we would say “it’s in the back” and people assumed in the back room. No we meant the back of the store.♥ 1source record 6335
I used to do this at Home Depot after I told people we don’t have a back and they said we did. I used to say “Ok. 🤷🏾‍♀️” and go stand in the break room 😂😂😂♥ 1source record 6336
I spit my drink out! Every single retail job I've had 😂 I would just check my phone because I was the inventory manager and they still wouldn't believe me when I told them we sold out 🤣♥ 1source record 6338
I would go have a conversation with the receiving manager she became my best friend then.♥ 0source record 6340
One man did this to us and we asked another colleague of his AND HE ACTUALLY GOT OT FOR US😭y’all are bums♥ 0source record 6342
That’s for all retail lol I worked at Walmart, auto parts store, I did the same thing lol I’d go in the back and watch a couple reels then come back and say we didn’t have it lol♥ 0source record 6344

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Markdown days, bin days and what gets destroyed instead of given away161 index entriesWhich day stock is repriced, what gets binned instead of donated, and the liability argument staff give for it.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Markdown days, bin days and what gets destroyed instead of given away

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How commenters applied it: 161 records. A former Burlington employee gives the operational detail: markdowns are run for two to three hours before opening on Sunday, so Sunday morning is first pick, and staff walking the floor with a scanner will re-scan items in your basket if you ask. Below the floor price, the same worker says stock is binned rather than donated, and describes designer goods being cut before disposal. Food workers describe the same policy in their own chains — donuts, bread and prepared food discarded at close — and several say they gave it away anyway or drove it to a shelter. The reason offered by staff across every thread is liability, and one commenter names the good-faith donation protection that they say makes that reasoning wrong.

What readers reported: My store got trucks Wednesday and or Thursday morning at like 5 am. Markdowns were done every Sunday 2-3 hours before the store opened. The brand new stuff wasn't marked down mist times that had just come in on the truck though. Sometimes it would go down a bit. Go shopping every Sunday at store opening. Sometimes they'll still be doing Markdowns if they didn't finish before store opening. If you see them walking around with those machines scanning things, ask them if they'll check the stuff you have in your cart. I would be in an isle and see someone pick something up and say "Hold on I'm doing Markdowns. Let me see if that's any cheaper for you." I would then proceed to scan the cart. Sometimes that cart would start poppin tags! Everyone wasn't like me, so just ask them.

Limit: Markdown days, disposal policy and whether staff will help vary by chain and by branch, and several workers here describe different days and different rules. Taking goods from a retailer's bins is not lawful everywhere.

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that's incorrect, unless you are talking about Florida law. I am in PA and there is a program here that donates all their uneaten prepared food to kids from local school districts, along with other businesses that do the same for this charity. hot foods

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Nope! This isnt true. The material goes to a MRF to be sorted, baled, and reprocessed.

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Unfortunately, there’s certain laws that prevent donating all that food, at least in Florida. It’s crazy

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Burlington does markdowns every Sunday. Once it gets to a certain price, they can't sell it, so it goes in the trash.

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I’ve heard this. We tried it at a few different locations. They always say no, even 10 minutes before closing with tons of donuts left 😮‍💨

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After how many days? Every donut I've ever had there was already stale.

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Recycling goes to the same place as the trash that gets picked up from the garbage company. I’m out 🏃💨♥ 5,945source record 8339
I think these days its somethin abt inefficiencies in recycling, and its like way cheaper to sell it as waste. i think china buys up all the waste to make tiny margins doing w.e with it, so nobody tryna spend more to recycle when they can just ditch it for more money. But thats their end, they mot gonna tell public to stop recycling nust cuz their finances swaying♥ 2source record 8343
They charge extra for recycling bins here for it all to go to the same place♥ 0source record 8344
Apparently… the same way we could recycle a few cans by collecting them and going to a vending machine and make a couple cents out of it, there’s a theory our there where THEY (aka big corporations, etc) convinced us to do it for them by having recycling days and then THEY get to profit off it by selling it your entire county’s bulk of recycling… but like I said.. “apparently”♥ 0source record 8345
Wait yes. I once saw the garbage truck pick up my apt complex’s recycling then drive across the street and pick up the restaurants garbage with the same truck♥ 75source record 8346
You’re right. BP (global) invented the term “carbon footprint” to gaslight the average person into thinking they’re contributing to the problem but BP is actually the biggest polluter. You can google it, that’s why I don’t even go above and beyond. The pollution one person makes is so insignificant compared to corporations.♥ 71source record 8348
depends what city, I know people who work in the recycling plants and organize it all on a belt♥ 11source record 8350
I manage a recycling program for farmers and the OPs comment is false. Thank you for saying that! I can tell you exactly where and how much we pick up from each farm and exactly where it all goes and what it’s recycled into♥ 6source record 8351
This happened in my town and they got caught and the day after the investigation opened on the recycling plants mismanagement, it magically burned and they closed the investigation 👀♥ 9source record 8352
No, recycling reduces how much material is going into landfills and creating greenhouse gasses. It uses less energy to reprocess a material than it does to make it new from scratch. I work in this industry and I promise its not a scam. Please please please recycle.♥ 5source record 8353
There are laws being passed in states (so far 7 states) called Extended Producer Responsibility, specifically for packaging where companies have to pay a fee for the end of the life of its packaging. If it’s recyclable or compostable, it’s a lesser fee. The fees are then used to improve recycling infrastructure and education. It takes the responsibility ($) off the customers and puts it onto the companies! It’s great!♥ 3source record 8357
Still telling myself it’s not sus enough we know about landfills… But not… recycle fills? Like really guys… Where is it going? Hahah♥ 2source record 8360
Many recycling facilities that collect and sort household recycling are called materials recoveryfacilities or MRFs for short.♥ 0source record 8361
seen it myself put my trash in the trash and recycling in the recycling but the trash guys just threw it all in the trash truck♥ 1source record 8363
The smaller family owned companies do actually take to the recycling center!♥ 1source record 8364
They do. But it's like a little town with different sections for drop off. You can drop off your trash yourself. leaves. Furniture, etc. but they don't all go into the same building.♥ 1source record 8366
idk about your country but I went to a recycling facility and they do recycle. they will however throw out your recyclables like plastic bottles if theres still liquid inside, etc. basically anything that is dirty and contaminating. if you throw your leftovers in a recycling bin, the whole bin gets thrown out♥ 0source record 8368
But…there are literal recycling plants where I live. Like they are separate places that have separate employees♥ 0source record 8369
I know 2 different people who say the same thing about the same company. They didn’t know each other.♥ 0source record 8370
I wondered why when I moved to NJ they were so strict on separating your recyclable's from the trash.. like literally will ticket you for it whereas in Louisiana where I'm from you just put everything in the garbage. Made no sense in NJ.♥ 0source record 8371
Absolutely yes! California is does NOT recycle at all because we self take out own trash because rota free! The county wanted to charge us $200 a month for them to come and pick up like 4-5 bags a week! NEVER!!!!!9♥ 0source record 8373
This isn’t true nation wide!! I work in waste disposal in California and both composting and recycling happen! It can be a tough process tho. It’s honestly useless to recycle most plastics. Glass, cardboard, and aluminum are a good start. No wishcycling!!!♥ 0source record 8377
i'm a housekeeper in Idaho, they have recycling bins everywhere but it all goes in the trash. I think it was so that the garbage wasn't filled with empty cans or paper and there was more room for whatever else.♥ 0source record 8383
My son who lives in DC has been telling me this for a couple of years. He tells me all the recycling I do is a big waste of time and it’s not really happening.♥ 0source record 8384
My BF drives for a major waste mgmt company here in Canada- CAN CONFIRM.♥ 0source record 8385
My work has separate bins for garbage and recycling.. they are all going into the dumpster at the end of the day.. but honestly it’s because more ppl don’t care to put it in the right place anyways and there’s no time to sort that out of customers can’t be bothered♥ 0source record 8386
Of course it all goes to the dump/tip, the dump is just the sorting facility, it then gets moved on to various recycling facilities from there 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️♥ 0source record 8387
And plastic straws aren’t hurting the environment. It’s commercial fishing causing all the microplastics♥ 0source record 8394
I wondered about this, but I still got a nasty gram from them telling me not to put glass in the recycling bin? If it all goes to the same place...? So confused.♥ 0source record 8395
True. We can a trash business in co. Since the pandemic no one buys americas recycling. China used to. Now it’s burned.♥ 0source record 8397
so right, when you the pollution of planes and jets... they are the most responsible but most of them are rich... so let's blame the simple individuals♥ 1source record 8400
happened to witness this in the biggest AIRPORT in Moscow the CAPITAL of Russia💔💔💔 and I've been separating trash since forever from my town, and it hurts to think I never made a difference♥ 0source record 8402
Burlington does markdowns every Sunday. Once it gets to a certain price, they can't sell it, so it goes in the trash.♥ 7,153source record 9522
Bothe. I say Sunday, because we were in the store 2-3 hours before it opened doing markdowns. First crack.♥ 336source record 9524
Hope they pay for those 3 hours♥ 0source record 9526
Good. Cause 4 years ago i went to forever 21 they said ppl have to spend 2 non paid hours cleaning floor and putting clothes back♥ 0source record 9528
God forbid they donated these things to women’s shelters, etc.♥ 82source record 9533
No, what she just said was, best to shop on Monday , inside their dumpster and get it free haha♥ 2source record 9540
Good question. It was when the bin became full for us. That could be any day, and they don't tear or rip the clothes. Coach and Versace throw purses away too, but they have to cut them.♥ 34source record 9543
I just chalked it up to greed. They don't want you getting something for free. You would think they'd call it vintage Coach or Versace. If you try to hide it and take it, they will fire you. Shiiid. Me and my old coworkers would not have been snitching!♥ 0source record 9547
Yup used to work at Burlington♥ 17source record 9549
The more I hear about Dumpster Diving the more I’m intrigued & interested. Especially because I don’t believe in unnecessary waste & corporate greed would rather allow them to trash perfectly good items that donate them. I don’t care if I can afford it, I’m too tempted & just generally shy.♥ 18source record 9552
I’ve watched a ton on videos and it’s amazing what they find. I wish I wasn’t so grossed out.♥ 12source record 9553
Although I’ve never tried it I would love to, I watch a lot of videos on it and people come up with some really good stuff.♥ 1source record 9554
yes, its true, my moms friend worked at a local dump many years ago and she would see piles of perfectly good merch like brand name purses with department store tags with razor blade scratches on them.scratches were deliberate before they threw it away so it would ruin the value if found. insanely wasteful so a $300 handbag is likely paying to cover costs of dumping 10 others 🙄♥ 2source record 9555
Yes, that goes for the mall outlets too! Find out dates for Inventory if you can. The same night or night after they throw everything they get rid of in the dump.♥ 2source record 9560
Yes. Every Sunday I would be there at 6 or 7am marking ALL the items down. If an item sits on the floor too long it gets marked down. So if the truck arrived today, if it hasn't sold in maybe 3 weeks, markdown. Then Every Sunday ALL items in the store are scanned and quite a few things get marked down. Some stay the same, but some days my scanner was POPPIN. I'd have to reload the tag machine 3-4 times. Yes, if we saw stuff we wanted to buy we would in fact deliberately mark it down. Nobody talked about it, but it was done. Then you got a store discount on top of that! Somebody turned me onto that one, because I didn't know.♥ 14source record 9562
I think Ross is on Wednesday I can't remember and target it was Thursday but it's been a minute since I work in both places♥ 3source record 9570
former burlington associate and I XAN CONFIRM THIS 100%! we did the markdown for 3 hours right before store opens officials and sometimes two hours after open.♥ 2source record 9577
I would get there early Sunday morning. Those people act like it's a pandemic and the clothes are toilet paper.♥ 2source record 9582
They should donate it to homeless shelter so people can get some clothes♥ 0source record 9583
Did you know that Lois Vinton or is it Versace cut their purses up before they throw them away? Look it up on YouTube.♥ 0source record 9586
I would be in there so much more if they had people to work the registers or self check lol♥ 1source record 9590
It is so crazy to me that corporations would rather throw things away than donate themselves or give them away for FREE! Disgusting behavior.♥ 1source record 9592
Ms. Fields cookies is the same way. I had a job there in high school and during Christmas donations would be asked for from orphanages and such. They ALWAYS said no.♥ 0source record 9593
worked at Burlington 10 years ago. I kinda miss doing mark downs lol♥ 1source record 9595
Our truck use to com on Wednesday if I recall correctly.♥ 1source record 9598
I've seen $3.99 but those items weren't cute. You really gotta dig.♥ 1source record 9599
Same with Marshall's/TJ Maxx/Homegoods! Though a lot of stuff got sent to salvage and now I see a lot of TJX merch at the bin stores♥ 1source record 9602
I have no idea. I only had to deal with the thief's in the store.♥ 0source record 9607
That is so extremely sad they throw away perfectly good clothing😢 There are resources and availability for businesses to help people in our country and they turn a blind eye. What in the heck is wrong with ppl who make these decisions? One day they will have to answer for their actions 🙏♥ 1source record 9608
Yet we would donate toys to tots.😔 That's corporate for ya.♥ 0source record 9609
Clothes, Candles, Shoes, Coats, art supplies, Homes decor. I don't know about perfume. I actually doubt it.♥ 1source record 9621
yall would not beleive what I got out of the dumpsters when covid hit. every store had to throw away anything labeled "sample" 👀👀♥ 1source record 9624
not ONE STORE MARKS DOWN. ITS A MARKETING SCHEME JSUT FYI♥ 0source record 9626
Bull. I was the one with the tool I'm my hand marking jeans down from $24 to $12♥ 1source record 9627
Yup, worked there over the summer last year.♥ 1source record 9630
wow no shit Sherlock and what do you THINK THE COMPANY PAID FOR THAT PRODUCT 😂😂😂. YOU ARE ON ANOTHER LEVEL IGNORANT♥ 1source record 9632
When I worked at north face they make a big show of talking about recycling but they didn’t actually recycle because it cost more money. At JCPenney we said we had a warranty center to fix damaged items but they would all just get thrown out.♥ 1source record 9636
Get a friend that works there. They sometimes do 30% off on the entire store sales, and they will give the employees friends and family cards for those 2 or 3 days to get an extra 15%-30% off. Can't remember. So I as an employee got the stores 30% off sale AND my employee discount. You get the same with that paper card for the duration of the sale days.♥ 1source record 9644
One day we were taking stuff off the floor and I asked a manager if we sent the stuff back to the manufacturer. He said no. I asked what we did. He said throw it away. I asked if we ripped them up first. He said no, and HE was the one that would take them to the dumpster. I think he was stealing. Why only him?♥ 1source record 9646
Some. Yes. I swear the manager had to be stealing, but yea some of it was.♥ 0source record 9650
We never got that low. If it came up $0.99 it was gone. Anything under a dollar really. I would sometimes see the manager looking at tags and pulling even that stuff off the floor.♥ 0source record 9654
I work there now currently we have 25¢ stuff♥ 0source record 9655
Make sure there aren’t cameras or they’ll watch, call it in, and have you picked up…. Despite it being trash. They do the same at many large grocery stores to things close to expiration though technically being perfectly fine. Used to live across the way from one & would see people creep on in fill their trunk & bounce 🤣♥ 0source record 9657
I SAAAIIIID go SHOPPING! Anybody else...they can do what they want.♥ 0source record 9660
wats a good time to goto the store?? qat day do they have new inventory♥ 0source record 9661
My store got trucks Wednesday and or Thursday morning at like 5 am. Markdowns were done every Sunday 2-3 hours before the store opened. The brand new stuff wasn't marked down mist times that had just come in on the truck though. Sometimes it would go down a bit. Go shopping every Sunday at store opening. Sometimes they'll still be doing Markdowns if they didn't finish before store opening. If you see them walking around with those machines scanning things, ask them if they'll check the stuff you have in your cart. I would be in an isle and see someone pick something up and say "Hold on I'm doing Markdowns. Let me see if that's any cheaper for you." I would then proceed to scan the cart. Sometimes that cart would start poppin tags! Everyone wasn't like me, so just ask them.♥ 2source record 9662
I've worked there and becer had shit thrown into nyc don't play♥ 0source record 9663
You know only 1 manager at our store took it out. Mark. The one that told me that they throw it away. I looked him up and down and thought...I KNOW you be stealin!♥ 1source record 9668
Wth. Bealls will literally mark their clothing items down to $ .50 😭 and you mean to tell me Burlington throws theirs away?!♥ 0source record 9670
And this is why there’s global warming all the overproduction and everything just getting thrown away.. it doesn’t just disappear into thin air .. it stays on earth!!!! I wish more people would thrift and thrift stores would stop upping their prices!!♥ 0source record 9675
Smart. Now find out when the store is doing a 30% off the entire store. We still did markdowns on that Sunday. Have them put the clothes aside if they will (ON a Saturday. IF they will, or you have somebody who works there they can) go in at opening on Sunday as they may still be doing the markdowns when you walk through the door, get your stuff and ask them to see if any of it is cheaper, then buy it. When I worked there I had a cart, and as I did markdowns I would put what I wanted aside, then take it up front to hold it. I buy after my shift. If you were shopping I would tell you...hold on, I'm doing markdowns. Let me see if that's any cheaper for you. I was nice enough to scan your cart before you went to the register. If you got near me, I would stop you. Hold up, let's see.♥ 3source record 9677
when is garbage day sunday nights? need to know when to go dumpster diving♥ 0source record 9678
Yup they make you destroy it first though. They had me cut up at least 50 bras & toss them. I told them we can just donate them instead of cutting them up & they said no it’s company policy.♥ 2source record 9689
Wow!!! that's sad 2 knooooow w such a HUGE unfocused population on thiiisssss here STOLEN land!!!!♥ 1source record 9692
so you're saying I should start dumpster diving? noted, thanks♥ 0source record 9694
i used to work at dunkin they throw out hundreds of donuts every night so if you go in a hour before close and ask for donuts you will get a bunch♥ 3,181source record 9975
When we were in our struggle years, this is sometimes how my husband and I would have breakfast, sometimes it would be our only meal.♥ 390source record 9976
Panda Express too. Never worked there, I just took advantage of that A LOT in college lol♥ 74source record 9977
There’s one right by my kids high school - they love when the kids come in after events♥ 33source record 9978
Moes as well ! I worked there and we can only keep the meat we made out for a hr after shag it gets thrown out and when we close we throw all of them away♥ 7source record 9980
My daughter works for dunkin. Her manager will personally drive as many leftovers as she can to donate them to shelters/food banks. I also benefit, I’m always waiting when she gets home to see what kind of surprise box I’m getting…♥ 26source record 9982
I use to manage a dunking donuts and it’s better you tell the people to pick it up. There’s always a bad apple who will get “food poisoning “ and get your daughter’s manager in trouble and they will investigate. I use to give people hints or mark bags that were not mixed with other trash. Good food if you wait a little after they close♥ 3source record 9983
This! I love when they do this because I hate being wasteful with food. But, we have to literally throw it all out. 😭 So please come if you want hungry & just extra food 30 minutes to an hour before closing !♥ 6source record 9985
now this makes sense 🤣 I went one evening like 30-45 minutes to close cause i was craving a donut and the guy gave my donut for free 🤣🤣 it was good too I said aww thanks 😂❤️I was so shocked 🤣♥ 3source record 9986
My manager used to yell at us for taking them home ... like what they're literally going in the trash anyways ?♥ 3source record 9987
I used to work retail next door to one and they used to box up donuts and give them to us allllll the time when we went in before they closed♥ 2source record 9988
If restaurants would donate their left over food every night, no homeless person would ever go hungry.♥ 1source record 9989
i remember an ex friend worked here. had like 3 big containers full of donuts♥ 1source record 9990
Sadly some Dukins in my area don’t anymore bc the homeless people have sued them for “food poisoning” so now they don’t give no one no donuts♥ 1source record 9991
My buddy worked there in high school. He saved up tons of donuts for days. We all god drunk and had a donut fight. They were bwsicallyvbn♥ 1source record 9992
I’ve heard this. We tried it at a few different locations. They always say no, even 10 minutes before closing with tons of donuts left 😮‍💨♥ 0source record 9993
By then they are stale . I worked there too♥ 0source record 9994
After how many days? Every donut I've ever had there was already stale.♥ 0source record 9995
do this with any cafe/small takeaway shop at close, i used to work for a takeaway shop & id someone cake in 10/20 mins to close wed ask if they wanted any free pies or sausagerolls cos otherwise theyre going in the bin♥ 0source record 9997
worked in a factory making Dunkin’ Donuts and any extras/miscounts got tossed♥ 0source record 9998
yes ive seen this they gave a bunch of teens boxes of donuts right as they were closing♥ 0source record 10000
I just went to Tim’s right before they closed and they gave us free donuts too we saw them throw the rest out♥ 0source record 10002
Confirming this is correct from former dunkin employee♥ 0source record 10003
this is so true my mom used to work there♥ 0source record 10005
depends on who owns the franchise. some of them leave donuts for days♥ 0source record 10008
when i worked there, we would pack them all up and bring them to homeless shelters. we’d usually leave with around 13 dozen 😭♥ 0source record 10013
Can definitely confirm, I used to manage one and I would do it ALL THE TIME. I felt so bad about throwing them out I would beg ppl to take them home 😭♥ 0source record 10015
can confirm. i also worked at dunkin♥ 0source record 10016
Same as little Cesar’s. They will give you whatever is left at the end of the night for free♥ 0source record 10017
I wasp walking in harlem new york, at 230 am, the dunkin donuts delivery driver dropped a cart of deliveries, picked them up and delivered them inside♥ 0source record 10023
Yep. My friend worked there in college and said the same thing.♥ 0source record 10027
I used to do this every night lol loved those guys 🥰♥ 0source record 10030
I asked for some at closing for my sons basketball team and they said “no. If we do it for you, no one will buy during the day and people will show up at closing” smh♥ 0source record 10031
Depends on the location. Some watch cameras and will fire you for♥ 0source record 10033
True I’ve worked there too but it’s at the discretion of the workers. Not all will give them because if you get sick it falls back on Dunkin’♥ 0source record 10034
That is didgusting and corporate greed. Why not donate??♥ 0source record 10037
That’s awesome. You should be so proud of yourself♥ 22source record 10042
disney also throws away mountains of food everyday and there employees will get fired if u get caught eating and they refuse to give to charity♥ 1,545source record 11919
Disney is a cult and I wouldn’t give them a penny of my money. It’s a shame and a crime what they charge people♥ 184source record 11920
i agree and i’ve witnessed my coworker get fired bc he took leftover food and has worked for the company for over 20 years! like that’s insane im so glad i left♥ 119source record 11921
Most places do not give to charity do to liability issues.♥ 19source record 11923
Unfortunately, there’s certain laws that prevent donating all that food, at least in Florida. It’s crazy♥ 14source record 11924
i worked for panera in FL and we used to donate all the leftover food at the night to a local church so i don’t think that’s the case♥ 15source record 11925
the panera i worked at was in orlando lol♥ 8source record 11927
I worked at KFC in California and we did the same thing. We’d pack all the food for the church♥ 3source record 11928
so you want someone to eat it and then sue...own a business and have people sign documents to protect yourself than♥ 2source record 11929
you cant sue if food is donated in good faith just for the record. Clinton enacted it I believe♥ 4source record 11930
yea i worked for panera and we donated every night to a local church♥ 2source record 11931
Disney is also linked with Epstein! They’re part of the human trafficking world!♥ 0source record 11932
not to sure about this but when i worked at there hotel they said they see it happen sometimes. It’s crazy how much you learn from.♥ 1source record 11933
that's incorrect, unless you are talking about Florida law. I am in PA and there is a program here that donates all their uneaten prepared food to kids from local school districts, along with other businesses that do the same for this charity. hot foods♥ 1source record 11934
Restaurants do this daily and it’s bc giving food away can be a liability if anything happens♥ 1source record 11935
there's definitely reason behind it and its the "it takes one person to ruin it for everyone" worked at sheetz they replace their donuts every day they used to donate their 24hr old donuts to the homeless until one of them sued saying they got sick from that point in everything went right on the trash♥ 1source record 11936
The FDA has strict guidelines about food that’s been sitting for too long. It’s a health issue.♥ 0source record 11938
They should have a designated “trash area” that is labeled accordingly (but accessible to the outside) and then indirectly spread the word about it so people can “pick up the trash” without having liability 😩♥ 0source record 11940
Like a loophole or something so people “on their own terms” decide to “pick up the trash” aka nicely placed trays of unused meals. It break my hearts to waste food ❤️♥ 0source record 11941
lol this is a lie. i worked there as a COOK and they NEVER throw food away.♥ 0source record 11942
this is not a lie i worked at the board walk in orlando at the lounge and we had to take all the leftover food put in a waste bin and take it downstairs lol♥ 0source record 11943
lol well it might’ve been where you worked. but again, i was Culinary. i worked at EPCOT. we gave food every single day. you probably don’t understand food safety. not everything can just be given away. you have to properly cool the food then give it to the harvest (is what they called it). and no you can’t just eat leftover food without permission from the chefs because again, food safety.♥ 0source record 11944
you might’ve had to do this with food that COULDNT be donated. not all food can be. it depends on food safety and the cooling properly, also depends on what it is. i worked at EPCOT and we donated a crap ton.♥ 0source record 11945
lol this is actually true. i used to work at disney♥ 0source record 11947
even eating off stage he got fired and disney had an entire investigation on him and all the employees asking about him lol♥ 0source record 11952
I work in hotels and event spaces, I concur.♥ 0source record 11954
It’s liability to donate and it places allowed employees to eat food, there’d be no internal control on ingredients, purposely messing up food to eat, etc.♥ 0source record 11960
Disney also refuses to build a bridge in Anaheim to make it safe for people to get across the street to Disneyland because they want people to get hit by cars…♥ 0source record 11965
7/11 is exactly the same. all the hot food has to be thrown every 6 hours, you can't give it to homeless or eat it yourself. They have facial rec software in their store also.♥ 0source record 11966
That is so wasteful 😭 imagine some kids in need get some Disney shaped food what a surprise that would be! To not donate it should be crime 😩♥ 0source record 11972
What a stupid answer. If you advocate liberating an "occupied" country, then this applies to all countries in the world because almost all of them are "occupied" countries. I'm also willing to bet you that the country you live in is an occupied country! You know how many times in history people have defected to other countries and changed regimes, governments, and more in each country several times!!! Your answer shows how much you don't understand the topic you're talking about. What i" just free plastelina"? Who are you to demand such a thing? Why do you think you have the right to have an opinion on the subject at all !? And something else very important! You have no right to talk about wars in other countries as long as you don't live in these countries! As long as you don't know the intricacies of history to the smallest detail! To know what the government is in each country and what's really happening. First learn and only then talk! Otherwise you have no right!♥ 0source record 11982
free palestine that's all, the fact there are wars doedn't justify another in the current time, and the fact these wars are always waged by the west tells the real history,♥ 1source record 11984
I know history, and the fact that you learned the wrong thing is already your problem. And the fact that there was a war and the country was conquered and people don't know how to accept it is a completely different problem. Many countries are countries that went through war and the new people became the rulers, I don't see anyone harassing other countries or people who speak the language of that country like that. So do me a favor and just shut up. If you're not connected and don't live in the country, don't respond. If you're going to open your mouth again, first come to the country you're talking about, be here, and see with your own eyes that everything you think you know is nonsense.♥ 0source record 11987
i understand you thats the right way ofc but theyre just speaking hebrew nothing about defending actions of israel...i think you should keep this energy for people actually defend the system yk♥ 1source record 11991
If you want free bread from panera ask them if they had any loaves that over or under proofed. In the summer time over proofing is common, and they can sell loaves that dont “look” appealing. I used to take home a lot of free bread♥ 182source record 14670
I liked working there until everything became drive through focus and less cozy cafe sit in and eat focus. Almost all new paneras being build by the corporate entity(not franchise owners), will feature such a small dining area, and up to three drive through lanes♥ 5source record 14671
I LOVED working there when I was a kid! At the end of the night whatever bagels bread and sweets didn’t sell we always took home!♥ 3source record 14672

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Sale prices that were never sales49 index entriesPricing staff describing the pre-sale markup, and the shoppers tracking the same item across weeks.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Sale prices that were never sales

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Sale prices that were never sales

49 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are waiting for a sale event to buy something

How commenters applied it: 49 records. Pricing staff describe doing the work themselves: retagging a store to higher prices one or two weeks before the event so the discount reads against an inflated figure, and one describes the same routine before a recurring member discount, with the increase at least matching the discount. Shoppers supply the tracking evidence — the same television quoted at three prices across a month, the same online item at an identical price before and during the sale. Two corrections are worth having: one commenter with an advertising-law background says deceptive pricing is reportable to the regulator, and several retail workers say their own employer's promotional pricing is audited and genuine. Others note the goods themselves can be lower-specification models built for the event.

What readers reported: Report any store you see doing this. Deceptive pricing is illegal in the US. The FTC will fine them if they have proof. (Source: I studied Advertising Law as a part of my degree)

Limit: These are individual accounts about unnamed branches and unnamed chains, and retail workers in the thread say it does not describe their employer. No pricing claim here was checked against any retailer's records.

What the replies added1

Mostly just Amazon. I work for a very large retailer where I did the promotional pricing and this is not true for us. We very much so follow the law on pricing. (🏷️)

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99% of Black Friday deals are not in fact Black Friday deals. They are the same price they’ve been or higher. You are RARELY actually getting a deal

source record 4616♥ 18,334
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Amazon Prime deals are usually not even deals, just priced up and then they add the “percentage off” of that raised price. ALWAYS google it, and you’ll likely see a result showing the same product on amazon for the “sale” price which was the original price to begin with. A select few things are actually sales but most are not. I have many many screenshots proving it now😂

posted about 59 days after the source♥ 3
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I still have my $200 50 inch TV from like 10yrs ago😂

posted about 40 days after the source

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The exact phrase “on black friday” recurs across 5 of the 49 source records in Sale prices that were never sales; the complete archive stays available below.

49index entries
49distinct source records
5.2%of parent category
0.8%of the complete index
2top-level comments
47replies

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0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
1asks a question
0says they intend to try it
48other source context

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99% of Black Friday deals are not in fact Black Friday deals. They are the same price they’ve been or higher. You are RARELY actually getting a deal♥ 18,334source record 4616
Yup! I worked at a store that did price changes 2 weeks before and increased the prices so it looked like a sale for Black Friday but still paying the original price before it changed.♥ 695source record 4617
IVE HAD A THEORY ABOUT THIS FOR YEARS BUT HAVE NEVER HAD ANYONE BELIEVE ME HOLY SHT THANK YOU FOR THIS CONFIRMATION♥ 0source record 4618
Been known this since the 2000s , it was never a deal. I would go a week before♥ 200source record 4620
This happens with most stores before big sales. I worked at GNC for several years and before every gold card day (20% off) we would have to change the retail price of the items. They’d go up at least 20%. Sometimes more.♥ 28source record 4621
Report any store you see doing this. Deceptive pricing is illegal in the US. The FTC will fine them if they have proof. (Source: I studied Advertising Law as a part of my degree)♥ 65source record 4624
Inflate the price, right before the Holiday "sales". That is a fact!♥ 6source record 4629
yeah if its normally 9.99, they dut it up to 11.99 and day this is the sale, when in reality, its the the regular price♥ 5source record 4630
I’ve seen this on Amazon lol. Something I bought before Black Friday went “on sale” for the same price and they just artificially inflated the original price to make it seem like a deal♥ 5source record 4631
Same with those tax-free weekends before school. They'll adjust the price to include the tax.♥ 3source record 4633
I wish I knew. We also hate it bc it makes it difficult to figure out the actual price of things. And it prices a lot of us poorer folks out of what we think we can afford, so we have to put things back, often times needs, not just wants.♥ 1source record 4635
Which is why most of us don’t fck with Black Friday. 90s/Early 2000s? Those prices were worth squabbling over!♥ 2source record 4636
I only Black Friday shop when I know the original price by heart😝♥ 1source record 4638
Yep! Also those big, beautiful TV’s for sale…. Made specifically for that day. They are NOT the primo TV you would pay the actual money for. Don’t buy TV’s on Black Friday!♥ 1source record 4639
I worked at Vans in hs and we would only discount the socks and still sold thousands of dollars of shoes at midnight lol♥ 1source record 4641
This is why I save stuff I plan to buy for Christmas long before and I keep track of the prices, I only buy stuff on Black Friday that were actually lowered.♥ 1source record 4642
I noticed this. There really isn’t any deals at all. I’ve hardly bought anything on Black Friday cause of it.♥ 1source record 4645
The only deal is in tvs 🤦 which we all have 5 for every wall by now♥ 1source record 4646
My fav is when the sticker price is 1 cent less than the tag price 💞 I was shopping once and peeled it right off♥ 1source record 4647
Also, electronics manufacturers literally have different, cheaper to produce versions of their devices that are tuned below normal spec to sell during Black Friday♥ 1source record 4648
As a consumer I’ve even realized this . I stop participating Years ago. I wish more ppl will realize this!♥ 1source record 4649
It’s the experience and hype of it that’s cute. It adds a little more fun to Thanksgiving. But yeah, idk, I’ve gardened♥ 2source record 4650
This is true for when I worked at old navy … everything becomes 50 off for Black Friday but that’s the usual sale sometimes . If you’re an employee depending on the location, you always get half off♥ 0source record 4651
The trick is you have to go after Super Bowl that’s the real Black Friday♥ 0source record 4655
ive been saying this for years. check the price on something today. check back the end of Nov same price😂♥ 0source record 4656
I still have my $200 50 inch TV from like 10yrs ago😂♥ 0source record 4658
Well, that $125 purse (that is usually $400) from a Michael Kors on Black Friday 10 years ago would say otherwise♥ 0source record 4659
the two major supermarkets in Australia just got fined from the regulator for doing this with specials♥ 0source record 4660
I work in sales at a furniture store and can confirm we don't do that atleast but everyone swears I can give 90% off of anything♥ 0source record 4661
Yepp! I can confirm this!!!♥ 0source record 4666
Same with Amazon! An item was $50…I waited 3 days to order bc of Amazon prime day…it went down to $49 and said it was 37% off🙄 …such a crock♥ 0source record 4669
That’s why whenever I go to Walmart or any store for Black Friday it’s not as packed as it use to be. The last time it was sale was when people would fight over stuff♥ 0source record 4670
They are usually items that are going to go on sale anyway and need to be cleared out. Out of season clothing and stuff.♥ 0source record 4672
Mostly just Amazon. I work for a very large retailer where I did the promotional pricing and this is not true for us. We very much so follow the law on pricing. (🏷️)♥ 0source record 4673
Especially nowadays, but back in 2000 when it first started, they used to have good deals♥ 0source record 4674
Same with Amazon prime day deal. I have been keeping an eye on a couple of items and when the sale started... same price as before.. just saying we are saving so much by putting the reg price as more..smh♥ 0source record 4675
Most companies also run the "sales" all week prior! Plus everything gets marked up a week or 2 before black Friday essentially.♥ 0source record 4676
I told my husband this a few years ago bc I saw the price weeks B4 and I took note of the price bc I was hoping it would be with the deals and it was the same price. some things the price went up and he never went again♥ 0source record 4678
Not JCPenney, they really do lower merchandise to really good prices♥ 0source record 4680
100%!! They will just raise the “regular” price and make the “discount” seem too good to pass up. One time 2 weeks before BF i saw a tv i really wanted on “sale” for $999…went during BF to get a deal and “regular” price was 1399 and “sale” price was 1099♥ 0source record 4681
Bruh I went to target last year on Black Friday for my man’s birthday to get him a Nintendo switch. It was $350. Not a deal in the slightest I think it was actually more expensive. But he does everything for me so I didn’t want to show up without one so I got it anyways♥ 0source record 4682
Used to actually be a deal for many things before the time of the internet.♥ 0source record 4683
This. I worked at Macys and before Black Friday we had to work the late shift and retag the entire store back to original prices.♥ 0source record 4684
this is an old tip. when you have your eye on something and you're waiting for the price to drop take screen shots and keep track of the price over the course of a few months. worth it if it's a big purchase.♥ 0source record 4685
With exception of Old Navy. Worked there for 7 years, you actually are getting deals.♥ 0source record 4687
I can confirm this for walmart. worked there for 17 yrs.♥ 0source record 4692
Well considering in the past bf deals have actually been deals, and in the recent years they are just labeled as deals♥ 0source record 4693
Or they being in cheaper (lower quality) models they don’t normally sell and sell them for what they are worth. Particularly TV’s.♥ 0source record 4695
Amazon Prime deals are usually not even deals, just priced up and then they add the “percentage off” of that raised price. ALWAYS google it, and you’ll likely see a result showing the same product on amazon for the “sale” price which was the original price to begin with. A select few things are actually sales but most are not. I have many many screenshots proving it now😂♥ 3source record 12536

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Same factory, different label249 index entriesBuyers and manufacturing staff naming the shared factory or parent company — and the employees who came back with the corrections.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Same factory, different label

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Same factory, different label

249 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are deciding whether a brand name is buying you a different product

How commenters applied it: 249 records. The corpus's largest card, and the one where the corrections are as valuable as the claims. Former employees name shared manufacturers, parent companies and recycled formulations across scent, activewear, watches, accessories and food, and other staff at the same companies reply with specifics: a Girl Scouts employee explains that two licensed bakers with legally distinct recipes serve different regions, which is why the same cookie has two names and tastes different across the country; several point out one pair of brands separated years ago while still recycling formulations internally; a candle maker explains that fragrance oils are sold to anyone, so a shared scent is not evidence of a shared owner. The durable finding is narrower than the claims and better supported: discontinued formulations reappear under new names, and staff describe matching them by their listed notes.

What readers reported: Actual Girl Scout Staff member - I don't speak on behalf of the org - however, this is incorrect. Girl Scouts uses 2 different bakers for their cookies, and the baker your local girls get is based on proximity to their factories. The companies we use are ABC bakers, and Litttle Brownie bakers respectively!

Limit: Several of the headline claims here are corrected in their own threads by employees of the companies named. Corporate ownership changes, and no manufacturing relationship in this card was verified.

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Actual Girl Scout Staff member - I don't speak on behalf of the org - however, this is incorrect. Girl Scouts uses 2 different bakers for their cookies, and the baker your local girls get is based on proximity to their factories. The companies we use are ABC bakers, and Litttle Brownie bakers respectively!

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I'm aware - yes, interbake is the parent company - and yes, their main location is in South Dakota. However, the cookie recipes are distinctive in that they legally can not be the exact same. That is the point I am trying to make. They can have similar ingredients and look similar. However, the measurements must be varied due to GSUSA having the legal rights to the specific recipies for production. I'm glad you know people who work for them, but unless you've taken the trainings that came directly from the company that markets said products - not just the parent company, please don't assume you have all the information. Please don't use chat gpt as a reference, as it can only collect publicly available information, not information that is private for employee access only. 😉 All this to say, yes, there are similar cookies on the market that can be purchased throughout the year. However, Girl Scout cookies are Unique, and the sale of them help girls learn important life skills and helps fund many important projects and events that girls participate in. I was a Girl Scout for 12 years, am a Gold Award recipient, and have been involved in 2 different councils. I have also been a staff member for my local council for over a year. Youth organizations are important, and I believe you should support them over big box stores. That's just my 2 cents. Have a great day!

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nope, not anymore. they separated a few years back.

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VS spun off. Absolutely worthless stock. It’s a miracle I sold it for what I did. I’d think the stock would be better given pricing and popularity but nope. B&B did better but I sold that too. But separately. Idk but I think it means they split. Like can they still share because they have the same parent company?

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I worked at bath & body works like 3 years ago when they were still sister companies. They split right before i stopped working there.

Reported failure♥ 1

This is true. One of my dad's ex-girlfriends used to work there. She would bring home boxes of "defect" cookies. Defect cookies would be the ones that broke during the process before packaging.

Reported failure

I’m definitely checking that out because my black lululemon define jacket is ruined with cat hair 😩

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also none of those companies are cruelty free unfortunately

source record 14733♥ 1
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I know the manufacture and you can request “samples” unfortunately my nda is still active

source record 2009♥ 1

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Bath and Body Works does recycle old scents and call it something different. Sometimes they’ll even trade with Pink/Victoria’s Secret since it’s their sister store 😭

source record 1921♥ 70,528
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Lighting stores will sell you a ceiling fan for $350 when in reality it’s probably only worth $60

posted about 66 days after the source
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And the Kirkland brand at Costco are the same thing and they are 8$

posted about 40 days after the source

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Across 249 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Use a sensory reset” (23 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

249index entries
249distinct source records
26.4%of parent category
3.8%of the complete index
12top-level comments
237replies

What commenters explicitly report

8explicitly reports a benefit
3explicitly reports a limit or failure
26asks a question
0says they intend to try it
212other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Observable tactic structures

Use a sensory reset 23Attach it to an existing routine 3

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

Browse the original comments249 preserved records · 249 of 249 source records accounted for
Bath and Body Works does recycle old scents and call it something different. Sometimes they’ll even trade with Pink/Victoria’s Secret since it’s their sister store 😭♥ 70,528source record 1921
I have 2 different perfumes with the same scent. They also steal from other brands too. My mother loved elizabeth taylor's red door when i was younger & the scent "You're the One" in a RED bottle is the SAME scent. It used to be pricey & now its cheap because they stole the scent.♥ 1,475source record 1922
This might not happen anymore. They parted ways 3 years ago♥ 310source record 1925
They’re not L Brands anymore. The companies are separate entities.♥ 1source record 1930
VS spun off. Absolutely worthless stock. It’s a miracle I sold it for what I did. I’d think the stock would be better given pricing and popularity but nope. B&B did better but I sold that too. But separately. Idk but I think it means they split. Like can they still share because they have the same parent company?♥ 0source record 1931
They still recycle their own scents though. They will change like one or two words to make them sound different. I worked there for 2 years and would always bring it up lol. It works if there is a big sale and the one you want is full price vs the same scent diff name is half off 🥳♥ 13source record 1932
i worked for red door for a while and can confirm they just released new scents that smelled exactly the same as old scents, or sold old scents down to dept stores♥ 34source record 1935
y dos they change their formula ??! i swear when i was you her the red door smelled so good. i bought one last month and it rl smells like that nasty hand soap that publis restrooms have. never remembered it smelling that way.♥ 0source record 1938
It’s not the same scent . Red door is much stronger and old lady like♥ 0source record 1940
They can’t “steal” scents unless it’s made specifically for that brand with a patent. I make candles and the fragrance oils are available to everyone. It will be under a different name, but you can buy a ton of samples and eventually find one that a bigger company carries then recreate it under a different scent name & company♥ 9source record 1944
Yes! I feel like all the smells are the same and don’t even last long. 😩 That’s when I decided to stick to non toxic perfumes!♥ 19source record 1948
yes ...I need a new scent that sticks...I can't lie tho Bombshell by VS is amazing...but need anew sticky scent♥ 5source record 1949
Try Seven Virtues the Amber vanilla is the best one in my opinion!♥ 3source record 1950
An employee told me this. She said look at the notes in the scent and that’s how you’ll find it under a new name lol♥ 17source record 1951
VS became a separate entity a few years ago (I don’t know how many) they’re no longer the same co. and now have different policies/tactics♥ 7source record 1954
Hey... I once spent $40 on the last bottle in the country.... and accidently had it shipped to my old work 4 states away 😭😭♥ 1source record 1959
I meant to ask have you tried eBay? I get a lot of my favorite discontinued scents on there.♥ 1source record 1960
Sweetest Song from bath and body works is 10000% the retired confetti daydream♥ 4source record 1962
Definitely for the candles I’ve said this multiple times♥ 4source record 1964
Omg I also used to work there!!♥ 1source record 1973
they changed it it’s not the same anymore it just smells like rubbing alcohol♥ 1source record 1977
Does anyone know if they’ve reused Twilight Woods bc I miss that one… 👀👀👀♥ 1source record 1978
I FREAKINGGGGG KNEWWWW ITTTTTTT ALL THEIR LOTION PERFUME W SAME SMEELL [account] [account] [account]♥ 1source record 1982
Is their any way they made dream bright a diff name💔💔 I want the perfume and they never brought it back♥ 1source record 1987
Don't care about this this one. Still going to buy the candles, recycled or not 💯🤣🤣🤣 But interesting though 🤔♥ 1source record 1988
Worked at bath and body and we were literally instructed to push hand lotions because it dries peoples skin out making them buy more. Lean towards the body cream!♥ 1source record 1991
They change the packaging too (label design) but I still love them! 😁♥ 1source record 1995
ghoul friend from Halloween last year. I've been trying to pinpoint what it was back around like 2010-2012 😭😂 I knew I wasn't crazy♥ 1source record 1996
Yes I worked there they are insane in there like having to come up to people a minimum of 3 times people hate that♥ 1source record 1997
Okay what is endless love called? It was apart of the trio that came out with love spell and pure seduction the only one that got discontinued♥ 1source record 1999
When I worked there my favorite game was "what old scent is this" because maybe 80% of new fragrances are pulled from the vault♥ 1source record 2002
FR cause I was like why does Fresh Sparkling Snow smell EXACTLY like Blueberry Sugar candle♥ 1source record 2006
Im a perfumer and something else interesting is that a lot of shampoos and bath products use fragrances that are discontinued from perfumes sold in the past. Only reason you can’t wear them like perfumes is the fact that the concentration is low.♥ 1source record 2007
T the Cinderella scent that just recently came out is velvet tuberose, which is discontinued♥ 1source record 2008
I know the manufacture and you can request “samples” unfortunately my nda is still active♥ 1source record 2009
I worked at bath & body works like 3 years ago when they were still sister companies. They split right before i stopped working there.♥ 1source record 2011
It’s super obvious with the men’s things! I remember loving their “Flannel” smell and they discontinued it. Then I think it was “Stone” that they came out with and it was THE SAME SMELL!!♥ 1source record 2012
I concur 2 peak seasons in store and one in the warehouse under my belt♥ 1source record 2013
What?! I’ve been looking high and low for Summer Melody again 😭 I was so sad when I found out they discontinued it.♥ 1source record 2015
Well then can someone PLEASE tell me how to get my hands on brown sugar and fig? It was my ride or die scent until they took it away 😭♥ 1source record 2017
Discovered this 10 years ago 😂😭♥ 0source record 2021
Can confirm this! Worked there years ago and found this out in training!♥ 0source record 2025
Bath and Body 3-wick candle costs $4.50 to manufacture.♥ 0source record 2027
Never worked there, but my nose has 100% known this.♥ 0source record 2028
Did they do that with dark kiss or midnight pomegranate? Cause I miss those scents real bad 😭♥ 0source record 2030
Somebody, and idc who, needs to bring back the scent Wicked then bc that’s my isssshhhhhh 🙌🏽♥️♥ 0source record 2033
Someone I know worked there for like 15 years just asked her and she confirmed 😂♥ 0source record 2035
Anything close to “breathe romance Amber myrrh” from the 2000s? I miss that stuff♥ 0source record 2038
Girl what’s the dupe for rosey Quartz it’s my favorite perfume ever and they don’t make it anymore 😭♥ 0source record 2045
i SWEAR TO GOD brown sugar and fig was turned into twilight woods♥ 0source record 2046
anddddd snowflakes and cashmere is basically a dupe for santal 33♥ 0source record 2047
Any idea which one is now disguised as Wrapped In Vanilla because that's my favorite of all time.♥ 0source record 2050
Lmfaooo not even close to being true. I worked for both companies, first of all they smell completely different. Not to mention the formulas are total opposite.♥ 0source record 2051
I have too and was told this by managers at both companies♥ 0source record 2052
Begging for someone to tell me the scent “poolside” is actually under a different name♥ 0source record 2056
True!!! I worked there.♥ 0source record 2058
This is a common thing in the beauty industry! I’ve worked for three different major brands and a lot of colors from collections get recycled.♥ 0source record 2063
the old tootie fruity scent from the kids section of B&BW is love spell at VS♥ 0source record 2065
If true, someone help me find the new scent for autumn nights!♥ 0source record 2067
Bath and body works separated internally - previous internal employee. They forced everyone to choose sides during the split and VSS fired their help and went overseas for support unlike BBW♥ 0source record 2069
I KNEW ITTTTTT. i used to swear that the scents smell the same. i thought they were being lazy but this makes sense!♥ 0source record 2070
Lmao my mom use to work at a factory for years where they bottled and packaged this stuff and has been saying that for YEARS, low key did not believe her until a few years ago lol♥ 0source record 2078
For sure. There’s one lotion I’ve bought there for years and it’s on its 4th name. Every couple years I have to go on a smell hunt.♥ 0source record 2079
They are no longer associated with Victoria Secret,we had customers that would come in with VS loyalty card and we were told to deny the cards as we are no longer affiliated with Victoria secret♥ 0source record 2080
I’m just saying nobody is disregarding the fact that they use the same scents with a different label or name we’re all saying they don’t partner with VS any more lol♥ 0source record 2082
Does anyone remember the pink scent in the pink bottle, and it had a blue top in the rectangular bottle? What scent is that now?♥ 0source record 2083
I KNEW IT!! Worked there in the 00’s♥ 0source record 2086
what did they recycle sweater weather with i need it back NOW♥ 0source record 2088
Oh, I know this! I went in the other day (I’m a dude) and saw they had some new dude scents. One of the “new” scents was literally an old scent I already have. They simply renamed and repackaged it! I know it was the same too because I loved that scent before!♥ 0source record 2095
Pretty obvious, a lot of perfumes smell just alike, there is only so many smells you can make♥ 0source record 2097
can i fr bring full perfumes in and trade them or is that a lie bc i have so many i don’t use 💔♥ 0source record 2102
That entire store is toxic I will never buy their products!!! Well most perfumes and candles are but that’s another story haha♥ 0source record 2106
But why can’t we just know the seasonal name???? Like why can’t I just have sweater weather and leaves all year long?? Call it whatever, just tell me the name!! Also why can’t I have pineapple prosecco as a soap but not a candle???? Ughhhhh♥ 0source record 2109
So much for my once in a very blue moon limited edition kicks.♥ 1source record 2112
Can you tell me what is the most similar to very sexy 2? (The pink bottle)♥ 1source record 2113
i have vs credit card debt cus they told me it could be used at bath and body works when i was desperate for a bra that wasn't too big 😭😭 strawberry poundcake put me in debt 💔♥ 1source record 2114
Also you can use the candles and burn them down til you don’t want them then trade them in for a new one .♥ 0source record 2115
“Marget” does the same thing, recycles the same stuff and jacks the price up. Also the color red wasn’t by mistake, it makes you want to buy more same with the bright lighting. 🤪♥ 0source record 2116
I did not know PINK/VS was their sister store. But it doesn’t make sense cause VS vanilla scents are so ass. 😭😭♥ 0source record 2121
I’ve been saying that they all smell the same and they give them different names♥ 0source record 2122
What is the new name of the brown sugar and fig, I need it back in my life it literally haunts me please♥ 0source record 2123
Girl Scout cookies are made by Interbake foods in South Sioux City, NE. Same EXACT cookies are sold and relabeled at Dollar General and packaged as Clover Valley. You can also find Thin Mints at Dollar Tree. Same factory makes them all.♥ 20,582source record 6438
* but please still support the Girl Scouts. If you buy a box of Girl Scout cookies for six dollars they get a dollar, if you donate $10 to the troop they get $10.♥ 561source record 6439
Alsi also have Somoas/carmel delights dupes that taste just the same or better♥ 188source record 6440
Coming here to post this. They’re better and way cheaper.♥ 4source record 6443
Actual Girl Scout Staff member - I don't speak on behalf of the org - however, this is incorrect. Girl Scouts uses 2 different bakers for their cookies, and the baker your local girls get is based on proximity to their factories. The companies we use are ABC bakers, and Litttle Brownie bakers respectively!♥ 96source record 6446
Also, each baker has a different recipe for the same cookies, they are not the same, as each baker has a legal copyright to each recipe so they can't be manufactured by other companies without permission and compensation. TLDR: Thin Mints - there are 2 different versions, Caramel Delights are not Samoas, Peanut Butter Patties are not the same as Tagalongs, Peanut Butter Sandwiches are not Do Si Dos, and Shortbread / Trefoil are not all the same recipes!♥ 29source record 6447
No wonder I thought the recipe had gotten worse when I was older…it’s just the difference between growing up in SoCal and living in DC now.♥ 3source record 6448
Then you should know that Interbake is the parent company. I live close to the factory and know several employees that work there. I don’t just say things I’m not sure of.♥ 61source record 6449
I'm aware - yes, interbake is the parent company - and yes, their main location is in South Dakota. However, the cookie recipes are distinctive in that they legally can not be the exact same. That is the point I am trying to make. They can have similar ingredients and look similar. However, the measurements must be varied due to GSUSA having the legal rights to the specific recipies for production. I'm glad you know people who work for them, but unless you've taken the trainings that came directly from the company that markets said products - not just the parent company, please don't assume you have all the information. Please don't use chat gpt as a reference, as it can only collect publicly available information, not information that is private for employee access only. 😉 All this to say, yes, there are similar cookies on the market that can be purchased throughout the year. However, Girl Scout cookies are Unique, and the sale of them help girls learn important life skills and helps fund many important projects and events that girls participate in. I was a Girl Scout for 12 years, am a Gold Award recipient, and have been involved in 2 different councils. I have also been a staff member for my local council for over a year. Youth organizations are important, and I believe you should support them over big box stores. That's just my 2 cents. Have a great day!♥ 22source record 6450
It depends on the type of cookie and what they use as the binding agent. Also, how long theor baked. As with every company there is a bad batch every once in awhile. Thanks for asking!♥ 2source record 6453
Well you said they are all made in the same factory. That’s not correct. They are also made in Lou, Ky, So apparently you do say things you aren’t certain of♥ 7source record 6454
Also correct, very subtle differences but noticeable if trying side by side. I think the biggest difference is the samoas/caramel delights. One is milk chocolate and the other is dark chocolate.♥ 0source record 6458
Girl Scout mom here. Can confirm both comments. We use ABC bakers and k wish we didn’t. The cookies aren’t as good as the OGs. And the knock offs from Walmart taste the same.♥ 2source record 6460
Thank you I was going to comment this as well! The east coasts cookies are completely different from Midwest because they use different bakers♥ 2source record 6462
I worked for Girl Scouts…they offer maternity leave yet? Our council didn’t get a week of paid maternity leave. But preached women empowerment!♥ 1source record 6464
It's different for each council, but with mine we have a medical leave pto bank to use for maternity leave.♥ 1source record 6465
I was wondering about this because I thought they tased exactly the same!♥ 7source record 6467
I loved being in Girl Scouts. What I did not love was finding out that they make 800 MILLION per year… to pay for leadership training, scholarships, the properties, etc. So the kids are working to pay for everything.😳😳😳😳🚩🚩🚩WTAF♥ 4source record 6469
This! I used to work at DG and buy these cookies. Tastes exactly the same & half the price!♥ 4source record 6470
Girl Scout cookies are sold to raise money like a fundraiser for the troop, the girls use that money to give back to the community, so service projects and maybe even go to camp or learning experiences. Please don’t ruin it for the girls they work♥ 3source record 6471
I’m not ruining anything. Im not the one with the cookies.♥ 1source record 6472
Well you are spreading misinformation for one, Girl Scouts have 2 bakers not including the one you mentioned. Two you have 14k likes on your comment so yeah you are affecting their business by saying that. Three those companies that sell copy cat cookies don’t support your community like Girl Scouts.♥ 0source record 6473
I knew I wasn’t crazy. I’ve tried all the “thin mint dupes” and the clover valley tasted JUST like the GS ones. I’ve been telling people for years !♥ 2source record 6479
Omg I knew it! They have all the flavors and I told everyone they taste the exact same! I didn’t realize they were literally the exact same lol♥ 2source record 6480
As girl that worked in the HQ office in NYC…. They actually have two bakers and that’s why they’re named differently depending on which bakery they come from.♥ 2source record 6483
Omg which ones i need thin Mint dupe i can’t find nothing to help my fix when they not selling them 😭 Keebler taste nothing like it 😩♥ 0source record 6485
What is the name please? I am boycotting Oreo and would love to buy these♥ 1source record 6489
I worked for the company that bought Interbake and I can confirm this is true.♥ 1source record 6492
I work at DG and did not know this!!!♥ 1source record 6502
This is true I used to make GSC♥ 1source record 6521
been knew this,I still buy them from the baddies in training though♥ 1source record 6523
There’s actually 2 bakers that make them - thats why there’s different versions depending on ur area…but like, this info is on their website.♥ 1source record 6524
I am pretty good at tasting the difference in knock offs and I was always like, “wow! They taste exactly the same!” Now I know why!!!♥ 1source record 6525
[account] I didn’t know that!! My mom used to work at the Walmart in Sioux City. She would take me “across the bridge” to get a GOOD doughnut. Missing my Tinker Toys Castle 🥲 We lived in Decatur, NE. 💛♥ 1source record 6526
I knew it !! Love my lemon cookies from Dollar General satisfies my cravings all the time 🤭🤭♥ 1source record 6527
as a. ex DG employee, I can confirm this😂😂😂♥ 1source record 6530
they’re made by ABC and Little Brownies just depending on the region you live in :)♥ 1source record 6536
I KNEW IT!!!! I’ve been buying those for years and I always thought they taste exactly the same. My son constantly argues with me about it! 😂♥ 1source record 6537
Well that’s not entirely true. The cookies are made regionally. We have a bakery in DFW and there’s on in Covington area in Kentucky.♥ 0source record 6540
Aww, maybe I should edit it to say SOME are made there and the ABC Bakeries is a subsidiary of Interbake Foods. Sorry , folks… not every cookie is made at the same factory.♥ 0source record 6541
Crazy enough they also taste differently due to sourcing local ingredients. The ones I’m use to in DFW taste much better to me than the ones I had in Kentucky.♥ 1source record 6542
Yep. I buy Clover Valley’s version of Samoans and Thin Mints all the time. I knew they weren’t dupes. 💯👏♥ 1source record 6545
Brooo i been buying the dollar general thin mints and I JUST KNEWWEEEE♥ 1source record 6546
genuinely my favorite thing ever i will always betray my former girl scout sisters for one of those dollar tree boxes 🤤♥ 1source record 6547
Omg yessss I’ve had these and idk I think they’re actually even better.. probably cause they’re $1 😂♥ 1source record 6548
i did find this out i sae they looked alike and bought a box and it was identical. it was the coconut with choc kind♥ 1source record 6551
I KNEW IT! I discovered the dollar general ones a few years back and buy those year round occasionaly♥ 1source record 6553
ABC Bakers is a subsidiary of Interbake Foods and that IS true:)♥ 1source record 6557
its in North sioux city, SD. only a few miles away, but yes you are correct!♥ 1source record 6564
I got them after the discontinued the lemons a $1!!!♥ 1source record 6569
I used to buy them at the dollar store! They tasted the same!❤️♥ 1source record 6572
as a former truck driver in frozen and refrigerated foods i been telling people this about foods and other goods for years♥ 1source record 6574
Different bakeries make the cookies across the country. Virginia's are made by ABC Bakers and Little Brownie Bakers, depending on the council.♥ 1source record 6584
Very true but they are very close in taste but different in price.♥ 0source record 6586
I USED TO GO TO BRIAR CLIFF AND DROVE BY ALL THE TIME♥ 1source record 6587
I stg, I was right about them being the exact same for only a $1.75!!!!♥ 1source record 6592
[account] me right now where the cheap Samoa’s are girl! You can’t keep that to yourself! 😂😅♥ 1source record 6595
Ma’am, they are cheap and they are good and made at the same factory. Either buy them or don’t.♥ 0source record 6616
Not necessarily. I made gs for years here and they always change out some ingredients when if making a cheaper cookie. They’re owned by Keebler♥ 0source record 6621
Knock off samoa cookies are sold in Aldi and i honestly think they even taste better then Girl Scouts samoas♥ 1source record 6623
I’ve thinking for a while now that Clover Valley cookies look just like Girl Scout cookies. Thanks for the confirmation lol♥ 1source record 6625
I believe this because Dollar General had (maybe has) the chocolate ones with PB inside that tasted just as good as the Girl Scout version. I’ve known about that one for 2 decades now.♥ 1source record 6626
I knew those dollar tree cookies had to be similar!!!😂😂 I stopped buying girl scout cookies when I discovered they tasted the same for the better price♥ 1source record 6627
I KNEW IT! As a former Girl Scout I took one bite and knew it had the be the same exact recipe♥ 1source record 6634
Mannn...I've been telling ppl that the thin mint and peanut putter patties at DG, tastes JUST like Girl Scout Cookies! They'll look at me kind of crazy lol I knew it! Glad you confirmed it lol♥ 1source record 6637
It’s about the kids and how they learn life skills through girls scouts and funding. Pay the extra few dollars. It’s an amazing organization♥ 0source record 6639
This is true. One of my dad's ex-girlfriends used to work there. She would bring home boxes of "defect" cookies. Defect cookies would be the ones that broke during the process before packaging.♥ 0source record 6640
LOL! I was like “who is this just chiming in with sarcasm?!” Sorry, I have little faith in people now days and assumed you were being mean 😭♥ 1source record 6678
Bloomingdales sends majority of there clothes to marshalls and tj maxx♥ 7,114source record 11282
TJ Maxx/marshalls don’t have internal database of inventory either so sale stickers are swapped onto regular priced clothes constantly and nobody checks that. Red sticker first then yellow for final markdown. Also their “theft protection” never watches cameras ever. They just threatened us every meeting saying they were but they were literally on the floor working bc they’re so understaffed.♥ 158source record 11283
I think this may be only at the store you worked at because they definitely watch the cameras and they don’t work on the floor because they are a separate team so I’m m♥ 29source record 11284
Worked at multiple locations and they were commonly like this. They have revolving door staff bc there’s such a sh!t company to work for. Like genuinely the worst retail place I’ve worked at. Obviously this doesn’t apply to ALL.♥ 4source record 11285
We didn't even have LP in my market. Not a single LP person between two stores. We weren't ever watching cameras and couldn't apprehend anybody anyway if we were. We used our LP room for fixture storage 😂 district LP only came in to address associate dishonesty.♥ 5source record 11287
I believe you, I don’t know where you were but I’ve worked in multiple different states and they all had them. That’s pretty bad they never came in though 😬♥ 0source record 11288
What’s the store you worked at? Out of curiosity.. store number ? …♥ 0source record 11289
Oh man, is this my chance to narc? Store 0216 in Fort Wayne my guy, but I left years ago. I will tell you as a customer that the store looks like shit.♥ 1source record 11290
Out of curiosity what store did you see this take place? Might have to make a visit to shop… store number and manager name where they don’t check tickets is a good place to shop …♥ 2source record 11291
I was looking for a dress to wear to my mom's funeral in Macy's. The one I wanted cost too much. A fews mos later my aunt died. That dress I wanted out of Macy's...SAME EXACT DRESS in Burlington.♥ 29source record 11292
Burlington, Marshall's & Ross, yep same thngs you get at Macy's & Bloomingdale's although they are overstock and returns...I'll take it♥ 9source record 11294
This doctor tried to embarrass a woman on here about not getting her dress from Bloomingdales and said it was from Tj Maxx. So this tracks. lol♥ 8source record 11297
Lol jokes on them 😭 cause tjmaxx has some good merchandise especially if you go to the flagship stores.♥ 6source record 11298
*only the flagship stores. You walk into an average TJM in 2025 and it's just a much smaller, slightly less trashy version of JC Penney.♥ 0source record 11299
The more affluent and busier the area, the better merchandise that store gets. I remember the TJM on Mich Ave in Chicago being particularly stocked with loads of designer stuff. Went to a few in Seattle that were quite nice as well.♥ 1source record 11301
Just go on google and type in Marshalls flagship stores♥ 1source record 11302
They also take any returns no matter how long you purchased it as long as you have your receipt♥ 3source record 11304
Gets pushed to the "nicer" stores... most of the stuff you see at Marshall's nowadays is made FOR Marshall's in sweatshops.♥ 2source record 11306
Depends on your location. Bloomingdales isnt in every city or state♥ 2source record 11309
It goes to a tjmaxx warehouse where they divvy up the items, tags them and sends out to their stores.♥ 1source record 11310
Marshall's is a horrible company with an awful culture. That bloomies merch still gets pushed to the most affluent stores in the nicer cities, and your average Marshall's selling 90% clothes made FOR Marshall's at a sweatshop in Cambodia. Fuck Marshall's.♥ 1source record 11312
I worked there for 12 years. I was about to be a key carrier. I couldn’t do it anymore. I was barely making over $16. When they told me I was only getting $1 more for being a key carrier I quit. They hired someone new to the company and started them at $20/hr.♥ 1source record 11313
I drank allll the kool-aid.. started for a grand opening, key carrier within 18 mos, worked with decent ppl for 5 years, got promoted to ASM, moved to a store just so an unchecked GM in an ignored market could give me PTSD. Got pregnant, covid happened, and right when I came back from maternity leave, they switched all ASMS to hourly and fucked us all over. I went from working a productive 40 to being trapped 60hrs a week to maintain the compensation I'd been promised. Fuck TJX.♥ 1source record 11314
That company is a bunch of BS. The CEO makes well over a million a year $1.7M if I’m correct. They couldn’t even adjust my pay when minimum wage went up and they took yours.♥ 1source record 11315
I found a Burberry trench coat at TJ Maxx once and was shocked♥ 0source record 11319
Mmm nm nm 😋 does that corporate kool-aid taste good? I'll talk all the shit I want about that company. It sucks. If you don't think it sucks, you're most likely one of the reasons that it does.♥ 1source record 11322
Abigail , drop the tea on people who are still working at the stores you worked at and are stealing from that awful company …so we can all get a good laugh and congratulate those sticking it to that employer …. 👀 . ..♥ 0source record 11323
Nobody said anything about stealing? I never knew anyone who stole and got away with it while I worked there or dumb enough to try. One thing they did take seriously was employee dishonesty. Not sure how putting their livelihoods and backgrounds at risk would be "sticking it" to anybody.♥ 0source record 11324
They’re supposed to mark opened stuff out. Sadly people are trashy and it’s hard to keep up sometimes. They feel entitled to test everything they see.♥ 0source record 11326
Idk girl, I worked there for 8 years and experienced the switch and watched the quality of merch fall. I feel like I'm speaking from a place of experience.♥ 0source record 11333
Philippines here, Century Tuna is not a real tuna. It’s a freaking texurized vegetable protein! 🫠♥ 3,284source record 12218
Many appliances of different brands are actually the same machine with different shells and logos on them.♥ 3source record 12533
Ex retail worker: generic and name brand really are the same. MK, Marc Jacobs, Kate spade, dkny, Emporioarmani Armani, Armani Exchange, diesel, Burberry, Michele, adidas etc watches/accessories are made by Fossil Inc.♥ 2,226source record 12555
facts…I worked at corporate for a large grocery chain and handled the generic brands and a lot of the suppliers make the name brand and generic products in the same warehouse♥ 50source record 12557
And that list ☝🏻 doesn’t even touch HALF the watch brands Fossil makes. They make some of the highest quality Swiss movement watches…♥ 47source record 12558
That part! I was running out of characters bc that’s not even the full list of watches my store sold♥ 6source record 12559
I worked at fossil too years ago lol it always killed me when people would look down on Fossil but go for the more “name brands” I always loved telling people that info lol♥ 4source record 12560
My go to was “any brand that you see in store is manufactured by fossil whether you buy it from here or the brand store “ 😏♥ 1source record 12561
Hahahha right mine was something very similar 😅 and it was always 50/50 either they found they’re new found love and appreciation for fossil or they completely ignored me hahhahaha♥ 1source record 12562
They loved to ignore until they needed a repair but didn’t have a receipt♥ 1source record 12563
Yep use to work for MK they had fossil come in and give us a presentation back when they made smart watches for MK. I won one and it was a POS♥ 9source record 12566
I worked at watch station (fossil subsidiary) when the mk smart watch launched and we had so many returns.♥ 1source record 12567
This is correct I used to work for fossil♥ 7source record 12568
Yep! Worked at MK and used to tell the customers this 😭♥ 2source record 12569
I did too because people are so stuck on what store they buy from like it’s a different factory for each store/brand♥ 2source record 12570
as an Italian: loro piana, Gucci, Armani etc... are made in Italy by exploited illegal Chinese workers who are made to basically live in warehouses and the materials of everything are the same as fast fashion, the production process and expenses too. they brand just then sells them for 50x the price they paid♥ 3source record 12574
Where are most of these warehouses located? I mean the fossil ones♥ 0source record 12579
Lulu lemon and fabletics are made in the same factory and a pair of their leggings cost roughly $4-$6 total to be made♥ 25,748source record 12583
Wow so where can I buy the actual manufactured product without having to pay hundreds of dollars♥ 551source record 12584
I’ll tell you that I found a brand that is like lululemon but your cat hairs don’t get stuck to those & imo much better than$90 leggings. Pisses me off about how high they mark this shit up. The brand is The Balance collection by Marika♥ 791source record 12585
I have a lot of balance collection leggings and by far my all time favorite leggings!!!♥ 0source record 12586
Omg that makes sense, this is the only brand of leggings I will buy and I get them from Marshall’s!! Amazing quality and not see thru♥ 1source record 12587
I’m definitely checking that out because my black lululemon define jacket is ruined with cat hair 😩♥ 0source record 12589
What I want to know is where are all my people (all of you in the comments) going once TikTok leaves for the last time?😭 This app is my therapy for real.I love all the helpful info, the comedy,the drama. 😢 RIP TikTok♥ 0source record 12591
they’re still $65😭♥ 0source record 12593
That is my favorite brand!! Balance collection is soo hard to find now. Sometimes you can find them in Marshall’s, TJ Maxx, etc or online♥ 57source record 12599
You can get them at costco. Lululemon is sueing them right now because they are the same, but way cheaper. 😂♥ 1source record 12605
That’s wholesale pricing, lulu buys that in bulk to make huge profit markets. The textile industry as a whole would crumble if they were sold at wholesale price because we’ve been conditioned to pay 150$ for something that was made for 9 dollars♥ 40source record 12608
I have a manufacturer/vendor. Let me know if to want to get it♥ 1source record 12609
DHgate is an app where you can buy this stuff straight from factories. Like you can buy real Nike shoes straight from the factory for like 30 dollars or less♥ 0source record 12610
Lilemon is suing Costco for selling their same products at 1/10 of the price.♥ 0source record 12616
Go onto AliExpress. Everything is from China and in the same factories. They have amazing dupes just read reviews!♥ 98source record 12620
Honestly haven’t noticed a difference in price. Even with them it’s cheaper than buying it with the “brand name” on it.♥ 1source record 12622
They are still applying them 😡, I love Fabletics but the tariffs are making it hard.♥ 0source record 12624
Apparently lululemon is suing Costco for ripping off their products.♥ 0source record 12626
aliexpress has some search 'lulu women' and its identical including labels♥ 40source record 12636
AliExpress- I have several pairs and they’re exactly the same.♥ 67source record 12637
I bought “lulu” leggings from there in my lulu size and I couldn’t get them past my thighs 😂 bought biker shorts too but those fit so still a win!♥ 1source record 12640
I’ve tried so many - glowmode brand from shein is the absolute best. It’s basically lulu without the logo♥ 0source record 12641
The members mark leggings at Sam’s are the exact same material as lulu align- for $15♥ 5source record 12642
Except you dont need a new email. 🫣 i cancel mine every order and use the same email every time to become a new member and get 80% off. When they offer money to keep the account active, say yes. Then cancel anyways in a new chat after. The money stays in your account and you can use it for your next order, same account, 80% off. 👏♥ 3source record 12643
If you process the clothes and unbox them you can track the labels from the manufacturer. Search it online and find a supplier to order directly. Worked at tjmaxx and did this. They upsell everything 2-3x the price especially purses and “luxury” clothing.♥ 3source record 12645
Fabletics quality went to shit compared to what it used to be 💔♥ 0source record 12650
The Chinese TikTok trend exposing all of the big brand secrets was a total game changer for me!!♥ 0source record 12651
lulu lemon and fabletics leggings cost less to produce than a 3 wick candle from Bath and Body Works.♥ 0source record 12652
Me even more upset that I keep forgetting to skip a month with my membership w fabletics♥ 0source record 12653
And the Kirkland brand at Costco are the same thing and they are 8$♥ 0source record 12654
Yeah $140 is crazy aye just for the label♥ 0source record 12656
I hated DELULULEMON before so thank you for affirming it even more!!♥ 0source record 12657
the lululemon founder named it that because he’s racist so that’s another reason to get fabletics or another brand instead♥ 0source record 12664
And ascis because the material feels the same I checked it♥ 0source record 12665
That’s what I saw.Its being bought again or changed to M for Meta. Supposedly this September 😢♥ 0source record 12667
As a former lulu employee I can attest♥ 0source record 12668
I just got some CRZ yoga stuff and I am 95% certain it’s also made in the same factory♥ 0source record 12669
[account] Alo yoga same it’s all branding and not actually sports clothing quality♥ 0source record 12671
old navy's active wear is also made in same factory as Lululemon♥ 0source record 12672
Reason why I’m about to cancel my fabletics membership… $59.95/month and still being charged $13+…they are literally receiving $700+/yr…I could purchase nice scrubs for the low somewhere else♥ 0source record 12673
I find my $80-90 fabletics leggings at Ross for $10!! I have 3 pairs from there♥ 0source record 12674
I fu**ing knew it. fabletics fabric is so good and feels the same♥ 0source record 12678
Ha wow that’s why I wasn’t into the hype of them. A lot of designer things too are cheaply made.♥ 0source record 12679
You’re basically paying for the brand. Branding is extremely important♥ 0source record 12680
I saw recently lulu lemon was suing Costco for making products from the exact same materials and selling them for $8. Their reason was that it basically made them look like assholes 😂♥ 0source record 12690
Laika cheesecake is owned by a Russian lady that hired a Ukrainian lady to do all the recipes, creatives, and labor. 😭♥ 1source record 13459
I signed an NDA so no names, but I used to work for a meat company mainly known for selling pork. They have the humane, bio and green sticker, but uses a lot of farms that didn't meet the basic "requirements" to get the same and they sold the meat under their name because going bio is extremely costly and no company actually wants to "waste" that much money. Basically, the meet industry is a major scam because as long as the buyers are not "aware" they remain legally safe.♥ 0source record 14193
Lighting stores will sell you a ceiling fan for $350 when in reality it’s probably only worth $60♥ 0source record 14198
MAC gives their employees 60% off and is owned by este lauder who is owned by L’oréal…alor of these products are the same with diff packaging and manufactured by same company♥ 168source record 14732
also none of those companies are cruelty free unfortunately♥ 1source record 14733
exactly, and it’s why i chose to just buy the cheapest option at this point, as long as it works for me 🤷🏻‍♀️more expensive never doesn’t always mean better♥ 12source record 14737
I’ve noticed this with several companies lol. I thought there was like a shampoo version of this or something like one large company selling basically the same shampoos with different packaging lol♥ 6source record 14738
Forever 21 clothes came from sweat shops in china and some of the clothes came with blood on them 😔♥ 162source record 14790

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How commenters applied it: 262 records. Asset protection staff answer both halves. On seeing: cameras are far better than customers assume, can be moved and zoomed, and several describe apparel and electronics as the most covered departments — while another says a large share of visible domes are dummies and that coverage is well under half the floor. On stopping you: employees say ordinary staff are told not to detain anyone or compel a receipt check at a non-membership store, that loss prevention calls police rather than chasing, and one describes being trained to report suspicion rather than intervene. The widely repeated claim that stores let theft accumulate to a felony threshold is asserted by several former staff and denied by others at the same chains. A separate strand — that most shrink is internal — is argued in both directions by former asset protection workers.

What readers reported: Regular Walmart employees can’t stop you. Asset Protection can stop you. A manager can stop you. If you decide not to stop, they call the police if they are 100% sure you shoplifted. They have cameras that can move in most stores and can see everything you do.

Limit: Store policy, camera coverage and what staff may do differ by chain, branch and jurisdiction, and the workers here contradict each other repeatedly. One record in this card describes making an injury claim in order to extract a settlement; it is reported, not endorsed.

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Not true my mom broke her shoulder there and nothinggggg not then medical bills paid

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Nope! If you steal and they catch you, that’s it! And they also cross reference with other stores as well. Sometimes if someone’s going store to store then they’ll put a case together like that but most of the time it’s one and done.

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no it’s not true walmart nor target track you until you hit a certain amount

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Disagree. My daughter is a store manager and my DIL is an assistant store manager. The amount of customer theft is unbelievable. The stories!!!! One guy... 270 bottles of wine. 2 a day.

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Omg one time I went to grab a rolling suitcase and when I grabbed it. The sensor was broken so the needle part was exposed. It stuck me through my nail. Hurt like a bit*ch and they just gave me a baidaid (this was Marshall's)

Reported failure♥ 1

This is true. My late aunt got hurt in a Walmart by some sort of protruding, broken shelf. She sued. Got $5000.

Reported failure

Wish I knew this when I cut my finger on a broken candle in the store, they made me do a claim inside the store said it was my only option

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Everyone stole from Charlotte Russe and no one cared or took it seriously and it shocked me to my core. I quit so fast

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Yep this is true i got 2k for an employee slamming a shopping cart on my ankle

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Was the only reason I stayed in retail for 5 yrs, even security couldn’t work out how we were doing it, they even sent the head of security, in the end they joined in😆 I miss footlocker

posted about 51 days after the source

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Across 262 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Attach it to an existing routine” (8 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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20asks a question
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These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

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Attach it to an existing routine 8Swap instead of subtract 3

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

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Most of the theft that happens at Walmart is by the associates.♥ 6,736source record 7485
LOL, I do not steal either. I'm just saying what I knew back then. I'm employed. and no one accused you of anything.♥ 190source record 7486
Girl speak your truth don’t worry about her you just struck a nerve that’s not your fault 😭 I go to Walmart all the time and with all the security measures they have it’s impossible to steal I be getting checked for absolutely no reason even though I have never stole a day in my life the only way to steal is if you work there 😭 (atleast the Walmarts I’ve been to)♥ 86source record 7487
you must live in a highly populated area then because the Walmarts I've "been" to have like a camera for every other aisle and there's so many blind spots it's crazy♥ 3source record 7490
That’s just a you’re Walmart thing bcs I go to multiple Walmarts depending on where I am living at the time and the one at my school can probably be considered highly populated but the one that’s between my university and my house is in the middle of nowhere where and is still highly secure obviously it won’t be as secured like one that’s in the middle of a college area but you still won’t be able to easily steal either way I personally don’t really care cause I never had a reason to steal anything but it’s really dangerous being racially profiled even if you’re innocent bcs you’re still treated like a criminal so that’s what me and the other person was saying♥ 1source record 7491
yeah I get what you mean that must suck really, I'm like 30 minutes away from two different Walmarts and they have little to no security but I guess it's because they just dont care and there's also not a lot of black people around so they can't really racially profile here♥ 0source record 7492
I’m sorry but everyone I’ve ever met that works at Wally World talks about how they’ve stolen 😭😭♥ 34source record 7494
I’ve never stolen but one of my team leads has it out for me( for literally no reason) so if she is there I can’t get away with shit. She’s just mad that everyone likes me and not her😭♥ 2source record 7498
Very.. if I could yell at her like she does me, I would lose my job in a heartbeat.♥ 1source record 7504
I didn’t mean to send that I wasn’t done😂 but that’s so not fair. I hate how bosses are allowed to yell at employees and not get any type of repercussions.. that’s def not right, and I’m guessing you’ve tried talking to someone else about it yet nothing got done?♥ 0source record 7505
Usually run return scams while working the customer service desk (pretend to take a return that doesn't exist and take the cash) or by loading gift cards and not putting cash in the drawer. I had someone at another retailer steal thousands via the return scam before we caught them. It was an electronics store. Or they pretend to ring people up and give them merch for free.♥ 0source record 7507
How is it generalizing when I said the people I met? I’m speaking from personal experience. How about you don’t assume something that doesn’t involve you?♥ 0source record 7512
That’s target. I promise, our building does not care about the customers stealing. That’s the weird part!!♥ 9source record 7517
I tried to steal like 5 food items oranges, cheese, garlic butter, bread, and underwear for my SON and still got busted 😭🤣♥ 0source record 7518
Also my engine just got replaced. 2015 Sorento, burning 🔥 oil♥ 0source record 7519
It’s hard to catch a customer because you can easily get sued if you are wrong but an employee is actually easier to catch cause they always get greedy!♥ 3source record 7523
Yes Rhys true for most retail stores. They don’t stop you the first time-they let you dig a hole.♥ 5source record 7525
I used to do admin work for one that’s how I know.♥ 2source record 7527
Honestly kind of cool of them, letting ppl enjoy a bit of instant satisfaction before ruining it 😅 but also that’s how they get you bad 😭♥ 2source record 7528
I work for their sister company. Our customers steal. And if you complain. Our store wants to make it right. GC♥ 1source record 7530
Very true i used to work there and ….yeah😭😭♥ 4source record 7532
Employee theft actually lowkey be tanking all sorts of places, they just don’t admit it. Especially food places. 😉♥ 3source record 7534
Lmaooo facts. I worked there for 2-3 years , free lunch & refreshments for all♥ 3source record 7535
As a former employee I can confirm this♥ 4source record 7537
This makes it even funnier that they lock up certain items and give the associates the keys 🤣♥ 2source record 7538
Can confirm this lmao. I wouldn’t say most, but def at least 50%. My co workers used to just walk out with shit all of the time 😭 they never got caught too which is the weird thing♥ 2source record 7543
If Walmart paid their employees better, their employees wouldn’t steal.♥ 1source record 7545
I used to work for them. It's true 😂♥ 1source record 7546
I knew Walmart workers who deliberately told me to steal things. I didn’t but I live in a nice area so it’s gotta happen in other areas.♥ 1source record 7548
I thought Walmart catches people before they even walk out♥ 0source record 7549
Depends on how much.. if it’s prob over 50-100 they’ll call pd cause they can’t chase you out the store so pd waits for u to walk out. If it’s couple $ here and there they’ll keep a record until u reach $500 then pd come to your house and arrest you.♥ 1source record 7550
I used to for a company that spied on Walmart employees for Walmart♥ 1source record 7551
yup especially the ones that work in the back with stocking overnight unloading the trucks. I worked at a Walmart for 3 yrs in college.♥ 2source record 7552
Yes! I worked overnight for about a year and one night they fired over half of the receiving crew because they were stealing stuff off the truck.♥ 1source record 7553
Most of the theft that happens at Walmart is by the Walton family and their stakeholders. Wage theft is theft.♥ 0source record 7559
This just reminded me of when I worked at Dillons and a fellow employee got suspended for stealing a whole rotisserie chicken🥲 Just suspended for a week tho♥ 0source record 7560
Doesn't surprise me at all. The amount of times I have found stashed seasonal or clearance items. I know it's the employees either waiting for the end of their shift or payday.♥ 0source record 7561
yup, I can confirm, I've worked at walmart♥ 0source record 7562
Use to work at Walmart on overnights. Each time a particular maintenance worker took trash outside the door in the trash cart alarms went off. Turns out he was stealing electronics from the cage in the backroom♥ 0source record 7564
Smh I was a nurse during Covid making 10k a week and lost prevention tried to say I put something in my bag I was heated .. wish I made a bigger deal of it♥ 0source record 7568
I knew that when I saw items on my receipt I didn’t have in my cart. That pushed me to only do pick ups and order online.♥ 0source record 7571
As a former APA and APC, this isn’t actually true. There is a lot of employee theft, but it definitely doesn’t outweigh external theft.♥ 0source record 7573
As a former employee of Walmart, this is soooo true ( & no I am not one of those who steal ) but I have witnessed coworkers wanting me to “cover” for them for stealing out the back room 🫠😳♥ 0source record 7580
Disagree. My daughter is a store manager and my DIL is an assistant store manager. The amount of customer theft is unbelievable. The stories!!!! One guy... 270 bottles of wine. 2 a day.♥ 0source record 7581
I was told by an associate that employee theft is the reason for the self checkouts with cameras and the other security measures♥ 0source record 7584
Oh trust me. When I worked there, I stole so many notebooks that I still use for my college classes. Not those $0.99 either. I stole those that cost about $10-$15. Those with quality. I gave so many away to my cousins, nieces and nephews♥ 0source record 7585
working at walmart in the past, this is TRUE!!! so many ppl got fired for stealing ….♥ 0source record 7587
oh it's universal. i just got hired for assets protection for another store and even though i haven't actually started yet, i can already tell you it is so common for employees to steal and they think they're so slick doing it 😭😭 that is legit a one way ticket to getting immediately fired♥ 0source record 7589
learnt this after I left 😂 I never stole, I just loved finding clearance and couponing. This was when Walmart gave cash back 😊. Started before self checkout and left after♥ 0source record 7592
FYI, I never stole and I understand most Walmart associates do not steal as well...♥ 0source record 7593
I get it. When I worked there they were much harder on theft. Now it's a slap on the wrist.♥ 0source record 7594
Everyone. This one lady has worked at every Walmart in the country and can attest that she is employed and NEVER saw an associate steal😂♥ 0source record 7596
My husband used to work as a night shift stocker and he said it was the managers who were stealing since no was there to witness and day shift didn’t care…mind you this was in a town of only 8k…so workers were hard to come by 😂♥ 0source record 7597
She said most anyway, where did she tag u and why are u so offended lmao? We don’t know u girl, relax. Just bc YOU don’t steal from them doesn’t mean MOST employees don’t.♥ 0source record 7599
An employee helped me scan Walmart for sooooo much money, we all went to jail lmao. I believe her .♥ 0source record 7600
Idk about how it is now but when I was 16, that was my first job & a lot of the other teens that worked there would steal sooo much stuff that came off the trucks in the back. They never got caught either.♥ 0source record 7607
As a former Walmart employee, I can agree♥ 0source record 7609
I came across some many videos on YouTube and I never realized how many customers steal out of Walmart. I know the loss prevention people are tired 😭😭😭♥ 0source record 7613
Not every Walmart is the same . My store manager was stealing lay aways . My front end manager use to have her daughter come in steal and she would tell her who was walking the floor that day 😂😂😂♥ 0source record 7614
When I worked at Walmart electronics dept like 6 of my coworkers were jointly stealing ipads and ipods. We then had to do extra inventory on them but they stole probably a good 50k worth of apple products and never got fired♥ 0source record 7618
When you break down types of losses, internal (employees) are almost as high as external(customers), third type is data errors. So I think you are saying internal theft is still a high contributor to loss♥ 0source record 7621
I worked at the largest (at the time) warehouse and the associates would steal anything they could get their hands on♥ 0source record 7622
If you work for them are you on welfare like the majority of Walmart associates? Or are you a corporate worker lmao♥ 2source record 7625
FAACCTTSSS!! Been there years ago and SEEN it! ESP. During “Black Fridays” smfh mostly by the stock workers, my experience at least.♥ 1source record 7626
You should they don’t care about you♥ 1source record 7628
No it’s not. They lie about that bull. I’ve seen multiple people steal when I worked at dg and haven’t seen one employee steal. They just don’t care♥ 0source record 7632
True my brother worked there and stole 3k worth of stuff♥ 0source record 7636
Walmart deserved it for exploiting labor and creating poverty while taking tax payer $ to do it.♥ 0source record 7638
Good! They treat them terribly and don’t pay them enough♥ 0source record 7641
This is true. I’m lived in a small town that had a Wal-mart. The employees offloading the trucks were taking so much inventory. There was constantly new employees then they would catch them and fire them. No one else could or would work so they shut down the only good big box store.♥ 0source record 7642
Back in the 90s when I worked there they had to women at the service desk who stole thousands. They waited until it was enough to build a criminal case. I was too scared to steal a pen.♥ 0source record 7644
If you “get hurt” at Walmart as a customer and make a claim in the store, threaten to sue, most of the time the company will pay you 5-10 grand to avoid going to court if it was a minor occurrence.♥ 6,749source record 8576
Yep this is true i got 2k for an employee slamming a shopping cart on my ankle♥ 0source record 8577
thats not enough. make it 60k♥ 0source record 8580
Why would you say this? You're encouraging fake claims. For those that have or are considering, don't be that person. That's so terrible and shameful.♥ 0source record 8581
Not true my mom broke her shoulder there and nothinggggg not then medical bills paid♥ 1source record 8583
It true, I got hurt from a raised flow that had Orange tap marked on part of it but my boot got caught. 2 years later the floor still isn’t fixed and the tape still looks the same.♥ 0source record 8584
Like if there’s water on the floor with no caution sign you could sue♥ 0source record 8586
This happened to a friend of mine, but they only paid her $1000♥ 0source record 8587
this happened to someone in my family at a local mall and we got millions out of the mall the store and the insurance company♥ 0source record 8590
But they will pay up to $20k if you file the suit to settle so they aren’t sued 😏♥ 1source record 8591
This is true a friend of mine. Her son fell through target’s carriage, and they paid her 8000 under the table.♥ 0source record 8593
Could have used this info 20 years ago when a magnet popped off the side of a cashier and hit me in the eye.♥ 0source record 8596
Yup I got $4K out of Walmart because an employee pulled a pallet jack in my way by accident and I stubbed my toe.♥ 0source record 8599
This is true. My late aunt got hurt in a Walmart by some sort of protruding, broken shelf. She sued. Got $5000.♥ 0source record 8601
Wish I knew this when I cut my finger on a broken candle in the store, they made me do a claim inside the store said it was my only option♥ 0source record 8602
catch me on the news with our $3.4 mil next week, em😡😤♥ 2source record 8603
this is not true. my mom got injured at a Walmart and they drug out a whole court case for years and had the most intense lawyers♥ 0source record 8607
Lies I worked in claims investigations lol they have hundreds of lawyers they’ll get you♥ 0source record 8608
Pls give an example on how i could do this i have dental surgery coming up real soon♥ 0source record 8609
They paid my mom like 30k♥ 2source record 8615
Had a bottle slip through the bars on the top basket of the cart and landed on my toe… who knew.♥ 0source record 8616
I was a MAPM. I would know as well. If your store didn’t have cameras in apparel than there’s a massive problem. It’s AP policy and outline to have apparel and electronics 100% covered.♥ 4source record 8620
lol. I promise you the apparel area is 100% covered in cameras.♥ 1source record 8621
Apparel is actually the area that usually has the most camera coverage. Number 1 stolen items.♥ 1source record 8622
my wife slipped at a Piggly Wiggly when pregnant with our son, this is correct.♥ 0source record 8623
and decline the first offer unless it's over that 5k and your satisfied♥ 4source record 8625
I got an attempted robbery at walmart, no cameras on that aisle. I got ignored by employees, i called 9-1-1 and they got him outside with a big knife. This happened in 2023. Can I sue? I was terrified to shop alone for a while because of it.♥ 0source record 8626
I cut my the top of my toe at Walmart and it was bleeding so bad and wouldn’t stop. I told a worker and she looked me DEAD IN THE FACE and said, “there’s bandaids on aisle g10” me:😮♥ 0source record 8628
This is true I was a manger at Walmart for 5 years !♥ 1source record 8629
The amount of times I’ve had to jump out of the way of a Walmart pick up order shopper cart.♥ 0source record 8630
Wish I knew this when I fell w my kid in my arms cause it was raining and the mats weren’t down♥ 0source record 8631
I broke my leg when I was three at Walmart because a gun case was off-balance and fell on me. My parents were dumb and signed papers saying they wouldn’t sue.♥ 0source record 8632
File an incident report and demand that they submit it to their carrier.♥ 5source record 8636
Because they make asset protection find any possible way to make it look like it was your fault. Also. Most stores hate doing accidents cause it affects the managers bonuses. Every accident causes the store to lose 50grand immediately.♥ 1source record 8637
Dang my husband is a PI attorney that could hold some weight lol just kidding. Idk my first thought when anything happens to me is not to sue♥ 0source record 8639
Idk my grandpa fell in the produce isle and they didn’t even want me to call 911 they gave him spill pads to clean his blood from his face (he cut open his cheek) they sent him $2k for the incident attorneys in our town didn’t even want to touch the case so he settled for the 2k. It was mind blowing♥ 5source record 8640
Ah, so this is why when I was 6 and burnt my fingerprints off on the rotisserie heater 4 employees rushed with ice to cool off my hands with urgency.♥ 0source record 8645
You’d be surprised how much of a store is not covered by cameras. An average store only about 35-45% of the total store covered by camera footage.♥ 24source record 8648
🤣🤣🤣 there are cameras everywhere else.. just not in apparel/fashion towards the middle and at the fitting room.♥ 19source record 8649
Man I'm so embarrassed if I trip and fall at a store, I get my ass up so quick and make sure nobody saw me. 😂😭♥ 3source record 8651
the clothing departments dont have cameras, make sure youre near the fitting room if you do this lol♥ 98source record 8652
One time I was looking at the dumbbells and one fell off the rack above me. Landed right next to me, so accidents I guess lol shit would’ve clocked me right in the head 😭♥ 24source record 8653
I used to be loss prevention. The number two thing we deal with besides stealing is people getting hurt and deal with the accident claims.♥ 67source record 8654
Omg one time I went to grab a rolling suitcase and when I grabbed it. The sensor was broken so the needle part was exposed. It stuck me through my nail. Hurt like a bit*ch and they just gave me a baidaid (this was Marshall's)♥ 1source record 8655
I stepped on a nail in Walmart and wrote a report the deleted it and never gave me a copy♥ 1source record 8656
I lotterlt had an employee drop a box on my head at Walmart😭 I was just tryna grab something from the bottom shelf and they where stocking shelf and it fell on me lol. (No I wasn’t underneath the person I was on the side and they started stocking right next to me)♥ 0source record 8657
Target cameras see everything you’re doing. They wait until you’ve stolen enough merchandise for it to be a felony before they prosecute you. Also don’t donate money to nonprofits.♥ 3,175source record 10364
Yup them and Walmart use military-grade surveillance including facial recognition. If they tell you you're banned from all locations, believe they'll spot you anywhere♥ 239source record 10365
how do they spot you though? do they send your picture out to everyone orrr? (i’ve never been banned or stolen, im just curious)♥ 1source record 10366
does it have like an automatic face recognition though? because if it’s just a kept image, i doubt they would actually work in banning people. i know some people who have been banned by targets and still go to the same target they were at regularly♥ 2source record 10368
It uses an algorithm to recognize you, it's not a human user. If your friend just shops there and isn't still stealing (or it was less than a felony amount that one time), AP probably ain't trippin bc they prioritize felony theft and organized rings. If they are, Target's waiting until they hit your state statute for grand theft so they can send them to prison♥ 0source record 10369
I was caught shoplifting in Walmart back in 2009. Long story short, my paperwork stated that I was banned from that particular Walmart for life. I didn't go there for a few years due to that & I moved. Moved back out that way & went into Walmart and have been for 8 years. So in my experience, it seems to not be true. However, in 2009 things weren't as digital as they are today so who knows if it's actually true nowadays.♥ 1source record 10371
Shoot not my walmart, the cart employee hit my car amd busted my tail light, i filed a report and the MF camera footage they showed me looked like i was back in 1998 watching americas most wanted.♥ 1source record 10375
Some guy knocked the mirror off of my brand new (to me, actually 10 year old) Mercedes and the cameras caught it but apparently didnt see his plates?! like 😭♥ 0source record 10376
They definitely can. They watch the screens like hawks♥ 5source record 10379
Damn. I’ve definitely forgot a lip liner in my cart probably three times and some sodas in the bottom. And I think a birthday card one time! You think I’m safe??😅♥ 98source record 10382
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 just trying to make sure the record stays clear!! 😂☠️♥ 0source record 10384
Every time I go in target I’m always wondering if they got a file on me 🤣🤣 I swear I’ve accidentally walked out with the smallest item left in my cart a few times.♥ 45source record 10385
Hey i went back to walmart to pay a dollar canned food for my cat. I was scared im going to jail hahaha. I didnt see it in my cart♥ 1source record 10388
Yes, this is once it gets to like $1k or felony level.♥ 0source record 10390
Then they have def watched me walk back and forth about 10 times bc I keep forgetting stuff and my ADD kicks in and I just end up walking around trying to remember what I am forgetting🤣♥ 21source record 10394
Girl corporations and billionaires steal from us everyday. Ain’t nothing wrong with forgetting to scab some things.♥ 9source record 10398
I was an Asset Protection Specialist for Target and this is so true. The store cameras were crystal clear and we were able to move them all around and follow people.♥ 8source record 10399
Sephoras cameras are cleaaar!! I used to work with the LP a lot 😂♥ 5source record 10405
MORE ON THAT: For every camera you see, there's about 20-30 you don't see. If they're building a file on you, they have pictures of you from every angle and height level you can think of.♥ 7source record 10407
Small nonprofits. Grass roots organizations. Clothing/supplies/donate your time.♥ 7source record 10411
I can't tell you exactly bc my background is in security, but not specifically in retail security, but there's more than likely discreet camera systems embedded in and on top of the shelves so that they can take a clear picture of you the second you stole the item(s) in question♥ 3source record 10412
i feel this is false only bc someone from hs used to be in our friend group and got caught stealing chips, he went to court and all and was banned from there♥ 2source record 10414
I worked there for 3 years. It’s true.♥ 1source record 10415
I got caught stealing from Walmart and they showed me the cameras since they took me to the back to talk to me and they can zoom in to what your texting on your phone and price tags, I ab shi my pants. I have not stolen since 🫡♥ 1source record 10418
i saw someone say that big stores like that don’t press charges unless you’ve stolen for than a certain amount so they can say grand theft 😭♥ 1source record 10419
I’m a merchandiser and accidentally barged into the loss prevention room at Target. I thought I had walked into a CIA operation. No joke.♥ 1source record 10420
If people steal something from Dillard’s, they can’t do anything about it until you actually walk out the door, at least how this is how it was years ago. We used to have a guy who would regularly try to steal things. He would literally walk around with like 10 ball caps on, and they couldn’t say anything until he left😂♥ 1source record 10421
Nope! If you steal and they catch you, that’s it! And they also cross reference with other stores as well. Sometimes if someone’s going store to store then they’ll put a case together like that but most of the time it’s one and done.♥ 1source record 10422
this is most places, I can attest this lol as a person that works for a police station 🤷🏾‍♀️♥ 1source record 10423
I have a non profit! We really help kids👋🏾 not all are bad. I do think the bigger ones are so rich and the smaller ones struggle♥ 1source record 10426
About 15% of the black “cameras” in the ceiling are real. All plastic fake cameras, they only have real ones in the heavy thefted areas.♥ 0source record 10431
So they seen me trick my older brother into thinking my lipstick was chapstick and he was raging when he found out he had dark red lipstick on?….♥ 0source record 10432
unfair to say about nonprofits. I run one and I'll tell you that the big nonprofits are full of 💩. ymca, boys and girls club, etc. us little guys get absolutely no support from our local government offices and whenever there are grant opportunities, they give it to the same organizations that already have millions. they give us less than $1000. then, tell us "try again next time"♥ 0source record 10434
No because ive stolen at LEAST 1000 dollars worth of stuff at this one big shop☹️♥ 0source record 10437
Some non-profits, some, use it to continue programs moving forward. I’ve seen the grants and budgets.♥ 0source record 10441
The Snack Sack is also another mutual aid fund that you can find on Facebook.♥ 0source record 10445
I would donate to mutual aid. It actually goes to people in need. A great one, [account] , is run by [account] consider donating there.♥ 3source record 10450
My case got dismissed but, YES THEY WILL GET YO ASS 😭 I done got caught up LOL but I won my case and got all the charges dismissed♥ 3source record 10454
I'm good I only steal a candy bar to eat while I'm shopping every once In a while♥ 2source record 10455
Only place I’ve ever gotten caught thank god my state pardoned me because I wasn’t taking my meds😭✋🏽♥ 2source record 10456
Well, I guess I didn’t take enough 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I guess 11 years wasn’t enough for them♥ 1source record 10457
You should go back 😂😂😂 jk girlie steer clear♥ 0source record 10458
I stole makeup (under $100) from target when I was 18. They sent me to jail 😭♥ 1source record 10459
We ain’t gotta too much worry about them since their stores are now pretty much empty!😏♥ 1source record 10460
Back when I worked at Target, they never counted the cash drawers. Two girls ended up stealing $20,000—and all that happened was they got fired. But hey maybe they got smarter!♥ 1source record 10461
Winco is employee owned so if you get caught stealing you’re banned for 99 years.♥ 2,872source record 12161
They don’t take credit cards or checks because any chargebacks affect the employees. Everyone who works their receives stock in the company alongside their pay and benefits♥ 111source record 12163
They have to pay the credit card card companies 3-5% of what you charge!♥ 1source record 12166
I was told it’s because they’re prices are already so low they don’t allow CC’s because they’re pay for processing & their prices would have to go up!♥ 89source record 12167
My friend got caught stealing 10 years ago, they took picture of her for the books and she works there. Idk how this is true lol♥ 9source record 12169
At the one I worked at they would print the thieves photo and put it up on the wall 😭♥ 5source record 12170
worked for Yelp… they truly care about small business owners & HATE Google (I mean f’kin hate)♥ 3source record 12171
Wrong my friend got caught stealing and like a year later she was allowed back they told her♥ 2source record 12172
Just because they let her slide doesn’t mean it’s not their policy. Google it.♥ 3source record 12173
I legit never said it wasn’t in their policy. All I said was that you are wrong because that’s not what always happens?😭 so that’s not the legit truth if they still allow it and still proceed to allow them to come back within a year. Like♥ 2source record 12174
So you’re proving that I’m not wrong 🤣 just because the rules aren’t enforced doesn’t mean it’s not the rules. Also who tf is actually keeping an eye on every single person who walks in♥ 2source record 12175
No, that was legit MY POINT girlll you are contradicting yourself😭All I did was make a counter claim to what your statement is because although that’s in their policy that is in fact, not true and not an actual thing because they don’t follow that. Clock it right if you’re gonna♥ 0source record 12176
Just because people don’t follow the rules doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Where is your critical thinking skills GIRL?? You also think because your ONE friend was allowed in after a year that none of the hundreds of stores do the same?? Please use your brain.♥ 1source record 12177
whole foods used to give employees stock options even if you weren't in a supervisory or managerial position. everyone was eligible, then they sold to Amazon and it went to shit.♥ 1source record 12178
Not true I was caught stealing at Winco kid you not. I only had to pay a $50 fine♥ 0source record 12179
If you genuinely think 1 incident of it not happening means that the policy doesn’t exist company wide I’m worried about you.♥ 0source record 12180
Everyone stole from Charlotte Russe and no one cared or took it seriously and it shocked me to my core. I quit so fast♥ 6,953source record 12505
It’s not your dad’s shop and you’re not economically affected if people do steal so why are you so bothered by it? Like why do you even care♥ 1source record 12506
I worked there & they bagged checked every night and seemed to take stealing pretty srsly 😭😭😭 ppl would still steal regardless but they would call mall security every time♥ 0source record 12508
I worked at pacsun and the manager would literally change into clothes in store and just leave with them at the end of the shift lol like every time♥ 0source record 12510
lol i remember everytime i went there trying to find a paxk of earrings without half of them missing was impossible♥ 0source record 12512
They cared at my store and investigated everyone turns out the assistant manager had been stealing♥ 0source record 12513
I was an assistant manager at CR for 10 years and absolutely NO ONE did that at my store. That’s so ridiculous.♥ 1source record 12515
I worked at DQs in trinidad and employees were stealing and they didn't do anything at all but I got fired for complaining about other staff that were mistreating me 😭🤣I'll never recommend anybody to work there ever♥ 0source record 12516
That’s so interesting to me. Like I get why companies do it differently but if you have the technology to do it daily I feel like that would be best to help with stealing♥ 2source record 12519
Former retail manager for 12 years at lotssss of dif stores. I’ve worked at some stores that did inventory 1-2 times a year and others where I had to do it DAILY. The technology is INSANE. The store I did it daily at- I scanned everything in the store & in backstock all throughout the day to keep inventory accurate. When people would come in & steal, I could go right to the computer & see how much $ worth of merch they stole & report it to PD, etc. A company would still come in once to twice a year and do our inventory.♥ 4source record 12520
Walmart employees are told that we’re not allowed to stop people and force them to show their receipts. It’s considered an invasion of privacy.♥ 757source record 12945
As a former Walmart worker… can confirm♥ 66source record 12946
I had someone try this with me with a police officer standing right next to them and I told them k don’t need to show my receipt since I paid for MY ITEMS AND THEY BELONG TO ME! I walked normally out without showing and nothing happened…they legally cannot ask for a receipt because there is no contract that I signed stating that I would be doing that action to shop there!♥ 39source record 12948
It is true , walmart can not legally stop you from leaving if you dont show your receipt, now id it was cosco or bjs where you need a membership it’s different♥ 30source record 12950
I always stop to let them check my receipt because it’s always very old people doing that job so I feel so bad for them and I don’t want to make their lives more difficult 😭😭♥ 17source record 12951
As a former CSM you’re right!! They also can’t make u go to a cashier if you want to self check out. That’s been a thing lately if you have too many groceries.♥ 7source record 12952
That’s why I don’t even pay attention when I’m walking out of the door … all I’m thinking is try to stop me and and you’ll see lol♥ 7source record 12953
Because they like to be annoying and think they’re important.♥ 2source record 12956
This doesn’t mean be rude to the person at the front when they ask for it guys. Usually our supervisor tells us to check every 5 people and they do watch us. If you don’t want to, whatever but don’t be rude about it❤️not saying you’re saying this but awful people will run with it.♥ 3source record 12959
It’s usually the workers who are rude about it. I’ve seen it countless times.👍🏻♥ 1source record 12960
Probably people literally refuse to when we all nicely.♥ 0source record 12961
They stop me but when I’m with my white bf, they don’t even look at us. 🙄♥ 2source record 12962
Regular Walmart employees can’t stop you. Asset Protection can stop you. A manager can stop you. If you decide not to stop, they call the police if they are 100% sure you shoplifted. They have cameras that can move in most stores and can see everything you do.♥ 0source record 12963
I was Asset Protection. We were told that we were not allowed to stop anyone, we were supposed to call the police if we had any reasonable suspicions.♥ 0source record 12964
I don’t know what store you worked for but asset protection can stop people. I know someone who has been an AP for 15 years. If they don’t stop, they call the cops and get a warrant.If it’s a high money amount, they call the cops. Not here to argue, just telling you what they do where we live.♥ 1source record 12965
true. they can ask & you can just keep walking. they don't do anything...the job gives the old folks something to do🤷🏾‍♀️♥ 1source record 12966
I asked a worker checking receipts once and she said they’re obligated to check all receipts. I told her no. You’re wrong. And she said they HAVE TOO! I know she was lying 🤥♥ 1source record 12969
Yes!! I worked there briefly and I remember the training says we shouldn’t stop people unless there’s something that isn’t bagged w/o a sticker♥ 1source record 12970
Same can confirm. I comment this on every walmart video i see.♥ 1source record 12971
Well Sam’s is a club. You have to stop there. It’s exclusive♥ 0source record 12973
It's also illegal♥ 0source record 12976
I concur I worked loss prevention in a retail chain and it’s not even worth it to stop anyone there’s so much liability - worst job in my life.♥ 0source record 12979
I have photosensitive epilepsy and I went through a till with 3 workers standing gossiping,the door guy wanted to see my receipt I told him he’s not wasting my time cuz the lights…go ask all them standing around doing nothing♥ 0source record 12980
My receipt always gets checked at the exit… they look at everyone’s♥ 0source record 12982
As a previous manager I confirm this. My first day the store got robbed and I just let them all go♥ 0source record 12986
Walmart has secret shoppers/undercover shoppers that are wearing every day clothes watching people to make sure no one is taking anything. They also have officers on stand by, and a holding room in every Walmart.♥ 1,395source record 13010
Should we planning mass exodus prisoner breaks? Where is the tea from the previously apprehended. Where is it? 👀👀🪦💀👀👀👀♥ 4source record 13011
No it’s literally like a 6x10 room with security monitors lol only fits like 4 people. They take you in there to show you they caught you stealing then make you give it back lol♥ 11source record 13012
I got it. 😉 No longer employed, but did sign an NDA about Walmart prison rules. 😉😉😉😉Job security for security is making sure no one fears security. 😉♥ 4source record 13017
Where are the stories about Wally World Prison. Where are they? 🪦♥ 10source record 13020
They look so obvious too. I go up to them and ask why are they following me them complain to customer service. They dont bother me anymore.♥ 9source record 13021
there are not officers in every walmart lol it depends on the location and the demographics♥ 4source record 13024
They do a terrible job at our Walmart blending in as "customers." 😂 My husband and I are ALWAYS followed around by Loss Prevention because of our hair, piercings, tattoos and clothes and probably because I will walk an aisle 10x before I make up my mind on something but I'm just indecisive, but we are literally the most honest people ever. I always chuckle to myself when they've now wasted an hour or two or more following us around and then we pay for our entire order at the cash register like normal law abiding citizens. 😂♥ 3source record 13025
Yupppp. My wife has a neck tat and we always get followed♥ 1source record 13026
that's why I limit my buying with them. you're not going to take my $$ and treat me like a thief at the same time♥ 3source record 13027
It’s just the cheapest place to buy groceries. Other than aldi. That’s what’s frustrating♥ 1source record 13028
I try to peep them whenever I’m at the store and I just can’t 🥲 I only know they exist from all the body cam footage I have to watch. 10/10 they stole the items and we can all see it clear as day lol especially when they use fake price tags♥ 2source record 13030
They’re not that good at hiding their identity. I’ve been followed around on countless occasions (mainly because when I go shopping I look homeless lol). They never have carts and are always just randomly looking through stuff here and there. Once I realize they’re there and watching, I grab each item off the shelf and make sure to “show it” to them as it’s being placed in my cart like I’m Vanna White showcasing a prize 😂♥ 2source record 13031
If someone is standing around aimlessly looking through racks, if they keep looking around as they’re doing so, if they don’t cart or any items but they’ve been there for some time, if you see them following you or someone else from a distance but trying to make it look inconspicuous, etc. In other cases of secret shoppers most of them have a task, they’re supposed to go into the store, buy something, and report their experience back to the app or company they’re working for. When it comes to Walmart they have no goal besides tracking people basically, so that’s why they’re usually empty handed.♥ 2source record 13033
Lmao I had one of those following me at the Walmart I worked at so I had a bit of fun with it.♥ 0source record 13034
I’m always getting followed because I shop when I’m bored but don’t really want to buy anything so I browse 😂 funny thing is I’ve never stolen anything in my entire life so they’re wasting their time ! Hahaha♥ 2source record 13036
yes, can confirm. my husband was one.♥ 2source record 13037
I’ve heard they wait till you’ve taken a bunch of stuff and build a case on you.♥ 2source record 13038
Yes! But even if you try to leave with one or two items under 100 bucks, they are going to get you! I mean imagine having someone on a camera up above watching every way you go and what you talk. Then when you hide that item they start closing in & if you run you are F’ed! LP has handcuffs & take you in A back room til 5.0 arrives 😭♥ 0source record 13039
My sister did it for 6 months and swapped with the co worker who watched a board of cameras. One did the floor while the other stared at camera screens.♥ 0source record 13044
On top of millions of cameras in the store and parking lot that are so good, the can see the ants on the ground♥ 2source record 13045
I worked at 2 walmarts.. it gets old seeing the same 2 ppl walk around the store and extremely obvious. its like they dont think ppl pick up on seeing the same ppl in street clothes everytime they go to Walmart 🙄♥ 1source record 13048
and whole time I thought i was being stalked 😅 They are pretty aggressive and its pretty blatant w some that they’re watching you. locking eyes 10 times while shopping for 20 min be wild 😂😂😂♥ 1source record 13050
and they walk around carrying just one item. They appear to be just very nosy, but no, they are loss prevention. I never steal. I get profiled for not being white. 🙄 All my white friends as teens, were regular shoplifters.♥ 1source record 13057
They are also sitting in a room looking at all the cameras 100% of the time♥ 1source record 13059
If you are Canadian and reading this.. Canadian tire does the same thing♥ 1source record 13060
The Walmart near me literally has signs saying they have security on site it’s wild♥ 1source record 13063
A lot of stores do this . Nordstrom calls them LP and they have a big office and room in all of their store locations , full line , rack stores and last chance ..♥ 1source record 13069
This is true bc I was caught at 16 years old 🤣♥ 1source record 13071
JCPenney has this too and Target. It’s part of theft prevention so it’s really common.♥ 1source record 13074
The self checkouts are insane now too! It’s very hard for people to steal. The cameras on them with start to make noise and reply the video of a missed item or if your holding multiple things and it thinks you missed something. It’s crazy!♥ 1source record 13077
that's called loss prevention & wm has an upstairs also. they have cameras so good you can literally zoom in across the whole store and listen and see what's on ppl phone screen.♥ 1source record 13079
A lot of big companies do that. It's called loss prevention.♥ 0source record 13083
This is most retail… back in the day our JCP shrinkage man almost caught a case cuz he tackled somebody to the ground right outside of the mall entrance & they hit their head… all they stole was socks…♥ 3source record 13085
You can tell which they are 🙄 lol and when I figure it out, I will always fk with them lol leaving little trails lol and say something out loud… they scatter quickly lol♥ 1source record 13086
All the employees at shoe stores steal. That’s why our kick game was crazy♥ 283source record 14321
Yes because when I worked in retail they used to do math/follow shipments to figure out if something is missing and then either look at cameras or go through inventory to find evidence lmaooo♥ 20source record 14324
Lol well when I was working there shhh wasn’t making it to the point where it can be tracked or seen on camera♥ 0source record 14325
Plus they don’t say it’s a loss unless someone reports it. Group effort♥ 4source record 14326
Was the only reason I stayed in retail for 5 yrs, even security couldn’t work out how we were doing it, they even sent the head of security, in the end they joined in😆 I miss footlocker♥ 0source record 14327
Walmart is not supposed to ask you for proof of a dog is a service dog or not. It’s in all of our handbooks and training.♥ 167source record 14759
HIPAA only applies to people handling your information, not when you voluntarily give it up. It’s an ADA issue.♥ 4source record 14762
There is no official “proof” of a dog being a service animal. There is no central database, no official certification process, nothing. If you say it’s a service animal, it is. There’s no legal way to check for it♥ 7source record 14764
Technically you can have a note from a doctor saying you need one or a training certificate for the animal. But regardless, it’s illegal to ask.♥ 2source record 14765
They absolutely do have certifications for service animals, ESPECIALLY service dogs for vets. They have an I.D and all that.♥ 4source record 14766
Look it up. None of them are real. They’re scam websites that collect your money, but there is no actual official database or certification. A million unofficial though♥ 4source record 14767
If your dog isn’t certified please don’t bring them, this is common courtesy♥ 1source record 14768
its literally illegal for any establishment to ask♥ 0source record 14770
no where can but i know hotels can ask what service they provide if they ask don’t say emotional or they will turn you away you can say diabetes or ptsd easiest ones to use♥ 0source record 14771

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What is actually in the box you ordered101 index entriesWarehouse and delivery staff on returns, resale, damage and how much of the handling never involved the driver you blamed.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: What is actually in the box you ordered

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What is actually in the box you ordered

101 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: A parcel arrived damaged, used, or not at all

How commenters applied it: 101 records. Warehouse and delivery staff move the blame off the driver and onto the handling. Packers and sorters describe boxes thrown, stacked past the top of carts, crushed on belts and taped with labels that do not hold, and several say damage is usually present before the parcel reaches the van. On returns, former processors explain the barcode that marks a returned item and say a plastic overbag alone does not prove it — one former department lead gives the code that actually distinguishes new stock. A former customer service agent adds the most useful check available before you buy: who fulfils the order, because third-party sellers run different return terms. The card closes with the corpus's gentlest disillusionment, about machine-written sympathy cards, where a former employee traces exactly when and why the practice changed.

What readers reported: It used to be a side hustle in the early days before they got acquired by PetSmart in 2017 and eventually internalized the card writing. I used to write them before I officially applied back then. Over time, it turned into a quota of cards to write and became less personable. They did make a card writing team to still be able to do it, but by the time I moved into admin roles in 2018/19, they bought machines to write cards and the team got cut down to roles to monitor them. I'm fairly certain if there's time in a CSR's workday/workload that they can write cards themselves, however, the vast majority of them are done by machines.

Limit: These are accounts of unnamed depots and warehouses, several of them years old, and workers in the same threads describe sites that do things differently. No company confirmed any of it.

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Do tell me cuz i know the stories you have are way worse than what i’ve seen👀👀

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This is true cause I used to work as a packer and if you get it and it’s broken..it was broken when we put it in the box 😔😩

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I rec’d a broken crib and they tried blaming the delivery person. I told them the broken piece isn’t even in the box, so it couldn’t have been the driver.

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I used to put clothes in ready to ship bags because the seller would send them without a bag or the bag would be broken and I didn’t want them on the dirty floor lol

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Always washing my hands after opening a package, then trash packaging goes out. Unfortunately, COVID helped create this habit.

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All the "handwritten" cards from Chewy are written by machines.

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When you buy clothes from online retailers it’s all mostly been used by someone at some point..especially if it’s a sale

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i worked at an amazon delivery station and can confirm. they push employees & rush everything to hit numbers, boxes would fall off the conveyor belt bc we couldn’t keep up w the pace, stuff gets thrown around… it drove me insane.

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fedex: not gon lie them long lulu boxes get tossed around 😂everything truly gets tossed around and warehouse are veryyyy dirty stop putting packages on your beds♥ 4,706source record 7023
as you should queen !!♥ 52source record 7025
Always washing my hands after opening a package, then trash packaging goes out. Unfortunately, COVID helped create this habit.♥ 17source record 7027
former fedex here. yeah those packages took flight before getting loaded on the plane♥ 16source record 7028
husband used to drive for fedex and this is true. they literally throw the boxes everywhere and they fall off of the shelves when driving, etc.♥ 12source record 7029
Yes as a former UPS worker you ain’t lying shit gets thrown 😂♥ 5source record 7030
I open at the door for this reason as a truck driver I bring nothing in with original packaging on it♥ 3source record 7033
Some of them would have “dip” even though they weren’t supposed to, or just nasty spitting cold 😭😭♥ 3source record 7034
YES pls i see people unboxing on kitchen tables, counters, their beds 😭😷 i never bring packages inside my home, always open them outside and recycle the boxes asap♥ 2source record 7036
I worked at fedex. Can confirm 🤣♥ 2source record 7037
As a FedEx driver, I can confirm. I also tell parents do NOT let your kids play with the boxes under any circumstances, and proceed to show them my dust/dirt covered hands just from delivering packages.♥ 1source record 7038
I keep telling people this many of my customers said their packages came damaged I tried to explain as best as I could how warehouse operate and how the crates are stacked♥ 1source record 7039
Facts. Worked at ups 10 years and packages would go on a belt underneath sorters standing on grating. They would spit on packages.♥ 3source record 7042
Wow I worked a ups never seen that , but I believe you ppl are crazy man♥ 0source record 7043
i’ve been saying this to my friends and family for YEARS but they claim i’m just being overdramatic because i have OCD about “outside” things♥ 0source record 7044
Literally I use to put the packages the trucks DIRTY AF♥ 0source record 7045
Yes when I worked there I was surprised. Something will say fragil and they treat it like any other package.♥ 0source record 7046
Not a FedEx worker myself but got a few friends that work there....I hear those Chewy boxes are living hell♥ 0source record 7048
I never place my packages on my bed or sofas. I always open them while sitting on the floor, I knew what you said could be a possibility!😭♥ 0source record 7049
Yes! I'm a package handler and I've witnessed so many people throwing boxes and some get stepped on etc. I have to take a shower right when I get home cause I get so nasty handling those boxes♥ 0source record 7050
I took shower immediately from returning home from warehouse♥ 0source record 7051
I only love the ppl I work with but yah the job itself sux♥ 0source record 7053
I agree! I've met a lot of really great people there. The job itself gets boring after awhile♥ 0source record 7054
also fragile and this side up mean nothing when it comes to transportation and sortation♥ 0source record 7055
Girl when I worked in Fedex we did anything we could make boxes fit, including fragile boxes. OK some of them just got stomped in or tossed 😭♥ 0source record 7060
👀 I get too excited, will not be putting them on my counters ever again♥ 0source record 7061
I did some time at the Post Office and was shocked at how they toss packages to sort them. time is money to them though.♥ 0source record 7063
Current FedEx: as long as it fits in my truck, your package will most likely get crushed bc they don’t care what it is, just that it gets delivered and not brought back to be coded♥ 0source record 7065
Bro my first day on the job they told me to throw the boxes in there however which way i feel😹😹😹♥ 1source record 7066
I’ve noticed that lol I make sure to put my packages on the floor 😂♥ 0source record 7067
Those are the same people getting into bed with their nasty shoes on and outside clothes they don’t gaf 😂♥ 1source record 7072
Listen! I NEVER bring packages in my home. I unbox everything outside my door and then b bring my items inside. I also wear gloves! I’m always so baffled when I see how people handle their packages. Like do yall not know how dirty those packages are. Urine, feces, all kinds of waste and germs are on those packages lol♥ 1source record 7074
FedEx are like wild animals on the road. y'all just dgaf like at all. every time I see a truck something crazy is happening.♥ 1source record 7075
Former upser… I second this. Packages are nasty!♥ 0source record 7076
Not a secret but a fact, amazon delivery drivers get blamed for damaged packages caused by ppl working inside the delivery station♥ 2,065source record 8541
This is true cause I used to work as a packer and if you get it and it’s broken..it was broken when we put it in the box 😔😩♥ 55source record 8542
I rec’d a broken crib and they tried blaming the delivery person. I told them the broken piece isn’t even in the box, so it couldn’t have been the driver.♥ 36source record 8543
this, plus they think the delivery drivers be the ones working inside stations when we actually don’t all we do is deliver♥ 21source record 8544
Delivery drivers don’t actually work for Amazon. They work for a company they call a DSP. I worked as IT at Amazon and the stories I could tell would blow your mind.♥ 6source record 8545
Do tell me cuz i know the stories you have are way worse than what i’ve seen👀👀♥ 3source record 8546
i can see that. I've seen a lot of door bell cameras where Amazon treats package deliveries way better than other companies♥ 5source record 8547
Ex Amazon driver here (now FedEx) and I can confirm this. And it sucks.♥ 2source record 8548
That stuff gets packed like Jenga pieces at the warehouse. That truck looks crazy! It's not the driver, and the stuff that comes in those whit plastic bags. Imagine a box that stands over 8 feet tall, they cut the front open and throw them in along with small boxes. We didn't gently and lovingly place anything in there, it was THROWN in. I'm 5"2" and a half...an 8 ft box? Girl....KOBE! freethrow♥ 0source record 8552
SOME OF IT IS DAMAGED BEFORE IT GETS TO YOU GUYS OR DURING THE PICK N STAGE PROCESS, THIS IS WHY I ALWAYS TELL MY DRIVER'S IF IT LOOKS CRAZY,GIVE IT TO THE PS AND WE WILL TAKE IT OFF BEFORE IT GETS ON YOUR TRUCK,OR DON'T DELIVER IT♥ 1source record 8556
True! When we would unload the trucks at the docks, the FC’s would throw boxes into the carts…heavy stuff on top, piled unsafely, well past the top of the cart, so unloaders at the dock have to wear hard hats to avoid toppling boxes and packages hitting them on the head. Even loading boxes on the conveyor, product would spill out of boxes, sharp stuff would make holes in the boxes, etc. if your order is fulfilled by Amazon directly from the FC, they don’t use much to secure whatever is in the box…just a slip of brown paper or bubble wrap, then they call it a day, like that’s going to prevent damage. coming from the FC♥ 1source record 8557
Oftentimes during the sorting stage of our shift, boxes would have to be taped up because they use that cheap Amazon label tape that would come off the boxes because it wasn’t sticking to the boxes.♥ 1source record 8558
Also, some of the associates are nosy af…like nosy nosy! 👀 During Sort (sorting process during 1st half of our shift…at a Delivery Station), sometimes associates pulling at the end of the mod, like to look inside damaged boxes or boxes that needed to be taped just to be nosy. I mean they would take stuff out of the boxes and thoroughly examine it…even if stuff was piling up at the end of the mod.♥ 0source record 8559
With this being said, if you don’t want people (Amazon associates, your nosy neighbors) to know what you’re ordering, check the box where Amazon packages it in one of their boxes…not the manufacturer’s box. Just hope and pray there’s no extensive damage, otherwise people will be in your business looking in your box to be nosy or they have to do it to repackage the item in another box.♥ 0source record 8560
So if you’re ordering seggs toys…and the box is damaged and needs to be repacked…they know! 🤣 And they be talking about it too. 🤣🤣🤣♥ 1source record 8561
Oh I worked at Amazon for 3 weeks. I KNOW you're right. The stuff I saw.♥ 1source record 8564
i worked at an amazon delivery station and can confirm. they push employees & rush everything to hit numbers, boxes would fall off the conveyor belt bc we couldn’t keep up w the pace, stuff gets thrown around… it drove me insane.♥ 0source record 8566
false . the packages get messed up in transport to the warehouse more not to mention the belts and chutes collide packages and mash them together. ur fragile package prolly got ran over by some less heavier bigger package♥ 0source record 8567
amazon fired my friend for having 1 airpod in (which is legal)♥ 0source record 8568
Aw dam I always notate that the delivery was fine and give 5 stars etc. I really hope not♥ 0source record 8569
how are you gonna say you're more educated than me? you dont know me.♥ 0source record 8570
i don’t have to know you at all because based on your comments towards me, you’re definitely not well educated now GOODBYE!!♥ 0source record 8571
also inside the facility that the packed is picked and packed at, they literally throw your packages around! when they load a truck they build a "wall" with the bigger boxes and throw the smaller boxes over it!♥ 0source record 8572
idgaf who did it. if you see it like that and leave it like that, you're part of the problem.♥ 0source record 8574
maybe you stop ordering stuff online and take your lazy ass to the store and shop, cuz us delivery drivers can only take so much blame from inconsiderate ppl like you♥ 0source record 8575
If your item from Amazon comes in a plastic bag and/or has a barcode that says “LPN” itwas most likely reprocessed and resold to you after it was returned… yes even underwear.♥ 4,368source record 10467
I’ve been getting so many returns lately, it’s ridiculous.♥ 75source record 10469
First of all, why are they even taking back underwears? That should have an automatic non-returnable flag on the back end.♥ 54source record 10472
yep if it comes in one of those clear plastic bags with the green "ready to ship" writing or has an LPN sticker it 100% has been ordered and returned and then resent out to you and maybe even others multiple times. It is in fact NOT NEW! Amazon even confirmed this fact with me.♥ 35source record 10473
not necessarily with the ready to ship bags, I would use those when I had to repackage something but it was still brand new♥ 6source record 10474
if i purchase something new from Amazon I expect it not to be something that has been sole to someone else previously and returned then sold to me as new.. yes those ready to ship bags are used for that Amazon even told me so♥ 8source record 10475
I used to run my own department there, if it’s in a ready to ship bag it just means that it was handled in the warehouse at one point bc those are amazon bags. The sp00 is what tells you whether it’s new or not. If it’s in a ready to ship bag with a X00 or B00 sp00, it’s still new, not a return.♥ 2source record 10476
I used to put clothes in ready to ship bags because the seller would send them without a bag or the bag would be broken and I didn’t want them on the dirty floor lol♥ 2source record 10477
I worked a returns warehouse. I was told that if I ever ordered something & it came repackaged.. place my order before sending back the first♥ 6source record 10479
Well I don’t want things just to be thrown away if it’s returned. I’ve returned things before and they’re still in perfect condition. BUT of course there are always the exceptions, and mainly, people please don’t be that person who returns something used. Don’t ruin it for the rest of us.♥ 1source record 10480
The issue isn’t people returning items. The issue is you thinking you’re paying for something brand new and it doesn’t get advertised as pre owned. The issue is also sending out potentially soiled items to new people and creating a new mess of returns which creates unnecessary carbon footprints.♥ 2source record 10481
They have the employees do basic checks to see if items like underwear is used/ soiled then it goes into a separate area to be tossed…. But then again… that’s if people are actually doing their job correctly♥ 2source record 10483
i work there and this is soooo true♥ 1source record 10488
I WORK THERE TOO SHE AINT LYING 😳♥ 0source record 10489
As someone who worked in both returns and fulfillment for Amazon, there is no “most likely” if it says LPN, it absolutely has been used before♥ 0source record 10493
I ordered an ice maker from Amazon that was marked new and I ended up getting a used one and now the return status has been pending for over a month♥ 0source record 10494
What does the LPN mean? I got something with those stickers from Target online today♥ 0source record 10504
Worked at a return site and this is true♥ 0source record 10508
As a bin store shopper, very aware of LPN stickers lol but I find the best stuff still! Almost everything can be washed 😅♥ 0source record 10512
That means the people in customer returns aren’t doing their job sadly 😭.. I worked customer returns and the returns and COMMENYS FOR THE RETURNS were wildddd!! But anything that was nasty like bathing suits.toys 👀, I wouldn’t even open the bag and I wouldn’t process it no further. It went to a tote that was trash 😭😭 I had someone return a toy 👀 and say it wasn’t thick enough 🥴 likee sirrr that’s tmi 😂 people are wild with what they return and what they have to say about the return♥ 1source record 10516
I worked for Amazon and yes I remember staff having to check and resell a used 3 ring 🐓 ring … it was nasty to think of someone buying it♥ 0source record 10520
All the "handwritten" cards from Chewy are written by machines.♥ 27,525source record 12190
They care enough to send it. There are 1000's of people who's animals pass and they send cards to. My goodness, that would be alot of writing.♥ 1,576source record 12191
I mean at least the money is going more towards the cause than the writing♥ 11source record 12195
It used to be a side hustle in the early days before they got acquired by PetSmart in 2017 and eventually internalized the card writing. I used to write them before I officially applied back then. Over time, it turned into a quota of cards to write and became less personable. They did make a card writing team to still be able to do it, but by the time I moved into admin roles in 2018/19, they bought machines to write cards and the team got cut down to roles to monitor them. I'm fairly certain if there's time in a CSR's workday/workload that they can write cards themselves, however, the vast majority of them are done by machines.♥ 78source record 12198
Yes exactly I remember coworkers would bring in stacks of cards to write during downtime. Thanks for the info 💕♥ 9source record 12199
it's still nice. and they send flowers when you pet passes♥ 11source record 12200
I did, but maybe it was a bit different. I messaged to see if I could cancel the food shipment I had ordered for the cat I had to put down, they removed her profile from my account so I didnt have to look at her photo, refunded me for the food that had already shipped (told me to donate it) and I came home to flowers and a card signed by some of their team the following day. I will never not be a chewy customer after that. they have also sent me small canvas paintings of my cats profile photos from one of their employees.♥ 13source record 12202
They are the best company, aren’t they !? That was so thoughtful !♥ 4source record 12203
How do they get a machine to write each "i" differently in the letter😅 or every other letter♥ 0source record 12205
How was working there?♥ 0source record 12209
They sent my friend a handpainted portrait of her dog as a surprise gift!♥ 0source record 12211
Fedex has a secret warehouse where all the things they “lose” go and they auction it.♥ 453source record 14105
Bad packaging is 99% the reason your items are lost!!!!!♥ 0source record 14106
explains the great PS5 theft way back when it released♥ 0source record 14107
my dad worked for fedex for 10+ years and he can confirm that. he used to buy stuff from said auctions and that’s how my sisters and i got new toys and stuff♥ 1source record 14108
Can’t agree, idk what state you’re in but in my area I get plenty of brand new things for cheap. Got a brand new twin size bed frame for $1.53♥ 0source record 14109
that’s not what mine was called it was a lil different I was in the fraud dept and got to unpack all the vaccum sealed stuff 🍃 💊 that people shouldn’t send in the mail😂♥ 1source record 14113
It comes to us in Ohio, it’s a lot of those warehouses and it’s called BidFTA I furnished my home for cheap, just got a brand new twin size bed for $1.53♥ 4source record 14114
I believe it ! They said that my very expensive designer shoes were “ delivered “ however, I never got them . They probably took them directly from the Neiman Marcus truck . 😭♥ 5source record 14115
When you buy clothes from online retailers it’s all mostly been used by someone at some point..especially if it’s a sale♥ 0source record 14186
Apple has access to a ridiculous amount of information. We would make fake Facebook profiles to stalk you guys to make sure purchases were legit when online orders came in. We’d have to find addresses and make sure you were friends with the people that the items are being sent to♥ 135source record 14889

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Food service, from both sides of the counter523 records · 4 sub-topicsCooks, managers and delivery drivers on what is fresh, what is bagged, and which chains their own former staff still eat at. 523 records.
The machine that is broken, and the timer that is not139 index entriesCrew and managers on cleaning cycles, service contracts and order timers — with the equipment explanation and the laziness explanation both defended by people who worked there.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: The machine that is broken, and the timer that is not

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Use when: You have been told a machine is down, or your order has stalled on a tracker

How commenters applied it: 139 records. Crew and managers give two incompatible explanations and both are defended by people who worked there. The laziness explanation: managers telling staff to say it was down overnight, and crews avoiding a long clean. The equipment explanation, which is better evidenced: a nightly heat and recalibration cycle that locks the machine for hours, a lockout if a clean is missed, a service contract that prevents the restaurant fixing it, and a documentary the thread repeatedly references. Several workers point out only one or two people per store are trained to clean it. The order tracker gets the same treatment — one former manager calls the middle stages an automated timer, several current staff say each stage is triggered by clearing the order from a screen, and one explains how staff clear it early to improve their timings. A short report explains why asking for no salt gets you fresh fries, and another explains why drive-through staff ask you to park.

What readers reported: Dominos employee for over a decade here , they aren’t on timer , they are linked to what screen the order is on in our store , if it says quality check , your orders done and waiting for a driver. A lot of insiders will clear the order before it’s in to make their times look better , hence why it sits in quality check for so long. Also the app sucks when it’s busy , use the website!

Limit: Practices differ by franchise, country and equipment generation, and the workers here contradict each other about their own employers. Nothing was checked with the companies named.

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girl get a frappe, it’s not true. i’ve worked at 2 different mcdonald’s and neither places had maggots. idk where homegirl was working at cus maggots is crazy 😂😂😂

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Nope a manager on morning shift has always broken it😐😐

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this actually isn't true, it's "being prepped" until it goes in the oven. then it gets cleared off the makeline and it will say "in the oven" which is then on a timer for 8 minutes because that's the speed all the ovens are set at. everything goes through for 8 minutes at 455. then it gets clocked out to a driver and updated as out for delivery

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This is NOT true in Australia it actually just overheats and stops working

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Something just came out it was the company of the machines doing something to making money off them being “broken”

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when i worked at mcdonald’s it actually WAS broken all the time 😭😭 we’d have people come in to fix it and we would have to work around them during rushes

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Any ice cream place that says it’s broken means they don’t want to clean it

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Yeah my manager will just say say it’s not working and we will clean it people would order ice cream at 3-5 am

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Can confirm that the reason the ice cream machines are always down is because they are extremely finicky, they are used and abused, break down often and if they aren’t cleaned regularly, they will not work

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Mc Donald’s ice cream is rarely ever down they are just too lazy to clean it .

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this is just very poorly written, they can't clean it themselves, they lease the machines from another company, which has professionals cleaning it, if the mcdonalds chose to clean it themselves their contract would be void

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you're not lying my sister worked there and said many times it was filled with maggots

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Mc Donald’s ice cream is rarely ever down they are just too lazy to clean it .♥ 78,415source record 1604
Yeah my manager will just say say it’s not working and we will clean it people would order ice cream at 3-5 am♥ 1,052source record 1605
Ugh that’s me 😭 I stopped doing it as I got older bc I had no idea how annoying it was to clean the machine♥ 1source record 1607
God forbid somebody order something off the menu of an open restaurant♥ 726source record 1608
Honestly after 1 am they won’t let u unless u order online and pick it up♥ 10source record 1609
That’s wild, I worked at 2 McDonald’s and both machines would automatically turn off from 2:30-4:30am to recalibrate♥ 595source record 1611
Something just came out it was the company of the machines doing something to making money off them being “broken”♥ 27source record 1612
Yes! Our machines are contracted by specific companies and if they break down, McDonald’s can only go to their repair ppl and shop to fix it. They supposedly give their machines specific parts too so that even if McDonald’s try to go out of network, other repairmen won’t be able to fix it.♥ 14source record 1613
I was just going to say the same thing, the machine is shut down because it needs cleaning and recalibration♥ 7source record 1614
doesn't sell chocolate ice cream due to a combination of factors including machine limitations, flavor popularity, and operational efficiency. While some locations may offer a chocolate soft serve or a chocolate and vanilla twist, a dedicated chocolate-only soft serve option is not a standard offering.♥ 0source record 1618
We do where I worked at we just don’t do it overnight♥ 0source record 1619
That’s daily maintenance but there’s a cycle for the machine to be cleaned out every x amount of days otherwise it locks out! Gotta clean all that milk debris out before it gets mouldy 🫣♥ 2source record 1620
Ours does the same but I don’t think ours locks itself if we miss the date, it’s probably too old to😅♥ 1source record 1621
🤣🤣🤣I hate management sometimes like just update us pls ! The new machines have a new vanilla ice milk bag where you insert the bags in like the smoothie machines! But only the newer or renovated McDonald’s will have that so tough luck to the rest of us who don’t have that easiness 😅♥ 0source record 1622
Actually there is a huge documentary about this. Taylor Ice cream machines use cryptic firmware to keep their tech coming out to "fix" it. The store eats the cost and owners managers are told to not fix it.♥ 127source record 1623
Yep. There were laws prohibiting them from fixing it. The FTC under Lina Khan was able to pass regulations ending this prohibition and it went into effect recently.♥ 4source record 1624
McDonald's was my first job and I worked there for years. I try telling people this and they either never believe me or come up with some excuse as to why they break easily 🙄♥ 16source record 1628
This was never our problem, it was because night shift didn’t fill the machine so it went into lockdown mode because it was overheating♥ 12source record 1629
I never get mad when they say no because I’ve seen what they have to do to clean that and it would hold up the whole line♥ 7source record 1630
So it’s y’all fucking it up for everyone😭😭our ice cream machine has just never been replaced over the decades and overheats after 14 ice creams, then shuts itself down. But we take care of it all the time♥ 6source record 1631
the magic heat cycle button that makes the machine unusable for 5 hours and can't be turned off mid cycle!! understandable why it's annoying, but as someone who did all drinks for in the restaurant, drive through AND took orders at the same time on their own, lifesaver 🤫♥ 4source record 1632
This literally just happened to my last night at 2:53am, 7mins before my shift was over. I always forget everytime and once a week I’ll try to make McFlurry for a delivery and I’ll get shot by a vanilla flavored cannon.♥ 3source record 1633
I haven’t even worked at McDonald’s and I knew this♥ 1source record 1639
It usually is done lol, if cleaning isn’t done when required the machine won’t operate bc of the timer♥ 1source record 1640
when i worked at mcdonald’s it actually WAS broken all the time 😭😭 we’d have people come in to fix it and we would have to work around them during rushes♥ 1source record 1642
Yup or it’s in heat mode for the night i tell everybody this i worked there in college♥ 1source record 1643
I agree here! Worked at one on 3rd shift and would say it’s down just cause I didn’t want to make it or just got done cleaning it 🤣🤣♥ 1source record 1646
I was just putting it out there. They dont follow quality control♥ 1source record 1650
Any ice cream place that says it’s broken means they don’t want to clean it♥ 1source record 1655
Same thing with Dunkin’ Donuts ! If they say they don’t have a certain donut , make them check the back cause that’s where we store racks of extra donuts .♥ 0source record 1657
That or the one person who knows how to clean it called in sick for the week 🤣🤣🤣 like why does only ONE PERSON know how to do ts♥ 0source record 1658
Not in Norway, I worked there and ifs super strict schedule, you also have to write when and who cleaned it, send it to the boss, and the boss sends it to the area controls. It’s impossible so have a bad McDonald’s in Norway, also there is random pop up check in from the food regulations by goverment, if anything is wrong they are done for MASSIVE detrimental fines.♥ 0source record 1660
no actually because they have a contract with a software company which is super expensive♥ 0source record 1663
they have an automatic daily heat cycle usually somewhere between midnight and 3 and lasts like 5 hours, so if you want ice cream at the oddest hours of the night, it is down.♥ 0source record 1667
Blue ribbon vanilla ice cream tastes exactly like McDonald’s♥ 0source record 1670
In US? In Poland we had schedule to clean it and it WAS actually cleaned..♥ 0source record 1672
i had a worker flirting with me one night and i asked him and he told me the same thing and i was like “I KNEW IT YOU MONSTERSSS”♥ 0source record 1674
This is true. I worked there in highschool and that was always the problem.♥ 0source record 1678
This is also used when you request a slushie at McDonalds or Taco Bell. Staff doesn't want to clean the machnes!♥ 0source record 1679
I cleaned mines religiously I worked overnight I needed something to do♥ 0source record 1681
“Our frappe machine is down”, I’m like “ liars”, every dang time!♥ 0source record 1682
Yep I worked there♥ 0source record 1683
Very true y’all 🤣 I used to work for 3 different locations in my mid-teens until early 20s♥ 0source record 1684
i worked at a McDonald's and we actually run out of ice cream pretty often 😭♥ 0source record 1690
It’s actually cause if they go down McDonald’s themselves can’t work on it and has to wait for the company that makes them come fix it♥ 0source record 1691
My local McDonald’s takes the machine apart like three hours before it closes to clean it 😐 then sometimes it’s not put back together until the morning which then it’s still not ready because it has to go through a phase with the shake mix in it idk♥ 0source record 1694
Idek about yalls locations but I worked at a McDonald’s for multiple years in Canada. the only time we said it was broken when it wasn’t technically broken was when it was too soft and would immediately melt. We also didn’t serve Ice Cream during the morning so if you ask for Ice Cream before 11am, it wasn’t going to happen because it was off and it takes time to harden enough to be considered icecream. The machine was also cleaned regularly overnight and had a deep clean/maintence every so often.♥ 0source record 1699
Definitely depends on the location. The one I used to work at had gotten new ownership and they were very strict with machines being able to work (which makes sense) obviously they would lose money if the machine was off. When ours was off it was because we were in the process of cleaning it or it needed to be cleaned, there was no way around it.♥ 0source record 1702
it's been a minute since I worked at the ole arches but ours was always super sensitive and would randomly go into cleaning mode even when we knew for fact no one had touched the thing in an hour♥ 0source record 1703
and yenno what? I think that's valid lmao. as a kid I was disappointed, as an adult? yeah fair♥ 0source record 1704
All the McDonald’s around us ice cream machines ALWAYS work♥ 0source record 1705
my stores machine literally did break down all the time . not every store can afford a brand new machine and man would come in and clean it every other day♥ 0source record 1707
I was told I couldn’t have a frosty 10 minutes ago. I know they are always lying!♥ 0source record 1712
this is trueeeeee, worked there😏♥ 0source record 1713
I worked there in high school. Whenever they ran out of regular coffee they just used decaf and served it to customers. Made me so mad.♥ 0source record 1715
what about the frappe machine? They always tell me it "cuts off to clean." 😑 Im pregnant and just want a frappe, like c'mon man!!♥ 0source record 1717
Facts. my old friend worked there♥ 0source record 1719
It’s crazy because I’ve only seen that happen in the US, in the rest of America, they always serve the ice cream♥ 0source record 1721
As someone who worked there, I can confirm this. That or someone who cleaned it the night before didn’t put it back together right after cleaning it♥ 0source record 1723
I figured this out when I started working at Burger King. People would come right before closing to get icecream but we were starting to clean for the evening and had already taken the machine down. The worst of humanity goes through the damn BK drive thru♥ 0source record 1727
usually when our machine was down it’s because we were cleaning it..♥ 0source record 1729
i wonder what lie spread faster, ciara having a 🍆 or mcdonalds ice cream machine is down 😂🤣🤣♥ 0source record 1731
This is so true my 8yr old was furious when they said the machine was broken he said mom they lying 🤥 😂♥ 0source record 1733
I can confirm as an ex McDonald’s worker 😭 our manager used to tell us to tell people it was down 😭♥ 0source record 1734
They are in cahoots with the company that makes their machines. They are made it break and be hard to service and it always requires a technician from that company. McDonald’s franchises started to use a jailbroken software to get around this and then got set straight by the corporation.♥ 0source record 1735
Not always lazy it’s just that only like one person per store is trained to do it if they are following protocol and cleaning it correctly that is♥ 0source record 1740
See for my store it wasn’t laziness it was lack of staff trained to clean it♥ 0source record 1743
This is what my husband confirmed from working at Wendy’s. He said you have to clean every machine everyday. If something is down they are being lazy and didn’t clean the machines 🤣♥ 0source record 1747
They don’t know HOW to clean it. When I worked there it was too difficult and no one bothered learning.♥ 0source record 1750
Yes and they no. When it stops working they don’t know how to fix it. Sometimes it’s as easy as an m&m stuck in the pump. Only 1 or two people know how to clean it and the machine goes into a heat cycle every night after 1-2 am til it finishes.♥ 0source record 1751
That’s a lie I worked there and it was genuinely down♥ 0source record 1753
there's actually a whole documentary on why those are down and its the way the machines were designed.♥ 0source record 1755
Can confirm that the reason the ice cream machines are always down is because they are extremely finicky, they are used and abused, break down often and if they aren’t cleaned regularly, they will not work♥ 0source record 1761
This is true! I dated a McDonald’s manager a LONG time ago & he told me that exact same thing!♥ 0source record 1763
The only time mine was “down” was when it couldn’t freeze the mix fast enough for $ comes in the summer♥ 0source record 1764
Maintenance was evedybmightnonnthe overnight shift when we were allotted our 1 hour close♥ 0source record 1765
oh we know....they got sued by mcflurry. Mcflurry spent yrs tracking all the false error reports just so it can come back and sue mcdonalds hard hard♥ 0source record 1766
Most franchise don’t want to do the call service to Taylor so they will let it go for few months♥ 0source record 1769
not really. our machine has been there since we opened and its always breaking down. 😩 its like 40K to replace soo yeah.♥ 0source record 1776
If it’s anything like the one I used to work at, somebody put it back together wrong and it won’t work 🤣🥴♥ 0source record 1777
I saw a video on here that the ice machine maker intentionally made them faulty, built the parts to repair under a different company name to make $$$$♥ 0source record 1778
I can attest to this♥ 0source record 1781
girl get a frappe, it’s not true. i’ve worked at 2 different mcdonald’s and neither places had maggots. idk where homegirl was working at cus maggots is crazy 😂😂😂♥ 4source record 1783
Yes there use to just be mold sitting in the chocolate and caramel sauce bins for the sundaes but my manager just use to put coffee paper over it and pour new topping in 🤢♥ 1source record 1784
this is just very poorly written, they can't clean it themselves, they lease the machines from another company, which has professionals cleaning it, if the mcdonalds chose to clean it themselves their contract would be void♥ 0source record 1785
you're not lying my sister worked there and said many times it was filled with maggots♥ 0source record 1786
That’s a lie in Aussie maccas it’s js bc it stops working for a while and goes runny especially when it’s hot in summer bc the ac don’t work behind the counter lol♥ 0source record 1790
The McDonalds shitty ice cream machine is very well documented- it would frequently break during cleaning because it was purposely built to make money off repairs.♥ 0source record 1791
That's a very smart way of finding out if that McDonald's is clean. if the ice crem machine is "down" that restaurant is probably filthy♥ 0source record 1793
The only accurate part of the Dominos pizza tracker is "Out for delivery". All other parts is are set on an automated timer.♥ 7,983source record 6355
I thought Jose really cared to inform me about my order♥ 1,739source record 6356
That’s true. I was a GM there. We just have to make sure to be as accurate to that screen before the order goes Red for the timer as possible but not always on point♥ 15source record 6373
That’s wild because 3 days ago my tracker was at “prep” for over 45 minutes before it finally went into the oven 😭♥ 9source record 6374
2 weeks ago it went from "Order placed" to "prep" to "In the oven" within 20 seconds of me submitting it.♥ 3source record 6375
Sometimes they do that to route your order with another delivery that’s already in the oven. They also have orders pop up at the bottom part of their make line screens when being paid for, which sometimes gives them a little head start on your order! I currently work there lol♥ 1source record 6376
Hold up cause I work at dominos as soon as it hits the makeline we get timed plus once we bump it from said makeline and goes into the oven it has a count down on how long until it’s out of the oven then with our dispatch system we send out our drivers so WRONG our system shows just about everything.♥ 6source record 6377
Or y’all were bumping items off the screen before actually putting them in.♥ 3source record 6379
App says pizza is ready, walk in to pick it up and it’s still in the oven. This has happened a few times to me.♥ 3source record 6380
I’m a driver, yes it is on a timer but on the driving app you have two options. Regular mode so the customer can see you, and invisible mode. That’s for if you’re going in a sketchy area or you don’t feel safe having them see your location, so for my location at least the customer can see the second we leave and where we are up until we get to them♥ 2source record 6381
this actually isn't true, it's "being prepped" until it goes in the oven. then it gets cleared off the makeline and it will say "in the oven" which is then on a timer for 8 minutes because that's the speed all the ovens are set at. everything goes through for 8 minutes at 455. then it gets clocked out to a driver and updated as out for delivery♥ 1source record 6382
This isn’t true. Every part of your order is connected to a computer system. From when your order is placed, to when it is cleared off the screen (aka placed in the oven). The ovens have a set time which is the only part that is probably automated. When the driver leaves that’s also connected to the system so all of it is accurate.♥ 0source record 6390
worse than finding out Santa isn't real. I was a believer. 😫♥ 0source record 6394
I realized this when I never got my order because the store was closed that whole day due to flooding , 🤣 they never were open . So yea Dimitri must have had something else baking♥ 0source record 6395
I work a dominos now and we do press certain buttons to clear an order and the “timer” for cooking is just how long the oven runs. So while it’s not always accurate, it’s not just arbitrary “timers”♥ 0source record 6404
that’s weird it’s always super accurate for me. nearly everytime i walk in they are pulling it out of the oven or putting it on the rack♥ 0source record 6406
Did y’all have trackers in the cars? My PH (Pizza Hut) had us on trackers always tracking speed, braking, cornering and how long you were stopped for♥ 0source record 6407
This isn’t true. The transition from its being made to its in the oven is triggered from being cleared from the screen, which means it’s literally placed in the oven right then. The out of the oven one is the only timer bc the oven is 7 min from start to finish. It’s all dependent on when things get completed and cleared from screens♥ 0source record 6408
Dominos employee for over a decade here , they aren’t on timer , they are linked to what screen the order is on in our store , if it says quality check , your orders done and waiting for a driver. A lot of insiders will clear the order before it’s in to make their times look better , hence why it sits in quality check for so long. Also the app sucks when it’s busy , use the website!♥ 0source record 6409
This is true, i work there as a delivery driver. But the workers on the make line have to clear the orders that come up once they are done for that timer to start♥ 0source record 6411
Even out for delivery is sketchy… sometimes they pre assign the order before it’s even ready to get the times they want♥ 0source record 6414
That’s crazy it seems so accurate mine is always delivered EXTREMELY fast and it’s like 15 mins away♥ 0source record 6415
worked at domimos for 4 years. so many phone calls about that dumb ass tracker♥ 1source record 6422
The fries at McDonald’s only last 7 mins♥ 1source record 13465
Might be common knowledge but fast food drive thru workers are timed per vehicle/order which is why they make you go park sometimes so you don’t F up their reports.♥ 238source record 14243
Can we refuse to park & just wait for our order at the window? They always forget about me & I’ll count about 4-5 cars getting their orders while I’m parked 🫠♥ 4source record 14244
Former fast food manager. They can tell when u do that cuz the sales dont match the cars.♥ 6source record 14247
Former fast food employee. I learned how to drive by driving my coworkers car through the drive thru to lower our time.♥ 18source record 14248
Only time you get fresh fries at McDonald’s is when you asks for no salt😭theu have to clean the whole salt bed thingy before handing you the fries♥ 183source record 14639
not the one I worked at years ago they would take the salted fries and re fry them to remove the salt.♥ 21source record 14640
I've worked at McDonald's i can second this 😂♥ 4source record 14641
I’m guilty of doing this lol. I love the fries but they were always old so I tried the no salt trick it worked then I asked for salt packets lol. You can’t eat those fries without the salt 😂😂😂♥ 8source record 14643
THISSSSSSSSSSSSSS is why I ask for fries with NO SALT [account]♥ 2source record 14644
Lmao yup this is why I always ask for no salt♥ 1source record 14647
When I worked there, if someone wanted fresh fries by asking for no salt, my managers would park them and make them sit 15 minutes 😂♥ 1source record 14648
This is true. I worked there and can confirm♥ 1source record 14649
Must be new than cause when I worked there it wasn’t. AND EVERY LOCATION IS DIFFERENT😌 sooo♥ 0source record 14652
No it’s not that’s everywhere they just don’t use it the right way was a manager for 6yrs♥ 0source record 14653
Gurl bye every location different 💯I worked there all through out HS ✌🏾♥ 0source record 14654
Every location SHOULD NOT BE DIFFRENT. It does not matter if it’s franchised or corporate owned they still have certain standards that EVERY MCDONALDS have to follow u learn that a hamburger university but carry on about salt or no salt.. what is the divider for in the salt bin then 🤔🤔😂😂😂♥ 0source record 14655
Well all managers don’t follow rules and guidelines gtfo goof ball 💯yall be getting on here and be want to be right so badd♥ 0source record 14656
Dumb ssa talking about hamburger university must of learned tht before get the manager position go to bed♥ 0source record 14657
really? at my mcdonald’s, we had 2 separate sections for salted and unsalted♥ 0source record 14658
Yupppppp. I can confirm either there all throughout college🤭♥ 0source record 14659
When I ask for extra salt on fries, they just give me the salt packets 😂😭♥ 0source record 14660
All you have to do is drop them and use tongs to take them out of the basket. No one has time to clean the tray♥ 0source record 14662
I worked at a McDonalds where we even took paper towels to the bin to wipe it out♥ 0source record 14665
It’s 2025 and people are still eating at McDonald’s when they’re involved with Soylent green♥ 0source record 14666
The one I worked at did it how i explained it 😂maybe your location was different♥ 0source record 14667
As long as they’re actually hot, i don’t care. Just dip that shit back in the fryer for like 20 seconds and heat it back up. That’s all I want.♥ 0source record 14669

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Frozen, bagged and reheated152 index entriesWhat arrives frozen, what comes out of a bag and what is concentrate, named chain by chain by the people who prepared it.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Frozen, bagged and reheated

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Frozen, bagged and reheated

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Use when: You are wondering how much of a menu is prepared on the premises

How commenters applied it: 152 records. Former bakers, cooks and managers name what arrives frozen or bagged: baked goods heated to order, soups and pastas from sealed bags dropped in hot water, dough deliberately underbaked so it keeps, cookie doughs shared across a rotating menu, lemonade and juice from concentrate rather than squeezed. Several give the same practical substitution — buy the supermarket version of the mix or the concentrate — and one explains that a restaurant biscuit differs mainly by how much butter is brushed on between bakes. The steakhouse record supplies the one genuinely informative dispute in the card: menu weights are raw weights, which one commenter argues is standard industry practice and another argues should be disclosed on the menu.

What readers reported: one of the things we did at RL when I worked there is take them out of the oven every few mins to wipe more butter on them. then back in the oven and then do it again over and over until they’re done cooking.

Limit: Almost every claim is about one branch or one franchise and several are denied by current staff of the same chains. Product sourcing changes and none of this was confirmed with any company.

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Nope, I make the the red lobster brand biscuits

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nope [account] gave us the real recipe

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Except I’ve accidentally left a McDonald’s bag in my car overnight and my car reeked the next day. So that’s simply not true. It might barely decompose, but it’s still gonna smell.

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The bread broke in half lol and the burger shrunk. I haven’t touched it in years lol😅

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unfortunately it is common sense that meat is weighed raw LMFAO ever gone to a butcher and asked for a 12 oz steak? they’re going to give you that with raw meat. it’s the same amount of steak when it turns into 9 oz cooked. all meat unless precooked is weighed RAW lmfaooo

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I used to be a baker at Tim Hortons. Absolutely NOTHING is fresh. Every single thing comes in boxes stacked in the freezer and heated to order. Every. Single. Thing. No exceptions.

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Subway doesn’t really clean the bottles where the sauces are in

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Tim’s- if you ask for no ice you will not get a full drink

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Use a sensory reset 7Turn it into a game 6Attach it to an existing routine 4Swap instead of subtract 4Create a default 3

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Dunkin's frozen coffee tastes like the frappucinos my favorite barista used to bring home to me from Starbucks. She's no longer with us and Starbucks can't replicate her secret recipe but Dunkin's taste just like hers♥ 1source record 7660
When I worked at Starbucks in Barnes and Noble we threw away 2/3rd of our bakery products every couple of days. All those frozen $7 sandwiches. I always thought why not make them $3 and sell more? So wasteful. But the employees at my particular store could take home the most brand new frozen cheesecakes instead of throwing them away after inventory, plus we made drinks all day. It was amazing in college but I gained 30 pounds ahah♥ 30source record 7661
same I had a coworker that use to take them to a shelter he got caught putting them aside and we left 😞♥ 5source record 7662
corporate locations actually give the excess to homeless shelters♥ 3source record 7663
I was a barista there back when we had actual espresso machines. lol that’s not true. It’s all dependent on what you order. You can literally order any type of coffee without sugar. Like what? 😆♥ 10source record 7664
Dutch Brothers made me realize Starbucks was ripping us off.♥ 0source record 7672
A big bottle of Starbucks cold brew can be bought in stores for the same price as a grande cold brew at a Starbucks.♥ 0source record 7681
I get a venti strawberry acai refresher with no water & no inclusions & light ice. I love me some straight concentrate from the box😫😂 my guilty pleasure♥ 0source record 7696
YUP! And shelf liquid. The grilled cheese can have my whole ass paycheck though. Do light ice so you get more juice or whatever.♥ 0source record 7700
I used to work at Starbucks. I thought I didn't like the taste of coffee back then. figured out all of their coffee just sucks when I started going to local shops instead. that's why there's a ton of sugar....it needs it to taste even remotely good 😂♥ 0source record 7701
Red lobster biscuits are the exact same as the box in stores but with double the butter.♥ 5,222source record 8912
Why they taste not as good tho! I worked at red lobster and watched them make them. I can never get the box to taste the same♥ 88source record 8913
one of the things we did at RL when I worked there is take them out of the oven every few mins to wipe more butter on them. then back in the oven and then do it again over and over until they’re done cooking.♥ 1source record 8914
The gluten free ones actually taste better and don’t sit like a brick in your stomach. The frozen ones are decent too♥ 1source record 8916
I add a lot of extra butter and they taste as good. Butter is the key♥ 54source record 8917
be sure to use melted butter w garlic on top after they are done♥ 47source record 8919
you replied to a comment that literally told you how to make them as good as the restaurant♥ 1source record 8920
I literally worked there, she’s right. You’re just doing it wrong.♥ 0source record 8921
Maybe youte baking them too long? I’m not sure mine always taste better. There’s easy homemade recipes online yoo♥ 13source record 8923
Idk it’s something about the texture like it’s just not the same and it’s the Outside texture that isn’t as greasy and all lol♥ 4source record 8924
The butter isn’t the issue. It’s the texture of the biscuit.♥ 4source record 8926
I used to crush the store biscuits when they first came out. They are not the sane anymore. I actually think both the restaurant and store bought ones are not as good as they used to be atleast 10 years ago♥ 0source record 8928
Yea I agree. Not as good as they used to be….they probably swapped in cheaper ingredients.♥ 1source record 8929
They sell the box kit you can make. I used to buy them and they tasted identical to me.♥ 0source record 8931
you are using bisquick?...I make mine a little smaller too. they always turn out great♥ 0source record 8933
it's bisquick, cheese and milk. I always put a little red pepper in it too....they are always wonderful. I've never tried the pre-made mix. you could probably find several recipes on Pinterest if you want to try it♥ 1source record 8935
The Red Lobster brand mix is actually closer to their biscuits than the Bisquick one, you should def try it. The frozen ones pre made ones are better tho.♥ 1source record 8936
You’ve committed an act of heroism, Liv. It will not soon be forgotten.♥ 3source record 8938
They also throw all of the leftovers away, I was taking home boxes upon boxes when I worked there♥ 1source record 8940
i made that box for the first time when i was like 9 years old and thought i was a chef bc it was the exact same.😭♥ 1source record 8941
And the scampi sauce I worked there 20 years♥ 0source record 8943
not really. people don’t have the scampi butter that rl has. that’s what makes it so good♥ 0source record 8944
and for the Celiac Disease baddies, they have gluten free (you can buy like a shit ton on Amazon pretty cheap lol)♥ 0source record 8951
I have a McDonald’s hamburger in my truck from years ago to show my kids it doesn’t spoil. It’s still there and still dry but no mold or anything.♥ 1,205source record 11999
But you could show them after a week or two and then throw it away and not have gross old hamburger smell in your car for months or years. 😂♥ 69source record 12002
babes why are you so attached to this hamburger?? let it go…♥ 7source record 12006
that’s the point she’s trying to make it doesn’t ever smell or get moldy or anything even after being in her car for so long♥ 1source record 12007
Except I’ve accidentally left a McDonald’s bag in my car overnight and my car reeked the next day. So that’s simply not true. It might barely decompose, but it’s still gonna smell.♥ 0source record 12008
I use to work at a community college and quit in 2023. I know they still have a McDonald's hamburger on display from 2015♥ 0source record 12010
And I’m sure if it’d been in your car since then you’d be able to smell it.♥ 0source record 12011
My old gym/health teacher has a burger from McDonald’s back at least 10+ yrs ago & it’s still not bad.♥ 13source record 12016
I’ve left a McDonald’s bag in my car accidentally overnight and the next day my car smelled like an atrocity, so yea I’m worried about what it would smell like after months. 🤣♥ 6source record 12017
I bit into a nugget the other day after eating healthy for months.. I was having a bad day. tasted like straight up chemicals. I threw it away.♥ 1source record 12019
That burger is another family member at this point it’s been there so long 😂😂 this has me cracking up that you kept it in there for so long♥ 3source record 12024
I found this out by accident toddler stuffed it between seat and during a detail found the meat patty still the same 😂😭😩♥ 3source record 12025
I had a teacher college who had a burger from 2004 from mcd to show us♥ 1source record 12028
Same with the fries. My aunt has them in her drawer from years and years ago. Never got moldy or spoiled♥ 1source record 12029
I just found a French fry in an old purse. Same thing. Just dried out, no mold or anything.. lol♥ 1source record 12030
Oh my god I found an uneaten burger in my car that was months old and it looked the same just a bit discolored♥ 1source record 12034
I have a McDonald’s fry that has been sitting in the car for like almost a year. It’s still the same condition from when I got it.😂😂♥ 1source record 12036
So true, it just dries up but doesnt rot or have any smell. There was a lady who did this for a year, it still looked fresh apart from the dryness.♥ 1source record 12040
There is a McDonald's cheese burger in Iceland, it's in a display case for visiters to see. the cheese burger is in the same pristine condition as yours. I'm amazed at how long it has lasted without signs of decomposition.♥ 0source record 12041
Sarah Lee bread didn't mold after 2 months when all 18 of my 2nd graders touched it for our science fair project.♥ 0source record 12044
I had given a homeless lady a ride one time & she ate a week old hamburger that was in my car & didn't get sick 🤮♥ 2source record 12045
Crumbl intentionally doesn’t cook the cookies long enough so they can “last longer” so yes, they are raw♥ 988source record 12049
Friend of mine left cookies on the counter and got wheat mights and it took forever to get rid of her moving dust🤮♥ 8source record 12050
Those cookies are so gross, I don't get why people like them.♥ 4source record 12051
You’re literally supposed to heat them up when you get them home so that you’re eating a warm cookie that isn’t dried out. Reading the instructions is a thing♥ 0source record 12052
“Instructions”?? Never once was that a thing when I worked there.♥ 3source record 12053
I’m only bought them once when it first opened and there was a card in the box that said to heat them up. I’m assuming that’s why they are undercooked♥ 0source record 12054
I’ll add that they aren’t hygienic either! I’ve watched at multiple places poor hand hygiene and employees touching their faces and noses, hair, phones and then even raw raw dough to then cross baked dough with the same gloves and nothing said. They ALSO cross contaminate peanut products with nonpeanut products which can unalive someone with allergies! I don’t go there and never will! They’re nasty! Ps- my friend used to work at one and informed us of the behaviors and the counters of some closing employees together- so no the counters have extra nasty left behind!♥ 1source record 12060
(Anyone trying to say I was there- yes when I used to DoorDash not as the direct customer!- oh and at least my local crumbls will delete negative reviews from review locations just be warned!)♥ 0source record 12061
I used to be a baker at Tim Hortons. Absolutely NOTHING is fresh. Every single thing comes in boxes stacked in the freezer and heated to order. Every. Single. Thing. No exceptions.♥ 14,939source record 12140
if you didn't know this in 2025 it's a little bit your fault.♥ 0source record 12141
can confirm. also changing the time stickers on hot food. if it was still full after the time elapsed or even half full, we just changed the sticker. I've seen eggs served that are Grey looking because overhead waste didn't want to add up♥ 0source record 12145
i mean this is pretty obvious. timmy’s doesn’t even taste like real food♥ 0source record 12147
I can confirm this lol♥ 0source record 12151
At my location he machines are cleaned daily and there is no gross container is mixed it . It’s mixed in a food grade clean container poured into the machine♥ 0source record 12153
That’s every coffee shop. You think Starbucks employees are in the back kneading dough? You see the trucks in the mornings for all the coffee shops dropping the food items♥ 0source record 12154
I been calling Tim’s “never fresh” for years… my food is always stale. But yet their slogan is “always fresh at tim hortons”♥ 0source record 12156
People actually think the donuts, cookies, muffins etc are fresh and not frozen??? Come on yall get it together 😭♥ 0source record 12159
“Freshly squeezed” juices at restaurants/hotels are 99.9% of time coming from a gallon♥ 1,002source record 12988
Not fancy restaurant, but I’ll say this raising canes lemonade is fresh, they make the team members squeeze almost 2 cases of lemons every morning. If there’s lemonade overnight, it gets wasted because it will not be considered fresh♥ 11source record 12990
I work in a hotel and can confirm♥ 2source record 12991
I worked at a resort in Newport Beach in room service. I saw it with my own eyes lol used to charge $9 a glass too, which is wild. I hope they have a machine now though♥ 2source record 12993
I’ve worked in tons of different restaurants and hotels for 15 years and fresh squeezed always was fresh squeezed. You just worked at some shady spot♥ 0source record 12994
that's because there's no legally recognized definition of freshly squeezed. just like when a food item says all natural.♥ 0source record 12996
You can even taste its from gallon, I send it back and refuse to drink♥ 0source record 12997
Used to work for an Italian restaurant lol they use the same cheese wheel for most meals and just give it different names. 😂♥ 1source record 13461
Subway doesn’t really clean the bottles where the sauces are in♥ 1source record 13464
wendy’s and popeyes lemonades are made with minute made concentrate. so instead of spending 5 dollars on their lemonade i just go buy a minute maid at the grocery store for a dollar or two♥ 661source record 13739
my grandma loves popeyes lemonade. but it literally just tasted like minutemaid to me, nothing else got that dry hydrating taste. She didn’t believe me when I told her, thank you for this because I can’t wait to tell her I was right♥ 1source record 13741
all it is it's concentrated boxed lemonade with syrup added♥ 0source record 13743
And don’t trust Popeyes food 🙋‍♀️I worked at one had coworkers sent to other ones and js bc all the drama from other ones talk to each other, they have intercourse in the cool rooms and most teenagers don’t want to clean that great and they don’t have actual dishwashers they have a teenager sent to the back wash all the dishes by hand as fast as possible♥ 0source record 13744
Former wendys manager here, yes this is true, also when we needed to refill the lemonades for the night we just put water 🤣 no more syrup no more lemonade thats why ppl always say it tastes watery♥ 0source record 13749
it’s also minute maid and i’ve tried to buy it myself but apparently they only sell it to companies😭♥ 1source record 13751
Cool. What about the pineapple mango stuff they put in it? Can u tell me how I can get that, Plz? I love those but like alot of the syrup. Thank you!!♥ 1source record 13752
honestly i get lemonade every time i go to wendy’s 🤣 if i buy it at the store ima still get it from wendy’s 😭♥ 0source record 13753
Yeah that would make sense, but I'm pretty sure Wendy's national standardized the lemonades recently so unless it's like a regional thing where the customers can TELL that it's not minute made, it's definitely Huberts.♥ 0source record 13757
that might be true for other wendy’s but the one i worked in used the minute maid base as well. it was also privately owned *i hope im using that term right* so that might be why♥ 0source record 13758
Wendy's lemonade uses minute maid flavorings, the lemonade base however is Huberts lemonade just fyi.♥ 0source record 13759
they have the exact flavors in the bottles too! i was skeptical at first but it tastes the same except i like it more over ice in those cheap plastic cups i just can’t justify spending 5 bucks so i either buy it at the store or steal it from my job 🤣♥ 0source record 13763
even the flavors are from minute maid. the flavors are a concentrate so idk if they sell it but they do sell it already made in bottles♥ 2source record 13764
Wait , what about the pineapple mango flavor , where can I buy it I live Wendy’s pineapple mango with lemonade♥ 6source record 13765
that’s what weirds me out too. the wendy’s one isn’t too sweet and we always added less water to it. popeyes one is wayyy too sweet and we add more water to it but it comes from the same brand and packaging. i think they alter the taste depending on the company they sell to♥ 1source record 13767
i’m convinced minute maid is just supplying all the restaurants lemonades 🤣 the weird thing is that it always tastes different. we add more water to the popeyes one and yet it’s so much sweeter which i hate. the wendy’s one has less and is so watery♥ 20source record 13770
When you go to steakhouses, the weight you see on the menu is the raw weight, so if you order a 12oz steak you’re getting an 8oz but paying for 12oz. Also, most healthcare overnight workers are sleeping♥ 491source record 13772
Overnight trauma surgeon here. We make up for it. Sometimes I can spend 30+ hours in surgery.♥ 84source record 13773
I definitely ask mine if they had a good nights/day sleep before I get on the table. If not go lay down I’ll still be here when you wake up 😂😂😂♥ 8source record 13774
People always ask me to show my hands. To check for steadiness.♥ 4source record 13775
Then include that in the menu description so people are aware and can order accordingly.♥ 1source record 13781
Night shift nurse. It’s cute you think we have time to sleep.♥ 5source record 13782
Right… lucky if I take a 15 minute break to eat and pee! 😂😂😂♥ 1source record 13783
Yall do lol I work in a hospital as well, I see it😂 like I said, not shaming yall for it♥ 0source record 13784
Not hardly. At night is when behaviors start, certain health conditions flare up,the loneliness,neediness,fall risk and deaths are prominent during night hours.dont know how one can sleep through that.i never could♥ 1source record 13787
Honestly hell yeah, they deserve the sleep and id rather they be rested as best they can be 😩♥ 1source record 13788
But if they are working nights and I’m definitely not speaking for all nurses here but if they are working night and had the whole day to sleep it is not right to sleep on the job♥ 0source record 13789
I’m a night shift nurse. Never seen a nurse asleep at work. Pretty sure they would lose their job if they did.♥ 0source record 13790
I mean yeah they would but that doesn’t stop them from doing it.. there’s nursing jobs all over. My exs mom is a nurse and she was fired at least 15 times and each time was able to find another job in less than a few weeks♥ 0source record 13791
Been a night shift nurse for over a decade, I may of slept once on my ONE 30 minute break during my 14hr shift, so idk where you’re at but I’d love to be there….♥ 0source record 13792
I’ve worked for a couple hospitals Jersey and Florida, actually a pretty common thing so♥ 0source record 13793
I knew about the healthcare workers I have Lupus and I’m in the hospital a lot . One night I kept ringing my bell for my pain medicine and no one would answer the nurses station was right in front of my door when I looked out all them were knocked tf out smh !!!!♥ 0source record 13795
I know how meat works lmfao wtf that’s not the point. The point is if you are ADVERTISING a certain weight and CHARGING for a certain weight, that weight should be on my plate when it gets to me. Like how hard is that to understand? And no not every restaurant does this lmfao case in point, you go to a bbq restaurant and they are advertising half pound brisket and 2 sides for $16.99, when the food gets to you, do you get 8oz of brisket or 5oz?♥ 0source record 13796
cause no matter how much i explain to you, you aren’t listening 😭 it is the mass of a steak. brisket is also weighed raw. unless its coming out of a big batch it’s weighed raw. if it comes out of a big batch there won’t be any weigh on it. oz on the menu = raw weight.♥ 0source record 13799
You’re still stuck on explaining meat shrinkage when we are already past that point. We are talking about the restaurant advertising, keep up. All meat shrinks, got it, but, they advertise the weight being served cooked at bbq restaurants so why is it different at some steakhouses? Like the average person isn’t sitting at the table like “ok, it says 12oz steak, I know mathematically meat shrinks by 25% so if they are saying 12oz steak, I have to subtract 25% for meat shrinkage so that will equal 9oz but I’m paying for 12oz” like wtf lmao they are saying “oh, I want a 12oz steak, so I’m gonna order a 12oz steak” like idk how simpler I can dumb it down for you♥ 0source record 13800
And like, it’s not that deep, there’s MANY ways to fix this. A. Put a disclaimer on the menu so customers know what they’re paying for, B. Buy steaks 3oz bigger to make up the difference, C. Weigh the meat after cooking and charge them for that weight. Like it’s not rocket science 😂♥ 0source record 13801
bro. if they get it raw it’s weighed raw THATS HOW IT WORKS SO NO THEY DONT NEED TO EXPLAIN BC ITS COMMON SENSE♥ 0source record 13802
the same way meat is weighed raw at a butcher. a 12 steak looses 2 oz of moisture. IT DOESNT LOOSE THE MEAT. that is the way they calculate steak in america buddy. its common sense i fear that if it has the amount of oz it is RAW before cooked because it was a 12 oz steak. no matter if it lost weight after. it is still a 12 oz steak. it’s just cooked now.♥ 0source record 13803
No it’s literally not. YOU think it’s common sense because you probably work in the restaurant industry or have worked in the restaurant industry at some point, otherwise you wouldn’t be so passionate about this. But to the average person, it’s common sense to pay for a product and receive said product as it’s advertised. Next time you order food and they don’t give you a straw, napkins or utensils, don’t get mad at them, be mad at yourself because it’s “common sense” to ask them for it. Lmfao♥ 0source record 13804
i dont work in the restaurant industry. it’s just common sense. you’re comparing it being common sense that meat is weighed raw to getting a straw ? 😭 what? i don’t get mad if they don’t automatically bring it (that’s in their job description) i just ask when i see them.♥ 0source record 13805
No it’s not. It’s a 9 oz steak on my plate when I paid for 12oz. Like girl are you feeling ok? You pay for a product you receive the product you paid for. 1+1=2. Very simple. If I pay for a 12oz steak on my plate I get a 12 oz steak on my plate. WTF is so hard about grasping that concept? I genuinely would like to know. You keep explaining how meat shrinks when cooked and we are past that, we aren’t talking about that, I’ve told you this multiple times. Yet you’re still trying to explain something that is understood by both parties. We are talking about the restaurant and them advertising something you are not receiving. Like I said, it’s not common sense to calculate a meal when you go out to eat, it’s common sense for a restaurant to give you wtf you ordered, which is a 12 oz steak on my plate. Period.♥ 0source record 13806
it’s a 12 oz steak. it loses moisture this is literally just common sense if you eat red meat. you had other people tell you the same shi. i’m not fighting w stoopid. you complain at the next restaurant they’ll take shi in the back 😭😭♥ 0source record 13807
Btw I just posted a poll on sc and so far up to 3 people saying if they ordered a 12oz steak, a 12oz steak should be on their plate, this is including my wife who was a waitress for years😂♥ 0source record 13809
it is a 12 oz steak. it is a cooked 12 oz steak. it just loses weight. meat is weighed raw. this is how all steakhouses work. if you don’t like it take it up with them 😭 i fear it is common sense♥ 0source record 13810
you think i care? 😭 you’ve been arguing with someone about STEAK. even if it’s not 12 oz once it’s on your plate. it is STILL a 12 oz steak. because AGAIN meat is weighed RAW. i’m once again finally done responding cause you’re just dumb and stuck in your ways. i’ve asked multiple people today and everyone said they know it’s raw weight :)♥ 0source record 13812
everything is weighed raw so it’s consistent with calories. just because when you cook it, it loses water weight and all that doesn’t mean it was a 12 oz steak lolll♥ 0source record 13814
I mean it can be consistent with calories after it’s cooked to. Not sure why they are telling you the calories in raw weight when zero people are eating raw steak, but that’s besides the point, If I’m paying for 12oz, I expect all 12 of em😂 and if it’s not 12oz cooked, include that in a disclaimer under the meal on the menu. Not hard to do lol♥ 0source record 13815
unfortunately it is common sense that meat is weighed raw LMFAO ever gone to a butcher and asked for a 12 oz steak? they’re going to give you that with raw meat. it’s the same amount of steak when it turns into 9 oz cooked. all meat unless precooked is weighed RAW lmfaooo♥ 0source record 13816
It’s literally not😂 so you’re meaning to tell me they can tell you EXACTLY what’s in the meal, every ingredient down to the oil they cook it in, but can’t tell me the price reflects raw weight? Miss me w the bs😂 and yes, I go to a butcher knowing I’m paying for a 12oz steak and whatever I do with it after that is on me. Just like if you order 4 chicken tenders, you get 4 chicken tenders, they don’t send you 3 tenders and go “oop sorry the price reflects 3 raw tenders” if you’re advertising a 12 oz steak, I expect a 12oz steak on my plate when it comes to me. Or, just charge me for an 8oz steak if that’s what is on my plate, very very simple concept lmao♥ 0source record 13817
calories are raw weight unless they’re packaged with calories on the item. steak is weighed raw. it is still a 12 oz steak no matter how much weight it looses when cooked.♥ 0source record 13818
Hey we don’t sleep on my job . You will get fired they watch the cameras .♥ 0source record 13820
Marybrowns- if they drop cooked chicken on the floor they pick it back up and put it back on the tray♥ 0source record 14185
Tim’s- if you ask for no ice you will not get a full drink♥ 0source record 14188
Every soup in Panera come out of a plastic bag that sits in hot water to thaw. Even the Mac.♥ 68source record 14493
yupppp. i used 2 work there n can confirm. also the brownies r frozen♥ 1source record 14496
yeah I used to find 🐛 in the broccoli Cheddar♥ 0source record 14498
I remember everything at Olive garden being in plastic bags that's boil, too.♥ 0source record 14499
Half of your fruit in your tropical smoothie is actually syrup or concentrate♥ 126source record 14500
Never once enjoyed a smoothie from tropical smoothie they never taste good♥ 5source record 14501
Restaurant soup comes outta bags and Applebees stores raw chicken and steak together unsealed 😭😭♥ 148source record 14845
I hated working at Applebees… everything is practically microwaved 🥲 even the meats after a few mins on the grill to “meet corporates time standard”♥ 0source record 14849
Chillis and Panera too. All bagged. Might as well get it from the deli section at the grocery store, it’s all the same♥ 0source record 14850
They keep them in the walk in on push carts with metal trays and “plastic” coverings 🫣♥ 1source record 14853
Crumbl cookie uses the same dough for everything, they just add different toppings and call it a new name so you believe it’s a new cookie♥ 130source record 14914
I know, I’m simply saying they are acting like it’s a brand new cookie every week. Even though they honestly almost all taste the same you just think you are getting a different cookie so you think it taste different♥ 0source record 14915
That's because literally every cookie on earth is made from the same ingredients butter, sugar, eggs, flour, baking soda, baking powder, salt, and vanilla. Then you add other ingredients to make different flavors. Same thing with bread.♥ 0source record 14916
When you recive a free cinnamon or garlic bread from dominos pizza, the dough is already expired and it’s too heavy to throw it away, cheaper to give it away♥ 127source record 14930
It’ll be like hey you get a free cinna or fabric bread on us but in reality it’s expired dough♥ 6source record 14931
I worked at a corporate store for 10 years, thr stores I worked at all did this♥ 2source record 14933
A lot of stuff at Dominos is off the charts crazy. I worked there for 2 + years and 3 + locations, the shit I saw. I would go a whole shift without eating there. I waited till I got home, no matter how hungry I was. Undercooked pan pizzas, not washing hands, vaping in stores while making pizza, expired/ moldy thin crusts/ sandwich bread, etc. the list goes on and on.♥ 6source record 14934
That’s wild. I’ve come to learn from all the places I work, some times it’s the company, but a lot of the times it’s the management. I work at dominos now, my gm is strict strict we get a perfect score every time we get inspected. Yall be safe though♥ 1source record 14935
Not my location. My gm is strict strict. Y’all be safe though♥ 0source record 14936

Archive: 152 index entries preserve 152 distinct source records · Every displayed synthesis count resolves to source-record IDs

The chains the people who worked there still eat at110 index entriesThe corpus's positive reports, which are as specific as its complaints and come with the same job titles attached.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: The chains the people who worked there still eat at

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The chains the people who worked there still eat at

110 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You want the reports that went the other way

How commenters applied it: 110 records. This card exists because the corpus is not uniformly cynical and the positive reports are as specific as the complaints. A former general manager of four years says burgers are cut and cooked to order and describes the food-safety regime; a spouse working in quality assurance at a supplying plant describes the testing on the meat; a five-year employee at another chain says the only cut not butchered in-house was the one they had no saw for, and current staff describe the bread being made from dry and wet ingredients on site. A former manager explains a custard texture complaint by machine temperature rather than by an inferior mix. One report is a pure supply-chain claim, that a soda recipe was sold on, which a commenter says a search contradicts. Even here the thread argues.

What readers reported: I worked there for 5 years and yes it was the freshest and cleanest place I've ever served at!! the only steak they didn't cut there was the t bone and it was because they didn't have a bone saw!!

Limit: These are former employees praising former employers, which carries its own bias, and other former staff of the same chains report roach infestations and food poisoning. Nothing was verified.

What replies pushed back on2

i googled this and it says it isn't true lmao that it's their own developed recipe

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Yeah I just came to say this is not true… okay bye…

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Explicit limit or counterpoint

I used to love root beer when I was a kid, now I hate it. Maybe I’ll try c

source record 8068
Explicit limit or counterpoint

why is the concrete's soft sometimes? ugh I hate it bc I love them

source record 8127

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culver’s rootbeer is the ORIGINAL A&W recipe. they sold the recipe to culvers years ago

source record 7988♥ 10,540
Later-arriving source

I cried leaving 😭 I was moving and applied to the ones in the state I moved too and haven’t heard back from em yet with prior experience so I know the struggle babes.

posted about 50 days after the source♥ 1
Zero-like source

This made me so happy to hear because I know when foods actually made the right way and their food taste really good and I don’t feel sick after eating

posted about 47 days after the source

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What the counts show

Across 110 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Remove a step” (4 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

110index entries
110distinct source records
21%of parent category
1.7%of the complete index
5top-level comments
105replies

What commenters explicitly report

2explicitly reports a benefit
2explicitly reports a limit or failure
9asks a question
0says they intend to try it
97other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

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Remove a step 4Attach it to an existing routine 2

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

Browse the original comments110 preserved records · 110 of 110 source records accounted for
culver’s rootbeer is the ORIGINAL A&W recipe. they sold the recipe to culvers years ago♥ 10,540source record 7988
the kids meal for sure! it’s essentially just a small value basket, the only difference is it’s way cheaper and you get a scoop of custard alongside it. if you collect 10 of the tokens on the kids bag you can get a free kids meal as well!♥ 12source record 7993
i used to be a manager, i could spill so much♥ 11source record 7995
I literally cannot stand a&w anymore but I LOVE Culver’s! No wonder why it tastes so much better♥ 9source record 7998
Absolutely same i didnt get shit besides RB at culvers♥ 2source record 8002
they sure do! you can make any of the sodas into a float and use any custard flavor they have available as well!♥ 2source record 8004
Wait really😭? I work for Culver’s rn♥ 2source record 8007
oooh another fun Culver's fact: they licensed their custard recipes from a small franchise from Las Cruces NM called Caliches. I went to college there and we learned about the licensing deal in one of my business classes. we live across the country and it's our favorite food from back home. we just got a Culver's in our new city and my life is complete♥ 1source record 8008
I knew it. I just tried them for the first time the other day and was like i know a&w when i taste talking bout culvers rootbeer 🤣🤣♥ 1source record 8010
i knew it tasted better there 👀 i’m not crazy but everyone in my family thought i was because i said it tasted different and way better when i get it from Culver’s♥ 1source record 8020
Omg my dad and I LOVE root beer and i told him it’s the BEST ROOTBEER IVE HAD SINCE CHILDHOOD♥ 0source record 8025
They should advertise this! Their sales would skyrocket♥ 0source record 8031
I was a manager there and I never knew this! It’s still one of my faves so I ain’t even mad haha♥ 0source record 8033
This is good! My dad personally knows the Culver’s I’m gonna ask him to ask them about this!♥ 0source record 8037
I literally drank some of my son's rb at culvers the other day and had such a sense of nostalgia because WHY was that the REAL ROOT BEER?!♥ 0source record 8043
where do you buy culvert? I love rootbeer and my dad bought me a mini keg of it in hs for my bday. I loved it.♥ 0source record 8046
i’m not actually sure! at my location we didn’t have that as something we offered, so it may just be local your location!♥ 0source record 8047
I used to love root beer when I was a kid, now I hate it. Maybe I’ll try c♥ 0source record 8068
Culver’s has its own recipe, not the original recipe. The reason A&W doesnt taste the same is because Keurig D. Pepper owns them♥ 0source record 8070
I wish they fucking sold their root beer bottled up. best goddamn root beer ever.♥ 0source record 8073
[account] [account] [account] [account] [account]♥ 2source record 8074
Culver’s really is made fresh to order and their burgers are never frozen. Worked there 4 years as a GM. They are actually REALLY good about food safety.♥ 4,251source record 8093
They use a custard base. It’s kept at a slightly higher temperature than normal ice cream if I remember right, so if they don’t monitor it closely throughout the day, it can drop below the specified parameters, causing it to be too cold and forming tiny ice crystals. It could also be that someone put malt powder in it as well by mistake. That was a common mess up I noticed♥ 65source record 8095
But all of the “flavors” are just a normal vanilla base (aside from any chocolate based flavors of course) and then as it’s in the machine, they would add the flavoring concentrate while it was chilling.♥ 24source record 8097
Try this, vanilla base, cheesecake with salted caramel. It’s the best combination. I’ve tried others & it was ok but this was the best.♥ 11source record 8098
It was probably gritty because the machine was set too high while making it. My mom was a GM for 25 years and I worked there for 7.♥ 9source record 8100
custard is also made with eggs so we had a custard machine that pastureuized a little too warm and would begin to cook the whites, but as they refroze they would just melt :) didn’t affect it any, just the texture♥ 2source record 8102
i️didn’t say i️worked at culvers 😏♥ 0source record 8104
Then what you’re saying bares no significance to this discussion.♥ 0source record 8105
how we are literally talking about custard? lmao you’re just being arrogant. sorry you think you’re the only one with a right valid opinion 🫶🏼♥ 5source record 8106
i️hope it helps that there are multiple custard machines and i️was speaking on the education i️had based off mine that i WOKRED on and managed. get off your rock.♥ 3source record 8108
You need to get out from UNDER your rock lady. Culver’s only uses one custard machine across all of their stores. Wanna know how I know that? Because we went to Wisconsin to learn THE EXACT PROCESS from the very first Culver’s ever opened. Your experience holds absolutely ZERO weight. Now your ego is hurt on a Friday night because you didn’t know when enough was enough, and to admit you were wrong. Was it worth it “Faith”?♥ 0source record 8109
CULVERS ISN’T THE ONLY PLACE THAT SERVES CUSTARD WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU♥ 4source record 8110
No but if they’re scooping from the bottom the chilled containers may make it that way. Made fresh all day. Former GM♥ 1source record 8111
I always ask to taste it because I swear half the time it’s grainy at my local Culver’s!♥ 1source record 8112
I second this,husband has been in the industry for over 20 years. 5 years with Culvers. it's the most honest, genuine fast food company there is.♥ 6source record 8113
yes they are, custard machines cleaned daily and put back together daily. I worked there too. love their professionalism for fast food♥ 6source record 8114
Their food is so goated it feels like I’m eating an actual meal rather than plastic slop at other fast food chains 🙏🙏♥ 4source record 8115
This is like the third comment I've seen about how fresh Culver's is, and now I really want a butterburger♥ 3source record 8118
Go get ya one! lol but seriously, I worked at one in southern Michigan for 4 years, and would frequently travel to the owners other 3 locations to help as needed, and all of them were immaculate in the cleanliness department, and with food prep.♥ 3source record 8119
Did you work for Karen? I worked at the A2 location for four years! Very clean!♥ 0source record 8120
No I did not. I worked for Michael. He owns 4(at the time of my employment, idk if he owns more now though) throughout Michigan♥ 0source record 8121
This!!! I was a shift leader at Culvers and that was probably the cleanest fast food experience I've ever had!!!!♥ 2source record 8125
This is true! Worked there for years and I will still eat their food!♥ 2source record 8126
why is the concrete's soft sometimes? ugh I hate it bc I love them♥ 0source record 8127
They’re supposed to be soft(er). But if they’re too soft, it’s most likely they blended them too much, or the chiller wasn’t set high enough.♥ 2source record 8128
Literally my FAVORITE burger in the entire world. In and out is literal trash compared to culvers. It’s because their from Wisconsin 🥺♥ 1source record 8133
The veggie burger they used at the time was a rice, cheese, and bean mixture on an UTZ bun♥ 1source record 8135
I can’t decide how sad it is or isn’t that there are very very few brands that have not been put on blast here in unforgivable ways. Hahah♥ 1source record 8136
It’s primarily in the Midwest, but it does extend out east in some states, and south east as well. It’s a Fast “casual” dining experience. It has a hospitality crew, and runner for the orders to get to their tables/cars at a timely manner.♥ 1source record 8143
My daughter works there now and this is valid♥ 1source record 8150
Mine too, I just wish the prices weren’t so high now lol. Free Culver’s for four years was awesome, and awful at the same time when it’s all I really ate because I worked so much. Now I only get it occasionally lol♥ 1source record 8156
This made me so happy to hear because I know when foods actually made the right way and their food taste really good and I don’t feel sick after eating♥ 0source record 8158
Too bad all their food is full of tons of unnecessary ingredients♥ 0source record 8159
They have some good sandwiches, but their mushroom Swiss burger is 💩 and not the good kind. Made me sick.♥ 0source record 8161
Their M&S is miles above most competitions versions of the same sandwich. Not ever store will be perfect, but as a whole it’s far better than most.♥ 0source record 8162
Facts. My husband is QA manager at a plant that prepares Culver’s burgers. The testing and shipping of that meat is top tier.♥ 0source record 8167
Exactly. If you order anything from the fryer, ALWAYS wait to eat it lol especially the chicken sandwich, or the tenders. Those things are like lava for a solid 5 mins lmao♥ 0source record 8168
Now you’re pissy because someone called you out on your bullshit? Lmao oh no, if it isn’t the consequences of your own actions. Imagine trying to slander a company because you’re salty.♥ 1source record 8171
Explain why I got food poisoning from the one on SR 466 in The Villages, FL in July of 2018♥ 0source record 8173
Culver’s is truly the best! I wish they opened one in CA or I had money to bring the franchise here 😭😭♥ 0source record 8174
thats why they have great burgers and their custard is amazing too♥ 0source record 8175
yes yes currently work here and also the custard is the same base as the shakes so if you want soft serve in a cup, get a vanilla shake 😌♥ 0source record 8177
How are you going to tell me a literal fact is a lie? Have you ever worked in a Culver’s? Even the most entry level employee knows the burgers are made fresh. They train every employee the process.♥ 1source record 8181
You’re literally lying in the internet for no reason. So I’m gonna call you out on your bullshit. 🫵🏼🗑️♥ 0source record 8182
Texas Roadhouse rolls are FRESH made every day. With the blood sweat and TEARS of the bread makers.♥ 4,070source record 10529
Now tell me have they been told to make them drastically smaller and less glazed or is that just low quality bread makers being hired now?♥ 38source record 10530
Our bread ladies would make them so big you’d be full before your appetizer or entree. 💕♥ 52source record 10531
the rolls are supposed to be 2 oz before baking! they’re probably getting more strict♥ 3source record 10534
Low quality bread makers and possibly being told to make them smaller too.♥ 31source record 10535
I work there, the rolls are just chilling in the back being eaten by employees 😆😆 lol jk I get full off of like 2 of them lol♥ 3source record 10538
As a former Texas Roadhouse worker I’ve never seen a chain restaurant that puts as much tlc into their food as they do!♥ 3source record 10540
Having to make the butter and put it into each individual cup lowk gave me carpal tunnel BAD but if I didn’t get that 750 cups done OOOOOF😭♥ 3source record 10542
3 tables is the max servers get! Don’t forget about the LEGENDARY fresh cut steaks, beverages, and rolls. The steaks you see on display when you walk in are for sale!♥ 2source record 10545
Going to the Togo window and ordering a dozen rolls and cinnamon butter was less than a coffee.♥ 3source record 10546
I can attest this is true as a former prep cook. Best quality meat too♥ 2source record 10547
The amount of times I’ve contemplated asking for a bag of them 😂 they are literally the perfect crouton!♥ 1source record 10551
Honestly 😭 when I worked there I would go bother the kitchen just for a ramekin of them.♥ 2source record 10552
Can confirm. While I was waiting to pick up my order the other night, I was watching the woman making the bread and I was ENTHRALLED. She was awesome and made it look like magic! ♥️♥ 2source record 10553
Also if you get anything outside of their fresh cut steaks you’re eating frozen meat. The catfish is also flash frozen. You can smell it across the restaurant when someone orders.♥ 2source record 10554
I cried leaving 😭 I was moving and applied to the ones in the state I moved too and haven’t heard back from em yet with prior experience so I know the struggle babes.♥ 1source record 10555
Ooof I worked at one in a smaller town. They didn’t have a very high turnover rate it seemed. We really do love our jobs 😭💕♥ 1source record 10556
This is why I will wake up from a dead sleep and want Texas Roadhouse roles in the middles of the night 30 minutes away.♥ 1source record 10557
Man I agree with this. I did cold prep and served. I miss making their fresh stuff! I will die on that hill buck fck the sidework hahaha♥ 1source record 10559
Don’t thank me! I was just the hostess! I did my best to make them happy tho and keep their spirits high. Those ladies were my babies!♥ 1source record 10563
Also two of them are equivalent to one whopper with cheese… You’re welcome♥ 0source record 10570
I can tell that’s why I love Texas Roadhouse and the prices are cheap♥ 0source record 10573
Tell us where the cinnamon butter comes from!!! As well as bread dough manufacturer! 🙃 Thanks!♥ 0source record 10576
They literally MAKE the bread with all the dry and wet ingredients poof it and bake it. In house💀 now for the butter I’ve just seen them scoop it from the big bowls I wasn’t prep but I saw a lot in the back when running Togo.♥ 0source record 10577
and HAIR! Ive had hair in those rolls 4 times at different locations!♥ 0source record 10578
[account] is a good company to work for and everything for the most part.. is actually made from scratch but I feel like they try brainwash their employees!♥ 1source record 10579
I prefer my rolls without blood sweat and tears actually 😷😷😷♥ 0source record 10583
someone just said they drop the steaks and still sell em♥ 0source record 10587
Subway they will definitely drop the bread and then still pick it up to make your sandwich.♥ 0source record 10588
subway in canada, more specifically ontario is inedible. look up vids. disgusting♥ 0source record 10589
I’ve worked at a location in the states. I believe you.♥ 0source record 10590
after having a free meal DAILY.. I couldn't eat there anymore♥ 5source record 14335
Worked as an assistant director in the kitchen there for 4 years MOST of it is fresh;however, the soup comes frozen/cooked we thawed it in a big soup pot. Chicken does come frozen we thawed it in the coolers, sometimes the shredded chicken on salads & in soup were left over filets from night before to cool down&shred in the morning. Other than that everything was pretty fresh♥ 2source record 14339
That’s not true. I have two children as employees and they do make most items. They hand bread their chicken and brine it.♥ 0source record 14341
nah you must have went to a shitty 1. when I was in the Marines, we used to get it at least 2 times a week♥ 0source record 14345
Working here was shit but Texas Roadhouse IS quality. Nothing is frozen aside from dessert. Meat is butchered everyday. It really is that good for a reason♥ 829source record 14508
I worked there for 5 years and yes it was the freshest and cleanest place I've ever served at!! the only steak they didn't cut there was the t bone and it was because they didn't have a bone saw!!♥ 39source record 14509
GIRL I won’t gatekeep. I will literally give you the rolls and butter recipe! I’ll send it later 🤪♥ 6source record 14512
TR by my house just had a news segment on a roach infestation that had been reported for months 😭 I haven’t been back since♥ 2source record 14516
I’ve seriously had some better meals at Texas Roadhouse than I have had some high end steakhouses.♥ 0source record 14518
I worked there and their chicken strips and steak tips gave me diarrhea every single time lol♥ 0source record 14519
Texas Roadhouse line dances to annoy u and turn tables♥ 125source record 14954
Get ppl out of the building so more guests can come in and pay for food♥ 10source record 14957
no but the kitchen gets backed up because all the servers have to dance and can't run food during that time♥ 3source record 14959
Not at the one I was at and it doesn’t make sense tbh cause a kitchen being backed up is due to no one running food and running out of space in the window 90% of the time 😭♥ 1source record 14961

Archive: 110 index entries preserve 110 distinct source records · Every displayed synthesis count resolves to source-record IDs

Hygiene, pre-seasoned meat and what gets served anyway122 index entriesMeat-counter and kitchen staff on marinade and end dates, and the hygiene comparisons crews make between their own two employers.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Hygiene, pre-seasoned meat and what gets served anyway

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Hygiene, pre-seasoned meat and what gets served anyway

122 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are buying prepared meat, or choosing between two chains on the same street

How commenters applied it: 122 records. The supermarket report is the most actionable: a meat-department manager says pre-seasoned meat is stock approaching its end date and that the marinade buys days and masks smell and discolouration, and several counter-staff and butchers confirm it — one describes being written up for discarding out-of-date stock instead. Others say their own store seasons fresh in front of customers. The chain-versus-chain reports work the same way: one worker who did both jobs says one employer's hygiene regime was strict and the other's was not, and the replies split almost evenly, with staff of each chain describing the opposite experience at their own branch. The generalisation several land on — the bigger the chain, the more audited the kitchen — is offered as a rule of thumb, not evidence.

What readers reported: This is so true. when I got promoted to Meat Dept Supervisor I stopped this from happening only because if I was a customer on the otherside I wouldn't want marinated old meat. So when I did the right thing and disposed of out dated meat cooperate saw the damages I marked down and thrown they wrote me up for "wasting money". I didnt care because I wouldn't want any customers of mine getting sick because of a company's greed!

Limit: Every hygiene claim here is about one branch under one manager, and the corpus contains directly opposing accounts of both chains named. This card also carries one allegation about a single named-in-outline restaurant that nobody corroborates.

What replies pushed back on7

I worked at both and had the opposite experience, McDonald’s just didn’t care almost anything went it was gross but Tim Hortons was CRAZY about their hygiene

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This is so not true. I work at a grocery store as a shopper and my grocery store, literally pulls the fresh meat from the shelf or a box in the cooler and season/marinate them right there in the meat department before putting them out..

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Tim hortons is not worth it either. Only nice thing are the chips/fries everything else i felt sick while eating it

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Not true I’ve worked at both

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and you’re one jewish person of millions, you do not speak for the entire religion. there are plenty of jewish people who absolutely do not support israel’s war crimes and are anti-zionist. also notice how you deliberately ignored the second half of my previous comment. like i said, zionism is political and by insisting that zionism is judaism is antisemtic in itself. you’re wholeheartedly supporting a country that is committing genocide and war crimes when they consistently say “never again”. never again means never again for ANYONE not just jewish people.

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unfortunately i was a broke 19 year old so i stayed for a few more months before getting hired at McDonald’s and then I left with no notice

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Sadly i figured this out never again lol

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unfortunately i was a broke 19 year old so i stayed for a few more months before getting hired at McDonald’s and then I left with no notice

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im currently not working as im trying to get disability benefits cause my pre-existing disability triggered co-morbidities that have made working any job i could get with my education level inaccessible, but i would not go back to fast food if my life depended on it. there was one occasion at mcdonald’s in which i was told by the location manager that my wrist brace, the one i wear sometimes to keep my wrist from dislocating since my joints dislocate easily, was a bad look to the customers and that i should stop wearing it because “my wrist cant possibly be injured for this long”- like sorry chat let me just heal my incurable genetic disorder rq my bad man. while mcdonalds was better than tim hortons by far the second my pre existing disability came to light i was without a doubt treated worse.

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i worked at both mcdonald’s and tim hortons, and let me tell you, mcdonald’s has STRICT hygiene policies and tim hortons is basically okay with serving flies in food, expired food, and HUGE lack of hygiene

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any off grid restaurants and stores are violating MANY health codes. also a resort i worked at didn’t change the top sheets off the bed unless “NEEDED”

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I believe this 100% we got spoiled milk two years ago down TH and it made my kid sick. It was old as hell. 💀

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Don’t buy any kind of meat that’s pre-seasoned in the supermarkets. That meat was already towards its end date & the seasoning adds on a couple extra days…♥ 9,366source record 7354
Whole Foods is soooo bad now it’s crazy they just sell us crap at a premium and label it as healthy 😭😭😭♥ 0source record 7358
yep, I see it all the time, but I kw what they're doing. they should at least mark it down way cheaper too♥ 180source record 7359
exactly! I wouldn't have a problem eating it even if it's close to expiration but give me a discount, damn♥ 57source record 7360
This is so true. when I got promoted to Meat Dept Supervisor I stopped this from happening only because if I was a customer on the otherside I wouldn't want marinated old meat. So when I did the right thing and disposed of out dated meat cooperate saw the damages I marked down and thrown they wrote me up for "wasting money". I didnt care because I wouldn't want any customers of mine getting sick because of a company's greed!♥ 31source record 7365
Whole Foods does this all the time …. And what ever doesn’t sell goes to the “hot bar/salad bar” all the other food comes from a plastic bag and warmed up 😁♥ 21source record 7366
Nooo my love always season it at home don’t trust these companies♥ 5source record 7376
It’s better you know what you put in it and if the meat is fresh or not !!! ✨♥ 1source record 7378
didn’t rich people do this in the middle ages/renaissance? cover up the taste of rotten meat with a ton of seasoning?♥ 2source record 7379
This is so not true. I work at a grocery store as a shopper and my grocery store, literally pulls the fresh meat from the shelf or a box in the cooler and season/marinate them right there in the meat department before putting them out..♥ 1source record 7380
I worked at pretty well known grocery store too.. & husband even ran the mean department there.. it’s true girl… this is what he was told to do from higher ups 🤷🏻‍♀️♥ 2source record 7381
Dude I’m always going home covered in the chicken juice and sauces these people don’t get it 😭♥ 1source record 7384
I worked in a cafe inside a grocery store! we cooked stuff that expired on the shelves that day and called it the “special “♥ 1source record 7385
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOFUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHH EWWWWWWWWW😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭♥ 1source record 7389
I brought that one time and never liked it!! I knew something was weird about it.♥ 1source record 7390
As someone that worked in the butchers and did up chicken and marinates I can confirm this is true♥ 0source record 7393
Bought it once and the meat smelled so awful. Definitely would have gotten food poisoned if we ate it.♥ 0source record 7394
omggg nooo! my partner works in meat dept and it’s the total opposite! his foodland is well known for their seasonings that’s why they do it! it’s so fresh and it’s honestly the best! but knowing this is so freaky that places ACTUALLY DO THIS!♥ 0source record 7396
Don’t go to a grocery store in general for your meats. Butcher shops, slaughter houses and farms are the way to go♥ 0source record 7405
Not buying any pre-seasoned meat cause I KNOW they don’t wash the meat like I would b4 preparing!♥ 0source record 7406
this is what we usually get ours at the Mexican grocery store. because they will season it in front of you and it's usually better♥ 0source record 7407
What is the name of the Mexican grocery store? I am in Houston♥ 0source record 7408
DAMNIT that’s why Costco only has their seasoned pork tenderloins like once a month♥ 0source record 7410
this is 100000000% not true♥ 0source record 7411
the seasoning also hides discoloration that the meat is getting from starting to go bad.♥ 0source record 7422
Well it has never settled well with me each time I look at preseasoned food in the grocery store.♥ 0source record 7425
I worked in a meat market and can confirm they do this.♥ 0source record 7426
I work at a 👩‍🌾 🛒 grocery store (in Canada) comparable to uh… I think whole foods(?) or airwon or whatever. Some things come in preseasoned like pepper steaks. We also have to manually season certain item fresh off the truck. It’s always important to ask when it came in tbh. How you can tell if something is sus is usually it’s kinda slimy and dry even if it’s seasoned.♥ 0source record 7427
I thought this was common knowledge. The seasoning is there to mask any odor/discoloration♥ 0source record 7428
I always think about that when my mom buys seasoned meat♥ 0source record 7432
I had a feeling … I bought pre marinated chicken the other day and I smelled off as if it were going bad already. Thank you for confirming♥ 0source record 7434
Facts, my co-worker got into it with our manager over doing this with old ground beef. He wanted to have us make meatloaf out of it 🤣 We were like nah, Ima use my better judgement & trash it! 🚮♥ 0source record 7435
That’s fine if it comes from an actual package place but not if Whole Foods or the company itself packages in house ……♥ 0source record 7438
I was always sus of that meat anyways. it's so gross to pick up and bag as a cashier😭♥ 0source record 7444
Can confirm this is true! My husband was a meat cutter for a while and told me this♥ 0source record 7445
i worked at both mcdonald’s and tim hortons, and let me tell you, mcdonald’s has STRICT hygiene policies and tim hortons is basically okay with serving flies in food, expired food, and HUGE lack of hygiene♥ 26,626source record 11396
Tim hortons is not worth it either. Only nice thing are the chips/fries everything else i felt sick while eating it♥ 1source record 11399
ngl I did end up trying it cuz they had buy one get 1 free for the food was not impressed the coffee tho bomb asf♥ 1source record 11401
Tbh it’s gone downhill since the mid 2010’s, I’d be turning around too😂 now I don’t even have it I prefer making certain things at home or finding a new spot for some other items they sell♥ 50source record 11402
Basically yeah😔💔 it used to be 10000/10 now it’s 3/10 on a good day♥ 0source record 11404
ohhhh that's about when it was sold to an American company and went downhill. Tim's was good when it was still Canadian♥ 69source record 11406
people laugh at me when I tell them McDonald's is my "safe" fast food 😂 but i had an ex that cleaned grease exhaust systems and said the bigger the chain the cleaner the kitchen♥ 72source record 11407
I second the mcds thing. The one I worked at had us cleaning NONSTOP.♥ 26source record 11409
Same!! I worked a McDonald’s year ago and we were so clean!!! They did not play that dirty ish!!♥ 21source record 11410
I got a 2nd degree burn while working at Tim Hortons. Not only did they not have a first aid kit, making me walk to the closest store to buy my own gauze, they also tried to make me stay for the rest of my shift and they tried saying multiple different things to say it was my fault to convince me to stay.♥ 12source record 11411
No because that’s actually so messed up, hope you went home that day and never went back😭♥ 1source record 11412
unfortunately i was a broke 19 year old so i stayed for a few more months before getting hired at McDonald’s and then I left with no notice♥ 1source record 11413
I did the same thing tbh, I had a reallyyyy good job after fast food then layoffs happened😔💔 but I’ll truthfully never work in fast food again it was horrible♥ 1source record 11414
im currently not working as im trying to get disability benefits cause my pre-existing disability triggered co-morbidities that have made working any job i could get with my education level inaccessible, but i would not go back to fast food if my life depended on it. there was one occasion at mcdonald’s in which i was told by the location manager that my wrist brace, the one i wear sometimes to keep my wrist from dislocating since my joints dislocate easily, was a bad look to the customers and that i should stop wearing it because “my wrist cant possibly be injured for this long”- like sorry chat let me just heal my incurable genetic disorder rq my bad man. while mcdonalds was better than tim hortons by far the second my pre existing disability came to light i was without a doubt treated worse.♥ 1source record 11415
I hope everything goes well for you, I’m sorry they treated you like that though. They should know better and keeping yourself safe isn’t a bad look at all but their attitude towards you is a horrible look on them. Fast food managers are always so rude for no reason it’s horrible♥ 1source record 11416
i hope everything goes well for you too!! i dont know how fast food managers just forget that they were once in our position the second they get promoted?! its wild♥ 0source record 11417
I worked at both and had the opposite experience, McDonald’s just didn’t care almost anything went it was gross but Tim Hortons was CRAZY about their hygiene♥ 6source record 11419
not the mcdonalds i worked at as a kid...a coworker filled the dehydrated onion bin with water and then blew bubbles in them with a straw and then served them... thats when i quit♥ 4source record 11420
ahhh makes sense mcdos in america are horrendous i was talking about canadian♥ 0source record 11423
aaah totally makes sense. ironically, the tim hortons in the states that I have been to have been pretty darn clean 🤣♥ 0source record 11424
Minnesota, for sure, and I feel like I have seen one in either michigan or south dakota, but I don't remember which♥ 0source record 11426
I worked at Tim hortons and they were so strict on us about hygiene that’s why I loved working there and I was always sure that my food was safe bc we all followed the rules but I guess in some places ppl just don’t care♥ 4source record 11428
People hate on McDonalds and I’m not here to say it’s nutritional but I know the quality standards are second to none👌🏽♥ 2source record 11429
thats funny bc my husband almost got fired from a McDonalds for completely emtying the grease from the fry cookers and cleaning it out after a rat fell into it and got fried. she wanted him to just remove the rat and go on business as usual. my husband couldn't do it. This was in Orlando Florida between Avalon and timber creek HS (owned by a guy named john, who never knew about the incident, it was his manager worried about their drive thru wait times.) yeah, so they can have strict policies, but it doesnt matter if employees dont follow it.♥ 0source record 11430
That’s just bc it’s an american mcdonald’s lol, i should have specified canadian mcdonald’s sorry♥ 1source record 11431
yes, that would have made all the difference for sure. ive heard of the magical mcdonalds' in other countries. your leaders actually care about you guys. I wish ours did.♥ 0source record 11432
I worked for McDonald’s and was honestly shocked (in a good way) at how strict they were on hygiene rules♥ 1source record 11433
I worked at mcdonalds as well and I agree with you they are so strict specially the laps of the food they’re not afraid to put it in the trash if it already consumed the treshold time of the food♥ 1source record 11434
I literally got YELLED at for sanitizing the counter after making breakfast foods and switching to donuts. I was floored 😳♥ 1source record 11436
It’s wild to think there’s people that think it’s fine to just raw dog everything 🤣😭 yall insane Timmy hoeeees INSANEEEE.♥ 0source record 11438
I worked at mcds for 14 years and I can confirm this is true. Cleaning was TOP PRIORITY for every store. Especially franchise♥ 1source record 11439
Bruh 😭 we just got a Tim Hortons here in our area, I’m glad to see this cause I ain’t going there now♥ 1source record 11440
Not true I’ve worked at both♥ 1source record 11443
Because they’re actually disgusting😭😭 most places make their employees work while sick asf and they genuinely don’t care about contamination or anything😳 I’ve worked at a good few fast food places and trust when I say none of them are safe♥ 4source record 11445
I SECOND THIS, they literally have flies and dead bugs all over the food trays and do not care. They also very rarely clean the machines for those ice caps and such yall love so much 😭♥ 1source record 11448
I can second this on the hygiene part but the location I work at never serves food with flies in it. Or expired food.♥ 0source record 11451
I worked at a couple Tim's they were all differents some were super strict following protocol others.. could go to work in covid 😅♥ 0source record 11453
In the McDonald's restaurant I go to, there's always huge flies 😞♥ 0source record 11454
I’ve gotten sick 3 times from their ice caps. Never ever going there again!♥ 0source record 11457
it might depend on the location. the Timmies I worked at was strict as hell!!♥ 0source record 11458
i got a 2nd degree burn working at tim hortons, they didnt have a first aid kit. i had to walk to the store and get my own gauze. this was after they tried to convince me to stay for the rest of my shift🤠♥ 0source record 11461
I seen a McDonald’s serving pastries that had fruit flies crawling on them♥ 0source record 11463
My mother has worked at Tim Hortons for 30 years - you are WILDLY incorrect. They also get health inspections monthly♥ 0source record 11464
also Tim's owners come from countries where hygiene doesn't exist♥ 0source record 11466
I worked at Tim Hortons where we had a major leak throughout the store, the main part being over our sandwich counter specifically the soups, management didn’t care and still made us serve the soups and food, this lasted for weeks until they had a bladder out in to direct the leak over into buckets. Health and safety was called and 6 years later they finally got rid of the bladders and got renovations done.♥ 0source record 11467
I mean you worked at one location that’s not every place I’ve definitely had a fly in my McDonald’s before it’s kind known for that in summer 😅♥ 0source record 11469
We were given the wrong Tim Bits in the drive through. My husband went in and told them. They put the Timbits that they gave us back 🫠 instead of simply giving us an additional 10 of the ones that we did order. Wild.♥ 0source record 11470
Tim's took a nose dive off a cliff ever since burgerking bought it. The only positive thing they've done is upgrade the black spilly lids.♥ 0source record 11474
Thats why I am ok to eat mcdonalds anywhere 🥲 even if its not healthy but I trust them somehow♥ 0source record 11475
It is the difference between a franchise and a corporate company. Anyone can open a Tim Hortons and ask for big boss to give them the logo, but mcds decides when it’s going to open a location and it sends its ppl there♥ 0source record 11476
Tim Hortons provides natural immunity boosting in all their food and drinks is what I’m hearing 🤪♥ 0source record 11479
my mom used to be the one to hire and interview people for ecco. she said that if 2 people had identical qualifications, but one worked at McDonalds, they would hire the McDonalds worker because they have proof that they have a higher work ethic and can follow strict protocols.♥ 0source record 11482
My brother worked at McDonald's when he was young - he said that he got severe food poisoning from the food, because they hire all these young kids. Even though they teach them food handling guidelines, they don't really get it all of the time, and there's cross contamination with the e coli in the beef. Not to mention the pressure to get orders out quickly can lead to errors and sloppy work. They can teach you what they want, but getting a kid to understand and follow.It is a different thing.♥ 0source record 11484
just cause its there doesnt mean anyone listens*as a previous mcdonalds worker* they just make it less noticeable♥ 0source record 11486
I went to a Tim Hortons in Michigan for some donuts, I saw the fruit flies in the case and walked out when the person asked what they could get.♥ 0source record 11487
I worked at mcds and they made me do kitchen dishes without soap cause we ran out… I offered to pick some up from a different location and they said no♥ 0source record 11488
considering who owns most of the Tim's anymore, are we really surprised? McDonald's likely not far behind if they're not already cause they're slowly being bought out by the same said people.♥ 0source record 11489
The McDonald’s I worked at had worm and roach infestations regularly♥ 0source record 11490
Yesss I work at Tim Hortons and let’s just say I’ve never been a customer 😭😭♥ 0source record 11491
This is not every mcdonalds as a former mickey d worker♥ 0source record 11496
McDonald’s is one of the cleanest brands in the world and I stand firm on that♥ 0source record 11497
Depends on who is managing the store! I used to work at Tim’s and our manager was strict when it came to cleaning& sanitizing.♥ 0source record 11498
I worked at McDonalds and we literally had pests… don’t know nothing bout hortons tho♥ 0source record 11499
My McDonalds did not gaf lit us serve food w rain water leaking from the ceiling into the oil , food and everything♥ 0source record 11500
I also worked at McDonald’s as a manager in high school and can confirm our store was always very clean and our employees followed the strict hygiene rules to a T!♥ 0source record 11501
no literally SAME i worked at a tim hortins for 6 months and there was slimy mold in the tea and iced coffee things i went to dump it out one night and it was COATED♥ 0source record 11502
that one might depend on the store, the McDonald's I worked at had flies roches and mold in the ice cream machine♥ 0source record 11503
My son and I stopped at Tim Horton’s while in Canada and I have never been more disgusted! 😳♥ 0source record 11505
About a year ago, I was at Tim Hortons and watched one of the girls warming up chili in the microwave and the disgusting fucker, literally stuck her finger in the chili to see if it was warmed up, when I called they asked me if she had a glove on, she didn't but that would have still been disgusting♥ 1source record 11506
I also worked for tims and also noticed their hygiene is not even sub par♥ 1source record 11507
I believe this 100% we got spoiled milk two years ago down TH and it made my kid sick. It was old as hell. 💀♥ 0source record 11510
Tim Hortons was soo much better when actual Canadians worked there. No the coffee taste like dishwater. Prob a new recipe from the new employees 😂😂♥ 0source record 11511
I got food poisoning from the Tim hortons in west Edmonton mall like 3x over the past 10 years so I don’t doubt that♥ 0source record 11512
OK but Mickey D's needs to have a strict policy on cologne bc I swear they bathe in it and I can taste it on my fries 😭♥ 0source record 11513
Complete opposite where I'm from, I work at tims and they are strict and diligent with following hygiene and stupid procedural shit and my friend works at mcdonald's and she says shit is never cleaned😭♥ 0source record 11515
Saudi Arabia isn’t like USA. If a cafe or restaurant was caught doing this they will get shut down♥ 0source record 11516
yes this is true but enforced differently for every single franchise , the mcdonald’s i used to live by was run by teenagers that took bong rips in the kitchen lmao♥ 0source record 11517
One McDonalds doesnt speak for all the others. Almost none of these answers are good. 40k comments of shit♥ 0source record 11519
any off grid restaurants and stores are violating MANY health codes. also a resort i worked at didn’t change the top sheets off the bed unless “NEEDED”♥ 0source record 14192
A year ago, Theo cooks od on fentanyl coke and luckily I left 30 minutes before, but they didn’t bother to close down the kitchen the next day. Even tho one of the cooks threw up in the freezer and they were touching the drugs and distributing the food out♥ 1source record 14223
i worked at a popular restaurant in the hamptons- the owner is a coked out zionist who brings her Pomeranian everywhere with her (yes even the kitchen) and uses her bare hands to touch the food (even after carrying around her dog) it’s a “french” “upscale” restaurant & bakery in bridgehampton known for their baguettes (sorry not putting the name just in case🫣)♥ 169source record 14698
i hope you got the attn you so desperately need from this thread♥ 5source record 14713
Someone always has to bring antisemitism into places it doesn’t belong so it really didn’t shock me.♥ 0source record 14714
it’s not! i’m not sure what ph is but that’s not the initials of the restaurant!♥ 0source record 14717
A side comment, I was about to date a guy that was an co owner of a restaurant when he showed up with his dog inside kitchen plastic container, from the restaurant my OCD kicked in I was shocked that was a huge turned off♥ 0source record 14718
Most likely trafficking… if it is true. They have to get rid of bodies somehow 🤷‍♀️♥ 3source record 14779
Right! I've also found that food is usually cheaper and better for you from a restaurant depending on where you go. The local Mediterranean places especially, you get a large meal with salad and bread for cheaper than McDonald's.♥ 3source record 14784

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Travel: airlines, hotels and the roadside252 records · 6 sub-topicsGate agents, cabin crew, housekeepers, baggage handlers and roadside dispatchers on what they can do for you and what they will not. 252 records.
Missing a flight, and what airlines will and will not accept35 index entriesA widely-shared rebooking tip, and the airline staff in the replies who say it is a courtesy rather than a rule.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Missing a flight, and what airlines will and will not accept

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Missing a flight, and what airlines will and will not accept

35 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are running late for a flight

How commenters applied it: 35 records. The claim is that a passenger who reports a flat tyre within two hours of departure must be rebooked free, and that a regulator requires it. Airline staff dismantle the legal part: a gate agent and a commercial aviation worker both say no such rule exists, that passenger protections cover the airline's failures rather than yours, and that any rebooking is a courtesy the airline may extend. Other airline staff reply that they have done it routinely for years, which is the honest state of it — a discretionary practice, not an entitlement. Passengers report both outcomes, including several who paid a fare difference anyway. The most-liked replies are about keeping a photograph of a flat tyre to reuse, which is advice about deceiving an agent rather than about a right.

What readers reported: that’s not a DOT rule, it’s an airline courtesy. the DOT only protects you if the airline messes up, not if you’re late, even with a flat tire. some airlines MIGHT rebook you if you’re within 2 hours, but they’re not required to

Limit: The regulatory claim is denied by multiple airline employees and is not verified here. Several records in this card describe fabricating an excuse; they are reported because they are in the corpus, not endorsed.

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this is absolutely not true lmaooo

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As someone who works for an airline, this is NOT true.

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i just asked chat gpt and she said it is not true 😔

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Not True. Depends if the airline wants to rebook you for free. If You weren’t at your gate at the time of boarding you have to pay the dif of fare for the next flight or charged a fee

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miss your flight because you were running late? no. you had a flat tire. DOT requires flights to be changed for free if you're within 2 hours of scheduled departure

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If you pay first class ...you will not be left behind...the flight will wait for you

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What if it’s bc we were high and didn’t pay attention to the time

posted about 50 days after the source

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7asks a question
0says they intend to try it
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miss your flight because you were running late? no. you had a flat tire. DOT requires flights to be changed for free if you're within 2 hours of scheduled departure♥ 63,996source record 5410
I could've used this information. I was fast walking up to my gate as they was moving the jet bridge from the plane 😭😭 I booked 3rd party. Luckily I found a guy that felt sorry for me and called around and got me on a later flight, not standby 💕♥ 1,470source record 5411
Take a picture of a flat tire and keep it in your photos. This is my blow out from a year ago lol♥ 2,470source record 5413
Yes, 2005! Been rollin in this over 5 years now.♥ 85source record 5419
👏 awesome- I hear later years are better - mine is 2003 / had it since then. I won't get another car and get teased. 😂♥ 7source record 5420
Take different angles of it so if you need to call into work you don’t have to use the same picture. Same blowout just different picture. Need one for daytime and night time.♥ 47source record 5422
Genius! Also take pictures of random cars with a flat. That would be your friend's car who was giving you a ride.♥ 32source record 5423
Make sure if you have keys on you they match the emblem♥ 3source record 5430
Girl how long you drive on that rim??? 😂 been there, kids try not to do this bc repairs are much more $$$$$♥ 0source record 5433
sent this to my boss and he laughed at me and said "J.R. you work from home" 🥲♥ 1source record 5450
had some pics of my beyond shredded tire and then got locked out my icloud so now I get to start over♥ 0source record 5451
It was probably obvious I'd been crying and it was a couple guys, so maybe they just felt sorry for me 🤷‍♀️♥ 111source record 5452
The fact that you said this a week ago but my fyp decided to show me this HOURS after I paid 50 bucks because I was 10 minutes late for check in (I was still 40 minutes early at the small airport)♥ 46source record 5453
What I was late coz of an acccident on the road, they charged the full price of the next flight 😭 with my 4 month old had to wait 8 hours till the next flight 😭 it didn’t even board yet!!!♥ 16source record 5454
Former airline employee here 👋🏽 this is VERY EXTREMELY TRUE!! DOT is a passengers secret weapon 😂♥ 12source record 5455
I guess I've been the rules the whole time I've worked in commercial aviation♥ 1source record 5458
that’s not a DOT rule, it’s an airline courtesy. the DOT only protects you if the airline messes up, not if you’re late, even with a flat tire. some airlines MIGHT rebook you if you’re within 2 hours, but they’re not required to♥ 8source record 5459
yeah i tried to do some digging but all i can find is things about the airline being late not the passenger♥ 2source record 5460
if you really do work in commercial aviation idk how you made it this far 💀 (coming from someone who actually works in commercial aviation)♥ 1source record 5461
They put you on standby though. You’re SOL if the flight is full♥ 3source record 5462
If your flight gets delayed or cancelled on a connection, and the delay is on the airline, they always have rooms available at hotels to them. Don’t stay at the airport all night and don’t let them tell you they’re all booked♥ 1source record 5465
When I stopped for fuel. I wasn't driving it, I was flat towing it behind a utility truck. So I didn't hear or feel anything.♥ 1source record 5468
A ticket and gate agent, me, said I've done it more times than I can count♥ 0source record 5481
it has been for the last 6 years I've worked ticket or gate.♥ 0source record 5483
I don’t get it, so what exactly qualifies for the 2 hour rule?♥ 0source record 5488
This isn’t a thing, DOT has nothing to do with it. Some airlines have an informal policy that will let them book you on the next flight, but it’s not required.♥ 0source record 5491
My flight was delayed which put me at the airport 5mins before the connecting flight. I had three kids, one in a stroller, loaded down with luggage and the lady told me to run. We ended up renting a car and driving from PA to TN bc they couldn’t get us all on a flight together or we had to stay the night in the airport.♥ 0source record 5492
Yup or say you got pulled over. I learned this from a flight attendant close in the family.♥ 0source record 5495
What airline is this for tho. Because a lot of airlines have a transfer fee♥ 0source record 5499
WOW! I wish I would have known this like 2 years ago when I missed my flight because my dad got me to the airport late 😭♥ 0source record 5501
Not True. Depends if the airline wants to rebook you for free. If You weren’t at your gate at the time of boarding you have to pay the dif of fare for the next flight or charged a fee♥ 0source record 5504
Can confirm this worked for me♥ 1source record 5516
What if it’s bc we were high and didn’t pay attention to the time♥ 0source record 5518
[account] | Lifestyle [account] [account] [account]♥ 0source record 5561
If you pay first class ...you will not be left behind...the flight will wait for you♥ 6source record 12189

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What cabin crew and gate staff can actually do for you45 index entriesFlight attendants on upgrades, free items and the gifts passengers bring — including the airlines where none of it is allowed.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: What cabin crew and gate staff can actually do for you

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What cabin crew and gate staff can actually do for you

45 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are flying and wondering what is discretionary

How commenters applied it: 45 records. Flight attendants answer precisely, and the answer is that it depends on the airline. Several say they move people to better seats and comp drinks and snacks; several others say upgrades are strictly a ground-staff function and that doing it onboard is a dismissible offence at their carrier, naming the airlines where that is the case. What is uncontested is the smaller stuff: free drinks, snack boxes, seat changes, and the first-class baskets that have to be discarded anyway. Crew in the thread name what passengers bring that actually lands well. Attached to this card is a lost-property thread where the useful reply is procedural: report it immediately, get a case number, and take it to small claims if the statutory limit allows.

What readers reported: As an FA no that’s not really true lol we could get in trouble for all of it and people who do it anyway are taking their own risk 🤷🏻‍♀️

Limit: Upgrade authority differs by carrier and the crew in this thread flatly contradict each other. Anything discretionary can be withdrawn, and no airline policy here was checked.

What the replies added2

Not true. Nowadays if they upgrade you on their own, they can lose their jobs! Instant dismissal. They might be able to give goodies, but they can’t do upgrades.

Pushback

Not all airlines. I used to work for Singapore Airlines and it was a BIG no no for us FAs to upgrade passengers on board even if your economy seat was broken and business class was available. We can only give out vouchers.

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Flight attendants 100 percent have the ability to upgrade you and give you free stuff. Just depends on how nice you are and the mood they are in.

source record 5563♥ 8,431
Later-arriving source

depends what airline, in Emirates we didn't have that privilege (glad we didn't) only the ground staff could upgrade you

posted about 68 days after the source
Zero-like source

lol how do we ask for an upgrade tho ? And yes I’m always a nice person just a very anxious flyer

posted about 40 days after the source

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The exact phrase “a flight attendant” recurs across 3 of the 45 source records in What cabin crew and gate staff can actually do for you; the complete archive stays available below.

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17.9%of parent category
0.7%of the complete index
2top-level comments
43replies

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0explicitly reports a benefit
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5asks a question
0says they intend to try it
40other source context

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Flight attendants 100 percent have the ability to upgrade you and give you free stuff. Just depends on how nice you are and the mood they are in.♥ 8,431source record 5563
depends what airline, in Emirates we didn't have that privilege (glad we didn't) only the ground staff could upgrade you♥ 0source record 5564
not really true, it depends on the airline itself. some airlines it's only in the hands of ground staff♥ 0source record 5568
My mom works at bath and body works so gets a bag full of mini hand sanitizers on sale and gives them out to flight attendants, free stuff everytime♥ 0source record 5569
Oh my god this unlocked a memory for me I remember when they would only give me water on one flight because I ‘hadn’t paid for meal service’ when in reality I just didn’t like the food they were serving so I didn’t get it… I just wanted my can of sprite man♥ 0source record 5570
I believe this! My bff and I got put in first class otw back from Cancun because we were polite and patient 🤷🏽‍♀️🥰😊♥ 0source record 5571
Idk what airline she’s tb but this is False information only gate agents have the ability to upgrade please don’t get on these planes asking to upgrade when you have to ask a gate agent it’s frustrating when people did this 🤦🏾‍♀️♥ 0source record 5572
I’m a flight attendant and this is true. I always move people to better seats if you’re nice 🙂♥ 0source record 5573
lol how do we ask for an upgrade tho ? And yes I’m always a nice person just a very anxious flyer♥ 0source record 5574
As an FA no that’s not really true lol we could get in trouble for all of it and people who do it anyway are taking their own risk 🤷🏻‍♀️♥ 0source record 5576
Not true. Nowadays if they upgrade you on their own, they can lose their jobs! Instant dismissal. They might be able to give goodies, but they can’t do upgrades.♥ 0source record 5579
Not all airlines. I used to work for Singapore Airlines and it was a BIG no no for us FAs to upgrade passengers on board even if your economy seat was broken and business class was available. We can only give out vouchers.♥ 0source record 5581
I work as FA in a Middle East airline and we’re not allowed to do upgrades, the free stuff part it’s true tho. 🐰♥ 0source record 5582
Rolled up one dollar bills to tip the van, starbucks gift cards, hand sanitizer, pens, and packaged candies.♥ 1source record 5583
can confirm! Usually always get free drinks and usually become IG besties haha♥ 1source record 5587
my mom tells me this story of us flying when i was a baby, and the flight attendant thought i was cute so she brought me ice cream 😭 i only know her through this story but i think about her a lot♥ 1source record 5588
Depends on the company for the upgrades! I know i cant! The free shit, sure♥ 1source record 5589
I always get little gifts or individually wrapped candies for the FA’s not because i WANT free stuff but because their jobs are so crazy, and 9 times out of 10 i get a ton of free drinks and snack boxes i even got hugs from some once because they were so happy lol♥ 0source record 5591
I can attest to this one!!!!♥ 0source record 5593
This is so true. Just by saying please and thank you or helping with overhead bins when you see us struggling or helping an elder with their bags. Those little things go a long way!♥ 0source record 5595
I have a toddler and whenever I ask for alcohol on the plane if he’s stressing me out??? I promise you they always give it to me for free (I always have my card out ready to pay tho lol)♥ 0source record 5597
My 7 year old daughter asked for a free snack bc my 6 year old daughter fell asleep and didn’t get one but the [account] flight attendant told her no 🥺.♥ 0source record 5598
Former FA here, be nice to your FAs never know what it could get you♥ 105source record 5605
i’ve gotten free seat changes, free candy, and drinks. it’s true♥ 30source record 5606
I was with my daughter and clearly afraid of flying and I ordered wine in an attempt to calm my nerves. The flight attendant said she will collect my payment later and when she came back said “the system is down” I assumed by the look on her face that she did me a solid♥ 26source record 5607
I was sitting on the runway for 45 min before take off.. the lady next to me was a flight attendant, across the aisle was a pilot he looked to be drinking whiskey.. they were heading to a conference.. the on duty flight attendant kept coming back to talk to them.i joined in on conversation and then she asked if I needed anything..I said i want what he has!(the pilot) she brought me back a very stiff drink♥ 20source record 5608
As a FA, this is true. bring gifts and be nice! We have so much power 😉♥ 17source record 5609
We like gift cards(Starbucks) and chocolates candies. Those are the most popular 😉♥ 4source record 5611
Individually wrapped candies/chocolates, magazines, Starbucks gift cards! I’m no longer an FA but those were all my faves!♥ 2source record 5613
I can attest to this! I always bring them chocolate when I fly and they always offer to give me free drinks/snacks. I never get offered a seat upgrade though! Nor do I ever take the free drink or snack.♥ 10source record 5616
Especially if you’re in first class, they have to dispose of the snack baskets after every flight! So they basically want to give out as much as you want♥ 7source record 5617
I was going to miami for my 21st birthday and made small talk, and at the end of the flight one of the ladies gave me a bunch of free snacks.♥ 5source record 5618
This is so true my whole family and I went on a trip to DR and one of my friends was a flight attendant and we went from business to First Class♥ 4source record 5619
As soon as my lawyers say it’s cool, I’m spilling ALL the airline tea 😎♥ 3,369source record 10680
Please! Spirit lost my expensive baby stroller. I did everything they told me to do and never got a response or my item back nor reimbursed. It’s been a year♥ 130source record 10681
Sadly when you check in a stroller or car seat with spirit you sign a waiver. They don’t take any liability for any damages. The only way you might get some reimbursement is if it was gate checked.♥ 4source record 10682
You know what’s so crazy. I wasn’t going to checking it in. On my connecting flight, the Spirit attendant had to convince me to let them check it. I told her that I wanted to make sure it landed with me so I was keeping it with me. After her convincing, I let her check it into the plane.♥ 3source record 10683
You then should potentially get compensation did you report it right away? They should have given you a case number. I learned you have to bug Spirit.♥ 10source record 10684
Not at all. They kept bouncing me around only yo lead to nothing. I filled a lost baggage claim, and went to the customer service office inside of the airport. Nothing. Mind you I don’t live where the airport is located.♥ 0source record 10687
😂 had they lost my baby… that whole airport would’ve been turned upside down. I’d probably be on the “Never Fly Again” list.♥ 7source record 10689
Take them to small claims. Unless its above the limit or stautue has passed.♥ 63source record 10690
I’m commenting so I can get the notification when you spill the tea♥ 14source record 10694
Once I get the go ahead, I fully intend on making a series of videos♥ 6source record 10697
Ummm do you know how much longer for the clear to go?!? Asking for everyone that is impatiently waiting!🤭🤣♥ 0source record 10720
Ummm I’m following you for advice!!! O will be send you a message!💜💚♥ 0source record 10723

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Your bag once it leaves you6 index entriesOne baggage handler's account of how bags are treated, and the handlers who dispute that the brand makes any difference.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Your bag once it leaves you

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Your bag once it leaves you

6 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are choosing luggage or deciding whether to lock it

How commenters applied it: 6 records. A former baggage handler's claim is that expensive-looking luggage is handled worse, and explains it as resentment rather than accident; another handler describes colleagues competing to bounce bags off the tarmac. A third handler disputes the brand claim entirely and says it was never true at their station. The genuinely useful reply is about locks: one commenter explains that only approved locks are meant to be used because security staff hold a master key for them, and that other locks get cut.

What readers reported: it's not illegal if you use a TSA approved lock. Basically a master key can open any of those locks. but yeah you're not supposed to lock your luggage. They sell the TSA approved on Amazon

Limit: Six records, one of them a direct denial from another handler. The lock explanation is US-specific and given by a commenter, not an authority.

What the replies added2

mostly a negative stereotype status thing. spending thousands of dollars on luggage is that is going to be thrown around is egotistical. Not saying we are right but that's commonly what happens. Normal brands not thrown around

From the replies♥ 77

that's not because of the company that is because of hater ass employees

From the replies♥ 22

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Most engaged source

worked at an airline baggage. The more "prestigious" the luggage brand, the higher the drop will be. Needless to say Louis Vuitton luggage was dropped pretty damn high

source record 14348♥ 389
Later-arriving source

That might be the pettiest thing I’ve ever read. Surely wasn’t true during my brief period as a luggage handler

posted about 14 days after the source♥ 1
Low-like source

Is it illegal to put a lock on your luggage? I use to do.. not sure if I can now.. what does TSA say? 🤔❤🤔

posted about 3 days after the source♥ 1

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Within 6 source records, 1 ask a question and 0 explicitly say they intend to try the idea; neither signal is treated as an outcome.

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0explicitly reports a benefit
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1asks a question
0says they intend to try it
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worked at an airline baggage. The more "prestigious" the luggage brand, the higher the drop will be. Needless to say Louis Vuitton luggage was dropped pretty damn high♥ 389source record 14348
mostly a negative stereotype status thing. spending thousands of dollars on luggage is that is going to be thrown around is egotistical. Not saying we are right but that's commonly what happens. Normal brands not thrown around♥ 77source record 14350
I can remember sitting in a plane & watching another load luggage. Workers would see how hard they could bounce luggage off the tarmac.♥ 20source record 14353
Is it illegal to put a lock on your luggage? I use to do.. not sure if I can now.. what does TSA say? 🤔❤🤔♥ 1source record 14356
it's not illegal if you use a TSA approved lock. Basically a master key can open any of those locks. but yeah you're not supposed to lock your luggage. They sell the TSA approved on Amazon♥ 7source record 14357
That might be the pettiest thing I’ve ever read. Surely wasn’t true during my brief period as a luggage handler♥ 1source record 14364

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Hotels and resorts: what gets washed, and what you pay inside the gate72 index entriesHousekeepers on comforters, duvets, pillows and towels, and the properties where staff say every item is changed.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Hotels and resorts: what gets washed, and what you pay inside the gate

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Hotels and resorts: what gets washed, and what you pay inside the gate

72 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are checking into a room and deciding what to trust

How commenters applied it: 72 records. Housekeepers describe the same rule in almost identical words across several chains: sheets and pillowcases are changed every stay, comforters and duvet inners are not unless visibly soiled, and pillows themselves are double-cased rather than replaced. Several add that towels are used to wipe surfaces and bathrooms before going to laundry, and that the time allowed per room does not permit more. The practical steps that recur are concrete: strip the comforter off and put it in a corner, ask for a hypoallergenic room or an extra blanket from the desk because those come clean, and bring your own if you care. Staff at several properties reply that everything is washed every changeover where they work. A separate record adds the resort version: buy sundries before you go through the gate.

What readers reported: Nope, in a lot of hotels you’ll notice that the comforter is kinda sandwiched between two sheets and folded so you can’t really tell— the sheets are usually washed, but the comforter and mattress get washed once in a blue moon. The main goal is to create an illusion of comfort, housekeepers don’t have enough time to properly clean, often the dirty towels from the last guest are used to wipe down tables — yours sincerely, a housekeeper

Limit: Standards differ between brands, franchises and individual properties, and housekeepers here describe both extremes. No hotel group confirmed any of it.

What replies pushed back on4

not true my mom works at 2 hotels and she is the BEST at both of them she makes sure everyones request has been fulfilled

Pushback

Nope, in a lot of hotels you’ll notice that the comforter is kinda sandwiched between two sheets and folded so you can’t really tell— the sheets are usually washed, but the comforter and mattress get washed once in a blue moon. The main goal is to create an illusion of comfort, housekeepers don’t have enough time to properly clean, often the dirty towels from the last guest are used to wipe down tables — yours sincerely, a housekeeper

Pushback

Nope , they sure don’t . Once a week

Pushback

That’s disgusting. Hotels are ruined even more now.

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Hotels dont wash comforters after every visit. I hv been traumatized since jr college

source record 13207♥ 3,172
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i use to work at the rivera maya and if you go to a all inclusive resort or any resort , dont buy sun lotion or any product in the resort its super expensive 🤣 , on your way to the resort as ur driver if he can take you to a super market , they are all so chill and they will take you and wait for you . any questiones about the rivera maya , all answer any✌️😅

posted about 70 days after the source♥ 1
Zero-like source

Tell them you are allergic to feathers when you book, everything is clean on the bed.

posted about 58 days after the source

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Across 72 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Attach it to an existing routine” (2 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

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0explicitly reports a limit or failure
3asks a question
0says they intend to try it
69other source context

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Attach it to an existing routine 2

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Hotels dont wash comforters after every visit. I hv been traumatized since jr college♥ 3,172source record 13207
and towels! my cpusin told me they use them to clean EVERYTHING!!!♥ 133source record 13209
Yup. Seen it in 4k.♥ 22source record 13210
This is why I always take all the towels off the racks, put them in the tub, then pour some water on them all♥ 8source record 13211
Yes if there is a duvet they NEVER wash the part that’s on the inside. Just that thin outer shell 😭♥ 50source record 13213
Only if it looks dirty if not shake it out put it back on the bed. My GM at Holiday Inn says this is standard♥ 27source record 13214
we can we just stay in the bed like a lot so that way I can tell if they wash it or not and if they don’t, I’ll just complain to like the office downstairs or something and say it’s not clean can we do that or no?♥ 0source record 13215
Yes I worked at the Hilton hotel. I’m aware but it’s still sketchy to me.♥ 25source record 13216
The managers at the holiday inn near my home steals from them. Steals petty cash, the big bottles of dish soap, the dove shampoo, conditioner and body wash, food, wash their clothes at the hotel using the big washers. Uses drugs on sight take the petty cash to buy drugs and covered up a murd3r her son did at the hotel when sleeping in the room they marked as dirty and didn’t check in to♥ 8source record 13218
Soon as a guest check out, they break the neck to check that room before housekeepers do and steal their tips.♥ 13source record 13219
plus when they make beds they throw everything on the flo♥ 20source record 13220
As a former housekeeper that’s just how we handle dirty linens 😭♥ 12source record 13221
I worked for a Marriott and they do not change comforters in between. Also the one I worked for had a whole kitchen and we were told to just place used silverware in hot water. Probably the grossest hotel I've worked for.♥ 22source record 13225
Obviously everyone has different experiences babe. The point is, ALL of them should be consistently washing covers as the bare minimum but a lot don’t, and none of us know who is actually doing their job or not 💀♥ 2source record 13228
It is true, also there is a difference between chains and who runs them as well.♥ 2source record 13229
It depends on the Marriott property lol . I learned it last year at a aloft property lol♥ 1source record 13233
That why i always ask for new sheets and comforter♥ 14source record 13235
I work for a hampton and they wash every single one of them every time 👏👌♥ 10source record 13238
the laundry detergent used in hotels (uniformly) is by ecolab. smells so damn good.♥ 2source record 13240
Agreed! Worked at the Marriott and let me tell you!! Bring a sleeping bag or extra blankets to put over the actual covers and your own pillow!! 💀♥ 3source record 13243
I’ve stayed at a Marriott 1 time & it was really expensive…they must have charged me extra for the BL**D that was saturated into the pillow. As soon as I walked in I could clearly see it through the 2 pillow cases 🤮 they stripped the bed, checked both side of the mattress & gave me fresh everything. They were fully booked for weddings so I had to sleep in there♥ 0source record 13244
I just ask for a new one when I check in.♥ 3source record 13245
this is 100% true. i’ve been in hotels for 10 years♥ 2source record 13247
I’m a Flight Attendant…I’m always worried about this. What should I do, to make sure I get a room that is properly cleaned 😭😭😭♥ 1source record 13252
I always remove every single towel and piece of bedding and put it in a pile by the door. I know you are not going to leave that shit up just because it doesn’t look used.♥ 1source record 13253
I don’t think I’ll ever stay in a hotel again anyways since doing air bnbs♥ 1source record 13254
I was on a business trip flipped up a sheet to check and it was blood on the comforter. I spoke to them quietly with stern words then received a full refund, new suite and 3 additional days♥ 1source record 13256
some dont even wash sheets. I travel a lot and often find things in between she sheets like hair, Bobby pins, nail clippings etc♥ 1source record 13258
That's a lie I worked at a few hotels and everything was clean. Don't do that.♥ 1source record 13259
Doctors offices also don’t sanitize their rooms after patients. The janitor wipes the floor and that’s it♥ 1source record 13260
I can believe this because the rooms always just look so dirty and it feel like a fever dream the with blaring light blasting down on you♥ 0source record 13261
Learned that the hard way, ever since then I take a trip to my local Walmart and by my own set♥ 1source record 13263
Tell them you are allergic to feathers when you book, everything is clean on the bed.♥ 0source record 13264
I used to be in housekeeping and yes it’s true! Also I personally would never trust anything is clean bc not every cleaner has the same standard of “clean” so clean it yourself to be safe of germs.♥ 0source record 13266
I knew this and would always roll it down to the base of the bed and just use the sheets after checking the bed and the seams of the mattress.♥ 0source record 13267
not true my mom works at 2 hotels and she is the BEST at both of them she makes sure everyones request has been fulfilled♥ 0source record 13269
Found this out years ago when I worked in hospitality for La Quinta! Blew my mind!♥ 0source record 13275
Nope, in a lot of hotels you’ll notice that the comforter is kinda sandwiched between two sheets and folded so you can’t really tell— the sheets are usually washed, but the comforter and mattress get washed once in a blue moon. The main goal is to create an illusion of comfort, housekeepers don’t have enough time to properly clean, often the dirty towels from the last guest are used to wipe down tables — yours sincerely, a housekeeper♥ 0source record 13276
I worked at a shmeriott hotel and they did was the comforters but not the pillows never the pillow they throw them on the floor and keep kicking also the bathtubs/showers don’t get scrubbed mostly just rinsed and have a lint roller over them also the cups and anything to do with food doesn’t get cleaned only “sanitized” it’s truly disgusting♥ 0source record 13277
Ask for an extra comforter when you check in.♥ 0source record 13279
I can confirm it. And if you staying for a long time you can ask for a clean comforter. But some comforter have stains even if you wash it the bleach we had wasnt strong enough to get the stains off. I have so much stories with hotel and hospital♥ 0source record 13280
I had a buddy in a place that washed hotel linens, nwvr saw a duvet there♥ 0source record 13281
First thing you should do is remove the comforter from the bed.♥ 0source record 13283
Just came back from a vacation and there was literal blood on the sheet and pillow at a resort. Mind you it was one of the elite suites and they had a whole day to clean and get it ready smh♥ 0source record 13284
Bro ima ask for it to be cleaned and watch them when I go on my trip in Houston♥ 0source record 13285
I use to clean airbnbs the owners would exploit us so we would just spray air fresheners to finish all the houses on time 😭 sorry♥ 0source record 13287
I've been a housekeeper for 10 years. they don't 😬♥ 0source record 13289
And this is the excuse Airbnb hosts use to do the exact same.♥ 0source record 13290
must be the ones yall went to cause the hotel I was at did wash everything every single day. I know bc I had to fold all the laundry for every single room.♥ 0source record 13291
No but the company I work for place duvet covers on the comforter and we wash that after every visit.♥ 0source record 13293
I worked at a Marriott, we only washed the comforter if there was a visible stain♥ 0source record 13294
Pillows, either. They double pillowcase them and change out both pillowcases, but the pillows are the same.♥ 0source record 13295
I work at one and I seconds this. We just wash the duvet.♥ 0source record 13296
Can confirm worked in the industry for 15 years♥ 0source record 13302
This is true. I work in hotels and it always grosses me out so I either bring my own or ask for a hypoallergenic room cause we’d wash the comforters for that♥ 0source record 13303
Which is why I never lay on them or sleep on them. I won’t even put my stuff on them..♥ 0source record 13307
gross some of them do bc the places i worked did. WHEN THERE IS A GUEST CHANGE, COMFORTS HAVE TO BE CHANGED WITH SHEETS. WE ONLY LEAVE THE COMFORTER IF GUEST ISNT CHECKING OUT, OTHERWISE WE CHANGE SHEETS IF DIRTY OR JUST MAKE THEIR BED WITH EXISTING SHEETS.♥ 0source record 13309
True! Always ask for “extra blanket” at front desk…it’s clean.♥ 0source record 13310
I always take my own & immediately wash it when I get home. I take a throw blanket to lay on & a blanket to cover me. I bring my own towels as well. I never use hotel towels. I bring lysol to spray everything down.♥ 0source record 13312
Worked at a hotel it’s true unless there’s a bad stain If it looks cleans they use it♥ 0source record 13315
They also don’t wash the extra blankets in the closets for long periods of time some people don’t even change the pull out beds sheets or some pillows/pillow cases♥ 1source record 13320
This is why I ask for an immediate bed change upon arrival. So disgusting!!♥ 1source record 13323
VERY VERY TRUE. I’ve worked at major well known hotel and they are nasty! They ask for so much money and the rooms are not even clean.♥ 1source record 13324
Lets all agree to smudge our comforters and sheets for them to change it each time.♥ 0source record 13326
I was a trainee in a hotel and this is true!Thats why I feel icky in hotels 🥲♥ 0source record 13327
omg!! I worked at a hotel and they also never washed the comforters or blankets...I even had one room that had a.. white stain... on the comforter... I was told to spray the air freshener spray on a rag and wipe it off.... and also there were butt cheek prints on the headboard... same "cleaning" process 😳🤢♥ 0source record 13331
the hotel i used to work at only put fresh sheets on daily and we only washed the comforter if it had a stain on it. 🤮 they didnt even carry enough extras to replace all the beds one time at the same time.♥ 0source record 13332
they only change sheets and pillow cases. the one i worked at would wash comforters once a month unless there was major stains on the comforter so gross♥ 0source record 13333
I always take it off and put it in the corner of the room because that’s gross I learned that years ago. If on a road trip we always bring our own pillows with us and blankets, when we fly I bring a small pillow and pillow cases to add a layer of protection♥ 0source record 13334
I always put my shirt or a clean jacket over the pillows. Fuck that♥ 0source record 13335
I can tell you this is true. I used to work in one as well. Black light them at your own peril♥ 0source record 13337
i use to work at the rivera maya and if you go to a all inclusive resort or any resort , dont buy sun lotion or any product in the resort its super expensive 🤣 , on your way to the resort as ur driver if he can take you to a super market , they are all so chill and they will take you and wait for you . any questiones about the rivera maya , all answer any✌️😅♥ 1source record 13470

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AAA follows the member, not the car65 index entriesA member benefit explained by former staff, with the regional limits and call caps other employees add.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: AAA follows the member, not the car

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AAA follows the member, not the car

65 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You have roadside cover and are in somebody else's vehicle, or somebody else's is broken down

How commenters applied it: 65 records. The core claim is confirmed by staff — the membership attaches to the person, not the vehicle, which is why the card carries a name and no registration — and members report using it as a passenger, for a friend's car and for strangers. A former employee adds the operational detail worth having: buying cover the day you need a tow does not work because there is a waiting period, the upgraded tier carries the longer tow, and some vehicle types are excluded. A current representative supplies the essential correction — the brand is a federation of dozens of regional clubs with different rules — and other members report call caps and refusals. Several commenters describe using somebody else's membership without being present, which staff in the thread say breaches the terms.

What readers reported: So typically the plus level is the most profitable membership. It has the extended towing and most clubs honor additional discounts on things like battery/tire purchases for upgraded memberships. However, if you live in a densely populated city like NYC, I would check and see what your specific club charges for over miles on a tow. The basic might serve you just as well for less money. My club charges $4/mile if you go over your free miles. So if everything you need is within like 10ish miles of you then the over charge would be cheaper than the plus membership if that makes sense lol

Limit: Rules differ by regional club, which employees in this thread say explicitly, and several members report being refused in exactly the situation described. Using another person's membership is against the terms the staff here quote.

What the replies added3

Yup, I used my membership to have my bf’s car towed a few times when it broke down.

Reported failure♥ 36

Someone who passed by me broken down on the highway literally called theirs for me once. 😭💕

Reported failure♥ 1

This is true bc I broke down out of state and my friend riding with me has AAA and they came and towed us for free

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Explicit limit or counterpoint

I believe the renew is yearly at least that's what the membership should be and believe it. The cheapest way is unfortunately the long run, wait for them to call you. If you call them they wont offer you much but at times its like 1/2 the price

source record 3167

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If you have AAA and you are in someone else’s car as a passenger and the car breaks down…you can still call AAA

source record 3130♥ 53,873
Later-arriving source

Yeah never buy AAA for the whole family. If someone breaks down and you’re able to make it to them, just drive on down and tell AAA you’re in that vehicle lol. Done it plenty. OH! Especially for locking keys in the car.

posted about 58 days after the source
Zero-like source

how do ppl not know that 😅 as a matter of a fact you dont even have to be there for them to use it! u just have to make the call.

posted about 40 days after the source

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Across 65 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Attach it to an existing routine” (2 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

65index entries
65distinct source records
25.8%of parent category
1%of the complete index
1top-level comments
64replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
1explicitly reports a limit or failure
8asks a question
0says they intend to try it
56other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Observable tactic structures

Attach it to an existing routine 2

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

Browse the original comments65 preserved records · 65 of 65 source records accounted for
If you have AAA and you are in someone else’s car as a passenger and the car breaks down…you can still call AAA♥ 53,873source record 3130
Yes that’s why your card only has your name on it not the specific vehicle. I know so many things about AAA. I used to work for them. I dealt with pricing and renewal and their stuff they didn’t want us to say and policies.♥ 181source record 3146
Okay 1. Don’t sign up the day you need towing. It takes about 1-2 business days for the towing to take affect. 2. They dont tow teslas or the trucks with 4 tires. 3. The plus membership is the best one. 4. Don’t renew every year, let it lapse and they’ll give you a discount. 5. Don’t mention that you do uber or Lyft they won’t help you since you’re a business vehicle.♥ 74source record 3148
My AAA wouldnt tow my bf car when we were in accident cause it wasnt the same car they have on their record. Had to pay 250 to tow it to the shop♥ 2source record 3152
Is that the insurance? The membership shouldn’t follow a vehicle♥ 1source record 3153
I had my dually towed by aaa, not sure if that’s what you mean by truck with 4 wheels♥ 0source record 3154
hey what would you say is good for NYC, Philadelphia (Pittsburgh occasionally), and Illinois? or is the plus tier the only thing I should be focused on♥ 0source record 3155
So typically the plus level is the most profitable membership. It has the extended towing and most clubs honor additional discounts on things like battery/tire purchases for upgraded memberships. However, if you live in a densely populated city like NYC, I would check and see what your specific club charges for over miles on a tow. The basic might serve you just as well for less money. My club charges $4/mile if you go over your free miles. So if everything you need is within like 10ish miles of you then the over charge would be cheaper than the plus membership if that makes sense lol♥ 1source record 3156
Thank you very much for the reply, this is helpful. I don't have a car yet but I live in NY, go to school in Philly and occasionally visit Pittsburgh/Illinois so knowing this is very helpful. Thank you.♥ 0source record 3157
So you would belong to NY AAA club since that is your residence. I don’t deal with that club a ton I’m kinda far away, but I know some AAAs offer bike coverage and all will cover you as a passenger in a car even if it isn’t yours:)♥ 1source record 3158
I would have to agree with you. I've been a member since 1995. I once pushed my car off the road into a parking lot, they wouldn't tow because it was off the roadway. One county over, I saw they towed a car out of the owner's driveway. I guess differant club.♥ 0source record 3162
I’ve had AAA for years and didn’t renew 6 months ago. What are the keywords I need to say to be offered the lowest rate?♥ 0source record 3163
Tow truck driver damaged front of car on the back of his truck. He said he’d report it. Wouldn’t give me his name. I reported and they sent out a person that had a title like fleet manager. He outright lied in my face that the damage on the hood and front bumper was older damage. Offered something like $270 for a new brush bar and I refused.♥ 0source record 3164
I’m so sorry to hear that! All of the AAAs are separate companies, and it doesn’t sound like this happened in my clubs territory because we require all of our drivers (including outside companies we partner with) to take pictures of the vehicle before services. This is to protect both our drivers and our members. If there is any damage to the vehicle we are able to assess if it was caused prior to the service or during, and if one of our drivers damages a vehicle we do compensate for that.♥ 0source record 3165
I took photos before he pulled the car onto the back of his truck and submitted them to AAA midAtlantic.♥ 0source record 3166
I believe the renew is yearly at least that's what the membership should be and believe it. The cheapest way is unfortunately the long run, wait for them to call you. If you call them they wont offer you much but at times its like 1/2 the price♥ 0source record 3167
Same for roadside with a lot of cellphone plans. I went over to my friend's house once when she needed roadside assistance and called them.♥ 21source record 3175
My mom just sends me a picture of her card. I pretend to be her and they never check.♥ 6source record 3176
Someone who passed by me broken down on the highway literally called theirs for me once. 😭💕♥ 1source record 3182
You can also call AAA even if it’s not the car listed. I’ve had to use coworkers AAA numerous times for help. They’ll still come to help you 🥰🥰🥰♥ 1source record 3183
100% trur! I used my mom's twice yrs ago for my first car♥ 1source record 3187
Yeah never buy AAA for the whole family. If someone breaks down and you’re able to make it to them, just drive on down and tell AAA you’re in that vehicle lol. Done it plenty. OH! Especially for locking keys in the car.♥ 0source record 3190
i have roadside assistance with AT&T and it works the same way! we pay 2$ a month for it !♥ 0source record 3193
We literally tell people this when they sign up? The membership is to the individual, not the vehicle.♥ 0source record 3194
how do ppl not know that 😅 as a matter of a fact you dont even have to be there for them to use it! u just have to make the call.♥ 0source record 3197
My former friend and I were using her moms van and the battery gave out, she had no more roadside assistance and was going to wait for her step dad to come pick us up but she texted a guy and he said we could sit in his car while we waited for him. he got there and she told him the issue and he called AAA and used his roadside assistance to help her 😭 it was wild.♥ 0source record 3200
Yes!!! I did this for my bestfriend whose car wouldn’t start. She was 10 minutes away from me so I went to her location and used the AAA app to help her.♥ 0source record 3201
When I was working at target I literally had AAA come to help a woman who I didn’t know who locked her keys in her car. Honestly I think I’ve used my AAA for my own vehicle once and I’ve had aaa for 15 years lol♥ 0source record 3202
I was a customer for years and when I needed them I got the runaround. I dropped them I’d rather pay for a tow truck…♥ 0source record 3206
You don’t even have to be in the car. My receptionist called me crying because her battery died on her lunch break and she couldn’t get back. I called gave them my info and they went to replace her battery on my account.♥ 0source record 3208
I used to do this for friends in high school when they locked their keys in the car or their batteries died♥ 0source record 3209
AND ITS SO CHEAP AND YOU PAY FOR THE YEAR PLATINUM IS WORTH IT♥ 0source record 3215
AAA will help anyone tbh I’ve used my grandmas AAA and my dad’s gf’s AAA they weren’t there any of times either they just send me pictures of their ID’s 😂♥ 0source record 3219
I’ve only called AAA for myself once. But way too many times for friends. I just show up wherever they are.♥ 0source record 3224
You can buy AAA 5 minutes before using the “free tow service “♥ 0source record 3227
Yes but you only get 3 service calls a year.. once you use them up then your aaa is pointless. I learned this the hard way. So I would say save it for yourself if you have a car emergency♥ 0source record 3230
I have a question, does AAA help their customers win arbitration hearings? Because this lady hit me… and her and her little old lady friend said i went into her and i only got a “it’s not going in your record vs paying for damages”♥ 0source record 3231
Guess I’m the only one who uses my moms when I’m half way accross the country♥ 0source record 3232
I used to call it for stranded strangers all the time♥ 0source record 3234
you don’t even have to be a passenger. half my neighborhood uses my AAA 😂 works like a charm every time.♥ 0source record 3235
I used my AAA once for a dude stranded on the side of the road at night in a whiteout blizzard! They don't follow the vehicle, its the policy holder they follow♥ 0source record 3237
This is true bc I broke down out of state and my friend riding with me has AAA and they came and towed us for free♥ 0source record 3238
Yes! I used my aunt’s triple aaa all the time before I got my own. I just needed her in the car with me and both times I needed it, they only needed her on the phone.♥ 0source record 3239
I have AAA and I called them for my friend who car busted on the highway in Mississippi while they were on their way to Texas. I was in Michigan in my bed!♥ 0source record 3240
Yes this is possible but it still counted, so if you are allowed a certain number of tows calling for someone else will count towards that.♥ 0source record 3242
can vouch for thisss!!! keys got locked in a rental car in colorado and my aunt was able to call and get us help♥ 0source record 3246
I've used other people's aaa and never had them with me in the vehicle sometimes they just need to approve over the phone♥ 0source record 3248
Oh yah I knew this I love them they’re so nice and affordable and very convenient 😫♥ 0source record 3250
The amount of times my brother has called me to run my card down to him……. Guess what he got for Christmas 🤣♥ 0source record 3251
They just don’t have enough tow drivers. Two of my sons tow for them. So many people apply thinking they can tow and then find out it’s not for them because they tow in all kinds of inclement weather and all kinds of scary situations.♥ 0source record 3253
no ma'am where we are they very much do have enough companies. They cancelled TWO OTHER COMPANIES before sending out the third and the third was from a company over an hour away. The people from the first company let me know it was AAA that cancelled it. In my little town almost all the tow companies are tied to AAA so no this isn't that. But if I use the service with my car insurance I'm picked up in 30 minutes or less.♥ 0source record 3254
I’ve been calling aaa for strangers for years. I just make sure I have a couple left for myself just n case before it renews.♥ 0source record 3259
You can call them if it was a random stranger on the side of the road that needed help they still will come♥ 0source record 3261
Yessss my boss used his to help me when I locked my keys in the car lol♥ 0source record 3263
Yes my grandma has it and I got locked out of my car and she was with me they came and helped us ❤️♥ 0source record 3269
It’s allowed as long as you are there legitimately. I know some people may lie and act like they were in the vehicle.♥ 0source record 3271
I used to call AAA for my friends all the time lol♥ 0source record 3272
You don’t even have to be in their car, you just have to be present when AAA shows up - Someone who has used AAA to helps others more than I’ve needed it for myself♥ 0source record 3275
I used aaa to tow my car home when I was too drunk to drive♥ 0source record 3276
my wife has AAA and was told a couple of days ago that they can't help with rentals unless you were in an accident. our car over heated and is not drivable, but the car dealership said that they are booked this week and next so now we're screwed on a car and triple A so they can't help.♥ 0source record 3277
Add a lady saved my ass with this one when I locked my keys in my car when I was 19. I hope she’s doing well and her pillow is always cool.♥ 0source record 3278
State Farm has something similar. You can let it friend drive your car and it’s covered by wtv insurance you have on the vehicle but they can’t live with you aka share address♥ 0source record 3279
You can do this shy carmax’s MaxCare as well, don’t even need to be in the vehicle. Vehicle does need to be a certain age though♥ 0source record 3280
AAA is like THE MOST A1 SAUCE dude saved my behind as a teenager so many times. So thankful my mom always made sure I had that.♥ 0source record 3281
if you’re carrying a trailer, it voids all services …. total bullshit♥ 0source record 3282

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Working a season for the travel benefit29 index entriesOne staff benefit, with the eligibility details worked out in the replies by the person who used it.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Working a season for the travel benefit

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Working a season for the travel benefit

29 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are considering seasonal work for what the job unlocks rather than what it pays

How commenters applied it: 29 records. One straightforward staff benefit, worked out in the replies by the person who used it: a completed summer season earns a heavily discounted cruise to be taken within a year, the roles include land-based hotel work with housing provided, and the commenter lists the three jobs they did across three seasons. Others add that a comparable benefit exists at other lines and in hotel groups, and one points out the trade-off plainly — the pay is below market and the discount is the compensation.

What readers reported: Except that they pay below market. So you don’t get paid much, but you get a hefty discount on a vacation.

Limit: This is one former employee describing one company's benefit at the time they worked there, with the eligibility details given informally. Terms change and were not checked.

What the replies added2

It’s not promoting, it’s dissuading. Ppl can tell a lot from your ❄️RepubIican makeup❄️

From the replies♥ 339

Girl why you got 50 shades a melanin on when you pale😭💀

From the replies♥ 88

Where commenters report limits

Explicit limit or counterpoint

I worked on land based operation for them in Alaska and got the benefits. I’m sure remote would get the same! But I’m not sure as I didn’t work for them remote!

source record 7894♥ 1

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If you work for princess cruise lines for one summer you can take a cruise anywhere in the world for $10 a day. 😊

source record 7772♥ 24,825
Later-arriving source

You have to work for them, just for a summer season. They have a lot of land based hotels in Alask, Florida, Washington, you can work at, so you don’t have to be on a ship. They provide housing (at least in Alaska), you just have to get yourself there. Once you complete a summer season, you get your cruise benefit to use within a year. 👍🏼

posted about 53 days after the source♥ 3
Zero-like source

How do we get $10 day cruises, I’m old and need this! I don’t care what you are (political views) a $10 a day cruise, is a $10 day cruise! I need in on this!

posted about 52 days after the source

What the counts show

The exact phrase “not sure i worked” recurs across 2 of the 29 source records in Working a season for the travel benefit; the complete archive stays available below.

29index entries
29distinct source records
11.5%of parent category
0.4%of the complete index
1top-level comments
28replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
1explicitly reports a limit or failure
8asks a question
0says they intend to try it
20other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Browse the original comments29 preserved records · 29 of 29 source records accounted for
If you work for princess cruise lines for one summer you can take a cruise anywhere in the world for $10 a day. 😊♥ 24,825source record 7772
How do we get $10 day cruises, I’m old and need this! I don’t care what you are (political views) a $10 a day cruise, is a $10 day cruise! I need in on this!♥ 0source record 7829
You have to work for them, just for a summer season. They have a lot of land based hotels in Alask, Florida, Washington, you can work at, so you don’t have to be on a ship. They provide housing (at least in Alaska), you just have to get yourself there. Once you complete a summer season, you get your cruise benefit to use within a year. 👍🏼♥ 3source record 7830
Like anywhere in the company or you have to work on a ship? Cuz like I could do WFH customer service. 🤣♥ 29source record 7856
Anywhere! They have land based hotels you can work at that provide housing in Alaska!♥ 55source record 7857
Unrequited love for an orange man lmao that’s embarassing for you, he’ll never love you back, please move on 🙂♥ 12source record 7862
How embarrassing for you that you don't understand the meaning of unrequited love. It means to have romantic feelings or to be in love with someone who doesn't feel the same. 🤷‍♀️. I don't have romantic feelings for my OUR President. I'm not deeply in love with him. He has my respect and admiration for the leader that he is. I know that I'll likely never meet him but he actually does love me and ALL Americans... sadly, you (if you're in the USA) he here's in your best interest. He loves America and wants the best for this nation to keep it from ruin from the enemies within and outside of our great nation. God Bless DJT! ❤️🇺🇸♥ 1source record 7863
Yep, my friend works for them April-Sept in Alaska doing ground excursions. You can also save your cruise and not use it one year and get a better cruise the next year.♥ 12source record 7868
I’m not sure, I worked at their hotel operations in Alaska so I am not familiar with the booking end of things they do! You can check out their website under “careers” and see what they offer! 🥰♥ 2source record 7873
Not sure, I worked for Princess so that’s the only one I know of! They are affiliated under Carnival though!♥ 2source record 7875
You’re never too old! There were lots of ages! 20s-70s! It’s never too late! 🥰♥ 2source record 7876
Houskeeping first year, server second year, assistant dining room manager third year.♥ 1source record 7881
Royal Caribbean and celebrity cruises give you a free one♥ 1source record 7883
Except that they pay below market. So you don’t get paid much, but you get a hefty discount on a vacation.♥ 1source record 7884
It was a free cruise back when I worked at their Alaska Denali hotel but that was a decade ago but I do know it applies to their Princess hotel’s staff too!♥ 1source record 7888
Guess I’ll be the only non political comment, does this include remote work for them or is it only like on cruise staff benefits?♥ 0source record 7893
I worked on land based operation for them in Alaska and got the benefits. I’m sure remote would get the same! But I’m not sure as I didn’t work for them remote!♥ 1source record 7894
I look beautiful without them too, so if you're jealous you can just say that boo 😘♥ 0source record 7916
[account] maybe this is what we do with our lives after college♥ 0source record 7917
I worked for them for 5 years and I didn’t know this lol♥ 0source record 7924
One summer and you get cruises 10$ a day the rest of your life?!! Or do you have to remain employed lol♥ 0source record 7926
You've seen all of the crying, whining, screaming, tantrum videos of yall Dems right? 😂 bc 🤣🤭 That's embarrassing♥ 0source record 7931
Now, is that a lifetime thing after one summer of working? Or do I have to be currently working there to get the deal?♥ 0source record 7933
Same thing if you’re a chef at the ritz — you can stay anywhere for super SUPER cheap (like 10 bucks a night) anywhere in the world♥ 0source record 7935
For the same year you worked? Just that summer? For life? Need more info before I go try to work there lol♥ 0source record 7936
You should try some 🤭 sweetheart♥ 0source record 7956
Forget being a passenger princess. Cruiseliner princess coming up.♥ 1source record 7961
Eh, they're not stealing my content + being disrespectful about it. You can most definitely worry about yourself though 😂😂😂♥ 0source record 7963
All of old girls pictures look like AI… I don’t even think she’s a real person who follows 10,000 people and only has 1500 followers♥ 0source record 7968

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Prices, markups and what things cost to make305 records · 6 sub-topicsBuyers, manufacturers, technicians and shop staff putting a number on the gap between what something costs and what it sells for. 305 records.
Furniture, fans and the multiple on the price tag54 index entriesBuyers and sales staff putting numbers on the markup, and the industry people who say the figure quoted is far too high.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Furniture, fans and the multiple on the price tag

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Furniture, fans and the multiple on the price tag

54 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are buying furniture or a large household item

How commenters applied it: 54 records. A former buyer of fifteen years and several sales staff give the shape of the markup and then argue about the size of it: the headline claim of an eight-times multiple is rejected by working designers and retailers who put it between twenty and four hundred per cent depending on the vendor, and one island retailer explains their own margin against shipping costs. What survives is the practical part: the same piece is often available at several retailers at very different prices, so photograph the label and the item number and search it; a buyer names the manufacturing regions to search; several point to buying direct or locally. A separate report says rent-to-own stock is frequently returned goods professionally cleaned and resold as new.

What readers reported: I’ve found furniture cheaper online by writing down all the information about the piece and the item number while I’m at the store.

Limit: The industry people in this thread disagree with the headline figure by an order of magnitude, which is the most useful thing in the card. Nothing here was checked with any retailer.

What the replies added2

Just mama tot casually commenting 😂😂 hey girl hey!

From the replies♥ 437

Who do they buy from? I need to go straight to the source

From the replies♥ 275

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Most engaged source

Furniture stores buy a sofa for $399 and sell it to you for $3200. The market up is insane which is why so many are closing AND due to online sales now.

source record 4871♥ 19,775
Later-arriving source

The furnitures we are all buying for $2000 and up ,most likely cost 20 dollars

posted about 72 days after the source♥ 3
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I’ve found furniture cheaper online by writing down all the information about the piece and the item number while I’m at the store.

posted about 41 days after the source

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Across 54 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Swap instead of subtract” (2 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

54index entries
54distinct source records
17.7%of parent category
0.8%of the complete index
4top-level comments
50replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
5asks a question
0says they intend to try it
49other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Observable tactic structures

Swap instead of subtract 2

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

Browse the original comments54 preserved records · 54 of 54 source records accounted for
Furniture stores buy a sofa for $399 and sell it to you for $3200. The market up is insane which is why so many are closing AND due to online sales now.♥ 19,775source record 4871
North Carolina manufacturers. It's all made down south. thank you Mamma Tot😎💯♥ 117source record 4875
Yes! I worked at Ethan Allen and we had some huge companies buying stuff that tweakers threw together with half of a thought♥ 2source record 4876
Temu! You should see my dining room lavish ass Temu chairs! Cut the middle man out!♥ 0source record 4877
Trust me 🙏I worked for a furniture store 15 years. I was the buyer. We LOVED our NC manufacturers 💜♥ 124source record 4879
I found a lottttt of good stuff on alibaba—- look for the ones who let you purchase 1 or you may even like a sample. This is where furniture companies get their start♥ 108source record 4880
my ex MIL used to work at a cabinet factory in S.GA. she would get us the bare bones of cabinets for dirt cheap. she tought me how to beat them for aging, painting them, and putting them together properly. my whole house has custom cabinets, by me, for cheaper than buying.♥ 23source record 4881
Probably China. Everyone’s going there now to cut out the middle man. Most of the high end home items are made there.♥ 5source record 4883
depending on your state there are manufacturers who sell but you have to have a business license to buy in some places. my mom used to sell furniture♥ 21source record 4884
If you’re in the UK my family’s company Pekalp manufactures in London and we sell to the public for the same price! We supply some big stores but I can’t 🤫😂♥ 11source record 4885
Walmart and Amazon have couches as low as $200. They’re the same ones you’re going to see in stores😬♥ 2source record 4892
Using at furniture stores that are NOT a franchise. SHOP LOCAL AND SUPPRT family owned furniture stores 💜better quality♥ 122source record 4893
Also the store you worked at is always running a going out of business sale. I don’t know how ppl haven’t caught on to that sale lol♥ 0source record 4894
this is how business works, in general. it's the margin. whatever the cost of sales is. this isnt a secret. it is how profit margins work.♥ 10source record 4895
Furniture definitely has a high markup often 200–400% but it’s not the highest in retail. Eyeglasses, jewelry, mattresses, skincare, and even bottled water all beat it by a lot. So it’s up there, but not at the very top.♥ 8source record 4897
I work in finance. im sure they have a crazy margin. there are a lot of sectors with high margins. arbitrage is based on margins and some of what you see will be insane.♥ 0source record 4898
Yep! I was the buyer for a furniture store for 15 years. I placed the orders and I was director of accounting. So I knew the prices the it all♥ 8source record 4900
True! We bought our dining room table from a random discount furniture store for like $600. Two years later the EXACT same table was at Ashley Furniture for almost $3,000🤯♥ 4source record 4902
I work in furniture sales , and mate , it is NO WHERE near that 😭 plus that’d be a shty couch if it were 300 😭♥ 5source record 4905
I learned that too. Like a 300% mark up. Nothing wrong with bargaining at the furniture store too.♥ 3source record 4906
where do they buy them from? I need a new couch but cannot fathom spending that kind of money on one!!! I've bought sofas from marketplace in the past for sure but I'm at the point I'd like a new couch instead of some guy named Gary's old couch that I have to srub the cooties out of 😂♥ 2source record 4907
I was a buyer as well. It all comes from China/Vietnam/Thailand. Different brands all being made in the same factory.♥ 2source record 4911
Yessss in Spain same. Just a very small percentage is made in Europe and they claim it’s all European 🫠♥ 1source record 4912
This isn’t actually 100% correct as a designer that purchases from the manufacture you can expect markups to be anywhere from 20% to 100% depending on the vendor and the showrooms profit margin.♥ 1source record 4914
Can confirm I've seen a couch at my job brought for 500$ and we sold it at 1k♥ 1source record 4916
This is true. Also, mattresses & sofas are sold everywhere, they just change the name per store & thats why you cant find the “same” one from store to store. They ARE the same, though.♥ 1source record 4918
yep my fiance used to work at a furniture store and he could buy their furniture at cost. it was so cheap compared to what they sell it for.♥ 1source record 4926
Most furniture stores also use the same manufacturers so you will see the exact same sofa at every major retailer at vastly different prices.♥ 0source record 4928
I’ve found furniture cheaper online by writing down all the information about the piece and the item number while I’m at the store.♥ 0source record 4929
I work for Ashely, and I can 100% confirm this♥ 0source record 4931
I will 1000% agree on this. As someone who has worked in furniture and appliances. The markup is crazy. Even if it’s on sale. Don’t be fooled. It changes ur brain chemistry and how much you’re getting ripped off♥ 0source record 4932
Or they buy it straight from the Chinese manufacturers and pay for the shipping♥ 0source record 4934
Depends on the store, I know the markup at my store but that’s why everyone else is going out of buisness for sure♥ 0source record 4935
I kinda knew that already. My parents work in hospitality and, when my mother wanted to open her own business, she had her own connections to furniture traders. They would sell for 1/3 of the price and with lower taxes. But such stores -in my country at least- are selling mostly to other businesses tho. Not to people who want to buy furniture for their house 🙃♥ 0source record 4941
So I where can I buy for $399♥ 0source record 4943
why don't they just lower their prices instead of going out of business♥ 0source record 4945
? I think it depends on where they’re getting the sofa from. I worked in furniture for a long time and I’ve never seen that.♥ 0source record 4949
As someone who works at a furniture store I can confirm this♥ 0source record 4951
I remember when you worked at the furniture store 😭♥ 0source record 4952
wowww! thats insane bc many stores are closing and i never knew why♥ 0source record 4962
Makes me miss the $399 soda store in Nashville 😭♥ 0source record 4963
Wholesale and retail are a very real thing. Wait until you find out about jewelry♥ 0source record 4965
Hi Momma Tot , sending lots of love your way . Enjoy your weekend and stay cool , it's a hot 🥵🔥🥵🔥 one out there .♥ 0source record 4966
I work a the furniture store, we buy our stuff pay for shipping, dock (we’re on an island in the middle of the ocean), and mark up maybe $200-$500 depending on the couch and cost of shipping. It’s cheaper to buy from us then buy item than pay $400 shipping. Any store that is marking up THAT much is ripping you off, look anywhere else.♥ 0source record 4967
Yup. Bought my bed frame at ikea for $150. The same exact bed frame is $400 now.♥ 0source record 4971
Oh we can tell because the furniture don’t even look like it cost that much♥ 0source record 4972
I work in furniture sales for a large retailer and your right, shipping cost more than the furniture itself, and production cost are skyrocketing, its getting ridiculous and customers think us in sales are happy lmao like bruh lower the fuckin price♥ 0source record 4973
I have been in the industry 20 years this is not a realistic mark up for furnitire stores. This is not fact.♥ 0source record 4975
The furnitures we are all buying for $2000 and up ,most likely cost 20 dollars♥ 3source record 12534
I ONCE Worked For Somerville Design. A Company That Built Canada Post Cabinets. The Owner Charged A Mint For Internal Oak Inside The Cabinets. But The Inside? Made Of Cheap 20 DOLLAR Pine Not 120 Dollar Oak😳😳♥ 1source record 13469
Rent a center is NOT new furniture 50% of the time. They have a professional cleaner come clean it up and they resell it as new.✨✨✨♥ 121source record 14968
Not just them! Most furniture stores that let you make payments, do this too!! When things are Repo’d, returned, or when a customer buys new and delivery guys remove the old, They ReSell it! I’m talking roach, rat, bedbug infested stuff! Sometimes they don’t even clean it!!♥ 1source record 14969
trust me, half of the rented items come from homes infested with crawling creatures.♥ 4source record 14972
yeah but bc of this you can also ask for what they have in cash and carry and negotiate a price.♥ 0source record 14973

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Jewellery, and what the metal is worth25 index entriesRetail staff and a jeweller's family on silver, plating and the employee discount as a floor price.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Jewellery, and what the metal is worth

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Jewellery, and what the metal is worth

25 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are buying silver or a branded charm and want to know what you are paying for

How commenters applied it: 25 records. A commenter who says they worked for a silver manufacturer supplying vendors puts the markup at around ninety per cent and argues the metal itself is cheap; a jeweller's relative and a working silversmith reply that this ignores labour and that silver prices have moved. The most useful correction in the card separates two questions — investment value and craftsmanship — with one commenter arguing a handmade piece is worth more than the metal and a mass-produced one is not. A current employee of one named brand confirms the pricing complaint and adds that the plated range wears quickly, and another cites the staff discount as an indication of the floor.

What readers reported: I would say if you’re buying mass produced items def don’t spend much $$. But if it’s a handmade piece by an artist it absolutely deserves to be more than that. Obviously from an investment standpoint silver is not an expensive metal, but it depends on the artist on if it will retain value. Just like paintings.

Limit: Metal prices move, and the trade people in this thread disagree about labour and value. The staff-discount inference is a commenter's reasoning, not a disclosed cost.

What the replies added1

not true, I have a family member who's a silversmith

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Don’t spend more than $30 on silver jewelry. The mark up on silver is about 90%.

source record 10756♥ 2,165
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it's also gold plated not solid gold, when I found out I look at the women in the store like she was crazy... im paying how much for costume jewellery....?

posted about 51 days after the source
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Best wholesale place to get good quality sterling silver jewelry? Cheap stuff breaks me out so I need the real deal

posted about 30 days after the source

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4asks a question
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Browse the original comments25 preserved records · 25 of 25 source records accounted for
Don’t spend more than $30 on silver jewelry. The mark up on silver is about 90%.♥ 2,165source record 10756
I know right! My family had a jewelry store when I was younger & prices were decent but now days the same jewelry is $150-300 when it was $20. I realize things go up but these ppl are scamming customers even in Mexico prices were outrageous.♥ 52source record 10757
Your uncle is still buying the silver at a vendors cost. He’s not paying the actual price of what silver is worth, which is practically nothing.♥ 20source record 10759
remember they pay employees bills rent so that's the reason everything is expensive♥ 2source record 10760
check silver prices again, they've gone up. plus what about time for making the jewelry, should that be nothing? some of theses pieces that hours to make♥ 5source record 10761
Yes that’s my exact point, every thing is marked up triple the price. It’s a metal that’s not worth investing in. I worked for a manufacturer that produces silver to sell to vendors. It’s all a scam.♥ 5source record 10762
I would say if you’re buying mass produced items def don’t spend much $$. But if it’s a handmade piece by an artist it absolutely deserves to be more than that. Obviously from an investment standpoint silver is not an expensive metal, but it depends on the artist on if it will retain value. Just like paintings.♥ 3source record 10763
They all come from almost the same manufacturer. I am saying more from an investment point. You’ll always be over paying for jewelry no matter the store. David Yurmans craftsmanship is great though, so worth it in that sense.♥ 0source record 10765
I make jewelry, I buy SS chains, earwires, etc from AliExpress, PandaHall, Wish. But not Temu. Read reviews, find sellers w free shipping.♥ 4source record 10766
They are way more expensive than the other China apps, in my experience. The other apps sell in bulk. I’m buying specific jewelry findings, so there’s that..♥ 1source record 10768
Yes every where. At Tiffany’s and big name stores, you’re paying for the name. There’s nothing wrong with spending money on silver jewelry. lol I just wanted to let everyone know how high the mark up is.♥ 1source record 10771
Best wholesale place to get good quality sterling silver jewelry? Cheap stuff breaks me out so I need the real deal♥ 0source record 10774
Not me reading this after buying a $180 dollar silver chain for my man 💀♥ 0source record 10776
fr!! my grandma had bought me a $20 cross necklace and i checked it and had “925 italy” so it was geniune silver♥ 0source record 10777
Jewelry is an extremely competitive niche, so majority of the price goes to marketing fee♥ 0source record 10778
but then if it’s a few dollars it’s gonna turn your skin green♥ 1source record 10781
Pandora jewelry is not worth the prices, everything is recycled, its better to invest in REAL gold ✅♥ 1,133source record 11866
White gold plating rubs off after a while and is costly to restore - silver is very cheap to care for but has a crazy mark-up - and platinum / yellow gold are the best investments♥ 17source record 11869
Since we are talking about pandora which most is silver, I mentioned a better alternative, but if one has more money yes Platinum is the best! Ive had white gold since I was a child & it still shines. Anything plated will peel 👎 whether its white or yellow gold plating. Plating is a diff option which i dnt recommend.. buttt pure yellow gold, white gold & platinum will last you foreverrrr♥ 2source record 11870
I dont buy jewelry 🥲 , my dads a jeweler but ppl go to local jewelry stores im assuming♥ 0source record 11872
Ofc! I just meant that white gold will eventually rub off, depending on frequency and placement of wear, and turn yellow. The standard for rings is 3-5 years but ofc will differ for everyone ☺️♥ 1source record 11875
Can confirm I work there it’s overpriced and their quality has really fallen off. Don’t get the gold plated because it comes off super easy. Go to a local jeweler for gold or silver♥ 1source record 11876
I never take my Pandora jewelry off and it hasn’t tarnished over years🥹♥ 1source record 11877
it's also gold plated not solid gold, when I found out I look at the women in the store like she was crazy... im paying how much for costume jewellery....?♥ 0source record 11882
Pandora’s employees have a 75% off discount. Which means it costs even less than that to have their jewelry made 😐♥ 212source record 14506

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Scent, soap, supplements and the testers on the counter48 index entriesStore staff on dilution and reformulation, a pharmacy student on collagen, and a cosmetics worker on what is on the testers.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Scent, soap, supplements and the testers on the counter

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Scent, soap, supplements and the testers on the counter

48 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are buying a household or personal product and wondering what is actually in the bottle

How commenters applied it: 48 records. Four separate reports with the same structure: a former or current worker names a dilution, and the replies test it. Store staff say foaming hand soap is the gel diluted and that refilling the dispenser yourself works; commenters supply the ratio and the dispenser type. A commenter says ready-to-use cleaning sprays are mostly water and that concentrate is cheaper — a manufacturing employee replies that the formulations are not interchangeable, are batch-tested and use treated water, which is the most substantive rebuttal in the card. A pharmacy student says collagen supplements are a waste; the best reply explains the biochemistry rather than shouting, and other commenters raise connective-tissue conditions as an exception. A cosmetics worker's report about counter testers is not contradicted by anyone.

What readers reported: collagen is not bad for you, it's protein. In order for protein to get absorbed our organism has to break it into amino acids that build that protein which basically means you can take collagen but your body doesn't get collagen, it gets amino acids that build it and uses them for what you need. For example, if you take collagen for hair you can't absorb it as a molecule and "put it in your hair", you get amino acids and your organism doesn't know you want to use them to build collagen for hair which means it will use it for something more important at that moment. So it's better to fix your diet so your organism can get enough of nutrients to build everything you need

Limit: The dilution claims are contested by a manufacturing employee on safety and efficacy grounds. The supplement discussion is laypeople and students arguing, not clinical evidence, and nothing here is medical advice.

What replies pushed back on3

true story! I refill the bottle with antibacterial soap from DG and add alittle water. literally no difference

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This isn't true I work for Clorox and have been here many years the solution is made in a huge batch an is measured everytime and all the products have different formulas and agents to ensure they really kill herms and every batch is tested in a lab, I tested batches for years before being promoted, the water is even processed with an agitator because u can't just use regular water...

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Oooh yeah, that’s why I like Bronners. It’s concentrated. I’ve had the same jug for going on 5 months now, but I use it for everything. Laundry, dishes, countertops, glass. Pre mixed cleaners are a huge waste of money.

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Bath and body works foam soap is just watered down gel soap. Buy the gel. Add water and instantly get 3x more soap from one bottle

source record 11344♥ 2,209
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😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 it’s literally common sense that drinking a ton of water is the best thing for your skin. Like…..you don’t need to be a doctor to know that. It must suck being this stupid. Keep throwing your money away please.

posted about 62 days after the source
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Vape products in bulk - CHEAP. like that vape you paid 20$ for, the company maybe paid between 2 and 5 dollars for. Everything is sold at 100-200% markups.

posted about 60 days after the source

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2explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
4asks a question
0says they intend to try it
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Swap instead of subtract 2Use a sensory reset 2

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I study pharmacy and collagen supplements are literally scam, better invest in healthy diet and protein♥ 1,715source record 8515
She isnt a doctor, yall believe anything yall read on the internet♥ 2source record 8517
Cause people get on the internet and lie and spread misinformation eveyday♥ 1source record 8519
I have Ehlers-Danlos (connective tissue disorder) my body doesn't make collagen properly. the amount of people I have to tell this to. 🤦‍♀️♥ 10source record 8523
collagen is not bad for you, it's protein. In order for protein to get absorbed our organism has to break it into amino acids that build that protein which basically means you can take collagen but your body doesn't get collagen, it gets amino acids that build it and uses them for what you need. For example, if you take collagen for hair you can't absorb it as a molecule and "put it in your hair", you get amino acids and your organism doesn't know you want to use them to build collagen for hair which means it will use it for something more important at that moment. So it's better to fix your diet so your organism can get enough of nutrients to build everything you need♥ 146source record 8526
I actually don’t believe you at all when there is science to back this♥ 0source record 8528
No there isn’t 😂. Actual science says that we cannot rebuild collagen and it just diminishes over time. There’s no bone broth or hydrolyzed marine collagen that will make you not wrinkle. There’s no collagen cream or serum. You’re better off drinking 3L of water a day. That’ll brighten and plump your face. And it’s FREE♥ 1source record 8529
You’re not even a dr. You’re not even a pharmacist yet. Stop spreading misinformation . I would never take skin care advice from a white woman, considering yall age the quickest♥ 0source record 8531
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 it’s literally common sense that drinking a ton of water is the best thing for your skin. Like…..you don’t need to be a doctor to know that. It must suck being this stupid. Keep throwing your money away please.♥ 0source record 8532
what vitamins would you recommend are actually beneficial♥ 0source record 8535
Yes omg! When I see ads promoting oral collagen .. you are literally throwing away money buying that♥ 2source record 8537
Bath and body works foam soap is just watered down gel soap. Buy the gel. Add water and instantly get 3x more soap from one bottle♥ 2,209source record 11344
As long as you get the soap to water ratio, correct you can make your own foam soap♥ 22source record 11346
there are soap dispensers that make foaming soap. I have one in my kitchen that I bought on amazon and fill it with Mrs Meyers soap diluted with water.♥ 26source record 11347
I know I use to work there. I’m saying that sometimes ppl get their soap 🧼 to water ratio off and it doesn’t come out foamy it’s just thick goop♥ 2source record 11348
true story! I refill the bottle with antibacterial soap from DG and add alittle water. literally no difference♥ 10source record 11349
Well damn…. I need someone to do a video of the proper ratio in an actual foam bottle using the gel and water. So if I do this I know the exact ratio to use. But they need the video to be perfected! 😂😂♥ 5source record 11354
it's not hard. Just look at how watery the bath and body works soap is and then eyeball it. I've never refilled it and it was off. foam every pump. the only thing I do make certain is to use antibacterial.♥ 1source record 11355
I have always wondered this, because its common sense no?? how else is it foam.. if not 50 percent water.. 😂♥ 1source record 11358
Up I always refill mine. A little soap and water and bam! Foam soap♥ 1source record 11359
Add a little isopropyl alcohol too. It helps the foaming.♥ 7source record 11367
Worked at Sephora, Ulta, Nordstrom in cosmetics. Those testers are NEVER cleaned. 3rd party testing revealed feces, ecoli, herpes, MRSA. I watched customers apply on mouth and return. BE SAFE OUT THERE 🧫🙏🏻♥ 1,310source record 11883
All of the premixed cleaning sprays like Lysol All Purpose, Clorox Fragenzia, Clorox Bleach Spray, etc are literally just 1-2 tablespoons of the cleaners and the rest is all water. You can literally just buy spray bottles for $1, then the cleaning solutions for $3 - $5? And mix your own for much cheaper and it lasts much longer!!♥ 908source record 13927
Girl! I bought a concentrated house spray 3 years ago and I still use it.♥ 56source record 13928
I use Dr. Bronners. Smells nice and is better than most cleaners I used previously. Much safer for you and your household too.♥ 22source record 13932
Oh I thought she said all the sprays are mixed with water (like Dr. Bronners). I was expecting baking soda or something♥ 0source record 13933
Oooh yeah, that’s why I like Bronners. It’s concentrated. I’ve had the same jug for going on 5 months now, but I use it for everything. Laundry, dishes, countertops, glass. Pre mixed cleaners are a huge waste of money.♥ 5source record 13934
which one do you use for like dishes. I used the peppermint as a body wash but I don't think I would like it to wash my dishes with♥ 0source record 13935
I used the Dr Bronners Sal Suds to clean literally everything. It’s SUPER concentrated so you only need a little bit.♥ 9source record 13936
I buy right from the website! Free shipping over $50♥ 2source record 13938
This isn't true I work for Clorox and have been here many years the solution is made in a huge batch an is measured everytime and all the products have different formulas and agents to ensure they really kill herms and every batch is tested in a lab, I tested batches for years before being promoted, the water is even processed with an agitator because u can't just use regular water...♥ 9source record 13939
my bf’s mom does this! i never understood it til i saw how much money you save fr♥ 1source record 13940
professional cleaner-- yup and unless it says "antibacterial " its literally just s enter water nothing kills germs♥ 1source record 13941
correct! the first ingredient is typically the most most used ingredient in the product… I always put back certain foods, salad dressings, etc. when the first few ingredient is like sugar, corn syrup, etc.♥ 1source record 13942
Oh I did this with the Mr clean antibacterial solution!♥ 0source record 13944
The level of home chemist natural remedies I’ve seen people do in their homes that can blow your mind instead of your money are wild.♥ 2source record 13945
I don't buy any cleaning products, bought a glass spray bottle, wrapped it with a drink koozie & fill it with boiling water, clean everything works great on grease, glass & even stainless steel♥ 2source record 13946
I’ve learned at 47 yrs old that vinegar and water in a spray bottle is better cleaner than most store bought chemicals. And non toxic♥ 1source record 13947
Vape products in bulk - CHEAP. like that vape you paid 20$ for, the company maybe paid between 2 and 5 dollars for. Everything is sold at 100-200% markups.♥ 0source record 14233
Bath & Body works is one of the most wasteful companies I have ever seen. Throwing out boxes of products instead of donating or giving to employees. Oh and the products are super toxic & they would make us wear gloves/wash our hands handling product.♥ 405source record 14399
See the thing with donating their products is that it looses market value. So I get that wasting is bad but all brands do this because at the end of the day it’s a business♥ 1source record 14400
I used to make candles. B&BW are toxic. They aren't all soy They use paraffin. Stickers on candles don't describe all ingredients bc they don't want you to know. Sales= merch was on shelves too long.♥ 4source record 14404
I haven’t stepped foot in BBB and I never will. I seriously don’t understand the appeal. Every product is so toxic it gives you cancer just looking at it and the fragrances smell so cheap I just can’t.♥ 4source record 14409
They are all full of cancer causing, endocrine disrupters & respiratory/skin reactions♥ 5source record 14410
Every time I go I get a migraine it can’t bd healthy working there inhaling those fumes all the time♥ 2source record 14412
all of it disrupts your hormones. If you have PCOS it’s mainly that wallflower and candle your mama has had since you were born.♥ 26source record 14414
Yep… Some of them are better than others. I remember one year we got in trouble because nothing in it actually killed germs or cleans skin. Might be better now tho♥ 10source record 14416
I’ve always thought they are. No way they smell that good with minimal chemicals in the products!♥ 4source record 14418

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Phones, software and the device you hand over98 index entriesRepair technicians on passcodes and photos, carrier staff on commission, and what a serial number tells you about a replacement.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Phones, software and the device you hand over

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Phones, software and the device you hand over

98 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You are handing a device to a repair shop or standing in a carrier store

How commenters applied it: 98 records. Repair technicians answer the privacy claim from both directions and the split is the useful part: several say a screen or back-glass repair needs no passcode at all, so being asked for one is the tell; others say transfers and diagnostics legitimately require access. Some describe colleagues who looked, and at least one describes a colleague fired or arrested for it; others say their shop was camera-monitored and that nobody cared. The practical additions are concrete: repair or maintenance mode on some handsets, per-app authentication on others, and watching the device get wiped. Carrier staff supply the commission story — that the handset they push may be the one that pays them more — and are immediately contradicted by employees who say pay is per activation. A separate report explains what a replacement handset's serial prefix indicates.

What readers reported: I used to fix phone screens and there is no need for the password. You just open the phone and replace it. 😭

Limit: Technicians here contradict each other about their own trade, and one employee flatly denies the commission claim for their employer. The serial-number and security-software claims are asserted by commenters and not verified.

What the replies added1

Also phone places what replace or fox broken screens will not give you a water proof screen so you have to make sure you check them about it or you’ll be paying a lot of money for a fake screen that your iPhone originally doesn’t come with

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GIRLIESSSS b careful when you try to go somewhere to fix ur phones cause they will in fact look at ur pictures!

source record 5635♥ 31,074
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Vinted huge backlogs in tickets and people solving your problems are from 3rd world countries who replies with relevant templates.

posted about 72 days after the source
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can confirm, I use to be a cellphone tech at Sprint. you would not believe how many techs would save the nudes photos...

posted about 47 days after the source

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Across 98 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Swap instead of subtract” (5 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

98index entries
98distinct source records
32.1%of parent category
1.5%of the complete index
6top-level comments
92replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
0explicitly reports a limit or failure
14asks a question
0says they intend to try it
84other source context

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Swap instead of subtract 5Attach it to an existing routine 2Change the sentence 2Create a default 2Turn it into a game 2

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Browse the original comments98 preserved records · 98 of 98 source records accounted for
GIRLIESSSS b careful when you try to go somewhere to fix ur phones cause they will in fact look at ur pictures!♥ 31,074source record 5635
Same with male photographers, if you do pin up model type shoots that are for yourself. Always go to women photographers♥ 2,296source record 5636
This is actually kinda unfair like what if there’s a young photographer who wants to make a name for themselves that happens to be male♥ 0source record 5637
I’ve had men and women photographers for lingerie shoots and the man was more respectful, professional and kinder, he did a better job too, it’s not all men.♥ 18source record 5638
Why does this offend you? Why are you bothered that women want to protect themselves. Why aren’t you saying yes go to other women because I may not be bad but I know other men can be. So strange♥ 414source record 5639
Thanks for letting me know that men need to support other men. If women like you choose to support female photographers exclusively, I will only hire men from now on.♥ 1source record 5640
Your talking about a phone we are talking about photo shoots two totally Differnt things♥ 13source record 5647
No it’s strange that you assume I’m offended when I’m clearly just speaking up for fact of stereotyped assumptions men that you chose to make it into something strange that is not as stated not all men are that way it’s weird you came at me for the correction of not all men Being that way to try to villainize me for speaking up that not everyone is out to do bad to people that’s strange and weird…..♥ 26source record 5648
you got aggravated because she called out usual and regular men’s behaviour. The stats don’t lie.♥ 39source record 5649
No Brandonyou should not be that upset about a sterotype that is at least 7/10 times true. You are actually not a goid person if what you’re advising is that women should take the 3/10 risk just because they might encounter a nice guy like you who won’t look. Imagine what you’re saying. If your daughter had bikini photos on her phone and needed to get it fixed and had the choice to go between a woman and a man - would you 100% confidently ask her to go to the guy because you can vouch 100% he won’t be nefarious? That’s all i have to say on that.♥ 45source record 5650
I’m not talking about a phone that’s the issue there was a whole other conversation going on about photography which you o can tell did not see but jumped to respond to say I’m wrong but didn’t read all the comments…….♥ 2source record 5651
Yet you responded to me. I used the example of the phone because it’s the exact same thing. There are male photographers preying on women and offering exclusively boudoir photoshoots as their specialty. Or who offer/take unclothed photoshoots for women. If you can pay your daughter the same regard in terms of bikini photos the. You csn pay women the same in terms of these kinds of photoshoots. There are also male photog’s who prey on women simply because they are taking a photo with them privately, even with clothes on. So again my point stands. In terms of male photographers who take general photos i.e anything that involves clothes on, that’s fine but for the rest, private, one on one or unclothed, there should be no issue with women having a preference for female photographers in that regard and if this still offends you, i don’t think your issue is the photography itself.♥ 37source record 5653
Guilty of what ? Trying to prove my point to someone not listening or comprehending what I’m saying vs what the picture they are painting it to be which is two totally Different things ? Oh okay …♥ 3source record 5657
i knew it was sketchy when they asked for my password. i just KNEW they were going thru my phone.♥ 55source record 5660
You can turn Face ID on for photos app temporarily with a iPhone. I turn it on for all my dating apps as well.♥ 42source record 5661
some ask for the passcode. 😟 which makes me think about all of the times I got a screen replacement.♥ 21source record 5664
every place I’ve ever gone to, they ask me for my passcode. 😭 I know they were disappointed bc I never have anything in my phone like what the other comments are mentioning.♥ 9source record 5666
Don’t ever tell them. Go and put it in for them and stand there till it’s locked. Dont be afraid to tell them you’re not comfortable leaving it unlocked. They can easily download all your info as well♥ 6source record 5667
thank you! 🥲 it’s sad bc I never knew that this wasn’t normal. definitely will never do it again.♥ 1source record 5668
I used to fix phone screens and there is no need for the password. You just open the phone and replace it. 😭♥ 17source record 5671
i used to work at a phone repair store and we did in fact not look at photos. we never cared.it was a small business my dad owned and we ran with integrity. ot baffles me some places do that....♥ 12source record 5674
My ex fiancé worked with him at the time, he seemed friendly and normal, i was disgusted i ever let him in my home! Nasty and pathetic fr♥ 11source record 5675
Yup. Learned the hard way when I went to a different phone repair place and they didn’t need my passcode.♥ 8source record 5676
That makes me so sad for them. How so low and starved of real connection one must be to resort to that♥ 7source record 5677
True I dated a boy once when I was younger who fixed phones in the mall and he would literally be going through people’s phones.♥ 6source record 5678
I hade to get my 6S+ fixed once, I drove WAY across town to have phone repaired, my search history is very….ADULTish 😂🤣♥ 5source record 5679
I got the back of my phone fixed a few weeks back she askef for my code i said no, what for? She said the camera, i said you dont need to unlock my phone to see the camera sis couldnt even form a sentence, why you need my code????♥ 3source record 5681
I returned my phone to Verizon and the sweetest man that there and made sure I saw him do it and told me to ALWAYS physically watch it get deleted from the memory because they will look at photos. It was disturbing but I’m grateful!!♥ 3source record 5682
Guy that goes through my phone will just see a shit tone of Korean men 🥀♥ 2source record 5683
They switch your battery if it’s a healthy one and any other components they can get away with to keep the better/originals for themselves♥ 1source record 5684
We never did that where i work, we looked at the gallery thats true, but never swapped parts♥ 1source record 5685
Ive had a couple things swapped on my phones, always check my battery health before I take it anywhere♥ 0source record 5686
I can attest to that.♥ 1source record 5687
I used to be a phone tech and never did this, but I did see a new male trainee look in every girl's album. he didn't last long♥ 1source record 5688
put it in maintenance mode !! sometimes there's also apps for that too! and you can lock apps !♥ 1source record 5689
Make sure you got your Face ID turned on for this just to even open the app♥ 1source record 5690
my Samsung has a repair mode where they cannot access any of my info and apps until I specifically unlock it. im sure there are apps that do the same thing!♥ 1source record 5691
I feel like this is common sense. People are creeps and always will be.♥ 1source record 5692
Also phone places what replace or fox broken screens will not give you a water proof screen so you have to make sure you check them about it or you’ll be paying a lot of money for a fake screen that your iPhone originally doesn’t come with♥ 0source record 5695
put everything in the security folder with a pin until you get it back !! ( mine is in there 24/7 anyway just in case )♥ 0source record 5696
It does just huge admin costs also so it may not go directly in that sense♥ 0source record 5701
You can put your phone on Maintenance mode when it's in for repair, it hides all your personal stuff. 😊♥ 0source record 5702
When they fix your phone the don’t need your past word duh what’s that got to do with it . Just don’t give them the past word it’s not rocket science. They say what’s the past word , you you dot need it . End of story♥ 0source record 5703
Omg this happened to be at Apple and he looked through my pictures in front of me I said excuse me sir!!♥ 0source record 5708
theres and setting on samsung phones that allow you to put you phone in "maintenance mode". everything that's meant to be private will become private and only pre existing apps will be available. idk if apple does that same tho♥ 0source record 5710
tru Ole dude was like "just need you to unlock your phone" like boa for a cracked screen🤨♥ 0source record 5711
I took my phone to get fixed and he added himself to my iCloud 😭 I got the notification to accept it while using a diff phone that was logged into my iCloud. My partner went to the shop questioning him, he told us it was normal and he did it to turn my phone on ?? soon removed himself 😅♥ 0source record 5714
Oh I’ve heard stories about getting blackmailed and stuff♥ 0source record 5715
Put a face id requirement on your photo app, bank apps, notes app, messages etc. On Iphone simply hold down the icon and select require face ID.♥ 0source record 5716
I repair phones and i can confirm this is true. My coworker doesn't, he's a good guy, but i'm nosey.♥ 0source record 5718
As someone who repaired phones and computers for years, we don’t care what you have on your phone. There’s also cameras that watch us the entire time. If we were caught looking through photos or documents, we would be immediately fired. Some places will even pursue legal action against that employee♥ 0source record 5724
Oh of course I think about this all the time since I left a selfie and my phone screen got cracked I couldn’t get in to delete it and had to get my phone fixed. I felt awkward but then I’m like well whatever lol♥ 0source record 5730
She’s not saying every man is like this but she’s just giving women advice to lessen the risk of being violated. Why does that offend you?♥ 8source record 5731
Clearly you did not read the whole conversation either but no worries I’m helping you also 😏♥ 0source record 5732
I just looked at them, but my buddy at samsung and his coworkers did the same, saved some pictures here and there♥ 0source record 5733
Accurate. A guy in my hometown sent himself a girls nudes and FORGOT TO DELETE THE TEXTS & got arrested♥ 47source record 5734
you're out here talking about "iT's NoT aLl MeN" when women are talking about their problems. dude, zip it♥ 17source record 5737
And your not comprehending the above responses just only what you read not the rest of the whine conversation sooooo you should probably go back to the corner you crawled out of from trolling …..♥ 1source record 5738
This is true, I used to work for AT&T and had a district manager get fired because someone reported him sending a customers nudes to himself♥ 6source record 5739
I had a border security guard tell me that his younger male coworkers would often look through people’s phone specifically just to see if someone attractive has nudes saved on their phone♥ 3source record 5741
This is true! Where i used to work my brother (also worked there) caught a remote tech looking through a customers photos when they had nothing to do with the service. Immediately reported the guy and pretty sure they got fired.♥ 2source record 5742
TRUE! My ex got fired for adding someone to snap and messaging her without her knowing until she got her phone back. 🤮☠️♥ 2source record 5743
can we sue? isn't that illegal♥ 1source record 5744
They'll also zap the sensitive electronic components with static electricity which can cause latent damage, induce faults and reduce the life of your phone. Your welcome.♥ 1source record 5745
This!!!! I picked my phone up not long ago and the guy said “nice pics btw you’ve got a great body” 😭😭😭♥ 1source record 5746
can confirm, I use to be a cellphone tech at Sprint. you would not believe how many techs would save the nudes photos...♥ 0source record 5749
Maybe lock your notes bank app and contacts idk if you can enter pin details on a locked app but yeah crazy♥ 0source record 5751
yes, most of us will see pictures but don't really care about them. we see porn etc on devices every day so we aint fussed♥ 0source record 5752
I worked at a phone store and saw a lot of pictures since I fixed different issues with phones and transferred pics from an old phone to a new one. Promise no one cares about your photos.♥ 0source record 5753
when ordering a new replacement phone through insurance, peep the serial number of the new phone. if it starts with P or R it's purchased phone or refurbished. if it starts with N it's new♥ 1,744source record 9927
I just sent my iPad in to Apple to get my screen fixed and I swear they sent me a whole different iPad lol I’m pretty sure I had a rose gold one but they sent me a silver one 😂 I’m gonna check the serial number♥ 0source record 9932
Yes most are refurbished. If you get a refurbished phone call them back after 2 days and tell them it’s overheating and not holding charge, they’ll mail you a new one.♥ 34source record 9934
DO NOT SIGN UP FOR NORTON 360 THAT'S THE SAME COMPANY THAT'S SUPPOSED TO PROTECT YOUR DATA AND PROTECT YOU FROM HACKERS AND PROTECT YOUR IDENTITY BUT THEY'RE THE SAME ONES THAT USE YOUR INFORMATION TO STEAL YOUR IDENTITY AND BLAME IT ON OTHER PEOPLE♥ 666source record 13980
They didn’t get sued there is no any lawsuit claim that’s against them unlike Norton and its friends it’s an independent company and it’s widely loved by tech community and industry♥ 0source record 13981
okay so you should know they've been sued over malpractice and privacy issues they've been sued a thousand times for stealing people's identity♥ 0source record 13982
That’s literally impossible I work in tech and that’s the industry standard security defender plus it’s cheap and if u don’t want to pay you still get protected from and wares♥ 1source record 13983
no girl they're the worst ones they were still everything from your identity your social security number and your grandparents social security still clear of all of them♥ 0source record 13984
Looks like I'm going to have to cancel them no wonder I keep getting scam calls,text and emails♥ 5source record 13993
They also create the spyware and viruses that they are supposed to protect you from♥ 25source record 13998
Vinted huge backlogs in tickets and people solving your problems are from 3rd world countries who replies with relevant templates.♥ 0source record 14184
T-mobile is constantly willing to trick old ppl into buying shit they don’t need for more commission. NEVER send ur grandma/pa into a phone store by themselves!!!♥ 218source record 14578
I’m old-ISH lol & recently went to my local store bc my phone was locked on “zoom in”. I was afraid I’d end up having to buy a new phone but the worker was very nice & when I mentioned just “looking” at new phones, he told me not to bother. My iphone 14 was in great shape & that I have another 3 yrs bef I should consider getting a new one♥ 4source record 14579
When they come into the Apple Store to fix their sh*t, I help them and convince them to go right back to the carrier to return what was sold to them. I even erase it for them 😂♥ 1source record 14580
This!! I worked for At&t for maybe 5 weeks??? But I was written up because I refused to upsell this sweet older customer. She made the mistake of oversharing how much she has per month for all her expenses. My manager wanted me to sell her $600+ worth of services and shit tech she'd never use! I quit a week later.♥ 1source record 14581
I must be in your area because I ditched xfinity for tmobile. I got tired of xfinitys crap and outrageous bills♥ 1source record 14583
Verizon. If you go into the phone store and wanting an iPhone and they try to push you for an android it’s because they get higher commission on the androids. If the rules changed then don’t come after me 😂♥ 127source record 14941
Yup! Witnessed that also! I’m sorry they are like that! I would have given you what you wanted with a free screen protector! I used to hook my customers up. Then the manager was obsessed with me so I had to leave 😂. It was getting weird. Verizon sucks♥ 1source record 14942
I went to 3 different verizon corp stores for a s24 ultra, every single rep tried to get me to get the new s25 ultra, saying we would save money and why did I want the old one.♥ 1source record 14943
not this started a verizon war 😭 I can only speak for myself ( I worked at an authorized retailer) I did indeed HATE when people said they were coming in for a iPhone, we don't get much commissions off of iPhones , now a Galaxy, Pixel, Moto etc . That's where the money is 💡✨♥ 2source record 14944
You actually never worked for Verizon. You worked for Russell cellular or some other scam store.♥ 0source record 14945
I will admit I’ve never done that because that’s just wrong. I was the one everyone went to because they knew how sketch my coworkers were at the time. I feel you on this lol sorry if that happened to you MK♥ 1source record 14946
They will also tell u things are included like a case and screenprotector then proceed to charge you $100 for them...open it so u can't return it, then collect the commission from it & say they dont work on commission. Get mint mobile people.♥ 0source record 14947
There is no may have! That is what franchise stores did! If you don’t know your facts Karen! Own up to it and sit down! You calling me a liar was just stupid on your behalf! Do better♥ 0source record 14948
Also- this may have been true for non corporate stores that sell Vzw products. Corp Verizon doesn’t pay reps on the TYPE of device. It’s a box count at the end of the day♥ 0source record 14949
Worked there for the past 11 years sweetheart. Calm tf down♥ 0source record 14950
My bad do you own Verizon? You know this? Girl please!!! I worked for the company for 2 years and this was years ago so don’t be throwing lies yourself♥ 4source record 14951
Nobody gets paid for the device you choose. That’s a lie. Never been that way♥ 3source record 14952
Also! If you have an iPhone with them take it directly to ur closest Apple Store to upgrade. Verizon will lie and say it has some sort of water damage or problem so that you don’t get money back for turning in your old phone♥ 14source record 14953

Archive: 98 index entries preserve 98 distinct source records · Every displayed synthesis count resolves to source-record IDs

Things designed to change what you do in the room22 index entriesScent, tempo, silence and a line dance — practices staff say exist to move customers rather than to serve them.
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Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Things designed to change what you do in the room

Source-backed answers are shown before diagnostics; the complete source archive remains below.

Things designed to change what you do in the room

22 source recordsDiscussed

Use when: You want to notice the parts of a business designed to move you rather than serve you

How commenters applied it: 22 records. A small, unusually coherent card. Staff and marketing students describe ambient scent pumped into public areas and music tempo varied through the day to change how people behave, and one commenter notes the same scents are sold as candles in the park's own shop, which several treat as confirmation. A former forecourt worker describes a deliberate silence rule at the counter, designed to make customers fill the gap by buying something. A restaurant worker says the staff dance turns tables. A further claim about scent additives on bread is asserted with no detail. One employee disputes the scent claim for the park they worked at.

What readers reported: Shell the service station, back in the day we used to have what was called the 7 second rule, couldn't acknowledge the customer for 7 seconds. This was to cause them to upsell themselves out of awkwardness or go find stuff to buy on top of their gas

Limit: This card mixes a well-evidenced marketing practice with unverified single-source claims, and one worker denies the central one. It also sits next to conspiracy claims in its own thread that are not reproduced here.

What the replies added1

And I was co soldering using my child’s make a wish on this place…nope

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It doesn’t work 😞 i still smell BO constantly at Disneyland people hate to wash themselves

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The smell of the churros and popcorn or anything pleasant at Disneyland is just perfume being pumped in the air so that you don't smell anybody's body odor. And plus you will crave those sweet delights

source record 3291♥ 22,449
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a lot of places on the vegas strip won’t play hip hop music bc it attracts the “wrong” crowd (black people)

posted about 219 days after the source
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Most of the fucked up stories are true or have some sort of truth to them. I would say I’m big on all things conspiracy but Disney is one conspiracy I’ll never truly let go of, Disney is hiding something big and they’re top priority is to make everyone believe that the magic isn’t real.

posted about 57 days after the source

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Across 22 source records, the most common observable tactic structure is “Use a sensory reset” (4 records). This is a wording pattern, not a measured outcome.

22index entries
22distinct source records
7.2%of parent category
0.3%of the complete index
4top-level comments
18replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
1explicitly reports a limit or failure
1asks a question
0says they intend to try it
20other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Observable tactic structures

Use a sensory reset 4

Counts show source records whose wording matches the tactic structure; biological explanations remain commenter claims unless separately checked below.

Browse the original comments22 preserved records · 22 of 22 source records accounted for
The smell of the churros and popcorn or anything pleasant at Disneyland is just perfume being pumped in the air so that you don't smell anybody's body odor. And plus you will crave those sweet delights♥ 22,449source record 3291
YES! And also the type and tempo of music they play during certain times of the day is to stimulate your mind. subconsciously♥ 2,155source record 3293
No they don’t, yes they have a tunnel system but believe me. A child would get noticed hella fast!♥ 2source record 3296
The tunnels are for employee use only, stop speeding lies♥ 6source record 3297
They’re not saying kids get lost in the tunnels they’re saying the employees snatch and kidnap the kids so of course they’re noticed bc it’s a crime ring using the employee tunnels. It’s a very common conspiracy theory♥ 1source record 3298
There are cameras and employees every where 24 hours a day. There is literally no where to hide to get out with a child and security at every entrance/exit.♥ 0source record 3299
DISNEY (Land) has so many secrets.. 1. they have there own police force, in collaboration with FSPR. 2. as a costume worker you're more likely to be SA'd Dressed as an animal, then a human character. 3. THEY HEAR AND SEE EVERYTHING! they outsource the security and surveillance and decipher through all of it. I know number three in particular from the Casey Anthony Trial♥ 46source record 3304
either way that's their attempt to con! all those delicious food scents you're getting a whiff of are artificial. that's my point!♥ 17source record 3311
they have a store in Disney springs where you can buy the scents that they put in the air vent in candles and stuff. It’s really not like a huge secret.♥ 13source record 3313
And I was co soldering using my child’s make a wish on this place…nope♥ 11source record 3315
they needed more on HK DL because those people kinda stink♥ 0source record 3336
They got me on this lmao $8 damn hard churro♥ 0source record 3342
They do this at Subway too. Pump the smell of fresh bread when they do not make fresh bread at the store.♥ 0source record 3343
girl i worked there, that’s a lie♥ 0source record 3353
Did you work on the team that executed this though? Because I know the ppl who work on this lol. Disney definitely has signature scents that they pump in their resorts and parks♥ 0source record 3359
Yeah I found that out during Christmas time when I was looking for the cinnamon roll I was smelling and could find it. I was PISSED and pregnant. 😂♥ 1source record 3367
Most of the fucked up stories are true or have some sort of truth to them. I would say I’m big on all things conspiracy but Disney is one conspiracy I’ll never truly let go of, Disney is hiding something big and they’re top priority is to make everyone believe that the magic isn’t real.♥ 0source record 3368
I’ve heard stories of old workers saying that one of their top priorities is whenever a kid was reported missing , they would get the distraught family out of sight immediately, breaks “immersion”. They get told the family was reunited but who actually knows, the family is whisked away by higher ups and the workers are told that it’s okay n they’ll pay for a little trip off work to forget about the incident. It is genuinely fucked.♥ 0source record 3369
It doesn’t work 😞 i still smell BO constantly at Disneyland people hate to wash themselves♥ 0source record 3371
Shell the service station, back in the day we used to have what was called the 7 second rule, couldn't acknowledge the customer for 7 seconds. This was to cause them to upsell themselves out of awkwardness or go find stuff to buy on top of their gas♥ 1source record 13467
A major fast-food chain secretly sprays its burger buns with a scent additive that makes them smell fresher than they actually are. The additive has no nutritional value but tricks customers’ brains into thinking the food just came out of the oven. That’s why the same burger smells amazing instore but bland once you take it home.♥ 0source record 13474
a lot of places on the vegas strip won’t play hip hop music bc it attracts the “wrong” crowd (black people)♥ 0source record 14221

Archive: 22 index entries preserve 22 distinct source records · Every displayed synthesis count resolves to source-record IDs

Where a business puts itself, and who it is for58 index entriesSiting, licensing and access decisions, reported by the people who build, staff or manage the sites.
Source-backed index report

Answer card naming one thing people who worked somewhere reported about how it operates, what a customer, patient, worker or parent can do with that, and what other people with the same job said back: Where a business puts itself, and who it is for

Source-backed answers are shown before diagnostics; the complete source archive remains below.

Where a business puts itself, and who it is for

58 source recordsDisputed

Use when: You are reading what a business's location, licensing or access rules tell you

How commenters applied it: 58 records. Siting and access decisions, reported by the people who build or staff them. A commenter who says they construct one chain's stores contradicts the headline claim about where those stores are placed and describes building them anywhere including farmland, while others describe the opposite pattern in their own states. A storage property manager says managers often overlook people living in units; other storage employees reply that it is trespass, against policy and grounds for eviction, and one describes exactly why they stopped. A store-level worker describes the service-animal rule staff are trained on, and the replies correct the law being cited while agreeing on the practice. A pet-store worker and a utility worker each add a single report.

What readers reported: I work for a storage facility as a property manager and you should absolutely not be encouraging this behavior. There is no running water beyond a locked restroom and we can turn the breakers to the very minimal outlets off. It is against the law and more often than not against company policy. I am required to do daily lock checks and if I find evidence of this I have no choice but to evict. I turned a blind eye ONE time and they had a whole ass meth lab in there when the cops were called out.

Limit: The location claim is denied by somebody who builds the stores. The advice about living in a storage unit is unlawful and dangerous, is contradicted by several employees in the thread, and is reproduced here as a report rather than a suggestion.

What replies pushed back on4

storage company worker here, that's trespassing. be careful! I wouldn't try this at a major company. Mom & pop shop may be more lenient

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Be CAREFUL though! It’s illegal to live in a storage unit!

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Not true, I build them. DG owns and absurd amount of property in the US. We build them literally anywhere. Including the one we’re building in the middle of a corn field right now

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isnt true at all. I have one on a back road right down the way

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storage company worker here, that's trespassing. be careful! I wouldn't try this at a major company. Mom & pop shop may be more lenient

source record 9721♥ 45
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Be CAREFUL though! It’s illegal to live in a storage unit!

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Dollar generals are only on main roads in poverty areas

source record 4334♥ 31,044
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Don’t need to work at a mechanic/auto shop to know this - but for any (specifically) ladies on here that don’t know, if youre taking your car in for any fixes, oil change, etc, and you don’t know much about cars, call someone who does or better yet bring them with you. A lot of shops will often try and make you think you need a bunch of additional things or car servicing that you don’t need. (They target women more often with this stuff typically). Same with when you’re buying a vehicle, but this goes for everyone. Anyone in sales is going to try to convince you to pay for more shit even when it’s completely unnecessary. Ask someone in the business that you trust or educate yourself before you agree to or sign anything.

posted about 84 days after the source
Zero-like source

knauf insulation used honey in their insulation making process

posted about 59 days after the source

What the counts show

The exact phrase “a dollar general” recurs across 5 of the 58 source records in Where a business puts itself, and who it is for; the complete archive stays available below.

58index entries
58distinct source records
19%of parent category
0.9%of the complete index
6top-level comments
52replies

What commenters explicitly report

0explicitly reports a benefit
3explicitly reports a limit or failure
7asks a question
1says they intend to try it
47other source context

These buckets are a deterministic partition based on explicit phrasing in the source text; they are not sentiment scores or effectiveness findings.

Browse the original comments58 preserved records · 58 of 58 source records accounted for
Dollar generals are only on main roads in poverty areas♥ 31,044source record 4334
lol I’m a lawyer in Illinois. They’re are everywhere in the poor parts of Illinois. Not the nice parts.♥ 4source record 4338
They definitely are now. Just a bunch of old ppl who got given where they live but prolly have a shit job♥ 0source record 4341
no, they're not. They're definitely not in my area. I have to drive almost 25-40 miles into an "unwealthy" area to find one. I hate it! I live in a certain suburb outside of Chicago.♥ 9source record 4345
Embarrassing attempt at a backdoor brag because wtf would anyone need specifically from a Dollar General that you couldn’t get literally at any other store?♥ 4source record 4346
lol lake forest has a McDonald. It’s a rich area. Grayslake has 2 McDonald and a DG it’s a rich area. Lake bluff has a DG. Northbrook has a DG. Deerfield has a DG…..♥ 8source record 4351
yes there is. we literally have a DGX in the middle of downtown in my city. Many wealthy people and workers come through daily.♥ 0source record 4354
Downtown? Any downtown will cater to just about anyone depending on the area .. I’m talking about suburbs. 🙂♥ 0source record 4355
... girl there's dollar generals and DGX.. DGX's are not common stores and are usually found in very populated area and dollar generals are found rural. you wanted a rich area, downtown is going to be rich. if the suburbs are populated, of course there's going to be no DG.. because then they'll be competing with bigger stores. despite this, my partner lives in the suburbs and there is a dollar general down that road with other large chains near by.. I had a friend who worked in CA, only a nearby store within 3 miles radius was a DG. it has over two deliveries a week and they still had empty shelves. just because y'all don't see it doesn't mean it's not a thing lol. mind you dollar generals whole purpose was to be for rural low income areas since the founder literally considered it the great depression store lol♥ 0source record 4356
Look up valley shores in valley NE. It’s just outside of Omaha and each house is $600,000+. There’s a dollar general right on the corner.♥ 0source record 4357
My hometown in Illinois has less than 10,000 people and 3 dollar generals in the town…♥ 1source record 4366
I must be in a major one because I have 5 quickly accessible i have two dollar generals not even a mile a family dollar exactly a mile and two dollar trees not even a mile I believe dollar general owns dollar tree and family dollar♥ 1source record 4377
We have them all over around here, even in the wealthier areas, but can confirm that when I lived in a tiny, very poor town the only place to buy groceries was a dollar general on the main road. It SUUUUCKED.♥ 0source record 4379
Is this accurate? What would you classify as poverty area because there are two in the same city within 2 miles of each other and I wouldn’t say that city is a poverty city.♥ 0source record 4381
Not true, I build them. DG owns and absurd amount of property in the US. We build them literally anywhere. Including the one we’re building in the middle of a corn field right now♥ 0source record 4383
isnt true at all. I have one on a back road right down the way♥ 0source record 4388
Not only in poverty areas, just remote areas like the country but trust me we own land and farms, we aren’t poor.♥ 0source record 4389
Sidenote, I was driving to Myrtle Beach last week and I saw a Dollar General market grocery store. I’ve never seen one of those in my life. It had a green sign. It was crazy. I should’ve stopped in.♥ 0source record 4390
Not in California.. the DG’s and such are not in wealthy areas.♥ 0source record 4396
you're right bc I don't live in a "poverty" area and there is one 5 mins down the road.♥ 0source record 4398
Idk about that one. The very very wealthy side of town that I live in has 5 DG’s♥ 0source record 4401
is that why there's two Dollar Generals 10 minutes apart from each other from where I live????♥ 0source record 4403
I mean i dont know ab poverty. Our town has one ans they rich rich rich.♥ 0source record 4404
Incorrect. I lived in one of the most affluent neighborhoods in my state. Dollar generals all over it.♥ 0source record 4405
I have the same reaction to Dollar General that I do to predators♥ 0source record 4407
If you are homeless living on the streets RENT A STORAGE SPACE WITH AC most property managers are cool we act like we don’t see you 😏♥ 5,915source record 9714
I was gonna say stay super safe/cautious with this tip because I’ve known high security storage places that walk their entire properties unit by unit everyday. So I would say try at your own risk and maybe one that doesn’t seem like they’d care.♥ 196source record 9717
Girl the way I work at a more high security boujee storage facility and I do not move people in at night/only go to my own unit with my husband because I am not risking it!♥ 1source record 9719
storage company worker here, that's trespassing. be careful! I wouldn't try this at a major company. Mom & pop shop may be more lenient♥ 45source record 9721
not inside the storage unit but the entrances and hallways do.♥ 9source record 9723
If the property manager allows it, you’re good. I used to pull up to my storage unit and see these 2 dudes chilling in their storage unit during the day. I’m sure they were probably evicted and had nowhere to go.♥ 31source record 9724
The way things are going, this is my retirement plan. This and a gym membership for the showers♥ 14source record 9725
I actually thought about this when my friend rented a storage unit , could be a small place♥ 10source record 9726
Be CAREFUL though! It’s illegal to live in a storage unit!♥ 8source record 9727
I shared my van with a villainous green spider one night. It sucked but I had to do it.♥ 0source record 9732
love this & it's true...I've seen families, comfortable. thank God♥ 2source record 9733
When I was renting a sport, a storage space there was a woman across from mine. She had it set up like a bedroom. They were Hella Palmetto bugs! No AC in this one and so many Palmetto bugs I would never turn the lights off.♥ 2source record 9734
As an ex-employee of UHAUL never do this there. We’ve trespassed too many people and some almost arrested. Typically we would just kick them out. Too many people doing drugs in them, ect. (Not saying everyone will be like that just saying UHAUL will not accept it)♥ 3source record 9735
I agree! Homelessness is a serious issue. Like I get not wanting drug addicts or other things like liabilities to the facility..But at the same time I rather help someone at least a little.♥ 1source record 9737
If you read what I said I was just mentioning UHAUL is not one of those generous places..♥ 1source record 9740
And dont post about it on social media! Surprised I need to say this, but I’ve seen people get kivked out over it!♥ 1source record 9741
The amount of things property managers act like they don’t see, and people STILL hate us♥ 1source record 9742
I’d be paranoid tho bc I assume those places get sprayed for bugs periodically. What if someone is there sleeping then their unit is suddenly filled with pesticide. they’d be killed♥ 1source record 9743
Don’t need to work at a mechanic/auto shop to know this - but for any (specifically) ladies on here that don’t know, if youre taking your car in for any fixes, oil change, etc, and you don’t know much about cars, call someone who does or better yet bring them with you. A lot of shops will often try and make you think you need a bunch of additional things or car servicing that you don’t need. (They target women more often with this stuff typically). Same with when you’re buying a vehicle, but this goes for everyone. Anyone in sales is going to try to convince you to pay for more shit even when it’s completely unnecessary. Ask someone in the business that you trust or educate yourself before you agree to or sign anything.♥ 0source record 9744
Please don’t try this, it’s illegal and can be very unsafe♥ 0source record 9745
i met a man who lost his leg from living in a storage unit in the winter♥ 0source record 9748
But wouldn’t you have to have an address or even income?♥ 0source record 9750
Until there’s a problem and then you turn around and blame them for the damage and they get in trouble or hurt or possibly die♥ 0source record 9752
I managed a storage place and ignored all my “24hr” tenants♥ 0source record 9754
I did this in Florida summers! Had a little couch I’d nap on and all my stuff. I’d leave at closing and sleep in my van. Worked out honestly! You can be there anytime during business hours. And if it’s 24hour access, who’s to say you weren’t organizing for 8hours overnight?♥ 0source record 9756
Not storage America because after 12 they will call the police.♥ 0source record 9758
I work for a storage facility as a property manager and you should absolutely not be encouraging this behavior. There is no running water beyond a locked restroom and we can turn the breakers to the very minimal outlets off. It is against the law and more often than not against company policy. I am required to do daily lock checks and if I find evidence of this I have no choice but to evict. I turned a blind eye ONE time and they had a whole ass meth lab in there when the cops were called out.♥ 2source record 9765
I work for NSA Storage and that's actually not allowed. If we see anyone sleeping or living in a unit, the lease gets terminated right away.♥ 1source record 9767
Retrospectively $#!+ing my pants for walking up to my storage unit alone without a single thought. This was two years ago, I’d rented a unit to store my furniture♥ 0source record 9769
Big retail pet stores usually don’t treat the animals as well as we all think. (Former Petland employee)♥ 1source record 13468
at any alcohol store in south aus you can go into the wine sections and asked for free tasters before buying 🥲♥ 0source record 14210
Pg&e will call you family and will contract all they can so they can immediately cut you out anytime with no real reason just to save a dime. Also, they get paid by the gov. At the end of the year for those who couldn’t pay their bills. But they will still keep a bill owed on the ppl who couldn’t pay. 💰 greedy bastards♥ 0source record 14227
knauf insulation used honey in their insulation making process♥ 0source record 14230

Archive: 58 index entries preserve 58 distinct source records · Every displayed synthesis count resolves to source-record IDs

How this catalog was built

Source: TikTok comments — 1 video, 14,997 comments (330 top-level, 14,667 replies)

Selected comments from the discussion

This export carries real like counts and timestamps. The first 18 are the most resonant on-topic top-level comment from each stage of the discussion, ranked by resonance within their arrival-time cohort so later arrivals are not penalised for having had less time to accumulate likes. The last 6 received no likes at all and were chosen for the specificity of what they describe.

Mc Donald’s ice cream is rarely ever down they are just too lazy to clean it .
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 78,415
Bath and Body Works does recycle old scents and call it something different. Sometimes they’ll even trade with Pink/Victoria’s Secret since it’s their sister store 😭
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 70,528
Debt collectors STALK your fb and ANY social media looking for clues on how to contact you.. which is illegal.. threaten to sue and they will wipe your debt
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 190,721
I worked for three years at a faith-based TV network. Your donations buy the leaders’ multi million dollar homes, ranches, and planes. None of it goes to outreach.
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 47,262
Daycare worker edition: the cute kids get treated better than the ones not so cute it’s the TRUTH
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 101,054
miss your flight because you were running late? no. you had a flat tire. DOT requires flights to be changed for free if you're within 2 hours of scheduled departure
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 63,996
I learned in dental school that the expensive teeth whitening we do in office is a scam and you should honestly just get crest whitening strips for a fraction of the price.
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 90,526
Dollar generals are only on main roads in poverty areas
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 31,044
I appreciate everyone confirming that donating to charity doesn’t actually go to charity. I always suspected that was the truth so I always say no, but it always felt crazy. Really how far capitalism will go is to inhumane crazy lengths.
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 57,029
If you have AAA and you are in someone else’s car as a passenger and the car breaks down…you can still call AAA
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 53,873
most police officers dont know their own state laws and regularly break the law unknowingly
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 63,280
if you want to speak to customer service select the Spanish line. the line is way shorter and all the agents are required to know English as well 💕💕
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 175,306
I currently work at a private university, unless you want to go to law/med school, just go to community college. I’m so serious. You get into the workforce faster and without debt. GO TO COMMUNITY COLLEGE!!!
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 79,513
i worked at both mcdonald’s and tim hortons, and let me tell you, mcdonald’s has STRICT hygiene policies and tim hortons is basically okay with serving flies in food, expired food, and HUGE lack of hygiene
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 26,626
If you want a doctor to test you for something and they say no, ask them to document their refusal to your request. You’ll get the test.
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 104,706
always tell your insurance company you drive less than 9000km per year. they're not gonna check and it keeps your rate lower.
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 154
I worked at Apple. They fire employees who with minor infractions and keep employees with discrimination cases against them. Their values are fake
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 3
If you pay first class ...you will not be left behind...the flight will wait for you
most resonant in its arrival cohort♥ 6
That doctor you praise as if they are God sent ? They TALK SHHHHHT ABOUT YOU AFTER YOUR APPOINTMENT😭you can be the nicest, sweetest, easiest patient to deal with and your doctors will still initiate high school gossip about you. Anywhere from you being smelly, to you being annoying, dumb, poor, snobby, etc. Learn to stop confiding and telling your physicians personal problems you have unless you’re okay with everrrrryyyyyybody knowing that you found out your husband is sleeping with other men and now you’re losing your house in the divorce as you step through the door.😭😭😭 doctors are some of the biggest gossipers and most unprofessional, perverted and childish people I’ve worked with🤫 this is coming from someone who’s worked with physicians in Beverly Hills, Santa Monica and the SF Valley🗣️
no likes — selected for specificity
I worked at 3 diff Domino's locations and they broke every labour law in the book. I'd be working 14 hours shifts without being paid OT or getting any breaks. they also did this to teenagers working there. full orders have to be made in under 7 mins (even if it's 50 pizzas) and if they're not corporate will essentially say they are going to dock pay or shut down the location. incredibly stressful job with no reward. they treat their workers terribly and have an incredibly high turnover rate. also their drivers are "contracted workers" so they don't have to pay them minimum wage. :) next time ur pizza tracker is wrong or food is late, just know that the workers there are doing their damn best to not absolutely lose it. xx
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I signed an NDA so no names, but I used to work for a meat company mainly known for selling pork. They have the humane, bio and green sticker, but uses a lot of farms that didn't meet the basic "requirements" to get the same and they sold the meat under their name because going bio is extremely costly and no company actually wants to "waste" that much money. Basically, the meet industry is a major scam because as long as the buyers are not "aware" they remain legally safe.
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i gave my resignation after they wronging me for something i didnt have anything to do with... bad choice since i connected all calles emails conferences and also i was kind of the gossip bag everyone told everything either to me or infront of my desk.. i enjoyed spilling allll those in my resignation email.. not just work secrets even affairs and all😁😁 and i live in lebanon they couldnt do shit my contract even said my job was to report everything to the ceo😈😈
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Money from salvos stores goes to fund the people from the salvation army. Pays their living expenses, vehicles, amenities, travel etc. I got to know one of the chaplains really well and because she trusted me she told me so much stuff. I learned what I could. Took a lot of photos and got friendly with other volunteers, employees, truck drivers etc. thinking of writing a book.
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Pet insurance is something the genuinely isn’t a scam and can save your pets life. I have seen so many pet owners have to euthanize because of care costs, and no, we do NOT get commissions for asking for bloodwork, radiographs, or other diagnostics. We’re literally trying to diagnose your pet and in the ER, potentially save your pets life
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How the discussion breaks down

Relative volume of distinct source-backed records across every reviewed category in this corpus.

Retail: the credit card, the markdown and the back room

943 distinct coded comment records

7 normalized answers

Children: daycare, school and the people you leave them with

783 distinct coded comment records

7 normalized answers

Police, courts and public institutions

618 distinct coded comment records

6 normalized answers

Getting a human, a credit or a discount out of a company

608 distinct coded comment records

6 normalized answers

Work: HR, the paper trail and getting hired

605 distinct coded comment records

9 normalized answers

Food service, from both sides of the counter

523 distinct coded comment records

4 normalized answers

Doctors, hospitals and your own medical record

450 distinct coded comment records

6 normalized answers

Debt, banks and your credit file

426 distinct coded comment records

4 normalized answers

Prices, markups and what things cost to make

305 distinct coded comment records

6 normalized answers

Charity, church and the donation at the till

287 distinct coded comment records

4 normalized answers

The dentist's chair

256 distinct coded comment records

2 normalized answers

Travel: airlines, hotels and the roadside

252 distinct coded comment records

6 normalized answers

Elder care, and people who cannot advocate for themselves

236 distinct coded comment records

2 normalized answers

Insurance, and the departments built to say no

212 distinct coded comment records

3 normalized answers

What happened when each secret met its own replies

What makes this thread unusual is not that people posted secrets. It is that the moment somebody did, other people with the same job turned up underneath to argue about it. Almost every claim on this page has a correction sitting in its own sub-thread, written by somebody who says they do that work now. Those corrections are kept in the same card as the claim they dispute rather than filed away, because on this corpus the argument is the useful part. Every quotation below is a commenter's own words, reproduced exactly and attributed to a source record. Nothing here is verified.

The most-repeated advice in the corpus is procedural, not dramatic. 246 records are about employment paperwork, and the instruction underneath them barely varies: write it down and keep your own copy. A former HR manager put it as “When we say document, we literally mean even just keeping a log in a notebook - it goes a long way to just have a list of dates and incidents pre-prepared. Now go forth and litigate!” and then spent hundreds of replies answering strangers about where to file. The same shape recurs elsewhere: a current insurer says you must use one exact phrase — “You have to specifically ask for a misquote review! They tell us we cannot tell you guys about it nor can we start one unless y’all directly ask! If you do not say misquote review they will play in your face” — and a hospital employee says the same about billing.

Where the thread argues hardest is where the advice is most popular. The most-liked practical tip here — 78 records long — is that a doctor who refuses a test will run it if you ask them to document the refusal. Clinicians in the replies say flatly that this is not how it works: “Hi, no this is not true. If you ask for a test I need to document why it’s necessary, and the opposite is true. Good documentation will explain why I decided against a test :) so we already do this!” and “Actually no. All they need to write is “___ test not indicated at this time”” The corpus does not resolve it, and neither does this page. The same happens to the flight tip (35 records), where an airline employee replies “that’s not a DOT rule, it’s an airline courtesy. the DOT only protects you if the airline messes up, not if you’re late, even with a flat tire. some airlines MIGHT rebook you if you’re within 2 hours, but they’re not required to”, and to the Spanish-line tip (88 records), where the agents themselves explain what they actually do with those calls.

The sections about people who cannot speak for themselves are the least contested. 225 records are about nursing homes, and floor staff, families and one administrator largely agree on the mechanism even while they fight about blame: “this is because the corporate office allots a certain amount to each facility. this gets broken down into dietary/nursing/maintenance/supply/office/you get the picture. then each get a bonus if they spend UNDER the budget. therfore, management is incentivized to spend less.” The childcare threads run the same way, and the action people keep naming is the same one — turn up at a different time than usual, and ask for the cameras. 190 records argue about social work and CPS, and that thread is the angriest in the corpus: one former social worker against a queue of current caseworkers, none of them conceding anything.

Retail is where the reporting is most concrete. 249 records name a shared factory, parent company or supplier — and get corrected inside their own threads: “Actual Girl Scout Staff member - I don't speak on behalf of the org - however, this is incorrect. Girl Scouts uses 2 different bakers for their cookies, and the baker your local girls get is based on proximity to their factories. The companies we use are ABC bakers, and Litttle Brownie bakers respectively!” 262 more describe what stores can actually see and actually stop you doing, which turns out to be two different questions. And the corpus is not uniformly cynical: 110 records are former staff saying their old employer was exactly as good as it claimed, with the same job titles attached — “I second this,husband has been in the industry for over 20 years. 5 years with Culvers. it's the most honest, genuine fast food company there is.”

The thing to carry away is the shape, not any single claim. Across every section, the reports that survive their own replies are the ones that name a department, a phrase, a form or a day of the week. The ones that get dismantled are the ones that generalise about an entire industry. A commenter halfway down said the quiet part about the whole exercise: “Obviously everyone has different experiences babe. The point is, ALL of them should be consistently washing covers as the bare minimum but a lot don’t, and none of us know who is actually doing their job or not 💀”

Browse the original comments14,997 audited comments and replies
Dataset, coverage, and methodology
14,997
comments read and classified
6,504
records reporting a workplace practice, price or policy — or correcting one
72
answer cards the reports sort into
14,667
of the records are replies

How this was counted

The working unit is a comment record, not a person and not a distinct secret. All 14,997 canonical comments from this one video (330 top-level, 14,667 replies) were read in thread order — each top-level comment followed down through its replies — and every record was assigned to exactly one answer card or one exclusion bucket.

6,504 records report a practice, a price, a policy or a script, or correct one, and all 6,504 appear in the complete index above. The other 8,493 break down as conversational asides inside somebody else's story (1,781), fragments of a dozen characters or fewer (1,761), the running comment-section bit — checkpoints, season counts and “like so I can come back” (1,122), bare reactions: agreement, applause, “I knew it” and thanks (1,118), jokes and one-line riffs on the comment above (786), questions and requests put to another commenter (602), emoji-only records (590), @-tags with no sentence attached (436), insults and off-topic political or religious fights (158), bare confirmations and denials with no detail attached (81), promises to spill something once an NDA expires, with nothing spilled (35), and requests for likes, DMs and account promotion (23).

A record is filed under the card of the report its own thread is about. That is deliberate: this thread is built as one secret followed by everyone who works there arguing about it, so corroborations, dollar figures and rebuttals stay with the claim they qualify instead of being separated from it.

Corrections are not exclusions. A reply saying “that is not how it works, I do this job” is one of the most valuable record types in this corpus and is counted and shown beside the claim it disputes.

No company was contacted and no claim here was checked against any external source. Where a claim about a named business is contested, the contest is on the page; where it is not, the absence of a rebuttal is not evidence that it is true. Individual employees are never named, and @-handles are redacted throughout.

Like counts are the raw numbers as captured. The first hour of this thread holds 0.0% of all its likes, so ranking by raw likes would mostly rank arrival time; the cards are ordered by how many records they hold, not by popularity.

6,504 counts classified comment records, not distinct secrets. The thread named 72 recurring subjects across 14 sections of life, and repeats were deliberately kept so that the weight behind each claim stays visible.

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